"People who don't socialse much aren't anti-social, they just don't have tolerance for drama, stupidity and fake people", this quote is for me. People said about me that I am like this because I listen to Metal. Shitheads..
Nope , started when I was 14 and purchased Black Sabbath ,as I remember it was the summer of 1970 , yikes I'am 63 now.and started playing guitar the same year because of Tony Iommi, and now I own 18 guitars, many amps pedais etc. metal for life .
Yes, metal has changed me. It changed me into a better person. It gave me a passion, that helped me to get out of some depression shit, and gave me friends, that I can rely upon. It turned me into a happy person, very organised and helpful - I've survived through much and now I'm helping other people that struggle with similar shit. It's also a good music to listen while working - it's so full of energy that it makes me more energized, helps me to work faster and better. Metal is good for you and your health. Change my mind. Edit: I started regular listening to metal in the same age that you did, I was 11
I've always gotten support from those around me since I got into Metal when I was teenager and now I'm a Metal Veteran! There's always gonna be people that judge you regardless of what you do! Just ignore them and be yourself! 🤘
@@arbaaz9992 well frist of all I became closer to my dad he loves thrash metal and some nu metal witch then I heard him jamming so I took part an look the artist up with he was jamming to pantera so that got me started also it help me filter some people in my life that we just ass hole that I finally had enough of it
@@domball5269yep, I knew it there's nothing like that first Mountain you climb when you're discovering that original wall of bands mine took me about 4 years to climb and I'm still discovering new bands every once in awhile to this day.
Currently I'm 16 years old. I've first started listening to metal around 12, but I've really gotten myself into it around 14. I come from a religious family and because of media coverage I was led to believe that listening to metal was a bad thing, a sin. In the end metal helped me to realize I wasn't buying religion. It helped me understand myself, deal with emotions, remain positive and overcome my fears. I've gotten interested in history of metal and even did a presentation on it in my art class (where I live the grades go 1-6 and to get 6 you need either perfect academic score or some extra work, to get 6 in arts we had to do a presentation on a topic tied to art). Metal made me more interested in a lot of things, including different religions, history, true crime stories and more. I was never drawn to drugs, alcohol and/or cigarettes, my addiction is music. At 15 I came out to my mum as s metalhead by bringing home a CD. I've been quite stressed, since my mum is religious, but she asked me if I knew where to get KAT's newest album. My mum is cool with me listening to metal and doesn't control my record collection. She even helped me find a denim jacket so I could start s battle vest and taught me how to put holes in jeans. She also said that if there'd be a concert I'm interested in nearby we can go together (no concerts so far, but we're planning on going to a horror movie festival). My friends even if they aren't into metal admit that it changed me in a positive way. I've only once got asked if I'm a satanist, but I knew that the guy was trying to bully me, so I looked at him and in my calmest voice said yes. He didn't know what to reply and left me alone. Because of metal I started collecting CDs and one of my friends thought my stories about the collection sounded cool and also started buying CDs. Now we both complain about non-existence of nearby record stores. The same friend admitted to me that she used to have a bad opinion about metalheads, but because of me and some guy working at a gas station decided that metalheads are some of the nicest people around. Yes, metal have changed me. For better
@apollon jason The bands I listen to are Motörhead, Children Of Bodom, Pale Horse Named Death, Venom, Hunter, Stworz, Black Sabbath, Obituary, Paradise Lost, Bathory, Darkthrone, Immortal, Thy Worshipper, Behemoth, Death, Deicide, Metallica, Megadeth, Slayer, Anthrax, Exodus, Kreator, Slipknot, Celtic Frost, Knurzum (note: it's not an actual band, but a joke project in which a guy mixed parts of a vlog by polish internet celebrity and added black metal instrumental part - it can be found on YT), Accept, Powerwolf, Twisted Sister, Arch Enemy, In This Moment, Pull The Wire, Nightwish, Within Temptation, Visions Of Atlantis, Ozzy, DIO, Korpiklaani, Iron Maiden, Katatonia, Sacred Reich, Evile, The Haunted, Avantasia, Mad Season, Testament, U.D.O., Saxon, Pantera, Helloween, Halestorm, Volbeat, Shining, Alestorm, Judas Priest, Belzebubs and some non-metal bands EDIT: Finally had the time to properly answer this question
Metal saved me. I was on a bad path, very hateful angry empty and hopeless. Because I found metal I became a bass player finally found an outlet for how I felt and gave me something I enjoyed and a reason to live. Been a player for 30 years now. Metal can first then my faith. Now I'm a pretty happy person. Also because of the magazine metal edge I found my soulmate and we've been together for 22 years now. Metal kept me alive gave me a reason to live and helped me find happiness and love.
But to be serious a second; I think metal kinda saved me. Life was difficult for me (health & mental because of health) & having metal blasting in my ears while I was in the hospital; helped me when I couldn't move. I had music during the worst times of my life & in the best parts of my life. I wouldn't be alive without metal. I wouldn't have met my best friend I wouldn't have started playing guitar & played in front of people or put videos on youtube. It helped me grow, be less shy. And metal makes you listen to different things. I don't think i would've listened to traditional musics (like hurdy gurdy musics, pagan songs & all) without my interest for metal So yeah, metal changed me.
So glad to hear that metal has bren a posotive thing for you. On the hurdy gurdy not have you lisened to any eluveitie? They use a hurdy gurdy in alot of thier metal
Metal has helped me get out of the house get over whatever fear I had of talking to people learn how to sew (you kinda helped with that) and introduced me to countless bands in the process
Listened to metal since 14... and it led me to where I am today. I pretty much swear by the central ideas of black metal: individuality, a disdain for norms and a curious spiritual element as a driving force.
Yea i could say it definatly changed me and for the better. Idk why but it gave me confidence, empowerment and through metal i discovered myself. This music really speaks to me and through it i found out who i am, what i am capable of and who i want to be. And for that i am for ever greatful. If i had to pick a negative it would be that most of my money goes to merch but that's not really a bad thing, is it.
I think being a part of the metal and rock community was inevitable for me. The bands I listened to gave me the message to stand up and be strong. I didn’t feel wanted at school and maybe a little better at home. I needed an outlet
Truly, metal really made me not give the least of fucks about whatever anyone could think about me or my actions, since my tastes were frown upon since the beginning. I became only stronger because of that.
Tony, I've been a metal head since 1973 .... I started with Grand Funk Railroad ,Became a Gear Head/ Bachman Turner Overdrive Fan ,Molly Hatchet ( Southern Metal ) .....etc
It did, my self confidence sky rocketed, whenever somebody says something about metal, I just tell them to f**k off, but since all my teachers in middle school love metal, they just looked at me like a normal person
Mentally heavy metal saved me, I don’t think id be alive today without metal and even if i was id probably end up even more clinical depressed than i was before i started listening to metal, heavy metal gave me a passion and a reason to even bother living
I started listening to rock music when I was about thirteen, and that led me into heavy metal. Since then, it's been big part of my mental health and spirituality (no, I'm not a satanist or anything like that), and has connected me with some amazing people. The biggest change is that I'm more open with people now, and more confident in myself. My two best friends tease me sometimes about my "darker" side, but they accept it and don't judge me for it. So I'd say metal has changed me in a very positive way.
I'm not necessarily a metalhead but a punk rocker and I was just interested in how you got into metal because I can relate to some of the points you've made on this video. I've always thought having spiky hair was cool and how I got into punk was the loud guitars and fast-paced drums. It literally just blew my mind. Now I wouldn't know what to do without it. It helped me become a confident individual and not give a fuck what other people think of the clothes I wear.
Metal made me think. It is a way of thinking for me. Sick humor, swearing, sense of justice, right and wrong. It used to wind me up, now its therapeutic.
Metal has helped me express my emotions.. Plus metal also is helping with my health.....it helps balance my passive aggressive personality disorder In my case,Metal is a positive change
I listened to a lot of music as a child like techno, dub step and rock, but metal has Always been there for me, it has always been the genre I'd go to through dark times and idk who I'd be if I never listened to heavy metal
As a little girl i rlly loved Ozzy Osbourne and throughout the years he has always remained by my side, even through the hard times and my weird weeb phase he was still there no matter what. If i was sad ozzy would cheer me up, if i was mad he would make me happy. If my dad never introduced me to Black Sabbath and ozzy osbourne then I would've still been depressed and mad if it wasn't for him and I would've never played the guitar if it wasn't for randy rhodes.
@@lunahetfield ozzy was always one of my go too when I needed something to listen to, him and dio were always bands I would listen when I wanted to take my mind away from reality, especially dio, because he got me into power metal and that's like one of my main genres to listen to, without him I wouldn't have founded helloween, manowar, blind guardian and hammerfall
For me I think Metal did change me for the good even though when I was young others did not think so. I am in my early 40's and I dabbled in metal from about 11 - 13 but really got into at the age of 13 so being a young girl it really freaked out people. I really got into wearing all black, band shirts, spikes, and leather (I still dress that way you should see the looks I get at PTA meetings), while blasting metal on my radio as I walked through town and it freaked out my small town (population of 1300 mainly country music fans). I had been looking for my tribe per se for years as I was a loner kid that always even as a little girl liked things on the darker side of life (cemeteries, real crime stories just not the normal little girl items in the 80's). Metal relaxes me and it brought more people into my life even if they were not fans of metal as they said they just liked being around someone who did not follow the crowd. I will say though at the same time in my youth it was hard to be a rare girl metal head but it did make me stronger. My husband actually says I am more positive and happier when I am listening to metal or wearing my metal stuff when I can. So for me it was a very positive change. Sorry long answer.
ive always been scared to have to do with anything related to heavy metal around my friends because i know if they find out i listen to that “devil worship” (pantera, exodus, metallica ect) then i will lose all of my friends and never have anyone to talk to.
Yes and for the better. It was the sound I was looking for, it appeals to me and meshes well with my personality. If I didnt discover it when I did I would've eventually found it anyway later in life.
Metal music connected and talked to me when I was going through abusive foster homes having no friends it was just me, everyone from my counselor to the judge thought I was possessed by Satan metal has had a positive impact on my life saved me from doing some stupid things, have a great day werewolf 🤘🤘
Going to metal shows has helped with my shyness and have met some really cool people. It's not a cure all, I still have personal issues but at least I've improved since listening to this music some what. Also metal has helped me to bulk up and not look like a dork.
I think most Metalheads I've talked to or met, including you and myself, have changed in a positive way, it all depends on how we perceive their lives, STAY BRUTAL man! 🤘🤘🤘
i started listening to metal when i was 4 years old. im now 38. and im awesome :) slayer, iron maiden and more.. metal is life and i will go to my grave a metal head.
Metal has very much changed me. As a child, I had lots of anger issues. I was a bad kid, while also being a good kid at the same time. When I started listening to rock (emo phase & hard rock phase), I became a calmer person, but still a bit angry. When my friend introduced me to metal, I immediately changed. I became the most chill person. Metal is healthy for mental health.
@Miss Scarecrow fair point 😀 i use camo denim scraps to patch any holes i get in my black denim vest so the camo shoes through the hole. Is that a violation lol?
I can proudly say that metal changed me. It's not just about lifestyle, it just makes you a lot happier and you start thinking about many important things in life. It gives you self-confidence and pushes you through everything 🤘🔥
Its been a great outlet for me, I deal with chronic spinal pain and undiagnosed nervous system issues.. it seriously effected my guitar playing to the point where I basically quit playing alltogether... then I started listening to Obscura and learned about how Christian Munzner deals with focal dystonia. Im not completely sure if its what I have, but it seems similar. Learning about this inspired me to get back into guitar playing and REALLY focus on posture instead of just trying to play a song. Im having to re-learn most of what I knew because posture is so awkward to keep right but when I do get it right, I wouldnt give that feeling up for the world. Im also singing and playing at the same time now which is something I never thought Id be able to do without severe pain. Without learning to relax while growling I never would have gotten there. Since then I learned to sing/play Ocean Gateways which is one of my favorite songs and all of this has gotten me more into death metal guitar and learning harmonic scales... I dont really look the part so not a ton of negative side effects for me. You could call me a poser for not wearing a band tee or long hair but hard to maintain when I growl louder than most.. negative side effect would be that I use octave power chords and palm muting probably a bit too often😂
I was six years old when I started listening to Metal and my change been positive because I started listening to Glam/Hair metal and years later I got into more extreme metal like Death, Thrash, Black and even Grindcore in most extent. And my style as been changed from 6-18 years old And I have a dark personality to this day! Great video@Blackmetal Werewolf and take care!
Metal is empowering dude, and honestly it helped me along with other forms of alternative music to find something that I connect with, inspire me and give me confidence in my teenage years. I also notice alot of metalheads usually have a thicker skin and less tolerance for the bullshit because of the rude comments people usually give when your literally still a kid just trying go figure yourself out.
Metal has not changed me but it has enriched my life. I only adopted the aesthetic a few years ago but since then I wear band shirts and accessories just about every day. I feel comfortable and empowered and I've also discovered a metal community here in my home town that I now fit right into. All good !
Yeah Man! People don’t like what they don’t understand. With that, a good or bad person exists at the core of that person regardless of music or hobby or whatever. For me Metal has always been a passion. In fact, I would even say it recharges my personal batteries especially when I look at the state of the world and want to rage or just be happy. It’s the energy man, the energy!! 🔥🤘🏼🤘🏼🔥
I have short hair & my girlfriend says on my off days I dress like “a dad going to a softball game”😂 I’ve never really gotten the “you’ve changed” comment.
Metal has certainly changed my understanding of what art can be and what borders there are to it and has made me a more open person when it comes to accepting/liking different genres of music. It also helps me with not being suicidal.
To some, metal is just a phase, but to many of us, metal is a way of life and the perfect tool to face the hardships life brings, no matter the age. I know this because I've been listening to metal since I was 9 years old and now I'm in my 40s+ years and still helps me face my hardships headstrong while headbanging with it; proud to be a metalhead.
Metal is my addiction my money goes on CDs and T-shirt’s and soon patches just got a jean jacket that I’m gonna turn into a battle vest lol it got me to stop smoking I don’t like drinking or drugs metal literally helps my depression and anxiety and my social anxiety cause I can’t go anywhere without my headphones and phone and sporting a metal shirt I just feel weird without a band shirt on metal helped boost my confidence and just made me a happier person metal changed me but for the better honestly cause I would not be alive if it weren’t metal it saved me
I started to listen heavy metal and I have changed. I started to enjoy everything about metal aesthetics, my music taste also strengthened my interest to Nordic mythology, to horror-movies and horror-aesthetic. Even if I have no metalhead friends I do like metal and everything related to it. P.S. thanx for sharing this kind of video, the theme of changes and opinions about metal music interested me for a long time
Really interesting video! I think that part of the problem in being told that you've changed is that the term "change" implies that it's sudden and erratic whereas "evolve" is a more appropriate term since it takes into account the time it takes and the context of processing new information/stimuli in this "new" persona of yours. Of course though, there tends to be a certain condescending attitude when people confront you about this so they're not gonna want to use the term "evolve". Beyond that, when people tell you that you've changed because of Heavy Metal, they often see it as a negative because they have a preconceived notion of how you're supposed to operate. When their projections stop fitting into that neat little box of theirs, they may often see it as a personal attack on their values rather than treating you as an individual with your own set of preferences and purposes.
I can’t remember a time in my life without metal. My dad played my sister and I some pantera when I was maybe 3, I don’t remember much before then. I got into kiss when I was about 5 and it started to branch out more when I got an MP3 player from my dad. It had some black label society and Metallica, but what really struck me was chaos a.d by sepultura. I was about 7 or so at the time and 8 years later, I have not taken a break from music. Thanks for listening to my story even though no one probably read this
Believe it or not, listening to various types of black metal over the years inspired me to write horror, poetry and dark fantasy books, I even managed to win an award for a poetry book called Nocturnal Lullabies last year which was heavily inspired by black metal lyrics and classic gothic literature. Metal music got me into horror, gothic fiction and dark fantasy literature, I'm an avid reader and writer of each of these genres all because metal steered me in the direction of it while I was growing up. (:
Metal definitely changed me. It is a positive for me Metal has got me through some tough times & has brought me some awesome friends who accepted me for who I am. I am grateful for Metal & the friends who have turned into more like my family then just friends 🤘☠️. STAY BRUTAL.
Metal has helped me make the friends that I have today, allowed me to create music with other passionate musicians, gave me something to relate to, inspired me to learn how to play musical instruments and do different styles of vocals, in a weird way turned me on to some jazz and blues, led to me meeting my now fiancée, metal Shows gave me a reason to travel to other states for shows and see more of the world. A lot of good things. I mean my style too. I’m loaded with tattoos, piercings, long hair a long beard, massive earlobes, wear a “battle vest”covered in black metal and death metal patches...that’s from being a hip-hop head with sagged pants, short hair with line ups, oversized shirts, and big fake diamonds in my ears, so big change. Nothing bad has happened because of metal for me. Just good things.
I believe heavy metal has changed me for the better. I have struggled with depression all my life and it has given me an outlet for those feelings and whenever I listen to a band or song that I really like it for me is like my own kind of Zen meditation. I just feel all the pain and stress from depression or whatever other issues I am having melt away.
I know this is a super old video at this point, but I just wanna say that Ov Shadows album you recommended at the end is really fucking good so far, so thanks!
I have certainly changed for the better since I started listening to metal, and I genuinely believe it changes almost everyone for the better. It hit me in late grade 9 of high school, I was kind of lost on who I wanted to be. My favorite genre was rock and roll, and I wore t-shirts and track pants. I had no style, my personality was quite bland, and I didn't have many friends. Over the course of a year I started listening to more and more Heavy Metal. I became happier, more relaxed, more sociable, and I made more friends. People were interested in me and they wanted to become my friend. That wasn't the case with everyone, but by the end of grade 11 year I was one of the most popular people at my school. I felt more confident in how I looked-- jeans, studded belt, and leather jacket adorned with patches and spikes. Life just improved since I became a metalhead. Nobody has put me down for my decision and everyone likes who I am. Those that fear me just for being a metalhead are missing out, because even I can tell i've become a happier, friendlier and more sociable person since I started listening to metal. Thank you, Judas Priest. You changed my life.
My husband was wearing a morbid angel shirt that said on the back praise no man as savior and this woman stopped us at a powerlifting meet and asked what it meant, and as we started telling her it’s a band and all this shit what it meant to us and all that, she stopped us and asked if we are religious and if we need to “find the lord” and all this shit
Metal gave me an outlet for my emotions. Sadness or anger, now I’m not some angsty individual, I just bottle up my stuff. So metal helps me draw it out in a more mature and gradual way. Yeah, do I wear more black? Absolutely, but it’s just because I like it, and because I thought it looked awesome. Do I sit there being super angry and wanting to hurt people? Absolutely not! As I said, metal helps me remain more realistic and chill. Did it change my views or morals/faith? Nope, there’s so many genres and different songs that match me.
Second comment. My brother in law showed my metal at 12. Bands like Megadeth, Metallica, Black Sabbath, Iron Maiden. So if it wasn't for family I'd probably not have known grate music untill later in life.
I can't tell that Metal changed my life, because I was raised by it. Since I was a little guy, I liked Danzig, Nightwish, Iron Maiden or some other bands
Iv been a metalhead since i was 13&im 52 now i retired from a elic company for 25 years i own my own home have 4 great kids 2 grandkids&im stil roking out i dont think metal has had a negative influence on my life at al accept makes me happy. So keep roking out man.
Metal has been a part of my life for so long and so much, that I really can't tell if it's changed me in any way, my love for it rather grew together with me. It wasn't a choice I consciously made. It's not like I decided at some point: "Alright, I'm gonna start listening to metal from now on!" It happened gradually, on its own. Although, if I try being as objective as possible, I think the biggest catalyst that lead to my getting into it is the fact that, when I fist discovered metal music, I was at the point in life when changes start happening naturally (early teens, you know :D), and I was instinctively drawn to the philosophy and lifestyle that accompanied the music. It sounded incredibly cool, *and* it had this depth, in lyrics, in attitude, that soothed my young, dejected, misfit soul. :D So yeah, metal has been an integral part of my identity ever since my individual, adult identity started forming. It is who I was, it is who I am, and it is who I will always be. A lot of other things about me have changed over time as I was growing up and finding my place under the sun, but my love for metal music has only expanded and evolved. Again, I can't say anything about my having changed or not as a person because of my taste in music, but one thing I can say for sure though, I have learned a lot thanks to it, both about myself, and about the world and life. And yes, I take pride in the fact that I am a metalhead! \m/
I started listening to metal around the age of 13 or 14. I was raised in a heavily Christian influenced household. When I bought my first Metal hoodie (the first metal merch I ever got) when I was 14, the minute I turned my back, my mom took it and threw it away. It was a Slayer hoodie, and I adored it. My parents didn't like that I listened to metal, so they would make comments that would degrade my interests. At this time, I was listening to Metallica, Pantera, Iron Maiden, Slipknot, Five Finger Death Punch (before they were totally lame), KoRn, and any other generic metal bands that newbs are/were into. Due to the disdain, I had lost my interest in metal for a really long time, and I had lost myself and who I was. I was listening to more rap and hip hop, and I swear to god that has more of a negative affect on an individual's personality and character than metal will. I was acting like someone who wasn't me for the longest time. Ratchet, loud, ugly, ghetto, just nasty... I recently, over the pass few months, I have been getting back into metal and the culture. I'm no longer under the influence of my family. I have found that I have been naturally fitting in with the community, I'm reverting back to my original self, I'm actually finding something to be passionate about. I dare say I have been treating metal as not just a genre of music, but a god damn lifestyle. Metal has changed me. Back then, when I started getting into it, I can't really remember how it effected me as far as my personality goes. I was using it as a means to escape from trauma and abuse. Now that I'm getting back into it, I have changed a lot. I think it has changed me for both positive and negative. For one, I'm more selfish. I don't inherently see that as a bad thing, but it can be. I put myself and my health and happiness before anything else. However, I know when to be selfish and when to be selfless. I'm more introverted, but I suppose that can be predicted as much, considering no one from my area is into metal. If they are, they're into shit that was "extreme" back in 2013, but lullaby music now. So I keep more to myself, and that's cool with me tbh. I know who my real friends are. I have absolutely noticed the change in my thought process, as this music helps me process my most complicated feelings. My peers and family has noticed my more calm demeanor, I'm not ate up with anger issues anymore. A lot of people comment on my clothes and such, but I honestly like the attention, so that doesn't bother me either. In all honesty, depending on how I'm approached, it can either be a really good conversation about metal, or I have been given a chance to show my progress as well adjusted adult. I can't tell you how badly I want to go out in my corpse paint on a daily basis. People stare at me regardless, whether it be because of my clothes or because I'm a 10/10, I figure, why not give them something to stare at? Stop staring at my tits, and look at my fucking face.
Metal has helped me cope with my anger a bit better, got me into playing guitar a bit more, always loved the look and feel of long flowing hair and headbanging, also got me to realize I'm not alone in what I deal with, granted I'm still a bit selectively social, without it I think I'd be totally different and not necessarily in a good way (As in being an insecure doormat for others and totally just another person in the in crowd, whom I never really belonged with anyway) it's an outlet, lifestyle, and genre that has helped me to break the mold of cultural, religious, and social expectations and given me more courage to question the status quo and not be so afraid of the darkness in life...also reinforced the values of perseverance, integrity, and loyalty. So I think it's changed me for better, and I still manage to be kinder to people, stay open minded about music and entertainment, and actually enjoy reading a bit more myself...not to mention you get exposure to different backgrounds culturally and intellectually too.
It has def changed me for the better, kept me a live and helped found my family and great music. My parents thought it was just a stage in my life.. I have never been put in jail because of my love for metal.
I also started getting into metal around 10 years old and it has definitely molded who I am today. Of course I was lucky in the sense that my mother was supportive and didnt see metal as a bad influence. Still not her favorite type of music, but her parents didnt let her express herself growing up in the 80s so she wanted to make sure I could become who I wanted to be.
Metal has gotten me through so much in life. Dealing with borderline personality disorder and bipolar 1, being mentally and emotionally abused. Metal and the metal community keeps me alive.
For me it's not just a music, it's a mentality & lifestyle. So yes
The same, but it has also kinda a deal with the music, because i found a good taste of music and i started playing the guitar.
Same
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Cyborg Wolf I totally agree
Same
Being persecuted at school, at home, and in the world changed me. Metal saved me.
Amen
Same
Persecution (at school) mania
@Petrazenka what? I just said a pun about Sodoms album Persecution Mania.
Keeper, Metal helped me become best friends with myself
"People who don't socialse much aren't anti-social, they just don't have tolerance for drama, stupidity and fake people", this quote is for me. People said about me that I am like this because I listen to Metal.
Shitheads..
honest to god that is the greatest quote in the planet
@@ledwell3206 Yes😀
@Petrazenka that is what most of us do :)
It contributed to my skepticism and creativity.
this video's clearly fake, since when has this guy ever had sleeves on his shirt
Deep fake good call bro
It's the tiny details that matter.
watch his halloween videos
Uncalled for.
@@picklezz1892 It was a joke.
Metal is a way of life. It's changed life for the better for tons of people. Right on dude!
Nope , started when I was 14 and purchased Black Sabbath ,as I remember it was the summer of 1970 , yikes I'am 63 now.and started playing guitar the same year because of Tony Iommi, and now I own 18 guitars, many amps pedais etc. metal for life .
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Fuck yeah
Sure..
Never stop rockin'
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Yes, metal has changed me. It changed me into a better person. It gave me a passion, that helped me to get out of some depression shit, and gave me friends, that I can rely upon. It turned me into a happy person, very organised and helpful - I've survived through much and now I'm helping other people that struggle with similar shit. It's also a good music to listen while working - it's so full of energy that it makes me more energized, helps me to work faster and better.
Metal is good for you and your health. Change my mind.
Edit: I started regular listening to metal in the same age that you did, I was 11
Agreed
that’s me minus finding friends. my local metal scene is shit
@@ledwell3206 There are always metalheads in a neighbourhood, you just have to look for them. They're might be hard to find
I've always gotten support from those around me since I got into Metal when I was teenager and now I'm a Metal Veteran! There's always gonna be people that judge you regardless of what you do! Just ignore them and be yourself! 🤘
Dude metal has changed the whole way I have lived in the past year and a half lol
Could you elaborate on that?
@@arbaaz9992 well frist of all I became closer to my dad he loves thrash metal and some nu metal witch then I heard him jamming so I took part an look the artist up with he was jamming to pantera so that got me started also it help me filter some people in my life that we just ass hole that I finally had enough of it
@@domball5269 dude i am happy to hear that. Sounds like a VERY positive impact
@@domball5269yep, I knew it there's nothing like that first Mountain you climb when you're discovering that original wall of bands mine took me about 4 years to climb and I'm still discovering new bands every once in awhile to this day.
also family bonding over metal, nice.@@domball5269
Currently I'm 16 years old. I've first started listening to metal around 12, but I've really gotten myself into it around 14. I come from a religious family and because of media coverage I was led to believe that listening to metal was a bad thing, a sin. In the end metal helped me to realize I wasn't buying religion. It helped me understand myself, deal with emotions, remain positive and overcome my fears. I've gotten interested in history of metal and even did a presentation on it in my art class (where I live the grades go 1-6 and to get 6 you need either perfect academic score or some extra work, to get 6 in arts we had to do a presentation on a topic tied to art). Metal made me more interested in a lot of things, including different religions, history, true crime stories and more. I was never drawn to drugs, alcohol and/or cigarettes, my addiction is music.
At 15 I came out to my mum as s metalhead by bringing home a CD. I've been quite stressed, since my mum is religious, but she asked me if I knew where to get KAT's newest album. My mum is cool with me listening to metal and doesn't control my record collection. She even helped me find a denim jacket so I could start s battle vest and taught me how to put holes in jeans. She also said that if there'd be a concert I'm interested in nearby we can go together (no concerts so far, but we're planning on going to a horror movie festival).
My friends even if they aren't into metal admit that it changed me in a positive way. I've only once got asked if I'm a satanist, but I knew that the guy was trying to bully me, so I looked at him and in my calmest voice said yes. He didn't know what to reply and left me alone.
Because of metal I started collecting CDs and one of my friends thought my stories about the collection sounded cool and also started buying CDs. Now we both complain about non-existence of nearby record stores. The same friend admitted to me that she used to have a bad opinion about metalheads, but because of me and some guy working at a gas station decided that metalheads are some of the nicest people around.
Yes, metal have changed me. For better
@apollon jason The bands I listen to are Motörhead, Children Of Bodom, Pale Horse Named Death, Venom, Hunter, Stworz, Black Sabbath, Obituary, Paradise Lost, Bathory, Darkthrone, Immortal, Thy Worshipper, Behemoth, Death, Deicide, Metallica, Megadeth, Slayer, Anthrax, Exodus, Kreator, Slipknot, Celtic Frost, Knurzum (note: it's not an actual band, but a joke project in which a guy mixed parts of a vlog by polish internet celebrity and added black metal instrumental part - it can be found on YT), Accept, Powerwolf, Twisted Sister, Arch Enemy, In This Moment, Pull The Wire, Nightwish, Within Temptation, Visions Of Atlantis, Ozzy, DIO, Korpiklaani, Iron Maiden, Katatonia, Sacred Reich, Evile, The Haunted, Avantasia, Mad Season, Testament, U.D.O., Saxon, Pantera, Helloween, Halestorm, Volbeat, Shining, Alestorm, Judas Priest, Belzebubs and some non-metal bands
EDIT: Finally had the time to properly answer this question
@@emiliapawny4746 Myślałem że jestem jedynym Polakiem który ogląda ten kanał ;)
Metal saved me. I was on a bad path, very hateful angry empty and hopeless. Because I found metal I became a bass player finally found an outlet for how I felt and gave me something I enjoyed and a reason to live. Been a player for 30 years now. Metal can first then my faith. Now I'm a pretty happy person. Also because of the magazine metal edge I found my soulmate and we've been together for 22 years now. Metal kept me alive gave me a reason to live and helped me find happiness and love.
metal has changed me for the better made me realize that there is a community of people like me out there
But to be serious a second; I think metal kinda saved me. Life was difficult for me (health & mental because of health) & having metal blasting in my ears while I was in the hospital; helped me when I couldn't move. I had music during the worst times of my life & in the best parts of my life.
I wouldn't be alive without metal.
I wouldn't have met my best friend
I wouldn't have started playing guitar & played in front of people or put videos on youtube.
It helped me grow, be less shy.
And metal makes you listen to different things. I don't think i would've listened to traditional musics (like hurdy gurdy musics, pagan songs & all) without my interest for metal
So yeah, metal changed me.
So glad to hear that metal has bren a posotive thing for you. On the hurdy gurdy not have you lisened to any eluveitie? They use a hurdy gurdy in alot of thier metal
Metal has helped me get out of the house get over whatever fear I had of talking to people learn how to sew (you kinda helped with that) and introduced me to countless bands in the process
Usually when im really stressed i dont light up a cig, i blast some metal in my headphones and that really calms me down
Metal teached my to stand up for yourself
Metal gets me outta my seat. If it doesn't do that for you, sorry🤣
*taught. "Teached" is not a word.
My aunt couldn’t recognize me after many years of the metal
Listened to metal since 14... and it led me to where I am today. I pretty much swear by the central ideas of black metal: individuality, a disdain for norms and a curious spiritual element as a driving force.
Yea i could say it definatly changed me and for the better. Idk why but it gave me confidence, empowerment and through metal i discovered myself. This music really speaks to me and through it i found out who i am, what i am capable of and who i want to be. And for that i am for ever greatful. If i had to pick a negative it would be that most of my money goes to merch but that's not really a bad thing, is it.
Supporting physical media is never a bad thing.
I think being a part of the metal and rock community was inevitable for me. The bands I listened to gave me the message to stand up and be strong. I didn’t feel wanted at school and maybe a little better at home. I needed an outlet
Metal has played a big part in my life. It influenced my writing. Especially Power and Doom metal who have well inspired my creativity with my work.
I've been a Metalhead since 1982. I've since forgotten how to care what human's think.
Truly, metal really made me not give the least of fucks about whatever anyone could think about me or my actions, since my tastes were frown upon since the beginning. I became only stronger because of that.
Tony, I've been a metal head since 1973 .... I started with Grand Funk Railroad ,Became a Gear Head/ Bachman Turner Overdrive Fan ,Molly Hatchet ( Southern Metal ) .....etc
*humans. Learn to use elementary level punctuation.
For me, being metal is a life style more than anything else imo.
It did, my self confidence sky rocketed, whenever somebody says something about metal, I just tell them to f**k off, but since all my teachers in middle school love metal, they just looked at me like a normal person
Mentally heavy metal saved me, I don’t think id be alive today without metal and even if i was id probably end up even more clinical depressed than i was before i started listening to metal, heavy metal gave me a passion and a reason to even bother living
I started listening to rock music when I was about thirteen, and that led me into heavy metal. Since then, it's been big part of my mental health and spirituality (no, I'm not a satanist or anything like that), and has connected me with some amazing people. The biggest change is that I'm more open with people now, and more confident in myself. My two best friends tease me sometimes about my "darker" side, but they accept it and don't judge me for it. So I'd say metal has changed me in a very positive way.
I'm not necessarily a metalhead but a punk rocker and I was just interested in how you got into metal because I can relate to some of the points you've made on this video. I've always thought having spiky hair was cool and how I got into punk was the loud guitars and fast-paced drums. It literally just blew my mind. Now I wouldn't know what to do without it. It helped me become a confident individual and not give a fuck what other people think of the clothes I wear.
I like your style of videos, it reminds me of old youtube.
Metal helped me make friends with myself
I started listening to metal when I was 9 years old
metal actually made me so much happier life would be shit without metal.
Moritz Straßer same
Nice to see you again on TH-cam metal has made me less stressed in myself
Metalhead or serial killer if they knew my choice they would be happy with the change
Metal gave me a positive outlet to cope with my high-functioning autism.
Tyler King good for you, brother.
Found another autistic person
Same
Everyone is "autistic" these days smh. Nice trendy you're following.
for me it has and I think its a positive change
I got into it at 13 and I'm 46 now so it's sort of all I've known.
I also!
Metal made me think. It is a way of thinking for me. Sick humor, swearing, sense of justice, right and wrong. It used to wind me up, now its therapeutic.
Metal has helped me express my emotions..
Plus metal also is helping with my health.....it helps balance my passive aggressive personality disorder
In my case,Metal is a positive change
🤟🙂👊 awesome my friend
I listened to a lot of music as a child like techno, dub step and rock, but metal has Always been there for me, it has always been the genre I'd go to through dark times and idk who I'd be if I never listened to heavy metal
As a little girl i rlly loved Ozzy Osbourne and throughout the years he has always remained by my side, even through the hard times and my weird weeb phase he was still there no matter what. If i was sad ozzy would cheer me up, if i was mad he would make me happy. If my dad never introduced me to Black Sabbath and ozzy osbourne then I would've still been depressed and mad if it wasn't for him and I would've never played the guitar if it wasn't for randy rhodes.
@@lunahetfield ozzy was always one of my go too when I needed something to listen to, him and dio were always bands I would listen when I wanted to take my mind away from reality, especially dio, because he got me into power metal and that's like one of my main genres to listen to, without him I wouldn't have founded helloween, manowar, blind guardian and hammerfall
For me I think Metal did change me for the good even though when I was young others did not think so. I am in my early 40's and I dabbled in metal from about 11 - 13 but really got into at the age of 13 so being a young girl it really freaked out people. I really got into wearing all black, band shirts, spikes, and leather (I still dress that way you should see the looks I get at PTA meetings), while blasting metal on my radio as I walked through town and it freaked out my small town (population of 1300 mainly country music fans). I had been looking for my tribe per se for years as I was a loner kid that always even as a little girl liked things on the darker side of life (cemeteries, real crime stories just not the normal little girl items in the 80's). Metal relaxes me and it brought more people into my life even if they were not fans of metal as they said they just liked being around someone who did not follow the crowd. I will say though at the same time in my youth it was hard to be a rare girl metal head but it did make me stronger. My husband actually says I am more positive and happier when I am listening to metal or wearing my metal stuff when I can. So for me it was a very positive change. Sorry long answer.
If I never listened to metal, I would be much more closed-minded.
The one Guy WHO disliked this can leave
changed me for the best , i truly love myself now , and dress like myself .! !! ive always loved dark stuff and this really helped me be me
ive always been scared to have to do with anything related to heavy metal around my friends because i know if they find out i listen to that “devil worship” (pantera, exodus, metallica ect) then i will lose all of my friends and never have anyone to talk to.
If they reject you because of the music you like then they are not real friends to begin with - and you can do so much better.
After listening to metal I've become happier and confident 😄 even help me as a motivation booster before exams
Yes and for the better. It was the sound I was looking for, it appeals to me and meshes well with my personality. If I didnt discover it when I did I would've eventually found it anyway later in life.
Metal helped me get into other things. It's been nothing but positive for me.
Metal music connected and talked to me when I was going through abusive foster homes having no friends it was just me, everyone from my counselor to the judge thought I was possessed by Satan metal has had a positive impact on my life saved me from doing some stupid things, have a great day werewolf 🤘🤘
Going to metal shows has helped with my shyness and have met some really cool people. It's not a cure all, I still have personal issues but at least I've improved since listening to this music some what. Also metal has helped me to bulk up and not look like a dork.
I think most Metalheads I've talked to or met, including you and myself, have changed in a positive way, it all depends on how we perceive their lives, STAY BRUTAL man! 🤘🤘🤘
Wait... are those sleeves? What is happening?
Astrid Kjersem Nah, that must be an illusion. No way he’d ever wea- wait a minute...
Hahaha!!
i started listening to metal when i was 4 years old. im now 38. and im awesome :) slayer, iron maiden and more.. metal is life and i will go to my grave a metal head.
Metal made me a more social person. It helped me making friends and solve problems in my life.
I started playing guitar because of metal
Drums for me
Metal has very much changed me. As a child, I had lots of anger issues. I was a bad kid, while also being a good kid at the same time. When I started listening to rock (emo phase & hard rock phase), I became a calmer person, but still a bit angry. When my friend introduced me to metal, I immediately changed. I became the most chill person. Metal is healthy for mental health.
Metal definetly influenced and increased the amount of denim in my life. Weather that is posotive or negative i cant say lmao
@Miss Scarecrow fair point 😀 i use camo denim scraps to patch any holes i get in my black denim vest so the camo shoes through the hole. Is that a violation lol?
*whether. Spelling is very hard.
Gothic metal has changed me because becoming like Peter Steele
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Haha so you went from war and thrash metal to gay goth metal😂 so yeah it has changed you in a bad way
THRASH TIL DEATH Mylo GREECE stfu
I can proudly say that metal changed me. It's not just about lifestyle, it just makes you a lot happier and you start thinking about many important things in life. It gives you self-confidence and pushes you through everything 🤘🔥
Its been a great outlet for me, I deal with chronic spinal pain and undiagnosed nervous system issues.. it seriously effected my guitar playing to the point where I basically quit playing alltogether... then I started listening to Obscura and learned about how Christian Munzner deals with focal dystonia. Im not completely sure if its what I have, but it seems similar. Learning about this inspired me to get back into guitar playing and REALLY focus on posture instead of just trying to play a song. Im having to re-learn most of what I knew because posture is so awkward to keep right but when I do get it right, I wouldnt give that feeling up for the world.
Im also singing and playing at the same time now which is something I never thought Id be able to do without severe pain. Without learning to relax while growling I never would have gotten there.
Since then I learned to sing/play Ocean Gateways which is one of my favorite songs and all of this has gotten me more into death metal guitar and learning harmonic scales... I dont really look the part so not a ton of negative side effects for me. You could call me a poser for not wearing a band tee or long hair but hard to maintain when I growl louder than most.. negative side effect would be that I use octave power chords and palm muting probably a bit too often😂
I was six years old when I started listening to Metal and my change been positive because I started listening to Glam/Hair metal and years later I got into more extreme metal like Death, Thrash, Black and even Grindcore in most extent. And my style as been changed from 6-18 years old
And I have a dark personality to this day!
Great video@Blackmetal Werewolf and take care!
You know what the best drug is ? Heavy Metal!! - Jeff Waters .
Metal is empowering dude, and honestly it helped me along with other forms of alternative music to find something that I connect with, inspire me and give me confidence in my teenage years. I also notice alot of metalheads usually have a thicker skin and less tolerance for the bullshit because of the rude comments people usually give when your literally still a kid just trying go figure yourself out.
Metal has not changed me but it has enriched my life. I only adopted the aesthetic a few years ago but since then I wear band shirts and accessories just about every day. I feel comfortable and empowered and I've also discovered a metal community here in my home town that I now fit right into. All good !
8:33 My Chem is great, why use it in the same sentence as Nickelback?
I like that Dio poster, btw.
Great video good to see you again in TH-cam. Metal definitely made a great change in my life, but a very good change
Yeah Man! People don’t like what they don’t understand. With that, a good or bad person exists at the core of that person regardless of music or hobby or whatever. For me Metal has always been a passion. In fact, I would even say it recharges my personal batteries especially when I look at the state of the world and want to rage or just be happy. It’s the energy man, the energy!! 🔥🤘🏼🤘🏼🔥
Metal changed me never had a real interest in anything and after I got into metal I started playing drums 5 years later I’m going to college for drums
I have short hair & my girlfriend says on my off days I dress like “a dad going to a softball game”😂
I’ve never really gotten the “you’ve changed” comment.
Metal has certainly changed my understanding of what art can be and what borders there are to it and has made me a more open person when it comes to accepting/liking different genres of music. It also helps me with not being suicidal.
Nice shirt.🤘
It's changed me a lot, more confidence, more personality. My parents are proud of me as well as my brother and I have made good friends over it.
btw: I am dressed all in black and am wearing a Dark Funeral Tee Shirt
Reign in Chaos du svensk?
@@conspiranoid6990 No I am American.
Overall metal has changed me in positive ways and has made me a better person. Would not give up metal for the world!
To some, metal is just a phase, but to many of us, metal is a way of life and the perfect tool to face the hardships life brings, no matter the age. I know this because I've been listening to metal since I was 9 years old and now I'm in my 40s+ years and still helps me face my hardships headstrong while headbanging with it; proud to be a metalhead.
Metal is my addiction my money goes on CDs and T-shirt’s and soon patches just got a jean jacket that I’m gonna turn into a battle vest lol it got me to stop smoking I don’t like drinking or drugs metal literally helps my depression and anxiety and my social anxiety cause I can’t go anywhere without my headphones and phone and sporting a metal shirt I just feel weird without a band shirt on metal helped boost my confidence and just made me a happier person metal changed me but for the better honestly cause I would not be alive if it weren’t metal it saved me
Been listening to metal since I was 12. I’m 37 now. It is life that changed me. Metal stayed with me through all those changes.
You look pretty good today...🙃 I think you changed...🙃🤘🏻
*sleeves*
I started to listen heavy metal and I have changed. I started to enjoy everything about metal aesthetics, my music taste also strengthened my interest to Nordic mythology, to horror-movies and horror-aesthetic. Even if I have no metalhead friends I do like metal and everything related to it.
P.S. thanx for sharing this kind of video, the theme of changes and opinions about metal music interested me for a long time
Really interesting video!
I think that part of the problem in being told that you've changed is that the term "change" implies that it's sudden and erratic whereas "evolve" is a more appropriate term since it takes into account the time it takes and the context of processing new information/stimuli in this "new" persona of yours. Of course though, there tends to be a certain condescending attitude when people confront you about this so they're not gonna want to use the term "evolve".
Beyond that, when people tell you that you've changed because of Heavy Metal, they often see it as a negative because they have a preconceived notion of how you're supposed to operate. When their projections stop fitting into that neat little box of theirs, they may often see it as a personal attack on their values rather than treating you as an individual with your own set of preferences and purposes.
It definitely has changed me, in good and bad ways.
I can’t remember a time in my life without metal. My dad played my sister and I some pantera when I was maybe 3, I don’t remember much before then. I got into kiss when I was about 5 and it started to branch out more when I got an MP3 player from my dad. It had some black label society and Metallica, but what really struck me was chaos a.d by sepultura. I was about 7 or so at the time and 8 years later, I have not taken a break from music. Thanks for listening to my story even though no one probably read this
I read it. 😁
Believe it or not, listening to various types of black metal over the years inspired me to write horror, poetry and dark fantasy books, I even managed to win an award for a poetry book called Nocturnal Lullabies last year which was heavily inspired by black metal lyrics and classic gothic literature. Metal music got me into horror, gothic fiction and dark fantasy literature, I'm an avid reader and writer of each of these genres all because metal steered me in the direction of it while I was growing up. (:
Metal definitely changed me. It is a positive for me Metal has got me through some tough times & has brought me some awesome friends who accepted me for who I am. I am grateful for Metal & the friends who have turned into more like my family then just friends 🤘☠️. STAY BRUTAL.
Metal has helped me make the friends that I have today, allowed me to create music with other passionate musicians, gave me something to relate to, inspired me to learn how to play musical instruments and do different styles of vocals, in a weird way turned me on to some jazz and blues, led to me meeting my now fiancée, metal
Shows gave me a reason to travel to other states for shows and see more of the world. A lot of good things. I mean my style too. I’m loaded with tattoos, piercings, long hair a long beard, massive earlobes, wear a “battle vest”covered in black metal and death metal patches...that’s from being a hip-hop head with sagged pants, short hair with line ups, oversized shirts, and big fake diamonds in my ears, so big change. Nothing bad has happened because of metal for me. Just good things.
I believe heavy metal has changed me for the better. I have struggled with depression all my life and it has given me an outlet for those feelings and whenever I listen to a band or song that I really like it for me is like my own kind of Zen meditation. I just feel all the pain and stress from depression or whatever other issues I am having melt away.
I know this is a super old video at this point, but I just wanna say that Ov Shadows album you recommended at the end is really fucking good so far, so thanks!
I have certainly changed for the better since I started listening to metal, and I genuinely believe it changes almost everyone for the better.
It hit me in late grade 9 of high school, I was kind of lost on who I wanted to be. My favorite genre was rock and roll, and I wore t-shirts and track pants. I had no style, my personality was quite bland, and I didn't have many friends.
Over the course of a year I started listening to more and more Heavy Metal. I became happier, more relaxed, more sociable, and I made more friends. People were interested in me and they wanted to become my friend. That wasn't the case with everyone, but by the end of grade 11 year I was one of the most popular people at my school.
I felt more confident in how I looked-- jeans, studded belt, and leather jacket adorned with patches and spikes. Life just improved since I became a metalhead.
Nobody has put me down for my decision and everyone likes who I am. Those that fear me just for being a metalhead are missing out, because even I can tell i've become a happier, friendlier and more sociable person since I started listening to metal.
Thank you, Judas Priest. You changed my life.
My husband was wearing a morbid angel shirt that said on the back praise no man as savior and this woman stopped us at a powerlifting meet and asked what it meant, and as we started telling her it’s a band and all this shit what it meant to us and all that, she stopped us and asked if we are religious and if we need to “find the lord” and all this shit
I wish there were t-shirts in your store. I'd buy one or two no question.
Metal gave me an outlet for my emotions. Sadness or anger, now I’m not some angsty individual, I just bottle up my stuff.
So metal helps me draw it out in a more mature and gradual way.
Yeah, do I wear more black? Absolutely, but it’s just because I like it, and because I thought it looked awesome. Do I sit there being super angry and wanting to hurt people? Absolutely not! As I said, metal helps me remain more realistic and chill. Did it change my views or morals/faith? Nope, there’s so many genres and different songs that match me.
Second comment. My brother in law showed my metal at 12. Bands like Megadeth, Metallica, Black Sabbath, Iron Maiden. So if it wasn't for family I'd probably not have known grate music untill later in life.
I can't tell that Metal changed my life, because I was raised by it. Since I was a little guy, I liked Danzig, Nightwish, Iron Maiden or some other bands
Iv been a metalhead since i was 13&im 52 now i retired from a elic company for 25 years i own my own home have 4 great kids 2 grandkids&im stil roking out i dont think metal has had a negative influence on my life at al accept makes me happy. So keep roking out man.
Metal has been a part of my life for so long and so much, that I really can't tell if it's changed me in any way, my love for it rather grew together with me. It wasn't a choice I consciously made. It's not like I decided at some point: "Alright, I'm gonna start listening to metal from now on!" It happened gradually, on its own. Although, if I try being as objective as possible, I think the biggest catalyst that lead to my getting into it is the fact that, when I fist discovered metal music, I was at the point in life when changes start happening naturally (early teens, you know :D), and I was instinctively drawn to the philosophy and lifestyle that accompanied the music. It sounded incredibly cool, *and* it had this depth, in lyrics, in attitude, that soothed my young, dejected, misfit soul. :D
So yeah, metal has been an integral part of my identity ever since my individual, adult identity started forming. It is who I was, it is who I am, and it is who I will always be. A lot of other things about me have changed over time as I was growing up and finding my place under the sun, but my love for metal music has only expanded and evolved. Again, I can't say anything about my having changed or not as a person because of my taste in music, but one thing I can say for sure though, I have learned a lot thanks to it, both about myself, and about the world and life.
And yes, I take pride in the fact that I am a metalhead! \m/
I started listening to metal around the age of 13 or 14. I was raised in a heavily Christian influenced household. When I bought my first Metal hoodie (the first metal merch I ever got) when I was 14, the minute I turned my back, my mom took it and threw it away. It was a Slayer hoodie, and I adored it. My parents didn't like that I listened to metal, so they would make comments that would degrade my interests. At this time, I was listening to Metallica, Pantera, Iron Maiden, Slipknot, Five Finger Death Punch (before they were totally lame), KoRn, and any other generic metal bands that newbs are/were into. Due to the disdain, I had lost my interest in metal for a really long time, and I had lost myself and who I was. I was listening to more rap and hip hop, and I swear to god that has more of a negative affect on an individual's personality and character than metal will. I was acting like someone who wasn't me for the longest time. Ratchet, loud, ugly, ghetto, just nasty... I recently, over the pass few months, I have been getting back into metal and the culture. I'm no longer under the influence of my family. I have found that I have been naturally fitting in with the community, I'm reverting back to my original self, I'm actually finding something to be passionate about. I dare say I have been treating metal as not just a genre of music, but a god damn lifestyle.
Metal has changed me. Back then, when I started getting into it, I can't really remember how it effected me as far as my personality goes. I was using it as a means to escape from trauma and abuse. Now that I'm getting back into it, I have changed a lot. I think it has changed me for both positive and negative. For one, I'm more selfish. I don't inherently see that as a bad thing, but it can be. I put myself and my health and happiness before anything else. However, I know when to be selfish and when to be selfless. I'm more introverted, but I suppose that can be predicted as much, considering no one from my area is into metal. If they are, they're into shit that was "extreme" back in 2013, but lullaby music now. So I keep more to myself, and that's cool with me tbh. I know who my real friends are. I have absolutely noticed the change in my thought process, as this music helps me process my most complicated feelings. My peers and family has noticed my more calm demeanor, I'm not ate up with anger issues anymore. A lot of people comment on my clothes and such, but I honestly like the attention, so that doesn't bother me either. In all honesty, depending on how I'm approached, it can either be a really good conversation about metal, or I have been given a chance to show my progress as well adjusted adult.
I can't tell you how badly I want to go out in my corpse paint on a daily basis. People stare at me regardless, whether it be because of my clothes or because I'm a 10/10, I figure, why not give them something to stare at? Stop staring at my tits, and look at my fucking face.
Metal has helped me cope with my anger a bit better, got me into playing guitar a bit more, always loved the look and feel of long flowing hair and headbanging, also got me to realize I'm not alone in what I deal with, granted I'm still a bit selectively social, without it I think I'd be totally different and not necessarily in a good way (As in being an insecure doormat for others and totally just another person in the in crowd, whom I never really belonged with anyway) it's an outlet, lifestyle, and genre that has helped me to break the mold of cultural, religious, and social expectations and given me more courage to question the status quo and not be so afraid of the darkness in life...also reinforced the values of perseverance, integrity, and loyalty. So I think it's changed me for better, and I still manage to be kinder to people, stay open minded about music and entertainment, and actually enjoy reading a bit more myself...not to mention you get exposure to different backgrounds culturally and intellectually too.
Metal makes me happy.
It has def changed me for the better, kept me a live and helped found my family and great music. My parents thought it was just a stage in my life.. I have never been put in jail because of my love for metal.
I also started getting into metal around 10 years old and it has definitely molded who I am today. Of course I was lucky in the sense that my mother was supportive and didnt see metal as a bad influence. Still not her favorite type of music, but her parents didnt let her express herself growing up in the 80s so she wanted to make sure I could become who I wanted to be.
Metal has gotten me through so much in life. Dealing with borderline personality disorder and bipolar 1, being mentally and emotionally abused. Metal and the metal community keeps me alive.
Great video! I agree that being a metalhead doesn’t mean the person is bad. There are bad people in every type of clothing.