Bullying is the worst thing i experienced in my childhood i was black even my parents, siblings, relatives, friends etc make fun of my color. I tried to commit suicide two or three times but i didn't. I always felt that someone loves me care about me and that is Allah(swt) when everybody slept i started talking to Allah(swt) eveyday and that made me calm. I was just 11 or 12 yrs old. i realised happiness is only in Allah(swt). This world is prison for momin. Life is a test. When eveybody abandoned me He(Allah) the only one who hold my hand and picked me up. I thank Allah(swt) that He tested me which bring me close to Him and Imam(atfs). Plz eveyboday be careful child's heart is so sensitive Before you speak with anyone child or old person or adult think think think. Alhamdulillah!
MashAllah you are fortunate enough and lucky to understand relationship of Allah with His servants. Some gets late awakening even though it is also blessing May Allah help all of us.
Hmmm....Loneliness a nightmare scenario unfortunately it is part of life...but indeed Dua n Ziyarah are helpful to curb k situation. Aga You are requested to pray in the month of Ramazan that Our sorrows turn to happiness. Will be grateful to You.
Subhan'Allah, Sheikh! What a fascinating and soul searching talk. I'm already feeling invigorated and revitalised! I can relate with so much of what you've enunciated on. Loneliness can be killing. Even with all the laurels and possessions, you can be lonely. Thanks, profusely, Sheikh! Praying for you, as always. Nur un ala Noor... Ya Ali
Very informative lectures specially Islamic psychology and good ISLAMIC THERAPY AND nice reminder too Be close TÒOALLAH VERY INFORMATIVE AND SPIRITUAL LECTURES MAY REWARD OF GOD BE OPON US WE PRAY TILL THE Last moment of our breath we remain steadfast inQuran and ahlulbait
I have this problem, im the only kid and now because were in lockdown its more prevalent :| I hope all of us can get through this safely Stay safe yall and god bless you sayed 🙏
My family makes me feel very lonely. I'm worried it will ruin my health cuz its so stressful everyday. I always get critisized and never feel good enough. I feel lika a failure and dissappointment. I have always struggled with my mental health and always felt like a burden to my family and they have made me feel guilty about it so many times which causes more stress and depression. I always feel shamed
If your being shamed for a problem you have that you are trying to fix, then Allah will fix your problem and on top of that give you a reward. Inshallah🤲🏼🕋
@@hassanoffical181 i have tried but its a waste of energy and pointless. They r very closeminded. They never take anything i say serious. It makes me lose my mind. I dont know how to deal with them
Tell me about it.. i have no muslims friends to socialize with. And i have no wife, im alone most of the time other than when im with my parents or siblings but even then. I just feel i have no one in my own group to hang with and feel like i belong to a group.. it seriously sucks and i doubt it will change soon because most muslims dont want to hang with new guys.. they dont want responsibility of that. Its all good though im not worried. Ill deel with it.
Salam Alaikom our dear brother. Without doubt, this is a hard situation to be in, but remember that if God is by your side, then you are never alone, and if you are surrounded by thousands of friends without the presence of God in your life, it is only then that you are truly lonely. Surely, your reward for this great sacrifice is with Allah swt., and you can consider us all to be your extended family! You can contact us via Facebook/Instagram and there will be many brothers who would be delighted to be your friends whom you can socialize with, even if that is virtual. Take care
@@AlRasoulSociety ok thank you i will go to your social media.. hopefully there are some brothers in my state willing to be friends.. if not then ill just see if i can ask for help to get married then because i really am at the age where its becoming socially akward being alone and not having a women.. im 27 now. Lol.. but thank you..
i guess im asking randomly but does any of you know a way to get back into an Instagram account?? I was dumb forgot the password. I appreciate any tips you can give me
I am also highly sensitive which makes it even harder to let go of things not serving me and always get shamed for being too sensitive but i have always been like this and its not something i have chosen to be like. I am being shamed for having feelings which makes me feel like something is srsly wrong with me and i start to doubt my worth and existence and always feel gaslighted
Its been a year ago and a lot has changed in my personal life. I am studying and more independent Alhamdullilah but unfortunately still no stable and peaceful home but i am not giving up and keep my trust in Allah🙏
It is not that easy about friends when one doesn't have any friends... Not about being volunteer either since i have socialphobia. Being around family - kids.. Siblings.. doesn't make me less lonely... Makes me more lonely. Main thing i need is husband. Then i will not feel lonely anymore... Even if i don't have any friends where i live. Husband is all i need here.
Sister, I relate to this so well. I live amongst so many non-muslims in my area which feels very lonely. I wish I had some sisters around me who I could talk to for marriage, but I don't have any that I know.
I hear you about getting married early. But what if we haven't found our wives? You can't just say get married. Most men are invisible to most women until you become a someone
Giving should be Fi Subilillah. True, one should carefully select friends, but to expect anything in return for helping friends good or bad can't be called For Subilillah.
Muslims ISLAM is true religion sent down by GOD to the Prophet MUHAMMAD (sas) Do ISLAM as given to us by the Prophet That is real ISLAM ISLAM is perfect No one AUTHORIZED to CHANGE it or Add any thing to it Do not get INTO inventions AFTER the Prophet Shia Sufi....etc etc etc. etc There is no SOURCE For ISLAM AFTER the Prophet
it is not true, some people can live alone and some not. I have a sister with depression who decided to stay with wrong man because of your lecture. You are not a doctor and talk about science in a way that make people wrong and dangerous decisions.
Salam brother sayed in the video is not telling your sister to settle for less of course here and there someone needs some time to themselves which is fine but only to an extent.
Mashala ya sayed. I wish I listened to your lectures when I was young
Bullying is the worst thing i experienced in my childhood i was black even my parents, siblings, relatives, friends etc make fun of my color. I tried to commit suicide two or three times but i didn't. I always felt that someone loves me care about me and that is Allah(swt) when everybody slept i started talking to Allah(swt) eveyday and that made me calm. I was just 11 or 12 yrs old. i realised happiness is only in Allah(swt). This world is prison for momin. Life is a test. When eveybody abandoned me He(Allah) the only one who hold my hand and picked me up. I thank Allah(swt) that He tested me which bring me close to Him and Imam(atfs).
Plz eveyboday be careful child's heart is so sensitive Before you speak with anyone child or old person or adult think think think.
Alhamdulillah!
Bushra god bless and protect you i respect you so much alot of young ppl experience this cuz adults like to ignore us alot :/
MashAllah you are fortunate enough and lucky to understand relationship of Allah with His servants. Some gets late awakening even though it is also blessing May Allah help all of us.
The syed is fantastic speaker. Please keep uploading his material. Love from U.K.
Ya Allah Ya Allah Ya Allah ❤❤❤❤❤
اللهم صل على محمد وال محمد احسنتم وطيب الله انفاسكم وحفظكم
Hmmm....Loneliness a nightmare scenario unfortunately it is part of life...but indeed Dua n Ziyarah are helpful to curb k situation. Aga You are requested to pray in the month of Ramazan that Our sorrows turn to happiness.
Will be grateful to You.
Masha Allah ✨
After watching your videos my faith on God become stronger and stronger every day
Subhan'Allah, Sheikh! What a fascinating and soul searching talk. I'm already feeling invigorated and revitalised! I can relate with so much of what you've enunciated on. Loneliness can be killing. Even with all the laurels and possessions, you can be lonely. Thanks, profusely, Sheikh! Praying for you, as always. Nur un ala Noor... Ya Ali
Very informative lectures specially Islamic psychology and good ISLAMIC THERAPY AND nice reminder too Be close TÒOALLAH VERY INFORMATIVE AND SPIRITUAL LECTURES MAY REWARD OF GOD BE OPON US WE PRAY TILL THE Last moment of our breath we remain steadfast inQuran and ahlulbait
@@fatimmustafa916 ???????
I have this problem, im the only kid and now because were in lockdown its more prevalent :|
I hope all of us can get through this safely
Stay safe yall and god bless you sayed 🙏
love from pakistan
Keep up the amazing lecture :D
My family makes me feel very lonely. I'm worried it will ruin my health cuz its so stressful everyday. I always get critisized and never feel good enough. I feel lika a failure and dissappointment. I have always struggled with my mental health and always felt like a burden to my family and they have made me feel guilty about it so many times which causes more stress and depression. I always feel shamed
If your being shamed for a problem you have that you are trying to fix, then Allah will fix your problem and on top of that give you a reward. Inshallah🤲🏼🕋
Trying Praying , it removes Depression
tell your family about your feelings maybe they will change.
@@hassanoffical181 i have tried but its a waste of energy and pointless. They r very closeminded. They never take anything i say serious. It makes me lose my mind. I dont know how to deal with them
@@nahiedlaila9601 i will send you a video made by the same author of this video soon.
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بارك الله فيك، غيمة وحدة زالت عني عندما شاهدت محاضرتك. اللهم صلي على محمد وآل محمد
Most of the solutions are not working to me.. I feel lost and lonely. Asking my God to end this miserable life...
Are you feeling better or is it still the same?
@@PetVoid thanks for asking. nothing new still the same…
Lady Mary also wanted her own life to end, at some point (Holy Quran, Verse 19:23)
But then look at the sort of future waiting for her :)
A very good speech. Indeed lonelyness is one of the most crucial problems in Western world. Greetings from Germany.
Tell me about it.. i have no muslims friends to socialize with. And i have no wife, im alone most of the time other than when im with my parents or siblings but even then. I just feel i have no one in my own group to hang with and feel like i belong to a group.. it seriously sucks and i doubt it will change soon because most muslims dont want to hang with new guys.. they dont want responsibility of that. Its all good though im not worried. Ill deel with it.
Salam Alaikom our dear brother. Without doubt, this is a hard situation to be in, but remember that if God is by your side, then you are never alone, and if you are surrounded by thousands of friends without the presence of God in your life, it is only then that you are truly lonely. Surely, your reward for this great sacrifice is with Allah swt., and you can consider us all to be your extended family! You can contact us via Facebook/Instagram and there will be many brothers who would be delighted to be your friends whom you can socialize with, even if that is virtual. Take care
@@AlRasoulSociety ok thank you i will go to your social media.. hopefully there are some brothers in my state willing to be friends.. if not then ill just see if i can ask for help to get married then because i really am at the age where its becoming socially akward being alone and not having a women.. im 27 now. Lol.. but thank you..
@@clanaoaarmyofallah2557 Asalam Alaykum, How is it going? My prayers are w/ you and inshaallah you are doing better now.
i guess im asking randomly but does any of you know a way to get back into an Instagram account??
I was dumb forgot the password. I appreciate any tips you can give me
@@edgarfinley2949 a just make a new account or search in yt for some tips and tricks and tricks!!!!
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I love listening to these lovely messages and this really helps me get closer to god thank you so much!
Praise be to Allah
I am also highly sensitive which makes it even harder to let go of things not serving me and always get shamed for being too sensitive but i have always been like this and its not something i have chosen to be like. I am being shamed for having feelings which makes me feel like something is srsly wrong with me and i start to doubt my worth and existence and always feel gaslighted
Bruh saaaame
My Prayers are with you, inshaallah you Will overcome it by the Will of Allah swt. Have faith and never despair🥰😇
Hope you are fine now.
May Allah help you in all this and keep you safe and healthy. Ameen
Thanksss for all the support! Means the world to me!🥺❤May Allah bless all of you, ameen🙏🙏🙏
Its been a year ago and a lot has changed in my personal life. I am studying and more independent Alhamdullilah but unfortunately still no stable and peaceful home but i am not giving up and keep my trust in Allah🙏
Amazing 🤩 lecture!!
Allahuma sali ala muhamd wa Ali muhamd wajjil farzahum shreef
Excellent analysis and presentation. MashaAllah SubhanAllah
It is not that easy about friends when one doesn't have any friends... Not about being volunteer either since i have socialphobia. Being around family - kids.. Siblings.. doesn't make me less lonely... Makes me more lonely. Main thing i need is husband. Then i will not feel lonely anymore... Even if i don't have any friends where i live. Husband is all i need here.
Sister, I relate to this so well. I live amongst so many non-muslims in my area which feels very lonely. I wish I had some sisters around me who I could talk to for marriage, but I don't have any that I know.
Sister, Which area do you live in? I live in UK.
I hear you about getting married early. But what if we haven't found our wives? You can't just say get married. Most men are invisible to most women until you become a someone
13:22
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Giving should be Fi Subilillah. True, one should carefully select friends, but to expect anything in return for helping friends good or bad can't be called For Subilillah.
Muslims
ISLAM is true religion sent down by GOD to the Prophet MUHAMMAD (sas)
Do ISLAM as given to us by the Prophet
That is real ISLAM
ISLAM is perfect
No one AUTHORIZED to CHANGE it or Add any thing to it
Do not get INTO inventions AFTER the Prophet
Shia Sufi....etc etc etc. etc
There is no SOURCE For ISLAM AFTER the Prophet
Do you follow the falsehood of Saqifa-Khalifa?
it is not true, some people can live alone and some not. I have a sister with depression who decided to stay with wrong man because of your lecture. You are not a doctor and talk about science in a way that make people wrong and dangerous decisions.
Salam brother sayed in the video is not telling your sister to settle for less of course here and there someone needs some time to themselves which is fine but only to an extent.