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Dr. Abby Hamilton
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เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 10 ต.ค. 2020
Shining makes you SELL more, LOVE more, ACCOMPLISH more, MAKE more, and CONTRIBUTE more! But what are you talking about - what does "Shine" even mean? Oh my goodness, we need to talk! @shinealready @drabby333
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Ep. 57 - Stop Hiding Your Authentic Self
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Ep. 57 - Stop Hiding Your Authentic Self
Ep. 56 - How to Improve Your Team’s Performance
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In this video, Dr. Abby shares an inspiring story about a company leader who embodies the essence of emotional intelligence by recognizing the power of giving credit where it's due. When her team achieved a historic milestone, she immediately credited everyone involved, not just herself. Dr. Abby discusses how appreciation can fuel a team to go above and beyond, leading to greater success for t...
Ep. 55 - The Secret to Getting More Done
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Ep. 55 - The Secret to Getting More Done
Ep. 54 - Toxic Culture Thrives in Silence
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"Speaking Up: The Power of Assertiveness 💬✨ Hi everyone, Dr. Abby here! I recently came across a quote that really resonates with my message on assertiveness: 'Toxic culture thrives in silence.' It made me think deeply about how silence often seems easier, but it can allow toxic behaviors to persist unchecked. Imagine a scenario: at dinner, a friend embarrasses Jill by commenting loudly about h...
Ep. 51 - Know Your Value to Show Your Value
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The first step before you show your value is to know your value. It's about understanding what makes you exceptional and unique. Often, self-consciousness becomes a barrier. I see it in my work helping people find jobs. Many doubt themselves, citing lack of experience or appearance concerns. But employers value qualities like integrity, determination, and willingness to learn-traits that define...
Ep. 50 - Speak Up Without Being Aggressive
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"Empowering Assertiveness: After a recent talk on expressing your worth, I was asked: How do I ensure my voice is heard without seeming aggressive? It's a valid concern, especially if you value respect and professionalism. Imagine your boss continually traveling, adding their tasks to yours-this can be overwhelming, right? Before reacting emotionally, practice metacognition-thinking about your ...
Ep. 53 - Can’t Always Change Others
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In today's video, we're diving into the topic of assertiveness and understanding its limits. While being assertive can help you speak up and create change, it's important to recognize that you can't always control others or their actions. Using relatable examples, such as friends making life decisions or unexpected events like thunderstorms, I'll explain why assertiveness isn't always the solut...
Ep. 52 - Balancing People-Pleasing and Assertiveness
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Today, we're exploring the delicate balance between making others happy and maintaining your own self-worth. While it's wonderful to bring joy to others, it's crucial not to let people-pleasing diminish your confidence and decision-making. In this video, I'll share a relatable scenario where your hard work and decisions are challenged. If you're a people-pleaser, you might feel the urge to back...
Ep. 49 - Showing Up as AAPI Professionals
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"Embrace Your Power: Redefining Asian-American Presence in the Workplace 💼✨ In this video, Dr. Abby addresses a crucial question from an Asian ERG session: How can AAPI professionals best show up in the workplace? Discover how to challenge stereotypes, navigate microaggressions with grace, and proudly showcase your unique identity. Let's redefine what it means to show up authentically and contr...
How Brendan Burchard Inspired My Journey to TEDx | Dr. Abby Hamilton
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Two years ago, Dr. Abby Hamilton's life changed with one piece of advice from Brendan Burchard: "Go do a Facebook Live." What started as a single live stream turned into a journey of daily videos, a TH-cam channel, TikTok presence, and now, a TED Talk. Discover how plugging into the power and wisdom of others can transform your life. #BrendanBurchard #TEDx #DrAbbyHamilton #Inspiration #SocialMe...
NAAAP Confident Communication Workshop
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NAAAP Confident Communication Workshop
Habitat for Humanity with NAAAP and EU-Tampa
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Habitat for Humanity with NAAAP and EU-Tampa
Asian American Pacific Islander Cultural Festival Tampa 2024
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Asian American Pacific Islander Cultural Festival Tampa 2024
AAPI Month at Brandon Chamber of Commerce!
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AAPI Month at Brandon Chamber of Commerce!
2024 Proclamation of AAPI Month - Tampa
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2024 Proclamation of AAPI Month - Tampa
Earth Day at Tampa International Airport 4.24.24
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Earth Day at Tampa International Airport 4.24.24
USF Asian Students Scholarship Pageant 4.21.24
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USF Asian Students Scholarship Pageant 4.21.24
Juvenile Diabetes Walk at Amalie Arena 4.20.24
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Juvenile Diabetes Walk at Amalie Arena 4.20.24
H Mart in Frederick, Maryland with Nick and Debi
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H Mart in Frederick, Maryland with Nick and Debi
Speaking at US Pharmacopeia, Rockville, Maryland!
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Speaking at US Pharmacopeia, Rockville, Maryland!
Utang na loop is the work of Satan
Sounds like asian parents actually parented. maybe that’s why the Asian community out performs every other group.
As a group, Asians are the most successful in America, both academically and financially. And yet they feel the need to mount a victimhood narrative.🙄
ignorance is bliss, and its the full family who use you for life not just the parents
Sa situation ko ay pinoy ako at ang kuya ko pero koreano at hapon ako sa loob. Ang kuya ko puti sa loob kaya ewan ko kung "colonial mentality" yoon.
San po to madame
My son and his wife are American. He has German blood and his wife has Filipino blood. They are Christian in their mid 30's and probably won't have kids. So if they have no kids to look after them shouldn't her Mom and Dad, both Filipino, tell them to take of themselves and don't worry about utang na loob? My thoughts are if they want to financially help them out that's what Christians do but if his wife is saying they have to pay because of her "culture" and her parents are Americans, I think her parents are in the wrong because it's taking away from the kids financial future.
Hi Doc Ohm, One of the greatest discoveries in this "Speak Up Anak" process is that we must identify what we want to do (or don't want to do) and communicate it to others respectfully. There are two things to consider with your question. The first one is that your daughter-in-law must decide what she wants to do, and if she wants to give to her parents, she should. If she does not want to (or can't), she should say talk to her parents, in a firm yet respectful way. The second consideration is that your son and his wife must make the decisions for themselves. They will make choices and learn from their experiences. Thank you for your comment.
@@dr.abbyhamilton8579thank you for your response. Unfortunately his wife is a sweetheart and could never stand up to her parents especially her Dad. They were HS sweethearts and my son had to endure a lot of cultural racism being the "White boy" and not the preferred Filipino early on in their relationship. Her Mom and Dad regularly spoke Tagalong around them. I told my son they are American and if they speak Tagalong they are talking smack about you. My son loves her and pushed through that and married her. They don't do that now, they respect him now he tells me. I am wondering now if it's because they are giving them a nice utang na loob check each month?🤔. Personally I want to go to her parents house and explain to them let the kids go so they can, at 35, buy a home and build a life together instead of funding your retirement. My fiancee told me stay out of it and I will. I have not said anything and won't to my son. I would totally understand if my son went to the Philippines to get his wife. Her parents live in a $3 million dollar CA home on a golf course and they're American. Why are they asking for money from the kids? I am honestly just trying to make it make sense.
How beautiful! Thank you so much!
Thank you! Your messages are precious and very helpful!
Dr. Abby Hamilton, Subscribed because your videos are so much fun!
Thanks, Abby‼️ Love the memories you create😁🤗😘
may i know the name of the music used? ty!
Great empowering topic guys
Hi Dr Abby!!
Thank you Dr. Abby for making this kind of video, before I was shy(Hiya) but after I became confident because of this video thank you! ❤
Nice explanation for my exam🇵🇭👏
beautiful creativity! Beautiful, colorful show!
It looks like you are having loads of fun! Take plenty of video and pictures.! Make fabulous memories!
Dealing with? Lmao you make like its a bad thing. Not everyone that's opinionated is arrogant thats a misconception
Thanks for your reply. There are all kinds of people in the world, and sometimes we need guidance in managing our own thoughts and actions in the presence of certain people.
Yea but being opinionated all the time does come across as a know it all and arrogant not everything should give opinion to.
Thanks for opening up on the most relatable topic ever-although I'm Indian but I can closely relate to whatever you just said cuz India is one of those most colonized country ever and I kind of despise the people in the bottom tribes of the caste system and I spoke the Aryan's languages in their pure accent. Alot of people who speak in poor English grammar are ignorant of this; but being pegged to a certain identity into a rigid mould to inflict changes in the behaviour is certainly wrong way... Plus I'm not a big fan of project India (the system, the people, the way are the way they are)
Thank you so much for sharing. This is definitely a discussion that has helped many people. The best thing is for us to identify the details of our own experience and find the ways to be most effective in this world.
CONGRATULATIONS EVERYONE! Looks like it was great fun!
GREAT JOB DOC ABBY!!! GOOD LUCK!
Great interview!
Use Earbuds!! I hate Indian food!! They can’t cook beef!! And lamb/goat is full of FAT. Common sense is not so common it seems as dealing with opinionated people, one only need to follow the XXXX, no one can beat them.
What if you have utang na loob then you paid for it through love,gratitude, assist etc. Does it mean your utang na loob been paid?
From my experience and knowledge, I would say that there is a certain point where you feel like the debt is paid and maybe even overpaid, which puts the other person in debt to you. From a general perspective, it really depends on the person because even if you feel like the debt has been paid, the other person might feel like you still owe them more. The most important thing to do with utang na loob is not to keep track of who owes who, but instead, build a healthy relationship where you can be helpful and supportive of each other and communicate openly with each other. This prevents misunderstanding and builds stronger relationships.
haha so funny, money, money, money
Abby I love this!!! ❤
Awesome analogy.
The boomer Filipinos here in Houston, TX take this to a higher level, it’s so frustrating 🤦♂️
The key to the frustration is to communicate, Patrick. Find a way to carefully share that you are feeling uncomfortable. Communication, done properly, helps all relationships.
Hi Dr. Abby, I’m new comer in Canada. Flying from Vietnam and Japan where taught me “don’t fight”, “do not say what you think”, “ boss is always right and you are wrong”. It is killing my soul when I live in new culture and also new family (in-law) where people has strong voice even I know they said things conflict with what they said. I didn’t answer but my brain came up with a lot of answer. I started to find out what is wrong with me and I found out Assertiveness. Thanks for your sharing!
Thank you so much for opening up and sharing this response. There are so many people with the experience. You are not alone. That is why I wrote my book, "Speak Up Anak." It has helped so many to come out of this closed feeling. Continue to use your voice because the ideas you have are part of the value you bring to the world: your intelligence, your heart, and your caring. Assert yourself in a firm, noble, and respectful way. You can do this! Watch my videos at speakupanak.com to hear how to push through the cultural barriers.
Thank you now I guess I understand what opinionated person means..
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Thank you for that God spirit filled Christmas reflections. Truly indeed! Christ is the reason for the season. May the Lord Jesus bless you, your family and loved ones abundantly.🙏🙏🙏
Interesting 🤔
How wonderful it is to see Dr. Mom and Dr. Abby --- so inspirational sharing God and part of your life with us! Love it! 😍
The judgement that we are doing in our life is based on where we came from. There are wrong in other place in w/c seems like correct to my place where I came from. And absolutely I agree that there are wrong in my place and may be correct to the other palace. My question is 'who is right and who is wrong?' Walang Utang Na loob for me is a very broad topic to discuss with. For me I would like to put these phrase as it depends or case to case basis. Lets put these phrase specifically to a parents and their children. Yes I agree that the parents has a big responsibility to their children. But what about those parents who are irresponsible what will happen to their children? My question is, are we not going to look back from where we came from? I think I got a very simple logic "YOU WILL NOT BE A GOOD DRIVER IF YOU WILL JUST FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION AHEAD OF YOU AND NOT LOOKING BACK AT YOUR REAR VIEW MIRROR."
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Edmund. I see that there are benefits to this value. The message here is to communicate in a way that preserves the relationship. Without communication, bitterness and resentment can grow. I like the final message you shared. We need to be aware of what we are doing an all aspects of our lives.
It’s 2022. th-cam.com/video/QvoH5yvPCcU/w-d-xo.html
Beautiful.
I am grateful for the reminder that Jesus is watching over me when I am lost and to look for the security guard and I look forward when it is my time to sing hallelujah and dance with Dr Mom with her beautify butterfly dress.
LOL!!! I will sing hallelujah with you!
I loved the interview Dr Abby with you and your mother and I love my Doctor your mom.Gloria Brooks
May anak ko walang utang na loob
It's important to understand what they are experiencing and communicate in a way that shows you care. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Dedeng.
@@dr.abbyhamilton8579I agree
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WOW! THANK YOU PO FOR THIS VIDEO <3
Oh yes, Ana! I'm glad you liked it. Feel free to check all the videos at speakupanak.com.
Salamat po for this video and sharing this with the TH-cam community. I’ve felt very disconnected from Filipino culture as of late and growing up. My Tatay and Nanay grew more distant growing up and fights escalated. My Nanay comes from the Visayas from Billirian Islands, I noticed in her that she’s dropped a lot of Filipino traditions and a refusal to teach me. My Tatay who’s white and from America would make fun of Filipino traditions a lot and I felt a lot of shame and pressure to assimilate into American culture purely. It broke my heart, I feel a lot of sadness. It means the world that I can watch your videos and learn from you. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your experience, Corbin. It is wonderful to embrace the great things in your culture. Continue to build a curiosity for the culture and history. I hope that it will empower you.
I love this so much!
Abby!!! You've got this! You are beautiful and powerful and wise beyond measure!!! ❤️
Excited to see it tonight! Sending you so much love and light Dr Abby!
I'm so excited for you! You're going to do awesome!!!
I thought I was getting a bit addicted to the likes I receive for my writings on social media and I wanted a good idea to get out of the "likes - happy - confident " cycle...Thank you Doc
I think we all go through these feelings. How nice for us to investigate them together!
Thank you Dr Abby! I needed this tonight!!!
I am so glad this helped you. I also need to watch these videos as a reminder during different times in my life. I hope you are doing well, Rina!