And you don't have to rush yourself to do that Love takes Time but it also gets old when you can't find somebody to cuddle with cuddling is different than have a relationship but sometimes in some people ready to cuddle they cut everybody else off because they're scared to lose that person that they're dealing with at the time there's a lot of people in the industry that don't know how to be friends why they're cuddling in a relationship and other fans in other people get turned off because they're quick to turn them off once relationship and family become an issue of direction and sometimes couples want you to have a direction to match their positive direction to fit their perspective on what you are doing with your life until you come out with something like this and put it all on the table
There's a lot of girls in the industry that went through that and it's because y'all are so beautiful so attractive they can't believe that you started off like that again they did the same thing to Nikki Minaj they went back when she was in school just to show her body because they were so jealous about her figure not about her talent
Financial fear that you can't do it on your own without somebody helping you relationship fear finding somebody again to be physical with knowing you have to start from the beginning and protect yourself and not and not feeling as comfortable with them as the other people you were with before and have to go into the routine of using protection knowing new family members fighting about ex-girlfriends in-laws trouble families picking up the slack with money and being devoted to everything else
It took Mary almost a couple of decades to get a roll as soon as she got it she nailed it give it time people crazy give it time sometimes they want you to succeed with your success so they can feel less failures to theirs
You NEVER fell off! Did a successful tour till you were 8 months pregnant then had a baby, was raising two boy’s, dealt with and overcame postpartum depression then wrote enough songs for 3 albums. Man I wish I could fall off like that. Peace 🧡
The part where she said “the same person who is causing your pain is the same person who is relieving your pain” made me want to cry bc I Dead felt that 🥺
I hate how uncomfortable and fidgety she gets when it gets to that part. She was the person who was hurt. She didn’t do anything wrong. She’s a survivor!
A victim to that type of trauma you will always blame yourself or feel you could of prevented it. It’s hard to explain. Until you’ve completely healed from that situation which you probably never will it will always be uncomfortable to speak about out loud, unless she speaks about it out loud often.
Her heart is so pure,I been watching her since she was living in her small apartment with that little red couch who would of thought she was going through so much,now look at her!She still don't talk bad about Chris while telling her story.She's such a great mom,singer,and person !
I mentioned the red couch in my comment too lol. I remember when the Chris and Queen channel had less than 100,000 subscribers. She's still the same humble person as she was back then.
Queen, as a divorced parent I completely understand the feelings you had with CJ jumping from house to house. My son also brought up “why don’t you and mom live together?” The great thing about kids is that they bounce back SO fast. With love and affection, they can get on board with any changes. Keep being his loving mother and he’ll be fine with 2 houses, 2 sets of rules, but also, 2 places to feel loved and happy!! As far as telling him, I think that’s Chris’ job as his father. Your role is to train him correctly. “Treat your girl with respect. Hold the door. Be a gentleman.” Those things... You shouldn’t bear the burden of exposing CJ to how his father treated you. Advice from a fan! Keep up the positive energy Queen!
You could tell these are kids that are interpreting her lyrics. Staying sober doesn't only mean to not drink or smoke. Being sober is also having a clear and pure mind
I truly admire how strong queen is, all the pain that this girl suffered and look at her today, raising two amazing young kings, having a whole MAN that loves her to death, dropped a wonderful album... karma exists and is a b*tch, congrats bby girl and keep doing yah thing 💯❤️
I was sexually assaulted for 10 years by my foster parents and till this day I still live with the pain, but after being in 6 mental hospital I’ve fought there it all and if anyone is going there the same thing please speak out and try to find help. YOU ARE NOT ALONE
i don’t think queen felt addicted to the abuse she endured from chris.... it’s not addicting. it’s just hard to get up and leave when you’re not prepared and still have love for the person in some ways, not to mention sharing a child w someone
QUEEN THIS ABLUM HELPED ME sooo much !!! I feel less guilty for being happy after being broken.... I don’t regret anything I’ve done and it’s like you said it in a song and I love you for it. I get you !!! I’m proud of our growth and your compassion!!! Go offffff sis. !
It’s literally so sickening that she had to do her own “ genius interview “ just to get people to even try to attempt to understand her.. like no other artist/singer has ever had to do this before.. people hate queen soo much i don’t understand is it because she’s soo pure & kind and people are taking advantage of that ?? Like let’s be real... if she was like any of y’all favorite celebrities, boujee/ stuck up, conceited, y’all would say something about that!!! Like come on now how could you hate queen?? She has YET turn into someone that she isn’t, I don’t think she will ever change. A lot of y’all are miserable and unhappy with your own lives & it shows!!
They hate her because back then when she was explaining to her bullies people called her a colorist for how she use black as dark skin and call them ugly when black comes in all shades.
We knew, I remember that “scandal” of your ex friend saying how Chris would beat you and about him putting you out the car pregnant in the cold and of course you defended him because you felt you had to. But the fact that over a year after the breakup you still didn’t air him out but he had the nerve to try to play you and talk down on you everyday as if he wasn’t the problem. Like it’s ridiculous.
That’s still the Father of her Son , so if she slanders him on social media her Son is going to see And even tho the situation is out there that’s out of her character
@@tee_deevy yea I know, that’s why it’s soo ridiculous. She thinks about their sons future while he just bashes and disrespects her constantly like he won’t see that one day.
@@candyliverpool3260 so why isn’t Chris “big” if that’s the case? They both put out music pertaining to their relationship. The difference is Queen’s music was better, hince why she’s much more successful than him.
This video was not easy for her to make. Y’all have to understand that this song has a lot of emotional and traumatic events that took place in her life. Much Love to her. ❤️
Queen I appreciate you writing your song, because I can relate to the domestic violence, being abused by a family member as a child and my oldest daughter seeing her father outside our home. It was a lot but time and forgiveness heals your soul. I was crying at the end. Keep your head up and hold it high. Keep striving and push forward.
My heart breaks for you social media is so cruel to you and you are literally so unproblematic. I enjoyed your album I NEED IT personally your music helped me when I was dealing with a horrible time in my relationship. You’re so sweet I love everything about it. You’ll do great things!
Queen I cried watching this and I’m only 16 and I’ve went through everything you was explaining in this video and I just cause you have a big heart for people people will never understand how it feel to forgive someone that had did soooo many bad things to you and I’m so grateful that I have a idol like you that let me know that I’m not the only person going through something I love you queen ✨ beautiful black strong queen 👑✨
When u type in "queen naija too much to say lyrics" its the 1st 1 to pop up i think thats y they used it and shouldnt have cuz it need to be deleted lol
You didn’t fall off, you made a family. You grew, you got stronger ❤️ you are a beautiful soul and a lovely mother. I love you queen keep doing the dam thing. I listen to your music almost everyday and this song was FIRE 🔥
That same person that makes you cry knows exactly what they did so they know how to fix it. But they enjoy the part of breaking you to feel like they fixing you. But it’s hard to find the pieces and put them back together all the time. Eventually pieces will come up missing and the damage is hard to be replaced. Either you will have to find the piece your self or somebody new can come and help you find it. But either way the person that broke you will just stop looking for the pieces eventually because they start to care less and less because they think nobody else will want you. But then when you come up miss or giving away to somebody else then they begin to realize your worth. But at that point it’s too late. You are a survivor of a lot and it’s so amazing to see another person through similar situations to me WIN!!! Even as a man I can relate to your life completely
No that no true y’all will judge her for the stupidest thing but you know what don’t make sense yeah don’t do that to Cardi B or Nicki. Minaj you only do it to Queen
I just told my mom about what happened to me at 22. It’s definitely traumatic and almost embarrassing. I thought it was my fault for so long. I was no older than 5 so I resonate with this song so much omg 😭😭
Disgust is what I felt after being molested. I was scared cause I was supposed to be protected but instead I’m keeping my attackers secret safe 😞 we know sis.
Sometimes abuse is not always physical! There’s mental abuse and financial abuse! Such as you going into business with your spouse and then they take all the money when you separate, although you may have helped make most of the money!!
i truly felt EVERY WORD of this song, being a recovering addict with almost 7 years clean (12.06.13 ) so tryna stay sober thru life’s trials and tribulations issa REAL thing & being in an abusive relationship but tryna stay strong for my 2 kids. & having to share my son SUCKS but he’s almost 15 now so thankfully he understands. Queen i give you the UPMOST RESPECT, it’s been a pleasure watching you grow from this young hurting little girl into this amazing mature woman, girlfriend & MOTHER! youu are one of the STRONGEST influencers i’ve ever watched. cj & legend ( & clarence ) are truly BLESSED to have such a STRONG & LOVING WOMAN in their lives. also it takes a STRONG person to forgive & move on without bashing the one who truly broke youu completely down.. people deff need to RESPECT YOUU MORE THAN THEY DO!! i love youuu sis 🙏🏽❤️😘 now i’m waiting for “ lord bad fits “ to react bc his supporters want him too 😂💀
@@aaliyahseven thank youuuu. yeah it’s been a struggle not gonna lie but my kids give me the strength i need & they / i lost their dad / my husband back in 2010 so i had to get myself together NMW. but thanks again sis 😘❤️
I’m so sorry you went through that mama. Really 🤍 as easy as it sounds, try to heal, FOR YOURSELF. you shouldn’t still have to suffer because of that man’s horrible actions. Stay strong x
18:54 I know you probably won't see this, but... I was abused/molested at 5 years old. He told me it was a game and I don't remember being scared or it hurting me, all I can remember is looking up at my younger Sister thinking I don't want him to play this game with her. Thankfully he was caught in the act before he touched my Sister. Anyway I always used to say the same that I don't think about it and it didn't affect me. I'm 51 now and it's only in the last couple of years I've realised how badly it did affect my life
@@menendawit4860 Thank-you ❤ I know it wasn't my fault but I still feel more ashamed than courageous. I can see now that it's had a negative impact on my life (drugs etc) I don't remember being scared at the time though so there's nothing frightens me about it now. The only thing I thought ever bothered me was imagining what he could have done to my little Sister 🤷🏻♀️ I appreciate your words though & hope you have a fantastic day 🙂
this is my FAVORITE song off of the album. Queen never fails, every song she’s made so far I’ve loved, but this one I felt the most. I have been thru similar situations, I recently got out of a toxic, DV relationship 6 months ago. this song made me cry when I first heard it cause I felt like it came at a perfect time & I wasn’t alone.. & seeing how far she’s come from where she was & how resilient she is after all she’s been thru has comforted me. so Queen, if you ever see this, thank you for being a voice for other women who can’t speak for themselves. your music has helped me so much. may you continue to receive many blessings, congratulations on your success. keep the hits coming.. MUCH LOVE 💜✨
You are one of the strongest woman to walk this earth! To have overcome everything u have and still be so sweet and forgiving says so much about you as a whole! Like everyone else has said in the comments baby girl you never fell off! You elevated honey!! I too am a survivor of both domestic violence and was sexually abused by a family member when I was in the 3rd grade and didn’t tell my mom or anyone til he passed away and I felt no pain no remorse nothing and had to explain to my mom why I wouldn’t attend his funeral! He was her grandpa and was her everything so I felt like she wouldn’t believe me or maybe I’d ruin the live she had for him I have no idea why I didn’t tell her til then so I understand exactly where you’re coming from! You’re an amazing woman Queen!
Queen is such a strong woman you can tell everything she says is genuine I love the fact Most of us have followed her life from the beginning and now look at her✨😍
this song literally touches my heart its so DEEP. you can just feel her heart and her pain and trauma through the song. she is the sweetest human i love her
Girl don’t every stress yourself out just bc someone said “Your a one hit” do u live in the moment, do what makes u happy don’t turn something that makes u happy into something stressful
I listened to this song over n over n cried n now I’m watching queen reaction n it’s making me cry all over again. Queen is such a sweet soul I feel like she’s one of the nicest persons in the world she’s so sweet and loving continue being you, you’re bless
I promise queen has one of the most gentle soul I have seen. Such a beautiful person. Her loved ones are truly blessed. Happy Thanksgiving to all. Stay safe everyone.
Being married and having kids young can be overwhelming. But the person you love should support your individuality and let you continue to find yourself if you didn't get the chance to before you got in a relationship.
To me forgiveness is something that is more so for yourself and not the other person sometimes in order to have closure or heal and move on from things you have to come to terms with it and forgive people.
I can tell u wanted to cry when u was talking about the cj situation and the thing that happened with your family members it hurts me even tho it didn’t happen to me
From one Libra to another... QUEEN YOUR ALBUM WAS 🔥 🔥🔥🔥! It’s only up from here!!!!! And only haters or pessimistic people will misconstrue your words! Keep being the beautiful person that you are!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I love you so much Queen. I have fell in love with your music the day I heard Medicine. I know it’s a Queen Naija song bc your lyrics are so intimate and raw. I play your music when I’m angry at a man, feeling grateful for my family, or when I’m feeling down. No matter what mood I’m in, your music makes me feel heard. So thank you 🙏🏼
All props to you on your level of maturity. Despite the pain they caused u, ur still looking out for that person from a distance. Keep ur head up Queen 👑
i think she mean the person who used to make u soo happy the happiest ever can hurt u. the most but we still chose to kinda chase the thought of the happiness they once gave us or they give us for a moment
Alot of ppl relate to this including me. I'm glad u broke this down fa the dummies in the back. I'm glad u was strong enough to talk about this . We love u
Let me tell you something Ma'am. This ENTIRE CD is absolutely amazing. I am very hard to please when it comes to music, and I have it on repeat. I'm 48 years old and this specific song definitely hits home for me in many ways. Stay beyond blessed Queen. 💫💫
When Queen was talking about the domestic violence situation I remember seeing one of TNK Squad comments on youtube saying why would she leave him when he cheat but didn't leave when he abused her ? For them to say that was absolutely DISGUSTING !
They’ve been garbage. They spoke on Queen’s children & also threatened a pregnant woman before. I wish they would disappear from YT. it’s clearly a trend to hate on Queen smh
I was so excited this morning, seeing you on The Real!!!!! You go girl 💕💕 It has been so amazing, watching you grow and flourish. I honestly do not know how anyone could dislike you! Like you said, you're not perfect, BUT NONE OF US ARE...however, through everything you have been through AND through all of your success...you have remained YOU! I love that about you...you have such a kind heart, you are so humble and love everyone. I'm sorry that you have been through things, that you shouldn't have had to go through 😥 I've been through alot myself, so I understand your pain! But you are one strong woman, Queen. Sending you love and prayers 💕🙏🏼
you are super strong and beautiful. you didn’t deserve any of the abuse you went through. 💗💗💗 i love you so much and i’m always gonna support you. your music is so powerful and your voice is amazing. keep making music and being yourself, you are beautiful and never let anyone tell you differently.
Queen baby it’s totally fine to feel your emotions!! It’s been a crazy year for so many people and you yourself have experienced many major life changes. I’m glad to hear your in a better place but please know it’s ok to NOT be ok! I see something in your eyes that makes me feel for you. I don’t know what it is but I just wish the best for you! Sending all love your way ♥️
I didn’t tell my mom til I was 14 years old, that unexplainable feeling in this video I understand because I felt the same way, 21 still living with the trauma as well. This song touches my soul every time I listen, & I’ve been a Queen fan since the red couch, she is at the peak of her career & there is no other song I connect to more. 🖤
The fact that you use to be a security guard and now you’re hiring security guards. It’s the boss up for me !
Yessss
And you don't have to rush yourself to do that Love takes Time but it also gets old when you can't find somebody to cuddle with cuddling is different than have a relationship but sometimes in some people ready to cuddle they cut everybody else off because they're scared to lose that person that they're dealing with at the time there's a lot of people in the industry that don't know how to be friends why they're cuddling in a relationship and other fans in other people get turned off because they're quick to turn them off once relationship and family become an issue of direction and sometimes couples want you to have a direction to match their positive direction to fit their perspective on what you are doing with your life until you come out with something like this and put it all on the table
There's a lot of girls in the industry that went through that and it's because y'all are so beautiful so attractive they can't believe that you started off like that again they did the same thing to Nikki Minaj they went back when she was in school just to show her body because they were so jealous about her figure not about her talent
Financial fear that you can't do it on your own without somebody helping you relationship fear finding somebody again to be physical with knowing you have to start from the beginning and protect yourself and not and not feeling as comfortable with them as the other people you were with before and have to go into the routine of using protection knowing new family members fighting about ex-girlfriends in-laws trouble families picking up the slack with money and being devoted to everything else
It took Mary almost a couple of decades to get a roll as soon as she got it she nailed it give it time people crazy give it time sometimes they want you to succeed with your success so they can feel less failures to theirs
SHE CRIED LISTENING TO HER OWN SONG JUST IMAGINE HOW MANY OTHER PEOPLE WERE JUST AS EMOTIONAL....I LOVE YOU QUEEN KEEP BEING BEAUTIFUL
I tear up every time I try to sing along to it. My voice always cracks! 😭😭😭😩🥺❤️
Yeah she took me there.
When did she cry ?
STREAM MISSUNDERSTOOD! My personal favs #2 #5 #6 #10 #16 🔥
Lol she never cried
You NEVER fell off! Did a successful tour till you were 8 months pregnant then had a baby, was raising two boy’s, dealt with and overcame postpartum depression then wrote enough songs for 3 albums. Man I wish I could fall off like that. Peace 🧡
Ong 😂 if that’s falling off I want it
This COMMENT 🔥💯👏🏼🗣💪🏼
Facts
It’s this comment for me 💯💯💯❤️
Beautiful
The part where she said “the same person who is causing your pain is the same person who is relieving your pain” made me want to cry bc I Dead felt that 🥺
Mannn ong she barely got it out n I knew exactly what she meant
The same person who is causing your pain is the same person who is relieving your pain.
She explained so many emotions and life events in one song. Not a lot of woman can do that today.
Listen to 90s music.. most black female artists did
Your beautiful queen and look so happy, I love it.
I hate how uncomfortable and fidgety she gets when it gets to that part. She was the person who was hurt. She didn’t do anything wrong. She’s a survivor!
Yay I made 100 likes
A victim to that type of trauma you will always blame yourself or feel you could of prevented it. It’s hard to explain. Until you’ve completely healed from that situation which you probably never will it will always be uncomfortable to speak about out loud, unless she speaks about it out loud often.
Try not to say victim guys 🖤 we are SURVIVORS‼️ thinking this way helps so much
@@n0mvdslvnd584 Got it. Sorry for that. I’m changing it now.
I can’t believe she even had to break this song down.Every single lyric was self explanatory 🥲
Exactly
Especially THEE part (very self explanatory)
Exactly!!
Facts
I was thinking the same EXACT thing
The fact that queen is such a kind person and people still try to use her kindness for weakness is sad
Ong
Her heart is so pure,I been watching her since she was living in her small apartment with that little red couch who would of thought she was going through so much,now look at her!She still don't talk bad about Chris while telling her story.She's such a great mom,singer,and person !
I mentioned the red couch in my comment too lol. I remember when the Chris and Queen channel had less than 100,000 subscribers. She's still the same humble person as she was back then.
Giiirrrrllll this song did NOT need a break down. Felt the song as SOON as I read the title. Love you Queen. Love the album too! NO SKIPS!
@K C Giiirrrrrrllll EVERY TIME!!!
OK!
man, when she said she had to get off because she didn’t want to cry in front of the camera. It made me want to give her a hug man.
Literally I love the raw n cut version of qeen
Me too😭🥺
Queen made her own personal Genius interview...I’m here for it cuz sis getting her bag too👏🏾😌
Brilliant!!
She need to do this for all of her songs that can get misconstrued
@@itsuplike9947 I swear I read misconstrued in queen's voice.
@@itsuplike9947 exactly
@@frommypointofvu maybe for certain songs in the future.
Queen, as a divorced parent I completely understand the feelings you had with CJ jumping from house to house. My son also brought up “why don’t you and mom live together?”
The great thing about kids is that they bounce back SO fast. With love and affection, they can get on board with any changes. Keep being his loving mother and he’ll be fine with 2 houses, 2 sets of rules, but also, 2 places to feel loved and happy!!
As far as telling him, I think that’s Chris’ job as his father. Your role is to train him correctly. “Treat your girl with respect. Hold the door. Be a gentleman.” Those things... You shouldn’t bear the burden of exposing CJ to how his father treated you.
Advice from a fan! Keep up the positive energy Queen!
Well said
Wow 🥺 well said
very mature comment. Although I wouldn't trust Chris with explaining everything to CJ. I don't think he would be honest.
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I love this
“PUT MAKEUP OVER BRUISES AND FAKE A SMILE, I COULD PROBABLY RUIN LIVES IF I RUN MY MOUTH, TURN ON THE CAMERA WE GOTTA MAKE THIS MONEY NOW”’🥺🙏🏾
Is exactly what she’s doing with Clarence😂
@@allofthemoneyperiod5279 smhhh youre such a sad person
@@brooklynsmith369 not rlly it’s the truth
All of the money Period how you know?
You could tell these are kids that are interpreting her lyrics. Staying sober doesn't only mean to not drink or smoke. Being sober is also having a clear and pure mind
💯 thank you. It’s a lot deeper
Thank you 💯 they’re so vain and immature.
I don't think she knows how much we crave her being herself
Yessssss
Fax I miss the happy, goofy, smiling vids. It seems like every time she comes back it’s always serious 😔😞
Soooo true!
Facts
💯!
I truly admire how strong queen is, all the pain that this girl suffered and look at her today, raising two amazing young kings, having a whole MAN that loves her to death, dropped a wonderful album... karma exists and is a b*tch, congrats bby girl and keep doing yah thing 💯❤️
I was sexually assaulted for 10 years by my foster parents and till this day I still live with the pain, but after being in 6 mental hospital I’ve fought there it all and if anyone is going there the same thing please speak out and try to find help. YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Praying for you and your healing!
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❤❤❤❤❤
Domestic Violence is REAL and yes it’s VERY HARD to leave that cycle is addictive it’s mental you can easily get trapped in that cycle 💯
i don’t think queen felt addicted to the abuse she endured from chris.... it’s not addicting. it’s just hard to get up and leave when you’re not prepared and still have love for the person in some ways, not to mention sharing a child w someone
QUEEN THIS ABLUM HELPED ME sooo much !!! I feel less guilty for being happy after being broken.... I don’t regret anything I’ve done and it’s like you said it in a song and I love you for it. I get you !!! I’m proud of our growth and your compassion!!! Go offffff sis. !
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Definitely think about the kids. I was traumatized as a child watching my mom go through domestic violence.
Same... and those noises and fights you hear and see NEVER go away. Glad you’re safe now
“24 still living with the trauma” I felt that in my soul Queen. I love you for being a voice for us that can’t speak 😫❤️
Her talking about this reminds me of layton greene blame on me
This woman has been through so much yet she’s still out here being her self and being so open and confident it’s crazy
It’s literally so sickening that she had to do her own “ genius interview “ just to get people to even try to attempt to understand her.. like no other artist/singer has ever had to do this before.. people hate queen soo much i don’t understand is it because she’s soo pure & kind and people are taking advantage of that ?? Like let’s be real... if she was like any of y’all favorite celebrities, boujee/ stuck up, conceited, y’all would say something about that!!! Like come on now how could you hate queen?? She has YET turn into someone that she isn’t, I don’t think she will ever change. A lot of y’all are miserable and unhappy with your own lives & it shows!!
Yes Corsha! That’s exactly what it is. Her soul is so pure. Definitely give me Jhene vibes ❤️
@@vimeshipippen8901 yes!!
They hate her because back then when she was explaining to her bullies people called her a colorist for how she use black as dark skin and call them ugly when black comes in all shades.
@@nonameyet9952 yes I saw that video of her talking about that but I didn’t find that colorist .
@@corshashanbria me neither.
Queen deserves EVERYTHING 💚. I’m sorry about all that you went thru but it has made you STRONGER. And you have a TESTIMONY sis. Love you💚✨✨.
When Queen cried I cried... wow I’m happy she’s in a better place in life and happy ❤️
Me too 😭 I've been there
Sweaaar
We knew, I remember that “scandal” of your ex friend saying how Chris would beat you and about him putting you out the car pregnant in the cold and of course you defended him because you felt you had to. But the fact that over a year after the breakup you still didn’t air him out but he had the nerve to try to play you and talk down on you everyday as if he wasn’t the problem. Like it’s ridiculous.
That’s still the Father of her Son , so if she slanders him on social media her Son is going to see
And even tho the situation is out there that’s out of her character
The reason why she get so big is because her whole story is about Chris and dragging him.
@@tee_deevy yea I know, that’s why it’s soo ridiculous. She thinks about their sons future while he just bashes and disrespects her constantly like he won’t see that one day.
@@candyliverpool3260 you a damn lie.
@@candyliverpool3260 so why isn’t Chris “big” if that’s the case? They both put out music pertaining to their relationship. The difference is Queen’s music was better, hince why she’s much more successful than him.
This video was not easy for her to make. Y’all have to understand that this song has a lot of emotional and traumatic events that took place in her life. Much Love to her. ❤️
Queen I appreciate you writing your song, because I can relate to the domestic violence, being abused by a family member as a child and my oldest daughter seeing her father outside our home. It was a lot but time and forgiveness heals your soul. I was crying at the end. Keep your head up and hold it high. Keep striving and push forward.
Em I the only one who's tearing up when she was talking about Cj going back and forth 😢😢 So relatable that hit me hard
Same!!!
My heart breaks for you social media is so cruel to you and you are literally so unproblematic. I enjoyed your album I NEED IT personally your music helped me when I was dealing with a horrible time in my relationship. You’re so sweet I love everything about it. You’ll do great things!
queen really is a genuine soul, yall need to leave her alone
Queen I cried watching this and I’m only 16 and I’ve went through everything you was explaining in this video and I just cause you have a big heart for people people will never understand how it feel to forgive someone that had did soooo many bad things to you and I’m so grateful that I have a idol like you that let me know that I’m not the only person going through something I love you queen ✨ beautiful black strong queen 👑✨
If someone hurt you, tell somebody,.
sending you love ❤️
Seeing Queen cry made wanna jump through the screen and hug her. I love her so much bro 🥺🥺
Period we know you write your own music ‼️Mr. Cough aka “same jeans” try to discredit u and ion like that
Lmao exactly
Bad beard, same jeans, lord bad fits needs to quit speaking
@@jannaeleslie4423 dont forget black ice lmao
Mr. Black ice😂😂😂😂
Same jeans 💀
People always hating on Queen and she so humble and dont even be doing nothing, they just always got something bad say abt her for nothing.
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I really don't get it honestly. She just about her business really
Facts 💯💯💯
She’s no different then the rest of us, stop idolizing her!!!
They said she was a colorist
Imagine Queen freaking Naija picking your lyric video for her to use in a video....and you have most of her damn lyrics wrong🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂
I said the same thing
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LMAOOOOO
Dude yesss I was just thinking this. Embarrassing
When u type in "queen naija too much to say lyrics" its the 1st 1 to pop up i think thats y they used it and shouldnt have cuz it need to be deleted lol
You didn’t fall off, you made a family. You grew, you got stronger ❤️ you are a beautiful soul and a lovely mother. I love you queen keep doing the dam thing. I listen to your music almost everyday and this song was FIRE 🔥
How can you fall off when you haven’t reached your peak yet? Queen definitely has a long career ahead of her. Keep goingggg suhhhh 😬😬
That same person that makes you cry knows exactly what they did so they know how to fix it. But they enjoy the part of breaking you to feel like they fixing you. But it’s hard to find the pieces and put them back together all the time. Eventually pieces will come up missing and the damage is hard to be replaced. Either you will have to find the piece your self or somebody new can come and help you find it. But either way the person that broke you will just stop looking for the pieces eventually because they start to care less and less because they think nobody else will want you. But then when you come up miss or giving away to somebody else then they begin to realize your worth. But at that point it’s too late. You are a survivor of a lot and it’s so amazing to see another person through similar situations to me WIN!!! Even as a man I can relate to your life completely
💔😭 no words this is deep...
Wow I couldn’t have said it better myself! So deep. Keep winning ;-)
You are a winner too My brother 💪🏾❤️🥰
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Couldn't have said it better 🗣💯 !
She was trying so hard not to cry :(( We love you queen.
I got choked up and shed tears multiple times during Queen speaking. 💔
Felt real bad for her but glad now she’s doing way better then before
That fact that Queen got to explain her own song to everyone on the Internet that sad 😔😒
Not really because people explain their songs on genius and everywhere else all the time.... she not the only one
No that no true y’all will judge her for the stupidest thing but you know what don’t make sense yeah don’t do that to Cardi B or Nicki. Minaj you only do it to Queen
Facts!!!
This is what music artist do, she just getting paid to do it.
Music artist get asked what their song mean all the time. It's a part of the game.
I just told my mom about what happened to me at 22. It’s definitely traumatic and almost embarrassing. I thought it was my fault for so long. I was no older than 5 so I resonate with this song so much omg 😭😭
@@thebiggestd7998 ❤️❤️❤️
Queen deserves all the happiness and success that's coming her way. she's so strong, literally the epitome of her name
Disgust is what I felt after being molested. I was scared cause I was supposed to be protected but instead I’m keeping my attackers secret safe 😞 we know sis.
I felt that 😕
I know exactly what you mean
So well said
crippling.. LOVE YOU
@@lakeiam615 years later now I’m struggling to be confident in my femininity without attracting unwanted attention. It takes support ❤️💯
She so strong I love her
She deff is strong!
Awe Queen a real one . She couldn't have been given a better name . She truly is a Queen 🥰❤❤🙏
My first time hearing it, I cried & I just kept saying “I’m so sorry Queen” 🥺❤️ Sending you a million hugs & tons of love your way as always
People was calling her dumb for showing her true personality like what that’s what we loved about her 🙁😳😩❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯💯😍‼️😍
Sometimes abuse is not always physical! There’s mental abuse and financial abuse! Such as you going into business with your spouse and then they take all the money when you separate, although you may have helped make most of the money!!
Waiting for Chris..... “Reacting to Queen reacting to Too much to say (She said this about me)
😂😂facts
on my mammy!! he coming, he cant wait!! and im waiting for Clarence to F L A M E build-a-Clare!!
shutup
You forgot his usual *gets emotional
@@yupitsme9713 🤣🤣🤣😂😂 FACTS!
i truly felt EVERY WORD of this song, being a recovering addict with almost 7 years clean (12.06.13 ) so tryna stay sober thru life’s trials and tribulations issa REAL thing & being in an abusive relationship but tryna stay strong for my 2 kids. & having to share my son SUCKS but he’s almost 15 now so thankfully he understands.
Queen i give you the UPMOST RESPECT, it’s been a pleasure watching you grow from this young hurting little girl into this amazing mature woman, girlfriend & MOTHER! youu are one of the STRONGEST influencers i’ve ever watched. cj & legend ( & clarence ) are truly BLESSED to have such a STRONG & LOVING WOMAN in their lives. also it takes a STRONG person to forgive & move on without bashing the one who truly broke youu completely down.. people deff need to RESPECT YOUU MORE THAN THEY DO!! i love youuu sis 🙏🏽❤️😘
now i’m waiting for “ lord bad fits “ to react bc his supporters want him too 😂💀
Wow! 7 years. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@aaliyahseven thank youuuu. yeah it’s been a struggle not gonna lie but my kids give me the strength i need & they / i lost their dad / my husband back in 2010 so i had to get myself together NMW. but thanks again sis 😘❤️
awww she almost cried i love her sm 🥺 she didn’t deserve that no one does that hurt me :( she has such a pure soul
I was molested by my dad from ages 7-14. I am 21 now and still dealing with it. Flashbacks and nightmares. It’s awful. I still don’t trust men.
I’m so sorry you went through that mama. Really 🤍 as easy as it sounds, try to heal, FOR YOURSELF. you shouldn’t still have to suffer because of that man’s horrible actions. Stay strong x
18:54 I know you probably won't see this, but... I was abused/molested at 5 years old. He told me it was a game and I don't remember being scared or it hurting me, all I can remember is looking up at my younger Sister thinking I don't want him to play this game with her. Thankfully he was caught in the act before he touched my Sister. Anyway I always used to say the same that I don't think about it and it didn't affect me. I'm 51 now and it's only in the last couple of years I've realised how badly it did affect my life
Hugs am sorry😭😭😭
@@valerieshinia8526 Thank-you 🙂 I appreciate the hugs 🤗 Hope you have an amazing day
sending you all the love ❤️❤️❤️ i’m so sorry. thank you for your courage to share this.
@@menendawit4860 Thank-you ❤ I know it wasn't my fault but I still feel more ashamed than courageous. I can see now that it's had a negative impact on my life (drugs etc) I don't remember being scared at the time though so there's nothing frightens me about it now. The only thing I thought ever bothered me was imagining what he could have done to my little Sister 🤷🏻♀️ I appreciate your words though & hope you have a fantastic day 🙂
Late but your brain has a way of shielding the trauma
this is my FAVORITE song off of the album. Queen never fails, every song she’s made so far I’ve loved, but this one I felt the most. I have been thru similar situations, I recently got out of a toxic, DV relationship 6 months ago. this song made me cry when I first heard it cause I felt like it came at a perfect time & I wasn’t alone.. & seeing how far she’s come from where she was & how resilient she is after all she’s been thru has comforted me. so Queen, if you ever see this, thank you for being a voice for other women who can’t speak for themselves. your music has helped me so much. may you continue to receive many blessings, congratulations on your success. keep the hits coming.. MUCH LOVE 💜✨
Coming from an outsiders point of view, you never fell off Queen. Your still popping even tho you weren't releasing music back to back to back.
You are one of the strongest woman to walk this earth! To have overcome everything u have and still be so sweet and forgiving says so much about you as a whole! Like everyone else has said in the comments baby girl you never fell off! You elevated honey!! I too am a survivor of both domestic violence and was sexually abused by a family member when I was in the 3rd grade and didn’t tell my mom or anyone til he passed away and I felt no pain no remorse nothing and had to explain to my mom why I wouldn’t attend his funeral! He was her grandpa and was her everything so I felt like she wouldn’t believe me or maybe I’d ruin the live she had for him I have no idea why I didn’t tell her til then so I understand exactly where you’re coming from! You’re an amazing woman Queen!
Shes such a genuine soul. I honestly feel like shes one of heaven angels here to speak through with her music.
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She seems like a female who does all the dirt and does sneaky stuff but will blame it all on Chris because she’s emotionally unstable
Nah fr
She’s an angle
Queen is such a strong woman you can tell everything she says is genuine I love the fact Most of us have followed her life from the beginning and now look at her✨😍
To me, you never fell off. The only reason is because till this day I still replay your first song. Never gets old to me.
YOU PUT YOUR FOOT IN THIS ALBUM.. this song make me cry girl you didn’t deserve none of that.
this song literally touches my heart its so DEEP. you can just feel her heart and her pain and trauma through the song. she is the sweetest human i love her
Girl YU NEVER FELL OFF ppl hate yu for no fckn reason. You're humble, sweet, & Godly.
Agreed ‼️
Okay fr she never fell off she is deff humble!
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Amen facts
I relate to it so much 🥺 you got big things coming your way queen never let anyone dull your sparkle ❤️ .
Me too
Queen your a great mom.Your everything a dude want. Your a church girl, fine asf, loyal, and sweet. And your kind hearted.😍😍😍😍😍
I’m sending love to anybody that’s reading this 💕 queen you are phenomenal 👏🏾
Thank you King, sending love to you too.
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Girl don’t every stress yourself out just bc someone said “Your a one hit” do u live in the moment, do what makes u happy don’t turn something that makes u happy into something stressful
I listened to this song over n over n cried n now I’m watching queen reaction n it’s making me cry all over again. Queen is such a sweet soul I feel like she’s one of the nicest persons in the world she’s so sweet and loving continue being you, you’re bless
I promise queen has one of the most gentle soul I have seen. Such a beautiful person. Her loved ones are truly blessed. Happy Thanksgiving to all. Stay safe everyone.
Being married and having kids young can be overwhelming. But the person you love should support your individuality and let you continue to find yourself if you didn't get the chance to before you got in a relationship.
To me forgiveness is something that is more so for yourself and not the other person sometimes in order to have closure or heal and move on from things you have to come to terms with it and forgive people.
True
I agree
Some of us seen it all.....and understood everything .
Your beautiful Queen
Im so glad she's out of that situation she looks so sad even talkn bot it my heart goes out to her sincerely
I can tell u wanted to cry when u was talking about the cj situation and the thing that happened with your family members it hurts me even tho it didn’t happen to me
I don’t understand how ppl thought she’d be a one hit wonder when all her songs after medicine did NUMBERS💀💀
That’s what I’m saying🤔
Because it was BEFORE the album came out. That’s why.
Okay bars
@@asiasamuels4791 Ik I was talking about before the album too
THE QUEEN HAS SPOKEN 💯
P E R I O D 👏🏾
Spokentth 👌
❤️ you’ll be surprised what people go through behind closed doors.💔
Lots of little girls watched this video and finally told there story to someone Queen. Thank you for inspiring ❤️
From one Libra to another... QUEEN YOUR ALBUM WAS 🔥 🔥🔥🔥! It’s only up from here!!!!!
And only haters or pessimistic people will misconstrue your words! Keep being the beautiful person that you are!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
"A lot of this is wrong" 😭 That person just wrote what they thought they heard
Doesn't change the fact that it was wrong so she cleared it up😭😭
@@7279654 lol
So cute at the end basically saying she doesn't want to see Chris hurt, and still wishes the best for him. She really has a big heart
@@dreedream it's was a lot of mental abuse in that reltionship talking over her and video just being rude and dismissive of her feelings
I love you so much Queen. I have fell in love with your music the day I heard Medicine. I know it’s a Queen Naija song bc your lyrics are so intimate and raw. I play your music when I’m angry at a man, feeling grateful for my family, or when I’m feeling down. No matter what mood I’m in, your music makes me feel heard. So thank you 🙏🏼
All props to you on your level of maturity. Despite the pain they caused u, ur still looking out for that person from a distance. Keep ur head up Queen 👑
i think she mean the person who used to make u soo happy the happiest ever can hurt u. the most but we still chose to kinda chase the thought of the happiness they once gave us or they give us for a moment
Alot of ppl relate to this including me. I'm glad u broke this down fa the dummies in the back. I'm glad u was strong enough to talk about this . We love u
Rt
Let me tell you something Ma'am. This ENTIRE CD is absolutely amazing. I am very hard to please when it comes to music, and I have it on repeat. I'm 48 years old and this specific song definitely hits home for me in many ways. Stay beyond blessed Queen. 💫💫
I love the fact that she didn’t cut out the part when she messed up with the laptop 😂💀❤️
Being you and not hiding anything 🙌🏻
“Finding She” should be the title of your next album
I could see Queen holding so much in but yet can't let it out cause things would go side ways...
That’s not only past but present too.
True ppl might say she’s crying because of chris🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@bonniecamile299 she got emotional about her past not her present. She clearly said she happy now and is in a better place.
@@ketag620 she clearly said she happy now and is in a better place, so she got emotional about her past.
@@bonniecamile299 I don’t care what she said, it’s clear to see.
When Queen was talking about the domestic violence situation I remember seeing one of TNK Squad comments on youtube saying why would she leave him when he cheat but didn't leave when he abused her ? For them to say that was absolutely DISGUSTING !
And they think because most of her fans are kids that us grown people can have a different opinion from there’s. They just need to come out as haters
They’ve been garbage. They spoke on Queen’s children & also threatened a pregnant woman before. I wish they would disappear from YT. it’s clearly a trend to hate on Queen smh
@@i4cbeauty589 Exactly, they get mad when you disagree with whatever they said
Two miserable soul🙄
Their whole page is basically QUEEN lol. They’re too old to be that damn lame and bored
the whole album was fire. but this song hit for me
I was so excited this morning, seeing you on The Real!!!!! You go girl 💕💕 It has been so amazing, watching you grow and flourish. I honestly do not know how anyone could dislike you! Like you said, you're not perfect, BUT NONE OF US ARE...however, through everything you have been through AND through all of your success...you have remained YOU! I love that about you...you have such a kind heart, you are so humble and love everyone. I'm sorry that you have been through things, that you shouldn't have had to go through 😥 I've been through alot myself, so I understand your pain! But you are one strong woman, Queen. Sending you love and prayers 💕🙏🏼
you are super strong and beautiful. you didn’t deserve any of the abuse you went through. 💗💗💗 i love you so much and i’m always gonna support you. your music is so powerful and your voice is amazing. keep making music and being yourself, you are beautiful and never let anyone tell you differently.
This song hits! I get choked up singing it cause the lyrics really hit that deep! Your music SPEAKS! I love it❤️🥺
Queen baby it’s totally fine to feel your emotions!! It’s been a crazy year for so many people and you yourself have experienced many major life changes. I’m glad to hear your in a better place but please know it’s ok to NOT be ok! I see something in your eyes that makes me feel for you. I don’t know what it is but I just wish the best for you! Sending all love your way ♥️
I didn’t tell my mom til I was 14 years old, that unexplainable feeling in this video I understand because I felt the same way, 21 still living with the trauma as well. This song touches my soul every time I listen, & I’ve been a Queen fan since the red couch, she is at the peak of her career & there is no other song I connect to more. 🖤
I’m 14 rn and I still haven’t told anyone tbh I was on the verge of telling my favorite cousins but I just didn’t want to hurt anyone
This the most humble human being on the face of this earth.
I never met you but I really love you queen...
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LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE QUEEN! THANK YOU FOR SHARING. YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH YOU HELP WOMEN!
If no one streamed misunderstood then there is a problem