5k is not a lot tho. In USA a wedding can cost like 20 grand. Which is absolutely unreal to me but apparently it’s normal 🤷 Edit: a lot of comments that it can even be 50k, 60k and more. Truly crazy
I'm from Russia, the thing about boxes is customary only in some regions. Also some relatives who can't gift money help with organisation of the wedding, like transportation, hosting and making a wedding cake. My region celebrates weddings for nearly a week.
We had a small wedding. Everything included we spend less than $250. My husband and i have been together 18.5 years and have been happily married for 14 years ❤. We also have 2 amazing children we are insanely proud of.
That means you had a family get together for your wedding and prepared most of the food by yourself with the help of friends and family, really so beautiful. I believe true enjoyment of life’s best moments is with your close friends and family members 😊 Best wishes from Punjab; India 🇮🇳 🤝 🇷🇺
@@polinalokovanot really,in romania for exemple is normal to leave about 400€ per couple,if you are a close member,like brother,godfather then you have to leave 700€+
Да ну, в нашей семье на всех свадьбах собирали ра мальчика или девочку. На свою свадьбу мы даже покупали в магазине (!) две специальной украшенные игрушечные коляски голубого и розового цвета. Сосуды могут быть разными, но суть одна
As a Romanian I also found it weird for American friends to be telling me they made less little money. Romanians, it’s customary to have everyone bring money
No wonder they have lots of people at weddings with those customs - the guests basically pay for the wedding so they don't foot the bill ..... poor people in those countries must hate to be invited to weddings 😮
No, it's not same... We haven't boxes... similiarity is only with that how many days we have wedding We have 2 days. Many traditions are totally different...
@@PaulV. I was going for like 12 hour parties where you eat, drink, sing, and dance the whole time. And the tables need to be so full that you can't see the table under the plates and the table has to be nearly breaking under the weight of the food. True abundance and true joy.
my uncle had a engagement party a mehndi a haldi a cocktail party a garba a wedding a reception and 3 other functions and it was in another country so they had to pay for hotel rooms and we had a family trip all expenses paid for us 😅
@@OKay-ox3khthroughout middle east, south asia, east asia, central and south east asia this money thingy on weddings in valid. So it covers entire asia. And yes thats true
Там не сидят за столом три дня. Часто это куча традиций. В нашем регионе на второй день везут купать родителей молодых, а гости переодеваются во что-то сумасшедшее и идут в людные места предлагать выпивку за счет молодых.
наша свадьба стоила тысяч 30 в москве с учетом ресторана, костюмов, отеля на одну ночь и росписи. были только мы, сестра с мужем и две мои подруги. расписались, покушали, разошлись по домам) лучшая свадьба)
As an introvert with russian relatives i had to go to many such weddings before i became an adult. It is ofc fun at times, but very often those weddings are not necessarily around the corner. You can't return home for days. And often you have to sleep at a distant relatives place, togehter with dozens of other people you probably don't know. It's hell.
Most Russian weddings don't last two or three days. Usually there is a banquet during several hours with the host she mentioned. Also never heard about the pink and blue boxes. Nice video though.
At all russian (chuvash) weddings I have been to, there were such boxes or something with same purpose (it could be sliders for example) and most of these weddings have had second day
это лишь говорит о том что вы не были близким человеком для брачующихся, или свадьбы были малобюджетные. Всегда есть второй день, типа выезда на шашлыки или какой то тусни в коттедже. обычно чтоб доесть и допить все с основного торжества.
@@Vialka88 Что значит - близкий человек?.. Если свадьба на 100 человек, все останутся на такой второй день? Нет. Официальное празднество для всех и не в два дня. А остальное уже частности каждой семьи.
I’m Russian and here are my thoughts: The thing about multiple days is not always true, it was in the past but not so much now. Never heard of the boxes thing - and I’ve been to multiple Russian weddings. Maybe in some regions but I’m still not sure. You will hear wishes to have many kids and soon in all the toasts the guest say though. The money gifs are pretty much standard now but not many people actually gift THAT much. Maybe parents and a couple of really close or wealthy friends. But if it’s a young people’s wedding (25-26 y.o.) the cost of the wedding would probably not be covered by those money gifts. Maybe I just haven’t been to many wedding with rich guests though, I don’t know
Ну если считать второй день на шашлыках на даче с самыми близкими людьми (родителями и друзьями) продолжением праздника, то да, два дня мы праздновали)))
Last time I attended my friend's wedding in Lisbon, PT. Between us three girls and one guy traveling. We all brought along each $300 dollars. We decided to stay with Laura's family to cut costs. The wedding was pretty much small, family and a few close friends. So, I'd say it depends on how many people you are going to invite, as well as photographer, music DJ, and either a homemade cake or professionally made cake and pastries. Apparently, my friend asked her mum and aunts to help with making the menu, desserts, and wedding cake. For us traveling, we spent nearly $1,800 dollars overall. Their wedding costs were $15,322 euros. Because their family and friends, us included, helped cover for any extra unplanned things. It was a beautiful and fun one day event. Then they brought out two coloured ribbons, blue and pink. Two groups we played as to guess their future baby's gender and name. 🍾
Those are not Russian traditions. These are the traditions of this particular family who remember some vague things from their past life in Russia and believe that times have not changed since the moment they migrated.
@@special2day the host make arrangements for them like booking rooms but it's for close relatives others just attend the functions then return there home , one time my aunt rented a entire house for the guest ..
@@special2daymany of the relatives may live close by and go to the destination for the event every day. We usually have different functions of a wedding 1 or 2 days apart. And for the guests coming from afar, rooms, food, transport and everything is arranged, it was my family friend's daughter's marriage , all the functions happend at the local place(punjab, we were from the bride's side)but the wedding took place in a completely different state almost half a day of travel and it was all arranged.
My mom was a Tamada for many years (the person in charge of games etc) and I loved it as a child to be at weddings or anniversaries. Seeing all the drunk „djadjas“ (uncles) dancing to swan lake is my favourite memory 😂
I'm Russian and I'm marrying next month but never heard about the pink and blue boxes before. I also do not think it is actually customary to celebrate for 2-3 days, maybe it was in the rich houses of the past (as it was in many cultures) but today's weddings last one day more often than not. Idk, I feel like most people I know are rather creative about their weddings and as of a long time there isn't a standart or whatsoever anymore.
2-day weddings were customary village weddings. The last generation who widely celebrated weddings this way were those who were born of village parents in the 50s-70s (even if they were city residents by that time). The reason villages could celebrate multi-day events is because everyone lived in walking distance from each other. Modern young people opt for 1-day weddings.
@@clemenceriotteau725Rewatch the video. It’s pretty obvious they have LARGE weddings. Trying to say you can do all this and still have an intimidate wedding…you’d have to change just about EVERYTHING to adjust for the intimidate wedding. Meaning? You CANT do all this and have an intimidate wedding.
@@someoneyoudontknow7705The bride from the video and her luxurious American wedding have nothing to do with an average Russian wedding. Most of Russian weddings have 30-50 guests at max, celebrated in a regular restaurant and last one day only. People can wear any clothes they wish and no one is expected to gift outstanding amounts of $$$. Some guests are explicitly asked not to gift anything since the newlyweds are closely familiar with every single guest and their situation. Only some regions ( in the Caucasus) have large traditional old-style weddings with hundreds of guests. But the lady in the video has NOTHING to do with the Caucasus and their tribal weddings.
@@Isaidso-hz7kg and that makes it bad because of what exactly?? It’s a beautiful dress and it looks wonderful on her, and many dresses from the 90’s are still as beautiful today as they were then. Some people actually prefer classic and elegant over modern,
Erm.. I'm from Russia and this is the first time I've heard about the pink and the blue boxes. I think having those boxes depends either on the region or on the preferences of the couple. True, envelopes with cash in it are the most preferable way to congratulate newlyweds on their wedding. Celebrating a wedding for several days cannot be called a widespread phenomenon. It depends on the financial ability of the family to provide several days of wedding celebration; some couples may just have an official marriage registration in a special organization and then a dinner for family members and friends.
Ведущий предлагает гостям помочь молодым определить, кто у них родится первым: мальчик или девочка. Свидетельница берет ползунки розового цвета, которые символизируют девочку, а свидетель - ползунки голубого цвета, которые символизируют мальчика. Какие ползунки первыми заполнятся деньгам (а деньги, конечно, складывают в ползунки гости), тот и родится первым.
South Asian weddings also last several days and we have the gift envelopes with cash as well. I would much rather have cash than other items that might not fit in my tiny new home. Newlyweds are younger and therefore need more practical help starting their new life together.
I love those ideas. I personally did a destination wedding and loved it but I sure do wish there were a few more important ppl there who couldn’t afford to be. That’s the only downfall.
How nice especially getting married and having a kid right after they basically help you do that wow I just see win-win… because Russian women are so gorgeous
in Poland there are weddings that last to around more than a week if everything goes right and alcohol doesnt runs out Usually happens in small villages were half of the people from the village are invited
In India, close family and friends either gift jewellery or money. Uncles and aunts of the bride and groom will often offer to pay for a trip or bachelor’s party. Giving good jewellery is almost mandatory for the bride. Even most casual attendees will either gift 2100 or 1100 rupees. Other than that the MOST common gift items are a pressure cooker, a dinner set, a showpiece or something that is used in the household for cooking or hosting
It can be but doesn't have to. It happens often that one distant relative or the other has a job or a side/main business that can be used for the wedding. I had a distant russian relative have such a wedding once, and they had to pay less than 10k for it all, cause from catering, to bridal gowns and even housing could be distributed among relatives or friends who do it for dirt cheap or even free. In fact, as a kid i even got into jewellery making cause i helped the brides 3rd degree cousin making jewellery for the bride, brides maids, flower girls, etc out of Swarovski crystals, miyuki seed beads and sapphire pearls. Oh yes, and children are usually partaking in russian weddings.
Sadly, yes... my mum and dad had to save money for this while already living together (it wasn't a common thing back at the time, now, of course, it's totally okay). However, parents usually help with the costs, if they have extra money (I'm sure, my father will want to spend a lot on my wedding, he considers it to be his duty as a father) . Especially, if bride and groom are in the begging of their twenties
Bro what thats normal in most of europe as well lmao even in the poorest countries like in Romania our minimum wage is 700 euros yet you are expected to give at leasr 300 as a wedding gift or at least enough to cover up all the costs you would inflict on the hosts/bride& groom if you cant afford more and these are still weddings with 200 to 600 people each and everyone I know has at least 2 weddings a year, you just put money aside beforehand
American weddings already are hell on earth to put together and shit always goes wrong imagine a wedding that lasts THREE DAYS and all the traditions and things you have to plan oml that is crazy! You gotta love the commitment folks 😭
In India, Generally if you are the very close relatives of the couple then you should give gifts to the couple and Other people gives cash on the envelope. The Indian wedding lasts minimum 1 week , each day various functions happened.
In Turkey where you are having the wedding, guests bring gold and put them on the couple, most of the times it’s gold accessories such as necklesses, the one you put on your wrist or just gold coins which has a needle where you can put it on the clothes safely.
The gifts are really helpful when you can’t afford to buy household stuff you need and don’t have already, but just cash would be very nice. We still get cash in cards though-some people are really sweet and give a gift and money.
As long as the bride and groom, whatever country they are from, have the wedding they can afford and want, have people to support and love them, and have a happy married life its good.
To help people understand how big are these money gifts, I'll give you an example from my country (Romania), where we have the same custom of giving money at weddings: the minimum salary is 460 euros, and the minimum amount left by guests at the wedding is 200 euros (not only does it cover the menu at the restaurant, which is around 50-100 euros, but sometimes it covers all the expenses of the wedding and they have money left). It's not the case for everyone, but if you have a simple wedding, nothing too fancy, and enough guests, you will most likely have all the costs covered.
With videos like these, it's important to remember that Russia is a vast country with so many different traditions. Personally, I've never seen blue/pink boxes at a wedding , or been to one that lasted more than a day. But from the videos I can tell that Nastya and I are from different parts of Russia, so makes sense that customs are different there.
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Don't know what region it is as Russian Federation is big, but I've been to several weddings in Saint Petersburg. They didn't last more than 1 day, there were no boxes (never heard of that) and only a few people (like grandmas / close relatives) gifted money. I was a maid of honour in two weddings, also didn't gift any money, and nobody was expecting it. Usually you just go to ceremony, then to restaurant (or a park if the pair is not rich) and then home, done. And yes, often there is a tamada (entertainer), which is really scary for me as an introvert.
@@Gigithewlis Oh to give a speech you mean? :D Thankfully that didn't happen in weddings I attended but yeah that's possible. You have to be prepared with some general statements xD
In the US, the Bride's parents cover the cost of the wedding, and many times the groom's parents pitch in, or give them around the same amount of money that the other parents spent on the wedding or pay for the honeymoon.
@@xdkankaxd5427 They have jobs for their rent. As far as the other stuff, most couples in the US create an online registry where they tell people what they need for their new home. Guests go to the Registry and select items to purchase as a wedding gift
Sounds like Russian weddings are the way to go. Sounds like there’s more fun and more options of stuff to do you guys hire somebody to make sure we’re all having fun. That’s cool.
International Weddings are the BEST! I grew up in an Italian Family that had such great weddings. When I moved to Texas that has the reputation of everything being bigger in Texas maybe so BUT not the typical wedding. My experiences here, some pretty DULL events. Now they even do styrofoam cakes for show only with a thin slice of cake to take home prepackaged in a box.
Not a big fan of the money tradition at weddings, especially with the competive touch (blue box/ pink box). Heard at turkish weddings they even shout out loud the name and how much is given, which pushes people to give more. Also guests already spent quite some money to travel to (sometimes exotic) places. So you need to take a loan to attend a wedding 😂
Shout the name and how much you gave? That's like a horror story to me. Good thing I'm never gonna get invited to a Turkish wedding then 😅 it's cost so much money to go to weddings in other countries. In our country we give money but it is not required only if you can afford it you can give appliances. Just not attend not unless I'm super close with the bride & groom lol
In Russia everyone gives exactly the same standard amount except for uncles/aunts/siblings who might be willing to contribute more if they are wealthier than the newlyweds. But if they are not wealthy, they can give exactly the same amount as all other guests.
In Romania is a similar tradition, but luckily, without the baby expectations and the wedding last one day. Regarding the gifted money, it was becoming a competition at some point. If one guest gave a big amount, another one must match or even exceed the amount of money to avoid being "the laugh of the crowd." Nowadays, call-outs aren't that popular, like 30-40 years ago.
Why don’t you tell where the money thing comes from? Daddy vladdy would have to rewrite his history lessons😂 Thanks for highlighting and its really cool you guys do it too
In Germany we have some funny and nice traditions. At the night before the wedding the bride will be "kidnapped" by the grooms friends. They go to a bar with her and the groom has to find her. When he finds her he has to buy a drink for everybody at the bar ^^ Another tradition is to give the bride and groom a tree that they have to plant in their garden. If the tree dies the love will also die :/ one tradition I really like (maybe its not just a german tradition idk) is that when the party is over and the bride and the groom arrives at home, the groom has to lift the bride up and carry her trough the door.
Exactly, people get married older now days. Most couples already have 2 sets of housewares, then the wedding registry is just a 3rd set of housewares that the couple doesn't need.
@@patman1841 A "bag of potato" that is wealthy enough to travel anywhere in the world on a whim. As well as being able to pull together an international family to a completely different country... All that even before the wedding itself. Go cope somewhere else.
$300+ in one envelope and theres like 15+ of those
Our guests are the best 🙈🙈❤️
Your guests have money
5k is not a lot tho. In USA a wedding can cost like 20 grand. Which is absolutely unreal to me but apparently it’s normal 🤷
Edit: a lot of comments that it can even be 50k, 60k and more. Truly crazy
@@RealgameRok that's true. I know for myself tho I couldn't afford $300 in cash as a wedding gift. Maybe a $29 Amazon gift card
Congratulations
I'm from Russia, the thing about boxes is customary only in some regions. Also some relatives who can't gift money help with organisation of the wedding, like transportation, hosting and making a wedding cake. My region celebrates weddings for nearly a week.
I'm Russian though I live in America never heard that before.
Wao.. It's like Indian weddings that also last for almost a week.. Never knew that we live in a small world where apparently we are all same
I'm Russian too and I had never heard of the pink and blue boxes.
@@nezhinkayashна моей свадьбе тамада организовала такие коробки
I love Russia
Polish wedding: be hungover for as long as possible and try not to die (optional)
That sounds like an Irish wedding too 😂
as a polish person that has been a guest on many wedding this is relatable
I need to go there
@@pineapplesruleearth2024just got to Illinois.
@@mr.pigtank7092 I’m not old enough in Illinois but in Poland
We had a small wedding. Everything included we spend less than $250. My husband and i have been together 18.5 years and have been happily married for 14 years ❤. We also have 2 amazing children we are insanely proud of.
That means you had a family get together for your wedding and prepared most of the food by yourself with the help of friends and family, really so beautiful. I believe true enjoyment of life’s best moments is with your close friends and family members 😊
Best wishes from Punjab; India 🇮🇳 🤝 🇷🇺
Idk why but your pfp makes it all the cuter
❤ studies show that the more that couples exceed 20k, the more likely they are to divorce.
That's what happens when the marriage is more important than the wedding. Grats!
Praise God🎉
She’s gorgeous and has a sense of humor. Her husband is a lucky man!
Looooool
@@Blast6926?😊
They are difficult..trust me.
I saw exqctly same comment at another video.
@@3joewj fr
Looks like I can’t afford to attend a Russian wedding🤣
Or anywhere in easterb europe for that matter cause its the same ,you must cover all your 'expenses" if you plan oj going to weddings
You don't have to bring much, 50$ will be enough. You can also gift kitchen appliances or dinnerware sets
Same 😂
@@polinalokovanot really,in romania for exemple is normal to leave about 400€ per couple,if you are a close member,like brother,godfather then you have to leave 700€+
Screw that. I wouldn't go @@dragosradu6599
I am Russian, and this is the first time I hear about these money boxes and multiple days of wedding celebration 🤷🏻♀️
Ну несколько дней часто празднуют ну допустим первый в городе второй на природе, а про ящики тоже первый раз слышу
Every wedding i attended had this. But instead of boxes there were kids onesies.
Не выдумывай. Ещё при ссср начали на свадьбах собирать деньги в детские колготки. В синие на мальчика и в красные на девочку
@@user-ye3bo5vr1p я не думаю что я вас знаю, так что переход на ты не особо уместен
Да ну, в нашей семье на всех свадьбах собирали ра мальчика или девочку. На свою свадьбу мы даже покупали в магазине (!) две специальной украшенные игрушечные коляски голубого и розового цвета. Сосуды могут быть разными, но суть одна
Sounds like a Nigerian wedding - the money aspect and staying late 😂😂 love it
As a Romanian I also found it weird for American friends to be telling me they made less little money. Romanians, it’s customary to have everyone bring money
In Serbia too
Ikr
South Korea and China too
No wonder they have lots of people at weddings with those customs - the guests basically pay for the wedding so they don't foot the bill ..... poor people in those countries must hate to be invited to weddings 😮
@@natasagligoric2158 any Balkan or Slavic country tbh
You look GLORIOUS in your wedding dress, Nastya...
Tom is one lucky guy... 👍👍
May God bless them .
Lol
Both are
I second that - that dress is a pure work of art, as is Nastya.
Guess I’m not Russian than cause I never heard of some of these 😂 like the blue/pink boxes and idk a single person that had a 2-3 day wedding.
You seem to live in a sad, poor, depressive world! 😢
@@kriskross63indian weddings last a week well it's mostly customary stuff for the first week but it's all wedding related stuff
@@kriskross63most of the world is like that buddy XD
Could be a regional thing?
@@amankollionly those who can afford it most of India can’t afford a simple wedding
Same in Poland and so much more fun and lots of food is a must
No, it's not same... We haven't boxes... similiarity is only with that how many days we have wedding
We have 2 days. Many traditions are totally different...
@@justnitka3 dniowe wesela są rzadkie, ale się zdarzają. Sama byłam na takim.
When I get married I’m gonna mix wedding traditions from all different cultures and it will be the best party of the century 😎🔥
Also try to get married in the new year so you will have a free fireworks show 🎉🎉
@@antumnanya4144 people might be busy around that time though
@@antumnanya4144 or Independence Day in the US
tower of babel...
Philipino weddings are FUN!
Damm i want to go to a Russian wedding now
Edit mum im famous
Wait till you learn about birthdays and New Years celebrations.
I want a Russian wife (I’m not Indian)
@@GilgameshMorningstar8😂😂
Watch the film "Горько" and you'll change your mind
@@PaulV. I was going for like 12 hour parties where you eat, drink, sing, and dance the whole time. And the tables need to be so full that you can't see the table under the plates and the table has to be nearly breaking under the weight of the food. True abundance and true joy.
Everything is fine untill a rainbow box appears out of nowhere 😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😅
That shit would be a grand insult in Russia.
In Russia, we believe that there should be a fight at a good wedding.😂
Underrated comment. But seriously, they won't dare to do it in Russia.
Why does Russian Wedding sound SOO MUCH FUN
Wait till you hear about the Greek one
Cuz thats the point of a wedding
Fun with an empty bank account. That’s not fun
@@nj8215 ?
@@nj8215Imagine the hangover...
Indian weddings: we last for 10 days or sometimes more 😂
Plus the engagement function which usually happens months before the actual wedding😂
@@shristisrivastava1938yup, there are soooooooo many days of functions except a wedding, mehandi, haldi,reception, the actual wedding and what not.😂😂
my uncle had a engagement party a mehndi a haldi a cocktail party a garba a wedding a reception and 3 other functions and it was in another country so they had to pay for hotel rooms and we had a family trip all expenses paid for us 😅
What do you _DO,_ for _*TEN DAYS???_
Who can afford to take *_that much time off of work_* for a *_TEN DAY_*_ wedding???_
@@krishapatel8977
What is a "Haldi"?
What is a "Garba"?
I know what the Mehndi Party is.
(I think it's a very beautiful custom & art-form!❤)
Money given at wedding. I was thinking that Asians do same thing, but part of Russia is in Asia so still makes sense.
Italians in all mafia movies do the same, all of the Balkans also.
Gold is given to the bride in many cultures .
@@OKay-ox3kh while you're right in general, this time you're completely wrong, and being a smartass on the internet.
@@OKay-ox3kh and the Chech and Polish aren't eastern Europeans buddy, must be that American public schooling system!
Hungary does too
@@OKay-ox3khthroughout middle east, south asia, east asia, central and south east asia this money thingy on weddings in valid. So it covers entire asia. And yes thats true
I don’t have the patience to attend a wedding for 3 days 😂 I’d get absolutely bored and homesick.
You obviously have never attended a wedding in the slavic world. How sad and depressive Your Life Must be.
Поверь мне, на таких свадьбах , которые длятся 2-3 дня скучно не бывает даже интровертам 😅
Там не сидят за столом три дня. Часто это куча традиций. В нашем регионе на второй день везут купать родителей молодых, а гости переодеваются во что-то сумасшедшее и идут в людные места предлагать выпивку за счет молодых.
наша свадьба стоила тысяч 30 в москве с учетом ресторана, костюмов, отеля на одну ночь и росписи. были только мы, сестра с мужем и две мои подруги. расписались, покушали, разошлись по домам)
лучшая свадьба)
люди дни рождения и то в большей компании празднуют.
@@Vialka88 я их не праздную) либо только с мужем
Seems like a total waste of money
@@annanajduch5201 nah, it’s like 300$, what money 😭
30k rubles or dollars?!?
As an introvert i dun wanna go to russian wedding. Lmao. 2-3 days of party is pure hell 😂
As an introvert with russian relatives i had to go to many such weddings before i became an adult. It is ofc fun at times, but very often those weddings are not necessarily around the corner. You can't return home for days. And often you have to sleep at a distant relatives place, togehter with dozens of other people you probably don't know.
It's hell.
Sounds fun and chaotic 😈
It's not only Russia. You should avoid midleaestern and Indian weddings for sure. Because they last longer 😂
Sounds like an expensive nightmare (speaking as an introverted hermit).
Because this is not real (says a Russian who's been to weddings since childhood)
Russian wedding tradition sound similar to the Chinese one
The money in envelope
Similar to Greek too
Similar to Indian too
Isnt that the Standard? 😂
Italian weddings too
Middle east too
2 or three days!!!??? I wanted to go home after 8 hours of my own friggin wedding 🤣🤣😭
😂😂😂
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Indian wedding :we can't count the whole rituals of wedding😂❤
Most Russian weddings don't last two or three days. Usually there is a banquet during several hours with the host she mentioned. Also never heard about the pink and blue boxes. Nice video though.
At all russian (chuvash) weddings I have been to, there were such boxes or something with same purpose (it could be sliders for example) and most of these weddings have had second day
@@Вервера Because they are chuvash, with specifics natural for chuvash traditions. Most weddings don't have that though.
это лишь говорит о том что вы не были близким человеком для брачующихся, или свадьбы были малобюджетные. Всегда есть второй день, типа выезда на шашлыки или какой то тусни в коттедже. обычно чтоб доесть и допить все с основного торжества.
@@Vialka88 Что значит - близкий человек?.. Если свадьба на 100 человек, все останутся на такой второй день? Нет. Официальное празднество для всех и не в два дня. А остальное уже частности каждой семьи.
@@Vialka88 фу, это колхоз. так уже не делает никто 🤦🏻♀️
I’m Russian and here are my thoughts:
The thing about multiple days is not always true, it was in the past but not so much now.
Never heard of the boxes thing - and I’ve been to multiple Russian weddings. Maybe in some regions but I’m still not sure. You will hear wishes to have many kids and soon in all the toasts the guest say though.
The money gifs are pretty much standard now but not many people actually gift THAT much. Maybe parents and a couple of really close or wealthy friends. But if it’s a young people’s wedding (25-26 y.o.) the cost of the wedding would probably not be covered by those money gifts. Maybe I just haven’t been to many wedding with rich guests though, I don’t know
Ну если считать второй день на шашлыках на даче с самыми близкими людьми (родителями и друзьями) продолжением праздника, то да, два дня мы праздновали)))
Last time I attended my friend's wedding in Lisbon, PT. Between us three girls and one guy traveling. We all brought along each $300 dollars. We decided to stay with Laura's family to cut costs. The wedding was pretty much small, family and a few close friends.
So, I'd say it depends on how many people you are going to invite, as well as photographer, music DJ, and either a homemade cake or professionally made cake and pastries. Apparently, my friend asked her mum and aunts to help with making the menu, desserts, and wedding cake.
For us traveling, we spent nearly $1,800 dollars overall. Their wedding costs were $15,322 euros. Because their family and friends, us included, helped cover for any extra unplanned things.
It was a beautiful and fun one day event. Then they brought out two coloured ribbons, blue and pink. Two groups we played as to guess their future baby's gender and name. 🍾
wow that dress is absolutely STUNNING ❤️ ❤️
Her dress is lovely
Title: US VS RUS wedding
The video: only speaks about russian wedding traditions
Those are not Russian traditions. These are the traditions of this particular family who remember some vague things from their past life in Russia and believe that times have not changed since the moment they migrated.
In india the wedding is for a MONTH💀
true bro it never ends ;)
Where do people sleep? Do they go home and just come back to the party the next day?
@@special2day the host make arrangements for them like booking rooms but it's for close relatives others just attend the functions then return there home , one time my aunt rented a entire house for the guest ..
@@special2day Usually it's just close relatives so they live in the organizers house itself.
@@special2daymany of the relatives may live close by and go to the destination for the event every day. We usually have different functions of a wedding 1 or 2 days apart. And for the guests coming from afar, rooms, food, transport and everything is arranged, it was my family friend's daughter's marriage , all the functions happend at the local place(punjab, we were from the bride's side)but the wedding took place in a completely different state almost half a day of travel and it was all arranged.
That gown is gorgeous!!
My parents wedding lasted 3 days, but they celebrated in the Russian-German way
My mom was a Tamada for many years (the person in charge of games etc) and I loved it as a child to be at weddings or anniversaries. Seeing all the drunk „djadjas“ (uncles) dancing to swan lake is my favourite memory 😂
uncle means relative, djadja means both relative and a random man (at least middle aged)
The Russian drunk swan dance (or spreading their arms like an airplane) seems to be a universal experience 😂
Unbelievably beautiful bride!!!!!!
I'm Russian and I'm marrying next month but never heard about the pink and blue boxes before. I also do not think it is actually customary to celebrate for 2-3 days, maybe it was in the rich houses of the past (as it was in many cultures) but today's weddings last one day more often than not. Idk, I feel like most people I know are rather creative about their weddings and as of a long time there isn't a standart or whatsoever anymore.
2-day weddings were customary village weddings. The last generation who widely celebrated weddings this way were those who were born of village parents in the 50s-70s (even if they were city residents by that time). The reason villages could celebrate multi-day events is because everyone lived in walking distance from each other. Modern young people opt for 1-day weddings.
😍 What a beautiful tradition!
I would rather have an intimate wedding with people in close to.but I’m happy for people that have this. Just not my style.
You can do all of this while having an intimate wedding.
@@clemenceriotteau725Rewatch the video. It’s pretty obvious they have LARGE weddings. Trying to say you can do all this and still have an intimidate wedding…you’d have to change just about EVERYTHING to adjust for the intimidate wedding. Meaning? You CANT do all this and have an intimidate wedding.
@@someoneyoudontknow7705The bride from the video and her luxurious American wedding have nothing to do with an average Russian wedding. Most of Russian weddings have 30-50 guests at max, celebrated in a regular restaurant and last one day only. People can wear any clothes they wish and no one is expected to gift outstanding amounts of $$$. Some guests are explicitly asked not to gift anything since the newlyweds are closely familiar with every single guest and their situation. Only some regions ( in the Caucasus) have large traditional old-style weddings with hundreds of guests. But the lady in the video has NOTHING to do with the Caucasus and their tribal weddings.
That's not the style for most Russians. Russian weddings are very modest compared to an average American wedding.
That dress is absolutely STUNNING on you!!❤️
Not at all. Looks like a wedding dress from 90s
@@Isaidso-hz7kg and that makes it bad because of what exactly?? It’s a beautiful dress and it looks wonderful on her, and many dresses from the 90’s are still as beautiful today as they were then. Some people actually prefer classic and elegant over modern,
What BEAUTIFUL scenery!!!
Erm.. I'm from Russia and this is the first time I've heard about the pink and the blue boxes. I think having those boxes depends either on the region or on the preferences of the couple. True, envelopes with cash in it are the most preferable way to congratulate newlyweds on their wedding. Celebrating a wedding for several days cannot be called a widespread phenomenon. It depends on the financial ability of the family to provide several days of wedding celebration; some couples may just have an official marriage registration in a special organization and then a dinner for family members and friends.
Нихрена, всю жизнь жила в России и ни разу про коробки разных цветов, куда кладут деньги не слышала.
Ни разу не слышала ничего про розовые и синие коробки
Я тоже, но я не живу в россие
Ползунки обычно, не?)
Ведущий предлагает гостям помочь молодым определить, кто у них родится первым: мальчик или девочка. Свидетельница берет ползунки розового цвета, которые символизируют девочку, а свидетель - ползунки голубого цвета, которые символизируют мальчика. Какие ползунки первыми заполнятся деньгам (а деньги, конечно, складывают в ползунки гости), тот и родится первым.
На всех свадьбах, что я была, были эти коробочки или ползунки..
That’s a beautiful custom.
South Asian weddings also last several days and we have the gift envelopes with cash as well. I would much rather have cash than other items that might not fit in my tiny new home. Newlyweds are younger and therefore need more practical help starting their new life together.
I gotta find myself a Russian wife that sounds like fun!
Better get going right now. Don’t wait!
You will end up in svo
They bring their own problems, believe me.
Fortunately for you there's much more russian women than men
@@guano1274 yea better try 🏳️🌈👩❤️💋👩👬🎉😂
Sounds like a fundraiser 💀
So why don't more people throw fake weddings just to rake in the cash, and then divorce later while splitting their earnings? hahaha
It's called supporting the family. Every country outside of America have similar customs
The first two things are similar to indian weddings 😂❤
I love those ideas. I personally did a destination wedding and loved it but I sure do wish there were a few more important ppl there who couldn’t afford to be. That’s the only downfall.
3 days?!?! Im ready to leave when it starts!!! NO WAY!
Indian wedding can last 1 week with activities going from 6:00 am to 12am the next day
How nice especially getting married and having a kid right after they basically help you do that wow I just see win-win… because Russian women are so gorgeous
Wait until you see what happens after they gave birth!
@@IVvOOvVI любая женщина проходит через огромное количество изменений ради ребенка, но ее тело первое, что тебя волнует, какого хуя
@@old_potato622where did they say thay
This bride is gorgeous! There are so many Russian women who are so good looking!
in Poland there are weddings that last to around more than a week if everything goes right and alcohol doesnt runs out
Usually happens in small villages were half of the people from the village are invited
Beautiful bride, venue, wedding in the middle of a war, bless you all for not loosing love and zest for life
Russian weddings sound so fun!
As an introvert, the idea of a multi day wedding is terrifying
In India, close family and friends either gift jewellery or money. Uncles and aunts of the bride and groom will often offer to pay for a trip or bachelor’s party. Giving good jewellery is almost mandatory for the bride. Even most casual attendees will either gift 2100 or 1100 rupees. Other than that the MOST common gift items are a pressure cooker, a dinner set, a showpiece or something that is used in the household for cooking or hosting
That sounds like a ridiculously expensive event that very few can actually afford no matter what you say
It can be but doesn't have to. It happens often that one distant relative or the other has a job or a side/main business that can be used for the wedding. I had a distant russian relative have such a wedding once, and they had to pay less than 10k for it all, cause from catering, to bridal gowns and even housing could be distributed among relatives or friends who do it for dirt cheap or even free.
In fact, as a kid i even got into jewellery making cause i helped the brides 3rd degree cousin making jewellery for the bride, brides maids, flower girls, etc out of Swarovski crystals, miyuki seed beads and sapphire pearls.
Oh yes, and children are usually partaking in russian weddings.
Sadly, yes... my mum and dad had to save money for this while already living together (it wasn't a common thing back at the time, now, of course, it's totally okay).
However, parents usually help with the costs, if they have extra money (I'm sure, my father will want to spend a lot on my wedding, he considers it to be his duty as a father) . Especially, if bride and groom are in the begging of their twenties
Bro what thats normal in most of europe as well lmao even in the poorest countries like in Romania our minimum wage is 700 euros yet you are expected to give at leasr 300 as a wedding gift or at least enough to cover up all the costs you would inflict on the hosts/bride& groom if you cant afford more and these are still weddings with 200 to 600 people each and everyone I know has at least 2 weddings a year, you just put money aside beforehand
@@tonyslabu6373 that’s crazy
@@This-Is-My-Little-Corner
Indeed.... 👍🏻
Crazy! 😮 😨
Now I want a Russian wedding
Omg your dress is so beautiful
This sounds like the wedding id want to have one day
American weddings already are hell on earth to put together and shit always goes wrong imagine a wedding that lasts THREE DAYS and all the traditions and things you have to plan oml that is crazy! You gotta love the commitment folks 😭
All American weddings are NOT hell on earth. I've been to several, and my own, and they were nice. Must be the people you know that make it hell.
She is gorgeous
In India, Generally if you are the very close relatives of the couple then you should give gifts to the couple and Other people gives cash on the envelope. The Indian wedding lasts minimum 1 week , each day various functions happened.
That’s a thing here in America too, it’s just not customary or expected. But what is expected is a nice gift off of the couples registry
Beautiful dress, I think that’s one of the prettiest ones I’ve seen
It's also customary here in Serbia to bring money. I thought it was like that everywhere in the world.
In Turkey where you are having the wedding, guests bring gold and put them on the couple, most of the times it’s gold accessories such as necklesses, the one you put on your wrist or just gold coins which has a needle where you can put it on the clothes safely.
The gifts are really helpful when you can’t afford to buy household stuff you need and don’t have already, but just cash would be very nice. We still get cash in cards though-some people are really sweet and give a gift and money.
Красивая пара❤счастья вам😊
Nastya you look absolutely stunning in your wedding dress. Thomas is a very lucky man!
Especially Honeymoon Night ..ohh yeah.. LOL
As long as the bride and groom, whatever country they are from, have the wedding they can afford and want, have people to support and love them, and have a happy married life its good.
To help people understand how big are these money gifts, I'll give you an example from my country (Romania), where we have the same custom of giving money at weddings: the minimum salary is 460 euros, and the minimum amount left by guests at the wedding is 200 euros (not only does it cover the menu at the restaurant, which is around 50-100 euros, but sometimes it covers all the expenses of the wedding and they have money left). It's not the case for everyone, but if you have a simple wedding, nothing too fancy, and enough guests, you will most likely have all the costs covered.
Oh my goodness! She's stunning
Congratulations to you and Tom and thank you for seeing us in Dubai and taking a picture with my siblings and I it was a great gift for my birthday❤
This is awesome!
With videos like these, it's important to remember that Russia is a vast country with so many different traditions. Personally, I've never seen blue/pink boxes at a wedding , or been to one that lasted more than a day. But from the videos I can tell that Nastya and I are from different parts of Russia, so makes sense that customs are different there.
Wow dude, your wife is absolutely gorgeous! Your shorts have been popping up on my feed constantly for a few days now so I feel like I’m getting to know y’all!😂 She seems like a super cool girl! From what I’ve seen you’ve caught the catch of a lifetime. I really like your videos about showing her America, Walmart used to sell walls? The red stripes on the flag are for DJT and MAGA? Love it!
I really wish you both the best, congratulations on your marriage!
You dress is gorgeous
Congratz❤
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2) True
3) True
4) Rare and frowned upon
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Don't know what region it is as Russian Federation is big, but I've been to several weddings in Saint Petersburg. They didn't last more than 1 day, there were no boxes (never heard of that) and only a few people (like grandmas / close relatives) gifted money. I was a maid of honour in two weddings, also didn't gift any money, and nobody was expecting it. Usually you just go to ceremony, then to restaurant (or a park if the pair is not rich) and then home, done. And yes, often there is a tamada (entertainer), which is really scary for me as an introvert.
The scariest part is when they force you to give a toast to the newly weds 😨
@@Gigithewlis Oh to give a speech you mean? :D Thankfully that didn't happen in weddings I attended but yeah that's possible. You have to be prepared with some general statements xD
Italian weddings are similar. No blue or pink boxes though.
Same in Turkey! You have to be the one who brings the money so the groom and bride can later cover the expenses.
In the US, the Bride's parents cover the cost of the wedding, and many times the groom's parents pitch in, or give them around the same amount of money that the other parents spent on the wedding or pay for the honeymoon.
@@jmackinjersey1 how do they pay the rent when they move out then? or buy new things? the parents get everything for the American culture really?
@@jmackinjersey1My parents covered the costs of their son's wedding. My brother's wife's parents helped them with the purchase of a home
@@jmackinjersey1in turkey often the grooms parents pay for the wedding :)
@@xdkankaxd5427 They have jobs for their rent. As far as the other stuff, most couples in the US create an online registry where they tell people what they need for their new home. Guests go to the Registry and select items to purchase as a wedding gift
Sounds like Russian weddings are the way to go. Sounds like there’s more fun and more options of stuff to do you guys hire somebody to make sure we’re all having fun. That’s cool.
International Weddings are the BEST! I grew up in an Italian Family that had such great weddings. When I moved to Texas that has the reputation of everything being bigger in Texas maybe so BUT not the typical wedding. My experiences here, some pretty DULL events. Now they even do styrofoam cakes for show only with a thin slice of cake to take home prepackaged in a box.
Y'all really spending a whole weekend at the wedding. 😂
Not a big fan of the money tradition at weddings, especially with the competive touch (blue box/ pink box). Heard at turkish weddings they even shout out loud the name and how much is given, which pushes people to give more. Also guests already spent quite some money to travel to (sometimes exotic) places. So you need to take a loan to attend a wedding 😂
Shout the name and how much you gave? That's like a horror story to me. Good thing I'm never gonna get invited to a Turkish wedding then 😅 it's cost so much money to go to weddings in other countries. In our country we give money but it is not required only if you can afford it you can give appliances. Just not attend not unless I'm super close with the bride & groom lol
In Russia everyone gives exactly the same standard amount except for uncles/aunts/siblings who might be willing to contribute more if they are wealthier than the newlyweds. But if they are not wealthy, they can give exactly the same amount as all other guests.
She looks beautiful ❤.btw just information Indian weddings last like some 10 days sometimes or even more
In Romania is a similar tradition, but luckily, without the baby expectations and the wedding last one day. Regarding the gifted money, it was becoming a competition at some point. If one guest gave a big amount, another one must match or even exceed the amount of money to avoid being "the laugh of the crowd." Nowadays, call-outs aren't that popular, like 30-40 years ago.
Why does this remind me most Asain weddings I have gone to where you give cash in an envelope to help bride and groom start new life together.
Also, what a Tamada traditionally does is often similar to what geikos do. Drunk competitions, jokes, inviting performers to sing and dance etc.
Why don’t you tell where the money thing comes from?
Daddy vladdy would have to rewrite his history lessons😂
Thanks for highlighting and its really cool you guys do it too
Beautiful. I'm from U.S.A. and your Russian wedding is perfect. I would have loved one like that.
Well now I want to have a Russian wedding. AND THAT DRESS ❤❤❤❤
Would have loved to see the two fathers meet
In Germany we have some funny and nice traditions. At the night before the wedding the bride will be "kidnapped" by the grooms friends. They go to a bar with her and the groom has to find her. When he finds her he has to buy a drink for everybody at the bar ^^ Another tradition is to give the bride and groom a tree that they have to plant in their garden. If the tree dies the love will also die :/ one tradition I really like (maybe its not just a german tradition idk) is that when the party is over and the bride and the groom arrives at home, the groom has to lift the bride up and carry her trough the door.
My sister's wedding also had a bunch of games that included cash as well so the bride and groom got all of that money on top of any gifts
The first reason is good enough for me to go to Russia 😂
Hard cash is always the best present for a young couple!
For anyone, honestly
Exactly, people get married older now days. Most couples already have 2 sets of housewares, then the wedding registry is just a 3rd set of housewares that the couple doesn't need.
The biggest difference is that at Russian weddings everyone gets wasted and there’s usually a fight or 2 at the end.
Same with Asian weddings. The community helps the newly weds to get started.
Bro had to go halfway around the work to find a woman worth marrying, makes sense😂😂
Her ex lies somwhere in the Kharkiv region, watching how sunflowers grow from below. But she got a bag of potato so all good
@@patman1841 A "bag of potato" that is wealthy enough to travel anywhere in the world on a whim. As well as being able to pull together an international family to a completely different country... All that even before the wedding itself.
Go cope somewhere else.