How much money did I get after being hit by a car? (And what am I doing with it?!)

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  • @shonaaitken7635
    @shonaaitken7635 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1) I am late to your channel and had no idea you'd had this set back. $9K is an embarrassingly small amount for 2 years of someone's life (not to mention all the subsequent health issues). You deserved a lot more. 2) I have hd a Vivoactive 4 for 19 months now. My husband got it as a glorified pedometer to encourage me to walk more. Fast forward to today, i have just completed your 6 week C25K program, and only 3 hours ago realised it has a GPS function. Here's to reading manuals and a happy (and safe) running life going forward.

  • @chrisgray1507
    @chrisgray1507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So glad you're now recovering and so happy for you! I ran a half marathon yesterday and smashed my PB by 29mins. I ran 2:24:01. Admittedly I'd only done 1 HM previously and hadn't trained enough for it, so I knew I was going to beat it by a fair bit just wasn't sure how much!

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s awesome Chris!! You must be so chuffed. So what’s next? Planning for 2021?

    • @chrisgray1507
      @chrisgray1507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ThisMessyHappy Thank you!! Yes over the moon :)) my next aim is to work on speed and go for a 5k PB and then 10k PB. I don't have many races yet for 2021. There's a couple that my place got transferred to from this year but we'll see what happens in the world

  • @avinashbhogun
    @avinashbhogun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The mysterious TH-cam algorithms strikes again! I found your channel by fluke really. Thanks for sharing this episode of your life. It's interesting to understand the life of a runner in the context on what you have shared. Glad to hear you are on the mend both physically and mentally. Can't be easy. Look forward to seeing more content. Have a great Easter Break.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Avinash. Good old TH-cam algorithm 😂

  • @CraigRowand
    @CraigRowand 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I found your channel in May last year, while I was stuck at home after being knocked off my bike the day before my birthday. Fractured my pelvis so I was on crutches for three months, and only allowed to walk for another three after that. I had just completed my first marathon (Paris), had another lined up a few weeks later, then a 50k and in the autumn, the Amsterdam marathon. It might have taken over a year, but I got my compensation in July (after rejecting the initial amount 😊) . Well done on getting yours sorted, it's worth the fight!

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Craig, and we’ll done to you as well. Certainly well worth the fight because I knew they were going to lowball me! And how are you now? Where are you up to?

    • @CraigRowand
      @CraigRowand 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThisMessyHappy Thanks. I’m back training now, got a marathon next spring then running the London 2 Brighton 100k. Only been on the bike twice since though.

  • @FreeLancerLondon
    @FreeLancerLondon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You definitely deserved a much bigger payout. A young mother was killed doing her Sunday morning run by a young person driving home.b Near to where we live. Often think of the incident when I run past the spot where it happened. Very sad for her family. Didn't know her. Everyone, runner or cyclist, take care out there. You are lucky to be alive and in good health. Could've been much worse. Pleased you're okay though 🙂 Cheers

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with the sentiment. A school friend of mine lost his wife in an incident identical to that which you’re describing. Heart breaking. We can minimise risk but never completely get rid of it. So sad.

  • @LloydHywelBevan
    @LloydHywelBevan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you've got a genuine energy Ben, one which really connects as well as being very skilled at what you do - it's a rare gift - well done

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, thanks very much, buddy. That’s a really lovely thing for you to say 😊 I appreciate it

    • @peytongreyson6630
      @peytongreyson6630 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You prolly dont care but does someone know a trick to get back into an Instagram account??
      I somehow forgot the account password. I would appreciate any assistance you can offer me.

    • @adamonyx8167
      @adamonyx8167 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Peyton Greyson instablaster ;)

  • @steventhorpe1492
    @steventhorpe1492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was watching whilst working and heard "a lot of content about running a PB". I nearly gave myself whiplash....Yes!

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha ha plenty coming! 💪🏻😂

  • @ThatRunningGuy
    @ThatRunningGuy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Onwards and upwards, keep sharing and we’ll keep watching

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks buddy! I shall do my best 🤟🏼

  • @Stripeyperch
    @Stripeyperch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great positivity Ben glad you got a payout keep the great content coming and here's to 2021 👍

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks David, that’s really kind of you to say 😊

  • @paulj6637
    @paulj6637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Podcast officially in my rotation, cheers for all the content!

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Paul, I hope the podcast helps. That’s what it’s there for 🤞🏼😂

  • @cancertokona6298
    @cancertokona6298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    considering the level you were at I thought it would be higher, but can definitely understand wanting to get it over and done with and move on too, with a solid mindset like this you can find positives in most crappy situations!

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Craig! I know you’ll know a little something about solid mindsets 💪🏻

  • @Boonoman
    @Boonoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You deserve it, even more.. And a new watch for yourself by the looks of it :D

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks buddy. Sadly not though, Coros sent it to me to review it 😢 I probably need a few hundred thousand more subs for freebies 😂

  • @robbiegreenslade
    @robbiegreenslade 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good for you on your recovery! Good for you in your journey! Good for you on the compo!
    So happy that the reckless driver has not stopped you doing what you love. Set back but not stopped! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Robbie! It will take more than near death to stop me 😂

  • @tkeogh09
    @tkeogh09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Ben for that insight, Something similar has happened to me, so it was enlightening to hear someone else’s thoughts on the same process Iam going through. Very positive, well presented

  • @stevetaylor3957
    @stevetaylor3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good vid Ben. Interesting isn’t it that through no fault of your own you have to fight your corner long and hard on a black and white issue. It’s not just the physical injuries, the mental scars can be as or more serious. The amount of comp is not the issue, it’s whether you get closure physically and mentally from the whole ordeal and by the sounds of it you have 👍 good luck for the forthcoming events in 2021. as always I will be watching your videos which continue to spur me on with my own goals. I’ve rejoined my local athletics club (after over 13 years away!) and I think I’m the fittest I’ve been for as many years too. No small thanks to your videos, training plans etc... keep it up Ben...

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow thanks Steve, that really is so nice of you to say. You’re right, it was never about the money for me, it was about feeling like the line is drawn and I’ll be ok in the future. And thanks for being on the journey too and part of the community. Im so excited that you’re back in to running. Keep me up to date with how it’s going 👍🏻

    • @stevetaylor3957
      @stevetaylor3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve been steadily improving over the half marathon from 1.57 to1.40. Covid obviously has ruined this years diary but I’m giving goodwood 1/2 a go in December so hoping for sub 1.40 . I’ve adapted your training blocks regime, 3 weeks on 1 week complete rest from running (s&c continues). This and training at zone 2 has definitely worked for me and have been injury free since starting the training plan in April.

  • @alanbutler8782
    @alanbutler8782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video..looking forward to future ones..hope all races will get going in the new year

  • @johnmiller5630
    @johnmiller5630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always enjoy your videos. Will be following your next adventure.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks John. I really appreciate that 😊

  • @ChrisLeggUK
    @ChrisLeggUK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’ll be five years in July since I was hit by a car. Court case has finally got a date window between September and December this year. It’s been a long hard fight so far. Glad you managed to get yours sorted.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh man that’s a long long time, Chris. And I know how the uncertainty takes it’s toll! Sorry to hear this but I hope you get some closure on it soon 👍🏻

    • @ChrisLeggUK
      @ChrisLeggUK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ThisMessyHappy Cheers, me too - funnily enough mine was also a couple of weeks before an IM, was in amazing shape after a fantastic, consistent 7 months training block. Last long ride, about a mile out from home, spinning the legs out ready to run off the bike. Also broke my collar bone, although for me that lead to post traumatic frozen shoulder and a couple of surgeries. Unfortunately I still can’t swim so it means no more triathlons. Additionally have a permanent neck injury and a mild traumatic brain injury. People hear about huge money cases and assume compensation is going to be loads but the reality is the amounts involved are peanuts, especially considering the toll it takes on your life. I’ll just be glad when it’s all over. Glad to have found your channel though, great content, looking forward to seeing your adventures when you guys move! Keep up the great work 🙂

    • @Justin-uc8sc
      @Justin-uc8sc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, what happened with your case?

  • @0052553
    @0052553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep up the good work. I'm enjoying the videos.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you very much, numbers person 😊😂

  • @ZeldaFitz
    @ZeldaFitz ปีที่แล้ว

    You’ve been on more journeys than Phileas Fogg 😃

  • @danielwebb8402
    @danielwebb8402 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spend half save half always a good tactic)
    Always feel more positive after your videos (motivated for life, not running though).
    Thank you!

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is this my Webby? As in my actual real life friend? Or do you have the same name as him?!

    • @danielwebb8402
      @danielwebb8402 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThisMessyHappy
      Ha.
      Tis me

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did suspect when you said you’re not motivated to run 😉😂 come on, Webby what we gotta do to get you out there 💪🏻

  • @Ajumi-
    @Ajumi- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you've got 10 times more money than i've got - so i would consider yourself lucky :D

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I absolutely do. Every day. We exist and that’s enough 😊

  • @diario99
    @diario99 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got hit by a car too, worst experience ever

  • @gooose2867
    @gooose2867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Coffee in a glass cup!! Ur a mad man 😆

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been called that from time to time 😂

  • @michaelhardie9193
    @michaelhardie9193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Leave some room to upgrade your Garmin. Glad your recovering from the injury. It could have been much more serious

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha ha don’t you worry, definitely left some room 😉😂

  • @saragonmcenany6229
    @saragonmcenany6229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spent his compo on coffee - joke - nice work and positive outlook

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha ha lots on coffee always 😂

  • @James-xi8nl
    @James-xi8nl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep the videos up! (FYI - 1:32 sounds changes to louder in left ear and quiet in right ear.)

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks James. That’s weird about the sound?! Don’t know why that is 🤷🏻‍♂️😂

    • @James-xi8nl
      @James-xi8nl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThisMessyHappy It seems to be only when you are recording in the house and fine when you go out. Then changes again once back in the house. Really enjoyed the video though!

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That would be the difference between the GoPro and Canon possibly? Maybe I accidentally changed some settings. Thank you for the heads up and also for the kind words 😊

  • @mlegrand
    @mlegrand 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude, I still can't believe this happened to you. Sometimes I think, 'self driving cars really can't get here fast enough'.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know. I look back and still feel gutted but it all makes us stronger. How are you getting on? I haven’t been on the bike for 6 weeks now!!

    • @mlegrand
      @mlegrand 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThisMessyHappy - I've been going out on the road once or twice a week but also staying on the indoor trainer for most rides.

  • @yiannis_christodoulou
    @yiannis_christodoulou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Onwards and upwards👍 you can do this

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks buddy. Slowly getting there 👍🏻

  • @northernninjarunner5506
    @northernninjarunner5506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was in a car accident in April 2019 I am still waiting for my final settlement. I still have daily back pain. Physio got most of my injuries sorted lower back looks like that is it and I just have to accept it

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No no! Do not accept. That’s what they want. Don’t settle until you are as pain free as you were before the accident. Insurance companies prey on people who give in. My first offer was £4,000

  • @finjaturek9416
    @finjaturek9416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Funniest thing ever I was hit by a car probably 8 weeks ago, not the first time, but the first time when I was running. The problem was I didn't see the car, someone who saw it said I ran in front of the car. But I swear to god Iooked like three times cause of my headphones and still didn't see it. I got no money out of it. My first ever crash with a car was when was I was riding my bike from school home, I was crossing a street and the old lady didn't see me and hit me. The crash with my bike was not really bad my bike was a bit damaged and I was just a little insured but the second crash was a bit worse. The car hid me from the side and I fell from the front of the car on the street. Everybody knows you need a little bit when you push the break to stop, I was really close to the tire and the car rolled over my hand. My hand is really good looking but still insured, my knee did really hurt but is fine now and I started training again from the beginning after three weeks doing nothing. Hoping I will be in good shape next year to start at some races!

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow you’ve really been through it! Hope you’re healing up and getting better now 🙏 here’s to a better and healthier 2021 for you 👍🏻

  • @davecowdry6274
    @davecowdry6274 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Ben, great video again. I was watching one of your past videos last night (the one where you launched your coaching packages) I was wondering if these are still available. I've done a mad thing and booked 4 half marathons over 2 months next spring and will need a bit of coaching to get through them all in one piece and hopefully get some good times! Can you help?

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Dave, thanks for the kind words (as always). Yes for sure the coaching plans are all still available and I’ve been very fortunate to have some interest from subscribers so it’s all exciting! You should find the details in any video description as a link to my Patreon account and you can have a look to see if there are any plans that suit your needs 👍🏻 let me know if you can’t find it.

    • @davecowdry6274
      @davecowdry6274 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThisMessyHappy great cheers Ben. I'll take a look and see which one appeals. Thanks for the fast reply

  • @carlstoakes6240
    @carlstoakes6240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Although the money (whatever the sum) cannot make up for your health (physical or mental), it can help. You forgot chocolate! Chocolate helps too... :)

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chocolate is actually the number one thing that got me through it 😂 thanks buddy 😊

  • @yankaitan8648
    @yankaitan8648 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    9k? i think u deserve more than 15k tbh.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks dude. So do i... but then I would 😂

  • @tombuck
    @tombuck 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, the thumbnail mad me click immediately 😁

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha ha all thanks to your help and vids as well! I’m pretty sure I haven’t used a quarter of it’s functionality yet but I’m getting there and love it!!

  • @chrispiper2022
    @chrispiper2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos ! Your style reminds me of Casey Neistat VLOGS ! I’ve sent you an email, if you get 5 I’d love to hear back from you.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chris that’s so nice of you to say. May actually be one of my favourite comments ever because Casey is my absolute hero. Yes I saw your email and apologies for not getting back sooner. This week has been a crazy start to term. Having to replan everything to go online!! Will reply today 😊👍🏻

    • @chrispiper2022
      @chrispiper2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThisMessyHappy no problem. I’ve also watched and loved all of the Casey VLOGS. I’m sure people ( erm me )would love a VED ( VLOG Every Day) month. Talk soon and have a great weekend.

  • @andyglendyblackburn5588
    @andyglendyblackburn5588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    not running related but weigh your coffee not just scoop check out james hoffmans youtube channel

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That takes too much time 😂 but I’ll definitely check the channel out. Thanks 😊

  • @richardcollins586
    @richardcollins586 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mum got £7k after a driver opened a car door on her when she was cycling. The cut on her finger went down to the bone.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s grim! But I’m glad she got some compensation. A friend of mine was cycling behind a motorcyclist when someone opened their door and the guy died so it’s a serious matter. I can’t believe the difference in amounts people are saying they got for different accidents in different countries! It’s bananas.

  • @RahulSharma-nm4uu
    @RahulSharma-nm4uu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why he is wearing two watches ?

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got sent one of them by Coros to test out for a while 👍🏻

  • @northernninjarunner5506
    @northernninjarunner5506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you not bought a new bike?

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No i couldn’t justify it seeing as my one was “repairable” and had no carbon micro fractures (I had it x-rayed)

  • @midshipsport
    @midshipsport 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope you're getting sleep. Just saying.

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      8 hours per night, buddy! I just have that horrible condition of teacher baggy end of term eyes 😂

    • @midshipsport
      @midshipsport 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThisMessyHappy 🙂 sry for asking. Thanks

    • @ThisMessyHappy
      @ThisMessyHappy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why are you sorry?! You don’t have to be! It’s all good 👍🏻

    • @midshipsport
      @midshipsport 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThisMessyHappy 👍