Bingo ! Right on Sister ! Grieve the last relationship , take some time for yourself and only pursue dating if you’re actually available for dating ! I know , crazy , right .
Her friend was NOT a good friend. Terrible idea to go on all these dates. Take care of yourself. You don't need to date anyone to be happy, fulfilled or complete. Great film. Good acting!
You’re right. I’ve known people who date around like this and most of them were train wrecks. To some of them it was even a lifestyle in itself. It is also unkind to the other people you are dating that might actually be looking for a real connection, who just get fobbed off or even ghosted because of your commitment/trust issues. Initially when these sorts of people start doing it, they seem all perky and proud of themselves. About one month later they look burnt out and even more depressed. Then how they handle that feeling can branch off in several directions, depending on their personality. Some realise their errors and stop. Some go to therapy. Some resort to “retail therapy”, binge eating, or other addictions. Some don’t stop and/or blame other people. Some run away and relocate to a different town. Some of those start with a clean slate and do well, others just repeat the same mistakes in a new environment.
Also if I ever heard a girl I was dating or in a relationship with say something like “a different guy every week, I’m so jealous of you being single”, she’d likely be single the next day. No need to feel ‘jealous’ anymore.
that's not necessarily true. going out and meeting new people is a way of distracting yourself and training your brain to be sociable and flirty again instead of staying locked in your room and being depressed thinking about your ex or other negative thoughts that may arise after a break up. sure, you also should have some alone time before 'jumping' into dating again and it isn't healthy if you turn into a "serial dater" and just sleep with new people every day for years, but for some people it can actually work for a while, even if its a week or a month or 2. it can give you confidence, fun, pleasure or it can even just be a way get you out of your shell/comfort zone and 'practice' until you're ready to move on. it may work for some and not for others, but it is not inherently bad.
that doesn't make sense, one doesn't exclude the other. it's like saying ' I am so jealous you're moving to Paris, that's so exciting' to a friend, it doesn't mean you want to actually leave your good job in the country you actually have a good life in and move to Paris, it just means that you know it's an exciting thing that will lead to adventures and new opportunities and you're happy that your friend is doing it, but ultimately you prefer your own situation better@@marpro212
Bro that first guy, the cop, seemed like a genuine sweetheart even if he did stick his foot in his mouth. Sometimes guys get nervous and don't know what to say.
This type of dating feels exhausting for me to think about trying ever again, where things move too fast, conversation too shallow, mixing alcohol in, rushed, unromantic, noisy locations, impersonal, and like no one is taking them or others that seriously. I havent found it to lead to quality connection. Also did she have enough time to really process the last relationship first?
Why is it so accurate? Her comments (oh cute, let’s see actor guy etc) while seeing profiles, how she gets ready and crying when it didn’t work out. The last guy is so handsome and cute, right person wrong time I guess. I see why she didn’t give it a chance since her heart was broken, she wasn’t ready.
I think the last guy and the first guy or the best out of the bunch because they were actually genuine but like you said she was not ready to go back out there and date. Her heart was still broken and like many people nowadays and dating she is kind of picky so I definitely think that she should heal.
She was just going through the motions, at best trying to tolerate all the encounters. But neither her heart nor her mind was in it. She wasn't open to these experiences, cuz she definitely wasn't ready to be putting herself out there like that. Simple as that.
Actually her friend wasn't trying to help at all, instead she should've understood that she needs time to move on. Cuz she is not really ready even if all guys were nice.
ig after a break up you want to get back to what you're used to, so just trying to substitute one partner with another asap. It's really hard to make yourself realise that you're single again and it's just you who will truly take care of yourself and no one else
Well, in order to completely heal from a guy who broke your heart, you need to spend hell lot of time with yourself. You can't escape from grief no matter how painful it is and no matter how many rebound emotional guys you met. It will be quite unfair if you spend time with someone physically and your heart is in past. Your friend is a worst adviser. You will never move on from your pain when you meet hell lot of guys. My partner was a commitment phobic. He cheated on me emotionally, betrayed me and made me feel so low and weak. In my heart, I know I don't deserve this knowing that I am so loyal and kind but when you love someone, all you care is just to be with that person. I felt shattered. But I didn't met with other guys. I never even cared about that. I began to go through grief stage and it has been 2 years .
I do not know, if that helps in your journey, but it helps me saying I am sorry for you meeting that type of commitment phobic guy. I was in relationship with a woman for 5 years and when speaking about her feelings, she sounded exactly how you do. it's been a bit of a year since our break up. Know I am commitment phobic to myself. That is painful even for me. Hope you can grief freely know and let the best from the past stay in your mind, while feeling present experience fully. Almost no dates, my ex focued on her business and thrives. Glad she made it. Now, I need to focus solely on my future and praise myself. I hope like my ex I can get healed one day. And I am sure you too)
We all have been there. And as much as that lonliness eats you..its better to first understand you, your current mind and what works for you. I guess some people really need time to process things. I guess i am one of them.
She went out with all them jerks and passed up a potential genuine guy….. prime example of why women shouldn’t run to the streets after a breakup it only makes them worse and drained by time a real guy comes.
It wasn't exactly her own idea, was it? At the end she decided to respect her own feelings and wait until she's ready. Also, I don't think it's just women who should wait after a breakup before "running to the streets", it would most likely benefit anyone regardless of gender to take some time to process the breakup before moving on. Maybe people would be kinder to each other on the dating front.
Had a guy date me after a year long break up and he still wasn’t ready. However he still thought it was wise to mess with me…. Now I don’t like any of you lol. Staying single is best and less stressful
The friend was the biggest jerk, pushing her like that, she knew everything about her but not these guys, they just acted like themselves, doesn't make them a jerk.. just an incompatible choice
Lol the fact that you think most of these guys were relationship material. The dog guy was decent, I would’ve gotten over the kissing noise lol but anyone else lol
@@Enriquez2222 There was nothing wrong with most of them. There was nothing wrong with the cop; she just assumed he was a bad person because of his job. The guy that was a Mormon was slightly more understandable, but it’s not as though he pushed his views on her. He just made it known to her what they were. She was the problem here for most of the dude she ended up not going out with because she wasn’t willing to give them a chance for shallow reasons.
So after getting "heartbroken" she hops on Tinder and sleeps with a guy, whose initial goal was to go on 7 dates in 7 days. (Not to mention a different guy every night?) Calls others F-boys, and she is no different. No wonder she got dumped in the first place.
When all parties involved have mental issues and one is looking in the wrong places for a longer lasting relationship. Sometimes you have to ignore the first few dates just to see the real person inside.
Some people may think her friend is not a great friend, or that some guys were jerks, inattentive, too nice or just plain not for her - but, they all played a role in helping her move the needle close to what her next move is. Giving herself time.
After a heartbreak the solution isn’t to go on more dates obviously it made her worst, nun of those guys are what she likes and its okay to have boundaries, and her friend is terrible at giving advice
@@adriannathegreat9890again, She just wasn’t ready yet. She needs to heal. She needs time for herself. She just had a break up. Even if the guy was nice and good for her, she won’t be good for him because she’s not ready.
Best suggestion: focus on buying land, raising chickens, build a greenhouse, sip lemonade on porch with family and friends. The right person will come around probably to barter your eggs or produce.
@12:50 lololol also, I have completely given up on dating. It's not just a generational thing anymore. Everyone is completely screwed up. Must be something in the water...
She should have told her “friend” to fock off. She didn’t want to date and her “friend” was not being a friend by pressuring her to date when she wasn’t ready.
It seems like breaking out and becoming a well known actor or actress requires a ton of not making much money for a really long time. Unless you're extremely lucky.
Satire yes but I've been on a date like the 5th guy. Dude ate a whole pizza and garlic cheese fries drowned it down with a gallon of beer and was burping and farting all night... couldn't escape quick enough.
Lookin for Love in all the Wrong Places. Weekdays are for Coffee only. Someplace other than urban sprawl. Someplace cheerful. At night in a bar? Depressing.
Nothing to do with the black guy.He was genuinely the best man she met. But the girl was looking for traits from her ex to all the man she dated.She wasn't over her ex.
after like the 3rd one, im beginning to think she's the problem XD I mean, I guy comes in hungry and orders food you don't like, so you get up and immediately leave . Wow XD
I don't think the food was the main issue there... before any proper conversation and getting to know each other the guy straight up says "now that you met me and you know that I'm not a creep" ... well, that IS a creepy thing to say 😅 Noooo thank you.
I'm sorry but I think most of those guys were cool, and the last one seemed like he could've been the one. She was too picky and opinionated. No one wants an uptight woman.
Honestly and I know it's satire but she could have gave them all a chance instead of bailing at the first silly thing that shows up. But that's what happens when you have too many options. Now for men it's a different story entirely. We have options but not like this.
Moral of the story: don’t date until you are healed and emotionally available.
Bingo ! Right on Sister ! Grieve the last relationship , take some time for yourself and only pursue dating if you’re actually available for dating ! I know , crazy , right .
Her friend was NOT a good friend. Terrible idea to go on all these dates. Take care of yourself. You don't need to date anyone to be happy, fulfilled or complete. Great film. Good acting!
The acting was not good.
You’re right. I’ve known people who date around like this and most of them were train wrecks. To some of them it was even a lifestyle in itself. It is also unkind to the other people you are dating that might actually be looking for a real connection, who just get fobbed off or even ghosted because of your commitment/trust issues.
Initially when these sorts of people start doing it, they seem all perky and proud of themselves. About one month later they look burnt out and even more depressed. Then how they handle that feeling can branch off in several directions, depending on their personality.
Some realise their errors and stop.
Some go to therapy.
Some resort to “retail therapy”, binge eating, or other addictions.
Some don’t stop and/or blame other people.
Some run away and relocate to a different town. Some of those start with a clean slate and do well, others just repeat the same mistakes in a new environment.
Also if I ever heard a girl I was dating or in a relationship with say something like “a different guy every week, I’m so jealous of you being single”, she’d likely be single the next day. No need to feel ‘jealous’ anymore.
that's not necessarily true. going out and meeting new people is a way of distracting yourself and training your brain to be sociable and flirty again instead of staying locked in your room and being depressed thinking about your ex or other negative thoughts that may arise after a break up. sure, you also should have some alone time before 'jumping' into dating again and it isn't healthy if you turn into a "serial dater" and just sleep with new people every day for years, but for some people it can actually work for a while, even if its a week or a month or 2. it can give you confidence, fun, pleasure or it can even just be a way get you out of your shell/comfort zone and 'practice' until you're ready to move on. it may work for some and not for others, but it is not inherently bad.
that doesn't make sense, one doesn't exclude the other. it's like saying ' I am so jealous you're moving to Paris, that's so exciting' to a friend, it doesn't mean you want to actually leave your good job in the country you actually have a good life in and move to Paris, it just means that you know it's an exciting thing that will lead to adventures and new opportunities and you're happy that your friend is doing it, but ultimately you prefer your own situation better@@marpro212
Bro that first guy, the cop, seemed like a genuine sweetheart even if he did stick his foot in his mouth. Sometimes guys get nervous and don't know what to say.
the second one too
I liked him the most
I would have kept talking to the cop, he seemed decent
What de he say tho???
She didn’t skip him because he had his foot in his mouth. She skipped him because he’s a cop.
This type of dating feels exhausting for me to think about trying ever again, where things move too fast, conversation too shallow, mixing alcohol in, rushed, unromantic, noisy locations, impersonal, and like no one is taking them or others that seriously. I havent found it to lead to quality connection. Also did she have enough time to really process the last relationship first?
Hey I really appreciate your comment. I hope you make youtube content soon, I'd love to hear more about your opinions and worldviews!
Well, you've really got all this down . . .
I agree with you 1000% !
Why is it so accurate? Her comments (oh cute, let’s see actor guy etc) while seeing profiles, how she gets ready and crying when it didn’t work out. The last guy is so handsome and cute, right person wrong time I guess. I see why she didn’t give it a chance since her heart was broken, she wasn’t ready.
I think the last guy and the first guy or the best out of the bunch because they were actually genuine but like you said she was not ready to go back out there and date. Her heart was still broken and like many people nowadays and dating she is kind of picky so I definitely think that she should heal.
She was just going through the motions, at best trying to tolerate all the encounters. But neither her heart nor her mind was in it. She wasn't open to these experiences, cuz she definitely wasn't ready to be putting herself out there like that. Simple as that.
Actually her friend wasn't trying to help at all, instead she should've understood that she needs time to move on. Cuz she is not really ready even if all guys were nice.
wow they all dodged a massive bullet with her
The last guy was the only one who was ligit, he respected her boundaries and kept his door open. Just came too early.
Her friend is the terrible one here and her fault of listening to her friend instead of herself.
Damn, getting rejected after committing to time with a girl would feel far worse than before.
Exactly. She was so rude to all of them.
If I was this girl, I will spend my break time to heal first. Self-care is a necessity.
ig after a break up you want to get back to what you're used to, so just trying to substitute one partner with another asap. It's really hard to make yourself realise that you're single again and it's just you who will truly take care of yourself and no one else
Well, in order to completely heal from a guy who broke your heart, you need to spend hell lot of time with yourself. You can't escape from grief no matter how painful it is and no matter how many rebound emotional guys you met. It will be quite unfair if you spend time with someone physically and your heart is in past. Your friend is a worst adviser. You will never move on from your pain when you meet hell lot of guys. My partner was a commitment phobic. He cheated on me emotionally, betrayed me and made me feel so low and weak. In my heart, I know I don't deserve this knowing that I am so loyal and kind but when you love someone, all you care is just to be with that person. I felt shattered. But I didn't met with other guys. I never even cared about that. I began to go through grief stage and it has been 2 years .
I do not know, if that helps in your journey, but it helps me saying I am sorry for you meeting that type of commitment phobic guy. I was in relationship with a woman for 5 years and when speaking about her feelings, she sounded exactly how you do. it's been a bit of a year since our break up. Know I am commitment phobic to myself. That is painful even for me. Hope you can grief freely know and let the best from the past stay in your mind, while feeling present experience fully. Almost no dates, my ex focued on her business and thrives. Glad she made it. Now, I need to focus solely on my future and praise myself. I hope like my ex I can get healed one day. And I am sure you too)
Been there.... getting healed by pouring love over me.
This seems like the Origin Story for the main character in: 'Bitter Social Justice Warrior With Only Cats as Company'.
An ex is an ex for a reason. Never walk backwards 👀
This is exactly how I feel about dating
That was rude to just stand that last guy up.
She didn't stand him up, she showed up. Standing someone up means you weren't even there.
We all have been there. And as much as that lonliness eats you..its better to first understand you, your current mind and what works for you. I guess some people really need time to process things. I guess i am one of them.
There was no character arc. So it felt like the story had no purpose.
This movie was very compelling to watch. Thank you to everyone involved in the production
She went out with all them jerks and passed up a potential genuine guy….. prime example of why women shouldn’t run to the streets after a breakup it only makes them worse and drained by time a real guy comes.
It wasn't exactly her own idea, was it? At the end she decided to respect her own feelings and wait until she's ready. Also, I don't think it's just women who should wait after a breakup before "running to the streets", it would most likely benefit anyone regardless of gender to take some time to process the breakup before moving on. Maybe people would be kinder to each other on the dating front.
Had a guy date me after a year long break up and he still wasn’t ready. However he still thought it was wise to mess with me…. Now I don’t like any of you lol. Staying single is best and less stressful
The friend is the bad friend. Anyone not just women meed to learn that this 7 days strike hookup is nog a good idea after break up 😂
Most of the guys weren’t even jerks.
The friend was the biggest jerk, pushing her like that, she knew everything about her but not these guys, they just acted like themselves, doesn't make them a jerk.. just an incompatible choice
this is why people need to split the bill on dates.
Hard to root for the protagonist. I almost thought she would end up with her friend instead. 😂
Her friend is a really bad friend.
Rude and entitled protagonist. Very unlikable. She probably did a favor to all these guys by leaving.
Lol the fact that you think most of these guys were relationship material. The dog guy was decent, I would’ve gotten over the kissing noise lol but anyone else lol
@@Enriquez2222 There was nothing wrong with most of them. There was nothing wrong with the cop; she just assumed he was a bad person because of his job. The guy that was a Mormon was slightly more understandable, but it’s not as though he pushed his views on her. He just made it known to her what they were. She was the problem here for most of the dude she ended up not going out with because she wasn’t willing to give them a chance for shallow reasons.
So after getting "heartbroken" she hops on Tinder and sleeps with a guy, whose initial goal was to go on 7 dates in 7 days. (Not to mention a different guy every night?) Calls others F-boys, and she is no different. No wonder she got dumped in the first place.
How can she find a new date every single night?
'Cause she's an attractive woman.
Wasn't she using the internet a bit?
God! The protagonist needs therapy and the friend is just toxic!
Shes actually the problem! Kissy noises are cute, so petty!
I want my 20 minutes of life back!
the abortion thing did not bother me but everyone have their own ideas and concepts. i respect that
3rd guy is DYING?
Aiyo, where is the original video, I had to compliment a guy for teaching math in my comment sections but now I lost his id forever
When all parties involved have mental issues and one is looking in the wrong places for a longer lasting relationship. Sometimes you have to ignore the first few dates just to see the real person inside.
I don't know how to feel after watching this film. It is just a disappointment for the whole time. The only character I liked is the cop
Finally someone who agrees with me
He seemed like he would actually be nice.
The main character was unlikeable but I think that was the point.
@@aspiring... yea, you're right, thinking about it in retrospective
Me too.
Some people may think her friend is not a great friend, or that some guys were jerks, inattentive, too nice or just plain not for her - but, they all played a role in helping her move the needle close to what her next move is. Giving herself time.
I don't get the point of this short. What was it trying to say? Hookup culture is toxic? Dating is exhausting? Don't sleep around?
don't smoke weed
...read the description...
After a heartbreak the solution isn’t to go on more dates obviously it made her worst, nun of those guys are what she likes and its okay to have boundaries, and her friend is terrible at giving advice
@@draylouis That last guy might have been her type if only she'd given him the chance.
@@adriannathegreat9890again, She just wasn’t ready yet. She needs to heal. She needs time for herself. She just had a break up. Even if the guy was nice and good for her, she won’t be good for him because she’s not ready.
The music was outstanding!
Best suggestion: focus on buying land, raising chickens, build a greenhouse, sip lemonade on porch with family and friends. The right person will come around probably to barter your eggs or produce.
Excellent movie! It was like a book that I could _not_ put down! 😮 ❤
What is the sing playing in the background with guy 4? Actor Man?
"Jesus, that was easy. " 😂
What's not so good about having a COP for a friend?
morals
When you realise you are the problem 😊
Please, does someone knows the bame of the song at the end???
At the 19:53
The end credits say it’s Lady Macbeth by Lena Schnall.
Is their a male version of this?
a man get 7 dates on a week? Only if he's filthy rich or very famous...
there*
@12:50 lololol also, I have completely given up on dating. It's not just a generational thing anymore. Everyone is completely screwed up. Must be something in the water...
D.I.T.T.O - and this includes me and you 🤷♂️😁
She should have told her “friend” to fock off. She didn’t want to date and her “friend” was not being a friend by pressuring her to date when she wasn’t ready.
It seems like breaking out and becoming a well known actor or actress requires a ton of not making much money for a really long time. Unless you're extremely lucky.
I CAN SEE WHY SHE IS SINGLE..
I'm gonna catch a lotta hell for this...
She's heartbroken 😒 wtf
i had a guy kiss like a fish and like a lab dog so i feel you lmfao
Just tell him you don't like that. Period. I mean, develop some communicative skills!
The last guy was a gentleman and understood... maybe she should have given him a chance
What's the song, while she's getting ready for the date on day 5?
Can we appreciate the music too? Wow.
Folks, this is supposed to be satire and it does a good job of it.
uhh can't agree with you on that. this a woke "GIRL power" message.
Satire yes but I've been on a date like the 5th guy. Dude ate a whole pizza and garlic cheese fries drowned it down with a gallon of beer and was burping and farting all night... couldn't escape quick enough.
Not really.
Heah, it happened the same to me lol, then i begun figuring out that better alone than in bad company
damn the last dude she was a dick. driving gas like $6 plus parking $20 if he got uber thats even worse
I hate this girl
The last song is awesome!
Wow, I can't remember the last movie I watched with such an unlikeable character.
Huh? What's with the smile at the end? She found a joke somewhere in all this?
She's not likeable at all.
she plain as bread
There’s nothing out there…
Most of those guys seem like they were too good for her
Yeah the r-pe joke guy was truly a catch
The bar has always been low for men
Did we watch the same video what 😅
@@Enriquez2222 They said most, not all.
This is sad. She just wants her ex back. She can't enjoy herself because her heart's not in it.
That is why you NEVER take a girl on a date unless she is your gf. IYKYK.
Unfortunate, that the original version of Eny Meany Miniee Mo.......does not conclude with catch a F Boy..
Lookin for Love in all the Wrong Places. Weekdays are for Coffee only. Someplace other than urban sprawl. Someplace cheerful. At night in a bar? Depressing.
She was offended all the time over nothing and seemed to think that entitled her to be condescending and rude.
Wayyyy too cheesy and super shallow
I also have my friend's contact name saved as "Friend" in my phone
dont see the point.
the comments 💀
she needs better friends
Yeah 😁now youve proven your not a creep....😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
What's the definition of insanity again?
What an existence.....so sad
I'm not a huge fan of her friend...
Dating sucks
so unlikeable character
You get someone who LOOK like this 😆🤷♂️ OMG
All the bi-pride colors had me thinking she was going to meet a lady she liked.
Hmm. Not my experience. The men were WAY, WAAAAY too nice and she was way too quick to dismiss.
Men can be soooooooo depressing damn
In life's situations; it can always be worse. She's stuck up
yo... why she cut the black guy out so quick...
And he seemed like a gentleman. ❤ the whole movie made me sad. God! I am glad i have been married 40 yrs.
Nothing to do with the black guy.He was genuinely the best man she met. But the girl was looking for traits from her ex to all the man she dated.She wasn't over her ex.
lol....yeah I was like "damn, she didn't even give the black guy a chance"
Oh you know why brother... you know exactly why..
Y’all wanna make her a babymama so bad 😂😂
I thought they say cheeky not funny.
Not surprised its hard to date as a radical lefty ❄️.
only a woman could on a whim sort out a date for each night of a full week
after like the 3rd one, im beginning to think she's the problem XD I mean, I guy comes in hungry and orders food you don't like, so you get up and immediately leave . Wow XD
Reminds me of Seinfeld. They had so many options no one was ever 'good enough'
I don't think the food was the main issue there... before any proper conversation and getting to know each other the guy straight up says "now that you met me and you know that I'm not a creep" ... well, that IS a creepy thing to say 😅 Noooo thank you.
Well he was also plastered
I think it was because he was drunk and immediately wanted to go back to his place. Y’all must not have very high standards
She’s the problem.
What a nonsense storyline.
I'd have gone with the police guy.
Sorry😞 I tried to like it!
What a horrible and shallow friend you got girl !!!
She’s no different/ small wonder they’re friends
So this is dating Life 😂🤣 🤮
Such an annoying protagonist.
The second guy was yuck
#5 & #6 ick lol
I really hated the protagonist
Meanwhile the guys who get broken can’t get dates for weeks if not months
"That happens a lot"... yep ... women are wising up and avoiding cops and other trogs. The trogs can drop that junk any time they want.
I'm sorry but I think most of those guys were cool, and the last one seemed like he could've been the one. She was too picky and opinionated. No one wants an uptight woman.
Honestly and I know it's satire but she could have gave them all a chance instead of bailing at the first silly thing that shows up. But that's what happens when you have too many options. Now for men it's a different story entirely. We have options but not like this.
Maybe she's still in love with her ex