Doyin is mighty intelligent. But there's something else about her that we hardly talk about; THE GIRL CAN DRIP! Omg! Doyin's fashion sense is classy as heaven! It gets me all the time.
Ofcorse I will say agree with you as a guy if you financially capable definitely don't settle for less infact I know my gender no guy under your league will approach you so make women do same too instead of looking for a man to take care of your needs why not add value to yourself
Now as a guy I don't have a problem with a girl looking for financial buryant men , but I have a problem when you as a lady is broke instead of to add value to yourself to make yourself the lady that a financial man would want instead you are looking for a man who is financially capable
She is right and wrong as well Instead of a lady to look for a man financially capable when you are broke why not add financial value to yourself so that you can attract financial capable men
A bit cocky with her explanation, I need a man who can take care if me...SAYS WHO? BY WHAT STANDARD...WHOSE RULES IS THIS...This kinda lady will deal with a guy that loses their job whilst married to her
That part ehn... Simple, your partner should not be lazy... Wealth should be communal, but well, it's an individual choice. People can live in a bubble they want
In today's economy, both the husband and wife are providers . There are lots of other bills that women take care of. House rent and school fees are not the only bills in marriage.
😂😂 I don't know how ladies these days defind a broke man, but to me a broke man is a man who doesn't have vision and is mentally broke. Being mentally broke means you don't even have plans, visions and future. I'll 100% be with a man with vision and plans. No rich lady will demand for a rich man as well if you're really rich. You're asking for a helper when you go out of money. That's it. Just be plain
@@AyaEgbuho Normally ,no sane man would want the wife or his woman to take care of major responsibilities in the house. I think ,it would have been better she said , "I can't date a lazy man". This is because there are hardworking guys out there pushing , just that things have not worked out as expected. Maybe a little push or support from the lady , he can go along way in making him stand. Coming to your question Ma, Any hard working man will always keep pushing during bad times. My question is what if the stuff lingers more than expected ?
@@zeemediamiddleeast There are levels to wealth. And everyone is entitled to seek after the level of wealth they want. I myself am not interested in being a hardworking broke man who has little potential for growth. A man who is educated and has a lot of skills and talents and is hardworking and sociable and can network is a good catch and he should be able to produce financial stability with that. A man who is not educated, has very limited skills, has no access to people who can help him and is working hard at a dead end job, I would not choose. These conversations have much nuance. It's not one size fits all. I know on social media people put the most provocative part to get clicks and likes, but life is not social media. And in life, women and men should choose their life partner wisely. Women should especially choose wisely if they want children, because their is a financial opportunity cost for having children on women. Your pregnancy and the first five years of their life is critical. Who is taking care of those children? It's either you or you're hiring someone. Maybe a relative. Those folks are the luckiest. But as a women, you should know that having children will compromise your ability to earn depending on where you are on your wealth journey for some years until the children get older. Lastly, let's all use our insight and discernment.
Firstly even in the days of Adam, the man should provide, the money must be here and there not that a man should sleep with a woman and give her the money in the morning, that seems like prostitution but if he can buy gifts, take me to lunch and and and that is acceptable I also think my love language is finances
I'm South African woman ,I'm sorry if this comes off as rude but I think you have unrealistic expectations. Just like a man who would expect a woman who just gave birth to be able to do all house chores. I cringe that you are not ashamed to say this publicly. I really hope you never meet a sick man sick in their head who will provide and make you pay in unimaginable ways, because they will know you are with them because they have the money, they will know they can not trust you. What will happen if you get married to a wealthy man and after two years he becomes broke?
I think you have low expectations. Our cultures have dictated to women low expectations. It's sad. If it works for you go with that. But don't denigrate a woman who knows what she wants. Plenty are getting it.
You just have low expectations. Like she said “She isn’t a broke woman”. So having high expectations for the type of partner she wants for yourself is not a crime. Expect something good for yourself and it would come
There is nothing wrong with having expectations but we also should not loose touch with the different realities that life itself brings. Everything in life is not black or white, there are different shades of colours to it.
You can choose who you entertain and by doing so control who you may fall in love with. If you only entertain men of a certain calibre, then you're more likely going to fall for or choose to marry men within that range. If falling in love is not a choice and it happens without any intention or thought process, why haven't you fallen in love with your local homeless/madmen on the street?
You could never marry Jesus or any of the apostles What man in the new testament had money 💰 If you are focused on the ministry what must you neglect Matthew 6:24 There is more I will wait
Doyin is 100% on points. What else could any sincere person say?
Doyin is mighty intelligent. But there's something else about her that we hardly talk about; THE GIRL CAN DRIP! Omg! Doyin's fashion sense is classy as heaven! It gets me all the time.
"I cannot be with a broke man because I'm not a broke woman myself"
Word!!
Ofcorse I will say agree with you as a guy if you financially capable definitely don't settle for less infact I know my gender no guy under your league will approach you so make women do same too instead of looking for a man to take care of your needs why not add value to yourself
I love how blunt she is.
I agree ... I always say two broke people shouldn’t date or marry.. Love is never truly enough for relationship to thrive . 👌🏾
Love is always enough
We mix it up with romance
Romance is never enough
Now as a guy I don't have a problem with a girl looking for financial buryant men , but I have a problem when you as a lady is broke instead of to add value to yourself to make yourself the lady that a financial man would want instead you are looking for a man who is financially capable
Everything she said was SOOO ON POINT. We would do well to listen and think even deeper for ourselves.
She is right and wrong as well Instead of a lady to look for a man financially capable when you are broke why not add financial value to yourself so that you can attract financial capable men
Doyin is 100% on point. This highlight was really simplified ❤❤❤
Doyin is Whole and Sound.
YES-O Doyin! Financial stability is a MUST in a man. Period.
I can never fall in love with a broke woman💯
BIG FACTS!! I agree with everything she is saying. Vice verse for women!
Nothing but sense was spoken in this clip.
Financial stability is very important. And I agree with doyin very honest.
On point, Doyin
When it comes to financing you all will say it’s the primary duty of a man but when it comes to ladies you all will be like I’m not a maid - hypocrisy
A bit cocky with her explanation, I need a man who can take care if me...SAYS WHO? BY WHAT STANDARD...WHOSE RULES IS THIS...This kinda lady will deal with a guy that loses their job whilst married to her
I don’t know who she is but she’s very wise.
Well said doyin 💯
Doyin is one of the most direct person out there.... doesn't care about public opinion. She just does her thing and own it up!
I agree with her
Yes, preach on Doyin! Only Brokies will get vex! 😊
Men can’t date broke women too simple
But she's right
She will divorce a rich man who gets broke after marriage
That part ehn...
Simple, your partner should not be lazy... Wealth should be communal, but well, it's an individual choice. People can live in a bubble they want
I agree with Doyin 💯💯💯💯
👌👏👏👏👏👏👏 Doyin is good with wisdom
On point💯✅
Kudos to Doyin
An intelligent woman there...
In today's economy, both the husband and wife are providers . There are lots of other bills that women take care of. House rent and school fees are not the only bills in marriage.
Facts!!!
Doyin❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Kudos Chude
Money isn't everything soon will be understood
😂😂 I don't know how ladies these days defind a broke man, but to me a broke man is a man who doesn't have vision and is mentally broke.
Being mentally broke means you don't even have plans, visions and future.
I'll 100% be with a man with vision and plans.
No rich lady will demand for a rich man as well if you're really rich. You're asking for a helper when you go out of money. That's it. Just be plain
As a broke guy I agree with her.
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All well and good!!! However, what happens to the love in the event that life throws a curve ball and he falls on hard times?
Co-ask!?
She answered that already, lend your support
Hmmmm listening
That's why no serious man will look at you....
What if you got married when the guy is wealthy and after a while things went sour financially , are you going to break up with the marriage ?
I love your thought provoking QUESTION.
Does he do anything to get back to stability? Families go through all kinds of things....the key is to keep going.
@@AyaEgbuho Normally ,no sane man would want the wife or his woman to take care of major responsibilities in the house. I think ,it would have been better she said , "I can't date a lazy man". This is because there are hardworking guys out there pushing , just that things have not worked out as expected. Maybe a little push or support from the lady , he can go along way in making him stand. Coming to your question Ma, Any hard working man will always keep pushing during bad times. My question is what if the stuff lingers more than expected ?
@@zeemediamiddleeast There are levels to wealth. And everyone is entitled to seek after the level of wealth they want. I myself am not interested in being a hardworking broke man who has little potential for growth. A man who is educated and has a lot of skills and talents and is hardworking and sociable and can network is a good catch and he should be able to produce financial stability with that. A man who is not educated, has very limited skills, has no access to people who can help him and is working hard at a dead end job, I would not choose. These conversations have much nuance. It's not one size fits all. I know on social media people put the most provocative part to get clicks and likes, but life is not social media. And in life, women and men should choose their life partner wisely. Women should especially choose wisely if they want children, because their is a financial opportunity cost for having children on women. Your pregnancy and the first five years of their life is critical. Who is taking care of those children? It's either you or you're hiring someone. Maybe a relative. Those folks are the luckiest. But as a women, you should know that having children will compromise your ability to earn depending on where you are on your wealth journey for some years until the children get older. Lastly, let's all use our insight and discernment.
@@zeemediamiddleeast she won’t respond cus she’s broke💯😂
First to comment 🎉 Chude you need to gift me a package ooo 😂
I agree
Firstly even in the days of Adam, the man should provide, the money must be here and there not that a man should sleep with a woman and give her the money in the morning, that seems like prostitution but if he can buy gifts, take me to lunch and and and that is acceptable I also think my love language is finances
I'm South African woman ,I'm sorry if this comes off as rude but I think you have unrealistic expectations. Just like a man who would expect a woman who just gave birth to be able to do all house chores. I cringe that you are not ashamed to say this publicly. I really hope you never meet a sick man sick in their head who will provide and make you pay in unimaginable ways, because they will know you are with them because they have the money, they will know they can not trust you. What will happen if you get married to a wealthy man and after two years he becomes broke?
When life hasn't happened to these folks who are media influencers and make millions in their 20s, they think that's all.
Their elders are calm now
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Best comment so far? Sadly many African women are living in a fantasy world.
I think you have low expectations. Our cultures have dictated to women low expectations. It's sad. If it works for you go with that. But don't denigrate a woman who knows what she wants. Plenty are getting it.
You just have low expectations. Like she said “She isn’t a broke woman”. So having high expectations for the type of partner she wants for yourself is not a crime. Expect something good for yourself and it would come
There is nothing wrong with having expectations but we also should not loose touch with the different realities that life itself brings. Everything in life is not black or white, there are different shades of colours to it.
Red flag 🚩
After falling in love with a made-man and booooom he goes off broke, that means your love will break-off ? Una never talk wetin una want
You are obviously not listening
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It’s same thing
They're not
You didn’t listen to her
@@nubian77 she only read caption and commented
So I'm guessing she married to Dangote, right....
Is falling inlove a choice? If so I would have chosen to fall inlove with Likes of Mandela. Obama. Wole Soiyika etc...
You can choose who you entertain and by doing so control who you may fall in love with. If you only entertain men of a certain calibre, then you're more likely going to fall for or choose to marry men within that range. If falling in love is not a choice and it happens without any intention or thought process, why haven't you fallen in love with your local homeless/madmen on the street?
@@cupcake1065😂😂😂 your last line got me in stitches
@@mandyk1454 😄😄
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Taa! Nobody dey send Doyin money.. save that lie for another audience, e no reach
You sound hateful.
You want a traditional man or role but you dont look the part to begin with. You guys will be cheaper by the dozen...relax.
hahahaha lmfao
You sound hateful.
You could never marry Jesus or any of the apostles
What man in the new testament had money 💰
If you are focused on the ministry what must you neglect
Matthew 6:24
There is more I will wait
Jesus was not poor. How can he be? He was feeding people, clothed in purple, and causing fish to overflow. Stop this fake narrative.
Tell her she is delusional asf
Give your life to Jesus and you will realize that God has the right over your life