The poor girl never lifted her head. She doesn’t feel loved. That’s how she ended up pregnant, chasing someone to love her. Very sad. I hope she finds healing.
The mother saying she wouldn't let her daughter have an abortion is telling. So you force her to have a child she didn't want and then berate her for not being ready to parent, and then berate her again for leaving her son where she thought he was best. Like, how does she not see her own hypocrisy?
Because mums a full blown narcissist. She’s calling out the dad for the state of his house but that’s the same house you abandoned your daughter in. She basically told her daughter she should be grateful for not being left on a street corner. She thinks she’s better than because she’s got guardianship.
Truth is she wanted her daughter to end up just like her. Her daughter didn’t want children because of the trauma she’s been through. But these hoes always in competition with their daughters
To me honesty, it seems like she trying to make up for her F UPS with her own daughter, son! She being selfish..... but yes I also agree that's the reason she made every move she made against her daughter, to make her look BAD JUST TO MAKE HERSELF LOOK LIKE SOMEONE SHE'S BEEN LONGING TO BE SEEN AS...... I'm sorry but damn that's just what I see
The "mother" has a lot of nerves. Trinity wasn't ready to be a mom and wanted to have an abortion but Sabrina convinced her to keep the baby. Then she wants to act surprised that Trinity abandoned her child?.. How can you expect Trinity to be a mom when you were never her mother? Get off of that imaginary high horse!
@@naomiv7133And you know what get to me more when they want to lecture with their holier than thou attitude when they should be the last people to speak,
You would think that the Mom would have more grace towards her daughter since she did the same thing to her. The daughter doesn’t know how to be a mother because she didn’t have an example.
That’s the whole problem right there. A mother figure in her life would’ve made a huge difference in her upbringing. I’m wondering where the birth control was in both of their situations.
@@longbranch11207Yes but it starts from the mom. She abandoned her daughter first, leaves for a long time until she comes back, only for it to obviously be known that it was for her granchild and not her, and now the mother who wasn't there wants to criticize another mother and her behavior when it's clear that her daughter is just doing what she did to her. This is what a cycle is
All women who abandon their kids will say I I I because they are self centred people. Pregnancy is so damn hard. It deconstructs a woman into readiness for real motherhood. That woman is selfish that is why she abandoned her baby girl. She doesn't really know her child. She needs to start from basics.
Mom expect her daughter to be fully mature and a grown woman but she never had a mother in her life who was there for her so how can she behave in a way she was never taught.
@@GoneColoring moms was definitely in the wrong for not being there and then acting all high and mighty. But I ain't letting baby girl slide either. If her mom didn't step in her son would be on the show 20 years later talking about all the trauma his mama put on him. And it wouldn't be nobody else's fault but hers.
But the daughter knew what she was doing was wrong and she wanna complain what her mom did to her and wanna do some of the same shit to her son no I’m sorry but that’s not an excuse to treat your child that way
The mom sounds dumb asf, “I left her with someone I knew could take care of her” then in the next breath bashing him for not having water…. Also being able to see her own pain and struggles but not her daughters… I’m not saying the daughter is right for leaving her son but in her mind she did the same shit. She left her baby with someone she knew could care for him because she wasn’t mentally ready….
I agree that the mother shouldn't have bashed her baby daddy, but I don't fault her for leaving her daughter to be raised by her dad. Fathers should be the default parent, when a mother is down and out.
The grandmother is totally delusional. She can see the speck of dust in the eyes of her daughter and estranged husband but not the whole log in her eye.
Does the mom realize that SHE STARTED THE CYCLE! Her being an addict caused all this trauma. She abandoned her daughter so why’s she now the victim and have not a clue why her daughter’s doing the same? The mom is so emotionally unstable and childlike. This is a sad situation🤦🏾♀️
Yeah but I would rather the mother have the baby than her. The daughter doesn’t want the baby, she’s just doing all of this bc she’s thinks it’s what she’s suppose to do.
This one made me cry. Mom is so caught up in her now experience that she underestimates the effect that her lack of presence in her daughter's life had on her.
That and the fact the girl said she didn’t want to have the baby but the mom persisted. I think a part of the mom likes to be needed and kinda wants to rectify the mistakes she made in her youth.. I also think the daughter might have followed in the mother’s footsteps a little. They need to go to family and individual counseling it will help them
@@rotcli def agree with you. The daughter expressed she didn't want a child. The mom convinced her to keep it. Just bc her daughter carried her baby, doesnt mean shes going to be ready when she gave birth to the son. The mom has so many expectations on her daughter, when shes the reason she feels the way she does. She needs to open her eyes, and remember when she was in her daughters shoes. Until then she isnt going to be ready to properly mend and heal the relationship
I bet she probably had other kids AFTER the young lady she abandoned. And that's the worse kinda hurt: the be abandoned by a parent and know they had other kids they kept and cared for.
This lady is crazy.... The daughter was telling her that she wanted an abortion because she didn't want to be a mom. Then she told her daughter "I won't allow you to get an abortion". So the daughter listened to the mom. Then the daughter is literally forced to leave the son with her mother and now the mom is complaining about this??? What about how hard it was for Trinity's dad to be left with your daughter?? And the grandma is showing up for her grandson but how come she didn't show up for her daughter?? Just eww
Exactly!! I kind of wanted the dad to go off on the mom low key 😆 She got off too easy for me. She had alot of nerve criticizing the dad when at least he was there. Wish I was in that audience. Sheesh
Early.... daughter is just following in moms footsteps..nerve of mom to call out the dads living conditions when she left her daughter in those conditions..mom sat on the stage and put the daughter down for the same things she did to the daughter...then for mom to say she didnt didnt wanna raise kids again when she didnt raise her kids...omg this woman!! Awful...shout out to dad though!
I do believe Mom got her grandson trying to make it up when she wasn’t there for her daughter. I hope they can work it out. I feel so sad for the daughter acting out because she said she was a Bandan once twice because her father I want her to come home after having a baby or whatever and now the attack on her. Poor babies
Nah some ppl have big bangs and it makes them look down like emo ppl or she might be on the spectrum n that's why she doesn't communicate well or look ppl n the eye
Mom abandoned her children due to drugs & now the daughter is doing the same. 2 grown adults that need to stop putting blame on everyone else but themselves. BREAK THE CYCLE!! 🥴
@@willybeama1 no shit sherlock. we know cycles exist which is why i said break the cycle. i hate when y’all read to respond instead of comprehend. FOH.
The daughter was never on drugs, she said several times she wasn't ready to be a mom, because she didn't have a mom to teach her or prepare her.... So it's not the same... I know all about abandonment and it doesn't always lead to drugs or alcohol..
@@JasmineChantel actually the show is over 40 minutes long…with their segment alone being over 30 minutes long….perhaps you should see all of it before deeming others as “so easily fooled”…
Mom is trying to make up because she didn’t take care of her own kid & that’s wild. & she left her daughter with her dad knowing his living conditions. Then she keeps telling her daughter “you left him”. YOU LEFT HER!! From generation to generation smh…
I felt for the grandmother, until she tried to bash her baby daddy. She lost me with that because the father may have struggled to provide, but at least he was there. The mom knows she messed up with her daughter, and now she's going hard on raising her grandson out of guilt. It's great that she stepped up but that doesn't make up for the times that she wasn't there for her daughter. Trinity, pick your head up, baby, and focus on loving yourself. Use this time while your mom has your child to strengthen yourself and girl please don't have any more children right now. Wait.
RIGHT SMH 😒😑 THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I SAID TO MYSELF, THE MOM IS SO RUTHLESS, AND UNSTABLE. IT'S ALSO THE FACT THAT THE MOM STILL GOT THE NERVE TO NOT TALK ABOUT THE DAUGHTER, BUT WANNA ONLY TALK ABOUT THE GRANDCHILD ON HERE WHEN SHE LITERALLY HAVEN'T BEEN THERE FOR HER DAUGHTER FOR ME 💯🙄🙄.
Mom might be subconsciously making it up to herself by being a good grandma but her daughter needs to feel that mom can do and feel the same protection for her. I wish them healing ❤
This girl was abandoned by her mother mother was on drugs, left her. Her dad is so much trauma with all these three individual and the child is involved so now he’s going to go through that trauma all over. Everybody needs to go to therapy and get some help that’s it.
love karamo’s ability to start a conversation between the wounded inner child, and the adult seeking support. helping give this young mother the tools to address her childhood trauma and build a healthier relationship with her own parents for the sake of her son.
@longbranch11207 the mom talked her into keeping the baby when she wanted to have an abortion. She knew from the beginning she couldn't take care of him
If she herself knew that she couldn’t handle the pressure of having a child, then don’t do adult things that place you in that situation. Not saying the mother is right but the daughter isn’t a victim. beating your child and calling him bitches, no excuses whatsoever, my mom was very abusive to us and none of my siblings are abusive towards their children. Time to break the cycle and stop making excuses
@@longbranch11207 that's easier said than done. No, it still isn't ok what she did. But it's proven fact that up to 1/3 of children that have been abused or neglected will subject their own children to the same thing. Simply saying "well don't have sex" is being very unrealistic
It’s a generational curse. I can’t sit here and belittle the mom because we don’t know what mom been through either or if she has abandonment issues from her parents… I love that mom is trying to make up for lost time by taking care of the grandchild, and I truthfully think that they both need therapy to release this toxicity. They each could’ve done better as parents, but what can they do moving forward to break this generational curse? This is what needs to be the center of attention. The traumas and the anger needs to be released. Heal together.
It’s wild seeing this cycle repeat itself. The mom wants the daughter to be better than her without an example. Expecting more from her daughter than she did of herself.
Mom learnt her lesson for abandoning her daughter, she wants her daughter to do the right thing. I'm pained cos she could not lift her face to look at her mom
Mom is a classic example of "its not what you say, it's how you say it". Mom sorry but you're love and manner is defensive and aggressive, you need to soften up. I understand that maybe based on your background, upbringing and/or environment soft ain't it, but you need to try and retrain yourself. You and your daughter can take the journey of growth together, y'all both got growing to do.
The fact the mom doesn’t understand where her daughter is coming from is kind of disappointing. She wants her daughter to jump & trust her but her daughter barely knows her.
This lady pissed me off how you wasn't there for your kid and expect to talk to her the way you do and got the nerve to make rules on someone else child because you didn't care for your own
I’m so glad for the mother I had. She passed away 16 years ago. She’s still the best mother even in her absence than some moms I know that are still on this earth. #forevergrateful
This is such a clear cycle of abuse and abandonment! Mom is in a better place and just wants everyone to fall in line... but after the mess she helped to create, it can't work. Hope they can get the help they need to heal. As always, well done Karamo!❤
I had to jump in the comments cuz her mom was pissing me off, cuz I’m tryna see how you don’t understand your child is doing the SAME EXACT thing with 3 KIDS! You did as a mother to her and to judge her or feel how she feels about the situation really throws me !! She was so focused on defending herself, what she did, and what she’s doing she seemingly forgets you abandoned your daughter and didn’t comeback in her life at a age where you can make up the time . Whew I was getting mad . Like is she serious?? She needs to have a lot of grace for her daughter like people had for her .
This one made me tear up a little bit. The importance of keeping your family relationships strong after heartache and turmoil is so important. Especially when bringing young ones into the world.
Karamo did suuuuch a good job with the mother and calling her through the triggers. Pointing out how the daughter never lifted her head up not once. So amazing.
I noticed that he does this a lot and to be honest with you this is one of the reasons why I stopped really tuning into his show because he allows abusive behavior from women
This was so good and a tear jerker. The mom is struggling with guilt in my opinion which inadvertently shows when her daughter makes mimicking steps. The difference is her daughter is sticking around and struggling with growing pains but not leaving her kid. She doesn’t have the tools from a mother as an example so you have to give Grace. Plus, if I was gramma, my second chance with my daughter and her child would mean the world to me ESPECIALLY with me understanding my daughter and what’s she’s going through and how she needs time😊
11:49 How the mother just lie like that, talking about she fight for her daughter as hard as she fights for her grandson. She's been fighting her daughter since she came on stage. I say, she can't face herself because her daughter reminds her of her. She can't sit with herself for too long. That's why she lashes out on everyone and brings up everybody else's flaws and struggles like she lived a miserable life all of her life. She needs therapy and the daughter needs therapy too for having a mother like that. On top of that, she even had issues with her dad. They aren't emotionally supportive enough for me. I hope that girl gets help and succeeds for the betterment of herself and her son
Grandma talking abt being a parent again, when she was never one to begin with. Shes tryna create a bond w her grandchild and she doesn't even have one with her daughter. Imagine watching your mom care for a child you didn't even want when she had no issue abandoning you. The way gma speaks to her child is horrendous.This whole situation is sooo heartbreaking.
I love that He was able to articulate so perfectly how she was feeling. You could see it reaching her with every word! When the daughter hugged her you could tell she needed that hug
This episode broke me as a young women who struggles with a relationship with my mother ❤ I pray trinity heals & gets stable enough to have fully custody of her son❤
How is her mom for talk but she never had her daughter she needs to take accountability for the cycle SHE started! I don’t think Karamo shook this lady enough.
Oh my goshhhhhhhh Karamo you always got me cryinggggg at work. This was beautiful. I hope they continue to work on their relationship. They all have a lot of growing to do still.
The daughter isn't right, and I don't condone her behavior. However, the Mom abandoned her & is treating her harshly for doing the same thing. She needs direction, empathy, constructive criticism, and healing. I do love in the end, the mother reaching out to her daughter & listening to her.
The mom can't see that her daughter doing what she was doing with her. It's actually crazy to me how she is acting towards her daughter when she left her! She acts as if the daughter is doing her son worse than she did her and thats the wild part. It's almost like she's projecting her faults onto the daughter
Karamo you are doing amazing work, the way you listen and notice people’s different perspective while also connecting the dots and being able to articulate it. Please keep doing what you’re doing - you’re helping people see themselves, their shortcomings and their strengths.
Wow, that was so powerful. You can see and hear the hurt in all of them. I pray that healing comes swiftly and that they have the best mother and daughter relationship ever. Thank God for the father as well.
Karamo let the mom get off wayyyyy too easy! He should have held her more accountable for her role in whats happening. And the NERVE of her to talk bad about the father...
Just because you told someone you were leaving doesn’t mean you should abandon your child. The mother needs to be held accountable for something. She’s still being selfish like she’s going through withdrawals or something. I had a feeling she was on drugs before and she probably still is. She need to hold her daughter and tell her that she loves her. She needs to learn how to talk to her daughter. Her behavior is disgusting.
Such a real episode. I can feel everyone. It's definitely a pattern but they're both still babies who need the same thing... Abandonment issues. One thing that is for sure is that life ❤️ happens but it's what we do with it from here on. Tools and understanding are much needed. Prayers going up. And... She as a child was honest enough to say I'm not ready to be a mother. I'm grateful that the grandmother said
The poor girl never lifted her head. She doesn’t feel loved. That’s how she ended up pregnant, chasing someone to love her. Very sad. I hope she finds healing.
And that’s just sad that poor girl
EXACTLY
Clock it!
very true.
yep you called it right wow
The mother saying she wouldn't let her daughter have an abortion is telling. So you force her to have a child she didn't want and then berate her for not being ready to parent, and then berate her again for leaving her son where she thought he was best. Like, how does she not see her own hypocrisy?
Yes! My thoughts exactly
Because mums a full blown narcissist. She’s calling out the dad for the state of his house but that’s the same house you abandoned your daughter in. She basically told her daughter she should be grateful for not being left on a street corner. She thinks she’s better than because she’s got guardianship.
Truth is she wanted her daughter to end up just like her. Her daughter didn’t want children because of the trauma she’s been through. But these hoes always in competition with their daughters
To me honesty, it seems like she trying to make up for her F UPS with her own daughter, son! She being selfish..... but yes I also agree that's the reason she made every move she made against her daughter, to make her look BAD JUST TO MAKE HERSELF LOOK LIKE SOMEONE SHE'S BEEN LONGING TO BE SEEN AS...... I'm sorry but damn that's just what I see
The "mother" has a lot of nerves. Trinity wasn't ready to be a mom and wanted to have an abortion but Sabrina convinced her to keep the baby. Then she wants to act surprised that Trinity abandoned her child?.. How can you expect Trinity to be a mom when you were never her mother? Get off of that imaginary high horse!
Thank You
These foul moms forcing children to keep babies then mad when they don't look after their kids
@@naomiv7133And you know what get to me more when they want to lecture with their holier than thou attitude when they should be the last people to speak,
Same thing I said‼️‼️‼️‼️the pot calling the damn kettle black
@@ZaniyaKeyriaLol!! You guys are angry... Lol! Thank God for Karamo keeping everyone calm.. 😅😅😅❤❤❤❤
If you weren’t ready and you did all what mom stated… Leave that child where he’s safe!
You would think that the Mom would have more grace towards her daughter since she did the same thing to her. The daughter doesn’t know how to be a mother because she didn’t have an example.
Exactly
Beautifully said😊
That’s the whole problem right there. A mother figure in her life would’ve made a huge difference in her upbringing. I’m wondering where the birth control was in both of their situations.
I'm trying to figure out why the audience keeps clapping for the mother.
Right
They're an audience. They have to clap at some point 😂😂
It’s the light up applause sign
Literally thats them yt people clapping gotta be
Right
How she condemning her daughter for the same thing she did?! BFFR.
The mom has ALOT of nerves. All you hear is I,I,I...what about the trauma you caused your own Dwyer daughter
Dang. As soon as I read your comment, they started the mom's confessional video and the first thing I heard was, "I I I" 😂
When is taking her of the grandson which she doesn’t have up. The daughter needs to grow up and take accountability as well
@@longbranch11207Yes but it starts from the mom. She abandoned her daughter first, leaves for a long time until she comes back, only for it to obviously be known that it was for her granchild and not her, and now the mother who wasn't there wants to criticize another mother and her behavior when it's clear that her daughter is just doing what she did to her. This is what a cycle is
All women who abandon their kids will say I I I because they are self centred people. Pregnancy is so damn hard. It deconstructs a woman into readiness for real motherhood.
That woman is selfish that is why she abandoned her baby girl. She doesn't really know her child. She needs to start from basics.
EXACTLY
Mom expect her daughter to be fully mature and a grown woman but she never had a mother in her life who was there for her so how can she behave in a way she was never taught.
@@markydan1232 Okay good for you. I’m only talking about the mom’s expectations on her daughter being hypocritical.
@@GoneColoring moms was definitely in the wrong for not being there and then acting all high and mighty. But I ain't letting baby girl slide either. If her mom didn't step in her son would be on the show 20 years later talking about all the trauma his mama put on him. And it wouldn't be nobody else's fault but hers.
@@markydan1232 I agree with you
But the daughter knew what she was doing was wrong and she wanna complain what her mom did to her and wanna do some of the same shit to her son no I’m sorry but that’s not an excuse to treat your child that way
@@markydan1232 no if her mom didn’t step in she would’ve had an abortion like she and her father felt was right.
The mom sounds dumb asf, “I left her with someone I knew could take care of her” then in the next breath bashing him for not having water…. Also being able to see her own pain and struggles but not her daughters… I’m not saying the daughter is right for leaving her son but in her mind she did the same shit. She left her baby with someone she knew could care for him because she wasn’t mentally ready….
This the one!!! 🎯
Her mother is crazy as hell
She lacks accountability so she’s pointing the finger at everyone but herself
I agree that the mother shouldn't have bashed her baby daddy, but I don't fault her for leaving her daughter to be raised by her dad. Fathers should be the default parent, when a mother is down and out.
The grandmother is totally delusional. She can see the speck of dust in the eyes of her daughter and estranged husband but not the whole log in her eye.
Does the mom realize that SHE STARTED THE CYCLE! Her being an addict caused all this trauma. She abandoned her daughter so why’s she now the victim and have not a clue why her daughter’s doing the same?
The mom is so emotionally unstable and childlike. This is a sad situation🤦🏾♀️
The mom is a gaslighter w/ narcissistic traits.. how dare she abandon her child and now she is putting her down.. I wish I was in that audience
@@mcmik3yyhaving a narc mother myself, I know one when I see one. She fake fake right down to that fake hug, that fake apology
Yeah but I would rather the mother have the baby than her. The daughter doesn’t want the baby, she’s just doing all of this bc she’s thinks it’s what she’s suppose to do.
This one made me cry. Mom is so caught up in her now experience that she underestimates the effect that her lack of presence in her daughter's life had on her.
That and the fact the girl said she didn’t want to have the baby but the mom persisted. I think a part of the mom likes to be needed and kinda wants to rectify the mistakes she made in her youth.. I also think the daughter might have followed in the mother’s footsteps a little. They need to go to family and individual counseling it will help them
@@rotcli def agree with you. The daughter expressed she didn't want a child. The mom convinced her to keep it. Just bc her daughter carried her baby, doesnt mean shes going to be ready when she gave birth to the son. The mom has so many expectations on her daughter, when shes the reason she feels the way she does. She needs to open her eyes, and remember when she was in her daughters shoes. Until then she isnt going to be ready to properly mend and heal the relationship
@@simplyy__jada yes, all her daughter is doing is repeating that cycle and she can’t take it. Hard facing that in the mirror
@@rotcl Now shes trying to overcompensate by being the good "grandmother"
She said be a full time mother AGAIN….. when were you a full time mother 😅😅😅😅
I was just gonna say she’s just talking out her ass tbh
Took me too long to find this comment 😩
I bet she probably had other kids AFTER the young lady she abandoned. And that's the worse kinda hurt: the be abandoned by a parent and know they had other kids they kept and cared for.
She said she had 3 kids
@@zaubererlauch535I missed that negl.
She’s coming at her father, but he was there! Leave that man alone. He had to raise a child ALONE. What a narcissist.
“I Didn’t come in and out of her life, I left and didn’t come back”… that’s the problem. I hate how she said that like that’s going to make it better
Yes, she had a nerve.
This lady is crazy.... The daughter was telling her that she wanted an abortion because she didn't want to be a mom. Then she told her daughter "I won't allow you to get an abortion". So the daughter listened to the mom. Then the daughter is literally forced to leave the son with her mother and now the mom is complaining about this??? What about how hard it was for Trinity's dad to be left with your daughter?? And the grandma is showing up for her grandson but how come she didn't show up for her daughter?? Just eww
Exactly!! I kind of wanted the dad to go off on the mom low key 😆 She got off too easy for me. She had alot of nerve criticizing the dad when at least he was there. Wish I was in that audience. Sheesh
It’s probably because the grandchild is a boy. These women are sick sometimes, they wrong their daughters so hard then pretend it never happened
Glad she gave her child the chance to live
Early.... daughter is just following in moms footsteps..nerve of mom to call out the dads living conditions when she left her daughter in those conditions..mom sat on the stage and put the daughter down for the same things she did to the daughter...then for mom to say she didnt didnt wanna raise kids again when she didnt raise her kids...omg this woman!! Awful...shout out to dad though!
THISSSSSSSSSS
Smh after the mom made her keep the baby to begin with!!
I do believe Mom got her grandson trying to make it up when she wasn’t there for her daughter. I hope they can work it out. I feel so sad for the daughter acting out because she said she was a Bandan once twice because her father I want her to come home after having a baby or whatever and now the attack on her. Poor babies
Mom really acting like her pass doesn’t matter and her daughter isn’t how she is because of her is crazy to me
💯💯💯💯💯
Daughter keeps holding her head down. She’s broken, give her a break mother. You were not there for your own daughter!!!
Mom is broken too.
Right! Its the AUDACITY for me! Does the mom not remember she did the same thing to her?? Where's the humility? Grace? Accountability??
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😘
Nah some ppl have big bangs and it makes them look down like emo ppl or she might be on the spectrum n that's why she doesn't communicate well or look ppl n the eye
The mother wanted someone to be there to take care of her daughter while she was on drugs but she can’t give that same grace!
Mom abandoned her children due to drugs & now the daughter is doing the same. 2 grown adults that need to stop putting blame on everyone else but themselves. BREAK THE CYCLE!! 🥴
Easier said than done. Cycles exist for reasons.
@@willybeama1 no shit sherlock. we know cycles exist which is why i said break the cycle. i hate when y’all read to respond instead of comprehend. FOH.
I believe that’s why they went to Karamo. They’ve overcome the drugs and now they’re admitting their faults. Seems as if they ARE breaking the cycle…
The daughter was never on drugs, she said several times she wasn't ready to be a mom, because she didn't have a mom to teach her or prepare her.... So it's not the same... I know all about abandonment and it doesn't always lead to drugs or alcohol..
@@JasmineChantel actually the show is over 40 minutes long…with their segment alone being over 30 minutes long….perhaps you should see all of it before deeming others as “so easily fooled”…
“Raise your kids or you will end up raising their kids!” Prime example
Amen
A damn lie!
@@rickiericktv3320😂
Bammmm!!!!
@@aymani1 😂😂😂
Mom is trying to make up because she didn’t take care of her own kid & that’s wild. & she left her daughter with her dad knowing his living conditions. Then she keeps telling her daughter “you left him”. YOU LEFT HER!! From generation to generation smh…
The mom is so hypocritical lol.
I felt for the grandmother, until she tried to bash her baby daddy. She lost me with that because the father may have struggled to provide, but at least he was there. The mom knows she messed up with her daughter, and now she's going hard on raising her grandson out of guilt. It's great that she stepped up but that doesn't make up for the times that she wasn't there for her daughter.
Trinity, pick your head up, baby, and focus on loving yourself. Use this time while your mom has your child to strengthen yourself and girl please don't have any more children right now. Wait.
It was so sad to notice that she did not lift her head up once, hopefully they can mend their relationship and she can walk with her head high
That mama needs to be accountable. Also she does make excuses for what she has done in leaving her daughter
Trinity sitting there was her head down and tilted . Her mom doesn't seem to care about her at all
She doesn't have anyone to support. When she realizes this she'll soar and fly away.
RIGHT SMH 😒😑 THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I SAID TO MYSELF, THE MOM IS SO RUTHLESS, AND UNSTABLE. IT'S ALSO THE FACT THAT THE MOM STILL GOT THE NERVE TO NOT TALK ABOUT THE DAUGHTER, BUT WANNA ONLY TALK ABOUT THE GRANDCHILD ON HERE WHEN SHE LITERALLY HAVEN'T BEEN THERE FOR HER DAUGHTER FOR ME 💯🙄🙄.
Sound like the mama trying to raise the grandchild like she should’ve raised her daughter
What’s funny is that they often do that
That baby is hurting and she needs love and understanding.
That mom talks to daughter like a goat with a ferocious mean attitude and fake apologizes
AND ON another note! KARAMO THAT SUIT IS CLEAN! 👀
The mother is horrible omg!!! Poor daughter
Cutting up onions over here 😭I Pray that the family will heal one day.
The look on that daddy’s face at the very end😢
The pain in his eyes...
Mom might be subconsciously making it up to herself by being a good grandma but her daughter needs to feel that mom can do and feel the same protection for her. I wish them healing ❤
The hypocrisy and lack of self reflection of this mom is BEYOND WORDS 😧
Put your head up,so aggressive towards her it made me cry to the core.
The moms acting like she didn’t do that to her own daughter 😂😂
How can she not see that her daughter is repeating her behavior. She has some nerve she has no room to judge her daughter. Disgusting
This girl was abandoned by her mother mother was on drugs, left her. Her dad is so much trauma with all these three individual and the child is involved so now he’s going to go through that trauma all over. Everybody needs to go to therapy and get some help that’s it.
God Bless You Karamo. I believe you established a new cadence of peace in this family and it's up to them to maintain it.
love karamo’s ability to start a conversation between the wounded inner child, and the adult seeking support. helping give this young mother the tools to address her childhood trauma and build a healthier relationship with her own parents for the sake of her son.
I would absolutely hate to have her as a mom.
Indeed
She really feels low of her-self😪. The Mom needs to be damme- patience knowing she was not there to teach her how to be a mother!
Then she shouldn’t he having children if she can’t take care of her children herself
@longbranch11207 the mom talked her into keeping the baby when she wanted to have an abortion. She knew from the beginning she couldn't take care of him
@@ShayMiW you are right and that’s why the daughter might has the thought that her mom wants to take the child from her now
If she herself knew that she couldn’t handle the pressure of having a child, then don’t do adult things that place you in that situation. Not saying the mother is right but the daughter isn’t a victim. beating your child and calling him bitches, no excuses whatsoever, my mom was very abusive to us and none of my siblings are abusive towards their children. Time to break the cycle and stop making excuses
@@longbranch11207 that's easier said than done. No, it still isn't ok what she did. But it's proven fact that up to 1/3 of children that have been abused or neglected will subject their own children to the same thing. Simply saying "well don't have sex" is being very unrealistic
Sending you lots of love & hugs Trinity 🥺
Thank you love🧡🫶🏽🥺
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😘
This mom is NOT listening. She doesn't understand the pain she caused her daughter. They need to go to counseling together.
“Cause thats what keeps the head down.”
Poor baby girl.
It’s a generational curse. I can’t sit here and belittle the mom because we don’t know what mom been through either or if she has abandonment issues from her parents… I love that mom is trying to make up for lost time by taking care of the grandchild, and I truthfully think that they both need therapy to release this toxicity. They each could’ve done better as parents, but what can they do moving forward to break this generational curse? This is what needs to be the center of attention. The traumas and the anger needs to be released. Heal together.
Her head being titled makes my neck hurt 😂
When that weave is like that, it's the natural mannerism smh
This is the most disgusting mother I have seen on this show
The new thing is to call CPS on parents.
Karamo gonna lay it on the table 🤲🏾✨
That was beautiful - the way Karamo handled this was so beautiful. Hopefully, they will get additional help and heal together.
It’s wild seeing this cycle repeat itself. The mom wants the daughter to be better than her without an example. Expecting more from her daughter than she did of herself.
This turned out beautifully. Karamo looked so proud
Mom learnt her lesson for abandoning her daughter, she wants her daughter to do the right thing. I'm pained cos she could not lift her face to look at her mom
Mom is a classic example of "its not what you say, it's how you say it".
Mom sorry but you're love and manner is defensive and aggressive, you need to soften up. I understand that maybe based on your background, upbringing and/or environment soft ain't it, but you need to try and retrain yourself. You and your daughter can take the journey of growth together, y'all both got growing to do.
This is a great comment! More people need to give advice this way.
On point AGAIN Karomo!! My favorite thing about you is that you're always thinking what we're thinking. Well done!!😉😉😉
The fact the mom doesn’t understand where her daughter is coming from is kind of disappointing. She wants her daughter to jump & trust her but her daughter barely knows her.
Well this sounds like the pot calling the kettle black
This lady pissed me off how you wasn't there for your kid and expect to talk to her the way you do and got the nerve to make rules on someone else child because you didn't care for your own
Mom cannot confront her own doings, that’s why she’s running away when things get tough
I’m so glad for the mother I had. She passed away 16 years ago. She’s still the best mother even in her absence than some moms I know that are still on this earth. #forevergrateful
I thank God for my mother too😘she wasn't perfect but she tried 😘👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 bless her soul
This is such a clear cycle of abuse and abandonment! Mom is in a better place and just wants everyone to fall in line... but after the mess she helped to create, it can't work. Hope they can get the help they need to heal. As always, well done Karamo!❤
I had to jump in the comments cuz her mom was pissing me off, cuz I’m tryna see how you don’t understand your child is doing the SAME EXACT thing with 3 KIDS! You did as a mother to her and to judge her or feel how she feels about the situation really throws me !! She was so focused on defending herself, what she did, and what she’s doing she seemingly forgets you abandoned your daughter and didn’t comeback in her life at a age where you can make up the time . Whew I was getting mad . Like is she serious?? She needs to have a lot of grace for her daughter like people had for her .
Karamo is such a great listener and deliverer. He articulates very well.
Beautiful Episode. I pray for each of them. Our community is really growing ❤
It’s a saying that goes if you do not raise your children, you will raise your grandchildren. It’s a vicious cycle. I pray for their healing.
I loathe how the mom said I didn’t wanna raise a baby AGAIN like she ever raised a baby properly before this 😮💨🤦🏻♀️
This one had me in tears 😭
I think she has a good mom who is willing to change and be better.
Woosh they are in my prayers
Girl same I’m literally here crying ☹️💔
Got me over here bawling when she hugs and comforts her baby 😢
Omg I cried for That little girl. She’s holding on to so much pain.
She 1000% right, her mom took her son so she could prove that she could raise a child. And it's lowkey obvious.
The mother is a childish self centered narcissist that is abusive! Accountability PLEASE
Lord please give them strength, patience and understanding of one another. Bless that family and heal them.
This one made me tear up a little bit. The importance of keeping your family relationships strong after heartache and turmoil is so important. Especially when bringing young ones into the world.
Karamo did suuuuch a good job with the mother and calling her through the triggers. Pointing out how the daughter never lifted her head up not once. So amazing.
Karamo being too nice to the mom for me. She ignoring that she wasn’t there
Exactly!!!
AS ALWAYS!!! He does this a lot.
He said that like 20 times to her
Way too nice because the mother is pure trash.
I noticed that he does this a lot and to be honest with you this is one of the reasons why I stopped really tuning into his show because he allows abusive behavior from women
This was so good and a tear jerker. The mom is struggling with guilt in my opinion which inadvertently shows when her daughter makes mimicking steps. The difference is her daughter is sticking around and struggling with growing pains but not leaving her kid. She doesn’t have the tools from a mother as an example so you have to give Grace. Plus, if I was gramma, my second chance with my daughter and her child would mean the world to me ESPECIALLY with me understanding my daughter and what’s she’s going through and how she needs time😊
11:49 How the mother just lie like that, talking about she fight for her daughter as hard as she fights for her grandson. She's been fighting her daughter since she came on stage. I say, she can't face herself because her daughter reminds her of her. She can't sit with herself for too long. That's why she lashes out on everyone and brings up everybody else's flaws and struggles like she lived a miserable life all of her life. She needs therapy and the daughter needs therapy too for having a mother like that. On top of that, she even had issues with her dad. They aren't emotionally supportive enough for me. I hope that girl gets help and succeeds for the betterment of herself and her son
This is so right on.
Why do I cry every time I watch this show
Grandma talking abt being a parent again, when she was never one to begin with. Shes tryna create a bond w her grandchild and she doesn't even have one with her daughter. Imagine watching your mom care for a child you didn't even want when she had no issue abandoning you. The way gma speaks to her child is horrendous.This whole situation is sooo heartbreaking.
I love that He was able to articulate so perfectly how she was feeling. You could see it reaching her with every word! When the daughter hugged her you could tell she needed that hug
This episode broke me as a young women who struggles with a relationship with my mother ❤ I pray trinity heals & gets stable enough to have fully custody of her son❤
My heart goes out to her 😢 Stay strong beautiful
Mom is too loud and ignorant to hear what Karamo is saying
How is her mom for talk but she never had her daughter she needs to take accountability for the cycle SHE started! I don’t think Karamo shook this lady enough.
Mother your daughter is a reflection of you ma’am!!!
The mother is so forgetful of pain she caused her daughter.
16+ yrs. Her daughter is going through the exact situation she did to her daughter
Oh my goshhhhhhhh Karamo you always got me cryinggggg at work. This was beautiful. I hope they continue to work on their relationship. They all have a lot of growing to do still.
The daughter isn't right, and I don't condone her behavior. However, the Mom abandoned her & is treating her harshly for doing the same thing. She needs direction, empathy, constructive criticism, and healing. I do love in the end, the mother reaching out to her daughter & listening to her.
Kudos to dad!
Thank you for going on the show and sharing your story. Peace and blessings to you!
The hypocrisy coming from the mother is insane
The mom can't see that her daughter doing what she was doing with her. It's actually crazy to me how she is acting towards her daughter when she left her! She acts as if the daughter is doing her son worse than she did her and thats the wild part. It's almost like she's projecting her faults onto the daughter
Karamo you are doing amazing work, the way you listen and notice people’s different perspective while also connecting the dots and being able to articulate it. Please keep doing what you’re doing - you’re helping people see themselves, their shortcomings and their strengths.
Wow, that was so powerful. You can see and hear the hurt in all of them. I pray that healing comes swiftly and that they have the best mother and daughter relationship ever. Thank God for the father as well.
Mom understand dat all trinity wats is the love and understanding she NEVER had as a child
Karamo let the mom get off wayyyyy too easy! He should have held her more accountable for her role in whats happening. And the NERVE of her to talk bad about the father...
Just because you told someone you were leaving doesn’t mean you should abandon your child. The mother needs to be held accountable for something. She’s still being selfish like she’s going through withdrawals or something. I had a feeling she was on drugs before and she probably still is. She need to hold her daughter and tell her that she loves her. She needs to learn how to talk to her daughter. Her behavior is disgusting.
Such a real episode. I can feel everyone. It's definitely a pattern but they're both still babies who need the same thing... Abandonment issues. One thing that is for sure is that life ❤️ happens but it's what we do with it from here on. Tools and understanding are much needed. Prayers going up. And... She as a child was honest enough to say I'm not ready to be a mother. I'm grateful that the grandmother said