Mum Demands That The Wedding Dress Hide The Bride’s Figure | Say Yes To The Dress: Atlanta

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  • @bluebonnetbunny4813
    @bluebonnetbunny4813 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1436

    Love grandma’s supportive comment: “Got to show them while you got ‘em”!

    • @squishyshelli
      @squishyshelli 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Right? I was like, "Amen, sister!"

    • @ashleymarks3726
      @ashleymarks3726 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      I'm really chesty and my Nonna always says "flaunt it while you got it". I get insecure sometimes, cause it's really hard for me to find tops that are flattering

    • @9094nancyj
      @9094nancyj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Grandma knows...she knows

    • @HGG381
      @HGG381 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Horrible behaviour of the mother,,,

    • @PlanetLiala
      @PlanetLiala 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@ashleymarks3726don’t worry about it! I’m 13 and here’s a tip for you to think abt when ur feeling insecure:)) “everyone has insecurity’s to why think about people looking at you and “judging you” they’re focusing on their own insecurity’s so why would they be thinking about yours? Your beautiful the way you are ❤😊

  • @MrsBrit1
    @MrsBrit1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1469

    Mom's day is done. The way she spins it to say "but I know how you feel about your hips...." No, it's how YOU feel about them. Get over it! So sad to constantly degrade your daughter.

    • @suerasley7237
      @suerasley7237 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I thought the mom's comment was funny to begin with and then when they showed them walking out and the daughter is wearing a top that really emphasizes her hips, I wondered if the mom has any idea at all about who her daughter is.

    • @tastymedleys
      @tastymedleys 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      If this gorgeous lady has ever been insecure about her hips, it's 100% due to the mother's toxic attitude. Absolutely insufferable!

    • @patmccoy8758
      @patmccoy8758 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      I think Toxic Mom is JEALOUS!

    • @RobynJoyShaw
      @RobynJoyShaw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ​@@patmccoy8758 I agree, jealous of her shape

    • @SpiritDragoness
      @SpiritDragoness 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      The mom is gaslighting and projecting her own insecurities on her daughter.

  • @lenarae644
    @lenarae644 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +735

    "Cover up what you don't wanna show." Obviously the Bride wants to show her hips. I hate when mom's project their own insecurities on their daughters.

    • @lesliebrickey8357
      @lesliebrickey8357 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The bride has a fabulous figure and sexy hips. Mom is a mess with a big fat mouth and no empathy nor taste.

    • @joywebster2678
      @joywebster2678 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Wanted to see if mom had those same hips!

    • @lisamelroy2855
      @lisamelroy2855 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@joywebster2678Mom WISHED she still had hips like that!!

    • @heyyyyyms.carter2650
      @heyyyyyms.carter2650 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I love her grandmother’s support. Mom is talking about hide what you don’t want everyone to see…. THEY ARE JUST HIPS! Good lord MOM! And they are “covered” she’s not walking out in a full sheer dress showing her butt crack and vajayjay. It’s terrible that she has to conform to her moms wants for HER big day. Mom’s selfishness resulted in her walking away without a dress and I bet mom could care less.

    • @joralemonvirgincreche
      @joralemonvirgincreche 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Her hips WERE covered in all the dresses. She wasn't walking naked to the showroom floor.

  • @cindyerikson2513
    @cindyerikson2513 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1204

    That mom should be ashamed of herself. Flat up toxic

    • @tamaramartin4015
      @tamaramartin4015 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      💯

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wedding is probably in a conservative church. She should have come from another angle though

    • @sailorathena17
      @sailorathena17 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@MsJubjubbird nothing says conservative than a parent telling the bride not to show everything especially if they want it in a church not the bride

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sailorathena17 if the bride has picked the family church, then those are the rules.

    • @mommabird2813
      @mommabird2813 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep

  • @lexsolana432
    @lexsolana432 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1473

    Sounds like mom is jealous of her daughters figure. Weird and sad.

    • @peachygal4153
      @peachygal4153 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Lol older women hate hips. Younger women don't because they have learned most men like them.

    • @melanatedkitten
      @melanatedkitten 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@peachygal4153Very true. My 65 year old mom hates her wide hips because of how much attention she gets because of them

    • @bunnyslippers191
      @bunnyslippers191 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      The bride has a much better figure than her mom ever had and Mom just can't stand that.

    • @GrainneDhub-ll6vw
      @GrainneDhub-ll6vw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@peachygal4153 Grandma sure knew what men like!

    • @shehnazahmad5213
      @shehnazahmad5213 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I thought I was the only one rhinking this jealoussssss

  • @LuLu-in-a-MuuMuu
    @LuLu-in-a-MuuMuu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +439

    The second dress was the winner in my opinion. The bride looked beautiful and happy in it. That mum is a piece of work.

    • @tastx3142
      @tastx3142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I agree! It was the most flattering and beautiful as well.

    • @bsieber2371
      @bsieber2371 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes, absolutely true 😢

    • @gabeee4332
      @gabeee4332 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Agree on the second dress the first was too form fitting those styles are ok for girls who are thin everywhere plus looks like it would be hard to move around in...just my 2 cents lol

  • @daniellelaymon902
    @daniellelaymon902 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +377

    The comment about how she’s knows how her daughter feels about her body is shameful. Sounds like the mom has body issues not the daughter

    • @SpiritDragoness
      @SpiritDragoness 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah, gaslighting much

    • @anonymoose116
      @anonymoose116 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I hope she always feels beautiful in her body, because she's beautiful.

  • @sizesmall1756
    @sizesmall1756 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +775

    Bride: "I think I look good in this dress"
    Mom: "I know more than anyone sitting here how you feel about your body"
    SOOOO TOXIC !! 🤮🤮🤮

    • @amidthephantomsrose
      @amidthephantomsrose 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I would have said " no you don't because it's MY BODY!"

    • @SpiritDragoness
      @SpiritDragoness 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@amidthephantomsrosewith toxic mothers you can never win. I once had a headache and I felt hungry..... So I ate. My mother was so angry at me coz I ate. She thinks that if you feel sick, you should fast, shouldn't eat. I explained, It is just a headache and my body is signaling to me that I must eat. She then went on a rant about how she knows better if I should eat or not and that she is more "competent" in medical stuff than I am, and she wants only the best for me. I replied that I am more competent on what my body feels coz it is my body and there is no way she could feel what my body feels, and I feel that I need to eat coz other ways I will not only have a headache, but I will also start fainting coz of lack of energy coz I hadn't eaten that day. My mom went into a violent rage coz I dared to stand up to her and she started to throw random stuff at my head (I don't know where she got the idea that hitting my head with random objects will help heall my headache. No competent person in medical issues will dare to do that... That is how she wants the best for me, bullshit). I then called my friend to get me strong ibuprofen and to evacuate me. That was the last time my mother ever saw me. Went no contact, cold turkey, coz I was tired of her constant emotional and physical abuse.

    • @MonCheriLynn
      @MonCheriLynn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That comment took me out!!! 😤

  • @birgitgschier8006
    @birgitgschier8006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +408

    This mother seems to be jealous of her daughter's pretty figure, grandma is a darling

    • @readMEinkbooks
      @readMEinkbooks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I've got a feeling grandma is going to put mother in her place when they get home.

    • @turnbacktime65
      @turnbacktime65 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly.❤

  • @mc2writer
    @mc2writer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    When the daughter has to say "Mom has the look on her face I was hoping for" instead of the mother saying that about the bride, something is really, really wrong.

    • @hippiefarts
      @hippiefarts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was just thinking that... A child shouldn't have to worry about seeking their mother's approval for things like this.

  • @therickandbillieshow9803
    @therickandbillieshow9803 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +334

    The key to this is, to buy your own dress. Because then your nasty controlling mom, southern or otherwise, has nothing to say about what you wear.

    • @glancycorner7425
      @glancycorner7425 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So agree!

    • @lesliebrickey8357
      @lesliebrickey8357 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen sista!

    • @ktwashere5637
      @ktwashere5637 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      yes exactly. If my mother pulled this crap on me then I would have said (in the store) Thanks for the offer to buy my dress but I didn't realise it would mean you also choosing the dress I wear to my own wedding. I will buy my own dress.

    • @therickandbillieshow9803
      @therickandbillieshow9803 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@ktwashere5637 I do not understand how your daughter is old enough to marry and yet is not old enough to choose her dress. If she has to be told what to wear, she is too young to marry. What the girl should have done is called off the wedding and eloped. Then her mother couldn't participate at all. That would have really pissed her off and I for one would have stood there and laughed, just for spite. I really hate seeing mothers act like this.

    • @marymcmahan5603
      @marymcmahan5603 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      100% correct

  • @marieslabbert6009
    @marieslabbert6009 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +511

    I think the mom is super mean and she enjoys the power she has over her daughter. Why would any mother be like that? Surely she wants her daughter to feel happy with her choice of dress on HER wedding day?

    • @SuzeeBee73
      @SuzeeBee73 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's called Narcissism

    • @tamaramartin4015
      @tamaramartin4015 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      i so agree. That "i can say no" business was totally out of line. Shameful.

    • @minilea144
      @minilea144 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Mom ain't happy. My aunt was the same way with my cousin. Her daughter was happy and getting attention. Mom was miserable and vying for attention. She was worse on her daughter's wedding day. We all rolled our eyes, kept the daughter in the dark about her mom's behavior and just had fun. Which was a win win for me. I can't stand my aunt and seeing her miserable because everyone was having fun was just icing on the wedding cake 😅

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wedding is probably in a conservative church. Some women also use their daughters for some self worth. She's also 23 and every 23 year old wants to be sexy. She might change her mind about her choice in ten years time

    • @minilea144
      @minilea144 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@MsJubjubbird the church couldn't be THAT conservative. The daughter would have had that in mind. It's not like she wanted to show off too much skin or make her bust a focal point. It was just her curves she wanted to embrace. And as for her being 23 and wanting to be "sexy", there are women literally double her age who want to show the same or even more. Age has nothing to do with it. She, like many other brides, wanted to feel confident in their own body and ultimately their dress. Mom was destroying her confidence. More than likely because she had little to no say about her own dress. Misery loves company. Especially when that company is starting to show confidence.

  • @donnabradley9926
    @donnabradley9926 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +182

    This beautiful bride has a mumzilla for a mother. That mother is trying her best to try and body shame her daughter. The bride looks amazing.

  • @mrsspanner14
    @mrsspanner14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    That first mother has real issues and is projecting them onto her daughter. What a horrible, toxic woman. I really hope the bride got the dress she wanted (and therapy to break free from her mother’s bodyshaming).

  • @paulastenavage1785
    @paulastenavage1785 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +141

    I wanted to SCREAM at her mother!

    • @agnes15101968
      @agnes15101968 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Do never scream at narcissists, they feed on your rage. Ignore them.

  • @CathyDoherty-hr4mx
    @CathyDoherty-hr4mx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +247

    The bride should get what she wants. I let my daughter pick what she wanted.

    • @pamtanner516
      @pamtanner516 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I let my daughter pick as well. I gave her a budget, and she went over a bit, but worth it for a dress she loved. My problem was she looked gorgeous in every dress she tried on, so there was no tears from me. I was just there to support her and pay.

    • @cecedubois5147
      @cecedubois5147 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@pamtanner516 same with my daughter. My main question was, "Do you feel beautiful?" I was there to support, and pay.

    • @pamtanner516
      @pamtanner516 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@cecedubois5147 the one thing I will tell you is she chose a dress with sleeves and back coverage. Once she turned 18 she choose to get her fair share of tattoos. I don’t/didn’t approve. So thankfully her dress hid all of those.

    • @CathyDoherty-hr4mx
      @CathyDoherty-hr4mx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cecedubois5147 my hubby paid for the dress.

  • @theraweggfiles
    @theraweggfiles 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    It is so sad how we inherently and desperately seek the approval of parents who don't deserve that level of loyalty.

  • @mariesmith1616
    @mariesmith1616 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    The bride looked wonderful on all the dresses but the second one was the best and it could have been a good compromise for both.

    • @christineholliday4564
      @christineholliday4564 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Totally agree! The second dress was gorgeous on her!!

    • @morrigan908
      @morrigan908 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Compromise is not in momma dearest's vocabulary. You do what she wants or she makes you miserable. Your first in many lessons about boundaries, my dear.

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      they could have also gone with the column dress for the reception and added a tulle overskirt for the ceremony.

  • @jeniferclemente1252
    @jeniferclemente1252 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +223

    “I hate mermaid dresses”
    Me: Well, you’re not the bride!
    This mom is so jealous of her daughter’s beautiful shape. It’s obvious.

  • @cbpd89
    @cbpd89 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    I cannot imagine my mom critiquing my body when I was shopping for a wedding dress.

  • @cynhanrahan4012
    @cynhanrahan4012 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    Honey, you're a grown up. Pay for your own dress and don't let your mother shame you.

  • @bethanyhait6880
    @bethanyhait6880 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    “All anyone’s gonna see is her hips”
    And…that’s a bad thing how, exactly?

    • @kateyare4708
      @kateyare4708 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Apparently, that's all mom sees.

  • @VivianMonroe-gt7ny
    @VivianMonroe-gt7ny 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    This bride does have a perfect beautiful figure. The second dress was WOW. Mom's like this is the reason I went dress shopping alone.

  • @juliephilpot5522
    @juliephilpot5522 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    My mother did the exact same thing when I was looking at wedding dresses. Constantly telling me how fat I looked to the point I was in tears and just wanted to leave. We ended up going to the court house bc it just wasn’t worth the stress she put me through

    • @hildeschmid8400
      @hildeschmid8400 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I am so sorry to hear this. I don't think Mother's have to be with the bride when she buys her dress. Since I was paying for everything, I went dress shopping on my own. When Mom finally saw the dress, she and Dad loved it.

    • @Ziggimomspal68
      @Ziggimomspal68 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      😱 I’m sorry that happened to you

    • @mariannedanastasio3811
      @mariannedanastasio3811 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i’m so sorry that happened to you. back when i got married i had a students mom tell me to tell me what i wanted and she would design the pattern and make it. my mom came with me to get the material she was all support and no stress- she was a dear!

    • @madelynl.5351
      @madelynl.5351 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I’m so sorry you were forced into doing that. I hope your mom isn’t still trying to force her will on you. This is why some daughters have to move far away from their parents. I hope your marriage is full of joy.

    • @agnes15101968
      @agnes15101968 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I hope you moved far away from her...

  • @rivkakafizas7612
    @rivkakafizas7612 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Mum should be ashamed of herself. Her daughter looked stunning in all of the dresses. Let her choose her own dress!

  • @paolagutierrez2568
    @paolagutierrez2568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Fantastic figure on the bride! The mermaid gowns are really flattering on her. The bride has to wear the dress, so the final decision should be hers

  • @kayamo1632
    @kayamo1632 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    That second dress was absolutely stunning.

  • @morrigan908
    @morrigan908 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Excellent time to start teaching mother dearest the meaning of the word boundaries. She'll need them if she doesn't want three people in their marriage.

  • @ChristineInNornia
    @ChristineInNornia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +194

    I hate when Mothers press their own insecurities onto their daughters😒

  • @OdiesMama
    @OdiesMama 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Mama needs to worry less about what SHE wants and maybe give a damn about what her DAUGHTER wants.

  • @gretab211
    @gretab211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    She looked absolutely gorgeous in the mermaid…I can never understand how moms can put down their daughters that much, so sad

  • @megnakamura7652
    @megnakamura7652 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    That poor girl is going to spend the rest of her life fixating on her hips because of her mom.

    • @easybeast6032
      @easybeast6032 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      And that's horrible because her shape is super attractive. A really conventionally drop dead gorgeous figure.❤

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She probably already does secretly since I doubt this is the first time the mom said that to her

  • @naileataylor2106
    @naileataylor2106 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    If the bride truly disliked her figure the way mom claims, she most likely wouldn’t be trying to get a dress that shows it off..😵‍💫
    That “I know how you feel about your body” comment sounded more like “I know how I always felt about my body, and my insecurities, which I’m now projecting onto my child.” It’s just so draining to see mothers do this to their daughters.
    They are not YOU! They’re their own person!!

  • @rachelmaddowswife8713
    @rachelmaddowswife8713 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    Mom is just body shaming her. She looks curvy because she IS curvy. Every dress in the store will show some curve. It's like the people who attack large chested women for dressing "slutty" when they're in the same pants and t-shirt uniform as everyone else.

  • @lisabellamy8424
    @lisabellamy8424 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Buy your own, then tell Mama, “I invited you for your opinion, but that doesn’t mean you tell me what I wear.”

  • @janafisher7701
    @janafisher7701 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The bride looked absolutely gorgeous in that first dress!!! I really felt bad for her for the way her mom made her feel

  • @horses2by
    @horses2by 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    She looked absolutely stunning/gorgeous in all of the dresses 🤩

  • @BraveInRibbons
    @BraveInRibbons 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Oh my word. She's GORGEOUS! 🥰

  • @bambiholmes
    @bambiholmes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "that's the first step of standing up to mom" well said!

  • @jeniferkenney2984
    @jeniferkenney2984 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    That mom outta be ashamed of herself. So sad her daughter couldn't pick out a dress because of her mom's insecurities and beliefs.

  • @cherylpacola1310
    @cherylpacola1310 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Mom is jealous. Her daughter is beautiful and a great shape.

  • @prissilou
    @prissilou 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This girl has one of the most beautiful figures I have ever seen on this show. She's stacked like a brick sh*******! Lucky groom, and any of these dresses look fantastic on her!

  • @diannebernau3293
    @diannebernau3293 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Just Googled her wedding to see what she decided on. Whitney got married in 2013 and has two gorgeous daughters. And she wore an A line which was similar to dress two, except it didn’t have a sweetheart neckline but was straight across. She looked gorgeous.

    • @keplersdream901
      @keplersdream901 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And she's allowing her mommie to body shame her daughters. Two pigs in a pod.

    • @countrygirl5579
      @countrygirl5579 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Well I saw that the moms OTHER daughter got married in a mermaid dress like the first daughter wanted! Wonder why she let the younger daughter have a mermaid dress. 🤷

    • @Lily_of_the_Forest
      @Lily_of_the_Forest 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@countrygirl5579maybe that daughter had a strong backbone and told their mother “I’m wearing it anyway!”

    • @mcrchickenluvr
      @mcrchickenluvr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Lily_of_the_Forestthat or mom hopefully realized what an ass she came off as and saw she needed to fix that.

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Lily_of_the_Forest Or maybe paid for it herself and/or didn't bring mom shopping with her?

  • @kristelngami4816
    @kristelngami4816 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    2:45 Lol Monte 😅

    • @CamelaBell
      @CamelaBell 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right! He is sarcastically funny😄

  • @casie6609
    @casie6609 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I don't like mermaid dresses AT ALL and that is not for me (even though I like my curves). I just primarily like a line type dresses. But the point is that it's up to the bride! I would want my mom's approval too, but at the end of the day, she shoukd get what she wants.

  • @9094nancyj
    @9094nancyj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    When you come back, leave mombehind

  • @sheenawinfrey3133
    @sheenawinfrey3133 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I thought grandma was gonna smack momma...that look...rotfl!! ❤😂

  • @hopeleflore343
    @hopeleflore343 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She looked beautiful and the first 2 dresses had her eyes sparkling! It’s her day and she should be able to choose for herself!

  • @einezcrespo2107
    @einezcrespo2107 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    That mother isn't supportive. The bride should trust her instincts. That second dress was gorgeous!

  • @renlish
    @renlish 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Momma is projecting something fierce.

  • @ashleymarks3726
    @ashleymarks3726 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I think the first dress wss amazing on her

    • @laurellane1721
      @laurellane1721 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had to agree with the mom; all I saw was her hip area.

    • @blizz2795
      @blizz2795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@laurellane1721 I get you're that mom's and too, right? When we grew up being super skinny and poker straight was the look you were supposed to have. Now? The younger generations love the bigger hips and booties.

    • @krazycatz
      @krazycatz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you have ever looked through historical fashion books or magazines you will know that throughout history different body shapes and therefore clothing styles were popular. During many times of the 19th century (between 1800 and 1899) the hourglass figures with a hoop skirt of various sizes was fashionable. During the roaring 1920s the fashion style was to look like a woman did not have any curves at all. During the 1930s and 1940s because of the depression and World War Two it was considered prudent to conserve fabric and live within your means. The large full bell shaped skirts and dresses during the 1950s was a symbol to the world that the American people were so wealthy (compared to people in other countries) that they could afford to use ten or more yards (nine or more meters) for one casual everyday dress.

    • @swra09
      @swra09 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@laurellane1721that’s what happens when u are curvy and wear a fitted dress, you wouldn’t say the same thing if that was worn by a skinny girl

  • @Silver_Owl
    @Silver_Owl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If you're old enough to get married, you're old enough to choose your own dress. Pay for it yourself, and pick what you want.

  • @gailmartin5359
    @gailmartin5359 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Whitney should have left momma at home.

  • @Anna-fm7hh
    @Anna-fm7hh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Why getting married when you're not adult enough to buy yourself a dress and being not controlled by the mother?

    • @CleoS-vx5pd
      @CleoS-vx5pd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I wonder this a lot when watching this show.

    • @minilea144
      @minilea144 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Part of it is traditional. Moms always want their daughters to wear what they wore or if not, they offer to pay. Almost a symbol of the last time you dress your child. That being said, many do pay for a dress themselves and mom still has control. Because Mom has brought up their child(ren) to be so co-dependent on mom. Making decisions without moms ok makes them feel guilty. That's some severe brain washing while growing up.

  • @countrygirl5579
    @countrygirl5579 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I would have taken out a loan for the dress & left mama at home.😂

  • @nikitatrisha1616
    @nikitatrisha1616 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    She has such a beautiful shape. The mom is just being a prude

    • @Justicia007
      @Justicia007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It was the opposite dynamic with my mother, I would say I thought a dress made me look too big in the hips and my mother would say, women have hips! They're supposed to have curves. 💗💗💗 Love my Mom

  • @tammypetruzzi9191
    @tammypetruzzi9191 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I hope mom is proud of herself for ruining her daughter’s dress shopping!
    Shame on her for making it all about herself!

  • @graceprais9814
    @graceprais9814 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I also had a jealous mother who ruined my dream wedding.

  • @robertmcnamara5407
    @robertmcnamara5407 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    One day I want to see the bride to be just go "mum as this is the dress that makes me feel bridal. I'm paying for it!"

  • @TuckyBlue_1
    @TuckyBlue_1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I guess I’ll never get over the way parents and friends think it’s a good look to act like this when dress shopping. I’d be so embarrassed to act like this in public…

  • @scooterbaby1
    @scooterbaby1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    mom chill out it's her day

  • @elizabethedwards7082
    @elizabethedwards7082 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Mom isnt wearing the dress.

  • @BabaVicki
    @BabaVicki 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The first young lady is a goddess. Mom was jealous. The A-line makes her look bigger. I’m so glad she walked away.

  • @LD-tk7qf
    @LD-tk7qf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think mom is jealous of her daughters youth and beauty

  • @tlee4395
    @tlee4395 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If this woman is getting married, she is old enough to decide on the style of her wedding dress... period.

  • @janeecegoldade1692
    @janeecegoldade1692 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    What is the mom's obsession with her daughters hips!?!

  • @AndreaChapa-l8h
    @AndreaChapa-l8h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved that 2nd dress. She looked gorgeous!

  • @toniconnor6380
    @toniconnor6380 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She looked beautiful in everything... Say bye to mom. Go grandma your cool

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *you're cool

  • @lorayix960
    @lorayix960 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    how grandmas head turned around when the mom asked "seriously" at the second dress... grandma is so supportive

  • @SD-ck3ev
    @SD-ck3ev 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can’t wait to go dress shopping with my daughter. She can have whatever she wants 💜

  • @AlmiePret
    @AlmiePret 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am seething from this mom... She is such a narcissist to have actually brainwashed her daughter to feel the day is about her.
    I snapped when she said it was the look she wanted to see on her mother...
    That's supposed to be what the mom is saying about the BRIDE! Not the other way around!
    My head is throbbing I am so angry. 😤😡🤬

  • @Rosie-11-11
    @Rosie-11-11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When will these difficult mothers realise it is not their wedding day! Poor girl.

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Indeed. Welcome to another episode of "It's Not Your Wedding."

  • @charlottetredgett8295
    @charlottetredgett8295 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ‘I know more than anyone sitting here how you feel about your body’
    If that is true it’s because mum’s given the bride every insecurity she has :(

  • @julievanderleest
    @julievanderleest 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TThe second bride, Laura has the most beautiful eyes and smile I’ve ever seen. She just radiates.

  • @marroosh
    @marroosh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Would have loved to see grandma have a quiet chat with mum.

  • @victoriawilliams6156
    @victoriawilliams6156 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Time for a courthouse wedding! This mom is so controlling that she appears jealous of her beautiful daughter. That’s both sad and disgusting.

  • @DeannaBrownlee
    @DeannaBrownlee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    That mom was atrocious. The mermaid dress looked phenomenal on her. Mom is clearly jealous!

  • @colleenflowers7789
    @colleenflowers7789 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Jealous mother sad

  • @nataliebedics6993
    @nataliebedics6993 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mom is too domineering. Let the girl pick what she likes. It's her day, NOT MOM'S DAY!

  • @TheUnknownSwan
    @TheUnknownSwan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is the most important day of your daughters life. Let her choose her OWN dress.

  • @monl3807
    @monl3807 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Don't bring mom next time. 7:31

  • @su-anemerald
    @su-anemerald 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She has a beautiful figure . Everything looks wonderful. Mum should be ashamed

  • @lovellytshotshi345
    @lovellytshotshi345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The mom was jealous and projecting, her daughter looked absolutely gorgeous in a mermaid dress

  • @supermama
    @supermama 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I hope she got the dress she wanted

  • @jennelynduke4230
    @jennelynduke4230 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mom you had your time and now it's your daughter's time to shine please be supportive because after the wedding and she chooses a dress that you chose for her she's going to be the one watching back on her photos and regretting that she never got the dress she wanted because of her mom

  • @hazelem1266
    @hazelem1266 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When someone controls the purse strings and uses it to control the person, whether a parent or a child, it is soul destroying.

  • @pattiellison8475
    @pattiellison8475 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Mama, it's NOT your wedding!

  • @fieryphoenix2020
    @fieryphoenix2020 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    That second dress was super pretty on her and the mom just shot it down. Such a shame

  • @ILoveCats2muchYippie
    @ILoveCats2muchYippie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What up with moms hating on their daughters bodies?!? Jealous much?

  • @williegrant3054
    @williegrant3054 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The 1st Young Lady NEEDS TO DO HER!!! Momma has to SIT BACK & BE QUIET 👀

  • @annettemalaski1967
    @annettemalaski1967 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Momma, you can't see that your daughter loved the second dress and was trying to make you happy? You need glasses and a tune-up from grandma!

  • @glendarolfe226
    @glendarolfe226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sad that mom wants to control what this beautiful young lady chooses for “ her “ wedding day.
    Seems mommy is jealous of her daughter’s amazing figure & wants to ruin her daughter’s happiness.

  • @CreamIceMs
    @CreamIceMs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The second dress looked SO DREAMY on her. She's got a beautiful body indeed. So sad that momma is jealous and breaking her daughter down.

  • @lynnking4451
    @lynnking4451 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    It’s not about YOU MOM!!! It’s ALL about your daughter & how SHE feels! Good grief!! 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @shanie7192
    @shanie7192 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Mum is a jealous cow, the daughter has a beautiful figure.

  • @savedbythepreciousbloodofj7822
    @savedbythepreciousbloodofj7822 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Come on Mom, be nice. She seems like a nice daughter. You obviously raised her right. Let her pick out her we'd dress.

  • @diane39istockphoto
    @diane39istockphoto 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well now we know why she's getting married so young...to get away from her mother.

  • @thompsoncindy42
    @thompsoncindy42 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have two daughters. When they were getting married I did not choose their dresses or their husbands!! If a women is old enough to get married, she's old enough to choose her own dress! Seems like this mom wants to control her daughter. Daughter better beware or Mom will be in her business and making choices for her that are the Mom's choices and not the daughter's choices.

  • @gladysclausing8785
    @gladysclausing8785 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ugh, I can’t believe how this mom makes her daughter feel. All my adult life I’ve had weight and hip issues. God bless my mom soul because she never made me feel fat.

  • @tpartisupporter
    @tpartisupporter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The bride looked drop dead gorgeous in every dress she tried on. She also never had a dress that looked like lingerie or showed to much skin.