My partner and I have been bay and sat for two years doing it 😂and for the past two months I repented and we decided to go into celibacy 😊now we born again and let God be in control not our self 🙏Guess what moguy discussed the marriage talk on his own 😅he is sending a letter next month and delegate’s going Home DEc 2023 🎉I could not be more happy this deserve a channel we been through thick and thin 🤦🏻♂️forever yena era yethu loading I can’t want hle I’m giggling and smiling
@@vuvumofficial 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ayi. We are now hearing everytime a couple divorced that the man was slow. So better to test the slowness before marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As a Christian I know that vat n sit is Worng and Sinful PERIOD. Notwithstanding this, sometimes is the best, my hubby and I met when we were young, we were committed to our love but Marriage was a No for me because it comes with other implications inlcuding legal, and we wanted to be sure whether well be able to be in it for long term because as you grow things changes. So we opted to vat n sit for years, when we were ready for marriage we went for it. We've been together for total of 17 years married for 8 years and it was the best decision for us. I suppose for others it works perfectly and for others it doesn't.
Vat and sit is perceived wrong but it works for others..it depends on the intentions of the couple...others vat and sit forever, others do it to get to know each other before marriage... Parents dont advise it at all😂..but it's important to trust your instincts before embarking on it.. My advice though, just get to know the person and don't act like a wife while doing it😂😂 coz the guy might end up marrying someone new
You have said it so well 👏💯❤️ I think the reason why parents do not advice it because because they know that their child might get hurt or maybe because they don't want you to sin
If the idea of vat en sit gives you concerns about the possibility of your partner not marrying/stringing you along, then MARRYING THAT PERSON WOULD PROBABLY ALSO NOT BE A GREAT IDEA. I have a lot to say about this topic but in summary: Understanding the core values and principles of a person will help you in life long decision making and vat en sit will not be an issue
Ndivhu mna I support it like I said I’m getting Lobolad dec 2023 and was married to a guy I did not know much 2016 and 2019 I divorced with no lawyer and no taking his molla and lost my house 🏡 cause all I wanted was out he was a good man mara he was emotionally immature with a temper tentrum yooh I was drained and walked on eggs
True it depends with people I also believe if you do vat and sit a person won’t feel the need to marry you unless if one is comfortable that they don’t want to get married
I really love the new content. I have been receiving conviction on gossip channels, but I'd come back here because I love you guys, I was trapped in a way.
My husband has a very sensitive nose Ndivhu and he would blow his nose with anything on sight during our vat and sat. I can promise you that if I had been exposed to that during our honeymoon phase after getting married, I don’t think we would’ve made it this far. Ndovha Ndi tshi kuvha maduda during the vat and sat. But also with us, the vision was very clear, we knew we were in it for marriage
Vat and sat really does help to get to know the person and also see if even when they evolve you can still be with them... I am glad you got to know him before getting married 👏💯❤️
That intro😂😂😂Wena Ndivhu o kgelosha mfundisi wa baSonti😂😂the way I kept repeating that part and laughing. Ke re Moruti a beya Bible fase for a mid-day snack🙈
No child of mine shall vat n sit- a total waste of time. Don't play house with ppl who r not ready for marriage. Give each other time to grow in all aspects individually. Men pay Lobola, women respect your men and fulfill your duties thereafter. You're not honoring the Lord and your parents by freely giving each other. 😂not Ndivhu saying; I think I'm the 1 who is mnandi. In all seriousness you guys, don't vat n sit- it does not challenge a man to lobola you and in return most women end up paying lobola for themselves to cover the shame.
My brother and sister, you can never say you know a person,some people dont even themselves and whom will you be to say you know them?- Waste of time. However! Having said that, I think vat and sit because I don't want to rush into marrying someone because I don't want to do vat and sit and later have regrets in that marriage. To reverse the disaster of a marriage is more costly than starting it.
My brother did vat and sit with his now wife they dated from high school from both of them being 17 to 25 and had a child and got married. They have been married for 5 years
Vat n sit is beautiful marn you get to know the things you can and cannot tolerate early enough before going to forever.... Ha ha ha Ndivhu kodwa that, Pastor must really apologize to you he truly hurt your feelings and faithfulness I know how it feels when someone accused you wrongly and here you were wrongly accused kudos to PB for being such a great man of God keep it up Brother not many man are like you
That is so true, you get to know even the tiny things about a person that you never knew, mostly if the intentions are communicated nicely. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think if someone is a self proclaiming Christian- they have no business doing vat n sit. In fact they shouldn’t be fornicating. I don’t think as a Christian you can say “let’s put religion aside, what do you think” a Christian holds a biblical worldwide through & through, not depending on the culture or circumstance. Your values are your values, your integrity does not change based on circumstance.
@@khanyagatsheni the man cheated on me and brought the girls in to our flat every time I went home to visit the parentals. He did not only bring them to our space but he also borrowed them my clothes. Tjooo I lost so much weight and failed all the modules for that year. That time I was only 21😂😂😂😂imagine going through the most at that young age. I was like never ever
The pastor thought you were doing nonsense. I would not advise anyone to do it because the flesh is weak and the enemy will tempt you. If it was possible to just vat and sit without tlof tlof then I don't see why not
Pastor Bae you did it without tlof tlof ;wow .That is amazing ;so the intention was to get to know Ndivhu T better and build the relationship.Incredable Abuti.
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My partner and I have been bay and sat for two years doing it 😂and for the past two months I repented and we decided to go into celibacy 😊now we born again and let God be in control not our self 🙏Guess what moguy discussed the marriage talk on his own 😅he is sending a letter next month and delegate’s going Home DEc 2023 🎉I could not be more happy this deserve a channel we been through thick and thin 🤦🏻♂️forever yena era yethu loading I can’t want hle I’m giggling and smiling
Listen😍😍💃💃💃🎉🎉🎉💯💯💯👏👏👏👏We celebrate with you, may the Lord almighty keep you guys and protect you🎉♥️😍🙏
I am a vat and sit ambassador ✊✊ I would actually advice my kids to vat and sit before marriage.
to test if the man is not slow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. i come in peace though
Ayi me too
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@@Olcool😂😂😂 iviolence engaka
@@vuvumofficial 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ayi. We are now hearing everytime a couple divorced that the man was slow. So better to test the slowness before marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As a Christian I know that vat n sit is Worng and Sinful PERIOD. Notwithstanding this, sometimes is the best, my hubby and I met when we were young, we were committed to our love but Marriage was a No for me because it comes with other implications inlcuding legal, and we wanted to be sure whether well be able to be in it for long term because as you grow things changes. So we opted to vat n sit for years, when we were ready for marriage we went for it. We've been together for total of 17 years married for 8 years and it was the best decision for us. I suppose for others it works perfectly and for others it doesn't.
We definitely stand with you there💯👏For some people it does work for some it doesn't ❤️
Vat and sit is perceived wrong but it works for others..it depends on the intentions of the couple...others vat and sit forever, others do it to get to know each other before marriage... Parents dont advise it at all😂..but it's important to trust your instincts before embarking on it..
My advice though, just get to know the person and don't act like a wife while doing it😂😂 coz the guy might end up marrying someone new
You have said it so well 👏💯❤️ I think the reason why parents do not advice it because because they know that their child might get hurt or maybe because they don't want you to sin
Intro 🔥🔥🔥
Think is important to know who you are, what you want, need and communicate with your partner sibe happy
That is so true, we definitely agree with you there👏❤️
If the idea of vat en sit gives you concerns about the possibility of your partner not marrying/stringing you along, then MARRYING THAT PERSON WOULD PROBABLY ALSO NOT BE A GREAT IDEA. I have a lot to say about this topic but in summary: Understanding the core values and principles of a person will help you in life long decision making and vat en sit will not be an issue
Amen, you definitely said it well. Having a good communication is very important to know where both of you stand so you don't waste each others time
Time is 22h30.. i thought i should watch one of your videos 😂😂😂 i just love you guys
We hope that you enjoyed ❤️ We love you too, a lot.
Ndivhu mna I support it like I said I’m getting Lobolad dec 2023 and was married to a guy I did not know much 2016 and 2019 I divorced with no lawyer and no taking his molla and lost my house 🏡 cause all I wanted was out he was a good man mara he was emotionally immature with a temper tentrum yooh I was drained and walked on eggs
I am so sorry love, I am glad that you walked out ❤️ and look at you.. soon to get married 😍 God is wonderful
@@NdivhuT I could not be happier ❤️love is beautiful 😻
True it depends with people I also believe if you do vat and sit a person won’t feel the need to marry you unless if one is comfortable that they don’t want to get married
And it also depends on the people's intentions cause some do have intention of getting married and some don't at all
I really love the new content. I have been receiving conviction on gossip channels, but I'd come back here because I love you guys, I was trapped in a way.
Really? Oh my then we are glad that we also Listened to the Holy Spirit and made changes❤️🙏
My husband has a very sensitive nose Ndivhu and he would blow his nose with anything on sight during our vat and sat. I can promise you that if I had been exposed to that during our honeymoon phase after getting married, I don’t think we would’ve made it this far. Ndovha Ndi tshi kuvha maduda during the vat and sat. But also with us, the vision was very clear, we knew we were in it for marriage
Vat and sat really does help to get to know the person and also see if even when they evolve you can still be with them... I am glad you got to know him before getting married 👏💯❤️
Is it possible for you discuss Lobola,is it important and how much well I know it might differ from one family to the next.
Ok we will do it ❤️
Tried it yangihlula not doing it again I think I need prayers everytime I meet a guy n that topic comes up I get scared
Why do you feel scared?😥😟
@@NdivhuT let's just say the experience I had was not pleasant 😭
That intro😂😂😂Wena Ndivhu o kgelosha mfundisi wa baSonti😂😂the way I kept repeating that part and laughing. Ke re Moruti a beya Bible fase for a mid-day snack🙈
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Haaaaa it wasn't me hle 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂this channel is the best😅😂😂
Thank you so much 😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️
Too much 👌👌👌
No child of mine shall vat n sit- a total waste of time. Don't play house with ppl who r not ready for marriage. Give each other time to grow in all aspects individually. Men pay Lobola, women respect your men and fulfill your duties thereafter. You're not honoring the Lord and your parents by freely giving each other. 😂not Ndivhu saying; I think I'm the 1 who is mnandi.
In all seriousness you guys, don't vat n sit- it does not challenge a man to lobola you and in return most women end up paying lobola for themselves to cover the shame.
Lol I definitely get what you are saying, some of these guys chill and never do what they need to do. ♥️♥️
I love the new direction 👌👌👌👌
Thank you so much 💃❤️👏
Heyyy❤❤❤❤
My brother and sister, you can never say you know a person,some people dont even themselves and whom will you be to say you know them?- Waste of time.
However! Having said that, I think vat and sit because I don't want to rush into marrying someone because I don't want to do vat and sit and later have regrets in that marriage. To reverse the disaster of a marriage is more costly than starting it.
True, even if you don't know a person... But vat and sat makes one understand if they can live with that person till death do the apart
I have vat n set for 10years and now we husband and wife. To keep the spark it's all about intentions and the love that leads
Well said ❤️❤️💯💯💯
Then maybe your opinion on kids out of wedlock which surname they should use and the reason.
No problem, we will do it❤️❤️
My brother did vat and sit with his now wife they dated from high school from both of them being 17 to 25 and had a child and got married. They have been married for 5 years
It really does help and work out for others 💯👏❤️
U can’t never know a person I agree like they say motho gaitswiwe ise naga
Amen 👏💯
Love that you guys have ur rings on 😊
Thank you so much ❤️
Di ring tsena di a sotlega di a tsenyiwa di a ntshiwa heibo😅😅.
I did vat n sit for 4 years then i got married 🤔and by that time I was very sure that we will never get married. But then boom❤
Wow really? That is so beautiful and we are grateful that he took you by surprise 👏❤️💯
Ba re even if you set an alarm ⏰ to go back home … am definitely the type to go and not return 😂😂 way I believe in indoda 😂
Lol I don't blame you shame, I also believe Indoda😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Loving the channel revamp!
Thank you so much 🙏❤️
The intro 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂she's so funny😂😂
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One of my favourite intros(my other fave is the one where y’all are dancing) 😂😂❤❤
😂😂😂😂😂Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm loving the revamp so far🫠
Thank you so much ❤️🙏
Very interesting topic.
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I love this setting 😊
Thank you so much ❤️❤️
I am doing vat n sit as we speak...am enjoying it as we having to kids now. Marriage we both not ready for...
If it is working for you and you are happy then it is great❤️
Vat n sit is beautiful marn you get to know the things you can and cannot tolerate early enough before going to forever.... Ha ha ha Ndivhu kodwa that, Pastor must really apologize to you he truly hurt your feelings and faithfulness I know how it feels when someone accused you wrongly and here you were wrongly accused kudos to PB for being such a great man of God keep it up Brother not many man are like you
That is so true, you get to know even the tiny things about a person that you never knew, mostly if the intentions are communicated nicely. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
🤣🤣🤣 "yo this guy what is he doing" hai Ndivhu wa mpolaya straight
😂😂😂😂😂😂Phela back then I didn't understand 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hello Family ❤
Vat n sit is rong smtms it became a real marriage
Hi Sonti❤️
That is so true❤️
I think if someone is a self proclaiming Christian- they have no business doing vat n sit. In fact they shouldn’t be fornicating. I don’t think as a Christian you can say “let’s put religion aside, what do you think” a Christian holds a biblical worldwide through & through, not depending on the culture or circumstance. Your values are your values, your integrity does not change based on circumstance.
Bridget thank you for this reminder, I needed to hear it. Much appreciated 🙏
We all different 😊some people do vat n sat and it works others not so much.
True 👏👏👏❤️❤️
Ndivu T you don’t have secrets wena 😂
😂at all
Lol vele I don't 😂😂
not pastor bae fiddling his fingers like the other guy who drinks hunters dry...hmmmm😂😂
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Vheiwe niari seisa mani🤣
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Ndivhu T uthi baecation ya 6months these ppl don't work😂😂😂😂😂 Pastor Bae awu Jesu😂😂😂😂. U both raised valid points though!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂💯Thank you so much
Mina ivat n sit ingi bonise ispoko ngavela ngathi “ once bitten twice shy”.
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🤣🤣🤣what happened
@@khanyagatsheni the man cheated on me and brought the girls in to our flat every time I went home to visit the parentals. He did not only bring them to our space but he also borrowed them my clothes. Tjooo I lost so much weight and failed all the modules for that year. That time I was only 21😂😂😂😂imagine going through the most at that young age. I was like never ever
@@Reset_With_LouisaSorry to hear that 🙏.
Ndivhu T is the one that is Mnandi🤣🤣
Lol hehe😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love your advice regarding challenges😅 thank you so much
You are welcome ❤️🙏😅
Ps Bae was a real son of Jesus. hebana, its true that once that thing is up, it wants its food, hai, its tight.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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The pastor thought you were doing nonsense.
I would not advise anyone to do it because the flesh is weak and the enemy will tempt you.
If it was possible to just vat and sit without tlof tlof then I don't see why not
It is possible, PB and I did it... But it does tempt, a lot.👏♥️
Pastor Bae you did it without tlof tlof ;wow .That is amazing ;so the intention was to get to know Ndivhu T better and build the relationship.Incredable Abuti.
Pastor Bae jesu bare warapela😂😂😂
😂😂😂He did pray yazin 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 oh gosh, please stop outing pastor bae's secret.🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂I'll try
Pastor bae mara their vat n sit it’s their marriage 🤦🏻♂️
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Ndivhu ne o bontsha Ps Bae eng inside that black jacket?🙆😂😂
I was telling him about adult things 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mina ndiyai nandisa😂😂😂😂
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Content is still contenting
Yey💃💃💃We love hearing that