Very sorry to have to point this out BUT your doing a similar thing that your mother did, yes it’s hard balancing with kids! But you should be making a vid or seeing to your child’s needs not both, if you need proof when this vid reaches 601 as you pause, freeze the vid just before you come back on and your face says it all! I don’t need to elaborate.
I really didn't like making any videos when my kids were around. I kept my channel from my husband so this was a rare time I had a chance to make a video. As much as possible I waited until they were sleeping for naps or bedtime. I do see how it looks neglectful on my part.
@@mymentalhealthjourneybpd7531 I’m so pleased that you responded, my x was a borderline and I’ve done a lot of research on the subject, I think your doing fine as a mother and a person with borderline. You have my respect and if I can ever help please reach out, good luck.
@@trevsedgwick3324 So what are you seeking with your research? Closure? Understanding your ex or yourself better? And about yourself I mean what may have drawn you to that type of personality.
@@mymentalhealthjourneybpd7531 excellent question, I know I will never find closure so that’s not it, I have since our split, learned that I’m a codependent and this stems from childhood trauma, but since we broke up I’ve been on a journey of discovery! And this is my quest to develop my own best version of me!, I do want to understand my x wife more but I know I can’t help her unless she reaches out to me,
@@trevsedgwick3324 Hmm...I do understand the not really getting closure. It seems impossible when you lose someone you loved. It sounds like you are in a good place though. I myself need to dig into reading up on mental health to gain better insight and perspective on how to deal with people in a better way. That is great that you are willing to do the extra work. You should find the "Negativity in Relationships" video interesting. Codependency reflected in it since borderlines struggle with it. If or when you get to that one, let me know your thoughts.
Very sorry to have to point this out BUT your doing a similar thing that your mother did, yes it’s hard balancing with kids! But you should be making a vid or seeing to your child’s needs not both, if you need proof when this vid reaches 601 as you pause, freeze the vid just before you come back on and your face says it all! I don’t need to elaborate.
I really didn't like making any videos when my kids were around. I kept my channel from my husband so this was a rare time I had a chance to make a video. As much as possible I waited until they were sleeping for naps or bedtime. I do see how it looks neglectful on my part.
@@mymentalhealthjourneybpd7531 I’m so pleased that you responded, my x was a borderline and I’ve done a lot of research on the subject, I think your doing fine as a mother and a person with borderline. You have my respect and if I can ever help please reach out, good luck.
@@trevsedgwick3324 So what are you seeking with your research? Closure? Understanding your ex or yourself better? And about yourself I mean what may have drawn you to that type of personality.
@@mymentalhealthjourneybpd7531 excellent question, I know I will never find closure so that’s not it, I have since our split, learned that I’m a codependent and this stems from childhood trauma, but since we broke up I’ve been on a journey of discovery! And this is my quest to develop my own best version of me!, I do want to understand my x wife more but I know I can’t help her unless she reaches out to me,
@@trevsedgwick3324 Hmm...I do understand the not really getting closure. It seems impossible when you lose someone you loved. It sounds like you are in a good place though. I myself need to dig into reading up on mental health to gain better insight and perspective on how to deal with people in a better way. That is great that you are willing to do the extra work.
You should find the "Negativity in Relationships" video interesting. Codependency reflected in it since borderlines struggle with it. If or when you get to that one, let me know your thoughts.