Don't worry we r here...u r not alone....I will only be physical with my husband after marriage and I want my husband to be virgin too....Girls and boys are getting naked in front of just anyone...which is so cheap and disgusting to me People who say "Physical needs are important" well they basically justify cheating.....They should be okay if their partner leaves them for a more attractive person...afterall being physical is so important for them
U know it's alright ( if u r not cheating with someone)..there are plenty of people out there who do hookups but never breaks someone heart...they do it in consent ...and also do it because there are plenty of people out there who just want to have fun and they don't want to be in relationship...there are people who don't do it when they are in relationship
@@sanidhyasrivastava9008 the thing which you said is so easy to say . Go implement it on yourself . Go ask your girlfriend ( serious gf) to cheat on you with another guy and do the things you have said by yourself . "Those who commit adultery should ought be put to dead" exodus 20 verse 14
@@gulshanjoshi6784 focus on yourself, because once you put in work on yourself, you will start seeing results which will stay with you, and you will get more confident about your own self, which will eventually help you get over the issue; also realise that all these things which you are feeling, are a part of being human, stay mindful! :D
This video just made my day. I was thinking I am stupid to avoid hook up n all n taking life too seriously. But I was not wrong. I feel at so good after listening to this video.
None is stupid...if ur not comfortable you don't need to follow the crowd. Also, for that you should have an idea of huge spectrum...the origin where hook up started and how are those ppl doing now that is USA. There is no loser...there is nothing cool in having sex....would rather catch some STDs.
I always hated this hook up and being very cool casual behaviors, people around me judged me as an old school boring girl , who will always be left alone because I m not modern . But today your video made me happy that I m on the right track . 🌻🌻😊
Its not modernity dear its a case of pathetic thinking and making yourself so cheap that u can b involve with anyone so girls from small town like me usually hate such so called high society
I am so glad to see this comment section.. it gives me hope that still there are people who haven't damaged because of western culture... These things are shown so easily in movies and short films.. even on thumbnails of some youtube videos I feel so pathetic.. That these people are influencing others in wrong direction.. we are not animals we have grown this far to create some impact.. hope so things get changed. I don't understand what is censor board is doing useless people not censoring what impacts it would cause
Oh my god! Seeing these things around me I used to think that I have started growing old or something. I am 27 years old and for me sex is something which is connected to my morals and ethics and can be done with the person I will spend rest of my life with. I am glad to know there is nothing wrong with my thinking.
It's so nice to finally see someone who rejects the views of the millennial generation and takes a stand, for what being a "good" stable person is all about. If anything the videos really help us viewers , know that we aren't the only ones who feel this way . Awesome work man !
"good" stable person? Ka definition kya hai ? Get this bro you want live in classical old school way go ahead but don't try to claim that you are some kind of superior being , respect other people choices whilst disagreeing with them
One of my friend is a so called "playboy". He is very handsome and hot looking boy. Every girl is ready to get intimate with him. In our college days he had many sexual relationships. He always said "I am enjoying life and I will stop all such things after getting married.". He married before 2 years and still he is having such relationships with new girls and all. He is an engineering graduate and got distinction throughout. But due to lack of practical knowledge he is working as a saree vendor. I thank god that I did not get such opportunities as him in my past.
@@pramodvimal1509 bhai mene bhi ase bate dekhi he or ea sch hue par mere lead roll me ek ladki .or uska story line ea he " jo khud ko damjh ti he aliya unko milta he kaliya ab bajo taliya".
This man has real-life knowledge. Right bro Principles must. Don't always go with the flow, first try to understand the impact of that and then decide. I appreciate you, big bro.
Majority of Indians don't think like that. In our culture sex was never a taboo instead it was very pious thing. This is the culture that invented Kamasutra.
You helped me out, stopping to take the one wrong step. I am in a committed relationship for about 2 years , and due to lockdown it got long distanced. A guy whom I knew, approached me for casual sex . He is good looking and I like his personality too. I might be having some crazy sex drives and I was ready to do it, I was trying to convince myself to do it , it's so hard to stay in control... but my heart said no... andr ki awaz..and I thought of you and searched if u made any video on that I and found it. I watched your video.. and my andr ki awaz got more strong. I m saved .. thank you shwetabh sir.. u truly are a guardian angel.
Boyfriend ke hote hue bhi kisi or ladke ko dhek ke karne ka mun kar raha hai or karne bhi waale the chii or usne aapko bola karne ke liye kese uski himmat kese Hui iska matlab aapki koi aukat nhi aap ko koi ladka eisa bolde Jo aapka dost hai eisa ho hi nhi sakta I hope aapke bf ko aapse aachi gf mile
Damn @@Love30454😂😂😂 but she is cute 🥰😂😂😂❤ ha lekin apke baat mein dam hai kyuki dosti ki boundary phele hi tut juki hogi isliye usne himmat ki aur ho firse karega aur ye ladki ko firse mun karega kyuki mun kabi nhi maanta aur aar bar andar ki awaz nhi udegi kabi hawas ki awaz bhi uth sakti hai tho ho hi jayega sex kyuki boundary phele hi tut juki hai
Don't let the wild desires spoil u. Cuz u r a human, not an animal. Do something that gives u satisfaction, not momentary pleasure.🙂 Said by both Sandeep Maheshwari and Shwetabh Gangwar.
My friends judges me for being an old school girl ..who believes in love and relationship than casual relationships and hookups ..ok !! That's my point of view I'll be like this LoL
@@akshataryan2299 Very subjective... Old school relationships did not have any opinion of women and they were considered to be inferior. Modern day hookups give power to mature people who think that this as a choice is viable for them...
Hookup culture is the worst. Legit no affection left in ppl I swear. My friends slept around with many ppl while I stayed miles apart from hookups/one night stands and at the end of the day they come to me and say how lucky I am to have never been indulged in stuff like this as it leaves ppl empty inside. And ppl just get addicted to sex and long for feelings which they never get. I consider sex to be very intimate and special which I can never go play around with and have it with someone who dosen't emotionally invest in me as I will in him. It's literally making ppl emotionless.
You really cleared and banged the so called 'Cool head-lers' and also cleared the insecurity that might be were persisiting in my mind from some time.. Thanks bro..🌠
There are days when I am dead with anxiety, thinking that I'll never find someone who has the belief and has lived that belief in the past, in this hookup culture. I am not able to find a girl who wants to date me either. I have rejected a few casual relations because it demanded only sex. I wanted to build to that. I really don't know what to do. I study in an IIM, wise men said have a life with security and somebody as strong as you will join your life, but here I am. I don;t know if Mr. Gangwar can help me right away, but if you can help, feel free. Thanks! This video encouraged me to keep believing what I have always. Mad respect for this guy.
What you doing is right....but it’s very important to love ourself first...treat yourself well, incase you doing that...good enough. Actually my friend told me...when we have that love in us, it attract a right person, infact many people.
@@swatityagi6235 After an year of change, I don't believe there's right or wrong. How ever I'll agree that we find the person when we know who we are, in the most innocent state, inner child. Authentic friends are made when we aren't lying to ourselves.
Dude, I loved this thing! I found someone atlast someone who put my thoughts into words which I was never able to explain someone why I am not ok with casual thing !
yes u r correct..but time has changed, jha early age me ghar smbhale ke liye shadi kradi jati thi... par ab average shadi ki age 25+ ho rhi hai, to po** product consum krne se acha hai karlo our life ka kaam me dhyan 🙂..but i disagree with early age s*x bcs it decreases IQ of that person a.t. US reaserch ... atleast 17/18+ to hona sahiye...what do u think?
True words man ! 👍 But we have very very few people who have this kind of right thinking. I really don't get it how most of the people feel that it is ok to have casual sex. What I have heard from many is like "Ha aaj kal toh sab log karte hai... Or hum bhi kar sakte hai usme koi badi baat ni hai". They do it because they think everyone around them do it so its normal. But they don't think on their own. "Sab log kya kar rahe hai wahi karenge hum bhi. Humara koi individuality ya apni khud ki thinking ni hai". Even when it comes to daaru and other stuff. I have seen people who don't even want to do it literally, they restrain from it and after long time of being different from others and feeling the pressure like "Arey sab log kar rahe hai yar or mai hi kuch ni kar ri and I don't want to regret anything in future ki maine yeh ni kiya" and they start doing everything. This was not because they wanted to drink or smoke. It is because they want to show it to the society ki hum bhi kar sakte hai. Bhai itna kuch dikhana hi hai ki tum kuch kar sakte hai life mai toh aise karo na jisse log tumhe bole ki you are really great and different. Try to achieve something na yeh sab karna koi achievement nahi hai. But people think they are great because they do all this stuff.
acutely no words about sex date,its depend on us hm kisse kitni preriorty dete h or kitna trust krte, and Most hm apne life partner k liye kitne sensitive h iss matter m, kitna hm lifeparter k liye rakh pate h khudko...
These are the most pathetic people jo Sahi or galat me fark nhi Kar pate , bas crowd ke piche chlte rehte hain. Dusre Kar rhe h to Hume bhi krna h. Aise log life me kabhi aage nhi badh pate. They are wasting their life and themselves waste to humanity.
Sir, I am a girl and day by day I am developing so much respect for you. You speak truth 💯 percent......👍👍👍Keep up with these good thoughts and ideologies...
Everyone has a different idea of 'missing out'. We should not let other people define for us what expirence is Rich or not. Like someone is showing himself happy while he or she is drinking with friends socially but if you rather enjoying a coffee after finishing your work then by all means don't let society's bar culture make you feel you are missing out something. If you have to surrender to them your individuallity deduces so. Why do you have to be like them? You are the protagonist of your own story. So Be yourself and keep on moving forward.
Sir I respect u frm the bottom of my heart.. Mai aisa hi perception rakhti hu apni life ko leke.. Par mere frnds mjhe iss chiz ki wajah se uncool samajhte hai.. But I knw ki mai long term mai sahi hu.. Nwdays people believe ki ek cool ldki ko ye sb krna chaiye.. But I think coolness is defined frm our thinking.. Nt by this..
Vandana Chaudhary sister trust me these shallow minded people will judge you, call you an orthodox and uncool, not empowered ..but you are doing what is meant to be right in every aspect.. They can't be your friends if they call you uncool because of your preferences. They are bloody fool. It's your choice to live this way, so live it the way you want and ignore such pseudo intellectuals who are trying too hard to be cool but are ultimately becoming bloody fool.
You are telling the truth brother im a 20 year old guy i love sex but i am against hookup because if my partner says she had hookups in the past that will make me question her commitment because i will feel that the person is so much controlled by her disire that she can see a stranger to satisfy a temporary need without thinking about the consequences i personally feel trust is important to offer your body to someone
If you don't see sex as a private thing which should be done with a special person only then you can not have a successful marriage life. You just gotta ask yourself one question "what will happen after the marriage that I will not need more sexual partners, or I will be satisfied with my spouse? " Seeing commitment as a cage which society impose on you, you will always wanna get out of it, or look for chances you can break it. You should rather see it as a mutual decision like "If I can't stand my partners affair with somebody else then I should take responsibility to not to have affair with affairs without commitment."
You are 100% right. I have experienced this. I never made a girl friend. I was virgin till my marriage. My friends used to tell me that I am uncool and stereo type person because I have ethics. I used to feel depressed when I hear that "Everyone is doing this. This is modern and fact". I had doubt that the girl with whom I marry may be also one of those ( second handed person ). But God always does justice. My wife is also same as me and I got very good result of my honesty and ethical behaviour. Thanks and I agree with this content.
@@saptakmaji455 Bilkul. Achchhe ke sath Achchha hi hota hai. Meri shadi ko 5 years ho gaye. Me aur Meri wife dono ye yaad kar ke haste hai ki hume lagta tha ki aab duniya me sabne veriginity lose kar diyi hai. Lekin sach to ye hai ki waise log 2 - 3% hi hai. Baki sab aapne jaise hi hai. Don't worry.
People’s intelligence is hijacked by their hormones, what we call is modern, is just western- sadguru. Thats very tragic how Indians leaving their beautiful culture. On the contrary I’m so proud that my city (Amritsar) what people call small cities are better than metropolitan cities. Only leading your life spiritually and consciously can save you. 💖
Thats cool...nice thinking..my mom is from Amritsar hathi gate..area.. Then she got married to my father..and we live in dehradun now.. My city is same as Amritsar..a smart city far..better than.. Delhi NCR..
Well said. Your thoughts resonate with me. An gentleman who has got profound influence in my life, once said to me that always choose an option which you wouldn’t regret 20/30 years down the line (on a different context though). Moral of the story: we are an evolved species and should not be blinded by our primal calls. What our nation is doing currently is that we are blindly following the western trend without realising the fact that in west, people are extremely honest about such transactions (friends with benefits, etc etc) unlike our bastardised version, where most of us would try to fool the opposite side, pulling off a facade in the lure of something so short-sighted and meaningless to say the least.
Thanks for the video bro! Being in my 20s, planning to move in metro city. I really wanted this guidance from someone. Loads of gratitude for showing the truth.
I am single because I am saving myself for someone who deserve me n I know it is difficult but I think sexual energy also can be transformed into productive works and in balanced mental n physical health Thank you swetabh bhai for all motivation n knowledge
Conservative thoughts may sound primitive but, are backed by centuries of societal observations done by great philosophers with a purpose to create a better well functioning society . Doesn't mean you should blindly trust any ideology . Exploration is the best way .
Socities had existed with those conservative values and ethics of course nothing is absolutely perfect and those ideologies too have flaws but u cant completely disregard it.
It boils down to compatibility. A boy with conservative mindset won't last long with a western mindset woman. Note:- It can go the other way don't call me a misogynist 😂
First time in my life I ever found a person jiski bate sun kr k lga ki Kitna similar sochta hai meri tarah... hat's off to u man! U gave me so many words for myself nd to others to explain it in a very clear & such a honest way!
I’m a psychology student and I totally agree with you sir.. I also received that kind of bulshitt that I badly want to bla bla.. that really mean thinking. Just for ur own physical needs and lust. Nowadays relationships starts at a convo and 3rd day they go and book a hotel just for sex Nd named it love. 👏🏻
Yash Yadav I didn’t do a research on it yet but i can say it depends on girl’s perception of relationship and love. Nd hook up culture tb develop hota h jb girls ka breakup hojata h true love krne k bad b..ya unhe cheat milta h relationship m. Tb fr girls fed up hojati h, love se hate krne lgti h nd just fulfill their physical needs wo fookup krti h.
Sir, I really respect you for picking up this topic. Whenever someone says about casual sex or sex in a casual realtionships, they think it is very cool, but for me it is disgusting. I have always stayed like this, but people say that you are an old thinker, you are stupid. Sir, I really like your video.
I never betray any one in relationship I love one person my girlfriend & now she is my wife.......sex is fun or not casual it is Base of great relationship
I completely agree with you. I'm 21 and I strictly deny the objectives of people with these modernized philosophies about living life for once which lacks their ordinations, ethical and moral senses alongwith defining our country to be secular and I really don't understand where this "secularism" part fits in these short sight modern cultures which has no good consequences. Keep it up! Our generation needs these awarenesses about real life who prefer to go according to those reel life instead.
I am that man who smokes and drinks every night. And believe me these two are one of my worst decision in my life and till now I am regretting for my decisions. So the point is when you can lead a healthy life lead one dont waste it.
Sir aap podcasts shuru karo. You can invite Indian success stories like scientists, businessmen, entrepreneurs, CEOs, sportspersons, artists, spiritual gurus etc.. I think you have a great potential to be a Joe Rogan of India.
@@abinashn0412 I think I've seen it. As far as I remember he said the TH-camrs or celebrities he approached couldn't afford to have a genuine conversation due to the image they have to maintain. But I'm pretty sure there are genuine people out there, especially from areas outside Bollywood and TH-cam.
@@anurag7168 yes iam a atheist myself . I dnt like any religion . science nd humanity is above all. Bt I also hav interest in ancient knowledge . Be Careful about religion gurus , they always brainwash people nd some speak absolute nonsense like earth is flat.😂😂ignore them .
One of the best topic discussed... it's a need to understand the pros. N cons. of casual things... you have touched all important the aspects...hard working person you are... good going...
Thank you Sir ☺️🙏 It means a lot, when a public figure talks about being morally right in the times when people have nearly lost their decision making power. There is a different kind of peace and contentment I feel when I see people who are driven by goals, undistracted, who have high standards, living by morals and principles imbibed by their parents. And to everyone who has such thinking, You should be proud of yourself. Your energy is concentrated, not distorted and scattered everywhere. You're not so easy and people like you are Rare !
@@deepakkimola4936 Well, john wick didn't did all of it just because his dog was killed. Yes it was a part of his reason, but the actual reason was very vast, if you've paid attention to the movie
Emotional attachments are way better than these casual hookups. They are more meaningful and take you long way in life.🌻💫 Sadly , people in this generation are afraid of attachments and need an alternative . But that's too short-lived. Hope some sense knocks them.
Deep Emotional Attachment Mostly Gave Me Backlash, 🙄had 2 bad breakups in a row, can't afford to trust emotions, but I remember that it felt god damn awesome to be in it..
I am thankful to uh, thank God I watched this video, I am in my early 20ts, people around me are so much in hookups, casual dating and sex. And I always felt like an outsider in their circle. Now I can proudly say being vergin is not shameful. I was always made feel embarrassed about my "still vergin" thing. I could never say this openly that I don't like these casual datings. 😂
This is actually so true.. Like a guy who has been in this hook up culture.. and then gets into serious relationship with a girl who is very simple, virgin and sees this hook up culture meaning less.. and then the relationship is so serious that both of them are talking about marriage.. then the guy picks on the things he had done with other girls before getting into serious relationship.... it very much affects the girl who he is in relationship with now.. It becomes a relationship where person is really very affected but can't leave the person because they are very serious with them.. and then it reminds them that this person has done these things before.. everything gets very emotionally unstable for very very long time because it has affected deeply.. Not blaming guys or the girls both of them don't know what they are getting into.
U know it's alright ( if u r not cheating with someone)..there are plenty of people out there who do hookups but never breaks someone heart...they do it in consent ...and also do it because there are plenty of people out there who just want to have fun and they don't want to be in relationship...there are people who don't do it when they are in relationship
@@sanidhyasrivastava9008 Yes I agree with you...if they don't want a family or are in a open relationship then it's perfectly fine...but then u cannot say that people,who wants a monogamous relationship, have to accept you as their spouse...NO....It's your body your choice...in similar ways Their lives their choices..... And also you cannot say you are progressive and people who don't do that are regressive...then we will say," You know what even cavemen in Stone Ages used to do that...so you are not progressive, you are thousands of years backwards"....
Sir , I am so happy to know that you have got your Gmail account back . I was about to ask you about it but then realised you couldn't have uploaded video unless you log in back into your Gmail .keep your account secure sir . Thanks.
The main thing is that it's ideal when the past of both the partners has been similar in kind, it creates great trust in a relationship knowing that the sexual history of your partner is just the same as yours.
His Gmail account was hacked with all his bank details, contacts etc. He said he will not be able to post anything for may be a week but he will continue his telegram marathon.
You are fabulous man,, Great observation about generation of recent era,, I think it's the perfect study for us... people are seeing their real face after watch this amazing practical metterial ....👍
100% agree bro.....bcz of strong Morals I follow.....Sex is almost absent in my life lol....I think too much of morals sucks life....Still I m proud of my Personality...the person I m....I can proudly say yeah I m a loyal person....I'll give 100% commitment in a relationship.... love n Emotions matters alot for me.... Hook-up culture ye Kya hota h bhai...or kyu hota h...this word doesn't exist in my dictionary...
amazingly explained nd I instantly subscribed, no one had ever touched this area nd talked about ethics nd principles . So nice to see sir that you're influencing the youths' thinking nd giving a right direction....
@@evolver2563 i am not trying to make him sound biased nor m being feminist. My point is its good to know that he is taking in consideration female psychology as well because we are here always listening to male perspectives...that doesn't mean we don't learn from that. :) Ofcourse we do that's why we(girls) are here! Anyways whoever you are have a great day
How nicely he explains everything U can watch thousand of contents on TH-cam but definitely Shwetabh Bhaiya will remain ur favourite if he has helped anyway in transforming ur life
5:13 It's easy to jump on short term pleasures and things. It's a rush. 5:25 Ask an Experienced man/woman who do it since long time ago.0 6:05 You should do it or not it's your choice. Just think about it. 6:33 Fun,fun,fun, fun.....Fun ke chakkar me khud ki marali 😂 7:09 Ideology/thinking about sex in Hookup/One Night Stand or in Relationship. 7:29 Live your life sometimes according to your principles and values. Be a man of principles and don't break your rules. 7:55 Reliability comes from data and information
Thank you so much Shwetabh for making this video. This video popped up on my youtube when I am going through one of the worst crises in my relationship. I caught my partner on multiple dating apps, and I was severely impacted. It had cost our relationship but it has cost me psychologically more. Even though my partner innocently said that he was just looking for new people to talk to and nothing more I was devastated. I had no idea he was active on these apps. The worst part being, having a premium account in these apps. My idea of trust has shaken, even when it has been over seven months when I caught my partner twice on these apps. My partner and I both are at the age when we have been looking for settling down and moving past things which happen in early 20s. But the rampant dating culture has destroyed my faith in loyalty. As for now, I come as someone who is insecure, paranoid, and over possessive because when someone cheats on you, you begin to dig deeper into your own shortcomings. Your video has really made me think that people looking for short-term pleasures really need to re-evaluate their choices than me. I have been blaming myself for not being enough and it happens to many people. I wish I saw this video before. Values in terms of relationships are now replaced with short-term pleasures. It gives me hope that people like you are still propagating the truest values in a relationship and not the ones that are shown on web series where everything is justified just to look cool or whatever. !!! kudos to you, your videos really motivate me :)
I just want you to answer this question for me ok, How an ideal man should be ? cause I see people smoking a lot of stuff and drinking, call out canceling jokes even my female friends who were good before 12th are onto hook ups, drinking etc (and mind it too I am from a premiere university too). Now I am guy who grew up with strict parents considered all the above stuff a red flag (and still do till now) now just stay confused coz the same people are excelling too it didn't hamper their grades, they are getting their luck too. In comparison here's me who believed in serious relationships still can't talk to a girl, still stayed clean.
@@flaks109 there is no one definition of what an ideal man or woman should be. My idea of an ideal person might be completely different for someone else and so on and so forth. But there are certain things we all agree to which are considered good virtues in a person. Most cultures different from ours also vouch on it. For example in the context of my comment its loyalty. And loyalty is something which is important in any kind of relationship not necessarily between two lovers. Now coming to your query. People partying doing alcohol smokimg is an individual choice. One my smoke but can be good by heart. His/her smoking will impact their health not your or mine. And they may smoke party but might also be good at grades and studies. Many friends of mine smoke and drink but are successful in careers. Some even have good relationships. Its ultimately between two people. The kind of boundaries they set for each other. My partner broke the boundaries we both agreed on. That hurt. He's a good human being but not for me. His version for others is different. So yes. Its complicated but values that one compromises and if that impacts the other person then its wrong. As for you. Just see if the ideals you hold on to doesn't make you feel bitter about u. You think bout how these things of not smoking etc has helped you. And see work on yourself. Things especially in the context of women will fall into place but u need to be happy with what you stand for.
If I had seen this video earlier I would'nt have done some mistakes! Anyway "Better Late Than Never" I personally and deeply understand what this video means. And Thankyou for reminding and your motivations! You're doing a great job Sir! May you always have the Peace of Mind in your life!
Ye video yaar apne generation ko dekhna chahiye. The way you put your point is amazing... Vrna apna point explain krna it's not a easy task....ab yaar aghe wale consider to kre ki yaar ek ye outcome bhi hota hai long term mein...👌👌
Oh God.... currently I'm repenting why I didn't come across this video earlier. Each and every Gen Z folk should give this a watch. It's just outstanding.
Shwetabh you are amazing man such a simple explanation and that too in the language where youth can get it straight. Kudos you nailed it... more power n positivity to you 😊
Change your thinking.
Change your life.
This man has changed my thinking.
This man has changed my life.
Thankyou Shwetabh Sir :)❤
Ab ladki ghar le jaa kar pooja karega 😂
I am also one of this.. jo ldka kbhi English Thik se bol ni pata tha aaj vo English me lecture deta h Thanks Bhaiya bhawan humesha aapko khush rkhe
This man is one among many who have changed my life
Mine tooo!!!
Meenaksho Chaddha kyu tum log aisa nam rakhte ho
I am so glad to hear that someone has same ethics and morals as mine in this today world. Well done.👌
Don't worry we r here...u r not alone....I will only be physical with my husband after marriage and I want my husband to be virgin too....Girls and boys are getting naked in front of just anyone...which is so cheap and disgusting to me
People who say "Physical needs are important" well they basically justify cheating.....They should be okay if their partner leaves them for a more attractive person...afterall being physical is so important for them
U know it's alright ( if u r not cheating with someone)..there are plenty of people out there who do hookups but never breaks someone heart...they do it in consent ...and also do it because there are plenty of people out there who just want to have fun and they don't want to be in relationship...there are people who don't do it when they are in relationship
@@sanidhyasrivastava9008 the thing which you said is so easy to say . Go implement it on yourself . Go ask your girlfriend ( serious gf) to cheat on you with another guy and do the things you have said by yourself .
"Those who commit adultery should ought be put to dead" exodus 20 verse 14
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Rich feminism part was funny yet truth.. I support you..! 🙂
@Ayan Kumar it mean using surname of father who gave you birth is against feminism ?🙆🙆
True miss neha
@@piyalihalder8962 without men seed,you would not come in earth.men seed determine sex.so patriarchy will remain forever,from past to next future.
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Respect you sister
You helped me out of depression and break up
What all things you did for moving on?tell me bro 😅
@@gulshanjoshi6784 focus on yourself, because once you put in work on yourself, you will start seeing results which will stay with you, and you will get more confident about your own self, which will eventually help you get over the issue; also realise that all these things which you are feeling, are a part of being human, stay mindful! :D
@@sarangdave6840 thanks bro
Fadd do life me bhai. All the best🤘🏻
Same here with ME Thank You Shwetabh Gangwar.
This man deserves a hell lot of respect and recognition...👏👏👏
No need just don't marry do safe casual sex
This video just made my day. I was thinking I am stupid to avoid hook up n all n taking life too seriously. But I was not wrong. I feel at so good after listening to this video.
Nice
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Yaayy same girl! I thought its normal n I'm only overthinking n old school type!
None is stupid...if ur not comfortable you don't need to follow the crowd. Also, for that you should have an idea of huge spectrum...the origin where hook up started and how are those ppl doing now that is USA. There is no loser...there is nothing cool in having sex....would rather catch some STDs.
Kahan se laatey ho itni himmat bhai ? To clear the things so deeply . Salute u man ! Luv u bro.😍
Kusum Bhardwaj
Till then
aapna haath jadanath
@SAYAN 183 yhi bol rha h swetabh
Well said kush
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Kya ho agar hookup se emotional attachments na ho😜😝 think positively door kyu bhagna face it challange ur emotions 🤥🙃
The most logical man in the world with a superb sense of humour=SHWETABH GANGWAR
I always hated this hook up and being very cool casual behaviors, people around me judged me as an old school boring girl , who will always be left alone because I m not modern .
But today your video made me happy that I m on the right track . 🌻🌻😊
Same here...
Its not modernity dear its a case of pathetic thinking and making yourself so cheap that u can b involve with anyone so girls from small town like me usually hate such so called high society
Obviously.... I support saxena
Same here
Right is always right.
Its awesome feeling when you are honest.
Your confidence is too high on moral ground.
I am so glad to see this comment section.. it gives me hope that still there are people who haven't damaged because of western culture...
These things are shown so easily in movies and short films.. even on thumbnails of some youtube videos I feel so pathetic..
That these people are influencing others in wrong direction.. we are not animals we have grown this far to create some impact.. hope so things get changed.
I don't understand what is censor board is doing useless people not censoring what impacts it would cause
@Mam Shak damn bro, we have the same mindset
And yeah we are doomed India is doomed but looking at the comment gives me hope
What if They all are lying 😂😂
Oh my god! Seeing these things around me I used to think that I have started growing old or something. I am 27 years old and for me sex is something which is connected to my morals and ethics and can be done with the person I will spend rest of my life with. I am glad to know there is nothing wrong with my thinking.
You're going on correct path
I am with you girl, Thank you
True
Same here
U r in right way
Thanks for putting sense into people's mind.
5 mins of fun can cost a lifetime of tons of shitty problems.
Right bro
It's so nice to finally see someone who rejects the views of the millennial generation and takes a stand, for what being a "good" stable person is all about. If anything the videos really help us viewers , know that we aren't the only ones who feel this way .
Awesome work man !
Add me in the club brother 👐🏿
Same here
"good" stable person? Ka definition kya hai ? Get this bro you want live in classical old school way go ahead but don't try to claim that you are some kind of superior being , respect other people choices whilst disagreeing with them
One of my friend is a so called "playboy". He is very handsome and hot looking boy. Every girl is ready to get intimate with him. In our college days he had many sexual relationships. He always said "I am enjoying life and I will stop all such things after getting married.". He married before 2 years and still he is having such relationships with new girls and all.
He is an engineering graduate and got distinction throughout. But due to lack of practical knowledge he is working as a saree vendor. I thank god that I did not get such opportunities as him in my past.
Is this true? I think you just made that up to motivate yourself and others at the same time😅
@@pramodvimal1509 bhai mene bhi ase bate dekhi he or ea sch hue par mere lead roll me ek ladki .or uska story line ea he " jo khud ko damjh ti he aliya unko milta he kaliya ab bajo taliya".
Ye true hai.
I'm satisfied after reading the last part, given the fact that you're not lying
😂😂😂🙉
This man has real-life knowledge. Right bro Principles must. Don't always go with the flow, first try to understand the impact of that and then decide. I appreciate you, big bro.
Thank God this thinking still exists in society.I thought I was alone!
U r not alone
Not alone
Majority of Indians don't think like that. In our culture sex was never a taboo instead it was very pious thing. This is the culture that invented Kamasutra.
@@TheDobermannnn whats there with kamasutra?
@@TheDobermannnnsex before marriage was taboo
Learn about brahmacharya
Suddenly came across through this video.. Ended up watching 6 more of yours.. You are absolutely right..
Have you hooked up with anyone?
@@naraendrareddy273 Go outside. Leave your basement. Get a life
I'm a person who will rather be boring and unpopular than breaking my principles.
And I idolize you, Sir Shwetabh Gangwar.
You helped me out, stopping to take the one wrong step. I am in a committed relationship for about 2 years , and due to lockdown it got long distanced. A guy whom I knew, approached me for casual sex . He is good looking and I like his personality too. I might be having some crazy sex drives and I was ready to do it, I was trying to convince myself to do it , it's so hard to stay in control... but my heart said no... andr ki awaz..and I thought of you and searched if u made any video on that I and found it. I watched your video.. and my andr ki awaz got more strong. I m saved .. thank you shwetabh sir.. u truly are a guardian angel.
गलत काम के बारे मे सोचना भी नहीं है....
Tell me you did it right??😂
Thank God you didn't lose your integrity. I always thought score as many girls as you want but then you get nothing out-of it. It's shallow.
Boyfriend ke hote hue bhi kisi or ladke ko dhek ke karne ka mun kar raha hai or karne bhi waale the chii or usne aapko bola karne ke liye kese uski himmat kese Hui iska matlab aapki koi aukat nhi aap ko koi ladka eisa bolde Jo aapka dost hai eisa ho hi nhi sakta I hope aapke bf ko aapse aachi gf mile
Damn @@Love30454😂😂😂 but she is cute 🥰😂😂😂❤ ha lekin apke baat mein dam hai kyuki dosti ki boundary phele hi tut juki hogi isliye usne himmat ki aur ho firse karega aur ye ladki ko firse mun karega kyuki mun kabi nhi maanta aur aar bar andar ki awaz nhi udegi kabi hawas ki awaz bhi uth sakti hai tho ho hi jayega sex kyuki boundary phele hi tut juki hai
Don't let the wild desires spoil u. Cuz u r a human, not an animal. Do something that gives u satisfaction, not momentary pleasure.🙂
Said by both Sandeep Maheshwari and Shwetabh Gangwar.
lol
If you are not getting
then don't cry about it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My friends judges me for being an old school girl ..who believes in love and relationship than casual relationships and hookups ..ok !! That's my point of view I'll be like this LoL
Express with ur thoughts sister
Even as a boy I agree with you. Old school love is way way better than today's time paas relationships
Don't affected by other peoples...be who u r .... I'm in same situation....seek for the real mental connection
@@akshataryan2299 Very subjective... Old school relationships did not have any opinion of women and they were considered to be inferior.
Modern day hookups give power to mature people who think that this as a choice is viable for them...
U r not an old fashioned person.. infact u are a person with sanity!
Finally I got a sensible TH-cam channel. Superb Sir.
really👍
This man, Shwetabh Gangwar is a living legend
HE'S A GOD
Hookup culture is the worst. Legit no affection left in ppl I swear. My friends slept around with many ppl while I stayed miles apart from hookups/one night stands and at the end of the day they come to me and say how lucky I am to have never been indulged in stuff like this as it leaves ppl empty inside. And ppl just get addicted to sex and long for feelings which they never get. I consider sex to be very intimate and special which I can never go play around with and have it with someone who dosen't emotionally invest in me as I will in him. It's literally making ppl emotionless.
Ohmy god its like someone wrote my heart exactly I feelll
Same thoughts
Yes Hookup culture is worst.... People aren't even scared of STDs.
Wow. 😮
You really cleared and banged the so called 'Cool head-lers' and also cleared the insecurity that might be were persisiting in my mind from some time..
Thanks bro..🌠
There are days when I am dead with anxiety, thinking that I'll never find someone who has the belief and has lived that belief in the past, in this hookup culture. I am not able to find a girl who wants to date me either. I have rejected a few casual relations because it demanded only sex. I wanted to build to that. I really don't know what to do. I study in an IIM, wise men said have a life with security and somebody as strong as you will join your life, but here I am. I don;t know if Mr. Gangwar can help me right away, but if you can help, feel free. Thanks!
This video encouraged me to keep believing what I have always. Mad respect for this guy.
I also respect u as we have same thinning
What you doing is right....but it’s very important to love ourself first...treat yourself well, incase you doing that...good enough. Actually my friend told me...when we have that love in us, it attract a right person, infact many people.
@@swatityagi6235 After an year of change, I don't believe there's right or wrong. How ever I'll agree that we find the person when we know who we are, in the most innocent state, inner child. Authentic friends are made when we aren't lying to ourselves.
Anurag Tirkey agree....👍 totally, as I have a wonderfull experience of having such friends. 🙏
Just believe.
Dude, I loved this thing! I found someone atlast someone who put my thoughts into words which I was never able to explain someone why I am not ok with casual thing !
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yes u r correct..but time has changed, jha early age me ghar smbhale ke liye shadi kradi jati thi... par ab average shadi ki age 25+ ho rhi hai, to po** product consum krne se acha hai karlo our life ka kaam me dhyan 🙂..but i disagree with early age s*x bcs it decreases IQ of that person a.t. US reaserch ... atleast 17/18+ to hona sahiye...what do u think?
Always been motivated by your videos.
Nice and mature thinking.
Right ✔👉
Ladkiya itni jaldi bewkuf kyu ban jati h.
@@PramodKumar-ll9fk तुम्हे बनाने में मज़ा आता है। !! 🤮🤮🤮
@@jyotivyas9286 main aaj tak kisi ko bewkuf nhi banaya h.
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Iss bande ki thinking mere se ditto match karti hai almost in every case.
Mere se bhi
Chalo hum akele nae hain
Me b.. 🙏✌️
Me to
Mine too
mara sa 99.%.
True words man ! 👍
But we have very very few people who have this kind of right thinking. I really don't get it how most of the people feel that it is ok to have casual sex. What I have heard from many is like "Ha aaj kal toh sab log karte hai... Or hum bhi kar sakte hai usme koi badi baat ni hai". They do it because they think everyone around them do it so its normal. But they don't think on their own. "Sab log kya kar rahe hai wahi karenge hum bhi. Humara koi individuality ya apni khud ki thinking ni hai".
Even when it comes to daaru and other stuff. I have seen people who don't even want to do it literally, they restrain from it and after long time of being different from others and feeling the pressure like "Arey sab log kar rahe hai yar or mai hi kuch ni kar ri and I don't want to regret anything in future ki maine yeh ni kiya" and they start doing everything. This was not because they wanted to drink or smoke. It is because they want to show it to the society ki hum bhi kar sakte hai. Bhai itna kuch dikhana hi hai ki tum kuch kar sakte hai life mai toh aise karo na jisse log tumhe bole ki you are really great and different. Try to achieve something na yeh sab karna koi achievement nahi hai. But people think they are great because they do all this stuff.
acutely no words about sex date,its depend on us hm kisse kitni preriorty dete h or kitna trust krte, and Most hm apne life partner k liye kitne sensitive h iss matter m, kitna hm lifeparter k liye rakh pate h khudko...
These are the most pathetic people jo Sahi or galat me fark nhi Kar pate , bas crowd ke piche chlte rehte hain. Dusre Kar rhe h to Hume bhi krna h. Aise log life me kabhi aage nhi badh pate. They are wasting their life and themselves waste to humanity.
@@MadhuSharma-uk9cr yess you are right
@@MadhuSharma-uk9cr you're in right direction
Totally agree
Bhai, your perspective is like a Midas touch for my thinking. I am still jumping in joy to listen to such an awaited topic.
End of the Story: Use your hand first before breaking anyone's Trust.....😉
Bhai teri is line ko to T-shirt per print karvaunga😆😆😆
You suggested a very secure solution
Masturbation is very bad for health.search on net.
Don't break trust to get lust.
Sir,
I am a girl and day by day I am developing so much respect for you. You speak truth 💯 percent......👍👍👍Keep up with these good thoughts and ideologies...
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Everyone has a different idea of 'missing out'. We should not let other people define for us what expirence is Rich or not. Like someone is showing himself happy while he or she is drinking with friends socially but if you rather enjoying a coffee after finishing your work then by all means don't let society's bar culture make you feel you are missing out something. If you have to surrender to them your individuallity deduces so. Why do you have to be like them? You are the protagonist of your own story. So Be yourself and keep on moving forward.
what
We live in society where people just want to wana be of someone and social media increased this stupidity to next level.
Sir I respect u frm the bottom of my heart.. Mai aisa hi perception rakhti hu apni life ko leke.. Par mere frnds mjhe iss chiz ki wajah se uncool samajhte hai.. But I knw ki mai long term mai sahi hu.. Nwdays people believe ki ek cool ldki ko ye sb krna chaiye.. But I think coolness is defined frm our thinking.. Nt by this..
It is same for boys. Try to do new things rather than thinking about boys and party and alcohol. Stop following friends and boyfriend. Follow urself.
Well said
Xactly in my atmosphere also.....😖😖😖
Vandana Chaudhary sister trust me these shallow minded people will judge you, call you an orthodox and uncool, not empowered ..but you are doing what is meant to be right in every aspect.. They can't be your friends if they call you uncool because of your preferences. They are bloody fool. It's your choice to live this way, so live it the way you want and ignore such pseudo intellectuals who are trying too hard to be cool but are ultimately becoming bloody fool.
Kudos to your attitude mam,"world is flooded with good looking girls but not at heart u proved your exception".
I am proud of you man. So thankful to know people of the same mentality as mine exist.
Glad to see u guys
You are telling the truth brother im a 20 year old guy i love sex but i am against hookup because if my partner says she had hookups in the past that will make me question her commitment because i will feel that the person is so much controlled by her disire that she can see a stranger to satisfy a temporary need without thinking about the consequences i personally feel trust is important to offer your body to someone
There will always be people with ethics, morals & sensitivity & sensibility. Also there will be people chasing instant fun.
If you don't see sex as a private thing which should be done with a special person only then you can not have a successful marriage life.
You just gotta ask yourself one question "what will happen after the marriage that I will not need more sexual partners, or I will be satisfied with my spouse? "
Seeing commitment as a cage which society impose on you, you will always wanna get out of it, or look for chances you can break it.
You should rather see it as a mutual decision like "If I can't stand my partners affair with somebody else then I should take responsibility to not to have affair with affairs without commitment."
He described the whole scenario in a really simple language
You are 100% right. I have experienced this. I never made a girl friend. I was virgin till my marriage. My friends used to tell me that I am uncool and stereo type person because I have ethics. I used to feel depressed when I hear that "Everyone is doing this. This is modern and fact". I had doubt that the girl with whom I marry may be also one of those ( second handed person ). But God always does justice. My wife is also same as me and I got very good result of my honesty and ethical behaviour. Thanks and I agree with this content.
Same hear I m waiting for girls like you got..
😍😍👏😊❤
Good for you bro.
Bhai dil khush kr diya aapne, aap bhi apne chote bhayio ke liye dua karo jo aap jesi thinking rkhte h ki unhe bhi ek acchi ladki mil jay
@@saptakmaji455 Bilkul. Achchhe ke sath Achchha hi hota hai. Meri shadi ko 5 years ho gaye. Me aur Meri wife dono ye yaad kar ke haste hai ki hume lagta tha ki aab duniya me sabne veriginity lose kar diyi hai. Lekin sach to ye hai ki waise log 2 - 3% hi hai. Baki sab aapne jaise hi hai. Don't worry.
People’s intelligence is hijacked by their hormones, what we call is modern, is just western- sadguru.
Thats very tragic how Indians leaving their beautiful culture. On the contrary I’m so proud that my city (Amritsar) what people call small cities are better than metropolitan cities.
Only leading your life spiritually and consciously can save you. 💖
Thats cool...nice thinking..my mom is from Amritsar hathi gate..area..
Then she got married to my father..and we live in dehradun now..
My city is same as Amritsar..a smart city far..better than.. Delhi NCR..
Communism & left-liberals are the reason why it's all happening
I am from Tharkpur it's metropolitan city for me I am happy here
Suno mere veero aaj meri kahani m sufiyan daa raja
@@RazorTrap You know right far left liberalism means marxism which has about zero points on pre marital relationships or relationships as a whole??
Swara Bhaskar and Kapoor got offended
Suwara bhaishkar
Where
@@theasheeshpatel ys u r rit
Lol
Kangna Ranaut also
Well said. Your thoughts resonate with me. An gentleman who has got profound influence in my life, once said to me that always choose an option which you wouldn’t regret 20/30 years down the line (on a different context though). Moral of the story: we are an evolved species and should not be blinded by our primal calls. What our nation is doing currently is that we are blindly following the western trend without realising the fact that in west, people are extremely honest about such transactions (friends with benefits, etc etc) unlike our bastardised version, where most of us would try to fool the opposite side, pulling off a facade in the lure of something so short-sighted and meaningless to say the least.
Thanks for the video bro! Being in my 20s, planning to move in metro city. I really wanted this guidance from someone. Loads of gratitude for showing the truth.
In metro cities there are 2 types of men. Hopeless romantic and playboys
Yes mayuri, self respect yourself. Sab aacha hoga........
I am single because I am saving myself for someone who deserve me n I know it is difficult but I think sexual energy also can be transformed into productive works and in balanced mental n physical health
Thank you swetabh bhai for all motivation n knowledge
Same bhai
Right bro
M to sadi hi nhi krunga... Sb set ho chuki h...
Pagal😂 just say you can't get a girl ugly bastard
Hey hey ...... You huma being you will achieve what ever you want in your life .. Tathasthu..... 🖐️
weldone brother again a topic which is not addressed by any other.
👍👍
One of the best videos by Mensutra, you really need an appreciation.
This man is taking youtube content to another level...hats off to you sir..lots of love
Conservative thoughts may sound primitive but, are backed by centuries of societal observations done by great philosophers with a purpose to create a better well functioning society .
Doesn't mean you should blindly trust any ideology . Exploration is the best way .
Socities had existed with those conservative values and ethics of course nothing is absolutely perfect and those ideologies too have flaws but u cant completely disregard it.
It boils down to compatibility. A boy with conservative mindset won't last long with a western mindset woman. Note:- It can go the other way don't call me a misogynist 😂
First time in my life I ever found a person jiski bate sun kr k lga ki Kitna similar sochta hai meri tarah... hat's off to u man! U gave me so many words for myself nd to others to explain it in a very clear & such a honest way!
I’m a psychology student and I totally agree with you sir.. I also received that kind of bulshitt that I badly want to bla bla.. that really mean thinking. Just for ur own physical needs and lust. Nowadays relationships starts at a convo and 3rd day they go and book a hotel just for sex Nd named it love. 👏🏻
Apt😆😆 1 hafte me pyar karte hai , dashve din hotel me ya park me , lafda karte huee😬😬
Fir 2 mahine Baad kisi aur se pyaar , fir Wahi sab
Hikari Licht true yhi trend h ajkl ka..
Yash Yadav what do you wanna ask? I didn’t get it.
Yash Yadav I didn’t do a research on it yet but i can say it depends on girl’s perception of relationship and love. Nd hook up culture tb develop hota h jb girls ka breakup hojata h true love krne k bad b..ya unhe cheat milta h relationship m. Tb fr girls fed up hojati h, love se hate krne lgti h nd just fulfill their physical needs wo fookup krti h.
Yash Yadav mushkil to nhi h.. pr jo emotionally hurt girls hoti h wo sbse distance rkhna psnd krti h.. they don’t want unhe fr koi hurt kre.
Sir, I really respect you for picking up this topic. Whenever someone says about casual sex or sex in a casual realtionships, they think it is very cool, but for me it is disgusting. I have always stayed like this, but people say that you are an old thinker, you are stupid. Sir, I really like your video.
I'm soo happy & proud of my morals after this video that yes u think correct I thought I'm only old school
Thank you soo much for this video❤
I never betray any one in relationship I love one person my girlfriend & now she is my wife.......sex is fun or not casual it is Base of great relationship
Bro , I had many hookups in past and now I'm married 3years ago Happily Living.
@@RajeshKumar-hh1xn apne wife ko bataya?
@@abhinavsingh2432
My wife also has done hookups in past !!
@@RajeshKumar-hh1xn it is easy to say when you are in India where relationships are respected go to USA and then tell
@@RajeshKumar-hh1xn dono ek hi jase thee isiliye you don't get any problem.
This video needs to be shared soooooooo much!
I completely agree with you. I'm 21 and I strictly deny the objectives of people with these modernized philosophies about living life for once which lacks their ordinations, ethical and moral senses alongwith defining our country to be secular and I really don't understand where this "secularism" part fits in these short sight modern cultures which has no good consequences.
Keep it up!
Our generation needs these awarenesses about real life who prefer to go according to those reel life instead.
Dhriti r
I am that man who smokes and drinks every night.
And believe me these two are one of my worst decision in my life and till now I am regretting for my decisions.
So the point is when you can lead a healthy life lead one dont waste it.
Clean Up Bro
Sir aap podcasts shuru karo. You can invite Indian success stories like scientists, businessmen, entrepreneurs, CEOs, sportspersons, artists, spiritual gurus etc.. I think you have a great potential to be a Joe Rogan of India.
Ye baat unhone pehle bhi ek video m bataya h kyu wo podcast nhi karna chahte jake dekhle
@@abinashn0412 I think I've seen it. As far as I remember he said the TH-camrs or celebrities he approached couldn't afford to have a genuine conversation due to the image they have to maintain. But I'm pretty sure there are genuine people out there, especially from areas outside Bollywood and TH-cam.
@@anurag7168 yes e≠mc^2 .
Bcz speed of light is nt constant.
A American scientist explained it.
@@anurag7168 yes iam a atheist myself . I dnt like any religion . science nd humanity is above all.
Bt I also hav interest in ancient knowledge .
Be Careful about religion gurus , they always brainwash people nd some speak absolute nonsense like earth is flat.😂😂ignore them .
@@anurag7168 get success boi👍.
I'm a new subscriber I'm glad that I saw this video loved it. Soo true neva break your principles and ethics.
Hi I m also gujju
Shaunak Brahmbahatt and I am mallu.
What is mallu ?
@SAYAN 183what did you learner from this video?
Never abuse girl unnecessarily.
One of the best topic discussed... it's a need to understand the pros. N cons. of casual things... you have touched all important the aspects...hard working person you are... good going...
Thank god TH-cam recommended me this video 👍
Thank you Sir ☺️🙏
It means a lot, when a public figure talks about being morally right in the times when people have nearly lost their decision making power.
There is a different kind of peace and contentment I feel when I see people who are driven by goals, undistracted, who have high standards, living by morals and principles imbibed by their parents.
And to everyone who has such thinking, You should be proud of yourself. Your energy is concentrated, not distorted and scattered everywhere. You're not so easy and people like you are Rare !
I Respect Your Thought Mam.
@@CivilServicesExamination
😊🙏
Basically he's just trying to say that become John Wick. A person with focus, commitment and sheer fucking will..!!
Well destroying people for killing your dog is still better than falling into hookup trap.
@@deepakkimola4936 he is committed! That’s what all matters.. hookups are for dogs and bitches
@@deepakkimola4936 be such a person , if John touches ur dog he is as good as dead😂
@@deepakkimola4936 Well, john wick didn't did all of it just because his dog was killed. Yes it was a part of his reason, but the actual reason was very vast, if you've paid attention to the movie
Emotional attachments are way better than these casual hookups. They are more meaningful and take you long way in life.🌻💫 Sadly , people in this generation are afraid of attachments and need an alternative . But that's too short-lived. Hope some sense knocks them.
Deep Emotional Attachment Mostly Gave Me Backlash, 🙄had 2 bad breakups in a row, can't afford to trust emotions, but I remember that it felt god damn awesome to be in it..
@@karna5998 arranged marriage is better option
@@amanawake5202 i would have to agree, they're more logic based, man makes good money, Woman looks beautiful. DONE. but I'm against marriage anyways..
@@karna5998 that's completely ok it's your opinion
Attachment is the root of all suffering. - Buddha
I am thankful to uh, thank God I watched this video, I am in my early 20ts, people around me are so much in hookups, casual dating and sex. And I always felt like an outsider in their circle. Now I can proudly say being vergin is not shameful. I was always made feel embarrassed about my "still vergin" thing. I could never say this openly that I don't like these casual datings. 😂
Still virgin lol , million of us r , focus on ur bank acc.
Tesla died as a virgin
This is actually so true..
Like a guy who has been in this hook up culture.. and then gets into serious relationship with a girl who is very simple, virgin and sees this hook up culture meaning less.. and then the relationship is so serious that both of them are talking about marriage.. then the guy picks on the things he had done with other girls before getting into serious relationship.... it very much affects the girl who he is in relationship with now..
It becomes a relationship where person is really very affected but can't leave the person because they are very serious with them.. and then it reminds them that this person has done these things before.. everything gets very emotionally unstable for very very long time because it has affected deeply..
Not blaming guys or the girls both of them don't know what they are getting into.
Woman who are virgins and end up with playboys should blame themselves...morons
So true
Yeah...I am saving myself for marriage and I want my husband to be virgin too :)
U know it's alright ( if u r not cheating with someone)..there are plenty of people out there who do hookups but never breaks someone heart...they do it in consent ...and also do it because there are plenty of people out there who just want to have fun and they don't want to be in relationship...there are people who don't do it when they are in relationship
@@sanidhyasrivastava9008 Yes I agree with you...if they don't want a family or are in a open relationship then it's perfectly fine...but then u cannot say that people,who wants a monogamous relationship, have to accept you as their spouse...NO....It's your body your choice...in similar ways Their lives their choices.....
And also you cannot say you are progressive and people who don't do that are regressive...then we will say," You know what even cavemen in Stone Ages used to do that...so you are not progressive, you are thousands of years backwards"....
Sir , I am so happy to know that you have got your Gmail account back . I was about to ask you about it but then realised you couldn't have uploaded video unless you log in back into your Gmail .keep your account secure sir . Thanks.
The main thing is that it's ideal when the past of both the partners has been similar in kind, it creates great trust in a relationship knowing that the sexual history of your partner is just the same as yours.
12:14 "Hume 4 baje tak party karni hai, qki hum bhi equal hai"😂😂
BTW, great video!! Keep empowering!!!
I totally agree with you shwetabh... I use to follow the same ideology....n ppl use to think I m an old fashioned girl..
I actually like old fashioned girls. So don't worry, there are people who are like you.
I really like your content. specially this one to make people aware that they are acting cool for a wrong reason.
this shows the reality
this guy knows how to explain everything clearly and systematically
🙏🙏🙏
Shwetabh gangwar finished.
On 28th of March, he is back with his new video.
❌ Not finished
Ps - jisko nhi pata bhai ka account hack hogya tha.
Amit Upadhyay insta account?
How did u get to know about it???
@@mehakkhakra9812 He posted on facebook mensutra group
@@mehakkhakra9812 In his Facebook group he posted about this.
That his TH-cam account was hacked and he was unable to recover that.
His Gmail account was hacked with all his bank details, contacts etc. He said he will not be able to post anything for may be a week but he will continue his telegram marathon.
You are fabulous man,, Great observation about generation of recent era,, I think it's the perfect study for us... people are seeing their real face after watch this amazing practical metterial ....👍
Sir i have a huge respect for uh!
Each and every line should be implemented in life.
I hope every youth gets this kind of mindset.
Thankyou❤
ya right
Sir telegram par aap ne poll question kyo kam kr diya. Kindly increase it , it gives me motivation. Please.
Agreed bro
Bhai apni motivation khud bno
@@shivamtripathi2348 yeah, but Shwetabh sir acts like a catalyst.
Telegram link bro
@@Surya_jain Install 'Telegram' from play store and search @realmensutra
This is the best video I have ever watched on today’s hookup culture. I want to share so many snippets of it with the world.
I m happy atleast someone is talking about this serious issue. U hit the bulls eye. I totally agree with u.
100% agree bro.....bcz of strong Morals I follow.....Sex is almost absent in my life lol....I think too much of morals sucks life....Still I m proud of my Personality...the person I m....I can proudly say yeah I m a loyal person....I'll give 100% commitment in a relationship.... love n Emotions matters alot for me.... Hook-up culture ye Kya hota h bhai...or kyu hota h...this word doesn't exist in my dictionary...
Hii
Nice
You're in right direction
amazingly explained nd I instantly subscribed, no one had ever touched this area nd talked about ethics nd principles . So nice to see sir that you're influencing the youths' thinking nd giving a right direction....
Google "Runanubandha".
This is also an important factor to be considered while making any decision.
Physical memories that are good and trouble as well . Depends on with whom, how and what is emotional connection with that person.
Jai ho babaki
Ankita sharma have you seen sadhguru's video on this topic? It's really great!
Wow, so people who know about rnanubandha exist.
Finally he has started making videos from girls pov as well 😌
Oh man...
So many girls are commenting this.
I had no idea that this thing was so important to you guys.
I am glad btw
you are making him sound like he was biased, he was just being logical
@@evolver2563 i am not trying to make him sound biased nor m being feminist.
My point is its good to know that he is taking in consideration female psychology as well because we are here always listening to male perspectives...that doesn't mean we don't learn from that. :) Ofcourse we do that's why we(girls) are here! Anyways whoever you are have a great day
Actually pehel ye channel sirf men p hi focused tha,thus the name men ki baat but ab ye dono geneder k videos bna deta h
But ye baatein realistic aur logical krta h...sapne ni dikhata😂😂
How nicely he explains everything
U can watch thousand of contents on TH-cam but definitely Shwetabh Bhaiya will remain ur favourite if he has helped anyway in transforming ur life
8:10pm 3 ghante daale aj abhi tk
1:30 ghanta aur phir on time 10 sleep.
Edit 9:43 Task accomplished, total work done 4:30hrs 2hrs(6:15-8:15am) , 1hr(6:30-7:30)pm, 1.5hr(8-9:30)pm.
Keep going
Only one reason to watch u-
Getting knowledge for dealing various situations in upcoming life......love u bhai ♥
I never thought of it this way. I am all in for monogamy. But was accepting people having casual relationships. This changed my perception. Thanks
Keep spreading awareness on these not so discussed yet relatable topics brother. 😇
Love from Pakistan.
pakistan me bhi aisa scene ho gya kya bhai?
Han common h ab to, khul k koi nhi btata pr hai
@@RandomPerson-hj8fq bhai Pakistan mein to yeh scene buhut common hogaya hai 😐
5:13 It's easy to jump on short term pleasures and things. It's a rush.
5:25 Ask an Experienced man/woman who do it since long time ago.0
6:05 You should do it or not it's your choice. Just think about it.
6:33 Fun,fun,fun, fun.....Fun ke chakkar me khud ki marali 😂
7:09 Ideology/thinking about sex in Hookup/One Night Stand or in Relationship.
7:29 Live your life sometimes according to your principles and values. Be a man of principles and don't break your rules.
7:55 Reliability comes from data and information
Thank you so much Shwetabh for making this video. This video popped up on my youtube when I am going through one of the worst crises in my relationship. I caught my partner on multiple dating apps, and I was severely impacted. It had cost our relationship but it has cost me psychologically more. Even though my partner innocently said that he was just looking for new people to talk to and nothing more I was devastated. I had no idea he was active on these apps. The worst part being, having a premium account in these apps. My idea of trust has shaken, even when it has been over seven months when I caught my partner twice on these apps. My partner and I both are at the age when we have been looking for settling down and moving past things which happen in early 20s. But the rampant dating culture has destroyed my faith in loyalty. As for now, I come as someone who is insecure, paranoid, and over possessive because when someone cheats on you, you begin to dig deeper into your own shortcomings. Your video has really made me think that people looking for short-term pleasures really need to re-evaluate their choices than me. I have been blaming myself for not being enough and it happens to many people. I wish I saw this video before. Values in terms of relationships are now replaced with short-term pleasures. It gives me hope that people like you are still propagating the truest values in a relationship and not the ones that are shown on web series where everything is justified just to look cool or whatever. !!! kudos to you, your videos really motivate me :)
which city are you from?
@@Aloksharma-oe1gm Lucknow
I just want you to answer this question for me ok, How an ideal man should be ? cause I see people smoking a lot of stuff and drinking, call out canceling jokes even my female friends who were good before 12th are onto hook ups, drinking etc (and mind it too I am from a premiere university too). Now I am guy who grew up with strict parents considered all the above stuff a red flag (and still do till now) now just stay confused coz the same people are excelling too it didn't hamper their grades, they are getting their luck too. In comparison here's me who believed in serious relationships still can't talk to a girl, still stayed clean.
@@priyakshipandey damn that's saddening. Hope everything is fine now
@@flaks109 there is no one definition of what an ideal man or woman should be. My idea of an ideal person might be completely different for someone else and so on and so forth. But there are certain things we all agree to which are considered good virtues in a person. Most cultures different from ours also vouch on it. For example in the context of my comment its loyalty. And loyalty is something which is important in any kind of relationship not necessarily between two lovers. Now coming to your query. People partying doing alcohol smokimg is an individual choice. One my smoke but can be good by heart. His/her smoking will impact their health not your or mine. And they may smoke party but might also be good at grades and studies. Many friends of mine smoke and drink but are successful in careers. Some even have good relationships. Its ultimately between two people. The kind of boundaries they set for each other. My partner broke the boundaries we both agreed on. That hurt. He's a good human being but not for me. His version for others is different. So yes. Its complicated but values that one compromises and if that impacts the other person then its wrong. As for you. Just see if the ideals you hold on to doesn't make you feel bitter about u. You think bout how these things of not smoking etc has helped you. And see work on yourself. Things especially in the context of women will fall into place but u need to be happy with what you stand for.
I will never forget that when I was sad , alone , depressed you are with me...For convince me..Motivate..Thanks alot sir
If I had seen this video earlier I would'nt have done some mistakes!
Anyway "Better Late Than Never"
I personally and deeply understand what this video means.
And Thankyou for reminding and your motivations!
You're doing a great job Sir!
May you always have the Peace of Mind in your life!
Ye video yaar apne generation ko dekhna chahiye. The way you put your point is amazing... Vrna apna point explain krna it's not a easy task....ab yaar aghe wale consider to kre ki yaar ek ye outcome bhi hota hai long term mein...👌👌
Apna Bhai Sare topics cover kar raha hai.. ❤ We Need More people like him..
Oh God.... currently I'm repenting why I didn't come across this video earlier. Each and every Gen Z folk should give this a watch. It's just outstanding.
Why were you involved in hook ups or casual dating
I truly appreciate your efforts for this video, society needs this mature vision.
I have so much respect for this person,grateful for his existence. Thank You Shwetabh Sir :)
Shwetabh you are amazing man such a simple explanation and that too in the language where youth can get it straight. Kudos you nailed it... more power n positivity to you 😊
The best channel I have ever come accross!❤
Abhi aaya hai hookup ka daur
Kuch din baad aaega depression ka daur...
Screeshot le lo iss comment ka..
😎😎
You are great
100%
hahahhahahaha
Depression due to these sins
😂😂😂