Ep. 50 - Speak Up Without Being Aggressive

"Empowering Assertiveness: After a recent talk on expressing your worth, I was asked: How do I ensure my voice is heard without seeming aggressive? It's a valid concern, especially if you value respect and professionalism. Imagine your boss continually traveling, adding their tasks to yours-this can be overwhelming, right? Before reacting emotionally, practice metacognition-thinking about your thoughts and feelings.
To be assertive effectively, start with checking your intention: ensuring important work is done well for the company's success, including yours and your boss's responsibilities. Rather than confrontationally, embrace the 'Tennis Court Theory': see yourselves as partners facing the problem, not adversaries. Collaborate on solutions that benefit both sides.
Approach your boss respectfully: 'I'm always ready to help, but our workloads are piling up when you're away. Could we delegate some tasks to ensure we stay on track?' This approach maintains your professionalism while addressing concerns effectively. Remember, assertiveness isn't about attacking-it's about achieving mutual goals with composure and respect.
Practice these strategies and embrace the freedom of expressing yourself assertively, without aggression. #Assertiveness #ProfessionalGrowth #CommunicationSkills"