119: Toxic Relationships, Red Flags & THE ICK Ft. LalalaLetMeExplain

Hello tiny winies, we have an extra special treat for you this week!! Sophie and Melissa are joined by the anonymous relationship extraordinaire LalalaLetMeExplain.
From decoding red flags, limerence and toxic relationships, Lala will be talking through all things relationships with the girls. Don’t miss it!
Listen to LalalaLetMeExplain's new podcast, It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You.
Thanks for listening x
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Credits:
Podcast Producer & Editor: @kat.milsom
Additional Producer: @jemimarathbone
Videographer: @jamierg99
Social Media: @emzchampion
Assistant Producer: @maiaadelia.docs

[@PeaceMatters5]

So refreshing seeing(or not seeing) someone that's not a clout chaser bravo to her👏👏

[@izdaviess96]

I think this is my favourite episode YET!!! 💖 I’ve been thinking about you girls having guests on talking about issues like domestic violence, so this is amazing that you’ve done this! 💘💘💘

[@emsh3400]

The part about "I can't take you out because you look like a tramp" got me because if I'm honest I've told my daughter you can't wear that t shirt because it's stained and crumpled and you'll look like a tramp. Wondering how these words may affect her 😢 But I also want her to take pride in her appearance and not look like a scruff lol. But that was some food for thought.
Also la la is the best!! Been following her for years!

[@MDWHEELS1]

Amazing episode! 💗💗💗

[@MRFXPLAYAZ2007]

Banksy of the dating world is an epic title ❤

[@dianeblackwell9461]

Great podcast girls, very interesting chat

[@gaunikakathuria3388]

You guysss are so sweet

[@nicholamarieuk3818]

I’ve got a theory on the ick. There’s a theory on falling in love called PIES which states that to fall in love with someone you have to be attracted to them Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally and Spiritually and they you.
I think that as you get to know that person.. if compatibility in more than one of these areas is too low then you start to find stupid irrational things they do repulsive. So you could meet someone and initially omg he’s really good looking, sweet, caring, a perfectly nice person and then a few dates in, as you’re getting to know each other on a deeper level, you’re just not attracted to them emotionally. Even though they’ve done nothing wrong but for example their sense of humour might be completely different yours (E) or you might find their company boring as they don’t stimulate you enough (I)… some of this is subconscious. You’ll then at around this point start to find completely irrational things a turn off.

[@jasonswiftxxx]

this sound like me avoidance attachment

[@charliebridge2937]

Who is it… I wanan read her book x

[@jameseastwood9673]

16k views and 11 comments.... Huh.

[@charliebridge2937]

Amazing🩷