13 Style Mistakes You Should Try To Avoid

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  • @davidninan88
    @davidninan88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Timestamps:
    1. Over-obsessiveness 2:25
    2. Stubby shirt collar 8:30
    3. Short socks 11:00
    4. Notch too high 14:05
    5. Superhero suit 16:15
    6. Button stance 18:20
    7. Neglected shoes 22:20
    8. Big armholes 24:45
    9. Cheap ties 27:45
    10. Jacket collar roll 32:30
    11. Collar gap 34:40
    12. Clashing belt 38:00
    13. Too many accessories 42:00

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Many thanks David! Hugo & Sonya

    • @abdulazizal-thibaiti6517
      @abdulazizal-thibaiti6517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you

    • @simongaywanjala598
      @simongaywanjala598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hold this 👑 thank you!

    • @DrawnInk1
      @DrawnInk1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheers David much appreciated.

    • @keeganheath2305
      @keeganheath2305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You all prolly dont care but does anyone know of a method to log back into an instagram account??
      I was stupid lost the password. I would love any help you can give me

  • @handyndn1
    @handyndn1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    I began dressing "up"; or better, in 2006 when a personal stress appeared in my life. It was not exactly a tragedy, but it was something that dramatically changed my life. I was very depressed, but I realized that life goes on, and I could not just give up; because other people depended upon me, and I had a responsibility beyond myself. In order not to feel so depressed, I began to dress in a sport jacket and tie when I would go out of an evening,to drown my sorrows in the local pub, and try to feel more normal. I was pleasantly surprised to be treated with more respect and admiration, and to be immediately addressed, oftentimes as "sir" rather than the usual " 'sup". Men and women treated me differently than when I wore the "expected" jeans and t-shirt that I was accustomed to wear. I was astonished that peoples attitude changed so dramatically just because I changed my attire. I guess my point is, don't wait for some drama to decide to be better than you are, at any moment in your life, but try to be better than you are without the permission of others. Be your best self, and don't let others decide your direction in life; make your own way without the permission of anyone but you. Sorry for the rant, and have a wonderful life.!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Dear friend, what a wonderful story. Thank you so much for sharing it. And you are so right. When you dress up (by choice and not by obligation), people are immediately different with you. They look at you with more respect and kindness. We've experienced this so many times, in airports, airplanes, restaurants, hotels, everywhere. Yours, Hugo & Sonya

    • @MrTrenttness
      @MrTrenttness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is a great story. Which is how I view the purpose of style. To tell your story through your clothes.
      Thanks for sharing!

    • @adityayadav6712
      @adityayadav6712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't wanna copy you , but actually I do share the same experience . I don't know why , but while going through tough times I started dressing up well and received similar response from the people around me . Apart from being respected I noticed that people around me tries to have a conversation with me and that too in a much polite and open-free way (they feel comfortable while talking to me ) so they explore themselves in a better me , which allows me to understand them better. Thanks @handyndn1 for sharing your experience .

    • @jezprime
      @jezprime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I started in the style world in a similar situation about 6 months ago, being depressed about family deaths and having the necessity to pick myself up because people depended on me. Back then, it hit me while I was seeing a movie... "the suit is the gentlemen armor", and just like yourself I started noticing people were acting more polite around me, I was even greeted as if I were a doctor. It was a funny moment, even though Im an engineer.
      Thanks for sharing!

    • @ianarn
      @ianarn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha! Snap! When my father died in 2017 I experimented with bespoke tailoring!

  • @מיכאלמרטיןבנדיקטוס
    @מיכאלמרטיןבנדיקטוס 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Sonya's first point is quite universal: if you lose the joy in the pursuit of excellence, it becomes a burden - be that in career, fashion, sports, or any part of your life. Wonderful.

  • @stugryffin3619
    @stugryffin3619 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don't understand why but I'm getting so much joy from these conversations. Refined and sophisticated but unpretentious. I feel like I'm a better version of my self for simply having watched it.

  • @dustypendleton6694
    @dustypendleton6694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm an artist and most of my time is spent in my atelier but discovering Sonya and Hugo is a delightful escape into a world of social tastes; guided by two erudite intellects. what a pleasure. Thank you.

  • @augustmay444
    @augustmay444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Listening to Hugo and Sonya is almost like therapy. Love your voices and your passion; thank you for preaching to us and showing us the way.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If we can do something positive like you describe, then life is better. Thanks a lot ! ~Sonya and Hugo

  • @DonMauroCarrasco
    @DonMauroCarrasco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The 14th sartorial mistake: to miss every episode you put out there for us!
    By the way, love the quality of the image! That new equipment rocks!!!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you Mauro. And concerning the new equipment, we are progressing. Still a long way to go to really make the best out of it, but on our way. Cheers, Hugo & Sonya (and Kosmas and Greg).

  • @robotom
    @robotom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I must say, I adore you two! Your dynamic and banter is so fun and uplifting - Keep it up!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks that's very kind of you! Hugo

  • @Grabehn42
    @Grabehn42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Whenever I dress "formal" (because here people consider even a sport coat and jeans "formal) I've always been asked if I'm not too hot or uncomfortable and whatnot, same for "dress" shoes, because often people find those uncomfortable too, and I always just say "you're just not wearing the right ones".
    There's nothing I enjoy more when it comes to clothing than wearing a properly fitted suit and a nice pair of shoes.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And when they will put their feet in a real pair of leather shoes, they will understand. All the best, Hugo & Sonya

    • @Mister_Phafanapolis
      @Mister_Phafanapolis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      People are used to wearing polyester suits and glued together "dress" shoes. They don't even know what they're missing out with a proper version.

  • @ammonialime
    @ammonialime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It is so refreshing to to not be given rules. Freedom is maybe the most important quality in style in my opinion. You guys call attention to important aspects of dress but never go so far as to make rules. I love it. I don’t even wear suits but find your talks extremely interesting and very much applicable to more casual style. Thank you.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Merci Jonathan for your encouraging words. And you are perfectly right, all this can be applied to a more casual way of dressing. Stay safe! Hugo & Sonya

  • @RockHudrock
    @RockHudrock 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just discovered this channel - love his positivity and common sense with ACTUAL sartorial competence - subscribed! (Oregon, USA 🇺🇸)

  • @gary6514
    @gary6514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    After losing over 45 pounds in weight this year I realized none of my clothes actually fit me anymore. I tried on a few of my suits and they looked as if they were brought for someone else. I had lost 4" from my chest and 4" from my waist. I decided very reluctantly to donate all of my beautiful wardrobe to good causes. I now have to start again with my sartorial journey.... I have to say the task is daunting to say the least. I need to take my new physique into consideration and as I begin to gather new pieces. I may well discover my tastes may have altered a little. Your channel will be needed. Thank you Hugo and Sonya.

    • @TokyoRake
      @TokyoRake 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’d have taken those clothes to a tailor...

  • @GouthamKarthikeyan
    @GouthamKarthikeyan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This channel is a treasure ! Thank you for the wonderful talk Hugo and Sonya.

  • @lawrencewongk3575
    @lawrencewongk3575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a meeting. I never realized that I am usually the only one with a well tailored suit and a fashionable pocket square. I have a good collection of different pocket squares. My shoes are always polished and my shirts are tailored and tucked in and attached to my socks. The word is out in my company about my style. People now know to dress when they go on appointments with me. I always want my clients to know that I am brining my best and they will always get my best. I show I care in the way I deal with them but also how I dress. I think it only proper. I enjoy your videos and it has really helped me in my style journey. Thank you!

  • @darrenhall7454
    @darrenhall7454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m very glad I found your TH-cam channel, it’s such a fabulous education for me. I’m learning so much, and I’m starting to see things with new eyes.
    It all came from a chance search to find out what goodyear welt meant.
    Thank you for opening up a new world for me.

  • @chenxue
    @chenxue ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just discovered this channel. I’m a woman, so I guess this channel is not directed to me specifically, but I love the information, the philosophy of life, the simple passion. Wonderful. Thank you.

  • @ELCAPATAZ
    @ELCAPATAZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much Sonya and Hugo for your videos!!! It is simply delightful to watch you both speak so eloquently about the ageless and timeless art of dressing elegantly (without the starchy feeling) Your experience and knowledge are invaluable. Much love from Long Island, New York.

  • @reece9746
    @reece9746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You both look very elegant as usual, humility and a tie are the only accessories you need in my opinion. Thank you for this video, enjoy your morning!

  • @jasonalston9049
    @jasonalston9049 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sonya and Hugo are the best literally changed the world of sartorial excellence

  • @carlosatorresramos1944
    @carlosatorresramos1944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just love Sonya's face expression at the very beginning of the video! Living the life! Great talk, as always!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha you're right. When we are about to start a show, we feel so joyful and thankful to be able to make a living with our productions (thank to our patrons on Patreon). Cheers! Hugo & Sonya

  • @nycdontstop
    @nycdontstop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The two of you are such a delight to listen to. Always enjoy the content.

  • @LanguiYang
    @LanguiYang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I find so interesting to see husband and wife having talk in this setting. I simply love it.

  • @Solarlube
    @Solarlube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Magnifique from Australia, it is a joy listening to you both. Thank you.

  • @enriquesinghjr
    @enriquesinghjr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of my favorite channels... thank you for providing visual images of the mistakes.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for saying so Enrique, and glad you're here. Cheers! ~Sonya & Hugo

  • @IlIIlIIIIIlBrianSt0rm
    @IlIIlIIIIIlBrianSt0rm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a student, I've been interested in suits and classical sartorial style since 2015 and as a young person it's so freeing being able to comfortably wear suits and enjoy my style without all of the obsessive marketing companies try to do to other students and teenagers my age nowadays.
    Thank you for helping me and inspiring me with improving my own style

  • @peeeceee6275
    @peeeceee6275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am a huge fan of Mes Chausettes Rouge. I've been ordering from them for years (socks and Geo. Trumper cologne) and when I was in Paris a couple of years ago I dropped by the shop and met one of the proprietors. Very nice fellow and shop.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      While we agree, this is useful information for other subscribers as well, so thanks for commenting ! ~Sonya & Hugo

  • @tarekrashid5580
    @tarekrashid5580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You folks are one one the most sophisticated couples I have come across... So knowledgeable, articulate! You two nicely compliment each other! Wish you all success and happiness! And yes, thank you for the great content!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Tarek ! Hugo and Sonya

  • @MichaelWatts
    @MichaelWatts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I think back to my days of experimentation and learning there were certainly some esoteric choices... your passion and gentle expertise have been an inspiration for many years. Thank you Hugo and Sonya!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Michael, Join the club & hoping some of my learning curve pics don't resurface HA. Glad to have you here with us and thanks, Hugo

  • @ridingdreamer
    @ridingdreamer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I never used to "dress up" since I am in a tech environment and nobody around me wears anything more than a t-shirt / jeans or shorts. But I always liked some dressing up and started changing my style. I still do not wear suits (other than some rare occasion) but wear sport coats with contrasting trousers or jeans, added with an ascot (I do not use normal ties), a pocket square and a nice pair of shoes. For me it is my normal attire when I go to work or go to town etc. I really enjoy it. The funny thing is I get so many appreciation and respect even just in that attire. Many people say to me that I look very well and reminds them how people changed dressing style and how lost of a sight it is now. Thanks for the great pointers of working button height and being comfortable. I would like to see an episode concentrating on sport coats and ascots, for those of us who likes to dress semi formal and to add a bit more fun and free style.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Being in the tech environment, you've made a real statement simply by wearing a sport coat. Glad to read about the positive results so far and yes, we need to work our way towards talking about more relaxed dressing. Thanks for that, Hugo

  • @michaelblack8265
    @michaelblack8265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As Hugo states being comfortable in what you wear and who you are is the best advice one can give - make it your style and people will respect you

  • @matthewg.garcia9415
    @matthewg.garcia9415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I clicked on this not thinking I would watch the whole thing and here I am at the end of the video. Very interesting stuff! Great work!

  • @user-lh8ql5zr5e
    @user-lh8ql5zr5e ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are both a pleasure to watch and listen, and so relaxing.
    Thank you!

  • @Kunfucious577
    @Kunfucious577 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love TH-cam sometimes. I don’t know who these people are or dress this way but they’re make it so interesting. I love listening to people talk about things they love.

  • @yacofc24
    @yacofc24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I always enjoy listening to you. Such a delightful talk. Thank you.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Jacob for your encouraging message. Hugo

  • @homodeus8713
    @homodeus8713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great tips. Wonderful. First thing is noticed were Sonya's beautiful glasses having watched the Maison Bonnet interview.

  • @kojiattwood
    @kojiattwood 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    "Stop the madness: No more collar gaps!" Hahaha

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Say it loud and proud, HA! Hugo

  • @mohammedhadi7961
    @mohammedhadi7961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi.. I follow your talk from Iraq. It is a fascinating talk with alot of valuable advices. Thanks Sonya

  • @juliushauck3981
    @juliushauck3981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Always a pleasure. As already mentioned I think accessoires are a topic that depends a lot on your choice. If you prefer the classic style I agree, don't overdo it. But if you prefer a more daring, dandyesque, than it might be a good idea to wear some more of them. Which is, at least for me, a nice thing. Might change when I get older.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We agree Julius. And in any case those advices work for the gentlemen who hesitate and are looking for guidance and inspiration. But if you master accessories, of course enjoy them! Hugo & Sonya

  • @EddyWoon
    @EddyWoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    An outstanding episode!
    Where I am working (before COVID19 isolation), my 2 other team mates and I had organised "Not-So-Casual" Fridays amongst ourselves. We get dressed with neckties, waistcoats and/or suits while everyone else were wearing their casual shirts and jeans for Friday.
    I agree with your assessment of belts breaking the frame into 3 components. Consequently I change my black leather belts to use a black buckle to help it blend better with the black trousers and black waistcoat.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Eddy for your contribution. We love your "not-so-casual" Fridays idea. We are the counter-culture! Stray strong, Hugo & Sonya

    • @EddyWoon
      @EddyWoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SARTORIALTALKS No worries, you are most welcomed. Back when I was the only guy dressed up at work, they asked why and I told them as a joke that I had a job interview. When there are 3 of us dressed up, it started to inspire other guys to wear neckties to work. Sometimes I wear the Eldredge knot and when they asked about the knot, I refer them to the resources online. When we all return back to the office I will share your Channel with them.

  • @didierquerinjean9394
    @didierquerinjean9394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you very much for this very enjoyable conversation.
    I wear a suit only on rare occasion. To avoid the ‘No Back-of-Collar Roll’, I always strech and sit on the jacket to avoid this mistake and have it neat.
    It a pleasure to see both of you enjoying all this 😀

  • @jaxson1948
    @jaxson1948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Magnificent discussion Hugo and Sonya! Pure class and style!

  • @m.k.v.g.7203
    @m.k.v.g.7203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cannot wait for the long tie short tie discussion. Lovely as always. Merci

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay-tuned Marc, and thanks! Hugo and Sonya

  • @LiaAndrews
    @LiaAndrews 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just happened upon this channel and I am in awe. You both are on another level! So happy to have found this.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to our community Lia and many thanks for your kind words. Hugo & Sonya

  • @LovingAtlanta
    @LovingAtlanta ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👍🤩💝Fantastic.
    😆🤣😂Had me cracking up @ 34:40 about the collar gap 😆🤣😂

  • @janetfoad4788
    @janetfoad4788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sheer class - I could listen to you all day. Much obliged and keep up the good work.

  • @Ech3ssa
    @Ech3ssa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The wide lapels are quite a classic. As always informative content. Enjoyed it immensely.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much Willis! Hugo & Sonya

  • @yeti2237
    @yeti2237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are so proper and classy...it's an enjoyment to watch. Thank you for the video

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much and glad you watched! Hugo and Sonya

  • @jayeye4798
    @jayeye4798 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I go back and forth between backcountry chopping wood attire and classic sophisticated attire. Im an architect and seem to have the inherent privilege to drift from one to other without question from clients and colleagues. I have to say that your conversations inspire me to gravitate more to the classic style of a jacket and tie. And with most going casual it feels like a corrosion of conformity to dress classicly.. my favorite is to go against the sheep and their norm. Thanks for all the great tips and commentary.

  • @MindbodyMedic
    @MindbodyMedic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    agree with Hugo , really like Sonia's ensemble here. Very relaxed with wide collar/scarf tie and rolled back jacket/shirt sleeves. super wide lapels are interesting. effortless!

  • @timshearer5589
    @timshearer5589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    the collar gap with a tiny shirt collar drives me crazy too, lol

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Haha, yes, it quickly becomes slightly obsessional to spot them, because they are everywhere! Hugo

    • @guymcqueen6538
      @guymcqueen6538 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SARTORIALTALKS nearly always come hand in hand with an anaemic lapel as well, so two chances to spot them! I have seen some shirt companies with sponsored adverts promoting these shirts so they must really be commercial successful at the moment. Hopefully not for too much longer. Also, Sonya - I love that suit fabric in particular. Do you happen to have a niece my age? Hugo - looking great as ever too and very comfortable (great rule)!. Regards, Guy.

    • @sheevinopalpatino4782
      @sheevinopalpatino4782 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@guymcqueen6538 Mate.. "A niece my age?" Calm down damn

  • @stephenperera1966
    @stephenperera1966 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Key phrase…..”the removal of joy from dressing up”…..thats what we don’t want for sure……charming and approachable video as always

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Merci Stephen, indeed joy is paramount in this field. Hugo and Sonya

  • @arportillo5227
    @arportillo5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ive been a fan for years, im glad ive found your channel.

  • @HeritageCast
    @HeritageCast ปีที่แล้ว +1

    23:20 Just use some water, saddle soap, clean them up with a towel, and buff with walnut or tallow. And it will work out. Takes you 2 minutes..

  • @christopherhoof5057
    @christopherhoof5057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Finally, I’m able to fully experience your conversation with all “TH-cam viewers’ exclusives” that I could only imagine while listening on Spotify :) I really enjoy listening to Your calm voices and beautiful background music while on my way home, and now I’ll listen to Your great conversation again, this time both with audio and vision. Can’t wait for more interesting podcasts from You :)

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a great message to receive Christopher, thank you so much. More podcasts are ready to upload so thank you for the motivation. Cheers! Hugo

  • @brunogiambroni1422
    @brunogiambroni1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent video! Can’t wait for the next episode

  • @josechambel5278
    @josechambel5278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello, I'm from Portugal and I love your amazing channel. Congratulations and keep the good work.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you José! Cheers, Hugo & Sonya

  • @ThD040
    @ThD040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bonjour Sonya et Hugo,
    Took a while for me to watch this episode but I have to say congratulation on another great episode
    The both of you aren’t getting old, your ageing like a fine chateau neuf du pape. I’m at the beginning of my journey. For the time being I’m sticking to SuitSupply and Van Bommel shoes, not yet ready for bespoke. Thanks for the tips on socks and ties.
    I really liked the comment about nonchalance and comfort. Both aren’t indicators that you don’t care, they are indicating that you don’t always take yourself to serious. The people that made the greatest impressions on me always felt comfortable in their own skin and made the people around them feel welcome. Take time for everybody, the milieu you come from doesn’t matter.
    Travelling at the moment so I’m looking forward to quarantine, once again. This time I will be prepared; I will order both the books to learn and educate myself.
    All the best.

  • @rovercoupe7104
    @rovercoupe7104 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I was in Aberdeen at the weekend, on Saturday night I was wearing my dinner suit. The best way to walk in a dinner suit, or any suit, is to walk moderately quickly with one hand in a pocket. The ball room, where we had the party, is next to the coast where all the would-be racers like to park their cars and hang-out. There is always a police presence to discourage them from racing. I walked to check that the car was alright. I walked along with one hand in my my pocket and a straight back (I am prone to slouching). A couple of the young men said hello in a quite respectful tone, one of them even called me 'sir'. A little story for you.

  • @DavidFlores-kl4ew
    @DavidFlores-kl4ew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Both Hugo and Sonya are a very sophisticated couple, I always enjoy their videos and suggestions for dressing well

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many thanks David for your sweet words. Hugo & Sonya

  • @leporello7
    @leporello7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for this very lovely talk! It really felt like sitting with you at the table. Just adding to the button stance problem: It becomes especially problematic with the lowered belt line trend of the last years. Then it looks to me like someone pulling from above rips the person apart. When looking at vintage '20s/'30s suits with very high trousers a high button seems a little less problematic.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are absolutely right! Cheers, Hugo & Sonya

  • @evansowino5672
    @evansowino5672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to be a die hard of matching the belt with the shoes and even up to listening to this talk I was always thought this rule couldn't be tweaked, but now with what Sonia has said, I think breaking this rule will also add some style in enhancing silhouette. It makes lots of sense.

  • @crisyorke1328
    @crisyorke1328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like to wear an overcoat and a scarf, and flowy pants, but I like to have it not perfectly straight or tie properly to give it a relax yet elegant look.

  • @fashionwiseguy
    @fashionwiseguy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Time 37:00. Collar gap is so funny how Hugo reacts. Thank you for caring Hugo and Sonya. By the way, I just woke up and am enjoying this video.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good morning then! Cheers, Hugo & Sonya

    • @fashionwiseguy
      @fashionwiseguy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SARTORIALTALKS Thank you! A good day to everyone. Yesterday I wore a three piece suit on for the first time, it feels great and fun.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fashionwiseguy Congratulations Davide! You gave three piece a chance! Hugo

    • @fashionwiseguy
      @fashionwiseguy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SARTORIALTALKS Thank you! I love clothes, it is in my DNA I think because I am half Italian and half Greek by origin. I am 38 years old and I don't know anyone who is my age wearing a suit, the attention of the women is nice :) When I see a stranger woman or man who is well dressed often i give a compliment.

  • @MetaMM
    @MetaMM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! Am not a man but I follow your channel though still not a patron. Having lived in Milan for 30 years, my eyes are so trained with every little detail with what's wrong with things on every outfit but I'm keeping it to myself. I do try to share with others but only in Milan they would understand so it's difficult to share with those from other countries. However, love the French and the Brits/English when it comes to real style.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your message (we actually have a lot of women watching this show). Best, Hugo & Sonya

  • @ryanicosworld
    @ryanicosworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a married man myself, I really enjoyed this talk between spouses.

  • @josealfredobarrientos1236
    @josealfredobarrientos1236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think that even in this day and age a well fitting suit and a nice pair of shoes are a must not only for the events that require formality but for it being a classical piece in men’s clothing that will never go out of style and personally brings so much confidence and understanding of the sartorial culture and knowledge

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We couldn't agree more ! Best, Hugo and Sonya

  • @Methodsaimon
    @Methodsaimon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great and interesing talk about sartorialism you guys have really helped me out by mentioning the fench store that sells good socks that was really one of the things i kept ignoring having socks that constantly slide down so annoying! I will be ordering some from them!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Excellent! All the best, Hugo & Sonya

  • @SR-dw6io
    @SR-dw6io 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video as always. A polite suggestion, some channels have recently put timestamps and video breakdowns with descriptions in the slider, i think your viewers might appreciate the same.

  • @jeffhreid
    @jeffhreid ปีที่แล้ว

    The point about button stance being too high is so well put. The main thing I dislike is the exposed shirt and belt buckle poking out. At least have a waistcoat so I don’t see the shirt blousing out

  • @TK-gz2sl
    @TK-gz2sl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate your advice on not worrying too much about the Rules and Dos-&-Don'ts. I've long argued that some of the rules are just remnants of bygone eras that don't apply to modern time. Some rules should be disregarded not to be rebellious, but because they are not sensible in relation to style or esthetics. I will certainly follow if they're reasonable. Besides, strictly following the "rules" will naturally hamper developments of one's own personal style.
    I truly enjoy your videos and will definitely look forward to your next conversation. You guys should have more subscribers. My apologies for ever mistakenly clumping you with the likes of the snobby fashionistas. Please continue sharing your knowledge and interests on all things sartorial (without selling anything:-). Until next time... Cheers!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So much is open for interpretation---and all these things are man-made anyway, so we must rely on our intuitions and express ourselves the way we want. Cheers to you ! Hugo and Sonya

  • @bronovalter391
    @bronovalter391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so with you on suspenders. I've been wearing them since the 80's, and you can beat them for keeping your look together when you sit and stand up. The pants always stay at the right height. I'm in sales, and I need too look good at all times to instill confidence in what I'm selling. So, in or out of style, all my suits have suspender buttons sewn in. No need for a belt!

    • @miles2378
      @miles2378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do Suspenders work ok without a jacket, coat, blazer, or vest?

    • @bronovalter391
      @bronovalter391 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@miles2378 For me, I would only wear suspenders with a jacket or vest, although at the office, I wouldn't be shy about taking off my jacket.

  • @daningram9797
    @daningram9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I must say this is one of my very favorite talks today! In the beginning Sonya brought up excessive “fussiness” (if that’s a word) And I think this gets to the heart of what style is about. One can’t be so fastidious that one’s style becomes a chore. Style, as you discussed, should be a passionate and even happy representation of who you are; a genuine statement.There needs to be an element of fun to it. Mornings have become an increasingly favorite time of the day because I truly look forward to selecting what I will wear for the day ... it’s fun!
    Also the very “fussy” Daniel Day Lewis character Sonya mentioned seemed not so much about setting himself apart or distinguishing himself through style, but rather seemingly attempted set himself ABOVE everyone else and seemed i approachable as you discussed.

    • @daningram9797
      @daningram9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We’ve all met people that have that attitude about style. Glad you brought up other points like the stunted collar and clothing too tight and the need for proportionality in style.
      I know I’ve mentioned my father before, but he taught me about “short socks” when he was getting ready for a TV appearance. He put on over the knee socks and asked me to look at the other guests on the show and of course, one of the men sitting on the sofa was wearing short socks that just looked horrible.
      Another good fatherly lesson learned!
      Thanks again for a great show.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dear Dan,
      True, it's incredible how an "at ease attitude" can make dressing a pleasure, and the motivation of Cecil (DD Lewis) is indeed open for interpretation! Cheers, Hugo

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can imagine your creative father doing something like this---great story. And the term "stunted collar" works well to describe the issue. Really glad to read your take, and even happier to know you enjoyed the episode! Hugo & Sonya

  • @davart311
    @davart311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I tell you what..as long as you feel like you are under your second skin... it's like giving life with your body to the perfect proportions of your outfit ... a beautiful outfit makes a genuine soul shines through ...thanks again from bologna..!!

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a beautiful message David. Abbraccio, Hugo & Sonya (we adore Bologna).

  • @antoniosassogarciafilho1476
    @antoniosassogarciafilho1476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always an excellent show! Regards from Brazil 🇧🇷

  • @Z3kyTw0
    @Z3kyTw0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2 Legends of the industry!!! Love these two

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're very generous---and we are grateful for the enthusiasm, so thanks very much.
      Hugo and Sonya

  • @Coolbreez3
    @Coolbreez3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've learned so much from this video, thank you to both of you as usual! Particularly loved how Sonya can describe some of the mistakes in such funny, elegant and more importantly, non-offensive way!

  • @erichansen3180
    @erichansen3180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "No short socks, this is non negotiable..." he said sitting in front of a picture of a model with no socks on... But still excellent information, thank you

  • @danielhakimi
    @danielhakimi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to say I like a relatively low 6x2, but obviously it depends on proportions -- the distance between the two button columns (I forget the word for this), and the desired lapel width, and the desired angle... You can't just pick all four of these things independently. Higher button stance can help you get a more horizontal angle. That's cool.

  • @desertfox432
    @desertfox432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done! What a long waited for video. I love the irony of solving by negation in the heart of France. It's as if Descartes is looking down and smiling, and of course, sporting that famous collar.
    Merry Equinox to you both 🍂🍷

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you J. Have a nice day as well! Hugo & Sonya

  • @vonvildenschwert3045
    @vonvildenschwert3045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Video great as always. Very good points. The only problem is that when someone, for example a student has a lower budget for sartorial clothing...like me. Almost all pieces I have are secondhand or from Etsy/eBay. It’s much much harder to avoid all these mistakes. Yes, something of course can be adjusted by tailor which is great, but I’m afraid that not all of it.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are on the right path young man. Vintage or second-hand is great to refine your taste and education. Then later, you'll be ready for the next level. Cheers, Hugo

  • @1truthplease
    @1truthplease 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely to listen to you both.
    Enjoying Hugo’s books too.
    Always refreshing content in these wearying times particularly.
    Thank you.

  • @dylandevere5341
    @dylandevere5341 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    As I am understanding myself more and growing confident with my own style. I would like to inquire on your opinion for dressing well when at home such as through pajamas or dressing gowns, for those occasions where you are at home but you still want to look presentable if you were to pop out of the house for a bit. Great video as always and I hope I get to see more of you and Sonya together.

  • @bheinatz1
    @bheinatz1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video, lots of fun and not too preachy, as these kinda of videos often are.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So nice hear, thanks for commenting! ~Sonya and Hugo

  • @kesfitzgerald1084
    @kesfitzgerald1084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such wise words about shoes. In my experience, having interviewed many a young man for work, you can often read the measure of a man not by the style, or wear of his shoes but whether the welts are cleaned.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience Kes. Best! Hugo & Sonya

  • @johnnyguitar6697
    @johnnyguitar6697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting debate about the belt matching. I am French , and was always taught to try and match it to the color of the shoes. Now, obviously, this means having shoes that don't clash with the color of your suit e.g. tan shoes / belt with a light navy suit. But in that example, having shoes / belt of a deep burgundy color would not only be complementary to the suit color, but would also blend in quite nicely so as not to cut the silhouette. Conversely, my wife is English, and one thing that I have noticed at my in-laws is that they tend to match the color of the belt with that of their trousers. And, I have to say, it works really well, so I have started to do this too. I am a big fan of the elastic braided belts from l'Aiglon, as they come in a variety of colors and are really well suited to customizing. One of my favorite is light navy, with a contrast brown leather buckle. I am very fond of wearing it with blue chinos or blue jeans, paired with dark brown suede tasseled loafers or Chelsea boots. The belt itself blends with the trousers, and the buckle offers a discrete reminder of the shoes.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What an excellent comment on the subject!! You've said it all Johnny and your contribution will be extremely useful to many people here. L'Aiglon is a great brand indeed . And it's "made in France"! (they also have great suspenders by the way). Best, Hugo & Sonya

  • @Sweepdog700
    @Sweepdog700 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    New to the channel. Loved this talk. Just learning myself. Somethings I know instinctively but learned many new things I could see but didn’t realise what it was. Love that you said about comfort and as well about fussiness.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So nice to read this. Thanks for watching, Rob. Hugo and Sonya

  • @MrDuojet
    @MrDuojet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sonya's best episode.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would say, one of her best for sure. I realise she should more often lead the show!! Cheers, Hugo

    • @MrDuojet
      @MrDuojet 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SARTORIALTALKS I haven't seen all of your episodes so there may be others where she excelled as well. A la prochaine!

  • @84JD
    @84JD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the knowledge you guys share. Love all the suits y'all wear.

  • @ONITru7h
    @ONITru7h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm one of those gentlemen who has short legs and a long torso and I always wear my trousers at the belly button and all my jackets have a higher button stance. My proportions are so much better that way.
    Also, I believe the belt matching rules are there to help newer gentlemen make better choices at the beginning of their menswear journey. I think that belts should match shoes in most business environments but if you're dressing for yourself outside of the office or dressing for the beauty of it, the belts can be played around with. Sonya's points about matching the belts to the shirt or sweater wasn't anything I'd really considered before but I think that's a perfectly valid way to wear a belt. Cheers!

  • @gillesb4520
    @gillesb4520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Toujours un grand plaisir de vous écouter, aussi bien en Français qu'en Anglais. Salutations de Belgique.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Merci Gilles ! Salutations de Bourgogne, Hugo & Sonya

  • @ForTheLoveOfSuits
    @ForTheLoveOfSuits 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It was wonderful to hear this quite advanced and different-from-the-rest mistake list. Looking forward to the things you think are not actually mistakes. Thanks.
    I really laughed every time Sonja fluttered her peak lapels. Very cute.
    I just started wearing suits regularly. It’s for myself as I don’t need to for work but love classical style and I’m guilty of wearing short socks. I have hairy legs so I’m conscious of them not peaking out, especially here in Shanghai where men don’t have body hair, so my next purchases is ‘proper’ socks. But I worry they will feel uncomfortable after decades of ankle socks.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear Michael, just try a couple of pairs at Mes Chaussettes Rouges (I believethey ship to China) and you'll discover how comfortable knee high socks are. All our best! Hugo

    • @ForTheLoveOfSuits
      @ForTheLoveOfSuits 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SARTORIAL TALKS Thansk Hugo. I’ll give them a try. Just had a hairy leg incident this morning so time to upgrade my socks. I have to agree with you on this one. No short socks.

  • @kariusbaktus165
    @kariusbaktus165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's it very nice to see you talk about armholes, which have been my biggest concern and challenge since I started to dress better. 8-9 out of 10 shirts I try on are great except for the armhole. I don't expect to find a perfect fit in RTW, but the armholes I am talking about are so big they pull the shirt(casual, no dress shirt) almost up to my bellybutton when I raise my arms.
    Ugh, big armholes ruins it.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes Karius, big armholes is the most frequent and overlooked problem in menswear. It comes from the false belief that if you have a big armhole, you'll be more comfortable, which is absolutely not true at all. Cheers, Hugo

  • @PaulKruize
    @PaulKruize 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video Sonya and Hugo! Mistakes I see most often are the collar gap, jacket sleeves that are too long and people buttoning two, or worse, only the lowest button... Is there hope? :)

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Paul !! There is always hope; it's what we believe. Hope to meet you in person sooner than later. Cheers, ~Sonya & Hugo

    • @PaulKruize
      @PaulKruize 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SARTORIAL TALKS Meeting you two would be great! Hopefully one day 🙏🏻

  • @plusplusplusplusp
    @plusplusplusplusp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I started my sartorial journey in 2017, I became obsessive at first and spent far too much money on ties, far more ties than what I'll need for the rest of my life. I could have bought another good suit with that kind of money.
    These days, I don't even wear one (except for occasions like weddings and interviews). It's not required at my office, I was spending too much energy worrying about getting a stain on my tie, and here in Australia it's often uncomfortably hot when wearing one. 25 Celsius plus with a tie is too much for me, personally.

  • @merb.3576
    @merb.3576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bravo Sonya et Hugo! Superbes (comme toujours)! :-D

  • @hudavid3256
    @hudavid3256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both of you are so elegant and at the same time really approachable. I want to become a person like you.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So kind. I hope we don't ever disappoint & thank you for the encouragement !
      Hugo and Sonya

  • @paulngo1560
    @paulngo1560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Hugo and Sonya, big fan from Australasia.
    Just a minor fact check regarding Gammarelli (if no one have covered it), the red socks are indeed intended for cardinals, since it's the colour of their garments. I actually gave a Cardinal (a close family friend) a pair of red socks from Gammarelli. The Pope himself wears white socks, as befitting the colour of his garments.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear Paul, the Pope is also a cardinal, that's why he also used to wear read socks. But that's a minor detail. Best regards, Hugo

  • @briang530
    @briang530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video. I'm not sure if nonchalance is the exact opposite of fussiness, but it's certainly one of the things that strikes me first when observing others that I would call well-dressed.

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Brian. Nonchalance in the meaning, being comfortable while staying elegant. Cheers, Hugo & Sonya

  • @Spiritualgangster11111
    @Spiritualgangster11111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful 👏 thank you so much for share , and enriching us on classic style , wonderful video !

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Our pleasure, thank you for watching! ~Sonya & Hugo

  • @dansawyer1199
    @dansawyer1199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm intrigued that you count the tie as one of the accessories! For me, when you're wearing a suit, the tie is part of the suit (as are my cufflinks).
    That's my excuse for tie, cufflinks and pocket square.
    And the pocket watch goes without saying, obviously...

    • @SARTORIALTALKS
      @SARTORIALTALKS  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha, we love the way you count your accessories. All the best! Hugo & Sonya