Great advise Allah bless you I wished we get this advise many years go back, but never too late. I learned a lots points meaningful practice in life experience.i never seen great topics knowledge like this Thank you very much for your sharing knowledge that Allah given you.we are always trying something different, but some times we don’t know how thankful Please post more a lot beneficial
I cant believe that there are people like you. Your mother and wife must be the luckiest women of this world to have a son and husband like you. May Allah swt bless you. Give you long life for people like us.
As a Christian, I like to listen to this wise man. Blessing upon him, may he guide you all with love, passion, and wisdom. He is literally speaking like many wise men from Christian, Buddhist or Hindu sects. The truth and knowledge about God is universal. We are no more than children of the sam God.
I am a wife and I have anger problems but I cry everytime after being to much angry at my husband for a mistake he made or anybody else who I happend to be angry at because I know that much anger is not allowed I cry to ALLAH to humble me to give me respect for other people. I don't want to get angry easily Humble me ALLAH Humble me😭😭😭
Sorry sister no disrespect But Allah have no children. Don’t say ”the person is a child of Allah”. Go listen to -surah ikhlas translation- then You Will understand. We all are AllAh’s slave not children.
The international health organization declared video games a "disorder"...so, mr. Gaming is Fun, stop playing video games and i promise you, your anger will decrease dramatically insha Allah. I have a son and he's different now because he stopped playing video games but once a week.
I make dua for you and me as I am guilty of the same issues. May Allah The Most Kind help us become the way that pleases him the most and allow us to be the best version of ourself. Ameen.
Thanks a lot Mufti for always giving us advices.. I really have a problem in controlling my anger but I promise ,I will start fighting against my anger from today...keep giving us advices on different perspective, u ar really an inspiring
A salaamu alaykuim brotha i thank Allah for you...you speak the truth from Allah...your speeches touch my soul..and put me back on track..sometimes we get so worried about this Dunya an we forget why we are here meaning ( on this earth)..we are here to serve Allah ALONE... Shukran brotha may Allah continue to bless you an your family..Amin...
Mashaallah Mufti Menk.Your speeches are heart piercing and so persuasive and eloquent .May Allah always keep you and your family among the most blessed and happy people on earth and hereafter..Amin
mashallah, jizarkallah Mufti for helping us improve our selves.May we practice your advice, may we all learn to care for one and others feelings with peace, kindness , calmness and respect.Aameen
السلام وعليكم و رحمته الله وًبركانه شيخ May Allah grant you janatulferdows in hear-after and a long healthy life in dunyaa I listen to your lectures daily and this one is applying to me so much and inshAllah I well try hard to do what you said in this lecture today my life health kids and marriage is at risk because of the anger and bad temper that have developed over the years from hardship of life being away from my family and all other pains and sufferings, but I’m inshAllah after this we’ll do my best by the will of Allah to cool down and want you to do pray for me if you read this comment please think I’m your sister asking you to pray for me shaykh. May Allah bless you and give you long life our Uma needs people like you more at this time. جزاك الله و خيراً كثيراً
I have a very bad temper from childhood I can harm my self when I get angry, say things terrible things when I get angry and when I calm down I regret all please how can I stop my short bad temper Allah help me I what to bee a normal person funny I to control my short temper I tank u for giving advice like this may Allah bless and regards u
Change starts NOW! Force yourself! Force yourself to control your anger, force yourself to say good positive things so your children can confide in you an so that your household can be positive! Force yourself so you wont get high blood pressure and the sickness can go away, force yourself so you can look younger longer. Dont learn the hard way so that your children can pick up the same bad habits but force yourself to change NOW so they can live better off in life. Ameen
I will do and be different now. Today. InshaAllah, this anger I have towards a person and in all situations will be thrown at the Devil and please Allah only. SubhanAllah so grateful for these lectures🤲🏾🤲🏾❤️
I used to smile all the time, at everybody, especially strangers. The kaferin & jealous have made it to wipe it off my face. I'm sad all the time now & angry with everybody. I can see now they saw me smiling & shaytan told them to wipe the smile off her face 😧 God forgive me if I'm accusing anyone but they're happy now. So I'm going to make double triple the effort to smile & be kind again. insha'Allah 🙏🏽🕯️💕 not for "me" but for the highest good of all.
Amazing speech, made me cry, everything you said was so right and just the way you put it is just amazing, I would like to know if you ever decide to visit Scotland 🏴 Edinburgh , please let me know I would like to attend ❤️
Mashaallah I have an anger issue I’m working on it. Have been to anger management courses but the truth it just don’t really work that much. The problem is my Iman need to work on strengthening my Iman. Please doa for me coz it’s taking its toll on my marriage mashaallah
I LOVE ALLAH I LOVE MY UHMA I LOVE THAT ALLAH CHOSEN ME I LOVE ALLAH THREW THE TIME IN MY JOURNEY I DIDNT NEW IT THEN BUT WHEN IT WAS THE TIME ALLAH NEVER FORSAKEN ME I LOVE ALLAH POWER I LOVE HIS MERCIFULNESS I LOVE ALLAH BE CAUSE WHAT EVER ALLAH REVEALS HE IS ALWAYS ON TIME TO CONCEAL AMIN
Best thing is do as many salah as possible... thats the only way to handle.. Allah gave me a narcissistic mom.. I learnt to deal with her.. for now, I dont Break ties.. but maintain a DISTANCE..
askm big brother im vry thanlful to u fr ur wonderful &knowledgeble speeches i hear thm daily and feel vry gud may allah grnt u success here &after plz do rememer me in urprayers.I really love the way u deliver the speech.jazakallah
Hmm my husband have proplem with his temperament!! I get abuse physically ,verbally, emotional!!! Every single day for every slight mistake! Pls brothers and sister I need u to help me in prayer's!! May Allah guide us all to his paths.
There is zero tolerance in Islam for Abuse. You need to get away and get counseling help. Any Muslim who tells you to stay and suffer and abuse is going against Islam
I am 17 years old going to 18 this year but I didnt even speak to my father in my problem cause he always get angry and I am afraid of that also I have patience I always get angry thanks for this reminder I will try my best to control it not just saying it but I will smake an action and effort to avoid it #Ilearned #thankyou
Brothers and sisters in islam I can't control my anger I don't have subra and I become angry when things don't go as per my expectations Sometimes I yell at my mother when she tells me to do things Please brothers and sisters advice me on how I can help myself in controlling my anger😔😔
HAKIM TV KENYA say astaghfar and leave from that room sit down and drink glass of water deep breath and think u r getting angry a person who brought u in this world she took care of u when u can't say a word she understand when u cried that what u need. God forbidden if she pass away and u are angry on her will u forgive u r self ? so pls try to control yourself not only u r parents but anyone in the family or strangers always remember what our beloved prophet said "Control our anger" and try to listen mufti menk speeches every day it will help u spiritually. May Allha SB bless you and help u in this world or afterwards. 😊
Anger sometime's if i heard negative in & outside i'am confused my self and i say also negative the person that not would like saying bad word's its 2 bad for me my feeling's,May Allah swt bless as all alway's 😔💔❤❤❤
mashallah Mufti Menk i am a christian but your lectures are of great inspiration to me I dont get tired of learning from you everyday
May peace and blessings be all over you always
Well done😊😊😀😅
May peace be upon you brother
Great advise Allah bless you I wished we get this advise many years go back, but never too late. I learned a lots points meaningful practice in life experience.i never seen great topics knowledge like this
Thank you very much for your sharing knowledge that Allah given you.we are always trying something different, but some times we don’t know how thankful Please post more a lot beneficial
MashaAllah
Mufti menk has such a beautiful soul. The purity in his lectures are powerful and inspiring ❤️
Yes, Masha'Allah 🕯️🙏🏽💕
I cant believe that there are people like you. Your mother and wife must be the luckiest women of this world to have a son and husband like you.
May Allah swt bless you. Give you long life for people like us.
Amin
Ameen
So good brother
Ameen
Also his kids r lucky to have a father like him MashaAllah
i direct my anger to shaythan. if i get angry i can just see him behind me laughing so i just walk away and pray 2 rakat.
mAnimations please pray for us !!
I will try it too
Mashallah! Nice step brother! I will also try it and insallah I will succeed... May Allah SWT guide us all... Ameen
Iftee Khar Ul Islam well done bro
Eww! Your so cringy 😒
Mufti Menk is a true scholar and teacher. May Allah (swt) grant him Jannah al Firdaus.
Allahuma amin
ameen ameen
Aameen
I have anger issues but this video changed my life today my allah bless you sheikh i really want to change my allah help us all
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "If a man gets angry and says, ‘I seek refuge with Allaah,’ his anger will go away.
Barakalahufikum dear brother
نعمة الهاشمي thank you
Good luck
Unless the imaan is weak....may Allah strengthen my imaan 😰
Copy that, ameen
As a Christian, I like to listen to this wise man. Blessing upon him, may he guide you all with love, passion, and wisdom. He is literally speaking like many wise men from Christian, Buddhist or Hindu sects. The truth and knowledge about God is universal. We are no more than children of the sam God.
may he guide you too brother
Mashallah this is what we all need to hear on a daily basis and inshallah we will reach a piece of it with the will of Allah
I am a wife and I have anger problems but I cry everytime after being to much angry at my husband for a mistake he made or anybody else who I happend to be angry at because I know that much anger is not allowed I cry to ALLAH to humble me to give me respect for other people. I don't want to get angry easily Humble me ALLAH Humble me😭😭😭
SALAM Sister,
I keep saying Astagfirullah , it works for me....
😑😔so sad. When a man cheat to there wife it's fine for them. But when a woman cheat there man.. it's a big problem 😔 where is HARAM???
I love this brother for the seek of Allah may Allah grant u in jannah
When am angry I keep quiet, and give Allah the decision to make because the person is a child of Allah 🙏😇
Sorry sister no disrespect But Allah have no children. Don’t say ”the person is a child of Allah”. Go listen to -surah ikhlas translation- then You Will understand. We all are AllAh’s slave not children.
Brothers and sister I need your dua against my anger issues please
inshallah
The international health organization declared video games a "disorder"...so, mr. Gaming is Fun, stop playing video games and i promise you, your anger will decrease dramatically insha Allah. I have a son and he's different now because he stopped playing video games but once a week.
@@ame7272 i totally agree with you.
Say this dua each time u get angry, hus ben nul la who wa ya niag wa key lue Very powerful dua
I make dua for you and me as I am guilty of the same issues. May Allah The Most Kind help us become the way that pleases him the most and allow us to be the best version of ourself. Ameen.
Thanks a lot Mufti for always giving us advices.. I really have a problem in controlling my anger but I promise ,I will start fighting against my anger from today...keep giving us advices on different perspective, u ar really an inspiring
Subhanallah he just connects with me everytime. Inshallah I can meet him one day and thank him for his help ❤️
Very true wallah. May the Almighty Allah help us. Masha Allah. Very true Masha Allah. Jazakallah kheir 🙏
May Allah continue to bless mufti and also grant us heaven,forgive our future sins and past sins
Manshaaaa Allah Mufti may Allah( S W T) grant u Jannah
Thank you for this lecture! May Allah bless you and your family
may Allah protect us and save us coz anger is the biggest problem
Amin thuma Amin ya ALLAH for us all 🙏
May Allah grant you and your family Jannatul firdous Ameen
may allah make it easy for all of us to control our anger ameen love uh Sir #mufti menk you are my super hero
A salaamu alaykuim brotha i thank Allah for you...you speak the truth from Allah...your speeches touch my soul..and put me back on track..sometimes we get so worried about this Dunya an we forget why we are here meaning ( on this earth)..we are here to serve Allah ALONE... Shukran brotha may Allah continue to bless you an your family..Amin...
mascha'Allah. Alhamdulillah. Thank you Mufti Menk. May Allah pour more Blessings on you and the Umma. Ameen
Mufti menk has helped me so much in changing my being may Allah grant him whatever he wants in his all life👏👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mashaallah Mufti Menk.Your speeches are heart piercing and so persuasive and eloquent .May Allah always keep you and your family among the most blessed and happy people on earth and hereafter..Amin
mashallah, jizarkallah Mufti for helping us improve our selves.May we practice your advice, may we all learn to care for one and others feelings with peace, kindness , calmness and respect.Aameen
Shugra Khan u got sooooooo many splin erors #nurserykidspelling
Manshallah mufti you speak so clearly and explain very smoothly may allah reward your help teaching our deen. Jazzakallah
Jazzak allah khair. You are the best Mufti menk
an amazingly delivered talk mashallah....May the whole humanity hear this
Mashaallah may Allah grant you and every single one of us jannatul firdous Ameen ..
❤
Amiin
Listen Surah Ar Rahman. It is so calm.
السلام وعليكم و رحمته الله وًبركانه شيخ
May Allah grant you janatulferdows in hear-after and a long healthy life in dunyaa I listen to your lectures daily and this one is applying to me so much and inshAllah I well try hard to do what you said in this lecture today my life health kids and marriage is at risk because of the anger and bad temper that have developed over the years from hardship of life being away from my family and all other pains and sufferings, but I’m inshAllah after this we’ll do my best by the will of Allah to cool down and want you to do pray for me if you read this comment please think I’m your sister asking you to pray for me shaykh. May Allah bless you and give you long life our Uma needs people like you more at this time.
جزاك الله و خيراً كثيراً
I am Alladin Adam,I so much thankful for such a wonderful lecture,shukran
I have a very bad temper from childhood I can harm my self when I get angry, say things terrible things when I get angry and when I calm down I regret all please how can I stop my short bad temper Allah help me I what to bee a normal person funny I to control my short temper I tank u for giving advice like this may Allah bless and regards u
Ruqya
Mashallah mufti menk may Allah bless you and protect all of us
I don’t understand why people ignore this powerful message ...hmm may Allah forgive us all 🙏🏾
Change starts NOW! Force yourself! Force yourself to control your anger, force yourself to say good positive things so your children can confide in you an so that your household can be positive! Force yourself so you wont get high blood pressure and the sickness can go away, force yourself so you can look younger longer. Dont learn the hard way so that your children can pick up the same bad habits but force yourself to change NOW so they can live better off in life. Ameen
And remember to smile when you greet someone, it makes a difference
I will do and be different now. Today. InshaAllah, this anger I have towards a person and in all situations will be thrown at the Devil and please Allah only. SubhanAllah so grateful for these lectures🤲🏾🤲🏾❤️
I used to smile all the time, at everybody, especially strangers. The kaferin & jealous have made it to wipe it off my face. I'm sad all the time now & angry with everybody. I can see now they saw me smiling & shaytan told them to wipe the smile off her face 😧 God forgive me if I'm accusing anyone but they're happy now. So I'm going to make double triple the effort to smile & be kind again. insha'Allah 🙏🏽🕯️💕 not for "me" but for the highest good of all.
Amazing speech, made me cry, everything you said was so right and just the way you put it is just amazing, I would like to know if you ever decide to visit Scotland 🏴 Edinburgh , please let me know I would like to attend ❤️
Thanks mufti ismael menk for making this inspiring videos I always listening what u uploaded!! God bless u and your family!
اللهم صل و سلم و بارك على نبينا محمد و على اله و صحبه اجمعين
my husband has very bad anger issues 'need to send this video to him 'inspiring video '
Yeah,I am.. Alhamdullilah , thank you for this reminder...
Masya'Allah TabarakAllah, JazakAllah Khayr
Mashallah, may Allah help me calm down sometimes I'm carried away by what I'm going thru
May allah give you a long life so that I can meet ypu and thanks to you for the reminders also to listen to your reminders inshaallah ameen
Anger really destroys, may Allah make it easy for us to control ourselves when neccessary
SUBHANALLAH, I'm blessed brother I love this bayan, thanks so much for sharing with us, Zazaak Allahukher.
This is the best advice appreciated,I AM this kind of attitude..may ALLAH HELP ME to control it..subhanallah
Mashaallah I have an anger issue I’m working on it. Have been to anger management courses but the truth it just don’t really work that much. The problem is my Iman need to work on strengthening my Iman. Please doa for me coz it’s taking its toll on my marriage mashaallah
You are the best lick in town for words of wisdom ! right and wrong ..:) keep smiling
I LOVE ALLAH I LOVE MY UHMA I LOVE THAT ALLAH CHOSEN ME I LOVE ALLAH THREW THE TIME IN MY JOURNEY I DIDNT NEW IT THEN BUT WHEN IT WAS THE TIME ALLAH NEVER FORSAKEN ME I LOVE ALLAH POWER I LOVE HIS MERCIFULNESS I LOVE ALLAH BE CAUSE WHAT EVER ALLAH REVEALS HE IS ALWAYS ON TIME TO CONCEAL AMIN
Thank you Allah! Your everything to me!
Massha Allah Tabaraka Allah Mufti
May Allah make it easier for us to control our ANGER..Aameen
Summa ameen
Please inform us about Narcissist torture to family members from Quran and the future
Best thing is do as many salah as possible... thats the only way to handle.. Allah gave me a narcissistic mom.. I learnt to deal with her.. for now, I dont Break ties.. but maintain a DISTANCE..
May Allah gives you a lot ajr for treating us. Allohumma Amen
Allah i barek fik mufti menk ❤☝
Jljmjjj ėlÚ
Ameen
Brothers and sisters please I need your Duas against anger. I have I great problem about angry
Lady Amal some to me
Lady Amal May Allah swt bless you and help for change and be the best muslimah, amiin ya Allah ya Rahman
same to me
Lady Amal inshallah Allah will help you keep trying
surah taha ayat 1-5 is best for your issue. recite as much as your can and surrender to mercy of Allah.
The “ I KNOW HE saw me, and I KNOE HE ignored me, and I don’t want to talk to him anymore.” Hit too close to home.😅 lol
Masha allah beautiful statement
Shukran 😎💐
May ALLAH be with us and also upon you sir
Yes its very nice advice to everyone human being
Ma shaAllah
masha allah, allah bless u and bless everyone ........
السلام عليكم و رحمه الله و بركاته
بسم الله و ما شاء الله تبارك الرحمن
askm big brother im vry thanlful to u fr ur wonderful &knowledgeble speeches i hear thm daily and feel vry gud may allah grnt u success here &after plz do rememer me in urprayers.I really love the way u deliver the speech.jazakallah
MashaALLAH Mufti menk plz pray for me JazakALLAH
Saallaallaahauu Aleyiih Wassaallaam
That is so true sir
Normally yes alcohol is haram if 2 much we drinking but we contenue alway's our eeman,May Allah swt bless as all alway's ❤❤❤
Mashallah Tabarakallah
Mashallah 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hmm my husband have proplem with his temperament!! I get abuse physically ,verbally, emotional!!! Every single day for every slight mistake! Pls brothers and sister I need u to help me in prayer's!! May Allah guide us all to his paths.
Zulfa Toure you need to get out of this marriage. May Allah SWT bless you and protect you.
Zulfa Toure
Sister you don't need to tolerate this
This is wrong and a sin
There is zero tolerance in Islam for Abuse. You need to get away and get counseling help. Any Muslim who tells you to stay and suffer and abuse is going against Islam
Subhan Allah
Masha Allah
Ameen thank you 🙏 mufti menk your talk is so beautiful
sir when someone say bad word on of the famase daeya very famase and efter ythat avoided hem
Thank You Thank You Thank You
6. Fala allaka baakhi un nafsaka alaaa aathaarihim illam yu minoo bihaathal-hadeethi asafaa.
Inspiring messages ❤🙏🙏🙏
Masha Allah 🙏
I am 17 years old going to 18 this year but I didnt even speak to my father in my problem cause he always get angry and I am afraid of that also I have patience I always get angry thanks for this reminder I will try my best to control it not just saying it but I will smake an action and effort to avoid it
#Ilearned
#thankyou
there is also mentioned in
the Quran that Pharow asked Musa A.S where is aahthaeer Al Aweeleen
sallallaahu aleyhi wassalam
Brothers and sisters in islam
I can't control my anger
I don't have subra and I become angry when things don't go as per my expectations
Sometimes I yell at my mother when she tells me to do things
Please brothers and sisters advice me on how I can help myself in controlling my anger😔😔
HAKIM TV KENYA
say astaghfar and leave from that room sit down and drink glass of water deep breath and think u r getting angry a person who brought u in this world she took care of u when u can't say a word she understand when u cried that what u need. God forbidden if she pass away and u are angry on her will u forgive u r self ? so pls try to control yourself not only u r parents but anyone in the family or strangers always remember what our beloved prophet said "Control our anger" and try to listen mufti menk speeches every day it will help u spiritually. May Allha SB bless you and help u in this world or afterwards. 😊
Erum Ali Rizwan thanks brother. Jazāk Allāhu Khayran. Indeed Mufti's speech are spiritual and motivating.
No respect.for.parents you have no respect.for no.one
Assalamoalaikom..sukran..mufti..Alhamdulillah..
May allah softy’s your heart
Anger sometime's if i heard negative in & outside i'am confused my self and i say also negative the person that not would like saying bad word's its 2 bad for me my feeling's,May Allah swt bless as all alway's 😔💔❤❤❤
Ya Allah plzzz give me patience.........ya Allah pllzzz m so angry in lil things ya Allah pllllzzz save me ....
Anger is by Shaytaan, so when you are in anger, follow the instructions of Holy prophet S.A.W and seek refuge in Allah from cursed Shaytaan...
Masha Allah 🙏🙏🥰
May ALLAH bless you.
Some error in the subtitles
Thank you sir
Allhumdulliah....
Salam, if spouse made adultery can we stay with them???? Please answer Salam.
islamqa.info/en/answers/172983/dealing-with-a-cheating-husband
Thats a red line for most people.