Exactly, everyone acts as if when you point out flaws in your own people, you’re being ‘self-hating’ when that’s not always the case, the people who were mad a Kalani’s dad have been real quiet ever since though😂
I can't make no sense out of that. Idc about the kids. I want my son. I want money. I think u want my son for a husband to do everything. Duh lady shyeaah!
She didn’t flinch cause there’s cameras everywhere and people around ready to jump in. Acting all tough in front of the cameras. I’m certain Asuelu’s sister would’ve kicked her ass cause Samoan and pacific island women are built different especially full breeds.
ikr and they're one tv too! They're not ashamed at all? Who wants to be so outright greedy like this? And they don't feel shame asking for money like this to someone who isn't related to them?
I understand what they’re saying they saying naturally she should want to support the family because she’s in a better position and the currencies stronger. If they are in poverty and that is his mum they should support
She didn't walk away for herself. She walked away because she's emotionally strong enough to have done that for her family. She is a goddess of inner strength. She cried out of disgust, anger & disappointment.
A surly is very immature he doesn’t know jack she just settle for any man sh needs to lose some weight and get a man from the u s a she has no self esteem and is gaining a lot of weight her breast are utters!
@@jennievillalobos7014 Oh wow real mature & absolutely pathetic. Based of your own pfp, you have no room to talk about anyone's appearance. Being bigger doesn't mean that someone has low self-esteem, it must suck to be that ignorant, pal~
@@leomith4328 dude that's soooo true 😂, imagine accusing someone of having low self-esteem just because they're a little bigger, I mean she's not even that big, and that entire time she kept calm until she couldn't even convince asuelu's mom and sister people are so hypocritical
At least he showed more maturity than Kalani did here. She was threatening to beat up his mother and sister instead of thinking about how painful this situation is for him.
its true that he isn't amazing but its also true that she is very insecure to be okay with someone who's just okay not amazing.. she probably thinks she's fat so thats what she deserves which is the same thing fat girls think of. they think too low of themselves and that they deserve so little.
@@christiwright2249 Than you, I swear these people love to call the men but don’t want to hold the woman accountable. Giving the fact that the men grew up in a toxic home I think he’s progressing nicely.
Love it how she chose to sleep with this man, marry this man, and then belittles him and puts him down, tears him down rather than building him up! Oh and she's like 10 years older than him! Girl power!
Her teares were strength based. She could have VERY easily knocked them both out. Instead... She thought about it. Tears came. She walked away. That's a strong beautiful queen right there.
I think it made them way more mad that they couldn’t get into her head. Make her mad, start yelling, they wanted a reaction out of her. And she didn’t give it to them 😂
The way she talked to her husband isn't good tho. You don't say to your partner I can take you down. You make them lose trust in you. And in a difficult situation as such you need to help your partner feel safe and like they can trust you. Becayse this culture teached him that the only person that will ever be there for him will be his family, so he worries that if he leaves them he will be alone and if his wife treats him like this then he feels very unsafe.
@@k.p.3739 ..Did you not see the part of the clip where he said he doesn’t think she could take on his sister in a fight? He’s fucking stupid and she reacted to that comment. He doesn’t act like a man so he’s not going to get respect like he is one.
You don't need a relationship with these people "Why?" THEY SAID THEY DIDNT CARE ABOUT YOUR BABIES AND YOUR RATCHET SISTER TIRED TO HURT AND BEAT UP YOUR WIFE GIRL PLEASE LEAVE HIM YOU DESERVE BETTER
I have before. Used to be so close then she went bat shit crazy. She apparently has bipolar. She wouldn't get off my porch so I slapped her ass off my porch. She hasn't seen her nephewz since. Homie don't pay that.
I have a friend from another country, she said the people think that Americans are all rich. I don't think foreigners realize we are just getting by as well.
Maybe they just don't realize how much everything costs in the US. Plus they are basing their opinions on what they see in the media, on Tv and movies.
I can confirm this. When females from my country marry foreigners everyone's like 'Wow you hit a jackpot. You are now rich don't forget about us.' This is very common in poor-middle class families. Only the rich one don't think like this because they understand more.
And now all the people in this world think Samoans are greedy & heartless creatures! Granny: I dont care about the kids! Just give me the money!” WTF!!!!! 🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀
@@smileymyles I have to agree. I didn't know anything about Samoan culture before watching this show. And my first question was "is this normal in their culture?". For a minute I thought this was standard until I read comments clarifying these people are just horrible. I'm glad I know better now.
Exactly.. she has 9 kids, why demand/pressure Asuelu to give so much and not demand from the other kids. She should be grateful if he's giving her a little at Least, any parent should be grateful. Cause at the end of the day, he's got his own family to take care of.
allysa nicecool or TLC said to her before the scene “now act like you’re going to fight her but make no attempt so it seems like ur 60 year old mother can hold you back “
Yeah, you would be one of those women. Deprive the kids of their father(he’s not a horrible guy) because you can’t stand his family. This is why people shouldn’t rush to get married have a baby with someone and Jett their spouses family first. Act stupid win stupid prizes. Also, he’s not a object, I know his abusive family and men haters like you don’t get that but he’s not. He obviously grew up in a very toxic home. He’s just starting to gain independence.
@@shayla106 yeah you would be one of those people who seem to think they know who people are based off of a comment. First off I've been married and had kids already with a wonderful man who sees his kids every single day, who supports his kids without being asked to, and who can parent just as good as I can. His family are also wonderful and not in the slightest bit crazy. I'd never be stupid enough to end up with a guy like the one in the video. Excuse me for having standards for myself and my children. If you're the type to get walked over, that's on you but don't come at me like you know what type of person I am 😂
The moment asuelu’s mum said she doesn’t care about her own grankids i got very very scared. Sounds quite toxic to then demand for his money after that
I think that asulelus mum does.Not care about her grandchildren, because they r not benefiting her. I think she only cares about people who will give her money.
She called her lazy, accused her for getting pregnant to take advantage of asuelu, threatened her to take her husband back to Samoa and then have the audacity to ask her for money
Kalani is a real woman. Much respect 🙏. She is the most intelligent person in the room and that in itself is a burden lol. The end when the husband challenged her about who would win a fight between her and his sister, my mind went blank in disbelief of his stupidity 🤯
That wasn't her point. The point she was trying to make was that all her (the moms) kids chip in to giving their mom money and she felt disrespected that Kalani is "making" Asuelu not cash in anymore. However, it's not always what it looks. I'm also an islander (not Samoan but Tongan) and our culture is similar in some ways. We usually give money to our elders to chip in for weddings, funerals, birthdays, church events, etc. The money doesn't usually stay within the family, it's usually given away. So I understand the concept of giving money to our elders but the show just makes them look like beggars.
@@JaneDoe-uo8pe it's the way they are asking for it and demanding it. Many cultures chip in for large family events. Sounds like they want an allowance, by any means necessary and the expenses of feeding their children.
How is she mature when shes saying she can beat up a man...which is her husband? That's as delusional and immature as they come...she lived with her parents and got knocked up but didn't even move out...or try..
Didn't she say she'd never been with a man before Asuelo? So her first time was with a random hotel employee on vacation in her twenties or is that not what happened?
I like how his sister “tried” to fight her, and ol’ girl didn’t even bother turning around hahah she said ‘honey you’re barely up to my chin, and that fragile boned mother of yours that cannot physically work was even able to hold you back. my wallet stays closed. good day.’
Not surprised, he grew up in a very toxic family. He really needs to see a therapist. However, I think being away from his family will be good for him, it’s offers him a chance to gain independence.
Kalani, I’m Samoan too. From a full blood Samoan to a half Samoan, thank you. Thank you for stepping up to Asuelu’s family. You’re right on point. If Asuelu’s family don’t like it, they can shovel it. Asuelu needs to man up and face his family. To Asuelu’s mother, shame on you. Aua le maka i kupe. Grandkids come first above all else. Shame on you. Ka igoigoe i lou le ma🤧
How his sister calling her lazy because she want get a job to support they lazy broke butt's? So get a divorce and have him come back to a no good county, thinking her brother will get a job to support them. If that was the case, he would have had a job when they met.
I’ve never wanted to hug a stranger and fight people on their behalf until now! Don’t worry Kelani there is an army of people behind you who DESPISE his lazy, greedy family! And I know what it feels like to be trapped and gained up on. We’re here for ya girl!
She had no other choice. She is way bigger than the woman and would probably bloody her nose or something . Kalani would go to jail and be away from her children and ashamed. A normal good mom thinks about that before gouging someone's eyes out. It's not special.
@@holypersonyetunholy8042 umm no maybe y’all have a false sense of what’s going on but men over there are taught to be hard workers early. He is a child because he was coddled that has nothing to do with American anything he is just childish don’t confuse culture with bad parenting
@@JustLikeAFlower Why the hell are you still watching that shitty video? And I was never confused about those 2 topics. He never even planned on having a child. And back at Samoa it was mostly the WOMEN who took care of the kids. So yeah ofc he's gonna be childish since he doesn't know how to take care of one.
I think this is doctored for shock value. The more shocking your segment is, the more seasons you get. Maybe even your own show. I can see them planing this.
Sure not anyone I know!!! Samoan culture is beautiful! And I ONLY know amazing, fantastic, full hearted loving souls that give beauty to my world I live in. What we are watching is straight up ugly. Ugly and greedy AF! It makes my blood boil that shes using her culture as the excuse for her families demands. It paints the uneducated an ugly picture if they do not see through this wretched display of "family values/duties". Sad.....
I felt Asula’s sadness of having to cut his ties with his mom and sister but then realizing they can’t be messing with his wife and kids that way. Kehlani is coming in head strong with her man’s mom and just tolerating them. Seriously, having to juggle cultural identity is a struggle cause even though it is important to know your “roots” and take care of your family, you really have decide who your primary family is. Also, hella laughed when Kehlani was saying how she was going to drop her sister. Lolol
@avi486 there's a old stereotype in NZ that it's Maori and islanders that break into homes and steal your shit because of the "what's yours is mine" mentality. Except when their houses get broken into or their shit gets taken, they'll beat the shit out of you
I think its real because no way i could see a grandmother saying she doesnt care about the kids only money. Would you say tgat if TLC asked you to? I know i wouldnt make myself look like a gold digging scumbag.
@@micholakinola1053 yep that sounds about right. They are always going on about he has to look after his parents well the way i see it if Aselu gives his family $500 Kalani should say she's giving her family $500. What his family is basically saying is you give us all you earn because Kalanis family live in america so must be rich so they can pay. These people who have holiday romances and they carry them on nearly always split up. Thing is when youre on holiday everything seems great because youre on holiday. After the holiday romance you might just end up with an over grown 11 year old who does everything his mother tells him to do.
I used to date a Samoan guy. He invited me over to his house to have dinner with her family so I did. His Samoan mom was very cold towards me, barely acknowledged me throughout the night. The next morning, my ex came to my house, with teary eyes. I asked him what’ happened. At first he was hesitant to tell. Then he finally said “My mom told me to break up with you because you’re a Filipino and that she said there are plenty of women out there who is better than you that I have to choose someone like a doctor or a lawyer.” 😂 We didn’t broke up . A couple weeks later, my ex comes to me and said similar thing that her mom doesn’t like me, blah blah and it went on and on. So I decided to put an end to it. I broke up with him as I didn’t want to put up with people who belittles me. I deserved better.
@@lashellecoleman2754 you’re right , I worked with a girl who married a Mexican man and the mom hated white people & she chased her with a knife when she’s was pregnant& another girl I knew her parents didn’t want her to date black people at all. And another girl I knew her family didn’t want her to date white men she was with a black guy
@@lashellecoleman2754 that only happens in the us. I've lived my entire life in Mexico and we're very open to other cultures but when i went to the US I realized Mexicans there are so narrow minded. I thought it would be the opposite lol Also all the mexican food there is fake as well as the obnoxious music they hear. True Mexicans are not like that
I agree with Kalani. Asuelo's sister is able to work and support her Mom, while her Mom can take care of her children. It is CRAZY!!! The cost to raise children is very high, and to buy food and necessities is extremely expensive. It takes 2 parents working to take care of a household today. I was floored when Asuelo's sister told Kalani that she needed to work to help support her, her other siblings, and her Mom. And for the Mom telling Kalani that she doesn't care about her Grandchildren; only the money, tells me all that I needed to know. I hope that Asuelo can view this segment of the show to see for himself that Kalani wasn't lying to him, and see how cruel they treated Kalani.
Asuelu childish, she needs to make his butt go back home with him mama. He thinks his family & him can talk to her any kinda way, but she shouldn't disrespect them.
This is exactly why her father did not want her ending up with a guy from his country. He knew exactly what was up
Exactly, everyone acts as if when you point out flaws in your own people, you’re being ‘self-hating’ when that’s not always the case, the people who were mad a Kalani’s dad have been real quiet ever since though😂
That's on PERIOD🤫🤫🤫
What do you mean from his country
Zahraa Srour her dad is from Samoa too so he understands that culture and knew that this situation regarding Asuelo and his family was bound to happen
Oliahx lol did she say that ?
“Just give me money, all i want is money” LOL shes bold.
Imagine
Also "I don't care about the kids". Wow.
Nope she's a mole who doesn't want to Work herself ‼️ it's DISGUSTING
I q
I feel sorry for her kids
I cannot believe the grandmother said IDC about the kids. Thats insane
hi how are you doing today
I can't make no sense out of that. Idc about the kids. I want my son. I want money. I think u want my son for a husband to do everything. Duh lady shyeaah!
Yh i know right wtf
Yo she went way to farr
Hell naw she didn't Have those kids
The fact that Kalani didn't even flinch when his sister came for her is god tier
Kelani casually strolled away 🤣
I can't decide between that moment and the straight faced pause before "no" after he asked her "what if my sister knocked you out" as my favourite 😂
@@morganlawrie1158 those were both great moments. I'm fairly certain Kalani could kick her arse sideways.
She didn’t flinch cause there’s cameras everywhere and people around ready to jump in. Acting all tough in front of the cameras. I’m certain Asuelu’s sister would’ve kicked her ass cause Samoan and pacific island women are built different especially full breeds.
@@MMDimesisn't Kalani also full Samoan?
Wow his mom literally just said she doesn’t care about the grandchildren because all she cares about is money
Hello beautiful, how’re you doing, I’m Bruce Cadmus and you?
Bruce Cadmus wtf, how do you know this person is beautiful? The things men do 😂
Golden Ma BSN, RN, S-PMHNP is because all women are beautiful, and your boyfriend do call you beautiful right
SLA reborn hi
SLA reborn thanks you too
They talk like they sold her Asuelu, and she hasn't paid.....
I agree
Lmao right !! You said that perfectly
hi how are you doing today
hi
😂😂😂
"I don't like you, but give me your money"
These people are worse than the Family Chantel
@@eyanaholmes2042 they are the most interestingly entertaining
@@eyanaholmes2042 LMFAO
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😂😂😂😂
Highkey💯
Finding out his mother would give the money they raised to the church; while her kids were eating rice and spam, infuriates me.
watching asuelu's sister call kalani lazy while begging for her money is hilarious.
ikr and they're one tv too! They're not ashamed at all? Who wants to be so outright greedy like this? And they don't feel shame asking for money like this to someone who isn't related to them?
Spot on!!
I want to like this post but it will 666 so I’ll wait
She damn funny tho
I understand what they’re saying they saying naturally she should want to support the family because she’s in a better position and the currencies stronger. If they are in poverty and that is his mum they should support
She didn't walk away for herself. She walked away because she's emotionally strong enough to have done that for her family. She is a goddess of inner strength. She cried out of disgust, anger & disappointment.
Preach sis
100%
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@@komarbat23 jag är i
@@komarbat23 in på min telefon är en uououo
Tammy: “IM GONNA BEAT YOU UP”
*Gets held back by elderly mother*
🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL. I didn't even realize that.
Yeah. I'm going to beat you up because you want give us money💰. Sounds like a robbery to me😃
"I'm gona beeed you ub 😂
😂😂😂😂😂Tammy, don't let me go
“I don’t care about the kids”☹️ no good grandmother would ever say this . They only care about money
I bet if she got money then she would care
Asuelu’s mom actually would be fine with his children starving as long as she gets her money.
Just throw that relationship away.
A surly is very immature he doesn’t know jack she just settle for any man sh needs to lose some weight and get a man from the u s a she has no self esteem and is gaining a lot of weight her breast are utters!
@@jennievillalobos7014 Oh wow real mature & absolutely pathetic. Based of your own pfp, you have no room to talk about anyone's appearance. Being bigger doesn't mean that someone has low self-esteem, it must suck to be that ignorant, pal~
@@jennievillalobos7014 the hell is wrong with you..?
@@leomith4328 dude that's soooo true 😂, imagine accusing someone of having low self-esteem just because they're a little bigger, I mean she's not even that big, and that entire time she kept calm until she couldn't even convince asuelu's mom and sister people are so hypocritical
@@jennievillalobos7014 ur pfp 😳 🤧
Asuelu has the maturity level of a toddler...now I see where he gets it from
Exactly
At least he showed more maturity than Kalani did here. She was threatening to beat up his mother and sister instead of thinking about how painful this situation is for him.
Idsay a 4 year old is about right
@@tikusblue That's only bc his sister threatened her first, so she was just explaining that she could easily beat her up. She wasn't being immature.
@@tikusblue she didn’t threaten to beat up his mother and the sister tried to fight her did you not even watch the fucking clip?
Love it when she said” Cause Asuelu’s such a catch”..... true words!
@Trizzy Traps a lot when she was arguing with tammy
its true that he isn't amazing but its also true that she is very insecure to be okay with someone who's just okay not amazing.. she probably thinks she's fat so thats what she deserves which is the same thing fat girls think of. they think too low of themselves and that they deserve so little.
Mary Lynn Neill well clearly he is since she laid down and had another child with him
@@christiwright2249 Than you, I swear these people love to call the men but don’t want to hold the woman accountable. Giving the fact that the men grew up in a toxic home I think he’s progressing nicely.
Love it how she chose to sleep with this man, marry this man, and then belittles him and puts him down, tears him down rather than building him up! Oh and she's like 10 years older than him! Girl power!
Love how Kalani walks off without reacting to tammy as if tammy really thought she was going to intimidate Kalani 😂 love Kalani ❤
Her teares were strength based. She could have VERY easily knocked them both out. Instead... She thought about it. Tears came. She walked away. That's a strong beautiful queen right there.
She is so awesome !!!! So cool such and awesome way of communicating etc
I think it made them way more mad that they couldn’t get into her head. Make her mad, start yelling, they wanted a reaction out of her. And she didn’t give it to them 😂
💕💕👍so it is
@Omega Iceman Cometh yeah a fat cow instead not a queen
Yes!!!!
I have to say kalani handled it in such a mature way
The way she talked to her husband isn't good tho. You don't say to your partner I can take you down. You make them lose trust in you. And in a difficult situation as such you need to help your partner feel safe and like they can trust you. Becayse this culture teached him that the only person that will ever be there for him will be his family, so he worries that if he leaves them he will be alone and if his wife treats him like this then he feels very unsafe.
@@k.p.3739 ..Did you not see the part of the clip where he said he doesn’t think she could take on his sister in a fight? He’s fucking stupid and she reacted to that comment. He doesn’t act like a man so he’s not going to get respect like he is one.
But she isn’t mature enough to provide for her family, she does not work!!
@@kimberley8902 hope you’re being sarcastic
@@dbabybay8221 the comments here, jez..they must be friends with the scam bag family
"Just give me money,all I want is money"
*broke people really getting bold now*
For real
lol!!!
You ain’t lied
lol
😂😂😂😂😂
You don't need a relationship with these people
"Why?"
THEY SAID THEY DIDNT CARE ABOUT YOUR BABIES AND YOUR RATCHET SISTER TIRED TO HURT AND BEAT UP YOUR WIFE
GIRL PLEASE LEAVE HIM
YOU DESERVE BETTER
If my sister in law ever talked to me that way, I would knock her out cold
Fucking oath
💯 Straight like that
Same here sista
I have before. Used to be so close then she went bat shit crazy. She apparently has bipolar. She wouldn't get off my porch so I slapped her ass off my porch. She hasn't seen her nephewz since. Homie don't pay that.
ooohhh, should we start shaking?
I have a friend from another country, she said the people think that Americans are all rich. I don't think foreigners realize we are just getting by as well.
True👍
Maybe they just don't realize how much everything costs in the US. Plus they are basing their opinions on what they see in the media, on Tv and movies.
This is true...
I can confirm this. When females from my country marry foreigners everyone's like 'Wow you hit a jackpot. You are now rich don't forget about us.' This is very common in poor-middle class families. Only the rich one don't think like this because they understand more.
Every country has different level of poverty or “struggle” and it’s unfair to assume things like this
It's sad they claim to be samoans. Yes its culture that we take care of our family, except its through kindness and love. Not being forced...
Exactly
What they're doing is entitlement and greed.
And now all the people in this world think Samoans are greedy & heartless creatures! Granny: I dont care about the kids! Just give me the money!” WTF!!!!! 🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀
@@smileymyles I have to agree. I didn't know anything about Samoan culture before watching this show. And my first question was "is this normal in their culture?". For a minute I thought this was standard until I read comments clarifying these people are just horrible. I'm glad I know better now.
Exactly.. she has 9 kids, why demand/pressure Asuelu to give so much and not demand from the other kids.
She should be grateful if he's giving her a little at Least, any parent should be grateful.
Cause at the end of the day, he's got his own family to take care of.
Kalani literally is high key someone I would LOVE to be besties with.
I love how she just pixks up her suitcase at the end.
Respect Kalani 👏👏
that was the laziest attempt of a fight I've ever seen
Lmao because she didn’t really want to
allysa nicecool or TLC said to her before the scene “now act like you’re going to fight her but make no attempt so it seems like ur 60 year old mother can hold you back “
WavyMiley 😂😂 right ?! That was so lame. Reminds of the people that are like “ Hold me back! HOLD ME BACK !” And do nothing if you let them go
was scripted
Such a fake move. Scripted
I'd rather get rid of my husband than deal with that crazy family.
Yeah, you would be one of those women. Deprive the kids of their father(he’s not a horrible guy) because you can’t stand his family. This is why people shouldn’t rush to get married have a baby with someone and Jett their spouses family first. Act stupid win stupid prizes. Also, he’s not a object, I know his abusive family and men haters like you don’t get that but he’s not. He obviously grew up in a very toxic home. He’s just starting to gain independence.
@@shayla106 yeah you would be one of those people who seem to think they know who people are based off of a comment. First off I've been married and had kids already with a wonderful man who sees his kids every single day, who supports his kids without being asked to, and who can parent just as good as I can. His family are also wonderful and not in the slightest bit crazy. I'd never be stupid enough to end up with a guy like the one in the video. Excuse me for having standards for myself and my children. If you're the type to get walked over, that's on you but don't come at me like you know what type of person I am 😂
@@shayla106 stfu
@@shayla106 ultimate pickmesha
@@goldenshowers3846 ew
The moment asuelu’s mum said she doesn’t care about her own grankids i got very very scared. Sounds quite toxic to then demand for his money after that
True he needs to provide for his kids and his family
I think that asulelus mum does.Not care about her grandchildren, because they r not benefiting her. I think she only cares about people who will give her money.
His sister literally HAD the chance to hit her but she was holding herself back more then her mom did 😂😂
“I don’t care about your kids,” “I just want your money.”
She called her lazy, accused her for getting pregnant to take advantage of asuelu, threatened her to take her husband back to Samoa and then have the audacity to ask her for money
Not even ask, she DEMANDED money!
didn't care about the kids, yeah.... reallly compelling and convincing argument they've got there.
Oh and also threatened to “beat” up his wife !!
I know this is a yr old but I PRAY TO GOD that they cut ALL TIES with them!!!
Not ask, DEMAND
The way Asuelu turned their conversation about who would win in a fight!!! Wtf is his problem?
He shared the same genetic code as his family. Low IQ
@@liyaxo4560 Haha!
Deflecting all his problems!
I would have kicked him out.
Jesus hes sooooooo immature!! 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
Im sorry asuelu is delayed. We can all see it. This is too much i feel for this woman imagine having 2 kids and dealing with this everyday
He does seem a bit slow
Yeah it seems as that
I love Kalani. She doesn’t deserve any of this. She’s a queen and a lioness mama.
Honestly she deserves a good king like myself. I'd treat her damn good!
Kalani is a strong woman and a true lioness for her kids.
That's fucking cringe hahaha
❤🎉
Imagine telling your wife: "My sister can beat you up."
A bunch of criminals
Right wtf? Honestly kalani would rock that girl
I think his sister would have rocked her!!! I don’t think his sister plays any games small or not.
Lol
Lol.. PPV...big money
What's with Asuelu that Kalani is deeply in love with him. He's like Patrick in Spongebob.
OMG THE BEST DESCRIPTION
Caveman Patrick 😭
I’m fucking dead🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
Brroooooo!! So fucking funny
She lost her virginity to him
Kalani is a real woman. Much respect 🙏. She is the most intelligent person in the room and that in itself is a burden lol. The end when the husband challenged her about who would win a fight between her and his sister, my mind went blank in disbelief of his stupidity 🤯
“All I’ve done is loved asuel-“
“ *THATS WHY I DONT LIKE YOU* “
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
😂
The sisters voice holly shit she sounds like she smokes 6 packs a day
Cookies!!!!!!
Don’t talk about smokers that way
@@dyllanpyper3125 too bad
@@dyllanpyper3125 or what tf🤣
She probably yells to much
Tammy works full time yet she can't provide for her mom?! I can't stand her
i was thinking the same .
@Jessica jessica she has more than one child like 5 grown ups live with her
That wasn't her point. The point she was trying to make was that all her (the moms) kids chip in to giving their mom money and she felt disrespected that Kalani is "making" Asuelu not cash in anymore. However, it's not always what it looks. I'm also an islander (not Samoan but Tongan) and our culture is similar in some ways. We usually give money to our elders to chip in for weddings, funerals, birthdays, church events, etc. The money doesn't usually stay within the family, it's usually given away. So I understand the concept of giving money to our elders but the show just makes them look like beggars.
“ oh I would do that “ 😂😂😂
@@JaneDoe-uo8pe it's the way they are asking for it and demanding it. Many cultures chip in for large family events. Sounds like they want an allowance, by any means necessary and the expenses of feeding their children.
3:59 She literally said "Eff dem kids"
She said she don't care about her grandchildren.
That’s not surprising my mother in law was the same
That was the most shocking part for me, how could a grandmother say that?
@@bryanalejo5741 she doesn’t see the kids as her sons kids so sad
@@itzelcoria1055 mine harassed me to have an abortion and now acts like she loooveeess my son
I dont understand how Kalani, who sounds like a very mature and inteligent woman laid her eyes on this mama´s boy
Worst day of her life
Because she's not. Obviously.
How is she mature when shes saying she can beat up a man...which is her husband? That's as delusional and immature as they come...she lived with her parents and got knocked up but didn't even move out...or try..
Didn't she say she'd never been with a man before Asuelo?
So her first time was with a random hotel employee on vacation in her twenties or is that not what happened?
Because love is blind and he probably told her that he will work an take care of the kids blah blah blah.
I like how his sister “tried” to fight her, and ol’ girl didn’t even bother turning around
hahah she said ‘honey you’re barely up to my chin, and that fragile boned mother of yours that cannot physically work was even able to hold you back. my wallet stays closed. good day.’
Just because your big doesnt make you tough LMFAO KALANI only beat people only in the 3rd grade as she said thats as far as she went....
@@DaRedeyeJedi808 Are you Asualu's sister lmao
@@luthor24127 no i just know his sister would beat her ass
@@DaRedeyeJedi808 Cope
@@luthor24127 true story
"That blood that's in me is to tell people shove it when I feel like it." Love me a woman like this lmaooooo
Kalani: …I WOULD HAVE DROPPED HER…
Me: Periodt.
Kalani: PERIODT!
I said periodt too lol
Are they really his kids though DNA wise 😂😂😂😂
„You’re sister is 4 feet tall and she wants to beat up me !?”😂😂😂😂
The way she casually said it and then blasted off from there! Love it!
Hilarious
Dumb and slow
The funny thing is that Asuelu can't even take care of his kids
Not surprised, he grew up in a very toxic family. He really needs to see a therapist. However, I think being away from his family will be good for him, it’s offers him a chance to gain independence.
@@shayla106 I fully agree with what u saying but that's a whole ass grown man gain some independence by separating with his family that dude is a nut
@@martasanchez6115 it’s probably not his fault but his mum’s fault instead
@@martasanchez6115 Read psychology.
Kahlini is a real one. She stays so calm and collected. That couldn't be me.
Kalani, I’m Samoan too. From a full blood Samoan to a half Samoan, thank you. Thank you for stepping up to Asuelu’s family. You’re right on point. If Asuelu’s family don’t like it, they can shovel it. Asuelu needs to man up and face his family. To Asuelu’s mother, shame on you. Aua le maka i kupe. Grandkids come first above all else. Shame on you. Ka igoigoe i lou le ma🤧
This is actually painful to watch as a Samoan🤦🏽♀️
Its sad, Kalani is so empathic, she’s trying, she’s being polite. An awfull lot comes from the language barrior too.
“What if my sister knock you out”
“........ no” LMAO
LOL the ending when asuelo starts talking about kalani beating him up is pure lunacy
The sister is awful! I cant stand her.
How his sister calling her lazy because she want get a job to support they lazy broke butt's? So get a divorce and have him come back to a no good county, thinking her brother will get a job to support them. If that was the case, he would have had a job when they met.
hi how are you doing today
He did have a job when they met, he was a tour guide or something, that’s how they actually met.
Right!! And if they were really "all about family" they would be happy Kalani gets to stay home w the kids
When a man starts a family he needs to work for his family.
Exactly. The Bible says a man will leave his mother when he gets a wife and the two become one. Mama is not included.
@@blackdiamond5888 exactly
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@@blackdiamond5888 why do you guys have to make everything religious? Fuck
I’ve never wanted to hug a stranger and fight people on their behalf until now! Don’t worry Kelani there is an army of people behind you who DESPISE his lazy, greedy family! And I know what it feels like to be trapped and gained up on. We’re here for ya girl!
I love how she walked away unbothered 😂😂😂😂
She had no other choice. She is way bigger than the woman and would probably bloody her nose or something . Kalani would go to jail and be away from her children and ashamed. A normal good mom thinks about that before gouging someone's eyes out. It's not special.
Kalani!?!? What the f are you doing with this man child?!?!?
The only reason why he acts like a dang child, is because he isn't fully educated about America- But mostly Samoa. So it isn't Asuelu's fault-
@@holypersonyetunholy8042 thank you! Someone who understands! Us Americans are so judgemental
@@everythingbeebs yeahh no worries- I was the same thing when I first moved to America until I picked up the life style quickly here.
@@holypersonyetunholy8042 umm no maybe y’all have a false sense of what’s going on but men over there are taught to be hard workers early. He is a child because he was coddled that has nothing to do with American anything he is just childish don’t confuse culture with bad parenting
@@JustLikeAFlower Why the hell are you still watching that shitty video? And I was never confused about those 2 topics. He never even planned on having a child. And back at Samoa it was mostly the WOMEN who took care of the kids. So yeah ofc he's gonna be childish since he doesn't know how to take care of one.
"that went from level 1 to level 17" is the new " Im only attracted to her like 55%"
70*
The amount of patience this woman has is astronomical
I’m samoan and I can confirm that my culture isn’t about money 🤣🤣
I think this is doctored for shock value. The more shocking your segment is, the more seasons you get. Maybe even your own show. I can see them planing this.
Wow!
Yeah but it sucks I can't find my grandfather, who hiding from me in Hawaii. My mother tried contact them, but they instantly blocked her.
Very glad to hear that.
You're lying lol
i love how calm kalani is surrounded by lunatic people 🤣
Poor Kalani. Her husband is so immature. He didn't deserve her. Lunatic family he has.
I love how she says "your sister who is 4 feet tall tried to fight with *ME*
"you dont wanna work your lazy right?" lol meanwhile asuelu's mother doesn't care about the kids and just want money
Wow so much respect for Kalani here! She’s handled this with so much maturity.
This is a joke, asuelu was a poor man before he met kalani, what he has he has through kalani. Send asuelu back to them money grabbing scruffs
Exactly what if he didn’t move to America what would they do
"all I've done is love Aseulu"
"Thats why I don't like you!!!!"
girl wat
😂🤣😂
“All I’ve done is love Asuelu”
*the sister* “That’s why I don’t like you!”😂
why is asuelu's sister swaying around so much like she's some kind of character from a fighting game
Probably drunk.
Her temperament maybe
lmfao like a buffering unlocked character u get at last level
He is a kid, just a straight up kid
How is a 24 year old a kid?? By 24 I had my house and a little car, and a kid
@@ntumbireeko not talking about age. Talking about his behaviour
@@ntumbireeko They don't mean literally
And Kalani knew it.
I don’t know what type of Samoans these are🤦🏽♀️
Sure not anyone I know!!! Samoan culture is beautiful! And I ONLY know amazing, fantastic, full hearted loving souls that give beauty to my world I live in. What we are watching is straight up ugly. Ugly and greedy AF! It makes my blood boil that shes using her culture as the excuse for her families demands. It paints the uneducated an ugly picture if they do not see through this wretched display of "family values/duties". Sad.....
Sounds like a culture that enslaves a new wife. I'd say good luck with that.
There are not Samoan there are aliens from somewhere..
Must be samoan 🤣🤣🤣
Yea usually they are very hardworking, peaceful, and good vibes. Idk what they doing
kalani seems like such a nice person, she doesn't deserve Asuelu or his family. How insensitive can his mom and sister be!!! it's crazy
😂 “what if my sister knocked u out”😂
💀😭😭💀💀💀💀
It's true tho hahah that lady acting like she tough shit
I'm like wait, is that what you're really focusing on in this argument...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I couldn’t handled it 😂 he is all concerned and then as soon as she says that he wants to compare who can fight ... what dude?? 😂😭
That’s what he’s focusing on during this whole conversation. Lol. SMH.
Once you’re living in America they automatically think you’re rich!!! How dare they do that?? I’m so disgusted I’m at a loss for words!!
i still can’t believe she said that about the kids. imagine those kids growing up and there gna see what there grandma said. that’s hella sad.
I felt Asula’s sadness of having to cut his ties with his mom and sister but then realizing they can’t be messing with his wife and kids that way. Kehlani is coming in head strong with her man’s mom and just tolerating them. Seriously, having to juggle cultural identity is a struggle cause even though it is important to know your “roots” and take care of your family, you really have decide who your primary family is. Also, hella laughed when Kehlani was saying how she was going to drop her sister. Lolol
These people are crazy that guy is actually lucky that she’s interested in him. The grandma doesn’t even love her own grandchildren.
😂😂😂
For to say that she doesn't care about the kids,they her grand kids...shes disgusting..
Craxxxxy people
Why they arguing about who could Beat up who....?? Aren't they adults
Period!!
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When the conversation turned to who will win in a fight I lost it! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that was so surreal
That was the funniest thing I have ever heard🤣🤣🤣🤣
The going from lvl 1 to lvl 70 was fine?
Foreal I’m in tears lol 😆🤣
at that point, no more conversation ever. they would never be around me or my kids
I'm from the US and live in New Zealand and we have a large Samoan population here. I was always shocked by the "whats yours is mine" mentality.
Wow
Please explain this
@avi486 there's a old stereotype in NZ that it's Maori and islanders that break into homes and steal your shit because of the "what's yours is mine" mentality. Except when their houses get broken into or their shit gets taken, they'll beat the shit out of you
His sister thinks she’s soo tough 😭🤣🤣
I know right like little girl chillax before she kicks you the ground barely five feet 😂
Are Asuelu’s mother and sister for real? Are they just acting for this show? Unbelievable!
I think its real because no way i could see a grandmother saying she doesnt care about the kids only money. Would you say tgat if TLC asked you to? I know i wouldnt make myself look like a gold digging scumbag.
Yup they sold him that's why they want money pimping in the family ewww
@@micholakinola1053 yep that sounds about right. They are always going on about he has to look after his parents well the way i see it if Aselu gives his family $500 Kalani should say she's giving her family $500. What his family is basically saying is you give us all you earn because Kalanis family live in america so must be rich so they can pay.
These people who have holiday romances and they carry them on nearly always split up. Thing is when youre on holiday everything seems great because youre on holiday. After the holiday romance you might just end up with an over grown 11 year old who does everything his mother tells him to do.
@@howey935 sad but true
@@micholakinola1053 yes it is my friend.
This is beyond my understanding
She is so calm.....girl, I admire you!!!
The fact that Asuelu was on her side until she said she could beat him up I CANTTT
I'm baffled now because his family only wants money! Who does that? They should know that they won't get what they want.
They sold him
If you have to say, " I'm gonna beat you up" before a fight...you're not gonna win
Lol..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
When Kalani said I’ll knock you and your sister out 🤣🤣🤣
I used to date a Samoan guy. He invited me over to his house to have dinner with her family so I did. His Samoan mom was very cold towards me, barely acknowledged me throughout the night. The next morning, my ex came to my house, with teary eyes. I asked him what’ happened. At first he was hesitant to tell. Then he finally said “My mom told me to break up with you because you’re a Filipino and that she said there are plenty of women out there who is better than you that I have to choose someone like a doctor or a lawyer.” 😂
We didn’t broke up . A couple weeks later, my ex comes to me and said similar thing that her mom doesn’t like me, blah blah and it went on and on. So I decided to put an end to it. I broke up with him as I didn’t want to put up with people who belittles me. I deserved better.
Yes Queen
Good for you. You would’ve essentially been dating that horrible mom anyways.
@Slytherin Entity that happens in the Spanish culture too Hispanic moms don't want there sons to date out there race
@@lashellecoleman2754 you’re right , I worked with a girl who married a Mexican man and the mom hated white people & she chased her with a knife when she’s was pregnant& another girl I knew her parents didn’t want her to date black people at all. And another girl I knew her family didn’t want her to date white men she was with a black guy
@@lashellecoleman2754 that only happens in the us. I've lived my entire life in Mexico and we're very open to other cultures but when i went to the US I realized Mexicans there are so narrow minded. I thought it would be the opposite lol
Also all the mexican food there is fake as well as the obnoxious music they hear. True Mexicans are not like that
I agree with Kalani. Asuelo's sister is able to work and support her Mom, while her Mom can take care of her children. It is CRAZY!!! The cost to raise children is very high, and to buy food and necessities is extremely expensive. It takes 2 parents working to take care of a household today. I was floored when Asuelo's sister told Kalani that she needed to work to help support her, her other siblings, and her Mom. And for the Mom telling Kalani that she doesn't care about her Grandchildren; only the money, tells me all that I needed to know. I hope that Asuelo can view this segment of the show to see for himself that Kalani wasn't lying to him, and see how cruel they treated Kalani.
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Asuelu childish, she needs to make his butt go back home with him mama. He thinks his family & him can talk to her any kinda way, but she shouldn't disrespect them.
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Bruce Cadmus wtf
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Bruce Cadmus why?
Nknknknk Bye for what
This show raises my blood pressure. But I still come back for more.
They talk as if she rented asuelu
And she hasn't paid
Lmao
🤣😂🤣😂😂
I wonder how Asuelu’s brain works.
I dont think it does
It DON'T
What brain...?!
The wheel is turning but the hamster is dead type situation
This guy is out there slinging frozen yogurt samples on the street and they think he has dollars to spare??
9:08 I love Kehlani, she was like " I would've molly whopped that chick "
Money here money there
She wants to marry him, not them... Respect each other but set some boundaries
He clearly has a medical issue, that last part was seriously weird....
Yes very wierd
" Woo, From level 1 to level 70, that's not the level this should reach "
It probably reminded him that her sister beat up people in their country that's why he's confident in her skills
🤣
Honestly what is wrong with him 😭
A man named asuelo once said: level 70, That's not a level to reach
Lol
Yes indeed. We must stay on level 69
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Why don't the sister support her lazy mom,gives me a bad impression of their ways