The complete lack of awareness for space was really interesting. She was pulling into herself taking up as small a space as she could and he was doing the exact opposite. Felt pretty yucky. really liked when the staff spoke up for her and made a comment about asking for physical permission.
Especially the part where he brought up seggs every 2 mins, said he absolute won’t take her advice and go to therapy (showing no growth) AND how apparently in the uncut version she asked the producers to tell him stop touching her
@@MalFatima damn that very upsetting. i hope she is doing ok bc in this video she seemed definitely seemed uncomfortable which like same i would be too.
@@asum7213it doesn’t, but if true that puts a lot more of the blame on the Cut producers. Obviously it doesn’t make what he did right. Again though “if” they were careless enough to encourage a dude that already isn’t really picking up on her cues and body language to “utilize the space better” that’s pretty fucked and is on the Cut.
Oh trust me, in 500 years they’ll think of us as evil🤣 “… and then they laughed and commented on different styles of torture. And just… went back to work!”
Nothing would have been different if it was just two people sitting on chairs in a room for 12 hours, but I guess "in a small box" must get more clicks?
@@soicancommentonvideo You do realize she was uncomfortable most of the time there. Furthermore, she probably just said yes because he would've kept asking.
@@handlethisduki Exatcly. (My friend is asking) Edit: So apparently he was making her feel uncomfortable, by being pretty pushy with almost everything he did. So yeah, he didn't respect or more likely see her boundries
He’s not genuine at all. You can see that at every moment he thinks about how he should appear. I didn’t like it, even this childhood trauma talk sounded like he just wants her to think of him as wounded. He’s a good looking guy but my rating for him would also drop a lot after he started talking
@@handlethisdukiwhaat?! quite the opposite. especially the way he kept touching her, laying on her all the time like they were a couple already or bffs. she never reciprocated but he KEPT doing it. imo she should’ve told him to stop but she was too nice.
he kept asking sex related questions, laid his head in her lap without asking, grabbed her leg without asking and kept going back on his whole foot fetish thing omfg i cannot with this dude
ive skimmed through the full version and i will say, the shortened down edited version makes him look worse. in the full thing, he still asked a few questions but so did she. the foot thing was a bit weird but aside from that he seemed fairly normal.
Mans fumbled time and time again. Couldn’t believe he tried to hit her with the “I dare you to kiss me ZaHa 😏” Cody’s fuckboy impression was in prime form here
seemed like he said that because the topic was brought up, but even if it wasnt a fetish she literally said she dint like (ugly) feet and was squirmish when the button asked him to show his 😭😭😭😭 why tf did he bring up feet several times after that??? i think id pass out if someone asked me to switch socks, let alone a fckn foot rub!! idk how she did it lmfao
The way she said she didn't like feet and he then proceeded to say he liked them, show her his feet, force her to swap socks and then force her to give him a foot massage 💀
From what I can see, he stopped touching her unprompted after they announced it, so I don't see the problem. When her legs were over his, it seemed like she was choosing for them to be there. All in all, he's just not good at reading people and either just has or has grown up with less bodily boundaries than others. Like, when he pulled her by the legs, there's so many things he could interpret such as her grimace just being from falling rather than a reaction to the touch.
@@YannickOkpara-d5l Yeah, if she would've been in a headspace where she DID want him to make a move, then he would be a suave cool guy with the right moves or whatever. The key here is CONSENT. The biggest mistake men make is trying to persuade or convince women to want them sexually when the best relationships are the ones where you are organically, magnetically attracted to each other. Yeah, a little persistence can be romantic, but this isn't it. Continuously touching a woman after she doesn't show interest in a sexual relationship is just wrong. Touching ANYONE that doesn't want to be touched is wrong. I get it, sometimes girls are flirty or whatever & play "hard to get" or whatever, but that's honestly an outdated mindset. If she wants you, she will let you know. If she doesn't, then back off. It's easy.
I would pay to see someone stuck in a box for 12 hours with the dude from the last video that dressed like an astronaut, said he saw an attempted murder and wondered why the girl was weirded out by him
Raise your hand if as a women you’ve been on a date w a man who did not understand or really care about boundaries like this man. One of the worst feelings in the world it was crazy to see this from a third perspective. The way the producer says to ask for consent and then he just lays on her.
once had a man apologize for only one of the things that crossed my verbalized boundary, then proceeded to call himself “mr. communication” while still not asking for verbal consent before touching me 🤦♀️
Of the numerous signs he had that he was fucking it up, the directors reminding him about consent has to be the most embarrassing and ridiculous. I really hope his shame helped him learn, and he sought out therapy lol
He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer. He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅 He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though. Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅
The way he kept putting his head on her lap and asking for foot rubs and kisses and shit…..I would’ve been so ashamed of myself if I were him. What bizarre and creepy behavior
This one was BRUTAL. I hope dude rewatches this several times and learns how his behavior and questions made her uncomfortable. So he can go into future dates and not make the same mistakes he made here.
@@CreativeC13there’s evil people and there’s people who don’t understand body language and other signs. there’s also people who have been socialized their entire lives to become this alpha male stereotype who gets pussy, and these people can change into genuine humans. i’m pretty sure this dude is one of the latter two, not evil. it doesn’t justify, excuse or make any of his actions any better, but in my opinion it does give him the right to a second chance, a right to learn.
He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer. He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅 He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though. Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅
I've been on a date that lasted 12 hours. We just sat and talked, and I didn't realize how much time had passed. However, sitting in such an uncomfortable, bright space like that with a blind date.. and the cameras and crew to top it off, sounds nightmarish.
I went on a first date with a woman for roughly 6 or 7 hours. It was pretty magical and she was very sweet. I tried to treat it just like a first meeting (to relax myself a bit and it was our first meeting) but she was clearly very into me the whole time and we just had fun and hung out for the most part. The most memorable date I've ever been on to be honest.
I don't have the words to explain how PERFECT this is as a representation of men and women's relationships. Lack of interest in her consent, inability to read her body language, huge gap in emotional maturity, the guy thinking the girl is a genius cause she has some basics of emotional intelligence (she was quite emotional intelligent tho, but here I mean that he reacted to very basic things), the girl laughing and him not understanding that it's cause she's feeling awkward, the guy having SO MUCH confidence, the guy taking ALL THE SPACE both physically and emotionally, him saying "I'm proud of you" as if he knew anything about her... I could go on and on for HOURS!!
What are you on about? This is not a perfect representation. This is not something most men do lmao. Ye there are lot doing this but doesn't mean they are in the majority
@@idkwhattoputheretbhbuthereIt is great if you are not like that, but many women have had similar experiences with men like this and that's worthy of recognition
And some of the comments are painting him as such a bad guy. Like dude he's just doing what he knows to work. He dates a certain type of girl and she is simply a different type of girl, so it doesn't work
@@truesingers77i will guarantee it works for him and he has probably gotten laid multiple times doing so. You may be a reserved guy but there are plenty of guys out there that are somewhat "aggressive" in their approach to picking up women and it works for them so why exactly would they change. Yall ate acting as if he grabbed her tits 😂 she could have easily asked him not to do it. Takes two to tango. If you are too scared to set boundaries with someone then thata partially on you. Not everyone is the same both male and female.
@@tyrellleach1846 given that his longest relationship was 8 months in his late 20s i would say he hasnt been all that successful lol also she asked for him not to touch her in the unedited version apparently
my ex boyfriend was JUST like this and it took 4 years post breakup for me to reflect back on the relationship without feeling sick to my stomach!!! I was even convinced I was asexual until I learned of relationship trauma lol
@@islabee94 in my opinion he didn’t understand when to stop pushing the topic of sex. also he’s not evil he’s just hypersexual and she’s not so it’s not a healthy partnership.
Lol the fact that she was very open and blatant about not seeing him as a romantic interest and in the end he's like "I can totally see us going on dates"
Yeah there are SO many cool 2 player party games that would have made this so much more interesting and fostered interesting, complex discussions on topics like philosophy, politics, hobbies, etc. They really wanted this to be as painful as possible.
16:58 That’s crazy bc they did not give ANY context for that. She actually asked the producers to tell him to stop touching her without her consenting when he went to the bathroom bc she was uncomfortable af and he kept doing it without asking
Im so in love with everything this girl says and does. Shes so firm in her boundaries and i found a lot of joy in many of the things she said. She mentioned finding happiness in a lot of things, and i think ill try and apply this for myself. I hope shes having a great day.
I really loved her too. But she wasn’t very firm in her boundaries. She was obviously uncomfortable when he kept touching her but wasn’t able to tell him that. But I think that has more to do with women not wanting to “cause a scene” or “make other uncomfortable” despite women being uncomfortable. It’s a bummer she got paired up with a guy like that
she's my hero. There is no way I would have been able to say no when he dared to kiss because I'd be too afraid that I'd ruin the mood and be seen as a stuck-up *itch. That's why guys shouldn't put a girl in that position
@@aspenisthebestyou clearly have self esteem issues. You need to learn how to say f other people’s mood and what they say, when you are uncomfortable, you are uncomfortable. You should put your yourself first. I actually have this problem but I’m trying to unlearn it. You can try too. You actually have to because honey, there are so many evil people out there who would use you when they see you this way.
@monicaisreallycool3904 I saw another comment stating in the full video she asked the producers to tell him to stop touching her (while he was in the bathroom) so it's definitely because saying that stuff towards the person itself is nerve wracking
*PSA* for the few guys I see wondering why the comments are generally against Kwan: Ninety percent of the problem is he just comes on too strong (shot at 10:00 says it all). I'd already be uncomfortable to be put in a small box with a stranger for so long, but if he kept on bringing the conversation back to sex/kissing and continually trying to initiate physical contact _despite no reciprocation_, I'd be at least a little bit scared. The impetus of the problem is a lack of chemistry that manifests in a cycle of her withdrawing and him overstepping, but the problem itself is the dude's inability (or disinterest) to gauge how she feels and adjust accordingly. Taken out of context, nothing he's doing/trying to do is inherently wrong or bad. There is nothing inherently predatory about being attracted to someone and wanting to further your relationship with them. You just have to make sure that they _enthusiastically_ want the same thing and *be okay with pulling back/walking away if they don't.*
I hope he watches the 12 hour version in a year again..... He made even the thumb wrestling award n secsual let alone the foot things. He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer. He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅 He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though. Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅
Cody's so right abt farting on a date. Esp being in a BOX with the other person. My ass would be clenched the whole time. The mental and physical pressure bro.
I think it’s just funny that they decided to keep that footage in the final production of the video. They coulda told them privately but the editors decided to intentionally leave the clip in so it just looks like bro is going out sad ☠️
someone get the guy with the chest tattoo on this show because whoever could last 12 hours in a box with him talking about chest tats all day should win an award
Hearing Cody react to the girl's story about the facebook account made me realize I really want him to do a whole video on just reacting to r/AITA posts
I'm in a miserable stage of life under miserable circumstances, and i swear, this channel is the only one that can always makes me laugh like a hyena. Many thanks, Cody
I used to work for Khrystle! She was one of the sweetest coolest managers I’ve ever had. So surreal seeing her on here, I worked with her during the time this was filmed and had no idea
this was so brutal tho and an amazing example of how women are expected to shoulder men’s emotions and do it naturally and instinctually because it’s what’s always been expected of us. i’m sure he came out of there feeling refreshed while she left drained.
exactly. that’s why he kept liking her more and she kept liking him less. it was something new and exciting for him to be listened to and coddled for 12 hours, but for her it’s just another needy man. he didn’t really care about her or like her, he just liked that he got to tell her about himself and feel some kind of intimacy.
If that indeed were the case (him leaving refreshed and her leaving drained), that's literally just introvert vs extrovert things! As an introvert, hanging out for 10 hours on the usual with my BESTEST friends, leaves me SO drained I feel physically ill the next day, whether we talk about deep emotional shit or just random games/anime/everyday life shit, it still physically drains me all the same **shrug**
I liked this girl. She seemed like a good person. And she’s so pretty. She seemed genuine. Whoever she ends up with would be lucky. And I feel like SOMEONE out there has to have seen this video and be perfect for her 😂
HOW MANY HOURS DID THEY LET THIS POOR GIRL SIT IN THERE BEFORE TELLING HIM TO ASK PERMISSION BEFORE TOUCHING HER LMFAO Eta: for the record this comment was left because I thought it was funny - I don't think they're at fault, the girl was fully capable of using her words when she needed to which she did. I don't blame the producers at all and it's kind of crazy to. The end.
The fact that everytime he lay his head on her, her opinion of the date went down, should have been a hint, even if they didn't notice how uncomfortable she already was. Then not surprisingly after the Cut team stepped in her rating went up after he stopped touching her.
@@Alex-cw3rz ive noticed a few times that the team at Cut doesn't "cut" in soon enough when someone starts touching another person without consent or behaving innapropriately. They wait for a little longer than they should, and they leave the moments in the final video, which makes me think some aspect of that is exploitative.
@WinWinWoo because imagine how awkward it would be to sit in a box for 10 hours after you got into a confrontation with him, that is why she didn't do it. "Can't read her mind" it's plastered across her face that she is uncomfortable.
I don't care if I'm trapped with the most attractive, charismatic, funny, intelligent, person in the world. 12 hours in a box with nothing but another person is insane.
I asked that "bad sex" question to a Facebook group once hoping for stories like vomiting stories and it ended up being a bunch of assault stories.. that question can get really dark lol
I lowkey feel weird for not feeling that way now. I thought he was ok. Maybe I’m him? Please tell me some red flags of his behavior, just so that I can become a better person/dater?
@@jonaswolterstorff3460pretty much every time he touched her,l or scooted closer was weird. Given that it's such an uncomfortable circumstance to begin with, if I were him, I would have avoided touching her at all unless she initiated. Also, he wouldn't stop bringing up sex.
Also seemed like he hadn't really done a whole lot of introspection in his life. He didn't understand himself. He wasn't genuine because he couldn't be.
I love zade's editing SOOOO MUCHHH!! he really adds more fun to every video. and I am so happy that Cody lets him edit the way zade wants and add in jokes :)
Bro they need to bring that girl back for something if they haven’t already. She is SO cute with her lil giggles and I love how self aware she seems to be! Also, side note, I loved how the producer advocated to ask for permission before touching, but didn’t single the guy out. Everybody in the room understood why the producer said what he said, yet nobody got personally spotlit. Love that! Either of them very easily could have felt pressure to not say anything, but even MORE pressure than normal due to possibly being scared of getting judgement in comments and with a big camera in their faces. Props to the girl for (as far as I can tell) being herself, and to the producer! About the guy in the box, I think that he’s fine, just too emotionally.. loose? I guess is the word? I don’t know, childish? Just compared to her I dunno. She’s well spoken and eloquent- like she knows what she wants to say and she speaks it smoothly.. and he’s.. horny. Lol. Anyway, she seems like fun to be around. :)
You can’t tell me this guy wasn’t drinking in the bathroom LOL. Wanted alcohol, went to the bathroom twice and second time came back feeling waaay more cozy 😂
honestly one of the most interesting videos i’ve seen from cut. i really want to watch the other one they did but there’s no way i will without codys commentary (cody pls do this again)
This guy is Not socially unaware, or immature or whatever. He knows exactly what hes doing. Every single thing he does is pushing. Its upsetting to watch and difficult to put into words but this man sets off every single alarm bell I have. I don't know if what hes doing has a name, but its strategic and predatory. Gross men use this tactic as a lead up to SA. Hes learning what makes her uncomfortable and seeing how she reacts to those boundaries being pushed
He slowly pushes further and further till the producers have to step in or she gives a hard no. If they weren't there he would've kept going, trying to work his way around the nos. The thumb war is a perfect example. She said feet gross her out in the beginning and by the end he's pushed and prodded her into giving him a foot massage she's clearly has no desire to give. Men like this are dangerous.
I think it's the exact opposite. The problem is that he isn't aware of the fact he is taking up wayy too much space, not showing interest in her, pushing boundaries, etc. If we treat it like these people do it on purpose, it would assume they are aware of what they are doing. I think if they are aware of what they are doing we would see it a lot less. I think he thinks he's just using game to get closer to her and that this is what he should be doing. Not doing it on purpose doesn't absolve him of responsiblility, he is still being negligent in his actions, but it's important that people like this are educated or become aware some way or another so that they don't continue to act like this.
You're not a detective and could be way off the mark, she had 12 hours to get that impression and was free to leave and didn't... 🤷 You throwing around wild accusations is dangerous.
Idk fam, I tend to live by the idea that you should not ascribe malice to that which is adequately explained by ignorance. I definitely think it seems more than likely that he really is just unaware. This seems to be the case with a lot of men lacking the ability to interpret situations. Just look at how many of them will perceive any kindness or basic politeness as interest/flirtation - even from people like cashiers and waitresses whose JOB it is to be nice to them. I'm pretty sure I've also heard that studies show men tend to overestimate women's interest in them, while women tend to underestimate men's interest in them. Furthermore there seems to be a phenomenon where men think their advances are more wanted than they actually are because THEY would want those advances themselves. See how for instance women are bothered by catcalling and unsolicited compliments whereas men are often really excited by it, so they (sometimes, obviously not always) genuinely think they're doing something good because they themselves would appreciate being on the receiving end of the interaction. So like, yeah, I think it's entirely believable that he and men like him aren't pursuing some malicious goal, they're genuinely just unaware of how negatively their actions are perceived.
Part of the reason I love Cody's dating reaction videos is his emotional intelligence. He's SO good at reading body language, seeing when someone's fake and when they're genuine and much more. I feel like a lot of people don't have that ability and it's fascinating to witness. I feel like I'm learning something here lol
i feel like in any box video the woman will always become the mans therapist, because men never talk in depth about their feelings like women do and it's a shock to them.
Cody is literally the standard I wanna set for any guy I date he is so emotionally intelligent as well as just super traditionally smart as well. He is the blue print I swear 😭
I’m in shock how much he was falling for her, and pushing her to that direction too. It feels like getting to know a cool, honest, deconstructed woman who knows who she is and what she wants is so atypical for him. He even said it a bunch of times himself. It was pretty hard for them to connect at the same frequency. He felt a “True connection” because he was able to be genuine with her, while I’m certain she has this type of honest, vulnerable interactions with others, without needing to spend 12 straight hours with them to open up and share her feelings. Therapy is so important, folks, if you ever think you need to deal with traumatic shit that’s making your present life harder than it should, do not hesitate and ask for help. There IS a brighter, truer, and freer tomorrow where we can all be our most genuine selves.
I love how dude started braiding her hair, then the producers hit us with a time lapse like we were about to witness a master in his element, only to see homegirls hair was no different at the end of it. 😂
@@abc123you Doubtful, firstly because there are plenty of ways to braid hair effectively without hair ties, and secondly because wouldn't you think of that BEFORE you start messing with someone's hair?? 😅 Look, the way I see it, you simply don't mess with a woman's hair unless you A.) are in a relationship with them, B.) are close friends/family to them, or C.) are their hair stylist in a professional setting lol. I sincerely believe there are no other exceptions. 😂
The body language when they’re just sitting there in the box at the beginning. The girl looks so uncomfortable. She’s got her legs crossed, arms crossed in front of her, hoodie piled on her lap. Maybe it’s the awkwardness of the box that’s contributing to it but still…idk if I could ever do this for more than an hour let alone 12 HOURS!
So they held two random strangers hostage in a confined space to see what would happen? Next video on the Cut is gonna be “Russian Sleep Experiment, Day 4 with my Blind Date”
She's so genuine and open because she's had a 5 1/2 yr before and he's only had a 10 month. Its not something thats ever talked about but theres a huge incompatibly with someone who's had a longterm relationship and someone who hasn't. Unless the short term person comes to have an understanding of the mindset the longterm person is coming from. And the longterm is able to make the adjustments needed and have the patience, though the short term person would have to be showing signs that they are mature enough. The long termer will be able to see right through them if they're not. The guy in this video is indicating this difference when he said she isn't like other girls he's dated. And how much he was able to be open with her because thats just what she's used to. So you can tell he's never dated someone whos been in a relationship for that long. And the first red flag for her was that he hadn't been in a long term relationship. That would be her biggest concern. And him laughing like he did when she said that was the worst thing the fool could had done. He cant put anything over her like he thinks he can. Relationship maturity level is not even a thing anyone mentions, at least not in this regard of length differences. And its something short termers don't even know exists. And they wouldn't even have the capacity and mindset to see how they lack maturity in that area, relative to the long term person. Long termers see the games short term people play like they're someone still in diapers. But if they can see signs that a person is responding and is wanting to be real, the long termer will have all the patients in the world for them, if they're genuine. So I guess the long termer has less if not zero tolerance for bs, but a way higher capacity to allow for the growth of their partner, if the partner is ready for it and on the same page.
the producer gets a gold star for telling this dude to keep his hands to himself. i was thinking that the whole time, he was sooooo touchy feely and not once did he ask for her permission, ick.
I really hate the guy they did this with, I wish they’d do it with a guy who isn’t constantly trying to touch a girl who is visibly uncomfortable. Like I genuinely think she would have enjoyed this experience if he had just been respectful of her boundaries
@@tonyisnotdead I assume you meant her rating because that made no sense. Either way, you clearly don’t know much about women or social cues as she was obviously uncomfortable💀 great, her rating went from a 4 to a 5 or whatever it was, that still means she’s not really having a good time. The fact that they actually had to tell him that he needs to stop touching her without her consent is enough to know there’s a problem, he was gross and weird.
@@tonyisnotdeadyou don't know anything about women. She did that cause she was afraid. Girls smile in fear and a lot of us try to do damage control to try to ease uncomfortable situations. She likely did it to just keep him at bay. She was probably worried she'd retaliate or get more pressuring if she lowered it.
@@tonyisnotdead or maybe it was for other reasons and she still dislikes the touching which is why her rating stayed very low?? That is the obvious conclusion, not sure why you’re defending him when she has visible expressions and body language EVERY time he initiates physical contact that suggest she is uncomfortable.
asking her how many “dates it takes” for her to sleep with someone is so sinister lmao ew. it’s like “tell me how to manipulate you” when guys ask you what kind of guy you’re looking for, etc. ew ew ew
Realize your comment is 6 months old, but that's what gets me too. Like, intimacy happens when its right for both parties and consented to by both parties. Sometimes its 3 dates, sometimes its 3 months. People are different and 90% of a relationship happens outside of the X rated activities. Imo the relationship is the goal, the physical intimacy the cherry on top. If you go in just for the touch and you feel like you have to suffer through 90% of fluff to get there, and you need to know 'how many dates it takes', you shouldn't be dating. Find $300 and find a lady of the night honestly.
My husband and I met for the first time on our first date, and we spent a full 24 hours together haha we were just having so much fun hanging out, we stayed up all night driving and talking and eating :) We've been together now 10 years, are married and have a beautiful baby boy :)
that’s so sweet! me and my boyfriend met for the first time on our first date (we had known each other for a few months online beforehand) and spent 3 days together! i hope someday we’ll end up like you guys. :)
@@myaaaxchavez I love that :) I think it can be the best way to get to know someone. It sounds like you guys started out with a strong connection, which to me is a good sign. I knew my husband was my soulmate when we first met, because when we met it felt like we knew each other for ages, it felt so comfortable that we didn't mind spending so much time together. It sounds like you guys have a similar connection :) It probably won't be long before you hear the sound of Wedding bells, and then the pitter patter of tiny feet :)
They should do a mixture of this and the button, where they use the button process first to select the two people then they’re in the box together after. Ooh and maybe the button is in the box with them egging them on with awkward questions like it always does.
i feel like the guy kept trying to manipulate her if that makes sense, when he said sad shit abt himself i felt like he was lying or exaggerating things 😭. when he said like ‘i’m hard on myself i don’t celebrate my birthday’ it fully sounded like me in middle school ☠️
Absolutely brutal. My guy doesn’t read body language well. The permission thing was only necessary because he seems clueless and is just taking shots in the dark. Everything about her demeanor is “I’m uncomfortable.”
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The shots of him sitting right beside her cramming her in the corner made this an even harder watch than it already was
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I think the part where he pulled her closer by the legs made me just... Oh gosh. Never felt so uncomfortable
She is so uncomfortable it'd awful to watch.
it was painful! and like every woman i know has at least one story of this happening. like give me some fucking space dude and just be normal
Your name is hard gore. The irony
It's interesting how he began liking her more as the date went on and she lost interest
Tbf I'd also lose interest if a dude grabbed my leg and kept asking about my sex life and wanting to kiss me
I wouldnt say he liked her more, he just couldnt resist the urge of pulling the moves the longer it went
He was being creepy and way too touchy which made her uncomfortable. This is weirdo behavior this isn't just "liking" the girl
@@Emilianolokocho123they mean the rating w the fingers
the guy was super effing weird though it’s obvious about what his intentions were with her and she even called him out on it early on
The complete lack of awareness for space was really interesting. She was pulling into herself taking up as small a space as she could and he was doing the exact opposite. Felt pretty yucky. really liked when the staff spoke up for her and made a comment about asking for physical permission.
Especially the part where he brought up seggs every 2 mins, said he absolute won’t take her advice and go to therapy (showing no growth) AND how apparently in the uncut version she asked the producers to tell him stop touching her
@@MalFatima damn that very upsetting. i hope she is doing ok bc in this video she seemed definitely seemed uncomfortable which like same i would be too.
@@jaycemcqueen306How tf does that make it better?
@@asum7213it doesn’t, but if true that puts a lot more of the blame on the Cut producers. Obviously it doesn’t make what he did right. Again though “if” they were careless enough to encourage a dude that already isn’t really picking up on her cues and body language to “utilize the space better” that’s pretty fucked and is on the Cut.
absolutely, he constantly put her into the corner quite odd
the fact that they werent given pillows or blankets should classify this as psychological torture
Right?? Was being physically uncomfortable part of the experience?
I thought it'd be like padded material and have some cushions at the least
Oh trust me, in 500 years they’ll think of us as evil🤣
“… and then they laughed and commented on different styles of torture. And just… went back to work!”
and it was such a small space too
Nothing would have been different if it was just two people sitting on chairs in a room for 12 hours, but I guess "in a small box" must get more clicks?
Daring her to kiss him after being directly told to ask for consent is WILD
i was just ab to comment that bc wtf
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I mean...her consenting to the dare would count as consent for the kiss. That's pretty straightforward verbal consent.
@@soicancommentonvideo You do realize she was uncomfortable most of the time there. Furthermore, she probably just said yes because he would've kept asking.
@@Wumbology10and she could’ve kept saying no, but she didnt, if she didn’t want to do it then she would’ve kept saying no
She is obviously a fair and mature person. She gave him a million chances and he absolutely fumbled
Yea what did he do exactly to fumble (for research purposes)
@@handlethisduki Exatcly. (My friend is asking)
Edit: So apparently he was making her feel uncomfortable, by being pretty pushy with almost everything he did. So yeah, he didn't respect or more likely see her boundries
@@Den3zo yea no i get that but i thought thats how things mive forward and keeps them from losing interest?
He’s not genuine at all. You can see that at every moment he thinks about how he should appear. I didn’t like it, even this childhood trauma talk sounded like he just wants her to think of him as wounded. He’s a good looking guy but my rating for him would also drop a lot after he started talking
@@handlethisdukiwhaat?! quite the opposite. especially the way he kept touching her, laying on her all the time like they were a couple already or bffs. she never reciprocated but he KEPT doing it. imo she should’ve told him to stop but she was too nice.
he kept asking sex related questions, laid his head in her lap without asking, grabbed her leg without asking and kept going back on his whole foot fetish thing omfg i cannot with this dude
ive skimmed through the full version and i will say, the shortened down edited version makes him look worse. in the full thing, he still asked a few questions but so did she. the foot thing was a bit weird but aside from that he seemed fairly normal.
I felt horrible for this girl ! She’s clearly SO uncomfortable !
@@LewisJamieson6saying that a dude is just being a dude or "normal" is not the defense you think it is.
@@i.shuuya3231 how so?
The ankle grab and pulling her had me YIKING
Mans fumbled time and time again. Couldn’t believe he tried to hit her with the “I dare you to kiss me ZaHa 😏” Cody’s fuckboy impression was in prime form here
right? and after calling it corny too 💀 bro wouldnt know a stop sign even if it layed itself on his lap
Right after she said she doesn’t kiss on the first date too lmfao
that deffo has the same cringy high school 'flirty' vibes as:
"lets play 20 questions! ill go first... are you a virgin?"
"i dare you to let me suck your feet hahaha just kidding... unless?"
@@von... "What color are your nipples"
My dude doesn’t understand her open emotional energy ≠ sexual energy.
Exactly
Asking for a foot massage after revealing that he had a "foot appreciation" was bold.
And sock swapping
he definitely has a foot fetish
ew he said foot appreciation? i missed that part 🤢
Broooo nooooooo
seemed like he said that because the topic was brought up, but even if it wasnt a fetish she literally said she dint like (ugly) feet and was squirmish when the button asked him to show his 😭😭😭😭 why tf did he bring up feet several times after that??? i think id pass out if someone asked me to switch socks, let alone a fckn foot rub!! idk how she did it lmfao
The way she said she didn't like feet and he then proceeded to say he liked them, show her his feet, force her to swap socks and then force her to give him a foot massage 💀
So glad someone else noticed this, like wtf
It's like he wanted to see how far she would let him push her
@@jelatinosaew
SO TRUE!!!! that was most def intentional too to push her wfkjenfrejfbe ew
If you ain’t giving ya man a foot massage than best believe he gone get it somewhere else 😤💯
just so people know, in the uncut version she DID in fact ask the producers to tell him to stop touching her
oh my god. and the amount of times he initiated contact with her legs and just not respecting personal space. imagine the cameras weren't rolling
UGH that is so miserable to hear
Yikes
From what I can see, he stopped touching her unprompted after they announced it, so I don't see the problem. When her legs were over his, it seemed like she was choosing for them to be there. All in all, he's just not good at reading people and either just has or has grown up with less bodily boundaries than others. Like, when he pulled her by the legs, there's so many things he could interpret such as her grimace just being from falling rather than a reaction to the touch.
@@YannickOkpara-d5l Yeah, if she would've been in a headspace where she DID want him to make a move, then he would be a suave cool guy with the right moves or whatever. The key here is CONSENT. The biggest mistake men make is trying to persuade or convince women to want them sexually when the best relationships are the ones where you are organically, magnetically attracted to each other. Yeah, a little persistence can be romantic, but this isn't it. Continuously touching a woman after she doesn't show interest in a sexual relationship is just wrong. Touching ANYONE that doesn't want to be touched is wrong. I get it, sometimes girls are flirty or whatever & play "hard to get" or whatever, but that's honestly an outdated mindset. If she wants you, she will let you know. If she doesn't, then back off. It's easy.
I wouldn't even want to be stuck with MYSELF in a box for twelve hours
Your apartment is a box
Yeah you'll end up asking for a bible
I got 3 kids, I would literally pay someone to let me sit in a box for 12 uninterrupted hours of peace and quiet and take the longest nap.
@RJiiFin my apartment is a bit better than this box..
Therapy lol
I would pay to see someone stuck in a box for 12 hours with the dude from the last video that dressed like an astronaut, said he saw an attempted murder and wondered why the girl was weirded out by him
Sam hyde clone
I don’t think the astronaut dude would want that. Seemed like he had some serious social anxiety
Fr
Idk if I would pay to see someone getting tortured like that
I feel like that should be legally classified as torture haha
Raise your hand if as a women you’ve been on a date w a man who did not understand or really care about boundaries like this man. One of the worst feelings in the world it was crazy to see this from a third perspective. The way the producer says to ask for consent and then he just lays on her.
🙋♀️
once had a man apologize for only one of the things that crossed my verbalized boundary, then proceeded to call himself “mr. communication” while still not asking for verbal consent before touching me 🤦♀️
Maybe I should be glad I've never been on a date, each day seems to get rougher out there.
Fr this video perfectly encapsulated heterosexual dating norms and the lack of emotional intelligence and understanding of boundaries
As a pansexual man, yep
Of the numerous signs he had that he was fucking it up, the directors reminding him about consent has to be the most embarrassing and ridiculous. I really hope his shame helped him learn, and he sought out therapy lol
He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer.
He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅
He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though.
Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅
The way he kept putting his head on her lap and asking for foot rubs and kisses and shit…..I would’ve been so ashamed of myself if I were him. What bizarre and creepy behavior
@@phospadparadschaa It's boggling as a dude that some dudes like this guy cannot see how creepy this stuff is
Time stamp for when the directores reminded him of consent ? I didn’t see it lol maybe I’m just blind
@@amaira-jain16:55
This one was BRUTAL. I hope dude rewatches this several times and learns how his behavior and questions made her uncomfortable. So he can go into future dates and not make the same mistakes he made here.
Honestly I hope he doesn't cause it wouldn't change who he is, it would just make him better at hiding it
@@CreativeC13there’s evil people and there’s people who don’t understand body language and other signs. there’s also people who have been socialized their entire lives to become this alpha male stereotype who gets pussy, and these people can change into genuine humans. i’m pretty sure this dude is one of the latter two, not evil. it doesn’t justify, excuse or make any of his actions any better, but in my opinion it does give him the right to a second chance, a right to learn.
@@changedmynamebcyallwouldnt.. Wow this comment gave me hope that empathetic and understanding people still exist
@@changedmynamebcyallwouldnt..thank you 🙏🏼 most sane person
He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer.
He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅
He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though.
Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅
Mommy milkers has to be the most immediate turn off lmaoo
A man should know better than to use a term like that around a lady of your chest deficiency madam
fr☠️
Well of course, because you're old
wtf are these replies
@@pennyroyalT ong they need to touch grass
They should do a button/ blind date colab. If u win the button, the second date is in the box
I second that
You make it sound like a torture device
@@Alex-cw3rzthought the exact same thing
@@Alex-cw3rzI mean after watching this it definitely is
@@Thesarcasticdom true
I want the 12 hour unedited cut of Cody reacting to the 12 hour unedited cut.
Do it
I want him to do it and I won't watch 😂
where can i watch the unedited?
you want to torture him too?
Livestream 😂
I've been on a date that lasted 12 hours. We just sat and talked, and I didn't realize how much time had passed. However, sitting in such an uncomfortable, bright space like that with a blind date.. and the cameras and crew to top it off, sounds nightmarish.
I've been on first dates that felt like 12 hours... I can't imagine how long an ACTUAL 12 hour first date would feel like 😂
@@JSmiley21xI think if you’re really into it and you’re having fun it wouldn’t feel very long because you’re actually enjoying it
I went on a first date with a woman for roughly 6 or 7 hours. It was pretty magical and she was very sweet. I tried to treat it just like a first meeting (to relax myself a bit and it was our first meeting) but she was clearly very into me the whole time and we just had fun and hung out for the most part. The most memorable date I've ever been on to be honest.
"she's different from the typical girls..."
yeah that happens when you actually have to talk to them
Exactly
crazy projection
@@milkxvno
@@ballllllll8 sit doggy
@@ballllllll8 sit down dog
He was constantly trying to seek empathy and pity at times and that’s almost worse than the absolute lack of social awareness and personal space.
He’s a try hard for sure
Most pick me shit I ever watched
He kept repeating the cycle of: trauma dumping - self deprecation - sexual advances/comments
I don't have the words to explain how PERFECT this is as a representation of men and women's relationships. Lack of interest in her consent, inability to read her body language, huge gap in emotional maturity, the guy thinking the girl is a genius cause she has some basics of emotional intelligence (she was quite emotional intelligent tho, but here I mean that he reacted to very basic things), the girl laughing and him not understanding that it's cause she's feeling awkward, the guy having SO MUCH confidence, the guy taking ALL THE SPACE both physically and emotionally, him saying "I'm proud of you" as if he knew anything about her... I could go on and on for HOURS!!
you said it perfectly
Thank you ! It was painful to watch tbh
What are you on about? This is not a perfect representation. This is not something most men do lmao. Ye there are lot doing this but doesn't mean they are in the majority
@@idkwhattoputheretbhbuthereIt is great if you are not like that, but many women have had similar experiences with men like this and that's worthy of recognition
@@idkwhattoputheretbhbuthere are you a man?
Bro really got a few hours alone with an emotionally mature woman and turned her into his therapist
this pairing is like when the teacher puts the popular kid and the quiet girl together for a group project
literally
And some of the comments are painting him as such a bad guy. Like dude he's just doing what he knows to work. He dates a certain type of girl and she is simply a different type of girl, so it doesn't work
@@younghex9577the entire problem is the grabbing and touching her without consent. That’s not okay, no matter what kind of woman he is with.
@@truesingers77i will guarantee it works for him and he has probably gotten laid multiple times doing so. You may be a reserved guy but there are plenty of guys out there that are somewhat "aggressive" in their approach to picking up women and it works for them so why exactly would they change. Yall ate acting as if he grabbed her tits 😂 she could have easily asked him not to do it. Takes two to tango. If you are too scared to set boundaries with someone then thata partially on you. Not everyone is the same both male and female.
@@tyrellleach1846 given that his longest relationship was 8 months in his late 20s i would say he hasnt been all that successful lol also she asked for him not to touch her in the unedited version apparently
I love how as the hours went on she just kept telling him to get therapy 😂
the full 12 hour cut feels like honestly a genuine nightmare i can’t even use proper words to describe 😭
Did he really spend the majority of the time talking about sex? And is he really describing what I'm thinking at 8:53?
ENYA💖
my ex boyfriend was JUST like this and it took 4 years post breakup for me to reflect back on the relationship without feeling sick to my stomach!!! I was even convinced I was asexual until I learned of relationship trauma lol
@@hiphiphoograywhats so bad about this guy in your opinion? He seemed pretty nice to me, no evil vibes whatsoever
@@islabee94 in my opinion he didn’t understand when to stop pushing the topic of sex. also he’s not evil he’s just hypersexual and she’s not so it’s not a healthy partnership.
The more uncomfortable she got, the better he thought the date was…..
He’s just obviously not very intuitive or good at looking at body language.
@@aubreyirene4059 yeahhh even the producers had to say sumn
Lol the fact that she was very open and blatant about not seeing him as a romantic interest and in the end he's like "I can totally see us going on dates"
I think he said “fun friend dates out there”
I wanna see Nut do this. I feel like him paired up with the right person would be good entertainment
Him and Jess
that would be awful, sorry he’s so boring😭
he’s so cringe 😭
@@schwiftynat how lmaoo hes funny
@@ifureadingthisdie how😭
If they ever do it again they need to give them actual games and things to do in the box... Especially things that will help develope conversation.
They also definitely need to make the box bigger and have comfortable seating this is like unethical I feel like it wouldn’t pass a board lmfaoo
Im pretty sure they did make another one, no?
We are not really strangers card game
Yeah there are SO many cool 2 player party games that would have made this so much more interesting and fostered interesting, complex discussions on topics like philosophy, politics, hobbies, etc. They really wanted this to be as painful as possible.
Love the idea of games. Less of a chance to just talk AT someone.
16:58 That’s crazy bc they did not give ANY context for that. She actually asked the producers to tell him to stop touching her without her consenting when he went to the bathroom bc she was uncomfortable af and he kept doing it without asking
my back would hurt so bad in there, hopefully after the 5 hours mark i’d be comfortable enough to ask for a back massage
Ill lie down and say fk it. Talk to me or not, im lying down.
Im gonna watch one of your videos after this one!! I love asmr
@@edamame6363 AWWW that’s so sweet🖤🖤🖤🥺✨ thank you!!!
Literally was looking for this comment because me too
i would really want a couch or bed to or something soft to lay on, that would be so uncomfortable
Im so in love with everything this girl says and does. Shes so firm in her boundaries and i found a lot of joy in many of the things she said. She mentioned finding happiness in a lot of things, and i think ill try and apply this for myself. I hope shes having a great day.
I really loved her too. But she wasn’t very firm in her boundaries. She was obviously uncomfortable when he kept touching her but wasn’t able to tell him that. But I think that has more to do with women not wanting to “cause a scene” or “make other uncomfortable” despite women being uncomfortable. It’s a bummer she got paired up with a guy like that
she's my hero. There is no way I would have been able to say no when he dared to kiss because I'd be too afraid that I'd ruin the mood and be seen as a stuck-up *itch. That's why guys shouldn't put a girl in that position
@@aspenisthebestyou clearly have self esteem issues. You need to learn how to say f other people’s mood and what they say, when you are uncomfortable, you are uncomfortable. You should put your yourself first. I actually have this problem but I’m trying to unlearn it. You can try too. You actually have to because honey, there are so many evil people out there who would use you when they see you this way.
@monicaisreallycool3904 I saw another comment stating in the full video she asked the producers to tell him to stop touching her (while he was in the bathroom) so it's definitely because saying that stuff towards the person itself is nerve wracking
@@monicaisreallycool3904I was about to say this. Like girl use your words, shit
24:22 dude is STILL talking bout fuckin feet when he clearly heard her say she does NOT LIKE FEET
broooooooooooo
*PSA* for the few guys I see wondering why the comments are generally against Kwan: Ninety percent of the problem is he just comes on too strong (shot at 10:00 says it all). I'd already be uncomfortable to be put in a small box with a stranger for so long, but if he kept on bringing the conversation back to sex/kissing and continually trying to initiate physical contact _despite no reciprocation_, I'd be at least a little bit scared. The impetus of the problem is a lack of chemistry that manifests in a cycle of her withdrawing and him overstepping, but the problem itself is the dude's inability (or disinterest) to gauge how she feels and adjust accordingly.
Taken out of context, nothing he's doing/trying to do is inherently wrong or bad. There is nothing inherently predatory about being attracted to someone and wanting to further your relationship with them. You just have to make sure that they _enthusiastically_ want the same thing and *be okay with pulling back/walking away if they don't.*
Well said.
I never comment or reply but well said sir
*Noel's nerd voice: "The impetus of the problem 🤓"
Timestamp is accurate ya
said perfectly
A producer having to tell you to ask permission to touch someone is wild
I’m so glad she kept her boundaries firm. He’s a hot mess and needs alot of work 😂
I hope he watches the 12 hour version in a year again.....
He made even the thumb wrestling award n secsual let alone the foot things.
He needs to use it to self reflect 😅 and hopefully not to just improve on convincing the next nice lady to stay longer.
He really said he knows he's a negative person- after all the ways she offered of looking on the bright side, finding small happinesses 😅
He really said - See I hear you! I need a therapist. I won't act on it though.
Not very ready to hear from a therapist either smh😅
so what we've learned today is it probably took about 6 hours for the oceangate ceo to suggest hooking up
Hahahhahahahahaha
God damn it I'm definitely going to hell for laughing out loud at this. That's a good one.
Funniest comment I've ever read genuinely
LMAOOO
I love that I laughed
Cody's so right abt farting on a date. Esp being in a BOX with the other person. My ass would be clenched the whole time. The mental and physical pressure bro.
God I appreciate whoever that was who said to ask for permission before touching .... it physically hurt to see that.
“So uhhh we probably could’ve done this better…” lmao
Definitely should of been told to the contestants before tho, they didn't cause it was so obvious
I think it’s just funny that they decided to keep that footage in the final production of the video. They coulda told them privately but the editors decided to intentionally leave the clip in so it just looks like bro is going out sad ☠️
@@namoa8202It is basic consent rules to ask someone before touching them. Lol
@@namoa8202they shouldn’t have to tell them
In genuine shock after he just walked outside, obviously there’s a door and a window right there but I never fathomed he would just leave me like that
dogs be like:
so who was in the backyard 🤣
I felt so lonely for those ten seconds
someone get the guy with the chest tattoo on this show because whoever could last 12 hours in a box with him talking about chest tats all day should win an award
Im pretty sure entirety of Cut would go to prison for commiting a war crime.
Hearing Cody react to the girl's story about the facebook account made me realize I really want him to do a whole video on just reacting to r/AITA posts
Please God no
I don't want a video of cody reacting to fairy tales.
@@Death-999 well we all know from the karen videos he'd believe all of them regardless
I'm in a miserable stage of life under miserable circumstances, and i swear, this channel is the only one that can always makes me laugh like a hyena. Many thanks, Cody
Hope it gets better for you man🙏
me too man❤️ just keep finding these to keep yourself distracted…
Things will improve for you soon, I'm sure of it. Keep your head up, buddy!
Keep pushing 🖤I hope everything works out for you
me too babes!! you’re not alone ❤ glad we can both enjoy cody together
I used to work for Khrystle! She was one of the sweetest coolest managers I’ve ever had. So surreal seeing her on here, I worked with her during the time this was filmed and had no idea
this was so brutal tho and an amazing example of how women are expected to shoulder men’s emotions and do it naturally and instinctually because it’s what’s always been expected of us. i’m sure he came out of there feeling refreshed while she left drained.
I was thinking the exact same thing, he was using her as a therapist
Ding ding ding, perfect comment
exactly. that’s why he kept liking her more and she kept liking him less. it was something new and exciting for him to be listened to and coddled for 12 hours, but for her it’s just another needy man. he didn’t really care about her or like her, he just liked that he got to tell her about himself and feel some kind of intimacy.
This was my exact thought
If that indeed were the case (him leaving refreshed and her leaving drained), that's literally just introvert vs extrovert things! As an introvert, hanging out for 10 hours on the usual with my BESTEST friends, leaves me SO drained I feel physically ill the next day, whether we talk about deep emotional shit or just random games/anime/everyday life shit, it still physically drains me all the same **shrug**
I love how cody doesn't realize people can watch the 12 hour version in a few sittings instead of going full 12 hours in one day
honestly even more sad if you're taking time out of your day to return to the video and finish it
Please touch some grass. 😂
@@Blazee2897 why should I touch grass? I didn't say anything ridiculous
@@fukro7557 Bcos you clearly sound like somebody who would watch 12 hours of this content.
@@Blazee2897 well I wouldn't. I just have common sense and if I had to watch a 12 hour video I'd watch it piece by piece and not in one day
I liked this girl. She seemed like a good person. And she’s so pretty. She seemed genuine. Whoever she ends up with would be lucky. And I feel like SOMEONE out there has to have seen this video and be perfect for her 😂
HOW MANY HOURS DID THEY LET THIS POOR GIRL SIT IN THERE BEFORE TELLING HIM TO ASK PERMISSION BEFORE TOUCHING HER LMFAO
Eta: for the record this comment was left because I thought it was funny - I don't think they're at fault, the girl was fully capable of using her words when she needed to which she did. I don't blame the producers at all and it's kind of crazy to. The end.
Poor girl 😭
The fact that everytime he lay his head on her, her opinion of the date went down, should have been a hint, even if they didn't notice how uncomfortable she already was. Then not surprisingly after the Cut team stepped in her rating went up after he stopped touching her.
@@Alex-cw3rz ive noticed a few times that the team at Cut doesn't "cut" in soon enough when someone starts touching another person without consent or behaving innapropriately. They wait for a little longer than they should, and they leave the moments in the final video, which makes me think some aspect of that is exploitative.
@WinWinWoo because imagine how awkward it would be to sit in a box for 10 hours after you got into a confrontation with him, that is why she didn't do it. "Can't read her mind" it's plastered across her face that she is uncomfortable.
@WinWinWoo because she's stuck in a room with him for 12 hours and even gentle rejection would make the remaining time awkward
I could have told you immediately why they don't make these anymore. And it became more and more clear.
have you watched any of the other ones? i'm curious if there's one where the people actually ended up both liking each other at the end
@@blueberries408 their was a pair who took a nap in the box
nah the next one was super wholesome and happy
I don't care if I'm trapped with the most attractive, charismatic, funny, intelligent, person in the world. 12 hours in a box with nothing but another person is insane.
I asked that "bad sex" question to a Facebook group once hoping for stories like vomiting stories and it ended up being a bunch of assault stories.. that question can get really dark lol
This guy goes straight into the abominable vibes hall of fame
You can feel that he’s used to alcohol doing the job for him
I lowkey feel weird for not feeling that way now. I thought he was ok.
Maybe I’m him?
Please tell me some red flags of his behavior, just so that I can become a better person/dater?
@@jonaswolterstorff3460pretty much every time he touched her,l or scooted closer was weird. Given that it's such an uncomfortable circumstance to begin with, if I were him, I would have avoided touching her at all unless she initiated. Also, he wouldn't stop bringing up sex.
@@jonaswolterstorff3460 bro how did you not see anything wrong with him💀 he was a straight weirdooo
Also seemed like he hadn't really done a whole lot of introspection in his life. He didn't understand himself. He wasn't genuine because he couldn't be.
I love zade's editing SOOOO MUCHHH!! he really adds more fun to every video. and I am so happy that Cody lets him edit the way zade wants and add in jokes :)
Cody causally going to the backyard to talk to the ghostbusters he hired had me dead
I thought it was a gardener and he was telling them to be quiet lmao
@@NotHeatherHuntthat would be so rude
@@cherrysIushie I know! I was so socked that he would do that 😂😂
@@cherrysIushie Asking him to work another area while he's recording is rude?
Bro they need to bring that girl back for something if they haven’t already. She is SO cute with her lil giggles and I love how self aware she seems to be! Also, side note, I loved how the producer advocated to ask for permission before touching, but didn’t single the guy out. Everybody in the room understood why the producer said what he said, yet nobody got personally spotlit. Love that! Either of them very easily could have felt pressure to not say anything, but even MORE pressure than normal due to possibly being scared of getting judgement in comments and with a big camera in their faces. Props to the girl for (as far as I can tell) being herself, and to the producer! About the guy in the box, I think that he’s fine, just too emotionally.. loose? I guess is the word? I don’t know, childish? Just compared to her I dunno. She’s well spoken and eloquent- like she knows what she wants to say and she speaks it smoothly.. and he’s.. horny. Lol. Anyway, she seems like fun to be around. :)
“And he’s horny” 😂
watching him giggle getting his feet tickled physically sent shivers down my spine
☝️🤓
I didn’t expect the box to be this small. So I’m gonna occupy the entire length of it.
You can’t tell me this guy wasn’t drinking in the bathroom LOL. Wanted alcohol, went to the bathroom twice and second time came back feeling waaay more cozy 😂
was looking for this comment lol
I’m willing to bet money he was beating his 🥩
THE KENERGY FROM THIS MAN. The whole ass time I was like dear god give her space.
The full 12 hour cut is what I imagine gets sold on the dark web lmao like what the hell😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
honestly one of the most interesting videos i’ve seen from cut. i really want to watch the other one they did but there’s no way i will without codys commentary (cody pls do this again)
BOOST
Fr I need a filter to watch these videos and Cody always says what I'm thinking
This guy is Not socially unaware, or immature or whatever. He knows exactly what hes doing. Every single thing he does is pushing. Its upsetting to watch and difficult to put into words but this man sets off every single alarm bell I have. I don't know if what hes doing has a name, but its strategic and predatory. Gross men use this tactic as a lead up to SA. Hes learning what makes her uncomfortable and seeing how she reacts to those boundaries being pushed
He slowly pushes further and further till the producers have to step in or she gives a hard no. If they weren't there he would've kept going, trying to work his way around the nos. The thumb war is a perfect example. She said feet gross her out in the beginning and by the end he's pushed and prodded her into giving him a foot massage she's clearly has no desire to give. Men like this are dangerous.
I think it's the exact opposite. The problem is that he isn't aware of the fact he is taking up wayy too much space, not showing interest in her, pushing boundaries, etc. If we treat it like these people do it on purpose, it would assume they are aware of what they are doing. I think if they are aware of what they are doing we would see it a lot less. I think he thinks he's just using game to get closer to her and that this is what he should be doing.
Not doing it on purpose doesn't absolve him of responsiblility, he is still being negligent in his actions, but it's important that people like this are educated or become aware some way or another so that they don't continue to act like this.
You're not a detective and could be way off the mark, she had 12 hours to get that impression and was free to leave and didn't... 🤷
You throwing around wild accusations is dangerous.
Idk fam, I tend to live by the idea that you should not ascribe malice to that which is adequately explained by ignorance. I definitely think it seems more than likely that he really is just unaware. This seems to be the case with a lot of men lacking the ability to interpret situations. Just look at how many of them will perceive any kindness or basic politeness as interest/flirtation - even from people like cashiers and waitresses whose JOB it is to be nice to them. I'm pretty sure I've also heard that studies show men tend to overestimate women's interest in them, while women tend to underestimate men's interest in them. Furthermore there seems to be a phenomenon where men think their advances are more wanted than they actually are because THEY would want those advances themselves. See how for instance women are bothered by catcalling and unsolicited compliments whereas men are often really excited by it, so they (sometimes, obviously not always) genuinely think they're doing something good because they themselves would appreciate being on the receiving end of the interaction. So like, yeah, I think it's entirely believable that he and men like him aren't pursuing some malicious goal, they're genuinely just unaware of how negatively their actions are perceived.
@@KreeZafi Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars
Part of the reason I love Cody's dating reaction videos is his emotional intelligence. He's SO good at reading body language, seeing when someone's fake and when they're genuine and much more. I feel like a lot of people don't have that ability and it's fascinating to witness. I feel like I'm learning something here lol
i feel like in any box video the woman will always become the mans therapist, because men never talk in depth about their feelings like women do and it's a shock to them.
Cody is literally the standard I wanna set for any guy I date he is so emotionally intelligent as well as just super traditionally smart as well. He is the blue print I swear 😭
HE REALLY IS OMG
It helps that he’s also an 11 imo
Me when I’m delusional
@@Kevin-eh2wz 🥲🥲🥲what
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30 mins of Cody while eating lunch before work is my therapy
also eating lunch rn lol
Cool but people should also do REAL therapy
@@rpg500enah 😎 we do Cody
@@rpg500eluckily it’s a joke bud
cody&ko, i just love it. hes just being silly goofy and it feeds my dumb little brain
Dumb would definitely describe you
Self hating bot? Lol
@@Timman57 shes just being silly and goofy to feed her dumb little brain
Whos silly?
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I’m in shock how much he was falling for her, and pushing her to that direction too. It feels like getting to know a cool, honest, deconstructed woman who knows who she is and what she wants is so atypical for him. He even said it a bunch of times himself. It was pretty hard for them to connect at the same frequency.
He felt a “True connection” because he was able to be genuine with her, while I’m certain she has this type of honest, vulnerable interactions with others, without needing to spend 12 straight hours with them to open up and share her feelings.
Therapy is so important, folks, if you ever think you need to deal with traumatic shit that’s making your present life harder than it should, do not hesitate and ask for help.
There IS a brighter, truer, and freer tomorrow where we can all be our most genuine selves.
Please never use the word deconstructed with that meaning again
I love how dude started braiding her hair, then the producers hit us with a time lapse like we were about to witness a master in his element, only to see homegirls hair was no different at the end of it. 😂
I was shook.... he really just play braided it.... so touchy for no results!!
@@cjbabalos7188 right?? 😅 I would love to hear her thoughts on that whole situation because I bet she thought that shit was wild. 😂
They probably didn't have a hair band so it unraveld on its own
@@abc123you Doubtful, firstly because there are plenty of ways to braid hair effectively without hair ties, and secondly because wouldn't you think of that BEFORE you start messing with someone's hair?? 😅 Look, the way I see it, you simply don't mess with a woman's hair unless you A.) are in a relationship with them, B.) are close friends/family to them, or C.) are their hair stylist in a professional setting lol. I sincerely believe there are no other exceptions. 😂
Stepping out with cornrows in the front and box braids in the back lol.
"you're in a box on youtube that probably isn't the best place to be looking for a serious relationship." such a good quote
i love how cody doesn’t even consider people watching the uncut 12 hour version in several sittings rather than just 12 hours straight
It’s still not normal.
@@Thomas-ps9qkits like watching episodes ina show
The body language when they’re just sitting there in the box at the beginning. The girl looks so uncomfortable. She’s got her legs crossed, arms crossed in front of her, hoodie piled on her lap. Maybe it’s the awkwardness of the box that’s contributing to it but still…idk if I could ever do this for more than an hour let alone 12 HOURS!
I'd be uncomfortable being in a box with a man constantly touching me, talking about foot fetish,, my sex life, and trying to kiss me. He's weird asf!
And in JEANS! That's like my personal hell lol
i thought it would be at least a room! and plus your butt would hurt after 12 hours of sitting in hard plastic
So they held two random strangers hostage in a confined space to see what would happen? Next video on the Cut is gonna be “Russian Sleep Experiment, Day 4 with my Blind Date”
LMFAO
Great idea. I would also love to see day 7, tweaking on meth with my date.
@@chaotix7275the start of every great Florida love story
It would be a great series. “Russian Sleep Experiment Blind Date: Day 15 (I eat her)”
She's so genuine and open because she's had a 5 1/2 yr before and he's only had a 10 month.
Its not something thats ever talked about but theres a huge incompatibly with someone who's had a longterm relationship and someone who hasn't. Unless the short term person comes to have an understanding of the mindset the longterm person is coming from. And the longterm is able to make the adjustments needed and have the patience, though the short term person would have to be showing signs that they are mature enough. The long termer will be able to see right through them if they're not.
The guy in this video is indicating this difference when he said she isn't like other girls he's dated.
And how much he was able to be open with her because thats just what she's used to.
So you can tell he's never dated someone whos been in a relationship for that long.
And the first red flag for her was that he hadn't been in a long term relationship.
That would be her biggest concern. And him laughing like he did when she said that was the worst thing the fool could had done.
He cant put anything over her like he thinks he can.
Relationship maturity level is not even a thing anyone mentions, at least not in this regard of length differences. And its something short termers don't even know exists.
And they wouldn't even have the capacity and mindset to see how they lack maturity in that area, relative to the long term person. Long termers see the games short term people play like they're someone still in diapers. But if they can see signs that a person is responding and is wanting to be real, the long termer will have all the patients in the world for them, if they're genuine.
So I guess the long termer has less if not zero tolerance for bs, but a way higher capacity to allow for the growth of their partner, if the partner is ready for it and on the same page.
cody: “no one wants to go on a date for twelve hours”
uhaul lesbians: 👀👀👀
was about to say, this is just the standard lesbian date
And moving together right after that 😅
i was just thinking they should do this with lesbians i feel like it would be a whole different vibe
literally I said this out loud when he said that hahahah
What the fuck is a uhaul lesbian
Her: Im super busy
*sits in a box for 12 hours*
the producer gets a gold star for telling this dude to keep his hands to himself. i was thinking that the whole time, he was sooooo touchy feely and not once did he ask for her permission, ick.
The yassified Cody after he turned off the light got me lmao
love long cut reaction vids whenever they’re 25+ mins im HOOKED IMMEDIATELY
Maybe I'm sick but I would 100% do a platonic version of this
me toooo
yeah that'd be fun stress free
this poor girl was so very clearly uncomfortable
I really hate the guy they did this with, I wish they’d do it with a guy who isn’t constantly trying to touch a girl who is visibly uncomfortable. Like I genuinely think she would have enjoyed this experience if he had just been respectful of her boundaries
if she was uncomfortable his rating wouldn't have gone up
@@tonyisnotdead I assume you meant her rating because that made no sense. Either way, you clearly don’t know much about women or social cues as she was obviously uncomfortable💀 great, her rating went from a 4 to a 5 or whatever it was, that still means she’s not really having a good time. The fact that they actually had to tell him that he needs to stop touching her without her consent is enough to know there’s a problem, he was gross and weird.
@@tonyisnotdeadyou don't know anything about women. She did that cause she was afraid. Girls smile in fear and a lot of us try to do damage control to try to ease uncomfortable situations. She likely did it to just keep him at bay. She was probably worried she'd retaliate or get more pressuring if she lowered it.
@@actuallydudethatwouldbesal7644 her rating went up, which means that she was starting to like him more regardless of the touching
@@tonyisnotdead or maybe it was for other reasons and she still dislikes the touching which is why her rating stayed very low?? That is the obvious conclusion, not sure why you’re defending him when she has visible expressions and body language EVERY time he initiates physical contact that suggest she is uncomfortable.
HAHAHA “IM GUNNA TURN OFF THESE LIGHTS BC THEY MAKE ME LOOK BAD” 😂😂😂😂😂 PLZZZZZZZZZ IM WHEEZING
the way that shes trying to hide in a corner while hes constantly touching her and laying on her
asking her how many “dates it takes” for her to sleep with someone is so sinister lmao ew. it’s like “tell me how to manipulate you” when guys ask you what kind of guy you’re looking for, etc. ew ew ew
No it’s not. Get a life and stop psychoanalyzing people on the internet ew ew ew ew
Realize your comment is 6 months old, but that's what gets me too. Like, intimacy happens when its right for both parties and consented to by both parties. Sometimes its 3 dates, sometimes its 3 months. People are different and 90% of a relationship happens outside of the X rated activities. Imo the relationship is the goal, the physical intimacy the cherry on top. If you go in just for the touch and you feel like you have to suffer through 90% of fluff to get there, and you need to know 'how many dates it takes', you shouldn't be dating. Find $300 and find a lady of the night honestly.
he doesnt realize but he keeps asking her to be his therapist
I’d spend 12 hours in a box with Nut
Real
With jizz?
My husband and I met for the first time on our first date, and we spent a full 24 hours together haha we were just having so much fun hanging out, we stayed up all night driving and talking and eating :) We've been together now 10 years, are married and have a beautiful baby boy :)
that’s so sweet! me and my boyfriend met for the first time on our first date (we had known each other for a few months online beforehand) and spent 3 days together! i hope someday we’ll end up like you guys. :)
@@myaaaxchavez I love that :) I think it can be the best way to get to know someone. It sounds like you guys started out with a strong connection, which to me is a good sign. I knew my husband was my soulmate when we first met, because when we met it felt like we knew each other for ages, it felt so comfortable that we didn't mind spending so much time together. It sounds like you guys have a similar connection :) It probably won't be long before you hear the sound of Wedding bells, and then the pitter patter of tiny feet :)
This was BRUTAL fumble. That being said, she is quite pleasant. He doesn't read boundaries at all.
Cody has been PUMPING out the content and I love it!! Keep it up dude I love watching your stuff
HOLY SHIT THAT WAS LIKE RELIVING YOUR WORST DATE FOR 12 HOURS HOLY SHIT
Its hilarious that it got better after some of the sauce.
Seeing Cody physically uncomfortable from the cringe is so funny
They should do a mixture of this and the button, where they use the button process first to select the two people then they’re in the box together after. Ooh and maybe the button is in the box with them egging them on with awkward questions like it always does.
I was thinking the first part you said towards the end of the video, but I like your inclusion of the button IN the box. Genius!
i feel like the guy kept trying to manipulate her if that makes sense, when he said sad shit abt himself i felt like he was lying or exaggerating things 😭. when he said like ‘i’m hard on myself i don’t celebrate my birthday’ it fully sounded like me in middle school ☠️
trying to get the girls approval and sympathy
Absolutely brutal. My guy doesn’t read body language well. The permission thing was only necessary because he seems clueless and is just taking shots in the dark. Everything about her demeanor is “I’m uncomfortable.”
The way Cody took a break to commit murder was insane