Trapped in a box with my blind date for 12 HOURS

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  • @codyko2
    @codyko2  ปีที่แล้ว +742

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  • @hard.g0re
    @hard.g0re ปีที่แล้ว +9065

    The shots of him sitting right beside her cramming her in the corner made this an even harder watch than it already was

    • @smiledance4933
      @smiledance4933 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂

    • @Ryan-wx1bi
      @Ryan-wx1bi ปีที่แล้ว +388

      I think the part where he pulled her closer by the legs made me just... Oh gosh. Never felt so uncomfortable

    • @sarahwright4743
      @sarahwright4743 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      She is so uncomfortable it'd awful to watch.

    • @dliap98
      @dliap98 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      it was painful! and like every woman i know has at least one story of this happening. like give me some fucking space dude and just be normal

    • @hhour2096
      @hhour2096 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your name is hard gore. The irony

  • @piecebypiece2028
    @piecebypiece2028 ปีที่แล้ว +9252

    It's interesting how he began liking her more as the date went on and she lost interest

    • @destrious8133
      @destrious8133 ปีที่แล้ว +2185

      Tbf I'd also lose interest if a dude grabbed my leg and kept asking about my sex life and wanting to kiss me

    • @Emilianolokocho123
      @Emilianolokocho123 ปีที่แล้ว +385

      I wouldnt say he liked her more, he just couldnt resist the urge of pulling the moves the longer it went

    • @thingl7859
      @thingl7859 ปีที่แล้ว +824

      He was being creepy and way too touchy which made her uncomfortable. This is weirdo behavior this isn't just "liking" the girl

    • @klaire7036
      @klaire7036 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@Emilianolokocho123they mean the rating w the fingers

    • @Betoruffo
      @Betoruffo ปีที่แล้ว +367

      the guy was super effing weird though it’s obvious about what his intentions were with her and she even called him out on it early on

  • @gracie20
    @gracie20 ปีที่แล้ว +2612

    The complete lack of awareness for space was really interesting. She was pulling into herself taking up as small a space as she could and he was doing the exact opposite. Felt pretty yucky. really liked when the staff spoke up for her and made a comment about asking for physical permission.

    • @MalFatima
      @MalFatima ปีที่แล้ว +168

      Especially the part where he brought up seggs every 2 mins, said he absolute won’t take her advice and go to therapy (showing no growth) AND how apparently in the uncut version she asked the producers to tell him stop touching her

    • @levilore_7126
      @levilore_7126 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@MalFatima damn that very upsetting. i hope she is doing ok bc in this video she seemed definitely seemed uncomfortable which like same i would be too.

    • @asum7213
      @asum7213 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      ​@@jaycemcqueen306How tf does that make it better?

    • @HallucinatingHedgehogs
      @HallucinatingHedgehogs ปีที่แล้ว

      @@asum7213it doesn’t, but if true that puts a lot more of the blame on the Cut producers. Obviously it doesn’t make what he did right. Again though “if” they were careless enough to encourage a dude that already isn’t really picking up on her cues and body language to “utilize the space better” that’s pretty fucked and is on the Cut.

    • @Tata-ye5jt
      @Tata-ye5jt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      absolutely, he constantly put her into the corner quite odd

  • @maya-bx3vq
    @maya-bx3vq ปีที่แล้ว +24734

    the fact that they werent given pillows or blankets should classify this as psychological torture

    • @Julia99lol
      @Julia99lol ปีที่แล้ว +1011

      Right?? Was being physically uncomfortable part of the experience?

    • @patienceholmes841
      @patienceholmes841 ปีที่แล้ว +667

      I thought it'd be like padded material and have some cushions at the least

    • @KasraKlassics
      @KasraKlassics ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Oh trust me, in 500 years they’ll think of us as evil🤣
      “… and then they laughed and commented on different styles of torture. And just… went back to work!”

    • @henry7486
      @henry7486 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      and it was such a small space too

    • @Death-999
      @Death-999 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      Nothing would have been different if it was just two people sitting on chairs in a room for 12 hours, but I guess "in a small box" must get more clicks?

  • @olivias9637
    @olivias9637 ปีที่แล้ว +13691

    Daring her to kiss him after being directly told to ask for consent is WILD

    • @katiet9448
      @katiet9448 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      i was just ab to comment that bc wtf

    • @Wumbology10
      @Wumbology10 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      FR

    • @soicancommentonvideo
      @soicancommentonvideo ปีที่แล้ว +151

      I mean...her consenting to the dare would count as consent for the kiss. That's pretty straightforward verbal consent.

    • @Wumbology10
      @Wumbology10 ปีที่แล้ว +338

      @@soicancommentonvideo You do realize she was uncomfortable most of the time there. Furthermore, she probably just said yes because he would've kept asking.

    • @griffinborremans6591
      @griffinborremans6591 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Wumbology10and she could’ve kept saying no, but she didnt, if she didn’t want to do it then she would’ve kept saying no

  • @foxfire1112
    @foxfire1112 ปีที่แล้ว +3103

    She is obviously a fair and mature person. She gave him a million chances and he absolutely fumbled

    • @handlethisduki
      @handlethisduki ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yea what did he do exactly to fumble (for research purposes)

    • @Den3zo
      @Den3zo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      @@handlethisduki Exatcly. (My friend is asking)
      Edit: So apparently he was making her feel uncomfortable, by being pretty pushy with almost everything he did. So yeah, he didn't respect or more likely see her boundries

    • @handlethisduki
      @handlethisduki 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Den3zo yea no i get that but i thought thats how things mive forward and keeps them from losing interest?

    • @kalinakowalska184
      @kalinakowalska184 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      He’s not genuine at all. You can see that at every moment he thinks about how he should appear. I didn’t like it, even this childhood trauma talk sounded like he just wants her to think of him as wounded. He’s a good looking guy but my rating for him would also drop a lot after he started talking

    • @lauramaria8880
      @lauramaria8880 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@handlethisdukiwhaat?! quite the opposite. especially the way he kept touching her, laying on her all the time like they were a couple already or bffs. she never reciprocated but he KEPT doing it. imo she should’ve told him to stop but she was too nice.

  • @juinibee
    @juinibee ปีที่แล้ว +1433

    he kept asking sex related questions, laid his head in her lap without asking, grabbed her leg without asking and kept going back on his whole foot fetish thing omfg i cannot with this dude

    • @LewisJamieson6
      @LewisJamieson6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      ive skimmed through the full version and i will say, the shortened down edited version makes him look worse. in the full thing, he still asked a few questions but so did she. the foot thing was a bit weird but aside from that he seemed fairly normal.

    • @camjuan7727
      @camjuan7727 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I felt horrible for this girl ! She’s clearly SO uncomfortable !

    • @i.shuuya3231
      @i.shuuya3231 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@@LewisJamieson6saying that a dude is just being a dude or "normal" is not the defense you think it is.

    • @LewisJamieson6
      @LewisJamieson6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@i.shuuya3231 how so?

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The ankle grab and pulling her had me YIKING

  • @ethanhawkins3391
    @ethanhawkins3391 ปีที่แล้ว +4161

    Mans fumbled time and time again. Couldn’t believe he tried to hit her with the “I dare you to kiss me ZaHa 😏” Cody’s fuckboy impression was in prime form here

    • @bleedingcowboys7147
      @bleedingcowboys7147 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      right? and after calling it corny too 💀 bro wouldnt know a stop sign even if it layed itself on his lap

    • @mymelody03
      @mymelody03 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Right after she said she doesn’t kiss on the first date too lmfao

    • @von...
      @von... ปีที่แล้ว +71

      that deffo has the same cringy high school 'flirty' vibes as:
      "lets play 20 questions! ill go first... are you a virgin?"

    • @Death-999
      @Death-999 ปีที่แล้ว

      "i dare you to let me suck your feet hahaha just kidding... unless?"

    • @tme98
      @tme98 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@von... "What color are your nipples"

  • @Dietcokeslut
    @Dietcokeslut ปีที่แล้ว +1472

    My dude doesn’t understand her open emotional energy ≠ sexual energy.

    • @Trto7
      @Trto7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly

  • @alyssamarilyn2778
    @alyssamarilyn2778 ปีที่แล้ว +7914

    Asking for a foot massage after revealing that he had a "foot appreciation" was bold.

    • @Delta-uc7jo
      @Delta-uc7jo ปีที่แล้ว +501

      And sock swapping

    • @Tblitz
      @Tblitz ปีที่แล้ว

      he definitely has a foot fetish

    • @shrubbie69
      @shrubbie69 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      ew he said foot appreciation? i missed that part 🤢

    • @h.r.9563
      @h.r.9563 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Broooo nooooooo

    • @bleedingcowboys7147
      @bleedingcowboys7147 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      seemed like he said that because the topic was brought up, but even if it wasnt a fetish she literally said she dint like (ugly) feet and was squirmish when the button asked him to show his 😭😭😭😭 why tf did he bring up feet several times after that??? i think id pass out if someone asked me to switch socks, let alone a fckn foot rub!! idk how she did it lmfao

  • @patienceholmes841
    @patienceholmes841 ปีที่แล้ว +4887

    The way she said she didn't like feet and he then proceeded to say he liked them, show her his feet, force her to swap socks and then force her to give him a foot massage 💀

    • @_melchild
      @_melchild ปีที่แล้ว +365

      So glad someone else noticed this, like wtf

    • @jelatinosa
      @jelatinosa ปีที่แล้ว +414

      It's like he wanted to see how far she would let him push her

    • @memzex2918
      @memzex2918 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@jelatinosaew

    • @KarissaKayne
      @KarissaKayne ปีที่แล้ว +70

      SO TRUE!!!! that was most def intentional too to push her wfkjenfrejfbe ew

    • @Rico401Prov
      @Rico401Prov ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you ain’t giving ya man a foot massage than best believe he gone get it somewhere else 😤💯

  • @_viya
    @_viya ปีที่แล้ว +2079

    just so people know, in the uncut version she DID in fact ask the producers to tell him to stop touching her

    • @n76543
      @n76543 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +422

      oh my god. and the amount of times he initiated contact with her legs and just not respecting personal space. imagine the cameras weren't rolling

    • @aubreyirene4059
      @aubreyirene4059 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +166

      UGH that is so miserable to hear

    • @ZenerRocksMC
      @ZenerRocksMC 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Yikes

    • @YannickOkpara-d5l
      @YannickOkpara-d5l 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      From what I can see, he stopped touching her unprompted after they announced it, so I don't see the problem. When her legs were over his, it seemed like she was choosing for them to be there. All in all, he's just not good at reading people and either just has or has grown up with less bodily boundaries than others. Like, when he pulled her by the legs, there's so many things he could interpret such as her grimace just being from falling rather than a reaction to the touch.

    • @atomdecay
      @atomdecay 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      ​@@YannickOkpara-d5l Yeah, if she would've been in a headspace where she DID want him to make a move, then he would be a suave cool guy with the right moves or whatever. The key here is CONSENT. The biggest mistake men make is trying to persuade or convince women to want them sexually when the best relationships are the ones where you are organically, magnetically attracted to each other. Yeah, a little persistence can be romantic, but this isn't it. Continuously touching a woman after she doesn't show interest in a sexual relationship is just wrong. Touching ANYONE that doesn't want to be touched is wrong. I get it, sometimes girls are flirty or whatever & play "hard to get" or whatever, but that's honestly an outdated mindset. If she wants you, she will let you know. If she doesn't, then back off. It's easy.

  • @itsmerachelc11
    @itsmerachelc11 ปีที่แล้ว +5652

    I wouldn't even want to be stuck with MYSELF in a box for twelve hours

    • @RJiiFin
      @RJiiFin ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Your apartment is a box

    • @SubliminalMessagesTV
      @SubliminalMessagesTV ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah you'll end up asking for a bible

    • @AshChiCupcak
      @AshChiCupcak ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I got 3 kids, I would literally pay someone to let me sit in a box for 12 uninterrupted hours of peace and quiet and take the longest nap.

    • @vogelvrouw
      @vogelvrouw ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@RJiiFin my apartment is a bit better than this box..

    • @Bye-son
      @Bye-son ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Therapy lol

  • @soniashenoy4071
    @soniashenoy4071 ปีที่แล้ว +18570

    I would pay to see someone stuck in a box for 12 hours with the dude from the last video that dressed like an astronaut, said he saw an attempted murder and wondered why the girl was weirded out by him

    • @theo6741
      @theo6741 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Sam hyde clone

    • @LordKolten
      @LordKolten ปีที่แล้ว +110

      I don’t think the astronaut dude would want that. Seemed like he had some serious social anxiety

    • @Running4lyfe1997
      @Running4lyfe1997 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fr

    • @luks303
      @luks303 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      Idk if I would pay to see someone getting tortured like that

    • @MaddiRoseCook
      @MaddiRoseCook ปีที่แล้ว +159

      I feel like that should be legally classified as torture haha

  • @Me-dj2sz
    @Me-dj2sz ปีที่แล้ว +1871

    Raise your hand if as a women you’ve been on a date w a man who did not understand or really care about boundaries like this man. One of the worst feelings in the world it was crazy to see this from a third perspective. The way the producer says to ask for consent and then he just lays on her.

    • @ecosystemeater2
      @ecosystemeater2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🙋‍♀️

    • @katiechamberlin4194
      @katiechamberlin4194 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      once had a man apologize for only one of the things that crossed my verbalized boundary, then proceeded to call himself “mr. communication” while still not asking for verbal consent before touching me 🤦‍♀️

    • @youresinningtoo3996
      @youresinningtoo3996 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maybe I should be glad I've never been on a date, each day seems to get rougher out there.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Fr this video perfectly encapsulated heterosexual dating norms and the lack of emotional intelligence and understanding of boundaries

    • @KieranBond
      @KieranBond ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a pansexual man, yep

  • @user-ck9lm6xi1o
    @user-ck9lm6xi1o ปีที่แล้ว +2515

    Of the numerous signs he had that he was fucking it up, the directors reminding him about consent has to be the most embarrassing and ridiculous. I really hope his shame helped him learn, and he sought out therapy lol

    • @cjbabalos7188
      @cjbabalos7188 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer.
      He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅
      He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though.
      Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅

    • @phospadparadschaa
      @phospadparadschaa ปีที่แล้ว +100

      The way he kept putting his head on her lap and asking for foot rubs and kisses and shit…..I would’ve been so ashamed of myself if I were him. What bizarre and creepy behavior

    • @user-ck9lm6xi1o
      @user-ck9lm6xi1o ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@phospadparadschaa It's boggling as a dude that some dudes like this guy cannot see how creepy this stuff is

    • @amaira-jain
      @amaira-jain ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Time stamp for when the directores reminded him of consent ? I didn’t see it lol maybe I’m just blind

    • @bug5460
      @bug5460 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@amaira-jain16:55

  • @Raheem0177
    @Raheem0177 ปีที่แล้ว +9868

    This one was BRUTAL. I hope dude rewatches this several times and learns how his behavior and questions made her uncomfortable. So he can go into future dates and not make the same mistakes he made here.

    • @CreativeC13
      @CreativeC13 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      Honestly I hope he doesn't cause it wouldn't change who he is, it would just make him better at hiding it

    • @changedmynamebcyallwouldnt..
      @changedmynamebcyallwouldnt.. ปีที่แล้ว +699

      @@CreativeC13there’s evil people and there’s people who don’t understand body language and other signs. there’s also people who have been socialized their entire lives to become this alpha male stereotype who gets pussy, and these people can change into genuine humans. i’m pretty sure this dude is one of the latter two, not evil. it doesn’t justify, excuse or make any of his actions any better, but in my opinion it does give him the right to a second chance, a right to learn.

    • @crunty5159
      @crunty5159 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      @@changedmynamebcyallwouldnt.. Wow this comment gave me hope that empathetic and understanding people still exist

    • @milkpilled
      @milkpilled ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@changedmynamebcyallwouldnt..thank you 🙏🏼 most sane person

    • @cjbabalos7188
      @cjbabalos7188 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer.
      He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅
      He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though.
      Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅

  • @LivFP
    @LivFP ปีที่แล้ว +647

    Mommy milkers has to be the most immediate turn off lmaoo

    • @AYVYN
      @AYVYN ปีที่แล้ว +12

      A man should know better than to use a term like that around a lady of your chest deficiency madam

    • @courtneylust
      @courtneylust 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      fr☠️

    • @jorgitoislamico4224
      @jorgitoislamico4224 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well of course, because you're old

    • @pennyroyalT
      @pennyroyalT 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      wtf are these replies

    • @courtneylust
      @courtneylust 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@pennyroyalT ong they need to touch grass

  • @emilioolavarria-zo9ln
    @emilioolavarria-zo9ln ปีที่แล้ว +4437

    They should do a button/ blind date colab. If u win the button, the second date is in the box

    • @madigoodwin9618
      @madigoodwin9618 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      I second that

    • @Alex-cw3rz
      @Alex-cw3rz ปีที่แล้ว +375

      You make it sound like a torture device

    • @Esmeralda-rd9hf
      @Esmeralda-rd9hf ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ​@@Alex-cw3rzthought the exact same thing

    • @Thesarcasticdom
      @Thesarcasticdom ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@Alex-cw3rzI mean after watching this it definitely is

    • @Alex-cw3rz
      @Alex-cw3rz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Thesarcasticdom true

  • @loganvandenoetelaar7808
    @loganvandenoetelaar7808 ปีที่แล้ว +4555

    I want the 12 hour unedited cut of Cody reacting to the 12 hour unedited cut.

    • @KevinMoody242
      @KevinMoody242 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Do it

    • @cjbabalos7188
      @cjbabalos7188 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I want him to do it and I won't watch 😂

    • @scxxlduh4917
      @scxxlduh4917 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      where can i watch the unedited?

    • @xxx_ray
      @xxx_ray ปีที่แล้ว

      you want to torture him too?

    • @chaggz04
      @chaggz04 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Livestream 😂

  • @mariana9991
    @mariana9991 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    I've been on a date that lasted 12 hours. We just sat and talked, and I didn't realize how much time had passed. However, sitting in such an uncomfortable, bright space like that with a blind date.. and the cameras and crew to top it off, sounds nightmarish.

    • @JSmiley21x
      @JSmiley21x ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I've been on first dates that felt like 12 hours... I can't imagine how long an ACTUAL 12 hour first date would feel like 😂

    • @karaisverycool9423
      @karaisverycool9423 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@JSmiley21xI think if you’re really into it and you’re having fun it wouldn’t feel very long because you’re actually enjoying it

    • @R0mbVs
      @R0mbVs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I went on a first date with a woman for roughly 6 or 7 hours. It was pretty magical and she was very sweet. I tried to treat it just like a first meeting (to relax myself a bit and it was our first meeting) but she was clearly very into me the whole time and we just had fun and hung out for the most part. The most memorable date I've ever been on to be honest.

  • @kristins8438
    @kristins8438 ปีที่แล้ว +3684

    "she's different from the typical girls..."
    yeah that happens when you actually have to talk to them

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Exactly

    • @milkxv
      @milkxv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      crazy projection

    • @ballllllll8
      @ballllllll8 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@milkxvno

    • @milkxv
      @milkxv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ballllllll8 sit doggy

    • @milkxv
      @milkxv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ballllllll8 sit down dog

  • @halatiny6537
    @halatiny6537 ปีที่แล้ว +1735

    He was constantly trying to seek empathy and pity at times and that’s almost worse than the absolute lack of social awareness and personal space.

    • @Fyi66661
      @Fyi66661 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      He’s a try hard for sure

    • @lukedoyle5566
      @lukedoyle5566 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Most pick me shit I ever watched

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm ปีที่แล้ว +50

      He kept repeating the cycle of: trauma dumping - self deprecation - sexual advances/comments

  • @eglantinelicorne9535
    @eglantinelicorne9535 ปีที่แล้ว +9150

    I don't have the words to explain how PERFECT this is as a representation of men and women's relationships. Lack of interest in her consent, inability to read her body language, huge gap in emotional maturity, the guy thinking the girl is a genius cause she has some basics of emotional intelligence (she was quite emotional intelligent tho, but here I mean that he reacted to very basic things), the girl laughing and him not understanding that it's cause she's feeling awkward, the guy having SO MUCH confidence, the guy taking ALL THE SPACE both physically and emotionally, him saying "I'm proud of you" as if he knew anything about her... I could go on and on for HOURS!!

    • @lizziekate4941
      @lizziekate4941 ปีที่แล้ว +460

      you said it perfectly

    • @Loooudeboa
      @Loooudeboa ปีที่แล้ว +281

      Thank you ! It was painful to watch tbh

    • @idkwhattoputheretbhbuthere
      @idkwhattoputheretbhbuthere ปีที่แล้ว +185

      What are you on about? This is not a perfect representation. This is not something most men do lmao. Ye there are lot doing this but doesn't mean they are in the majority

    • @lib5864
      @lib5864 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@idkwhattoputheretbhbuthereIt is great if you are not like that, but many women have had similar experiences with men like this and that's worthy of recognition

    • @lizziekate4941
      @lizziekate4941 ปีที่แล้ว +360

      @@idkwhattoputheretbhbuthere are you a man?

  • @sanesapphic
    @sanesapphic ปีที่แล้ว +564

    Bro really got a few hours alone with an emotionally mature woman and turned her into his therapist

  • @jennyshoutsrawr
    @jennyshoutsrawr ปีที่แล้ว +2670

    this pairing is like when the teacher puts the popular kid and the quiet girl together for a group project

    • @insanelady1989
      @insanelady1989 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      literally

    • @younghex9577
      @younghex9577 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      And some of the comments are painting him as such a bad guy. Like dude he's just doing what he knows to work. He dates a certain type of girl and she is simply a different type of girl, so it doesn't work

    • @truesingers77
      @truesingers77 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      @@younghex9577the entire problem is the grabbing and touching her without consent. That’s not okay, no matter what kind of woman he is with.

    • @tyrellleach1846
      @tyrellleach1846 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@truesingers77i will guarantee it works for him and he has probably gotten laid multiple times doing so. You may be a reserved guy but there are plenty of guys out there that are somewhat "aggressive" in their approach to picking up women and it works for them so why exactly would they change. Yall ate acting as if he grabbed her tits 😂 she could have easily asked him not to do it. Takes two to tango. If you are too scared to set boundaries with someone then thata partially on you. Not everyone is the same both male and female.

    • @8beautylover8
      @8beautylover8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@tyrellleach1846 given that his longest relationship was 8 months in his late 20s i would say he hasnt been all that successful lol also she asked for him not to touch her in the unedited version apparently

  • @thunderclancat123
    @thunderclancat123 ปีที่แล้ว +889

    I love how as the hours went on she just kept telling him to get therapy 😂

  • @secret99826
    @secret99826 ปีที่แล้ว +6757

    the full 12 hour cut feels like honestly a genuine nightmare i can’t even use proper words to describe 😭

    • @vanidemo
      @vanidemo ปีที่แล้ว +151

      Did he really spend the majority of the time talking about sex? And is he really describing what I'm thinking at 8:53?

    • @lovrboi
      @lovrboi ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ENYA💖

    • @hiphiphoogray
      @hiphiphoogray ปีที่แล้ว +153

      my ex boyfriend was JUST like this and it took 4 years post breakup for me to reflect back on the relationship without feeling sick to my stomach!!! I was even convinced I was asexual until I learned of relationship trauma lol

    • @islabee94
      @islabee94 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ​@@hiphiphoograywhats so bad about this guy in your opinion? He seemed pretty nice to me, no evil vibes whatsoever

    • @hiphiphoogray
      @hiphiphoogray ปีที่แล้ว +285

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@islabee94 in my opinion he didn’t understand when to stop pushing the topic of sex. also he’s not evil he’s just hypersexual and she’s not so it’s not a healthy partnership.

  • @vixen205
    @vixen205 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    The more uncomfortable she got, the better he thought the date was…..

    • @aubreyirene4059
      @aubreyirene4059 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      He’s just obviously not very intuitive or good at looking at body language.

    • @vixen205
      @vixen205 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@aubreyirene4059 yeahhh even the producers had to say sumn

  • @beafakename8523
    @beafakename8523 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Lol the fact that she was very open and blatant about not seeing him as a romantic interest and in the end he's like "I can totally see us going on dates"

    • @drf61499
      @drf61499 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I think he said “fun friend dates out there”

  • @xFearGodx
    @xFearGodx ปีที่แล้ว +7281

    I wanna see Nut do this. I feel like him paired up with the right person would be good entertainment

    • @MarcoAce13
      @MarcoAce13 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      Him and Jess

    • @schwiftynat
      @schwiftynat ปีที่แล้ว +87

      that would be awful, sorry he’s so boring😭

    • @ifureadingthisdie
      @ifureadingthisdie ปีที่แล้ว +45

      he’s so cringe 😭

    • @prettywhenicryx
      @prettywhenicryx ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@schwiftynat how lmaoo hes funny

    • @prettywhenicryx
      @prettywhenicryx ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ifureadingthisdie how😭

  • @kita476
    @kita476 ปีที่แล้ว +3232

    If they ever do it again they need to give them actual games and things to do in the box... Especially things that will help develope conversation.

    • @AlinaGarib
      @AlinaGarib ปีที่แล้ว +364

      They also definitely need to make the box bigger and have comfortable seating this is like unethical I feel like it wouldn’t pass a board lmfaoo

    • @Grade.patrick
      @Grade.patrick ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im pretty sure they did make another one, no?

    • @carefreelivingg16
      @carefreelivingg16 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      We are not really strangers card game

    • @Wraiven22
      @Wraiven22 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Yeah there are SO many cool 2 player party games that would have made this so much more interesting and fostered interesting, complex discussions on topics like philosophy, politics, hobbies, etc. They really wanted this to be as painful as possible.

    • @batsbatsghost8757
      @batsbatsghost8757 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love the idea of games. Less of a chance to just talk AT someone.

  • @birdie7910
    @birdie7910 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    16:58 That’s crazy bc they did not give ANY context for that. She actually asked the producers to tell him to stop touching her without her consenting when he went to the bathroom bc she was uncomfortable af and he kept doing it without asking

  • @HuntsASMR
    @HuntsASMR ปีที่แล้ว +6269

    my back would hurt so bad in there, hopefully after the 5 hours mark i’d be comfortable enough to ask for a back massage

    • @kaynkayn9870
      @kaynkayn9870 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      Ill lie down and say fk it. Talk to me or not, im lying down.

    • @edamame6363
      @edamame6363 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Im gonna watch one of your videos after this one!! I love asmr

    • @HuntsASMR
      @HuntsASMR ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@edamame6363 AWWW that’s so sweet🖤🖤🖤🥺✨ thank you!!!

    • @catsforcomms1952
      @catsforcomms1952 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally was looking for this comment because me too

    • @immacroftbro945
      @immacroftbro945 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i would really want a couch or bed to or something soft to lay on, that would be so uncomfortable

  • @salemhopson7676
    @salemhopson7676 ปีที่แล้ว +4875

    Im so in love with everything this girl says and does. Shes so firm in her boundaries and i found a lot of joy in many of the things she said. She mentioned finding happiness in a lot of things, and i think ill try and apply this for myself. I hope shes having a great day.

    • @monicaisreallycool3904
      @monicaisreallycool3904 ปีที่แล้ว +278

      I really loved her too. But she wasn’t very firm in her boundaries. She was obviously uncomfortable when he kept touching her but wasn’t able to tell him that. But I think that has more to do with women not wanting to “cause a scene” or “make other uncomfortable” despite women being uncomfortable. It’s a bummer she got paired up with a guy like that

    • @aspenisthebest
      @aspenisthebest ปีที่แล้ว +87

      she's my hero. There is no way I would have been able to say no when he dared to kiss because I'd be too afraid that I'd ruin the mood and be seen as a stuck-up *itch. That's why guys shouldn't put a girl in that position

    • @rose-yeah
      @rose-yeah ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aspenisthebestyou clearly have self esteem issues. You need to learn how to say f other people’s mood and what they say, when you are uncomfortable, you are uncomfortable. You should put your yourself first. I actually have this problem but I’m trying to unlearn it. You can try too. You actually have to because honey, there are so many evil people out there who would use you when they see you this way.

    • @-Fallen_Petals-
      @-Fallen_Petals- ปีที่แล้ว +76

      ​@monicaisreallycool3904 I saw another comment stating in the full video she asked the producers to tell him to stop touching her (while he was in the bathroom) so it's definitely because saying that stuff towards the person itself is nerve wracking

    • @gilly_axolotl
      @gilly_axolotl ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@monicaisreallycool3904I was about to say this. Like girl use your words, shit

  • @daydreamers8254
    @daydreamers8254 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    24:22 dude is STILL talking bout fuckin feet when he clearly heard her say she does NOT LIKE FEET
    broooooooooooo

  • @laylahassomethingtosay
    @laylahassomethingtosay ปีที่แล้ว +5512

    *PSA* for the few guys I see wondering why the comments are generally against Kwan: Ninety percent of the problem is he just comes on too strong (shot at 10:00 says it all). I'd already be uncomfortable to be put in a small box with a stranger for so long, but if he kept on bringing the conversation back to sex/kissing and continually trying to initiate physical contact _despite no reciprocation_, I'd be at least a little bit scared. The impetus of the problem is a lack of chemistry that manifests in a cycle of her withdrawing and him overstepping, but the problem itself is the dude's inability (or disinterest) to gauge how she feels and adjust accordingly.
    Taken out of context, nothing he's doing/trying to do is inherently wrong or bad. There is nothing inherently predatory about being attracted to someone and wanting to further your relationship with them. You just have to make sure that they _enthusiastically_ want the same thing and *be okay with pulling back/walking away if they don't.*

    • @HaiTharImDavid
      @HaiTharImDavid ปีที่แล้ว +233

      Well said.

    • @parkercolby
      @parkercolby ปีที่แล้ว +116

      I never comment or reply but well said sir

    • @doofwarrior5116
      @doofwarrior5116 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      *Noel's nerd voice: "The impetus of the problem 🤓"

    • @itslingling
      @itslingling ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Timestamp is accurate ya

    • @lilbun420
      @lilbun420 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      said perfectly

  • @willhatfield362
    @willhatfield362 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    A producer having to tell you to ask permission to touch someone is wild

  • @Leah-iy7hn
    @Leah-iy7hn ปีที่แล้ว +496

    I’m so glad she kept her boundaries firm. He’s a hot mess and needs alot of work 😂

    • @cjbabalos7188
      @cjbabalos7188 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I hope he watches the 12 hour version in a year again.....
      He made even the thumb wrestling award n secsual let alone the foot things.
      He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer.
      He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅
      He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though.
      Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅

  • @katienelson1073
    @katienelson1073 ปีที่แล้ว +975

    so what we've learned today is it probably took about 6 hours for the oceangate ceo to suggest hooking up

    • @bumblebeebrass164
      @bumblebeebrass164 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Hahahhahahahahaha

    • @ProStateExaminer
      @ProStateExaminer ปีที่แล้ว +35

      God damn it I'm definitely going to hell for laughing out loud at this. That's a good one.

    • @nexithedestroyer
      @nexithedestroyer ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Funniest comment I've ever read genuinely

    • @Meg-cc6yc
      @Meg-cc6yc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LMAOOO

    • @Meg-cc6yc
      @Meg-cc6yc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love that I laughed

  • @maddiedo6391
    @maddiedo6391 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Cody's so right abt farting on a date. Esp being in a BOX with the other person. My ass would be clenched the whole time. The mental and physical pressure bro.

  • @Pyrozoid
    @Pyrozoid ปีที่แล้ว +1364

    God I appreciate whoever that was who said to ask for permission before touching .... it physically hurt to see that.

    • @alexshaw8167
      @alexshaw8167 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      “So uhhh we probably could’ve done this better…” lmao

    • @namoa8202
      @namoa8202 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Definitely should of been told to the contestants before tho, they didn't cause it was so obvious

    • @onotario4329
      @onotario4329 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      I think it’s just funny that they decided to keep that footage in the final production of the video. They coulda told them privately but the editors decided to intentionally leave the clip in so it just looks like bro is going out sad ☠️

    • @xxsvart
      @xxsvart ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@namoa8202It is basic consent rules to ask someone before touching them. Lol

    • @whitneyhendrix8075
      @whitneyhendrix8075 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@namoa8202they shouldn’t have to tell them

  • @finnrichardson411
    @finnrichardson411 ปีที่แล้ว +815

    In genuine shock after he just walked outside, obviously there’s a door and a window right there but I never fathomed he would just leave me like that

    • @nyahmonkee10
      @nyahmonkee10 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      dogs be like:

    • @99centlips
      @99centlips ปีที่แล้ว +5

      so who was in the backyard 🤣

    • @Amira-z6k
      @Amira-z6k ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I felt so lonely for those ten seconds

  • @taylynnM556
    @taylynnM556 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    someone get the guy with the chest tattoo on this show because whoever could last 12 hours in a box with him talking about chest tats all day should win an award

    • @chaotix7275
      @chaotix7275 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Im pretty sure entirety of Cut would go to prison for commiting a war crime.

  • @chiyowee2721
    @chiyowee2721 ปีที่แล้ว +995

    Hearing Cody react to the girl's story about the facebook account made me realize I really want him to do a whole video on just reacting to r/AITA posts

    • @gregothy9190
      @gregothy9190 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please God no

    • @Death-999
      @Death-999 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I don't want a video of cody reacting to fairy tales.

    • @chiyowee2721
      @chiyowee2721 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Death-999 well we all know from the karen videos he'd believe all of them regardless

  • @MG-pj2oo
    @MG-pj2oo ปีที่แล้ว +4002

    I'm in a miserable stage of life under miserable circumstances, and i swear, this channel is the only one that can always makes me laugh like a hyena. Many thanks, Cody

    • @yassdoppieyass78
      @yassdoppieyass78 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Hope it gets better for you man🙏

    • @_ego_____
      @_ego_____ ปีที่แล้ว +80

      me too man❤️ just keep finding these to keep yourself distracted…

    • @BeenDead
      @BeenDead ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Things will improve for you soon, I'm sure of it. Keep your head up, buddy!

    • @marie9524
      @marie9524 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Keep pushing 🖤I hope everything works out for you

    • @HuntsASMR
      @HuntsASMR ปีที่แล้ว +30

      me too babes!! you’re not alone ❤ glad we can both enjoy cody together

  • @sallyculbertson7692
    @sallyculbertson7692 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I used to work for Khrystle! She was one of the sweetest coolest managers I’ve ever had. So surreal seeing her on here, I worked with her during the time this was filmed and had no idea

  • @chloeturner4040
    @chloeturner4040 ปีที่แล้ว +9555

    this was so brutal tho and an amazing example of how women are expected to shoulder men’s emotions and do it naturally and instinctually because it’s what’s always been expected of us. i’m sure he came out of there feeling refreshed while she left drained.

    • @imenbakir9466
      @imenbakir9466 ปีที่แล้ว +1115

      I was thinking the exact same thing, he was using her as a therapist

    • @Wertys
      @Wertys ปีที่แล้ว +412

      Ding ding ding, perfect comment

    • @ligokleftis
      @ligokleftis ปีที่แล้ว +1309

      exactly. that’s why he kept liking her more and she kept liking him less. it was something new and exciting for him to be listened to and coddled for 12 hours, but for her it’s just another needy man. he didn’t really care about her or like her, he just liked that he got to tell her about himself and feel some kind of intimacy.

    • @NotHeatherHunt
      @NotHeatherHunt ปีที่แล้ว +55

      This was my exact thought

    • @TheMindofagenius1
      @TheMindofagenius1 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      If that indeed were the case (him leaving refreshed and her leaving drained), that's literally just introvert vs extrovert things! As an introvert, hanging out for 10 hours on the usual with my BESTEST friends, leaves me SO drained I feel physically ill the next day, whether we talk about deep emotional shit or just random games/anime/everyday life shit, it still physically drains me all the same **shrug**

  • @fukro7557
    @fukro7557 ปีที่แล้ว +4236

    I love how cody doesn't realize people can watch the 12 hour version in a few sittings instead of going full 12 hours in one day

    • @justmaverick985
      @justmaverick985 ปีที่แล้ว +218

      honestly even more sad if you're taking time out of your day to return to the video and finish it

    • @Blazee2897
      @Blazee2897 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Please touch some grass. 😂

    • @fukro7557
      @fukro7557 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@Blazee2897 why should I touch grass? I didn't say anything ridiculous

    • @Blazee2897
      @Blazee2897 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@fukro7557 Bcos you clearly sound like somebody who would watch 12 hours of this content.

    • @fukro7557
      @fukro7557 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@Blazee2897 well I wouldn't. I just have common sense and if I had to watch a 12 hour video I'd watch it piece by piece and not in one day

  • @Gracie_19200
    @Gracie_19200 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I liked this girl. She seemed like a good person. And she’s so pretty. She seemed genuine. Whoever she ends up with would be lucky. And I feel like SOMEONE out there has to have seen this video and be perfect for her 😂

  • @Rizza.
    @Rizza. ปีที่แล้ว +5664

    HOW MANY HOURS DID THEY LET THIS POOR GIRL SIT IN THERE BEFORE TELLING HIM TO ASK PERMISSION BEFORE TOUCHING HER LMFAO
    Eta: for the record this comment was left because I thought it was funny - I don't think they're at fault, the girl was fully capable of using her words when she needed to which she did. I don't blame the producers at all and it's kind of crazy to. The end.

    • @garnetBUNNIES
      @garnetBUNNIES ปีที่แล้ว +246

      Poor girl 😭

    • @Alex-cw3rz
      @Alex-cw3rz ปีที่แล้ว +777

      The fact that everytime he lay his head on her, her opinion of the date went down, should have been a hint, even if they didn't notice how uncomfortable she already was. Then not surprisingly after the Cut team stepped in her rating went up after he stopped touching her.

    • @phospadparadschaa
      @phospadparadschaa ปีที่แล้ว +402

      @@Alex-cw3rz ive noticed a few times that the team at Cut doesn't "cut" in soon enough when someone starts touching another person without consent or behaving innapropriately. They wait for a little longer than they should, and they leave the moments in the final video, which makes me think some aspect of that is exploitative.

    • @Alex-cw3rz
      @Alex-cw3rz ปีที่แล้ว +283

      @WinWinWoo because imagine how awkward it would be to sit in a box for 10 hours after you got into a confrontation with him, that is why she didn't do it. "Can't read her mind" it's plastered across her face that she is uncomfortable.

    • @phospadparadschaa
      @phospadparadschaa ปีที่แล้ว +161

      @WinWinWoo because she's stuck in a room with him for 12 hours and even gentle rejection would make the remaining time awkward

  • @allison8076
    @allison8076 ปีที่แล้ว +1460

    I could have told you immediately why they don't make these anymore. And it became more and more clear.

    • @blueberries408
      @blueberries408 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      have you watched any of the other ones? i'm curious if there's one where the people actually ended up both liking each other at the end

    • @Kbunny143
      @Kbunny143 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@blueberries408 their was a pair who took a nap in the box

    • @goahdejen6176
      @goahdejen6176 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      nah the next one was super wholesome and happy

  • @samgomez9942
    @samgomez9942 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I don't care if I'm trapped with the most attractive, charismatic, funny, intelligent, person in the world. 12 hours in a box with nothing but another person is insane.

  • @katherinec4360
    @katherinec4360 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    I asked that "bad sex" question to a Facebook group once hoping for stories like vomiting stories and it ended up being a bunch of assault stories.. that question can get really dark lol

  • @JoeMenjivar
    @JoeMenjivar ปีที่แล้ว +1727

    This guy goes straight into the abominable vibes hall of fame

    • @finno3677
      @finno3677 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      You can feel that he’s used to alcohol doing the job for him

    • @jonaswolterstorff3460
      @jonaswolterstorff3460 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I lowkey feel weird for not feeling that way now. I thought he was ok.
      Maybe I’m him?
      Please tell me some red flags of his behavior, just so that I can become a better person/dater?

    • @manateemambo
      @manateemambo ปีที่แล้ว +165

      ​@@jonaswolterstorff3460pretty much every time he touched her,l or scooted closer was weird. Given that it's such an uncomfortable circumstance to begin with, if I were him, I would have avoided touching her at all unless she initiated. Also, he wouldn't stop bringing up sex.

    • @jacobrobles6584
      @jacobrobles6584 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@jonaswolterstorff3460 bro how did you not see anything wrong with him💀 he was a straight weirdooo

    • @bryston931
      @bryston931 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Also seemed like he hadn't really done a whole lot of introspection in his life. He didn't understand himself. He wasn't genuine because he couldn't be.

  • @cagla3360
    @cagla3360 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I love zade's editing SOOOO MUCHHH!! he really adds more fun to every video. and I am so happy that Cody lets him edit the way zade wants and add in jokes :)

  • @spencerrichmond5845
    @spencerrichmond5845 ปีที่แล้ว +469

    Cody causally going to the backyard to talk to the ghostbusters he hired had me dead

    • @NotHeatherHunt
      @NotHeatherHunt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought it was a gardener and he was telling them to be quiet lmao

    • @cherrysIushie
      @cherrysIushie ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@NotHeatherHuntthat would be so rude

    • @NotHeatherHunt
      @NotHeatherHunt ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cherrysIushie I know! I was so socked that he would do that 😂😂

    • @foxfire1112
      @foxfire1112 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cherrysIushie Asking him to work another area while he's recording is rude?

  • @gibbyisme
    @gibbyisme ปีที่แล้ว +473

    Bro they need to bring that girl back for something if they haven’t already. She is SO cute with her lil giggles and I love how self aware she seems to be! Also, side note, I loved how the producer advocated to ask for permission before touching, but didn’t single the guy out. Everybody in the room understood why the producer said what he said, yet nobody got personally spotlit. Love that! Either of them very easily could have felt pressure to not say anything, but even MORE pressure than normal due to possibly being scared of getting judgement in comments and with a big camera in their faces. Props to the girl for (as far as I can tell) being herself, and to the producer! About the guy in the box, I think that he’s fine, just too emotionally.. loose? I guess is the word? I don’t know, childish? Just compared to her I dunno. She’s well spoken and eloquent- like she knows what she wants to say and she speaks it smoothly.. and he’s.. horny. Lol. Anyway, she seems like fun to be around. :)

    • @emidal05
      @emidal05 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      “And he’s horny” 😂

  • @pippiman
    @pippiman ปีที่แล้ว +170

    watching him giggle getting his feet tickled physically sent shivers down my spine

    • @dddripz
      @dddripz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ☝️🤓

  • @MavidG
    @MavidG ปีที่แล้ว +475

    I didn’t expect the box to be this small. So I’m gonna occupy the entire length of it.

  • @mackenziebeaulieu6548
    @mackenziebeaulieu6548 ปีที่แล้ว +852

    You can’t tell me this guy wasn’t drinking in the bathroom LOL. Wanted alcohol, went to the bathroom twice and second time came back feeling waaay more cozy 😂

    • @evetterazzak9367
      @evetterazzak9367 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      was looking for this comment lol

    • @patrickburk5668
      @patrickburk5668 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m willing to bet money he was beating his 🥩

  • @fanoftoast
    @fanoftoast ปีที่แล้ว +86

    THE KENERGY FROM THIS MAN. The whole ass time I was like dear god give her space.

  • @Thesarcasticdom
    @Thesarcasticdom ปีที่แล้ว +512

    The full 12 hour cut is what I imagine gets sold on the dark web lmao like what the hell😭

  • @gabbyf8924
    @gabbyf8924 ปีที่แล้ว +475

    honestly one of the most interesting videos i’ve seen from cut. i really want to watch the other one they did but there’s no way i will without codys commentary (cody pls do this again)

    • @karinacabrera4724
      @karinacabrera4724 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      BOOST

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fr I need a filter to watch these videos and Cody always says what I'm thinking

  • @fishh3ad
    @fishh3ad ปีที่แล้ว +654

    This guy is Not socially unaware, or immature or whatever. He knows exactly what hes doing. Every single thing he does is pushing. Its upsetting to watch and difficult to put into words but this man sets off every single alarm bell I have. I don't know if what hes doing has a name, but its strategic and predatory. Gross men use this tactic as a lead up to SA. Hes learning what makes her uncomfortable and seeing how she reacts to those boundaries being pushed

    • @fishh3ad
      @fishh3ad ปีที่แล้ว +165

      He slowly pushes further and further till the producers have to step in or she gives a hard no. If they weren't there he would've kept going, trying to work his way around the nos. The thumb war is a perfect example. She said feet gross her out in the beginning and by the end he's pushed and prodded her into giving him a foot massage she's clearly has no desire to give. Men like this are dangerous.

    • @nathangaspacio6128
      @nathangaspacio6128 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I think it's the exact opposite. The problem is that he isn't aware of the fact he is taking up wayy too much space, not showing interest in her, pushing boundaries, etc. If we treat it like these people do it on purpose, it would assume they are aware of what they are doing. I think if they are aware of what they are doing we would see it a lot less. I think he thinks he's just using game to get closer to her and that this is what he should be doing.
      Not doing it on purpose doesn't absolve him of responsiblility, he is still being negligent in his actions, but it's important that people like this are educated or become aware some way or another so that they don't continue to act like this.

    • @esmeecampbell7396
      @esmeecampbell7396 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You're not a detective and could be way off the mark, she had 12 hours to get that impression and was free to leave and didn't... 🤷
      You throwing around wild accusations is dangerous.

    • @KreeZafi
      @KreeZafi ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Idk fam, I tend to live by the idea that you should not ascribe malice to that which is adequately explained by ignorance. I definitely think it seems more than likely that he really is just unaware. This seems to be the case with a lot of men lacking the ability to interpret situations. Just look at how many of them will perceive any kindness or basic politeness as interest/flirtation - even from people like cashiers and waitresses whose JOB it is to be nice to them. I'm pretty sure I've also heard that studies show men tend to overestimate women's interest in them, while women tend to underestimate men's interest in them. Furthermore there seems to be a phenomenon where men think their advances are more wanted than they actually are because THEY would want those advances themselves. See how for instance women are bothered by catcalling and unsolicited compliments whereas men are often really excited by it, so they (sometimes, obviously not always) genuinely think they're doing something good because they themselves would appreciate being on the receiving end of the interaction. So like, yeah, I think it's entirely believable that he and men like him aren't pursuing some malicious goal, they're genuinely just unaware of how negatively their actions are perceived.

    • @esmeecampbell7396
      @esmeecampbell7396 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@KreeZafi Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars

  • @Shirumoon
    @Shirumoon ปีที่แล้ว +352

    Part of the reason I love Cody's dating reaction videos is his emotional intelligence. He's SO good at reading body language, seeing when someone's fake and when they're genuine and much more. I feel like a lot of people don't have that ability and it's fascinating to witness. I feel like I'm learning something here lol

  • @Digbyproductions
    @Digbyproductions ปีที่แล้ว +139

    i feel like in any box video the woman will always become the mans therapist, because men never talk in depth about their feelings like women do and it's a shock to them.

  • @carefreelivingg16
    @carefreelivingg16 ปีที่แล้ว +662

    Cody is literally the standard I wanna set for any guy I date he is so emotionally intelligent as well as just super traditionally smart as well. He is the blue print I swear 😭

  • @spencerrichmond5845
    @spencerrichmond5845 ปีที่แล้ว +797

    30 mins of Cody while eating lunch before work is my therapy

    • @Kit-ux4vp
      @Kit-ux4vp ปีที่แล้ว +2

      also eating lunch rn lol

    • @rpg500e
      @rpg500e ปีที่แล้ว

      Cool but people should also do REAL therapy

    • @露-p6r
      @露-p6r ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@rpg500enah 😎 we do Cody

    • @phe.mp3
      @phe.mp3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rpg500eluckily it’s a joke bud

  • @karrote8308
    @karrote8308 ปีที่แล้ว +2189

    cody&ko, i just love it. hes just being silly goofy and it feeds my dumb little brain

    • @TheeOnlyStolas
      @TheeOnlyStolas ปีที่แล้ว

      Dumb would definitely describe you

    • @Timman57
      @Timman57 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Self hating bot? Lol

    • @Touchedly
      @Touchedly ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Timman57 shes just being silly and goofy to feed her dumb little brain

    • @EffYouMan
      @EffYouMan ปีที่แล้ว

      Whos silly?

    • @noordurranimusic
      @noordurranimusic ปีที่แล้ว

      .

  • @Shutsuki
    @Shutsuki ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I’m in shock how much he was falling for her, and pushing her to that direction too. It feels like getting to know a cool, honest, deconstructed woman who knows who she is and what she wants is so atypical for him. He even said it a bunch of times himself. It was pretty hard for them to connect at the same frequency.
    He felt a “True connection” because he was able to be genuine with her, while I’m certain she has this type of honest, vulnerable interactions with others, without needing to spend 12 straight hours with them to open up and share her feelings.
    Therapy is so important, folks, if you ever think you need to deal with traumatic shit that’s making your present life harder than it should, do not hesitate and ask for help.
    There IS a brighter, truer, and freer tomorrow where we can all be our most genuine selves.

    • @jorgitoislamico4224
      @jorgitoislamico4224 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please never use the word deconstructed with that meaning again

  • @buzzyb13
    @buzzyb13 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    I love how dude started braiding her hair, then the producers hit us with a time lapse like we were about to witness a master in his element, only to see homegirls hair was no different at the end of it. 😂

    • @cjbabalos7188
      @cjbabalos7188 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I was shook.... he really just play braided it.... so touchy for no results!!

    • @buzzyb13
      @buzzyb13 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@cjbabalos7188 right?? 😅 I would love to hear her thoughts on that whole situation because I bet she thought that shit was wild. 😂

    • @abc123you
      @abc123you ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They probably didn't have a hair band so it unraveld on its own

    • @buzzyb13
      @buzzyb13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@abc123you Doubtful, firstly because there are plenty of ways to braid hair effectively without hair ties, and secondly because wouldn't you think of that BEFORE you start messing with someone's hair?? 😅 Look, the way I see it, you simply don't mess with a woman's hair unless you A.) are in a relationship with them, B.) are close friends/family to them, or C.) are their hair stylist in a professional setting lol. I sincerely believe there are no other exceptions. 😂

    • @helena5442
      @helena5442 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stepping out with cornrows in the front and box braids in the back lol.

  • @kayri687
    @kayri687 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    "you're in a box on youtube that probably isn't the best place to be looking for a serious relationship." such a good quote

  • @lilil5871
    @lilil5871 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    i love how cody doesn’t even consider people watching the uncut 12 hour version in several sittings rather than just 12 hours straight

    • @Thomas-ps9qk
      @Thomas-ps9qk ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s still not normal.

    • @Tata-ye5jt
      @Tata-ye5jt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Thomas-ps9qkits like watching episodes ina show

  • @thecatlimitdoesnotexist
    @thecatlimitdoesnotexist ปีที่แล้ว +89

    The body language when they’re just sitting there in the box at the beginning. The girl looks so uncomfortable. She’s got her legs crossed, arms crossed in front of her, hoodie piled on her lap. Maybe it’s the awkwardness of the box that’s contributing to it but still…idk if I could ever do this for more than an hour let alone 12 HOURS!

    • @thingl7859
      @thingl7859 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I'd be uncomfortable being in a box with a man constantly touching me, talking about foot fetish,, my sex life, and trying to kiss me. He's weird asf!

    • @NotHeatherHunt
      @NotHeatherHunt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And in JEANS! That's like my personal hell lol

    • @99centlips
      @99centlips ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i thought it would be at least a room! and plus your butt would hurt after 12 hours of sitting in hard plastic

  • @oliviapasquarelli99
    @oliviapasquarelli99 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    So they held two random strangers hostage in a confined space to see what would happen? Next video on the Cut is gonna be “Russian Sleep Experiment, Day 4 with my Blind Date”

    • @rynnie6794
      @rynnie6794 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LMFAO

    • @chaotix7275
      @chaotix7275 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Great idea. I would also love to see day 7, tweaking on meth with my date.

    • @johnmuselmann7886
      @johnmuselmann7886 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chaotix7275the start of every great Florida love story

    • @oliviapasquarelli99
      @oliviapasquarelli99 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It would be a great series. “Russian Sleep Experiment Blind Date: Day 15 (I eat her)”

  • @JoshPhoenix11
    @JoshPhoenix11 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She's so genuine and open because she's had a 5 1/2 yr before and he's only had a 10 month.
    Its not something thats ever talked about but theres a huge incompatibly with someone who's had a longterm relationship and someone who hasn't. Unless the short term person comes to have an understanding of the mindset the longterm person is coming from. And the longterm is able to make the adjustments needed and have the patience, though the short term person would have to be showing signs that they are mature enough. The long termer will be able to see right through them if they're not.
    The guy in this video is indicating this difference when he said she isn't like other girls he's dated.
    And how much he was able to be open with her because thats just what she's used to.
    So you can tell he's never dated someone whos been in a relationship for that long.
    And the first red flag for her was that he hadn't been in a long term relationship.
    That would be her biggest concern. And him laughing like he did when she said that was the worst thing the fool could had done.
    He cant put anything over her like he thinks he can.
    Relationship maturity level is not even a thing anyone mentions, at least not in this regard of length differences. And its something short termers don't even know exists.
    And they wouldn't even have the capacity and mindset to see how they lack maturity in that area, relative to the long term person. Long termers see the games short term people play like they're someone still in diapers. But if they can see signs that a person is responding and is wanting to be real, the long termer will have all the patients in the world for them, if they're genuine.
    So I guess the long termer has less if not zero tolerance for bs, but a way higher capacity to allow for the growth of their partner, if the partner is ready for it and on the same page.

  • @laynabeth3493
    @laynabeth3493 ปีที่แล้ว +1993

    cody: “no one wants to go on a date for twelve hours”
    uhaul lesbians: 👀👀👀

    • @oliviastrom2590
      @oliviastrom2590 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      was about to say, this is just the standard lesbian date

    • @toweliethetowel135
      @toweliethetowel135 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      And moving together right after that 😅

    • @doro2597
      @doro2597 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      i was just thinking they should do this with lesbians i feel like it would be a whole different vibe

    • @loubunny1
      @loubunny1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      literally I said this out loud when he said that hahahah

    • @joyg95
      @joyg95 ปีที่แล้ว

      What the fuck is a uhaul lesbian

  • @renweeden2576
    @renweeden2576 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Her: Im super busy
    *sits in a box for 12 hours*

  • @alyssacantrill22
    @alyssacantrill22 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    the producer gets a gold star for telling this dude to keep his hands to himself. i was thinking that the whole time, he was sooooo touchy feely and not once did he ask for her permission, ick.

  • @Maudtattoos
    @Maudtattoos ปีที่แล้ว +57

    The yassified Cody after he turned off the light got me lmao

  • @gabeminson
    @gabeminson ปีที่แล้ว +323

    love long cut reaction vids whenever they’re 25+ mins im HOOKED IMMEDIATELY

  • @sarahw.1422
    @sarahw.1422 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Maybe I'm sick but I would 100% do a platonic version of this

    • @marijanedoe
      @marijanedoe ปีที่แล้ว +4

      me toooo

    • @samnelson7428
      @samnelson7428 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeah that'd be fun stress free

  • @Reem.H.A
    @Reem.H.A ปีที่แล้ว +110

    this poor girl was so very clearly uncomfortable

  • @actuallydudethatwouldbesal7644
    @actuallydudethatwouldbesal7644 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    I really hate the guy they did this with, I wish they’d do it with a guy who isn’t constantly trying to touch a girl who is visibly uncomfortable. Like I genuinely think she would have enjoyed this experience if he had just been respectful of her boundaries

    • @tonyisnotdead
      @tonyisnotdead ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if she was uncomfortable his rating wouldn't have gone up

    • @actuallydudethatwouldbesal7644
      @actuallydudethatwouldbesal7644 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@tonyisnotdead I assume you meant her rating because that made no sense. Either way, you clearly don’t know much about women or social cues as she was obviously uncomfortable💀 great, her rating went from a 4 to a 5 or whatever it was, that still means she’s not really having a good time. The fact that they actually had to tell him that he needs to stop touching her without her consent is enough to know there’s a problem, he was gross and weird.

    • @thingl7859
      @thingl7859 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@tonyisnotdeadyou don't know anything about women. She did that cause she was afraid. Girls smile in fear and a lot of us try to do damage control to try to ease uncomfortable situations. She likely did it to just keep him at bay. She was probably worried she'd retaliate or get more pressuring if she lowered it.

    • @tonyisnotdead
      @tonyisnotdead ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@actuallydudethatwouldbesal7644 her rating went up, which means that she was starting to like him more regardless of the touching

    • @actuallydudethatwouldbesal7644
      @actuallydudethatwouldbesal7644 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@tonyisnotdead or maybe it was for other reasons and she still dislikes the touching which is why her rating stayed very low?? That is the obvious conclusion, not sure why you’re defending him when she has visible expressions and body language EVERY time he initiates physical contact that suggest she is uncomfortable.

  • @Woahravioli
    @Woahravioli 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    HAHAHA “IM GUNNA TURN OFF THESE LIGHTS BC THEY MAKE ME LOOK BAD” 😂😂😂😂😂 PLZZZZZZZZZ IM WHEEZING

  • @alexissalyers5850
    @alexissalyers5850 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    the way that shes trying to hide in a corner while hes constantly touching her and laying on her

  • @yunabean
    @yunabean ปีที่แล้ว +244

    asking her how many “dates it takes” for her to sleep with someone is so sinister lmao ew. it’s like “tell me how to manipulate you” when guys ask you what kind of guy you’re looking for, etc. ew ew ew

    • @dddripz
      @dddripz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No it’s not. Get a life and stop psychoanalyzing people on the internet ew ew ew ew

    • @bararobberbaron859
      @bararobberbaron859 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Realize your comment is 6 months old, but that's what gets me too. Like, intimacy happens when its right for both parties and consented to by both parties. Sometimes its 3 dates, sometimes its 3 months. People are different and 90% of a relationship happens outside of the X rated activities. Imo the relationship is the goal, the physical intimacy the cherry on top. If you go in just for the touch and you feel like you have to suffer through 90% of fluff to get there, and you need to know 'how many dates it takes', you shouldn't be dating. Find $300 and find a lady of the night honestly.

  • @autumnal2894
    @autumnal2894 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    he doesnt realize but he keeps asking her to be his therapist

  • @_guillermo
    @_guillermo ปีที่แล้ว +310

    I’d spend 12 hours in a box with Nut

  • @jeanettejeanette1199
    @jeanettejeanette1199 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    My husband and I met for the first time on our first date, and we spent a full 24 hours together haha we were just having so much fun hanging out, we stayed up all night driving and talking and eating :) We've been together now 10 years, are married and have a beautiful baby boy :)

    • @myaaaxchavez
      @myaaaxchavez ปีที่แล้ว +12

      that’s so sweet! me and my boyfriend met for the first time on our first date (we had known each other for a few months online beforehand) and spent 3 days together! i hope someday we’ll end up like you guys. :)

    • @jeanettejeanette1199
      @jeanettejeanette1199 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@myaaaxchavez I love that :) I think it can be the best way to get to know someone. It sounds like you guys started out with a strong connection, which to me is a good sign. I knew my husband was my soulmate when we first met, because when we met it felt like we knew each other for ages, it felt so comfortable that we didn't mind spending so much time together. It sounds like you guys have a similar connection :) It probably won't be long before you hear the sound of Wedding bells, and then the pitter patter of tiny feet :)

  • @chasepadgett4221
    @chasepadgett4221 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was BRUTAL fumble. That being said, she is quite pleasant. He doesn't read boundaries at all.

  • @kristennoyes2188
    @kristennoyes2188 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Cody has been PUMPING out the content and I love it!! Keep it up dude I love watching your stuff

  • @first_ones_free6556
    @first_ones_free6556 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    HOLY SHIT THAT WAS LIKE RELIVING YOUR WORST DATE FOR 12 HOURS HOLY SHIT
    Its hilarious that it got better after some of the sauce.

  • @ulyerabrooks
    @ulyerabrooks ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Seeing Cody physically uncomfortable from the cringe is so funny

  • @sillyaurora
    @sillyaurora ปีที่แล้ว +228

    They should do a mixture of this and the button, where they use the button process first to select the two people then they’re in the box together after. Ooh and maybe the button is in the box with them egging them on with awkward questions like it always does.

    • @rpg500e
      @rpg500e ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was thinking the first part you said towards the end of the video, but I like your inclusion of the button IN the box. Genius!

  • @afterg1ow
    @afterg1ow ปีที่แล้ว +59

    i feel like the guy kept trying to manipulate her if that makes sense, when he said sad shit abt himself i felt like he was lying or exaggerating things 😭. when he said like ‘i’m hard on myself i don’t celebrate my birthday’ it fully sounded like me in middle school ☠️

    • @idunno5442
      @idunno5442 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      trying to get the girls approval and sympathy

  • @Fyrecide
    @Fyrecide 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Absolutely brutal. My guy doesn’t read body language well. The permission thing was only necessary because he seems clueless and is just taking shots in the dark. Everything about her demeanor is “I’m uncomfortable.”

  • @CindyCuevas
    @CindyCuevas ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The way Cody took a break to commit murder was insane