I used to be like Tim having high expectations on my best friends. But later on I realise that I can't expect them to be there for me when I needed them the most as they may have their own issues or unable to provide support. I learned that I should be grateful for the maximum support they can give and not rely too much but be independent.
Then you shouldn’t be there for them either when they demand the same. I started doing this and it saves me a lot of unnecessary heartache and feeling like I’m being used at their convenience. I only give what I get. I had friends who lashed out at me for not being regularly in touch but as soon as I started being regular and needed them, they seriously didn’t cared yet expected me to give them my 100% time, attention and devotion.
I will have to tell her to mind her business obviously this is a conversation he's not ready to have period and you cannot force him to reconnect with somebody because you feel like they should you could be bringing up trauma period you don't just did not be best friends with a best friend and not have emotions.... mind your business... I dislike people who want to force me to discuss something I don't want to discuss... And as a best friend and having a best friend your best friend has a life and problems also and you must understand that period there's times I need my bestie but she's going through something I'm surviving Crohn's disease she surviving cancer one doesn't make it more important
I can completely relate to this because I went through this myself. This hit me deep in the heart and emotions. Like a quote said “they said I changed a lot. I said a lot changed me.” A buddy and I who I haven’t talked to in awhile and I are working on letting go of the past and move forward. We’re trying to rekindle our friendship again after so long.
Tim and his GF need to communicate more, Martha was worried about their relationship!!! Friends can fall out of touch but there should be a chance for reconciliation, if Tim would take his own ego down a notch and get back with his BFF Ritchie!!! Animosity must end, the BFF must be worried about Tim and wants to reconnect, there should be that chance!!!! It's time for resolutions, there must be answers , watch out!!!
I can kind of understand. I was in a relationship from September until March, and my best friend and I hardly ever talked about it after the breakup. But one thing he did tell me was to take all the time that I needed, because he knew how much it hurts. But at least he could empathize with me and be a real friend, unlike Ritchie.
No.. Would you like it if your girlfriend or boyfriend interfered with your past? What if he wasn’t telling her the full story and ritchie did someway worse?.. She only reconnected them because SHE thought they could. She doesn’t know about their friendship like they do so she shouldn’t be so nosy!! Red flag.
They make good decision to become best friends again sometimes friend has to deal with their own things she did something sweet and touching reunite them together
He is finally, starting to push up his actions with better and better content. After all you and Dhar Mann, are both good but Dhar has more actors and knows how to push his videos, so do you. But let’s thank you for your hard work also.
When it comes to friends being like brothers you have to put the All Mighty God in your lives and let him guide you. He will help you become better brothers.
illumeably i love your crew and the work and energy and the time, you all put in for us JUST so we can be entertained,props to you ! You earned a new sub.
In the Jewish tradition, Moses' brother, Aaron the High Priest, is said to have promoted peace between people. He would hear of two men having a falling-out, and would approach each one separately, saying, "Your friend feels terrible for what he said and did to you. He is truly sorry, and would really like to make it up to you." And the next time those two men would meet, they'd embrace and be friends again. Evandra Aurelia often plays very sweet, thoughtful women (always with lots of energy, a heartwarming smile and a delightful mischievous streak), and in this video, she got to be exactly that kind of peacemaker. And she couldn't possibly have played it better. Wonderful video, everybody, but a special thanks to you, Evandra, for really making it snap, crackle and pop!
It would be hilarious if after the 2 friends start talking again if Tim starts canceling dates with Martha to hang out with Ritchie If this had a part 2 I’d love to see that 😅
Yes you are right about her being an idiot. Because she is forcing him to show her his friends but I can't find a time to show you what we need. That is what she wants.😮😢❤
BIG THANK YOU Illumeably and your amazing team for once again pulling out another awesome video as always your videos just keep getting better and better every time you post them and i would like to take the time out to appreciate all the hard work and all the love💞the that you and your amazing team puts into making all these awesome videos as always you put in a 💯 percent in everything you do and the storyline's just keeps getting better and better as well I can't thank you and your amazing team enough for taking the time out to do all these awesome videos.and not forgetting making my nights so happy just sitting watching all your awesome videos as well.......,,,,,,BIG THUMBS UP FOR THE ONE AND ONLY Illumeably and your amazing team.....,,,,🕊️👍🏻👍🏼👍🏻👍🏼.......,,,,,,KEEP UP THE FANTASTIC WORK Illumeably and your amazing team.....,,,🕊️💯👏👏👏👏.......,,,🌹🌹🌹🕊️🕊️🕊️💞🙏
Illumeably your channel has really grown. Team Illumeably from the bottom up, it takes everyone working together to become successful. The way you are relaying the message you want us to see and hear is loud and clear. I want to thank you for your unique style. Can't wait for the next one. 😅😅😮😮😊😊😊😊😊😊
What? From what I understand, Ritchie was just trying to get Tim to see the glass half full. Where does he get "unsupportive" from that? If anything, Tim should stop being negative.
I have no friends or best friends because they left me and said they didn’t want to be friends with me their parents hated me and guys if you have a bestie be grateful 🙏
ngl if i was dating her and she stuck her nose in issues like that, i would be so mad at her. i get that she was trying to help but even watching her in the video annoys me
See, Richie seems like he was just trying to help, I know he took the wrong route but maybe he was just hurt by his roommates words ( btw I haven't seen the end yet and I forgot TIMS name please like 😅)❤
dam i was gonna say in the live that: BRO THE PERSON THATS GONNA BE LAST IS THE PERSON THAT IS THE ONLY ONE LEFT IN THIS LIVE CHAT :know i realized i masses up-
If someone is hiding stuff it is not an honest relationship.Martha and Tim had been together a year and it seemed she knew nothing about him. People should respect each other. It's nice it had a happy ending even if Martha was a little forward about it. I brought my husband and his brother back together again. I had a friend like Tim for years and tried to help him through every problem. After 15 years he hated me because I have a family and couldn't help him as much. Hey wrote me off. It's sad but life goes the on and he will always be in my thoughts.
No. If i had a partner and i had trauma or something happened between a friend and i didn’t want to tell them, then i don’t have to. If my partner loved me enough then they would understand that i don’t have to tell them those type of things until i get comfortable. It was NOT martha’s place to reconnect them. If they wanted to talk or if it was meant for them to talk again then it would happen one day.. Martha should have stayed out of the way and let it happen or not happen. She’s super nosy and i would have dumped her for interfering in a past friendship. 🤦🏻♀️
The guy that guy played Ritchie made an interesting speech. I was betrayed by a friend so I can kinda relate. The ending was funny. As usual the woman is a fruitcake😄
No doorman is the best don’t see let’s be honest guys. This channel is better than Dhar Mann. Don’t say that ever again he’s the best Dhar Mann is the best.😊
I will have to tell her to mind her business obviously this is a conversation he's not ready to have period and you cannot force him to reconnect with somebody because you feel like they should you could be bringing up trauma period you don't just did not be best friends with a best friend and not have emotions.... mind your business... I dislike people who want to force me to discuss something I don't want to discuss... And as a best friend and having a best friend your best friend has a life and problems also and you must understand that period there's times I need my bestie but she's going through something I'm surviving Crohn's disease she surviving cancer one doesn't make it more important
No no,actually she DID something wrong,she SHOULDNT ask him this,it’s none of her BUSINESS,and HE did smth wrong,it’s that if you want her to trust you,show her YOURE phone bro,and it’s you’re ONLY CHANCE to talk to him AGAIN!!!!BRUUUH,THOSE DUMBASSES 💀-
Girlfriend gets two best friends who called themselves brothers back together. I give it to Martha she's one heck of a wonderful girlfriend. The thing is best friends are like brothers or sisters but best mates for life. Whether you grew up together. Like first met as pre school friends heading to primary school then high school or college or university or polytech. When two boys meet for the first time in pre school or kindergarten and they're still best friends through primary school and then go different paths in high school or college and university or polytechnic their lives would change hugely over the years of no contact until the one day when they meet each other again and the past comes back to why they stopped talking to each other after leaving primary school. But for these two guys who were high school roommates and best buddies a.k.a brothers and then they're not. Until Martha reunites the best buddies after finding out from her boyfriend why he and Ritchie stopped talking and stopped communicating as best friends and she came up with a plan that reunited her boyfriend and Ritchie's friendship and it happened. And it's all thanks to this boyfriend's girl Martha.
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I used to be like Tim having high expectations on my best friends. But later on I realise that I can't expect them to be there for me when I needed them the most as they may have their own issues or unable to provide support. I learned that I should be grateful for the maximum support they can give and not rely too much but be independent.
Then you shouldn’t be there for them either when they demand the same. I started doing this and it saves me a lot of unnecessary heartache and feeling like I’m being used at their convenience. I only give what I get. I had friends who lashed out at me for not being regularly in touch but as soon as I started being regular and needed them, they seriously didn’t cared yet expected me to give them my 100% time, attention and devotion.
Also texting or being in touch regularly is NOT A HIGH EXPECTATION!!!
Hey if the man here wants to live his little fantasy world pretending his friends care about him what harm does it to you? How does it effect you?
Even though she was trying to help, I still think it was wrong for her to interfere, it could have ended quite badly.
I agree she had no business of coming in between like that
Agree too
Yeah sometimes it's not always okay to interfere no matter if they your friend or family member
At the same time she was trying to help. Would you be upset if that person wasn’t in your life forever?😢
I will have to tell her to mind her business obviously this is a conversation he's not ready to have period and you cannot force him to reconnect with somebody because you feel like they should you could be bringing up trauma period you don't just did not be best friends with a best friend and not have emotions.... mind your business... I dislike people who want to force me to discuss something I don't want to discuss... And as a best friend and having a best friend your best friend has a life and problems also and you must understand that period there's times I need my bestie but she's going through something I'm surviving Crohn's disease she surviving cancer one doesn't make it more important
no matter what the situation is i will always be there for my bestie
I can completely relate to this because I went through this myself. This hit me deep in the heart and emotions. Like a quote said “they said I changed a lot. I said a lot changed me.” A buddy and I who I haven’t talked to in awhile and I are working on letting go of the past and move forward. We’re trying to rekindle our friendship again after so long.
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To be honest there will always be distance sometimes in relationships or friendships but you can find a way to deal with it
Way to go Sergio! Another awesome video Illumeably! Love it, and the message it sends ❤
Best friends should be BFFs forever
Agreed. The problem, if any is sometimes someone finds ways to create conflicts between them.
@@jamarissherman72that’s not what happened at all
Yes , agreed .
Tim and his GF need to communicate more, Martha was worried about their relationship!!! Friends can fall out of touch but there should be a chance for reconciliation, if Tim would take his own ego down a notch and get back with his BFF Ritchie!!! Animosity must end, the BFF must be worried about Tim and wants to reconnect, there should be that chance!!!! It's time for resolutions, there must be answers , watch out!!!
I do not understand what you are saying
This is a nice ending. Showing forgiveness is ok. Relationships Take work!
I can kind of understand. I was in a relationship from September until March, and my best friend and I hardly ever talked about it after the breakup. But one thing he did tell me was to take all the time that I needed, because he knew how much it hurts. But at least he could empathize with me and be a real friend, unlike Ritchie.
This was such a sweet ending I like that your actors are so sweet this is actually soooooo believable ❤
im gonna be honest, that girlfriend is nosy for getting in peoples past.
I can find it hard to forgive sometimes especially if what they did was very unforgivable. Sometimes people are not worth coming back into your life.
I'm a bit confused. Why did Ritchie just stop talking to him randomly? Like, they just went out together! What?
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Hey, ILLUMBEALY, thank you for all of your amazing videos! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Bro can you shut the heck up bro you say this on dhar Mann too
Tim's girlfriend was so cool for wanting them to makeup. So supportive.
No.. Would you like it if your girlfriend or boyfriend interfered with your past? What if he wasn’t telling her the full story and ritchie did someway worse?.. She only reconnected them because SHE thought they could. She doesn’t know about their friendship like they do so she shouldn’t be so nosy!! Red flag.
@@vibeycoolaidhis fault for not telling her then. he sees how badly she was invested in it
@@floatsyourboats6843 i said thar 3 months agp
@@floatsyourboats6843actually not his fault she's just hella nosy💯
Great job guys! 👍
Agreed man Great job to illumeably
They make good decision to become best friends again sometimes friend has to deal with their own things she did something sweet and touching reunite them together
Going behind their backs seems wrong, though.
I know Harold, it could have ended quite badly.
Martha in this story was such a lovely supportive girlfriend
Illumeably makes the best videos ever :)
This gonna be a banger
They got a new actor
He is finally, starting to push up his actions with better and better content. After all you and Dhar Mann, are both good but Dhar has more actors and knows how to push his videos, so do you. But let’s thank you for your hard work also.
Seargeo has a great face the kind that makes you smile.
Omg! This was crazy! Was expecting that! Holy wow!
You guys never disappoint us with all of your magnificent videos.
Can you shut up
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When it comes to friends being like brothers you have to put the All Mighty God in your lives and let him guide you. He will help you become better brothers.
Wow Martha was the hero 🦸♀️ !!!! The two men ended up working it out.
I love how the story ends better
i think we can all agree that illumeably is our backup channel while we wait for dhar mann content😁
OMG YES
Omg agreed! 😊❤
illumeably i love your crew and the work and energy and the time, you all put in for us JUST so we can be entertained,props to you ! You earned a new sub.
Cool
I truly enjoyed this video it’s really heartwarming ❤
Nice storyline, so touching.💙
In the Jewish tradition, Moses' brother, Aaron the High Priest, is said to have promoted peace between people. He would hear of two men having a falling-out, and would approach each one separately, saying, "Your friend feels terrible for what he said and did to you. He is truly sorry, and would really like to make it up to you." And the next time those two men would meet, they'd embrace and be friends again. Evandra Aurelia often plays very sweet, thoughtful women (always with lots of energy, a heartwarming smile and a delightful mischievous streak), and in this video, she got to be exactly that kind of peacemaker. And she couldn't possibly have played it better. Wonderful video, everybody, but a special thanks to you, Evandra, for really making it snap, crackle and pop!
That was so awesome! I'm in tears right now because I'm going through something that's similar to this problem😢
Sometimes a friendship break up can be worse than a relationship break up.
Agreed !
I’m in Scandinavia baking cookies 😂❤
They were in a ten year relationship… in college. Did I hear that right?
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Yeah...
He went undergrad 7 years and 3 years graduate school super seniors unite
Love this video it felt so real as though it was really happening great acting
Easy formula. I see Eve. I hit like. She seems like a lovely human
love this chanell
Even the strongest relationships can . Break at on point . The thing is we have to work to rekindle it together
It would be hilarious if after the 2 friends start talking again if Tim starts canceling dates with Martha to hang out with Ritchie If this had a part 2 I’d love to see that 😅
I like the girlfriend was trying to help but it was kinda in the wrong way
Yes you are right about her being an idiot. Because she is forcing him to show her his friends but I can't find a time to show you what we need. That is what she wants.😮😢❤
BIG THANK YOU Illumeably and your amazing team for once again pulling out another awesome video as always your videos just keep getting better and better every time you post them and i would like to take the time out to appreciate all the hard work and all the love💞the that you and your amazing team puts into making all these awesome videos as always you put in a 💯 percent in everything you do and the storyline's just keeps getting better and better as well I can't thank you and your amazing team enough for taking the time out to do all these awesome videos.and not forgetting making my nights so happy just sitting watching all your awesome videos as well.......,,,,,,BIG THUMBS UP FOR THE ONE AND ONLY Illumeably and your amazing team.....,,,,🕊️👍🏻👍🏼👍🏻👍🏼.......,,,,,,KEEP UP THE FANTASTIC WORK Illumeably and your amazing team.....,,,🕊️💯👏👏👏👏.......,,,🌹🌹🌹🕊️🕊️🕊️💞🙏
Richee is so handsome ❤
Illumeably your channel has really grown. Team Illumeably from the bottom up, it takes everyone working together to become successful. The way you are relaying the message you want us to see and hear is loud and clear. I want to thank you for your unique style. Can't wait for the next one. 😅😅😮😮😊😊😊😊😊😊
Girls go for the prank all the time 😂
What? From what I understand, Ritchie was just trying to get Tim to see the glass half full. Where does he get "unsupportive" from that? If anything, Tim should stop being negative.
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Best Heterosexual Romcom ever ❤
I been through this!! It's hurt's alot!!!! But i get my best friend back!¡!
I have no friends or best friends because they left me and said they didn’t want to be friends with me their parents hated me and guys if you have a bestie be grateful 🙏
Yeah, like it’s something that you should joust leave alone cause only they can sort it out.
Tim does look like one of those "it's all about me" people.
I'm sobbing on the ground HSKSHSODJ
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I'm enjoying these video bro, dhar mann is dead rn.
Lets be honest guys, this channel is better than dharmann
Hell no
Fr it is
He'll no
Dhar mann on top 🔥
Heck nah
Dhar Mann has real good actors
True
in tears bro
ngl if i was dating her and she stuck her nose in issues like that, i would be so mad at her. i get that she was trying to help but even watching her in the video annoys me
Martha wants to help and she did the right thing. ❤
I'd rather have a girlfriend who's crazy than a nosy girlfriend like her, I hate it when people get nosy
fr like it was none of her business. like she didn’t need to interfere like that 😂
351 liker on vid it was really cool too!
This is literally so much better than dar man
Not every one is Lucky; i don’t have friends. I would love tO but friendship is bullshit.
This is what I'm dealing with this i have special needs 😪
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I love your videos lol
See, Richie seems like he was just trying to help, I know he took the wrong route but maybe he was just hurt by his roommates words ( btw I haven't seen the end yet and I forgot TIMS name please like 😅)❤
Illumeably or dhar mann
Illumeably not dhar cuz dhar was defrauding city of Oakland in 2015
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i was gonna say in the live that: BRO THE PERSON THATS GONNA BE LAST IS THE PERSON THAT IS THE ONLY ONE LEFT IN THIS LIVE CHAT :know i realized i masses up-
Dame this dude was like drama Queen 😂😂😂
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This is the type of acting that makes me forget this Is all an act😂🎉🎉🎉
This was a sad story😢😢😢
Poor Tim 😢
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If someone is hiding stuff it is not an honest relationship.Martha and Tim had been together a year and it seemed she knew nothing about him. People should respect each other. It's nice it had a happy ending even if Martha was a little forward about it. I brought my husband and his brother back together again. I had a friend like Tim for years and tried to help him through every problem. After 15 years he hated me because I have a family and couldn't help him as much. Hey wrote me off. It's sad but life goes the on and he will always be in my thoughts.
No. If i had a partner and i had trauma or something happened between a friend and i didn’t want to tell them, then i don’t have to. If my partner loved me enough then they would understand that i don’t have to tell them those type of things until i get comfortable. It was NOT martha’s place to reconnect them. If they wanted to talk or if it was meant for them to talk again then it would happen one day.. Martha should have stayed out of the way and let it happen or not happen. She’s super nosy and i would have dumped her for interfering in a past friendship. 🤦🏻♀️
Noice
I might be leaving my best friends, raed, Kim and tobi, for a while, I still have their numbers
Theres 8 million but ok 😂🤟
The guy that guy played Ritchie made an interesting speech. I was betrayed by a friend so I can kinda relate. The ending was funny. As usual the woman is a fruitcake😄
I like dhar Mann!
I like illumeably
No doorman is the best don’t see let’s be honest guys. This channel is better than Dhar Mann. Don’t say that ever again he’s the best Dhar Mann is the best.😊
Yes this channel is better than dhar Mann
I will have to tell her to mind her business obviously this is a conversation he's not ready to have period and you cannot force him to reconnect with somebody because you feel like they should you could be bringing up trauma period you don't just did not be best friends with a best friend and not have emotions.... mind your business... I dislike people who want to force me to discuss something I don't want to discuss... And as a best friend and having a best friend your best friend has a life and problems also and you must understand that period there's times I need my bestie but she's going through something I'm surviving Crohn's disease she surviving cancer one doesn't make it more important
No no,actually she DID something wrong,she SHOULDNT ask him this,it’s none of her BUSINESS,and HE did smth wrong,it’s that if you want her to trust you,show her YOURE phone bro,and it’s you’re ONLY CHANCE to talk to him AGAIN!!!!BRUUUH,THOSE DUMBASSES 💀-
Girlfriend gets two best friends who called themselves brothers back together. I give it to Martha she's one heck of a wonderful girlfriend.
The thing is best friends are like brothers or sisters but best mates for life.
Whether you grew up together. Like first met as pre school friends heading to primary school then high school or college or university or polytech.
When two boys meet for the first time in pre school or kindergarten and they're still best friends through primary school and then go different paths in high school or college and university or polytechnic their lives would change hugely over the years of no contact until the one day when they meet each other again and the past comes back to why they stopped talking to each other after leaving primary school.
But for these two guys who were high school roommates and best buddies a.k.a brothers and then they're not. Until Martha reunites the best buddies after finding out from her boyfriend why he and Ritchie stopped talking and stopped communicating as best friends and she came up with a plan that reunited her boyfriend and Ritchie's friendship and it happened. And it's all thanks to this boyfriend's girl Martha.
Hi
Leave a comment below if Dhar is better! 👇
nah I don’t think dhar is better
Kind of
Let's be honest half of us just watching this cause dhar Mann hasn't posted anything yet
And they were roommates👁️👄👁️
Nah the discord sound is crazy
Dhar is better
Illumeably is better
His love of
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