I mean I feel you….but what about all these women calling themselves “ queens “ and “ alpha women “ ? lol I get both are cringe but we also gotta keep it real lol
@@SkyClipz ….do you have a IG bro? The whole “ alpha female “ thing as cringe as it is has literally been a thing for a while now just like the “ women in men’s fields “ bs 🙄😂
I would clown those vids, but sadly there’s plenty of people out here pre-judging you based off how you do any and everything. My little cousin literally got dumped because his girl didn’t like the way he randomly danced at a party. Now anytime we talk, he’ll say “I should’ve kept it cool & just leaned back.” 😂😭🥴
@ Thanks, I hope so too. No lie, she really has him not even into dancing anymore. He felt real goofy after. I told him to keep being him and he’ll find someone who’s down with it.
@@devin3955 Yeah that’s what I told him. That she was searching hard for something that gave her the “ick” so she could leave, but he really think it was him dancing smh He’s still in his first year in college, so he’s gonna see losing that bird wasn’t the end of the world lol
At least she didn't break up with him via the caption of a TikTok video that's just a loop of him dancing and a bunch of laughing emojis. That's kind of what I expect from Gen Z/Alpha and anything even an ounce more humanizing is a win. 😅
Furthermore not everyone is not attracted to the same body languages. So if you got "it" there will be a group of people that think you got it and there will be a group of people that think you dont got it. And vice versa
The sad part is a lot of these dudes are doing this not even genuinely to help men be more masculine, but for rage bait and ironically some of them turn into male “ pick me’s “ and start just trashing anything dudes do that are not considered “ masculine “ just for women to agree with him and like his content. I do agree with Dee about the posture thing though he did have a point there lol
I hate to say it but what this guying is saying does have a great deal of validity to it. It's basic human psychology. Our body language - our posture, the way we bend, the way we sit, the way we grip things, our tone of voice, etc - all go toward determining others' impressions of us. And it's not to say that people are all consciously analyzing the body language of others to form conclusions about them. No. This ish happens subconsciously! You might just consciously think of a stranger that you've seen only for a little while, as being arrogant but you can't even explain how or why you think that. It's because the way the person moves matches the mannerisms you've seen in other arrogant people, but this comparison was done subconsciously. So this guy does have a valid point. So don't follow his advice if you don't want to come off seeming as a conceited person obsessed with making an alpha impression. 🤣
I understand the annoyance, but I do agree with the body language video. Women need them as well. I was taught by trainer to stand up tall. It helps feel better walking and more powerful. So it does matter in a way. MEN definitely need to have these dayum classes. They looking ridiculous. The most important part is feel confident and be it.
@MMAopinions-g8q Theres hundreds of etiquette classes for women. Especially young girls as young at 5. They just take money and often affluence to maintain. However thrre are now videos. Now I wouldn't have an obessesion with these classes. However on the right occasion. These classes are great for money genders. Especially during job interviews, conferences and first dates if of age.
@MMAopinions-g8q I think men need to stop focusing on city girls and stop ignoring women especially from the church who have taken these lessons. Yet y'all keep following city girls online and complaining 🤣
I get it, its image. But guy in the clip looks awkward. Who sits down back all arched, head stiff then sneaky scoots his foot to open his legs wider. He's in his head and it shows. Looks less confident and defeats the purpose.
I think the "it" in, "got it," is confidence. Your body language flows from your mental & emotional state. Yes, you can induce an inward feeling of confidence by changing your body language, but it's temporary & requires constant vigilance combined with attention to communicating that feeling to others. So, you have two main options: 1. Hyper-focus on your body language & speech patterns for the rest of your life in order to project confidence - or - 2. Build confidence from within through physical fitness, interpersonal relationships, therapy, intellectual activities, etc. I think the second option is healthier long-term. While the first option can have limited situational usefulness, e.g. a job interview, it's still more effective if you're also doing the work of option #2.
Most people are too self centered to even read other people’s body language. Never mind even doing it correctly. And I hope your are safe out there in LA Dee. 🙏🏾
What Aba n Preach were getting at is people generally dont care what you got going on because they focused on whatever they got going on. Yeah people will judge someone or something that sticks out or stands out to them, but those little things vary person to person obviously. People dont all care about the same shit, like how I’ve never in my life noticed or cared about a single thing that man mentioned. Damn straight ive silently judged or clowned people in my life for goofy or stupid things, but 9/10 times the person im judging is doing something that stood out to me personally at the time. Then I might make a joke to someone or some people around me *then* they take notice. Most importantly tho, I also forgot about most of those instances ive judged or clowned people. Forgot about the shit just as fast as I noticed it, things like that only stay as retained memories if it keeps being brought up to you or if you keep thinking about it after it happens. Even when people care we usually still dont. For *most* things of course. Even if people are always judging, nobody is always aware and people still really dont care. Same way you constantly tell us you really dont care about none of these people you react to, even if you have your thoughts and opinions about them at the time. Even memes. Think of all the memes we’ve seen of people doing dumb shit over the years. How much of it you remember? There’s definitely a mix between things people do actually being defining/core memories in how you remember them and you forgetting though, i’m just saying we forget most the things we think about anyway. So we don’t care.
Rule número uno in literally everything here… don’t care what other people think. Whether you do good or bad, people will still find something to say. I guess the point in the video is to not give a shit what other people think or say about you… lmfao. Aba and Preach kill me!
I think a lot of people come off not as attractive as they could be because they’re simply unaware so yeah that might seem ridiculous but it makes sense
The people who make these types of videos are the ones who are insecure. They made this false narrative that you have to look a certain way at all times.
Maybe you need to study some of these red pill videos, your ability to read women is completely off lmao there’s literally nothing at all I find attractive about this man ew 💀
Y’all always over here getting in mens asses can see stop making videos just embarrassing and making men look bad women are out here doing the most wild shady shit 😂😂
These men make themselves and other men look bad and there are countless videos covering women who do the exact same thing. Two things can be condemned at the same time.
Any man who genuinely calls himself an “alpha male” already looses all of his credibility
I mean I feel you….but what about all these women calling themselves “ queens “ and “ alpha women “ ? lol I get both are cringe but we also gotta keep it real lol
@@MMAopinions-g8qno woman is calling herself alpha, where you hear this at? 😭
@@SkyClipz ….do you have a IG bro? The whole “ alpha female “ thing as cringe as it is has literally been a thing for a while now just like the “ women in men’s fields “ bs 🙄😂
@ bro i didnt even know this 😭😭 but i thought the “womens in mens field” thing was a joke? 😭
@@SkyClipzthe "women in men fields" IS a joke lol. I've seen some people say alpha women though.
There’s women out there who don’t even think men should use umbrellas when it’s raining so I’m not surprised by this
Their trolling. If that's a serious statement from a woman. Then she shouldn't be in a relationship
Dee! I was just thinking about you, hope you’re doing well and stay safe. ❤
Yea I wonder if she was affected by the fire in LA
Hope you stay safe Dee we all know things are crazy out there
Very alpha to be worried about how you look from all angles 24/7
They really are a mess
Also hoping you’re doing ok, was thinking about you with the LA fires
I'm convinced that the "alphas" are running out of ideas
Saying stop looking frustrated means stop having emotions basically
I would clown those vids, but sadly there’s plenty of people out here pre-judging you based off how you do any and everything. My little cousin literally got dumped because his girl didn’t like the way he randomly danced at a party. Now anytime we talk, he’ll say “I should’ve kept it cool & just leaned back.” 😂😭🥴
That sucks I hope he finds a girl that would dance with him❤
@ Thanks, I hope so too. No lie, she really has him not even into dancing anymore. He felt real goofy after. I told him to keep being him and he’ll find someone who’s down with it.
Your cousin was done a favor. She didn’t really like him.
@@devin3955 Yeah that’s what I told him. That she was searching hard for something that gave her the “ick” so she could leave, but he really think it was him dancing smh He’s still in his first year in college, so he’s gonna see losing that bird wasn’t the end of the world lol
At least she didn't break up with him via the caption of a TikTok video that's just a loop of him dancing and a bunch of laughing emojis. That's kind of what I expect from Gen Z/Alpha and anything even an ounce more humanizing is a win. 😅
Hope you keeping safe, Dee. Not just from the fire but also from the smoke.
Furthermore not everyone is not attracted to the same body languages.
So if you got "it" there will be a group of people that think you got it and there will be a group of people that think you dont got it. And vice versa
Glad to see others had the same mindset. We hope you’re safe.💜
😂 nah that guy can’t be serious, ain’t no way
As a man you shouldn’t be bending over unless you’re deadlifting 💯
😂😂😂
LOL. Y’all have issues
😂😂😂
o plz bendtoven .
Exactly no shits in this body. Let your shit serve you 😤
The sad part is a lot of these dudes are doing this not even genuinely to help men be more masculine, but for rage bait and ironically some of them turn into male “ pick me’s “ and start just trashing anything dudes do that are not considered “ masculine “ just for women to agree with him and like his content. I do agree with Dee about the posture thing though he did have a point there lol
Hope you get better Ms. Dee
I hate to say it but what this guying is saying does have a great deal of validity to it. It's basic human psychology. Our body language - our posture, the way we bend, the way we sit, the way we grip things, our tone of voice, etc - all go toward determining others' impressions of us. And it's not to say that people are all consciously analyzing the body language of others to form conclusions about them. No. This ish happens subconsciously! You might just consciously think of a stranger that you've seen only for a little while, as being arrogant but you can't even explain how or why you think that. It's because the way the person moves matches the mannerisms you've seen in other arrogant people, but this comparison was done subconsciously.
So this guy does have a valid point. So don't follow his advice if you don't want to come off seeming as a conceited person obsessed with making an alpha impression. 🤣
Make lotion serve you too is crazy 😂😂😂😂
Apple and peach
😁yass. great when seperate but when combined...
Dee!!! I’m sending my prayers to you rn since you are a LA Native. You were in my brain soon as i saw the news 💗
I hope everything is well 🙏🏻
I understand the annoyance, but I do agree with the body language video. Women need them as well. I was taught by trainer to stand up tall. It helps feel better walking and more powerful. So it does matter in a way. MEN definitely need to have these dayum classes. They looking ridiculous. The most important part is feel confident and be it.
…..so what classes should women start having because ughhh 😬😬😂
@MMAopinions-g8q Theres hundreds of etiquette classes for women. Especially young girls as young at 5. They just take money and often affluence to maintain. However thrre are now videos. Now I wouldn't have an obessesion with these classes. However on the right occasion. These classes are great for money genders. Especially during job interviews, conferences and first dates if of age.
@MMAopinions-g8q I think men need to stop focusing on city girls and stop ignoring women especially from the church who have taken these lessons. Yet y'all keep following city girls online and complaining 🤣
I get it, its image. But guy in the clip looks awkward. Who sits down back all arched, head stiff then sneaky scoots his foot to open his legs wider. He's in his head and it shows. Looks less confident and defeats the purpose.
I think the "it" in, "got it," is confidence.
Your body language flows from your mental & emotional state. Yes, you can induce an inward feeling of confidence by changing your body language, but it's temporary & requires constant vigilance combined with attention to communicating that feeling to others.
So, you have two main options:
1. Hyper-focus on your body language & speech patterns for the rest of your life in order to project confidence - or -
2. Build confidence from within through physical fitness, interpersonal relationships, therapy, intellectual activities, etc.
I think the second option is healthier long-term. While the first option can have limited situational usefulness, e.g. a job interview, it's still more effective if you're also doing the work of option #2.
Most people are too self centered to even read other people’s body language. Never mind even doing it correctly. And I hope your are safe out there in LA Dee. 🙏🏾
*reads title*
Me: Aahh yes Alpha Male Olympics 😏😎🍿🥃
Dee! I hope you're doing okay. Ive been thinking about you ❤
What Aba n Preach were getting at is people generally dont care what you got going on because they focused on whatever they got going on.
Yeah people will judge someone or something that sticks out or stands out to them, but those little things vary person to person obviously. People dont all care about the same shit, like how I’ve never in my life noticed or cared about a single thing that man mentioned. Damn straight ive silently judged or clowned people in my life for goofy or stupid things, but 9/10 times the person im judging is doing something that stood out to me personally at the time. Then I might make a joke to someone or some people around me *then* they take notice.
Most importantly tho, I also forgot about most of those instances ive judged or clowned people. Forgot about the shit just as fast as I noticed it, things like that only stay as retained memories if it keeps being brought up to you or if you keep thinking about it after it happens.
Even when people care we usually still dont. For *most* things of course.
Even if people are always judging, nobody is always aware and people still really dont care. Same way you constantly tell us you really dont care about none of these people you react to, even if you have your thoughts and opinions about them at the time.
Even memes. Think of all the memes we’ve seen of people doing dumb shit over the years. How much of it you remember?
There’s definitely a mix between things people do actually being defining/core memories in how you remember them and you forgetting though, i’m just saying we forget most the things we think about anyway. So we don’t care.
Rule número uno in literally everything here… don’t care what other people think. Whether you do good or bad, people will still find something to say. I guess the point in the video is to not give a shit what other people think or say about you… lmfao. Aba and Preach kill me!
Hope u feel better Dee ❤
We too old for that 😂 who cares about being alpha? Maybe the people who have too much free time
I think a lot of people come off not as attractive as they could be because they’re simply unaware so yeah that might seem ridiculous but it makes sense
This is deep rooted insecurity. Its sad and theres nothing alpha about it.
Chile
Dee I love you with everything in me
The people who make these types of videos are the ones who are insecure. They made this false narrative that you have to look a certain way at all times.
These people are trolls
Judging by dees reaction to the white guy ,she definitely was attracted 😂😂,you can literally see it in her face 😂😂
Maybe you need to study some of these red pill videos, your ability to read women is completely off lmao there’s literally nothing at all I find attractive about this man ew 💀
bros a dweeb😭😭
BYE WHAT…?
Y’all always over here getting in mens asses can see stop making videos just embarrassing and making men look bad women are out here doing the most wild shady shit 😂😂
These men make themselves and other men look bad and there are countless videos covering women who do the exact same thing. Two things can be condemned at the same time.
Uh, she has done videos of them talking about women doing ridiculous stuff too.