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ANNA How's this!? Well hello. I couldn't help but notice how lovely you are. Your beautiful alluring eyes, and delicate delicious Lips. I'm looking forward to knowing them better soon. I mean knowing you. Oops. 🤣😈🤷🏽♂️😉
Not too long ago I was heading back to my car and as I walked by a boutique that had some dresses outside, I noticed a woman looking through them. I walked by, I smiled and said, "It doesn't matter which one you choose, you are going to make it look amazing!" She looked at me, tilted her head and with a big smile said, "Thank you." I smiled back, got in my car and left. Always try to make another person's day a little brighter.
Compliments only work (as a way to get a longer conversation going) when the woman already likes you. If simple smile with eye contact doesn't get a smile back in return, just keep moving.
Have to Agree. And I learned this approximately 1 year ago in a bar. That was the first time I only went to talk to women that looked at me or smiled at me. Was a great night. Waste of time to do it any other way. If woman is not happy to see you it is very unlikely that any amounth of chit chat changes the situation
In relationship or not in relationship -- every man pays with his hard earned money. You decide for yourself how much to which woman you pay up. Another example for 100 get 1 hour on bedpage 24 hours a day you pick and you do anything you want for that 1 hour.
Well actually, they still work, even if they're not attracted to you. You won't get laid, but you'll build her ego even more. Not a fair exchange you might say. Well ... women feed on male attention (and compliment). Use that knowledge wisely!
Boy do I wish I'd discovered this channel when I was in my twenties, but there was no internet back then. Though now much older I can still stand to learn a lot more. Thankyou.
How to compliment without being creepy? The study of my past girlfriends reveal that no man who is handsome or rich can be creepy. However, any man who is short or poor is always creepy no matter what he does.
Well said. I'm short, bald, & poor. I'm ok with it, however, I get multiple insults/day from women or, guys will comment making sure there are women in the audience for a good laugh. If I compliment a woman, they either laugh or call security. Maybe that worked in the roaring 20's... in today's world..if in the workplace, that will end up in a lawsuit plus termination & outside of the workplace, it will get you kicked out of an establishment or a court date. My experience...never, ever compliment a woman.
@@t.l.7733 Don't even think about dating women from work. It's a bad idea from moment 1. Just don't. You are NOT going to get a court date just from complimenting a woman. You lack confidence and are sabotaging yourself. You fear rejection. You shouldn't. Rejection from any random woman is just a Nat landing on your ear. It is only by going out and getting those rejections that you improve your game and confidence. Success will come through repetition and self improvement. Stop telling yourself you can't and start being determined to demonstrate that you can. Because you can.
@@thorstenstormann3701 if not now then in another life, if not in another life then in a parallel universe! The one is there, somewhere wherever that may be 😅
You are so good at making these presentations. You keep my attention and I'm either smiling or laughing through your whole presentation. Your use of body language, with the winks, raised eyebrows and moving closer to the camera makes it attention grabbing and keeps us connected with you. Thanks!
I agree. It obviously helps that she is a very beautiful woman also. She seems like the type of older woman that would actually be more fun than most of the young ones today..
I meet this nurse and she had beautiful eyes so I told her that. Her answer to that was I'm married instead of taking it As a compliment. And saying thank you. Because she was beautiful.
Thanks for sharing your insight on the art of how to properly compliment a woman. I've always been self concious about that because I don't want to come off as either creepy or needy. The women of the world will thank you.
I been married 18 years and this is the first time I have heard a completely coherent and practical set of ways to give compliments to a lady. This video is amazing and thought provoking. I plan to comment again from time to time as this covers a lot of ground and does so comprehensively.
I like to hold back on the compliments to differentiate myself from other guys. Many (most) women, and people with hedonistic tendencies are into the chase - they seek to be desired. Once they get it, they loose interest. So never satiate her with compliments or validation - always leave her wanting more. Give her compliments but not enough to satiate her self esteem- get her to seek your approval by withholding it.
Jules Oille: Yeah I know you think you're articulate and brimming with wisdom, but you can't construction a sentence, and you're just a big load of baloney. You sound like an incel, at least, that's his you come across.
You’re my guiding light! This past June 6th 2024 I exited a 5 year relationship. Your videos have been an eye opener for mistakes I have made as well as justifying my action of breaking up. Been gaslighted and manipulated for example yet have been able to see what choices I made that allowed that behavior. Not setting boundaries for fear of losing her or ruining “the mood”! So yes you’re definitely “My Wingman”! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, wisdom and insights. 🖖
Honestly a good compliment based on traits (intellect, personality) goes a long way. A lot of women get validation all the time from guys sliding into her DM's so it's refreshing to her to get a compliment that wasn't on her figure, how good she looked in X. (Source: a girl I dated a few months back)
Anna I love the way that you give such useful information in an amusing and Charming way with so much personality. Plus you are very good looking and easy on the eyes. You are definitely one of the best counselor is out there on TH-cam.
I will say this...if the eyes are the windows of the soul, then yours is a sparkling gem. I love your honesty, transparency and discretion. Your communication skills are second to none. I thoroughly enjoy listening to your insights.
Thank you for your coaching. I have looked around for coaching right for me. I am a 57 year old man, who is hitting his groove professionally but striking out romantically. There is a lot of coaching for women over 50. A lot of coaching for men who want to date younger women. That is not my speed and some of the coaches seem bitter or mean spirited. Women are not the enemy, nor are they conquests. Your coaching applies no matter how old the women are (at least what I’ve seen so far). Your advice seems universal, even if sometimes it’s hard to hear. Thanks again.
The retiring compliment - yes, as Wingman advices women as use to being hit on the time and threatened... I have worked with enough survivors of violence: seen a few buried. So this approach ensures the woman's feels safe and can except the compliment as intended. The twist is that it teaches you to master a reassuring demeanour so within a week or two you can do the same standing next to them. And again, as Wingman advises adjust your focus on the environment. Eg, with an older women it may be a broach, and with an adolescent their breasts - think of your teenage niece who actually looks to the senior males in their family for reassurance - they'll practice flerting with you as you are the protector. I have dealt savagely with those who were suppose to protect. When my dearest friend and most lovely friend was diagnosed with breast cancer, I quoted from her favourite movie the Princess Bride "There are a shortage of perfect breast in the world it be a pity to damage yours". Apparently I was the only one able to say such - she did have the most gorgeous breasts ... which in turn gave others permission to empathise with her deepest fears. It is not always about courting but much more important
In relationship or not in relationship -- every man pays with his hard earned money. You decide for yourself how much to which woman you pay up. Another example for 100 get 1 hour on bedpage 24 hours a day you pick and you do anything you want for that 1 hour.
It's a fair take on the subject. Been there, done that. At some point though, you realize it's always been a one way street. You also realize that you've been a part of the build-the-female-ego-beyond-measure gang, doing a disservice to both sexes and the dating community as a whole.
I DO have to honestly say that your video tutorials HAVE given me so much great insight into understanding women. Most of us guys are pretty clueless...lol...thank you!♡
Something that I have become more aware of lately is feelings. The way our words effect others to trigger feelings. So someone who can be fully aware of this, from both sides, of feeling and causing feelings, will really rule and reign as the ideal companion. People will always want to be around someone who makes them feel good and feel good about themselves. Someone that makes them have hope for the future that is genuine. Only being made aware of this later in life, I can look back at how I have used this against me. First to put it forth in one sentence... "People remember how you made them feel, so when they remember you they remember feelings you caused." Or TRIGGERED that they blame you for! So always be kind, be genuine and be encouraging. Be amusing and entertaining too with confidence. Confidence is something that is attractive and encouraging to most as well. That is people in general are drawn to those who look like and feel like they know what they are doing. Looking back, I can see where I have been nervous, and said things that were causing doubt instead of putting forth confidence. I can see where the way I have made or triggered feelings in others has resulted in distaste even when not meant to be. While people want truth, they don't want the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Just nudges of words here and there. Too many and it's felt as taking over. People like to be heard and have others listen with interest. To let them speak and be given time. And of course being genuine in your heart, smiling in your eyes, always being kind, polite and respectful. Other things to note. Being critical and talking about putting things down is a turn off. Speak of things that make people feel good about things. Share experiences that make them wish they were there to feel it too in a positive way. Keep interactions short and sweet and they will be wanting more. So don't give much away, and keep a lot for later... bread crumbs that bring delight... as you busily pass bye... less is more... master feelings and knowing cause and effect of them and what feelings your words are causing... in your past, and present... using hindsight to learn how you messed up with them in the past and how you can do better. Words and feelings cause and effect. Master these and you truly are a master of human nature.
Goodness, I am so happy that I have found your channel; this particular video has taught me so much that I was not aware of. I am 59 and turning 60 this year and am a good looking guy with lots of charm but always willing to learn more! I consider myself a student of life, I am a widower and surviving partner. When I lost my mate I was devastated. I have gotten back to being myself and I am back in the dating game. Women come on to me quite frequently my entire life, I have been one of the lucky guys but still to find true love is challenging. I have set my sight on a lovely 62 year old widow who I believe is still single after over a decade. I am going to speak with her in two weeks and thankfully I found your words of wisdom or I surely would have been a ‘Simp’ in her eyes. I have always suffered from being ‘too nice’ Now I will actually have a chance……..I will keep you posted on what happens.😊
I think one of the biggest things you touched on is humor. Something I like about myself is the ability to engage humor with the women in my life , and when I’ve genuinely told them they’re “funny” I’ve been amazed at how consistently they are truly flattered and appreciative. I’ve frequently been told “no man has ever told me I’m funny before.” The key is sincerity and listening and tuning in to a person’s rhythm of humor. Thanks as always for your work in putting together your videos.
I first saw this video about a month ago. My wife is warning up to the compliments as I am getting better at it and a bit more frequent too. This video, like your others, is great for getting to understand women better. In addition to helping with my home life, they help me cultivate and care for relationships with the women who matter so much to both us. Therapist, mathematician, CEO, lawyer sometimes, to name just a few. I like how that your videos convey information than can adapted to male/female relationships well beyond the dating and LTR scene.
I’ve just stumbled across your channel and absolutely consumed in your work! Expanding my repertoire with every new video I watch. Love taking this all onboard and internalising it, safe to say everything has been incorporated into my daily interactions with female colleagues and friends and even strangers, so much so that it has most definitely changed my interactions with women and how I communicate with them, I’d like to say (without being big-headed) I’m a handsome guy, but having watched your channel a few times, it’s been absolute bliss! Thank you so much ❤
I tried to give you a complement a couple of weeks ago without sounding creepy. lol . I was wondering, how many women must be grateful for the advice that you give to men. Then I was wondering how many women who must dislike you for telling men their tricks out of the play book. Watching you it seems that you are a very strong woman through life experiences, but yet I think that there might be a small fault in that granite front. Now I'm old enough to be your father, okay well maybe your much older brother, but I just wanted to say, if that was the case where some women bring you down just remember this. You're doing a good thing. You're doing a real good thing. Keep it up. Because so many men have given up on themselves that you bring a new refreshing light of hope into their lives. Yes, you're doing a real good thing. Thank you for that. With respect. Ed
This is thoughtful, and by that I mean that there's hard work that's gone into it--thinking well, and communicating that clearly, takes real effort. I particularly appreciate here the way you highlight considering a woman's intention for being where she is, and for wearing what she's wearing; that's useful to me. I became a subscriber a while back, but have only seen a handful of your offerings up till now, but this one's an incentive to check out more of your stuff more often. Finally, thanks for your candor; I can tell from your nonverbals that you're speaking the truth.
I've watched about a dozen of your videos, Anna - and my sincere complement to you is that I believe you are a properly motivated, decent human being and that the man in your life is a really lucky fellow. Stay safe & keep smiling (to everybody).
Step 1 of complimenting without being a creep - Hit the gym, improve your posture, lose all that extra fat around your torso and bulk up your shoulders - take as long as it takes to do that. Once you achieve that, every compliment you give a woman will be genuine & credible and NOT CREEPY.
Anna, your hair looks great! Needless to say your advice is insightful and right on point. Fact is it never hurts to give another person a sincere compliment
This was incredibly fascinating and informative, well done. Knowing how to appropriately compliment women should be more widely discussed, as often men go about it wrong or hesitate out of fear; knowing this info will improve men's confidence as well as provide women more quality confidence-inspiring compliments, a win-win across the board.
FYI, I've listen to a number of your videos multiple times including note taking for some of them. You have been especially effective in presenting a number of topics better than the researchers from whom you distilled the info. Having taught presentation techniques, I continue to be impressed with your delivery, settings and pop-ups. Your objective view of romance is refreshing. I've been particularly surprised and impressed from you personal disclosures in some of your recent videos. They make your observations and advice more authentic.
There's a very attractive, young bartender at a place I frequent and I've created a bit of a rapport with her. Friday night she was wearing some festive/holiday earrings and I complimented her on how cute they were. The older woman sitting next to me was impressed that I even noticed them, let alone made a compliment. Lol! I replied by saying, "most men's eyes wouldn't even look that high."
I just noticed the salmon umbrella . You’re really good at decorating, you remind me of my sister she’s so good at making a home comfortable and cute. These are actually helpful videos even for guys who already know the basics.
I really appreciate your T and A! Your Tips and Advice have helped me in my marriage. I got married at 54, being a single all those years. My communication skills needed help. Your the Best!!!
I always appreciate finding your videos in the massive feed. Catching new ones, or ones that I missed can be a treat. As for this video, I guess I've been doing some of this for years but modified. I knew a lot of very physically attractive women in College and University. It's more important that she have personality and, I guess an essence(?) or who she is(?) I'm not putting it well. I've NEVER had a problem chatting up and flirting with those ladies because I already see they are attractive and I am much more into getting to know who they are. It seems to shock quite a few women when they find out that I find them more interesting in that way. I also can make comments, that they brush off, but make other people cringe. keep up the good work!
Thank You Anna! I first listened to your "Is see a keeper video!" My lady clanged the bell about twenty five times, some times twice. Now, I really want to keep her, even though she is too good with knots. When she leaves a dollar on my night stand, I feel kind of cheap, but in a good way. Anyway, Your variety of looks is great! One day you are the casual friend, with good advice, the next a very expressively interesting entertainer, and then a glamour girl, who is concerned about people's feelings. I will become a better man for a really great woman. Thanks!
Do yourself a favour and stay off the market , buy a dog . Today’s women are more damaged than a cheap hire car and will cost you twice as much after the warranty expires
Hey sis from another mother of course ... my compliment to you today is your hairstyle is practical and elegant because your hair looks long and also short I like how your hair tugs and tapers under your jawline ... you have the right amount of energy and presentation when you’re helping men to become better at dating I respect your effort and I’m glad you mentioned God ... when I give compliments whether they are hot or homely there is always something good to say and I’m always sincere when I say it is I flirt with people even when I’m not trying to get something from them sexually we all need to be acknowledged and admired socially ... my wife is beautiful and I always told her from the first time we were together and every time after that she was so beautiful and I could not marry anyone better... but she is gone for unknown reasons... however I am so gorgeous that I pray that I will not go on wasted before I leave this earth... I want my wife but being practical I will move on when the time is smooth and appropriate ... if women appear to expect compliments for their known attributes I look for other ways if they deserve compliments I never go for the obvious ... I do not need your help but I respect your helping others see you or listen to you next week ... be good or be good at it ALOHA
Thank you so much for helping answer some questions that are somewhat in the grey area of dating. Men are visual and often look at those amazing attributes as a foray into complimenting her. We are beasts, and can sometimes jump on the prey wagon. I know I have always used comments about beauty, sexy, gorgeous, lovely ...etc...in order to break the ice. I have used your technique and I have noticed a marked difference in the responses and reactions from an older woman. Thanks so much for your tips and guidance to those men like myself, that want to give compliments in a genuine and gentlemanly way, yet still get the next date. You didn't try to sell a video, or just give us a teaser, you gave us real tangible information that works. Thank you, you certainly set yourself apart from the other TH-camrs who are trying to do what you do. I just thought you should know of the good ways that you teach some of us men, how to do it correctly.
Bless you, Anna ! So happy to have found your channel ! You are genuine and a breath of fresh air in these difficult times for men and women ! Thank you for sharing your gift !
I appreciate your mature perspective. It hits home more so than many others. I also value your keeping your self pretty and attractive even though you are middle age (I am guessing) some women when they are in their 30s and 40s just let their looks just fall off . Women can be beautiful which adds to everyone’s life. But when they look like an Ape this dulls everyone’s life. Thank you for all your work in your videos, It no doubt helps a lot of people. I used to be so ignorant about dealing with women . I was not shy just uneducated. But not now thanks to you.
Rather than complimenting a woman about her looks, I find it helpful to ask her what she thinks or feels about something. This shows that I am interested in her as a person. This can be intimate without going into the "friend zone." There have been successful relationships that started because I was just friendly to a woman without trying to come on to her; this sometimes seems to make them look at me as a challenge. BTW, I think the advantage you have over many of your TH-cam competitors is that you are very charming in comparison.
Wow! You have really put a lot of thought into your presentations. They’re very detailed and you have a great teaching/communications style; very engaging. Love your attitude and that you embrace the responsibility of your task and do it so well. In addition the cute phraseology and humour are appreciated by all, I’m sure. Thanx for being there.
Hi Anna - great topic - alot of nuance required. You briefly touched on a sub-topic - when a women is asking you for a compliment. To take it a step further, in the past, I have had women who turned me down for a date....come back to me "later" , looking for me to either compliment her or "lift her spirits" (we were in same social circle as friends or co-workers). Was never sure if she was checking out to see if I was still interested (did she make a mistake saying "no"?) or was she being mean-spirited or something else. Regardless, I would give the compliment or advice and let things be...so will never know. If I only had Wingmam back then. :)
You’ll be pleased to hear that having watched a selection of your videos over the few days I honestly feel transformed, my confidence has skyrocketed and I feel like a god (slight exaggeration) and my transformation is due in no small part because of your endeavour to help your fellow creatures on this earth, thank you wingmam
Ha! If he was cheeky, playful and joking about it, she might have laughed. Without the cheekiness, he's making a sexist comment (even if it's true) and most women will feel defensive, even the ones who aren't feminists. Or he could have made the genuine compliment, "You're a good driver." Make sense?
@@YourWingmam Yes, he should have just said, you are a good driver. He was in his 80's or even 90ish. So I think he did not realize he was being sexist.
@@YourWingmam Hey! Yeah, I've watched. You have a nice presentation and sometimes some really good advice. However, I am not interested in dating but I'm sure some can glean some tips from your vids. Recommended for sure. Thanks!
Your videos really are the right advice at right time for this guy looking to resume dating after surviving a major health problem... and your delivery style made me laugh more than once. Well Done!
This was so helpful. A new relationship is warming up and your counsel has kept me from stupid mistakes. My wife of 40 years passed away 7 years ago and since i have had 3 short relational mishaps. I wish i had known this stuff years ago. Thank you so very much.
Well - you make throwing you a kudo easy! Your channel has been a great source of help for me and, in particular, understanding that ladies are not the unfathomable, unsolvable mystery that most men think they are. That is, like men, women are human first, gender second! Keep these coming!
There is a lot to unpack here. This video, in addition to other insights, has given me the first insight into what makes a complement creepy to a woman. In my youth I sometimes overheard women's uncomfortable reactions to men's complements and completely wrongly assumed that complements from men were uncomfortable and unwelcome. I had no desire to cause such reactions in girls or women and swore off on compliments almost entirely. Enter this video. Now I see: Context is key. In proper context, a sincere deserved compliment coming from good motives that is thoughtfully worded, timed, and followed up nicely is most likely to be welcomed. I can now say from my recent experiences this is true. Thanks again for this helpful video helping me to keep on gaining understanding of God's finest creation.
I love this video. It's a game changer for me. There are plenty of videos and programs out there that teach how to compliment women. But, most of them target 'the easy ones'. They don't necessarily work so well for classy women, which is what I prefer. When those lines are used on classy women, it usually comes across as creepy. On the other hand, your advice targets the classy woman, like yourself. This is eventually going to be some valuable advice, but it's going to require a little practice. It's no fun being labeled as creepy, when genuinely trying to compliment a woman.
I just subscribed to your channel. Thanks so much for all your wise advice and council. At 75 years of age and recently having lost my wife to cancer, I find your insights very helpful to someone like me who is just now trying to get back into dating. Bless you for doing this fine work.
I've made so many mistakes that I have a nice list of Don't Repeats. Very helpful. A woman's smile can be absolutely captivating and not reliant on a good hair day or makeup.
In my life's experience, the worst thing I ever did was take dating advice from women -- the worst one was, "stop trying so hard to find love, the right girl will find you" (that just led to a lost decade of dick-in-hand). However, now having a few decades of experience with women, I can sincerely say the advice given in this video is very much spot-on. I would say she either has professional knowledge of the subject matter or is very well read, not merely drawing from her life experience (she doesn't base her assertions on just personal anecdotes as some others who claim to be dating experts do). Unfortunately, I am at the stage of my life where I finally realized that "love" was merely an illusion. It is nothing more than a "bubble". If you are one of the incredibly lucky few, you may be able to mutually share that bubble for life, but for the rest of us, you will spend half your life trying to find that special someone, then fall in love (or not), put your mind, body, heart, and soul into that person, and in the end.... wind up with NOTHING but bitterness, hatred, and wrinkles.
Sad but true. That is why after the 1st one I don’t give her my all. I have needs too and if someone is not willing to give and take I can take care of myself. I have two eyes to read and see with a tongue to taste with two hears to hear with we don’t need any help to do that. Company is nice if it is healthy.
Absolutely love your authenticity… great applicable content that is obviously informed by experience. Can see how you might be heckuva wingman. Keep up all that good work!
A couple years ago, I attended a college course called Introduction to Interpersonal Communication. The professor was indeed attractive but that was not the reason for the compliment I paid her which was, "Your lectures are very thought provoking." She really did appreciate that compliment.
It is actually pretty simple: - if a man is tall and handsome - not creepy, whatever he says - if a man is visibly filthy rich - not creepy, whatever he says - if a man is not tall and handsome, and does not visibly look filthy rich - creepy, whatever he says, even if it is just a "hello"
Anytime an unattractive man offers up a compliment a woman is going to automatically think hes insincere so it doesn't matter what you compliment her on.
Trying to flirt when your unattractive will always be seen as creepy. Even if you have the same approach or smoothness of a good looking guy a woman will always think hes ugly what does he have to be confident about
I was on a train in New York a few weeks ago. A man was talking to a random nice looking woman. She pretty much did not want to engage with him. I told the man as I exited the subway: Make more money and you will have the woman you want. The woman's face started to turn red...
The sexiest part of a woman is her intelligence; tell her that while complimenting hers. If there isn't anything to compliment in that area she's not worth the effort.
I've watched a few of your videos, and I have to say they've really helped me figure out who, and what I am. I've known most of my that I am not a guy that fits in with most crowds, yeah, I'm a sigma. Moving on to this video, I've done quite a few of good things you've listed, and done so naturally. I have to agree, that being creative with compliments really makes you stand out, and they remember that. You could not hit it off, but she's always going to remember something that you did that was different. I'm subscribing. Thank you.
You are amazingly perceptive about human nature. The way you communicate lifts the day regardless of the circumstances. Your analysis infused with your humour is your special magic.
If I compliment a pretty lady, I will normally just smile 😁,if I know them I will tell them you look nice,or ask them what perfume are you wearing,it really smells good, I normally don't give compliments, because your giving up your power and to me it's kinda beta, friend zone,if they do ask for a compliment I will tell them you look nice in Red Anna 😂
The perfume one is a great point! The way to not look or feel better is to own giving the compliment not the expectation of her response. You're compliment her for you, not her. She can do whatever she likes with it, you're not the kind of man who ever feels diminished by anyone, not even a pretty woman. Make sense?
Lovely vids! Even tho your coaching hasn’t changed my life, it kinda validates my experience with high quality women, and I am really happy to see a well-spoken, intelligent young lady talking about normal, civil things in this field. Keep up the amazing work!
Your story didn't change my life but I changed my life and basically now do a lot of the stuff you are talking about and it's great; fun, honest relationships, no trail of sadness, enjoying interactions and relationships, always happy to see ex's, etc... I think you can accomplish way more with internal development, which includes taking care of yourself, than focusing on external factors like appearance, money and status, seek and you shall find.
How to compliment girls without being creepy means knowing when to compliment a girl's figure and how to compliment her so she'll like you.
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Why would I compliment an ugly chick? Would it be for a pump and dump kinda deal?
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ANNA How's this!?
Well hello. I couldn't help but notice how lovely you are.
Your beautiful alluring eyes, and delicate delicious Lips. I'm looking forward to knowing them better soon. I mean knowing you. Oops. 🤣😈🤷🏽♂️😉
If I told you have an incredible body would you hold it against me.
Not too long ago I was heading back to my car and as I walked by a boutique that had some dresses outside, I noticed a woman looking through them. I walked by, I smiled and said, "It doesn't matter which one you choose, you are going to make it look amazing!" She looked at me, tilted her head and with a big smile said, "Thank you." I smiled back, got in my car and left. Always try to make another person's day a little brighter.
Not long ago???? As in the 1950's???
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Brutal.. 😅
@@theclown2393 May 16th, 2 p.m. 2024. Try it. hint; Don't be looking to receive anything FROM her..... it's kinda natural.
Great compliment idea. Thank you
Compliments only work (as a way to get a longer conversation going) when the woman already likes you. If simple smile with eye contact doesn't get a smile back in return, just keep moving.
Have to Agree. And I learned this approximately 1 year ago in a bar. That was the first time I only went to talk to women that looked at me or smiled at me. Was a great night. Waste of time to do it any other way. If woman is not happy to see you it is very unlikely that any amounth of chit chat changes the situation
Woman ❤ to be notice by looking at her,;;do not have she pretty ,, think of something else
In relationship or not in relationship -- every man pays with his hard earned money. You decide for yourself how much to which woman you pay up. Another example for 100 get 1 hour on bedpage 24 hours a day you pick and you do anything you want for that 1 hour.
Well actually, they still work, even if they're not attracted to you. You won't get laid, but you'll build her ego even more. Not a fair exchange you might say. Well ... women feed on male attention (and compliment). Use that knowledge wisely!
So true
Boy do I wish I'd discovered this channel when I was in my twenties, but there was no internet back then. Though now much older I can still stand to learn a lot more. Thankyou.
I'm glad you find the channel helpful! It's never too late to continue learning and growing. 🙏🙂
Your coaching has changed my life, now I realize that only 90% of chicks are hopeless cases.
I go with the 80/20 rule. Only 80%. I am so optimistic.
Now that's funny! 🤣
You're a long way to go. 90% fall for me so i need to friend zone most of them.
@@avlieox bs
Lol only 90 not 100. But fair enough….. fair enough. I can follow
How to compliment without being creepy?
The study of my past girlfriends reveal that no man who is handsome or rich can be creepy.
However, any man who is short or poor is always creepy no matter what he does.
Absolutely spot on John.
Well said. I'm short, bald, & poor. I'm ok with it, however, I get multiple insults/day from women or, guys will comment making sure there are women in the audience for a good laugh. If I compliment a woman, they either laugh or call security. Maybe that worked in the roaring 20's... in today's world..if in the workplace, that will end up in a lawsuit plus termination & outside of the workplace, it will get you kicked out of an establishment or a court date. My experience...never, ever compliment a woman.
Cold hard truth
@@t.l.7733 Don't even think about dating women from work. It's a bad idea from moment 1. Just don't. You are NOT going to get a court date just from complimenting a woman. You lack confidence and are sabotaging yourself. You fear rejection. You shouldn't. Rejection from any random woman is just a Nat landing on your ear. It is only by going out and getting those rejections that you improve your game and confidence. Success will come through repetition and self improvement. Stop telling yourself you can't and start being determined to demonstrate that you can. Because you can.
That is so true. If she thinks he is cute he can be an ass and still be a gentleman in her eyes.
I’m 57 and I do appreciate your sharing your knowledge with us. I wasn’t good at dating when I was younger and I’m even worse now.
Don't stop believeing! You'll find the one!
@@thorstenstormann3701 if not now then in another life, if not in another life then in a parallel universe! The one is there, somewhere wherever that may be 😅
"Nice beaver."
"Thanks. I just had it stuffed."
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A moment of comedy gold.
Classic Leslie Nielsen :-)
You mean "camel toe"
Naked Gun movie quote!
Last time I Complement a ugly chick she ended up stalking me. 🤣
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hahahahaha! I suppose it wasnt' a genuine compliment.
Everyone has good stuff to talk about
Yikes!
Thanks for the warning.
You are so good at making these presentations. You keep my attention and I'm either smiling or laughing through your whole presentation. Your use of body language, with the winks, raised eyebrows and moving closer to the camera makes it attention grabbing and keeps us connected with you. Thanks!
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
I agree. It obviously helps that she is a very beautiful woman also. She seems like the type of older woman that would actually be more fun than most of the young ones today..
I meet this nurse and she had beautiful eyes so I told her that. Her answer to that was I'm married instead of taking it
As a compliment. And saying thank you. Because she was beautiful.
Thanks for sharing your insight on the art of how to properly compliment a woman. I've always been self concious about that because I don't want to come off as either creepy or needy. The women of the world will thank you.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I wouldn’t worry about how you come off. She already decided before you spoke if she thought you were creepy or not.
I been married 18 years and this is the first time I have heard a completely coherent and practical set of ways to give compliments to a lady. This video is amazing and thought provoking. I plan to comment again from time to time as this covers a lot of ground and does so comprehensively.
I like to hold back on the compliments to differentiate myself from other guys. Many (most) women, and people with hedonistic tendencies are into the chase - they seek to be desired. Once they get it, they loose interest. So never satiate her with compliments or validation - always leave her wanting more. Give her compliments but not enough to satiate her self esteem- get her to seek your approval by withholding it.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Jules Oille: Yeah I know you think you're articulate and brimming with wisdom, but you can't construction a sentence, and you're just a big load of baloney.
You sound like an incel, at least, that's his you come across.
You’re my guiding light! This past June 6th 2024 I exited a 5 year relationship. Your videos have been an eye opener for mistakes I have made as well as justifying my action of breaking up. Been gaslighted and manipulated for example yet have been able to see what choices I made that allowed that behavior. Not setting boundaries for fear of losing her or ruining “the mood”! So yes you’re definitely “My Wingman”! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, wisdom and insights. 🖖
Honestly a good compliment based on traits (intellect, personality) goes a long way. A lot of women get validation all the time from guys sliding into her DM's so it's refreshing to her to get a compliment that wasn't on her figure, how good she looked in X. (Source: a girl I dated a few months back)
Exactly! Thank you for validating my point! :))
Anna I love the way that you give such useful information in an amusing and Charming way with so much personality. Plus you are very good looking and easy on the eyes. You are definitely one of the best counselor is out there on TH-cam.
I will say this...if the eyes are the windows of the soul, then yours is a sparkling gem. I love your honesty, transparency and discretion. Your communication skills are second to none. I thoroughly enjoy listening to your insights.
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Thank you for your coaching. I have looked around for coaching right for me. I am a 57 year old man, who is hitting his groove professionally but striking out romantically. There is a lot of coaching for women over 50. A lot of coaching for men who want to date younger women. That is not my speed and some of the coaches seem bitter or mean spirited. Women are not the enemy, nor are they conquests. Your coaching applies no matter how old the women are (at least what I’ve seen so far). Your advice seems universal, even if sometimes it’s hard to hear. Thanks again.
Glad I could help 🙏
I usually just say: "That outfit really compliments your figure."
Then, I'll just walk away.
I have no agenda; I just like to lift people up.
I like to lift them up and put them in bed.:-)
The retiring compliment - yes, as Wingman advices women as use to being hit on the time and threatened... I have worked with enough survivors of violence: seen a few buried. So this approach ensures the woman's feels safe and can except the compliment as intended. The twist is that it teaches you to master a reassuring demeanour so within a week or two you can do the same standing next to them. And again, as Wingman advises adjust your focus on the environment. Eg, with an older women it may be a broach, and with an adolescent their breasts - think of your teenage niece who actually looks to the senior males in their family for reassurance - they'll practice flerting with you as you are the protector. I have dealt savagely with those who were suppose to protect. When my dearest friend and most lovely friend was diagnosed with breast cancer, I quoted from her favourite movie the Princess Bride "There are a shortage of perfect breast in the world it be a pity to damage yours". Apparently I was the only one able to say such - she did have the most gorgeous breasts ... which in turn gave others permission to empathise with her deepest fears. It is not always about courting but much more important
I tried, "Your mouth is really beautiful when it's closed." As it turns out, my delivery might need work.
In relationship or not in relationship -- every man pays with his hard earned money. You decide for yourself how much to which woman you pay up. Another example for 100 get 1 hour on bedpage 24 hours a day you pick and you do anything you want for that 1 hour.
It's a fair take on the subject. Been there, done that. At some point though, you realize it's always been a one way street. You also realize that you've been a part of the build-the-female-ego-beyond-measure gang, doing a disservice to both sexes and the dating community as a whole.
I DO have to honestly say that your video tutorials HAVE given me so much great insight into understanding women. Most of us guys are pretty clueless...lol...thank you!♡
Something that I have become more aware of lately is feelings. The way our words effect others to trigger feelings. So someone who can be fully aware of this, from both sides, of feeling and causing feelings, will really rule and reign as the ideal companion. People will always want to be around someone who makes them feel good and feel good about themselves. Someone that makes them have hope for the future that is genuine.
Only being made aware of this later in life, I can look back at how I have used this against me. First to put it forth in one sentence... "People remember how you made them feel, so when they remember you they remember feelings you caused." Or TRIGGERED that they blame you for! So always be kind, be genuine and be encouraging. Be amusing and entertaining too with confidence. Confidence is something that is attractive and encouraging to most as well. That is people in general are drawn to those who look like and feel like they know what they are doing.
Looking back, I can see where I have been nervous, and said things that were causing doubt instead of putting forth confidence. I can see where the way I have made or triggered feelings in others has resulted in distaste even when not meant to be. While people want truth, they don't want the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Just nudges of words here and there. Too many and it's felt as taking over. People like to be heard and have others listen with interest. To let them speak and be given time. And of course being genuine in your heart, smiling in your eyes, always being kind, polite and respectful.
Other things to note. Being critical and talking about putting things down is a turn off. Speak of things that make people feel good about things. Share experiences that make them wish they were there to feel it too in a positive way. Keep interactions short and sweet and they will be wanting more. So don't give much away, and keep a lot for later... bread crumbs that bring delight... as you busily pass bye... less is more... master feelings and knowing cause and effect of them and what feelings your words are causing... in your past, and present... using hindsight to learn how you messed up with them in the past and how you can do better. Words and feelings cause and effect. Master these and you truly are a master of human nature.
Goodness, I am so happy that I have found your channel; this particular video has taught me so much that I was not aware of. I am 59 and turning 60 this year and am a good looking guy with lots of charm but always willing to learn more! I consider myself a student of life, I am a widower and surviving partner. When I lost my mate I was devastated. I have gotten back to being myself and I am back in the dating game. Women come on to me quite frequently my entire life, I have been one of the lucky guys but still to find true love is challenging. I have set my sight on a lovely 62 year old widow who I believe is still single after over a decade. I am going to speak with her in two weeks and thankfully I found your words of wisdom or I surely would have been a ‘Simp’ in her eyes. I have always suffered from being ‘too nice’ Now I will actually have a chance……..I will keep you posted on what happens.😊
Glad I could help 🙏
Sorry for your loss. Tough age for dating. It seems most single women in their 60s give up on men. They buy a dog instead
Your physical appearance and how you deliver your complement will have a LOT to do with the creep factor!
Ha ha....😅😅😅
I must say that your choice of lipstick was spot on. It really brings out the "sophisticated lady" in you.
Why thank you, Sir! Nicely done. :))
@@YourWingmam 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦♂️😈
Meaning she looks unsophisticated without the lipstick? Mkay
If she calls you sir, the compliment didn’t work.
@@sloebone7399 maybe it has but she wants to keep it professional if she is at work.
I think one of the biggest things you touched on is humor. Something I like about myself is the ability to engage humor with the women in my life , and when I’ve genuinely told them they’re “funny” I’ve been amazed at how consistently they are truly flattered and appreciative. I’ve frequently been told “no man has ever told me I’m funny before.” The key is sincerity and listening and tuning in to a person’s rhythm of humor. Thanks as always for your work in putting together your videos.
If a guy can't make a woman laugh, then he won't ever have a chance of getting her in bed..
"Anna Jorgensen said you would like that compliment!"
I first saw this video about a month ago. My wife is warning up to the compliments as I am getting better at it and a bit more frequent too.
This video, like your others, is great for getting to understand women better. In addition to helping with my home life, they help me cultivate and care for relationships with the women who matter so much to both us. Therapist, mathematician, CEO, lawyer sometimes, to name just a few. I like how that your videos convey information than can adapted to male/female relationships well beyond the dating and LTR scene.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release new content ❤ 🙏
Love what you do on TH-cam. You relate to both genders well and you know how to be objective. Thank You, don't quit!
Both genders? The last I heard there were 97 genders? ROFl. But my dogs seem to know the difference without any problems.
I’ve just stumbled across your channel and absolutely consumed in your work! Expanding my repertoire with every new video I watch. Love taking this all onboard and internalising it, safe to say everything has been incorporated into my daily interactions with female colleagues and friends and even strangers, so much so that it has most definitely changed my interactions with women and how I communicate with them, I’d like to say (without being big-headed) I’m a handsome guy, but having watched your channel a few times, it’s been absolute bliss! Thank you so much ❤
It's helpful hearing these things from a woman who I can trust isn't just trying to manipulate me, I appreciate that very much ♥ 👍.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I tried to give you a complement a couple of weeks ago without sounding creepy. lol . I was wondering, how many women must be grateful for the advice that you give to men. Then I was wondering how many women who must dislike you for telling men their tricks out of the play book. Watching you it seems that you are a very strong woman through life experiences, but yet I think that there might be a small fault in that granite front. Now I'm old enough to be your father, okay well maybe your much older brother, but I just wanted to say, if that was the case where some women bring you down just remember this. You're doing a good thing. You're doing a real good thing. Keep it up. Because so many men have given up on themselves that you bring a new refreshing light of hope into their lives. Yes, you're doing a real good thing. Thank you for that. With respect. Ed
This is thoughtful, and by that I mean that there's hard work that's gone into it--thinking well, and communicating that clearly, takes real effort. I particularly appreciate here the way you highlight considering a woman's intention for being where she is, and for wearing what she's wearing; that's useful to me. I became a subscriber a while back, but have only seen a handful of your offerings up till now, but this one's an incentive to check out more of your stuff more often. Finally, thanks for your candor; I can tell from your nonverbals that you're speaking the truth.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate hearing from you!
I've watched about a dozen of your videos, Anna - and my sincere complement to you is that I believe you are a properly motivated, decent human being and that the man in your life is a really lucky fellow. Stay safe & keep smiling (to everybody).
Step 1 of complimenting without being a creep -
Hit the gym, improve your posture, lose all that extra fat around your torso and bulk up your shoulders - take as long as it takes to do that.
Once you achieve that, every compliment you give a woman will be genuine & credible and NOT CREEPY.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Then they will say you look scary and they feel threatened.
Anna, your hair looks great! Needless to say your advice is insightful and right on point. Fact is it never hurts to give another person a sincere compliment
This was incredibly fascinating and informative, well done. Knowing how to appropriately compliment women should be more widely discussed, as often men go about it wrong or hesitate out of fear; knowing this info will improve men's confidence as well as provide women more quality confidence-inspiring compliments, a win-win across the board.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
FYI, I've listen to a number of your videos multiple times including note taking for some of them. You have been especially effective in presenting a number of topics better than the researchers from whom you distilled the info. Having taught presentation techniques, I continue to be impressed with your delivery, settings and pop-ups. Your objective view of romance is refreshing. I've been particularly surprised and impressed from you personal disclosures in some of your recent videos. They make your observations and advice more authentic.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
There's a very attractive, young bartender at a place I frequent and I've created a bit of a rapport with her. Friday night she was wearing some festive/holiday earrings and I complimented her on how cute they were. The older woman sitting next to me was impressed that I even noticed them, let alone made a compliment. Lol! I replied by saying, "most men's eyes wouldn't even look that high."
Thanks for sharing ❤
I just noticed the salmon umbrella . You’re really good at decorating, you remind me of my sister she’s so good at making a home comfortable and cute.
These are actually helpful videos even for guys who already know the basics.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@@YourWingmam Ofcourse! Ive learned a lot from you and have had a lot of fun and laughs while doing so, so thank you!
"T&A" = Toes and Ankles. Hot women are so tired of having their toes and ankles complimented.
:-D
Dr Prick: Thanks! I always wondered what T&A stood for.
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😂 That totaly makes sense 😂
Thank you for making it clear.
I really appreciate your T and A! Your Tips and Advice have helped me in my marriage. I got married at 54, being a single all those years. My communication skills needed help. Your the Best!!!
Good tip for the guys; When you meet a new lady be sure to compliment her shoes, women love that.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Alfista! Italian excellence
I always appreciate finding your videos in the massive feed. Catching new ones, or ones that I missed can be a treat. As for this video, I guess I've been doing some of this for years but modified. I knew a lot of very physically attractive women in College and University. It's more important that she have personality and, I guess an essence(?) or who she is(?) I'm not putting it well. I've NEVER had a problem chatting up and flirting with those ladies because I already see they are attractive and I am much more into getting to know who they are.
It seems to shock quite a few women when they find out that I find them more interesting in that way. I also can make comments, that they brush off, but make other people cringe.
keep up the good work!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
I can't care less for dating, but can't stop watching your work, either. Not bad at all! Thank you!
My pleasure ❤️
Thank You Anna! I first listened to your "Is see a keeper video!" My lady clanged the bell about twenty five times, some times twice. Now, I really want to keep her, even though she is too good with knots. When she leaves a dollar on my night stand, I feel kind of cheap, but in a good way. Anyway, Your variety of looks is great! One day you are the casual friend, with good advice, the next a very expressively interesting entertainer, and then a glamour girl, who is concerned about people's feelings. I will become a better man for a really great woman. Thanks!
After being off market for 12yrs this was a great refresher course, love the channel!
Glad you enjoy it! Hope my tips help you attract the right one, never settle! :))
Do yourself a favour and stay off the market , buy a dog . Today’s women are more damaged than a cheap hire car and will cost you twice as much after the warranty expires
@@raymondnecke5806 Then why are you watching this channel?
@@RikiTakeuchi10 , because its good information , entertaining and Anna is gorgeous...
@@raymondnecke5806 Accepted.
Hey sis from another mother of course ... my compliment to you today is your hairstyle is practical and elegant because your hair looks long and also short I like how your hair tugs and tapers under your jawline ... you have the right amount of energy and presentation when you’re helping men to become better at dating I respect your effort and I’m glad you mentioned God ... when I give compliments whether they are hot or homely there is always something good to say and I’m always sincere when I say it is I flirt with people even when I’m not trying to get something from them sexually we all need to be acknowledged and admired socially ... my wife is beautiful and I always told her from the first time we were together and every time after that she was so beautiful and I could not marry anyone better... but she is gone for unknown reasons... however I am so gorgeous that I pray that I will not go on wasted before I leave this earth... I want my wife but being practical I will move on when the time is smooth and appropriate ... if women appear to expect compliments for their known attributes I look for other ways if they deserve compliments I never go for the obvious ... I do not need your help but I respect your helping others see you or listen to you next week ... be good or be good at it ALOHA
Thoughtful, instructive, and useful as always. By the way, you really are endearingly funny in your vids (especially your "asides")!
Glad you like them! A clean woman with a slightly unclean mind is generally well-appreciated by most fellas :))
Thank you so much for helping answer some questions that are somewhat in the grey area of dating. Men are visual and often look at those amazing attributes as a foray into complimenting her. We are beasts, and can sometimes jump on the prey wagon. I know I have always used comments about beauty, sexy, gorgeous, lovely ...etc...in order to break the ice. I have used your technique and I have noticed a marked difference in the responses and reactions from an older woman. Thanks so much for your tips and guidance to those men like myself, that want to give compliments in a genuine and gentlemanly way, yet still get the next date. You didn't try to sell a video, or just give us a teaser, you gave us real tangible information that works. Thank you, you certainly set yourself apart from the other TH-camrs who are trying to do what you do. I just thought you should know of the good ways that you teach some of us men, how to do it correctly.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Bless you, Anna ! So happy to have found your channel ! You are genuine and a breath of fresh air in these difficult times for men and women ! Thank you for sharing your gift !
Your videos bring comfort like a soft glowing candle burning in the window on a hard rainy night!
How do you respond to the concept that "men should avoid taking relationship advice from women"?
I appreciate your mature perspective. It hits home more so than many others.
I also value your keeping your self pretty and attractive even though you are middle age (I am guessing) some women when they are in their 30s and 40s just let their looks just fall off .
Women can be beautiful which adds to everyone’s life. But when they look like an Ape this dulls everyone’s life.
Thank you for all your work in your videos,
It no doubt helps a lot of people. I used to be so ignorant about dealing with women . I was not shy just uneducated. But not now thanks to you.
I'm happy that the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏
I found a beautiful lady just by saying Hello. It just happened very naturally. Shes 6 yrs younger and we,re been dating for a month now.
Hopefully you’re not 18.
Are you paying for things? Stop and she will go.
@@sloebone7399 Lol!!!
Are you buying her dinners?
@@terrytorres5026 Yes
Rather than complimenting a woman about her looks, I find it helpful to ask her what she thinks or feels about something. This shows that I am interested in her as a person. This can be intimate without going into the "friend zone." There have been successful relationships that started because I was just friendly to a woman without trying to come on to her; this sometimes seems to make them look at me as a challenge. BTW, I think the advantage you have over many of your TH-cam competitors is that you are very charming in comparison.
Wow! You have really put a lot of thought into your presentations. They’re very detailed and you have a great teaching/communications style; very engaging. Love your attitude and that you embrace the responsibility of your task and do it so well. In addition the cute phraseology and humour are appreciated by all, I’m sure. Thanx for being there.
Thank you! I'm happy this has been helpful to you 😃
I find the best strategy is.to wait for her to speak. Look. Look away. Look. Tiny smile. Look away. Leave with a non verbal bye. Don't look back.
Your eyes are so placid and kind. Just serene! Maybe full of grace. Grace is so attractive!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Took your advice, now i walk up to strange women I don’t know and tell them they make me laugh. They keep walking away
Hi Anna - great topic - alot of nuance required. You briefly touched on a sub-topic - when a women is asking you for a compliment. To take it a step further, in the past, I have had women who turned me down for a date....come back to me "later" , looking for me to either compliment her or "lift her spirits" (we were in same social circle as friends or co-workers). Was never sure if she was checking out to see if I was still interested (did she make a mistake saying "no"?) or was she being mean-spirited or something else. Regardless, I would give the compliment or advice and let things be...so will never know. If I only had Wingmam back then. :)
Your lessons has saved my relationship with my girlfriend now!!!
You are Amazing 👏
Keep on Coaching Anna!!!!!
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
I loved your video, it was very well structured and informative. Also your behind looks amazing in that dress!
Um, thanks lol
@@YourWingmam 😅😉
You’ll be pleased to hear that having watched a selection of your videos over the few days I honestly feel transformed, my confidence has skyrocketed and I feel like a god (slight exaggeration) and my transformation is due in no small part because of your endeavour to help your fellow creatures on this earth, thank you wingmam
I always feel that the way you understand men, and the sound of your particular voice, makes me very comfortable. ❤
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
A man told a co-worker, "You are a good driver for a lady." He meant it as a genuine compliment.
She was not impressed.
Ha! If he was cheeky, playful and joking about it, she might have laughed. Without the cheekiness, he's making a sexist comment (even if it's true) and most women will feel defensive, even the ones who aren't feminists. Or he could have made the genuine compliment, "You're a good driver." Make sense?
@@YourWingmam Yes, he should have just said, you are a good driver.
He was in his 80's or even 90ish. So I think he did not realize he was being sexist.
I try and ride with my eyes closed when a woman is driving,
so I can't see how bad they are driving.
@@ccdogpark
Try not to be so sexist, there are plenty of women who are good drivers and plenty of men who are bad drivers.
@@parajacks4
What the hell kind of woman refers to herself as parajacks
and what does that even mean ?
Anna, it is incredibly cute the way you say something a little out there and then giggle. Its part of why I like way home your videos
Be incredibly attractive. Otherwise, don't bother.
I appreciate that you've watched so many of my videos (or at least commented on a lot of them) considering you don't seem interested in women :)
@@YourWingmam Hey! Yeah, I've watched. You have a nice presentation and sometimes some really good advice. However, I am not interested in dating but I'm sure some can glean some tips from your vids. Recommended for sure. Thanks!
Your videos really are the right advice at right time for this guy looking to resume dating after surviving a major health problem... and your delivery style made me laugh more than once. Well Done!
Like Norm MacDonald has said “Its Handsome men that make women laugh”
Hello
That's what I did today. with many women I work at a school so ya buddy
and rich 😂
This was so helpful. A new relationship is warming up and your counsel has kept me from stupid mistakes. My wife of 40 years passed away 7 years ago and since i have had 3 short relational mishaps. I wish i had known this stuff years ago. Thank you so very much.
You’re welcome.. So glad my videos are helping you now! (And my condolences.) 🙏
5:20 initially thought this compliment close to a potential MeToo claim but using “especially” = genius
Is it 4K? lol Thank you! #original! ;)
Well - you make throwing you a kudo easy! Your channel has been a great source of help for me and, in particular, understanding that ladies are not the unfathomable, unsolvable mystery that most men think they are. That is, like men, women are human first, gender second!
Keep these coming!
This is so true and so many people miss this!
HUBBA-HUBBA darlin', do you work at HOOTERS? .....works every time!!
That'll make her laugh. Check! ;)
🤣🤣🤣 as she laughs her ass off out the door none of those would have worked on my X's
There is a lot to unpack here. This video, in addition to other insights, has given me the first insight into what makes a complement creepy to a woman. In my youth I sometimes overheard women's uncomfortable reactions to men's complements and completely wrongly assumed that complements from men were uncomfortable and unwelcome. I had no desire to cause such reactions in girls or women and swore off on compliments almost entirely.
Enter this video. Now I see: Context is key. In proper context, a sincere deserved compliment coming from good motives that is thoughtfully worded, timed, and followed up nicely is most likely to be welcomed. I can now say from my recent experiences this is true. Thanks again for this helpful video helping me to keep on gaining understanding of God's finest creation.
Wonderful comment! Thank you for that and for watching!
Compliments on a beautiful smile or eyes are usually safe.
I told a young waitress recently she had pretty blue eyes. She got short with me.
I love this video. It's a game changer for me. There are plenty of videos and programs out there that teach how to compliment women. But, most of them target 'the easy ones'. They don't necessarily work so well for classy women, which is what I prefer. When those lines are used on classy women, it usually comes across as creepy. On the other hand, your advice targets the classy woman, like yourself. This is eventually going to be some valuable advice, but it's going to require a little practice. It's no fun being labeled as creepy, when genuinely trying to compliment a woman.
No fun for sure. And some are do ruthless it might be a whole public kerfluffal.
Eeek.
I can sincerely say you are stunning in red. It really accentuates your playful personality.
quick learner you are,
I just subscribed to your channel. Thanks so much for all your wise advice and council. At 75 years of age and recently having lost my wife to cancer, I find your insights very helpful to someone like me who is just now trying to get back into dating. Bless you for doing this fine work.
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See how Jack Nicholson does it in as good as it gets. "I started taking the pills because you make me wanna be a better man"
Great line
I've made so many mistakes that I have a nice list of Don't Repeats. Very helpful. A woman's smile can be absolutely captivating and not reliant on a good hair day or makeup.
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Wow girl, you really made good use of that vacuum cleaner, I bet you make the best sandwiches as well.
LOL!
Happy Tuesday spicy señorita Anna! Great video today and useful information. Have an awesome week and you wear red ❤🌹 well
@@charlt7670 You obviously care lol.
In my life's experience, the worst thing I ever did was take dating advice from women -- the worst one was, "stop trying so hard to find love, the right girl will find you" (that just led to a lost decade of dick-in-hand). However, now having a few decades of experience with women, I can sincerely say the advice given in this video is very much spot-on. I would say she either has professional knowledge of the subject matter or is very well read, not merely drawing from her life experience (she doesn't base her assertions on just personal anecdotes as some others who claim to be dating experts do).
Unfortunately, I am at the stage of my life where I finally realized that "love" was merely an illusion. It is nothing more than a "bubble". If you are one of the incredibly lucky few, you may be able to mutually share that bubble for life, but for the rest of us, you will spend half your life trying to find that special someone, then fall in love (or not), put your mind, body, heart, and soul into that person, and in the end.... wind up with NOTHING but bitterness, hatred, and wrinkles.
Sad but true. That is why after the 1st one I don’t give her my all. I have needs too and if someone is not willing to give and take I can take care of myself. I have two eyes to read and see with a tongue to taste with two hears to hear with we don’t need any help to do that. Company is nice if it is healthy.
@@hajinezhad3 Sorry for you dude. Keep goin'
Absolutely love your authenticity… great applicable content that is obviously informed by experience. Can see how you might be heckuva wingman. Keep up all that good work!
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How to not be creepy:
Step 1: Be good looking and tall
Step 2: Dont violate either instructions in step 1.
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Ummm you can be tall
And creepy…. Trust me.
A couple years ago, I attended a college course called Introduction to Interpersonal Communication. The professor was indeed attractive but that was not the reason for the compliment I paid her which was, "Your lectures are very thought provoking." She really did appreciate that compliment.
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It is actually pretty simple:
- if a man is tall and handsome - not creepy, whatever he says
- if a man is visibly filthy rich - not creepy, whatever he says
- if a man is not tall and handsome, and does not visibly look filthy rich - creepy, whatever he says, even if it is just a "hello"
If an unattractive men or disabled man just wants to hook up According to women that's the ultimate creepy thing to do.
Anytime an unattractive man offers up a compliment a woman is going to automatically think hes insincere so it doesn't matter what you compliment her on.
Trying to flirt when your unattractive will always be seen as creepy. Even if you have the same approach or smoothness of a good looking guy a woman will always think hes ugly what does he have to be confident about
Simps!
I was on a train in New York a few weeks ago. A man was talking to a random nice looking woman. She pretty much did not want to engage with him. I told the man as I exited the subway: Make more money and you will have the woman you want. The woman's face started to turn red...
One compliment I gave a woman that was received very well, "you're radiant!" It was a genuine observation.
'Is there an airport nearby, or is that my heart taking off?'
That's the cheesiest line I know ha ha
Lol! I like that one!
You look like an angel, did it hurt, when you fell out of Heaven?
hahaha! Love it!
This lass I knew once had a bloke say to her Linda you are like an ripe tomato the more I squeeze you the more your juices flow. 🤣
When you told me to ask for what I want. It triggered a great productive chat for us.
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The sexiest part of a woman is her intelligence; tell her that while complimenting hers. If there isn't anything to compliment in that area she's not worth the effort.
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Depends what you want (plural)
@@stu7399 I think for many men intelligence is a turn off because they’re such a sexist that she’d want nothing to do with them
I've watched a few of your videos, and I have to say they've really helped me figure out who, and what I am. I've known most of my that I am not a guy that fits in with most crowds, yeah, I'm a sigma. Moving on to this video, I've done quite a few of good things you've listed, and done so naturally. I have to agree, that being creative with compliments really makes you stand out, and they remember that. You could not hit it off, but she's always going to remember something that you did that was different. I'm subscribing. Thank you.
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You are amazingly perceptive about human nature. The way you communicate lifts the day regardless of the circumstances. Your analysis infused with your humour is your special magic.
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If I compliment a pretty lady, I will normally just smile 😁,if I know them I will tell them you look nice,or ask them what perfume are you wearing,it really smells good, I normally don't give compliments, because your giving up your power and to me it's kinda beta, friend zone,if they do ask for a compliment I will tell them you look nice in Red Anna 😂
The perfume one is a great point! The way to not look or feel better is to own giving the compliment not the expectation of her response. You're compliment her for you, not her. She can do whatever she likes with it, you're not the kind of man who ever feels diminished by anyone, not even a pretty woman. Make sense?
@@YourWingmam I call it know your value, and also confidence 👍
Lovely vids! Even tho your coaching hasn’t changed my life, it kinda validates my experience with high quality women, and I am really happy to see a well-spoken, intelligent young lady talking about normal, civil things in this field. Keep up the amazing work!
Every time you laugh, I fall a little bit deeper.
Your story didn't change my life but I changed my life and basically now do a lot of the stuff you are talking about and it's great; fun, honest relationships, no trail of sadness, enjoying interactions and relationships, always happy to see ex's, etc... I think you can accomplish way more with internal development, which includes taking care of yourself, than focusing on external factors like appearance, money and status, seek and you shall find.
So how's this for a compliment: " I like the sexy red look for Valentines day, Anna!" ;)
That works! Not T&A specific but adds a dash of sexy. (Something you wouldn't say to a dude!) Well done! :)
Kinda creepy.
Barf
@@terrytorres5026 Real mature response-Anna felt differently judged by her comment
@@sloebone7399 Did you read her response?
Hey, I'm loving your new color sense. You've reinvented yourself.
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