47 year old buck here. Was married 17 years, 17 yo daughter. Now date women 26-39. Two pieces of advice for young bucks: - Whenever you are confused, or things don’t make sense, or you don’t know what to do next: DO NOTHING - it’s ok to feel bad. How you feel doesn’t matter. Don’t trust your feelings they’re not always right. It’s what you DO that matters. Control yourself. This ties into #1.
@Sincerity1993 i think he's saying it's better not to over think and over react, stay calm and don't act on impulse, the situation will likely resolve itself or things will clear up
@@cgspartan87 that’s more or less what I meant, thanks. Sometimes, just doing *something, anything* is worse than doing nothing, *especially* when dealing with people and their emotions which usually simply aren’t rational - men included, but 100x more so with women.
@@ModernDatingMastery i agree it’s very harmful and it’s just downright insulting to women. People need to get off the internet. If women only wanted men with money, 90% of the men walking along the street with their wife or girlfriend would be alone. To généralise, I’d say all women want a man with a job, most (but nowhere near all) want a man with a job of equal or higher status than theirs, and neither of these rules is ironclad. That’s about it really. A tiny % of women are motivated entirely by money but you don’t want those ones anyway. That leaves a lot of women for the average guy….most women in fact.
In my experience when meeting women is: once you've gotten past the paliminarys the key to success is confidence, (not cocky), and be your authentic self, the ones who will be attracted to you, will accept you for who you are, the rest will fall in to place!
Although I am quite distant from dating now, I vividly recall women who attracted men’s attention without actually being interested in the guy. It seemed like they craved male admiration but not necessarily reciprocation. They would smile, engage in a brief conversation, or ask questions-anything to provoke a reaction from the men. I've observed many men getting overly excited by the faintest hint of interest from a woman, even when it wasn't sincere. I grew up in West Los Angeles, and maybe it was a regional thing; I don't know, but it's been done to me a lot. I don't know if this still holds true, but it was pretty rampant back then...
If you see a girl you want, just be kind, confident, charismatic, and just be yourself. Attractive women instantly pick up on a man’s confidence and are instinctively drawn to it.
The self is ever changing and not set in stone. If your current self isn't attractive, just be yourself is bs advice. It could be used as an excuse to never work on yourself which is what most guys who you tell that phrase to will.
Its easy, you go and talk to her, do your game, and as soon as she puts resistence, discard and go to the next one. Eventually one wont give you any resistence..
Some give resistance due to environmental factors like friends who might judge them for giving their number out etc. Try 3 times in different settings before discarding.
You will probably have to go through a lot of girls. As a guy you likely want to bang her before you’ve even talked to her. The vast majority of girls aren’t wired that way. It’s in her programming to apply the breaks and be cautious throughout the initial process. Of course there’s a lower threshold of interest and proactivity you’d want to see from her before simply moving on.
@@RAmogh How are you going to try three times in different settings with a random girl you ran into? If she puts up resistance, either she is not into you or she is in a relationship.
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47 year old buck here. Was married 17 years, 17 yo daughter. Now date women 26-39. Two pieces of advice for young bucks:
- Whenever you are confused, or things don’t make sense, or you don’t know what to do next: DO NOTHING
- it’s ok to feel bad. How you feel doesn’t matter. Don’t trust your feelings they’re not always right. It’s what you DO that matters. Control yourself. This ties into #1.
Do nothing? What do you mean. Since when is inaction a solution
wise words OG
@Sincerity1993 i think he's saying it's better not to over think and over react,
stay calm and don't act on impulse, the situation will likely resolve itself or things will clear up
@@cgspartan87 Ah I see, that makes sense and I agree
@@cgspartan87 that’s more or less what I meant, thanks. Sometimes, just doing *something, anything* is worse than doing nothing, *especially* when dealing with people and their emotions which usually simply aren’t rational - men included, but 100x more so with women.
*Believing that women only want men with money is one of the most harmful myths. What really stands out is ambition and how you carry yourself.*
@@ModernDatingMastery i agree it’s very harmful and it’s just downright insulting to women. People need to get off the internet. If women only wanted men with money, 90% of the men walking along the street with their wife or girlfriend would be alone. To généralise, I’d say all women want a man with a job, most (but nowhere near all) want a man with a job of equal or higher status than theirs, and neither of these rules is ironclad. That’s about it really. A tiny % of women are motivated entirely by money but you don’t want those ones anyway. That leaves a lot of women for the average guy….most women in fact.
In my experience when meeting women is: once you've gotten past the paliminarys the key to success is confidence, (not cocky), and be your authentic self, the ones who will be attracted to you, will accept you for who you are, the rest will fall in to place!
Post Script, (first time at the channel), thank you for an informative and well thought out presentation, look forward to seeing more!
Although I am quite distant from dating now, I vividly recall women who attracted men’s attention without actually being interested in the guy. It seemed like they craved male admiration but not necessarily reciprocation. They would smile, engage in a brief conversation, or ask questions-anything to provoke a reaction from the men. I've observed many men getting overly excited by the faintest hint of interest from a woman, even when it wasn't sincere. I grew up in West Los Angeles, and maybe it was a regional thing; I don't know, but it's been done to me a lot. I don't know if this still holds true, but it was pretty rampant back then...
If you see a girl you want, just be kind, confident, charismatic, and just be yourself. Attractive women instantly pick up on a man’s confidence and are instinctively drawn to it.
The self is ever changing and not set in stone. If your current self isn't attractive, just be yourself is bs advice. It could be used as an excuse to never work on yourself which is what most guys who you tell that phrase to will.
@ When I say “be yourself” I’m saying don’t act or pretend to be someone you’re not. It’s not as deep as you’re making it.
@keljerel Amen, agree with that. However most mean something else by that phrase and it's deeper than you might think
Its easy, you go and talk to her, do your game, and as soon as she puts resistence, discard and go to the next one. Eventually one wont give you any resistence..
Some give resistance due to environmental factors like friends who might judge them for giving their number out etc.
Try 3 times in different settings before discarding.
@@RAmogh women help you when they like you so if there's any resistance in any kind of environment, you're wasting your time.
You will probably have to go through a lot of girls. As a guy you likely want to bang her before you’ve even talked to her. The vast majority of girls aren’t wired that way. It’s in her programming to apply the breaks and be cautious throughout the initial process. Of course there’s a lower threshold of interest and proactivity you’d want to see from her before simply moving on.
Women do the same shit.. This type of game doesn’t faze them, find something that’s more masculine where they can’t out game you
@@RAmogh How are you going to try three times in different settings with a random girl you ran into? If she puts up resistance, either she is not into you or she is in a relationship.
Is that a Tissot Watch you are wearing? :)
Good quality woman? What the hell is that? Never heard of it 😂