Black father shares his opinions on homosexuality | Tarek Ali

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  • @TarekAli
    @TarekAli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Watch Segment #1 with his wife: th-cam.com/video/oreJmjGeAQg/w-d-xo.html
    Hey Taebies, this video is really important for all the queer people out there that are struggling not only with their sexuality but identity. This video is to encourage you all to have a conversation with your parents/kids. Also to provide the perspective of a straight father for all those queer kids out there who may be wondering what goes on in their fathers head. My uncle here is not a representation for all fathers, nor am I for all gay people, but this is just one video trying to make a difference, and definitely not my last like this. It is important that we communicate!

  • @lissa4142
    @lissa4142 7 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    Uncle is a snack.

    • @mauricenowlin7568
      @mauricenowlin7568 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Melissa Wong you ain't neva lied

    • @lucylew1286
      @lucylew1286 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes ma’am. Beautiful family !!!

    • @etopetop
      @etopetop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lucylew1286 Oh yes!!!

    • @jessicaburgess1464
      @jessicaburgess1464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Everybody fine in the family ... dad too

    • @Feliciatanktop
      @Feliciatanktop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jessicaburgess1464 even his friends are fine

  • @legal_beagle5294
    @legal_beagle5294 7 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Unk...fine as hell!!!! No disrespect to his wife, but good Lawd!!!

  • @MrAnasion100
    @MrAnasion100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    First of all Daddy is a daddy..

    • @treseon
      @treseon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      RIGHT?!

    • @Novemberborn
      @Novemberborn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      anasion good AF

    • @SimplyQuietta
      @SimplyQuietta 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Daddy is a Zaddy lol 😍😍

    • @Keke-oh6zd
      @Keke-oh6zd 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking the same.

  • @TarekAli
    @TarekAli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Yall wanna know a secret ? I kept the crickets so you would feel more "there" 😂😂

  • @gregorysmith260
    @gregorysmith260 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    He is so educated in living for it I wish more dudes would think the way your uncle does!

  • @tyrelltheophane9
    @tyrelltheophane9 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This was a great video. Glad your Uncle can show that some heterosexual men are actually open minded about everything.

  • @tylineburgos8879
    @tylineburgos8879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Come on genes and generations. Yall both super handsome

    • @kjariousmitchell1686
      @kjariousmitchell1686 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Dwayne Earles chile this sentence was tore up from the floor up 😂🤣

  • @marklouis1890
    @marklouis1890 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love this mans opinion. He is so open minded

  • @zenafaye7183
    @zenafaye7183 7 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Your uncle looks like a young and better looking Judge Mathis!

  • @Crownedbyredd
    @Crownedbyredd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This video made me cringe. Not for the fact that it was bad it was amazing but for the face of the conversation. I am 24 years old and I fear to have this conversation with my own father. And I believe my father and I have a good relationship. This video helped me in the way that it created a templet to what to actually say. That is such a problem. "we" don't know how to word the topics, so the conversation never takes place. Tarek, thank you for the dialogue and the safe space you and your uncle created.

  • @afrosummertime4813
    @afrosummertime4813 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I hope more conversations come from this video and shout out to your uncle and auntie for being open minded

  • @KARLAYUIOP3
    @KARLAYUIOP3 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Great video!! These are the type of conversations we need to be having.

  • @jaredmartin2997
    @jaredmartin2997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wooow i know i am late on watching this. But i just want to say. I really appreciate the fact that you are able to have this conversation with a black straight male and also having just an amazing talk. I want to say that every thing that you are saying is one hundred percent correct and it helps me as a gay male that is not flamboyant and wanting people to realize that me being gay does not make me less of a man

  • @seantryce7402
    @seantryce7402 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He's amazing and I hope his level of mentality becomes contagious 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Deff inspirational in so many ways.

  • @teddy6742
    @teddy6742 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for having this conversation. I'm sure this video will help someone in their life.

  • @jgraham5593
    @jgraham5593 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This conversation is SUPER POWERFUL..PERIODT

  • @carmellabrown3335
    @carmellabrown3335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really enjoyed this video! It was so nice to see positive HONEST black male interaction.

  • @lamak0925
    @lamak0925 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow. It's very special to have an Uncle like yours. He's dope.

  • @AyannaBlK
    @AyannaBlK 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I love the video but is it weird that I'm like your uncle can get it 😍😂😂😂😂

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      thats a grown man with a wifee!! lmfao

    • @ddp3202
      @ddp3202 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yume jou I was thinking the same thing. That's a bad uncle

  • @mpaga
    @mpaga 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thumbs up for that video. I liked it. That was a great conversation. I wish i had a uncle like that.

  • @shaunlowekey4525
    @shaunlowekey4525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for having your uncle on your show, this is a very interesting topic that you have decided to talk about.

  • @MrAlwaysSinging21
    @MrAlwaysSinging21 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've Been Following You Since Vine, And I Love The Consistent Growth That I've Seen

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this means so much to me

  • @FlyBoiQ1
    @FlyBoiQ1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This video really should have just as many likes as views

    • @zenafaye7183
      @zenafaye7183 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's a video with intelligent and non emotional conversations about homosexuality.Most people are not interested in watching black people thinking and behaving in a civil and highly intelligent way. Sad but true. Just do some research and you will see what I am talking about.

  • @karmelwarren4717
    @karmelwarren4717 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just so you know young man, I'm old enough to be your mother, and I subscribed to your channel because I think you have a lot of spunk... Like the topic of this conversation, because it's enlightening, plus your guest is cute (no disrespect intended), keep up the good work sweety.

  • @tyantoine356
    @tyantoine356 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Very very powerful I just sent it to my dad and I'm wondering what his response will be but thank you for this video it's me wrapped in a video

  • @tonylov9857
    @tonylov9857 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Once again , great vid. Your uncle gave some great advice. Bless up!!!!

  • @artistdagod1572
    @artistdagod1572 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this channel is very important and needed. I'm sorry I wasn't able to appreciate it as much as I should have in this moment. I just came from watching a diy. but I've been subscribed to this channel for very long and this is my first time watching a video. And I'm loving this concept. And I will be returning. And omg this taebabies yessss I love subscriber nicknames❤❤❤

  • @MrONeil1981
    @MrONeil1981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're uncle is beautiful! I believe sexuality is a big part of us all. Great video.☺

  • @tylerjjackson
    @tylerjjackson 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You making moves in this world! Hope both of you prosper😇

  • @ibelieve5000
    @ibelieve5000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS VIDEO. I an literally in tears. This short video has impacted me greatly. Keep it up Tarek. And Thank You

  • @girfusion
    @girfusion 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow, this was everything! The sequence of questions was so on point. I love what you're doing with your channel. Two great mindsets on display in this video ❤❤

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      thankyou! Im trynna be the next oprah

  • @pjtribble7214
    @pjtribble7214 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    52! I loved watching your video and listening to your deep, needed and intelligent conversation!! Keep preaching the truth, staying strong and standing up for your convictions!! Peace & Blessings

  • @thegreyarea4069
    @thegreyarea4069 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love these videos, I love you. I go to state and I definitely wanna meet you and just vibe and chat because I live for conversations like this with substance. These videos are definitely going to be big for not only your success but just helping others to get out of their comfort zones and be open to simply understanding. 🙏

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw thankyou baby!

  • @kelvinbrent
    @kelvinbrent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sooo Awesome!!! Really Like & Respect Your Uncle So Wise!!! Thank You For Sharing!!! I Agree With Every thing He Offered!! !Kudos Tarek Ali

  • @genesisledezmine5694
    @genesisledezmine5694 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Tarek Ali, 😁
    I really enjoyed the dialogue between you and your uncle as well as I did the dialogue between you and your aunt.
    I would like to highlight that I was particularly impressed with the defining perspectives in dealing with nature versus nurture. Developments in behavioral psychology is ever so evolving and I’d like to attribute more of the research to nature versus nurture as I study behavioral psychology.
    I wish that I could have had healthy conversations with my family as I was dealing with coming out and learning to accepting myself.
    I really enjoyed this video! Your family is truly amazing and extremely beautiful. 💯❤️😊

  • @cece7370
    @cece7370 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tarek, I really appreciate you creating a video about explaining tough topics and questions and that many other yotubers would not do. Keep being you 🥰🥰🥰!!!

  • @joycebrown2185
    @joycebrown2185 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well spoken, you two did a great job.

  • @ericerics1100
    @ericerics1100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved this video and oh how I love your uncle for the way he views this subject as a straight black man. Wish there were more like him wish my Dad thought like him.

  • @onzalobutler9489
    @onzalobutler9489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kudos to your uncle! It’s not many black men that have this mindset.

  • @SpillingTeaWithJayBee
    @SpillingTeaWithJayBee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wheeewwww uncle 😂👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽 I love his respect for tarek though that shit 💯

  • @delwyn3172
    @delwyn3172 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love this! thank you so much for sharing this with us. x

  • @terraaitken7815
    @terraaitken7815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think unk meant to say a lot of ppl are born gay but some ppl are molested and is taught stimulation too early in life

    • @jrthegoat7841
      @jrthegoat7841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Terra Aitken daam that happened to me but I like fucking women also

  • @Richcocoa_
    @Richcocoa_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WWWOOOOWWWW !!!!! When he compared it to how when we were younger 12:15 . He is so right omg

  • @whitney1416
    @whitney1416 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Uncle fine AF! Lolol

  • @eggheadarnold
    @eggheadarnold 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the question about manhood is based on all sorts of standards that vary from family to family, religion to religion, country to country, society to society, culture to culture. the topic intrigued me, and years ago i created a list of characterististics of manhood. they are :- real men demonstrate self control and discipline, humility,self image and self efficacy, concern for others, realise his need for others. granted each item on my list comes with detailed explainations but.... overall sexuality has no merit.

  • @Jack-eo5fn
    @Jack-eo5fn ปีที่แล้ว

    This Dad has a lifetime of wisdom to share. I hope he’s a teacher or something similar where he can influence others.

  • @k.simmons862
    @k.simmons862 ปีที่แล้ว

    Family support is needed. I’m a gay black male that is blessed enough to have parents and family that stands by me, supports me and accepts all of me.

  • @larrycalloway1724
    @larrycalloway1724 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enjoying You Guys sharing 👊🏽

  • @isaac1i995
    @isaac1i995 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow. ...well done, cudos to UNC... ...good post Bruhhh!

  • @marvelouscurenton
    @marvelouscurenton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unk said “that’s who WE are”... 🗣GREENLIGHT for zaddy!!!!

  • @nadiamiller9018
    @nadiamiller9018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is educational for all black fathers out there

  • @akumanwoke8096
    @akumanwoke8096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The more I watch your videos the more I get besotted. Tarek you sound like an educated guy.

  • @karencanan6199
    @karencanan6199 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you're doing good conversations, thank you for sharing.

  • @damiangrant4742
    @damiangrant4742 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You Preach yo butt off 😩🙌🏾🔥🎉 thanks for the blessing 🙏🏾

  • @misskfountain4070
    @misskfountain4070 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this video! Perfect. Thanks

  • @netarcheruto
    @netarcheruto 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tarek u sound like u still trying 2find peace within yourself. I understand that having this platform is helpful but try joining some appropriate group sessions as well and I'm sure it will take u 2the next level. Good luck and God bless

  • @reggied1811
    @reggied1811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You were blessed with an amazing family

  • @dragonone8778
    @dragonone8778 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo Tariq I'm a STR8 man and i subscribe to your channel because I like ur content and ur fam is awesome. I like the fact that they treat u the same,like a good person. You have great ideas about decorating too lol. Thanx bro.👍🇵🇷

  • @benjamincunningham5070
    @benjamincunningham5070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super intelligent straight UNCLE

  • @jethrobodineus
    @jethrobodineus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with Unc! Being a man is being responsible.

  • @lovethenleave69
    @lovethenleave69 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I dont think i want my kids to be gay because of the hardships. Or because Im gay

  • @gwendolynlovett6610
    @gwendolynlovett6610 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I juz have a thought: I wouldn't want anyone that I care about to experience any hardships or heartbreaks in life;this includes the prejudices of being black, woman, sexism, or materialism or anything else. Unfortunately, life may give a person those encounters. I think all I can do is to continue to give as much strength and love within and hope and pray it makes a difference.

  • @mspunkin001able
    @mspunkin001able 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay, I'm new😊 and hella late....like 3 years 🙄 so please forgive me. I have been binge watching your videos because you are absolutely adorable. I watched your interview with your dad, aunt, now your uncle. I keep hearing about your siblings on your mom's side, will you do a sit-down interview with them I would love to see it. ❤️

  • @fultonyl1
    @fultonyl1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a lucky man you got family that respect you and accept you for who you are

  • @akeemlee4574
    @akeemlee4574 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing Content love it

  • @Quani_McQueen
    @Quani_McQueen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He wants his kids to not be gay because he is an Heterosexual.. and it's nothing wrong with wanting your kid to be straight. nobody hopes for a gay child.. it is what it is. and like he said, he will love his child regardless.. I enjoyed this

    • @tonyabrown3918
      @tonyabrown3918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I honestly want to know is your fleshly immoral pleasure worth Eternal fire? You are a Spiritual being having a human experience. And homosexuality is a spirit. When I watch the whole dynamics of the gay culture and all the direction that it goes in( LGBTQ?????) with all the flamboyance and the down low. In your opinion without trying to appeal to me. Do you think that was the original design of your creator? Our loving father is not a bully he gives us the freedom of choice. Every last one of us was born into some type of sin. But he also gave us a way of Escape through Jesus Christ not from a religious perspective but from a LOVE perspective.. Another thing ... since you are a a person in the gay community. there are so many people that God has touched and they are now straight why won't you put some of those types of people on your channel. I've watched quite a few of your videos. But I also look at those people that had a visitation to hell and they saw homosexuals there. I would hate for you to lose your life in eternity because you wanted to fulfill sexual pleasure. And oh by the way homosexuality is not the only sin. There are also people that sit in the church every day that are going to have an experience in Hellfire like lying and other sins. Just want to have an open conversation. Shalom

  • @camron147
    @camron147 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I Love What You Do !!

    • @TarekAli
      @TarekAli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thanks for the support baby

  • @1blessedbrotha
    @1blessedbrotha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Uncle got my attention!!!!!

  • @dominiquegregory5377
    @dominiquegregory5377 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much obliged

  • @marklouis1890
    @marklouis1890 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can so relate to this video

  • @nhlosenhlecele7371
    @nhlosenhlecele7371 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deadass cried. ❤😭

  • @solomontessema3410
    @solomontessema3410 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @KISSTHECHEF2010
    @KISSTHECHEF2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I believe some people are genetically predisposed to being gay. I also think that some people are trying this lifestyle as fad. I also believe that some people have a life’s event that they become accustomed to being gay (ie molestation).

  • @tyroneroberts1868
    @tyroneroberts1868 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    He isn't sure how to answer your questions. Maybe he think it may incriminate him. You are doing your best to reconstruct the question the way he understands.

  • @Shadow2pointO
    @Shadow2pointO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not simping but OMG! he fine!

  • @nomdeplume1358
    @nomdeplume1358 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm envious of people who have families that are open minded and accepting. Cause I know my ass can't relate 😂😭

  • @toniletoya9986
    @toniletoya9986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Uncle fine fine

  • @locdnlovely2435
    @locdnlovely2435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg... You look a lot like your Uncle. Nice looking family

  • @nilie1
    @nilie1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THIS!!!

  • @craigjohnson8555
    @craigjohnson8555 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great show NiggA!!! I am Craig Johnson Memphis Tennessee.

  • @lighthousemoontarot8773
    @lighthousemoontarot8773 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a good looking family!! Seriously though. U guys have good genes!!👍❤💯🌠✌

  • @nikeyaa2614
    @nikeyaa2614 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this. 💕

  • @BeltwayChina
    @BeltwayChina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He is SUPER fine!

  • @tryn2bnice557
    @tryn2bnice557 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uncle a cutie pie🤗 so proud of you

  • @tmalone2530
    @tmalone2530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn you, your dad AND your uncle are all snacks. And here I am ugly as a stump 😩

  • @lucky-hd1yv
    @lucky-hd1yv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tarek, it may never make sense to your parents because they may have been taught how to view people and relationships based on biblical principles. I believe people are born that way. Period.

  • @billybpparrants1567
    @billybpparrants1567 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    love the video

  • @Cycnoches2012
    @Cycnoches2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    what does uncle/cousin mean?

  • @briancole1687
    @briancole1687 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your uncle is very cool!

  • @ms.sunshine2u635
    @ms.sunshine2u635 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your uncle is very handsome.

  • @macward9721
    @macward9721 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Unc is def a feast😍

  • @angeljohnson234
    @angeljohnson234 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My uncles don't look anything like that. :(

  • @joycethomas84
    @joycethomas84 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    your father looks very young and is very handsome . you too are a very handsome young man. glad your father is understanding. not all parents are.

    • @PrettybuoyJones1992
      @PrettybuoyJones1992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You clearly didn't watch the video...😩😭😂💀

  • @zombomjembu7957
    @zombomjembu7957 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dzam the uncle is sooo fine.

  • @damienj5378
    @damienj5378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cool video

  • @1963luv
    @1963luv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can I have your uncle for myself?..he is soooooooo handsome 😍

  • @timmiboisavoy
    @timmiboisavoy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful video

  • @kieshajones837
    @kieshajones837 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    honey I believe you will change your mind.

  • @petuniasmashianoke3924
    @petuniasmashianoke3924 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tarek you so smart