The daily lifestyle of having my beloved young 3 year old cat I miss soo much. I know one day I will meet his spirit when I leave this physical world. A big part of me would rather be with him now on the other side. Animal grief is totally minimised by many heartless people.
I always try to remind myself how sad it is that those people have never experienced with animals what we have and that they will never change until -- unless -- they do. 💙
Thank you ever so much for sharing your Fancy with us. I watched your videos, as I, too, was and am still healing from the loss of my Pepper ( 13 y.o. male cat) of 13 beautiful years on 12/5/23. I am doing what you suggest in having a sacred place for his cremains, and I do talk to him daily. His loss is more than I could have ever imagined. I am so grateful for having the most wonderful 13 year relationship with a most Precious being. What a Gift he is in my life. Thank you again, and prayers for your healing! ❤❤
Thank you for the update. You and Fancy have been on my mind and I’ll continue to pray for you. This video is particularly timely and helpful, because I’ve been missing my ChattyBob so very much lately. His physical embodiment was filled to the brim with love, joy, enthusiasm and weapons grade happiness and hearing you say that the love is still here is incredibly comforting to me. I’ve never used the past tense of love when referring to him and knowing that you also refer to love in the present tense is so validating. Thank you so very much for continuing to be immensely helpful even while you are grieving. You are a gift and a blessing 🩷
God bless you Stephanie and Fancy. I adopted your advice from way back - to talk to them, all the time, every day. And in doing it, my love has somewhere to go, and it is such a comfort. I pray you are doing as well as you can, and I wish you many comforting conversations with Fancy too.
Wonderful to see you again Yes The love is there always feel the same. My Girl past in March Have big picture next to me 🩷 Gorgeous picture Sending Blessings 🙏🏻🩷
Grief f%*:ing hurts.... it has been 3.5yrs since I lot my 'Red' I had her cremated and she will go in my box when I journey into the unknown and at the age of 53 it maybe a long wait but I do know she will wait for me. I look forward to that day strangly. I still quietly weep for her every now and then and glad I did not erase any footage of her now but took 2yrs before I could look without trembling. Grief never goes away but I found I can tolerate it better now and think that is the best I can hope for simply tolerate and I am at peace with that. Your journey is long but you will endure and if we are lucky we will be reunited as it always has been. Big hugs. ❤
You're right -- grief never ends. And it always, always hurts. It doesn't get better, but it does get different -- something I tell clients all the time, and something which a dear friend reminded me of just yesterday. Thank you for sharing a bit of your dear Red with us. 💙
It hurts too much to see pictures of my Ladybug and all of my family. I've lost my whole family, including my spouse, and have never been able to do it.
That's ok. For some people, being surrounded by their photos is absolutely necessary. For others, it's impossible to look at photos and videos at all, sometimes for years. Remember, there is no Right or Wrong way to grieve -- there is only YOUR way. Sending comfort and strength. 💙
Thinking of you & Fancy every day and hold you tight in my heart 💜 Hoping we can connect soon. This past year has been incredibly difficult and the pain of losing Violet is still very difficult for me and miss her so much. 😢 Sending hugs to you. 💝
A shrine doesn't help either. A shrine is all good when it's for someone/or a pet who was old. When a young human or pet died, a shrine doesn't help. It makes it worse. Nobody wants to SEE a shrine for a young, healthy being who died suddenly. I think I'll end up in an asylum.
I know many people who have found great comfort in a shrine honoring "a young, healthy being who died suddenly". I'm very sorry that hasn't been your experience.
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The daily lifestyle of having my beloved young 3 year old cat I miss soo much. I know one day I will meet his spirit when I leave this physical world. A big part of me would rather be with him now on the other side. Animal grief is totally minimised by many heartless people.
I always try to remind myself how sad it is that those people have never experienced with animals what we have and that they will never change until -- unless -- they do. 💙
Absolutely heartbreaking to loose a pet.. still breaks me
It gets a little better in time but very hard
God bless
Becky 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 xxxxxxxxx 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Thank you 💙
So sorry for your loss, I lost a loved pet today😢
My heart hurts for yours. Thank you for sharing. Sending comfort and love. 💙
I agree...the love doesn't end ❤
Never 💙💙💙
Thank you ever so much for sharing your Fancy with us. I watched your videos, as I, too, was and am still healing from the loss of my Pepper ( 13 y.o. male cat) of 13 beautiful years on 12/5/23. I am doing what you suggest in having a sacred place for his cremains, and I do talk to him daily. His loss is more than I could have ever imagined. I am so grateful for having the most wonderful 13 year relationship with a most Precious being. What a Gift he is in my life. Thank you again, and prayers for your healing! ❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing a bit about Pepper with us, and for letting me know the videos are helpful to you. Sending comfort and love. 💙💙
This is beautiful and helpful! Sending love…as always.
Thank you, my friend. Much love to you and Molly always. 💙💙
Thank you for the update. You and Fancy have been on my mind and I’ll continue to pray for you. This video is particularly timely and helpful, because I’ve been missing my ChattyBob so very much lately. His physical embodiment was filled to the brim with love, joy, enthusiasm and weapons grade happiness and hearing you say that the love is still here is incredibly comforting to me. I’ve never used the past tense of love when referring to him and knowing that you also refer to love in the present tense is so validating.
Thank you so very much for continuing to be immensely helpful even while you are grieving. You are a gift and a blessing 🩷
Thank you for letting me know it was helpful -- that always means to much to me. ChattyBob has never and will never leave you. 💙
God bless you Stephanie and Fancy. I adopted your advice from way back - to talk to them, all the time, every day. And in doing it, my love has somewhere to go, and it is such a comfort. I pray you are doing as well as you can, and I wish you many comforting conversations with Fancy too.
Thank you so much 💙
Wonderful to see you again Yes The love is there always feel the same. My Girl past in March Have big picture next to me 🩷
Gorgeous picture
Sending Blessings 🙏🏻🩷
Thank you -- sending same to you 💙
Grief f%*:ing hurts.... it has been 3.5yrs since I lot my 'Red' I had her cremated and she will go in my box when I journey into the unknown and at the age of 53 it maybe a long wait but I do know she will wait for me. I look forward to that day strangly. I still quietly weep for her every now and then and glad I did not erase any footage of her now but took 2yrs before I could look without trembling. Grief never goes away but I found I can tolerate it better now and think that is the best I can hope for simply tolerate and I am at peace with that.
Your journey is long but you will endure and if we are lucky we will be reunited as it always has been. Big hugs. ❤
You're right -- grief never ends. And it always, always hurts. It doesn't get better, but it does get different -- something I tell clients all the time, and something which a dear friend reminded me of just yesterday. Thank you for sharing a bit of your dear Red with us. 💙
It hurts too much to see pictures of my Ladybug and all of my family. I've lost my whole family, including my spouse, and have never been able to do it.
That's ok. For some people, being surrounded by their photos is absolutely necessary. For others, it's impossible to look at photos and videos at all, sometimes for years. Remember, there is no Right or Wrong way to grieve -- there is only YOUR way. Sending comfort and strength. 💙
Thinking of you & Fancy every day and hold you tight in my heart 💜 Hoping we can connect soon. This past year has been incredibly difficult and the pain of losing Violet is still very difficult for me and miss her so much. 😢
Sending hugs to you. 💝
Thank you so much 💙
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thank you 💙
A shrine doesn't help either. A shrine is all good when it's for someone/or a pet who was old. When a young human or pet died, a shrine doesn't help. It makes it worse. Nobody wants to SEE a shrine for a young, healthy being who died suddenly. I think I'll end up in an asylum.
I know many people who have found great comfort in a shrine honoring "a young, healthy being who died suddenly". I'm very sorry that hasn't been your experience.
Nice to see you!!❤
I have been thinking of you & Fancy.🙏🙏🙏
SUCKS IS THE WORD!!!
With the “F” word in front of it….🙏🙏🥲🥲🥲❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏
Absolutely the double F word!