I had stage 4 as well, I had surgery, 6 months of hormones and then we got pregnant on the 2nd round and then 10 months after having baby #1 we got pregnant naturally with baby #2. So please have hope, miracles do happen!
I just went through IVF. It’s a crazy kinda scary thing to pursue. But I am now pregnant! I have my first ultrasound on the 20th! I’m so happy for yall and can’t wait to follow along on yalls journey! ♥️
My firstborn was IVF almost 20 years ago and then I got pregnant on my own when she was 7 months old 😂! Then got pregnant on my own for a third baby. They are 17,18 and 19 now!! Best wishes to you!!
Just wanna say I am SOOOOOOOO impressed with Alessio's knowledge of the process. He sounded like a doctor for a second there & his English was spot on/crystal clear!! ❤️ You are gonna be AMAZING parents & I can't wait to witness you guys receive ALLLLLLL the blessings you truly deserve!! 🙌🏼🥰
I've noticed that Italian men are usually very invested in raising their children. They do not leave 90% of the work around the kids to women like most men in the world.
I went through IVF over 34 years ago. Several times did not work but on December 23 I received a call and the person on the other line began singing a Christmas song to me and then advised me I was going to have a baby. That baby is now 33 years old.
First, you two are so kind to share your story with all of us so that maybe someone else that may be going through this can learn from your experience. Second, you two are such a blessing to each other and I admire the two of you even more. I pray that your journey through IVF is successful and I pray that Jessi’s body heals and she can no longer be in the pain she’s been in. Sending love and encouragement to you both!
43 years ago my wife had the same issue, and initially we started adoption process and before we completed the adoption process and we stopped concentrating and worrying about the condition, God blessed us with a beautiful bundle of joy Angelic Marie! So never give up hope 💯 and looking for help and solutions, because God will bless you too when the time is right! God bless you on your journey, we love you guys!❤️ Paul & Annette Lucento Missoula, Montana USA.
Conception when broken all down is an actual miracle. When attempting to get pregnant it is ALL consuming….entire life. Thankful for your positive progress and outlook.
I'm 8 weeks pregnant after 2 years of IVF (1 endoscopy, 4 egg retrievals, 3 embryo transfers, 1 failed transfer, 1 miscarriage, and 100k out of pocket). It was the hardest experience of my life, but will have been worth it in the end. I don't wish this experience on anyone, and I hope your journey is as fast and painless as possible
I suffered from *extremely* painful endometriosis for years and had several surgeries. My ex-husband and I could not afford IVF, and I went on Clomid four times with no luck. I took a break for a year, and after a few more endometriosis surgeries, I tried a higher dose of Clomid and became pregnant with my now 26-year-old daughter! Keep the faith, and your baby will come to you! I wish you both the best! ❤
I send you all the positive vibes that can be. (Sorry English is not my first language. It is French than Italian). Anyway I send you all the love, corraggio,... I think you took a good decision to look at what the Italian health system can offer to you. I am Canadian and lived in Italy many years (my husband is Fiorentino). I had better health care in Italy. Love you! Take care!
Wow! Very happy for you guys that you’re taking this step. I too had horrible Stage 4 Endo and suffered horribly for years with pain. I also went through two cycles of IVF here in Southern CA. Extremely expensive and could never have done it without the help of my parents. I can say it is quite a process psychologically and physically. Wishing you both the best of luck ❤️
About 30 years ago, I was diagnosed with endometriosis and had several surgeries. I know what you're going through! At the time we chose not to do IVF. I'm sure things have changed dramatically in 30 years, though. We chose to adopt, and our beautiful girl is getting married 5/24! Wishing you all the best. Soon you will have your precious baby.
I also had severe endometriosis and PCOS. 3 surgeries and they actually scraped my uterus out and actually had to cut fibroids out of my uterus as well. I also needed thyroid medication and progesterone. Fast forward, finally got pregnant with my miracle baby the natural way and have a super healthy boy I was able to carry to full term! Hang in there ❤
Much love and best wishes to you from Arizona. My daughter-in- law has Polycystic ovary disease. It took a couple of years but they finally had their daughter Giovanna. We are all praying for you and hope for your success!!!💝
I’m so sorry you guys are going through this struggle! So many do not understand the mental and emotional draining it takes to go through this process. I wish the best of luck to you both on your parent journey. You are more than deserving to experience parenthood.
Gosh, guys. Thank you for your open-hearted generous spirits. I am so grateful for this channel and your optimistic attitudes! May you experience much support, strength and love from those around you. You are a wonderful wonderful couple. ❤Much love and blessings from Seattle!
Listening to your story takes me back to my journey 25 years ago. You both are very strong. Hoping things go your way and you get relief from the pain of endo.
I just had a dream that someone I knew had endometriosis. I didn’t know it was you beautiful people. I am going to add you all to my prayer list. Clearly God brought me here to support you all virtually. I am thankful for you very light hearted videos and the couple that you all are. Thank you for showing us what a healthy couple looks like and though international couples endure trials, love conquers all.
I am so emotionally overwhelmed for you guys. Your ability to share this journey with others is incredibly generous. My heart is filled with love for you & I send you prayers & light for a successful pregnancy! ❤
I've been where you are, and it's so amazing that you've been able to get through the darkness. The best place you can be right now is exactly where you are. Sending so much love and best wishes for you both.
I’m so happy to hear your news. It helps tremendously to have future parents on the same page. One thing I would suggest is to get therapy while you two are going through this. There’s going to be ups and downs for you both which also includes hormonal challenges. Also, make sure that you’re taking the mental breaks you may need which may include minimizing traveling as it’s quite stressful too. It’s going to be a lot of appointments and medication. Good wishes being sent your way. ❤ My initial process I froze my eggs. Sadly, eggs are not as stable as embryos and they completely dissolved. I would guess that the doctors would probably recommend freezing embryos instead of eggs.
Jessi and Alessio, Thank you for being such a light on this platform! Please know I am praying for this journey you are on. Your love and support for one another is inspiring. I’ve had ENDO as well and understand the challenges. I pray God will give you the desires of your heart. And also you will sense his presence in the entire experience! This is one of my favorite accounts to watch. Especially the food! 🥰
How wonderful of you two to share this journey with others! Know that prayers are winging their way to you from Colorado and that you will be blessed with or without children. God Bless!
Love the fact you guys are willing to tell all and help everyone who could be going through it as well and showing how much you guys will have to go through and spend, that's a really big point for people om that position, it can make or break it for people over here( in the states where it's ruiniously expensive) so grazi mille!!
You guys bought tears to my eyes with your most recent announcement of Jassie’s diagnosis of endometriosis. First of all I’m sorry you are suffering with this dibilated disease. As a young women I also was diagnosed with severe endometriosis. I suffered in silence and endure years of pain. It really touch me that you are willing to share your story.i also respect that Alessio is right by your side showing his support because endometriosis is a fidelity disease that affects both of you. I will be watching and praying for the best possible outcome for you both.
Thank you for sharing. I have also been through the wringer with endometriosis & a lot of other female problems. Initially I felt as if I was crazy. Then when I finally found a female gynecologist who didn't treat me as if I was some sort of nut job I was finally able & willing to go through surgery. It is particularly difficult if one is trying to work with a doctor who not only doesn't validate the physical symptoms you are experiencing but who goes that extra step to let you know that his professional opinion is that you (like most women) are emotionally unbalanced & are imagining much of what you are experiencing. I am so happy you have successfully negotiated the spiritual, mental, emotional & physical realities of your specific situation. May God bless you & keep you.
Oh you two! We have walked where you are and together you have such a healthy outlook on this. Not to say that there aren’t moments that aren’t difficult, but the way you are approaching. This is so mature. After having one child with fertility issues, we were unable to conceive, and carry again after I had a miscarriage. We went on an added five children through adoption for a total of six. Families are made in so many different ways that whatever way you choose for your own family won’t be wrong. in the end, I wound up needing to have a hysterectomy because of the use of fertility drugs. I don’t regret it. Much love and care to you both.
Im sorry you went through the miscarriage. It definitely is a battle in your mind, many unanswered questions...❤ and that hurt takes a while to heal just like a bad wound. Healing the correct way is crucial! It sounds like you did it.😊 you have joy and ready for this! Lots of prayers!!!!!!❤❤
We had male factor infertility and did 3 rounds of IVF. First round had a baby girl, who will be 16 next month. Second round we did a frozen cycle, which failed. And our third round we had fraternal twin boys who just turned 14. Listening to you guys brought up so many memories and emotions. You guys are in such a great place mentally and emotionally. Best of luck with the entire process. ❤❤
So very true, I had to take my daughter to see a cardiologist in Pordenone. I was shocked no cover and no shame, but I’ve noticed how normal it was to all the dr.’s and nurses. It made me feel more comfortable afterwards. Also, you are right about healthcare costs in Italy vs USA. Prayers, sending hugs and love to you both 🙏🏽
I have stage 4 endometriosis. I had 10 pregnancies, 4 babies, and 3 of those 4 were delivered through c-sections. People don't realize how difficult it is for those who have endometriosis. I wish you both the best.
I've been through the fertility journey (I didn't have endometriosis, but recurrent miscarriage) and I admire you both for your strength and positive attitude so much! Infertility can be some of the darkest days. I hope you have good support behind you (therapy is important, for all of the ups and downs) and I wish you a beautiful rainbow! Side note: I'm an American but live in Germany. It was awkward at first when I was walking around butt naked with no cover at the gynecologist, but by the end of our journey I didn't bother with dresses anymore. You just get used to it 😅
I really wish you both the best. I have kept you in my prayers for quite awhile now. You are a beautiful couple and I want this to be successful. You will be amazing parents. Love to you both, this has to be an exhausting process. 🥰✌🏼🇺🇸
I'm so sorry you're going through this and I hope everything goes well for you! Remember you're strong and having each other to support and love each other is so important! Sending you blessings ❤
Sending so much love, light, prayers, & baby dust your way! I had endo & PCOS...I ended up losing a tube & ovary when it twisted then had to have a complete hysterectomy...
I’ve watched a lot of IVF videos, my 25yr old daughter has severe female issues. Thank you for being so raw and candid with your situation and feelings. There are no videos as raw and real as yours!! I wish you the very VERY best. I hope that your TH-cam videos get big and you get compensation for them and that help pay for your medical expenses!! and end the end you are at peace and most importantly HEALTHY!! And free of pain!! (O’ya! My husband and his family are Macedonian’ and I just love your husband’s accent and expressions’ reminds me of my similar family experiences) 😂❤😊 BEST WISHES JESSI!
I’m sorry that you have been going through so much pain. I’m glad that you are being treated in Italy. I wish you all the best and hope for speedy recovery.
Jessi & Alessio you are both just incredible people to go through this and in addition to share it to help others. It’s a testament to the strength of your relationship. Auguri😘
Ciao ragazzi, vi auguro di cuore di realizzare il vostro sogno di diventare genitori 💜 vi mando un'infinità di pensieri positivi!!! Un abbraccio forte forte
What a drag. I did IUI with my firstborn, (worked the very first time) , and (IVF that worked straight) away with triplets . Anything is possible!! Don’t give up !Keep on keepin On ! Lisa from 🇺🇸
I wish you all the best and for sharing your story for others who are struggling. My sister had to do IVF and woooooo, it was expensive (here in Canada) but she had a beautiful baby boy.
I have endo too and have dealt with it for all my life, so I really sympathise with you! I have been blessed with 3 wonderful kids, so hang in there and stay positive! 💞💜💕
Going through the same procedure with the same diagnosis. Good luck guys, keep being positive and as happy as possible. No stress, no worries - just take it as an adventure, indeed. Hugs!
Praying for y’all to have the beautiful family you dream and deserve!!! 🙏❤️ Thanks for sharing had to be so hard but we are all putting you in our prayers and miracles do happen❤ God Bless you!!!
Best of luck to you. Your attitude is amazing and will get you through this, whatever the outcome is. I know a few people who have dealt with endometriosis and am amazed at your ability to work through all the pain and uncomfortableness with a smile on your face.
I did 4 cycles of IVF in Milan. Humanitas and San Raffaele 15 years ago. They were completely free including the medications. I am not sure if its still this way or maybe it dependen on the region. We had success although it was difficult to hang onto my job and attend all the appointment! Good luck guys!
I had endometriosis as well, when in my late 20's & early 30's. I had multiple surgeries as well. I was married at the time, but my husband & I had decided against children (a blessing in the long run since we divorced), so I ended up having a hysterectomy (also a good decision, because I have a severe autoimmune condition, which I believe caused the endometriosis in the first place). But i am praying for you two & to become parents, which I believe you'd be amazing at!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️
Hey guys. Ive got four children. However i now have endometriosis, adenomyosis and am awaiting a hysterectomy to make life a little easier and hopefully get rid of some pain. I also have multiple sclerosis, lumbar spinal stenosis and spondylosis with an underactive thyroid thrown in just to be nice and im only 37 😂 Your baby dream will come true. It may be harder to achive that goal...but youll get there hopefully. Fingers crossed to both of you. Life is hard at times when facing battles but if you face them with determination strength and courage then nothing is impossible x
It’s not easy to share something so sensitive and challenging. Thank for sharing your journey. I pray that you will have a baby one day soon. I went through challenges myself with conceiving but now I have two beautiful boys
First time commenter! The similarities between our stories made me want to reach out. ❤I’m Italian from Rome and my husband is from Pennsylvania. I have stage four endometriosis and actually only have one ovary left from a surgery where they had to remove a 7cm cyst. We just did our first round of IVF and we’re pregnant with our first baby boy! Long story short I am so excited for you guys! You can feel your love for one another and your positivity radiates from the screen. I’m confident you will have a successful journey and sending all the love and luck! ❤️🦁
Ivf is a crazy journey but can bring many blessings. We have two ivf miracle boys. 2 and 4. Unfortunately, we had to stop there , but we are blessed with our journey. Many players and rhought for you both.
I have endometriosis as well and have also done 2 surgeries. It sucks and i feel for you. I will say, the thing that has helped immensely is changing my diet. Cutting out processed sugar, most carbs, gluten, diary and red meat. My pain has gone away almost completely except when my period comes around. It’s one of my biggest fears when we decide to try and conceive - not being able to do it naturally. I pray that you will be able to become pregnant and feel as good as you possibly can. I’m thankful for your beautiful smile and personality - for always looking to the bright side and your always sharing your vulnerability with the world. God bless 🩷
You guys are so wonderful. Thank you for sharing this in solidarity with those experiencing infertility and being so vulnerable. ❤️ I had no idea you were having so much pain. Im so sorry!
Wow you two have quite the journey ahead emotionally and physically. I'm wishing you both the best and that everything works out the way it s meant to. Thank you for sharing your personal journey and enlightening us about the processes. ❤🇨🇦
Sending prayers to you both. And I pray you succeed in having your beautiful healthy baby. You're a beautiful couple and will be wonderful parents! Hang in there, it will happen for you. 🙏❤️👍🏼🤌😊
I am so impressed with your healthy attitude about the process and hope that your surgery and procedures go very well. You both seem like such lovely people and I want good things for you always. I hope that your Christmas is joyful and the new year brings good news!
I wish you all the best on your IVF journey. My two wonderful daughters, now 16 and 18, were conceived via IVF. I know that it is an emotional process and wish you all the best! when I went through this process in Charlotte, North Carolina, and was driving an hour there each day, and even planning that small trip in the cycle was a process, so I can imagine your geographical challenges. Sending you all the positive vibes and prayers- many blessings to you!
Endometriosis is so debilitating! I had severe adenomyosis as well and finally decided to have a hysterectomy and adopt or foster in the future because I was in pain all the time and couldn't leave the bed for two weeks in the month. It was just unbearable to the point of me thinking about suicide more and more. It's crazy that I've been in less pain right after surgery than before and healing is going well so far. I only live a 30 minutes drive away from the Italian border and next time I'll be there I leave all the luck I might have had when it comes to pregnancy in Italy for you guys. I wish you all the best ❤
You're in my prayers guys. Endometriosis is not good. Pain and and and. I had Endometriosis and never had a regular cycle till I had my baby. Also it was a heavy cycle with lots of polyps. Strangely, a cure is having a baby, buut having a baby is what's difficult. After my baby I had to have a partial hysterectomy. Good luck and praying for you. 😇🙏🕊👼
Im so happy for yall and getting to this point. I pray God blesses yall with a wonderful growing HEALTHY family! I couldnt help but shed some tears when yall were in the taxi listening to that italian radio station. Move to italy already!!!!!
It’s exciting that you are starting to take this journey towards parenthood! Wishing you the very best of luck! 🤞🏽 It’s wonderful that you want to share the process for this very personal journey with us. I am really curious as to the procedural process and costs differences between Italy & the USA. Hopefully all will work out logistically and medically! ❤
Im so tooting for you both! 🤞🏻 Im so sorry for your struggles, i cannot even begin to imagine what youre feeling. Thanks for sharing, its important that your story is told!
My husband and i got our daughter in our first round of ICSI! I only had 4 eggs, at the end only one developed and was implanted.and that was the golden egg!!!! It is about quality, not quantity. Keep your heads high and don't lose hope.❤
My wife is 28 weeks pregnant after IVF and we’ve been trying since 2016. Keep going, don’t give up-it’s worth it.
I had stage 4 as well, I had surgery, 6 months of hormones and then we got pregnant on the 2nd round and then 10 months after having baby #1 we got pregnant naturally with baby #2. So please have hope, miracles do happen!
I just went through IVF. It’s a crazy kinda scary thing to pursue. But I am now pregnant! I have my first ultrasound on the 20th! I’m so happy for yall and can’t wait to follow along on yalls journey! ♥️
CONGRATULATIONS MAMA!!! ❤
Thanks yall 🥹♥️ best Christmas present ever
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Yay!! 🙏💕 👏👏👏👏
Congratulations!! So happy for you!
Sending prayers . Let’s manifest a baby world for this lovely couple.
Amen! May the lord bless you with a wonderful bundle of joy ❤
🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✨
Amen!
My firstborn was IVF almost 20 years ago and then I got pregnant on my own when she was 7 months old 😂! Then got pregnant on my own for a third baby. They are 17,18 and 19 now!! Best wishes to you!!
Just wanna say I am SOOOOOOOO impressed with Alessio's knowledge of the process. He sounded like a doctor for a second there & his English was spot on/crystal clear!! ❤️ You are gonna be AMAZING parents & I can't wait to witness you guys receive ALLLLLLL the blessings you truly deserve!! 🙌🏼🥰
Grazie mille sei molto gentle per dirmi questo☺️
I've noticed that Italian men are usually very invested in raising their children. They do not leave 90% of the work around the kids to women like most men in the world.
I went through IVF over 34 years ago. Several times did not work but on December 23 I received a call and the person on the other line began singing a Christmas song to me and then advised me I was going to have a baby. That baby is now 33 years old.
December 23rd that's on my birthday. That's a blessing to have a child for you
First, you two are so kind to share your story with all of us so that maybe someone else that may be going through this can learn from your experience. Second, you two are such a blessing to each other and I admire the two of you even more. I pray that your journey through IVF is successful and I pray that Jessi’s body heals and she can no longer be in the pain she’s been in. Sending love and encouragement to you both!
43 years ago my wife had the same issue, and initially we started adoption process and before we completed the adoption process and we stopped concentrating and worrying about the condition, God blessed us with a beautiful bundle of joy Angelic Marie! So never give up hope 💯 and looking for help and solutions, because God will bless you too when the time is right! God bless you on your journey, we love you guys!❤️
Paul & Annette Lucento Missoula, Montana USA.
Your attitude is EVERYTHING. Sunshine pours out of you ❤
Conception when broken all down is an actual miracle. When attempting to get pregnant it is ALL consuming….entire life. Thankful for your positive progress and outlook.
I'm 8 weeks pregnant after 2 years of IVF (1 endoscopy, 4 egg retrievals, 3 embryo transfers, 1 failed transfer, 1 miscarriage, and 100k out of pocket). It was the hardest experience of my life, but will have been worth it in the end. I don't wish this experience on anyone, and I hope your journey is as fast and painless as possible
I suffered from *extremely* painful endometriosis for years and had several surgeries. My ex-husband and I could not afford IVF, and I went on Clomid four times with no luck. I took a break for a year, and after a few more endometriosis surgeries, I tried a higher dose of Clomid and became pregnant with my now 26-year-old daughter! Keep the faith, and your baby will come to you! I wish you both the best! ❤
I send you all the positive vibes that can be. (Sorry English is not my first language. It is French than Italian). Anyway I send you all the love, corraggio,... I think you took a good decision to look at what the Italian health system can offer to you. I am Canadian and lived in Italy many years (my husband is Fiorentino). I had better health care in Italy. Love you! Take care!
Wow! Very happy for you guys that you’re taking this step. I too had horrible Stage 4 Endo and suffered horribly for years with pain. I also went through two cycles of IVF here in Southern CA. Extremely expensive and could never have done it without the help of my parents. I can say it is quite a process psychologically and physically. Wishing you both the best of luck ❤️
My heart goes out to you guys. I don’t know you, but I wish you both the best possible outcome for every bit of this process. Sending a hug
About 30 years ago, I was diagnosed with endometriosis and had several surgeries. I know what you're going through! At the time we chose not to do IVF. I'm sure things have changed dramatically in 30 years, though. We chose to adopt, and our beautiful girl is getting married 5/24! Wishing you all the best. Soon you will have your precious baby.
I also had severe endometriosis and PCOS. 3 surgeries and they actually scraped my uterus out and actually had to cut fibroids out of my uterus as well. I also needed thyroid medication and progesterone. Fast forward, finally got pregnant with my miracle baby the natural way and have a super healthy boy I was able to carry to full term! Hang in there ❤
Much love and best wishes to you from Arizona. My daughter-in- law has Polycystic ovary disease. It took a couple of years but they finally had their daughter Giovanna. We are all praying for you and hope for your success!!!💝
I’m so sorry you guys are going through this struggle! So many do not understand the mental and emotional draining it takes to go through this process. I wish the best of luck to you both on your parent journey. You are more than deserving to experience parenthood.
I have endometriosis as well and can relate, sending you love and prayers for a successful IVF and pregnancy ❤
Gosh, guys. Thank you for your open-hearted generous spirits. I am so grateful for this channel and your optimistic attitudes! May you experience much support, strength and love from those around you. You are a wonderful wonderful couple. ❤Much love and blessings from Seattle!
Listening to your story takes me back to my journey 25 years ago. You both are very strong. Hoping things go your way and you get relief from the pain of endo.
I just had a dream that someone I knew had endometriosis. I didn’t know it was you beautiful people. I am going to add you all to my prayer list. Clearly God brought me here to support you all virtually. I am thankful for you very light hearted videos and the couple that you all are. Thank you for showing us what a healthy couple looks like and though international couples endure trials, love conquers all.
I am so emotionally overwhelmed for you guys. Your ability to share this journey with others is incredibly generous. My heart is filled with love for you & I send you prayers & light for a successful pregnancy! ❤
I also have endometriosis but mine's on top of my uterus probably a little TMI but hang in there I hope everything works out for you
I've been where you are, and it's so amazing that you've been able to get through the darkness. The best place you can be right now is exactly where you are. Sending so much love and best wishes for you both.
I’m so happy to hear your news. It helps tremendously to have future parents on the same page. One thing I would suggest is to get therapy while you two are going through this. There’s going to be ups and downs for you both which also includes hormonal challenges. Also, make sure that you’re taking the mental breaks you may need which may include minimizing traveling as it’s quite stressful too. It’s going to be a lot of appointments and medication. Good wishes being sent your way. ❤
My initial process I froze my eggs. Sadly, eggs are not as stable as embryos and they completely dissolved. I would guess that the doctors would probably recommend freezing embryos instead of eggs.
Jessi and Alessio,
Thank you for being such a light on this platform!
Please know I am praying for this journey you are on.
Your love and support for one another is inspiring.
I’ve had ENDO as well and understand the challenges.
I pray God will give you the desires of your heart. And also you will sense his presence in the entire experience!
This is one of my favorite accounts to watch. Especially the food! 🥰
Best of luck, my prayers are with you both.
How wonderful of you two to share this journey with others! Know that prayers are winging their way to you from Colorado and that you will be blessed with or without children. God Bless!
Love the fact you guys are willing to tell all and help everyone who could be going through it as well and showing how much you guys will have to go through and spend, that's a really big point for people om that position, it can make or break it for people over here( in the states where it's ruiniously expensive) so grazi mille!!
You guys bought tears to my eyes with your most recent announcement of Jassie’s diagnosis of endometriosis. First of all I’m sorry you are suffering with this dibilated disease. As a young women I also was diagnosed with severe endometriosis. I suffered in silence and endure years of pain. It really touch me that you are willing to share your story.i also respect that Alessio is right by your side showing his support because endometriosis is a fidelity disease that affects both of you. I will be watching and praying for the best possible outcome for you both.
Thank you for sharing. I have also been through the wringer with endometriosis & a lot of other female problems. Initially I felt as if I was crazy. Then when I finally found a female gynecologist who didn't treat me as if I was some sort of nut job I was finally able & willing to go through surgery. It is particularly difficult if one is trying to work with a doctor who not only doesn't validate the physical symptoms you are experiencing but who goes that extra step to let you know that his professional opinion is that you (like most women) are emotionally unbalanced & are imagining much of what you are experiencing. I am so happy you have successfully negotiated the spiritual, mental, emotional & physical realities of your specific situation. May God bless you & keep you.
Oh you two! We have walked where you are and together you have such a healthy outlook on this. Not to say that there aren’t moments that aren’t difficult, but the way you are approaching. This is so mature. After having one child with fertility issues, we were unable to conceive, and carry again after I had a miscarriage. We went on an added five children through adoption for a total of six. Families are made in so many different ways that whatever way you choose for your own family won’t be wrong. in the end, I wound up needing to have a hysterectomy because of the use of fertility drugs. I don’t regret it. Much love and care to you both.
Im sorry you went through the miscarriage. It definitely is a battle in your mind, many unanswered questions...❤ and that hurt takes a while to heal just like a bad wound. Healing the correct way is crucial! It sounds like you did it.😊 you have joy and ready for this! Lots of prayers!!!!!!❤❤
Sending you both prayers for a successful IVF journey. You two would be great parents when it happens.
... May you be blessed in your journey.. You are not alone ..sending love and good energy
We had male factor infertility and did 3 rounds of IVF. First round had a baby girl, who will be 16 next month. Second round we did a frozen cycle, which failed. And our third round we had fraternal twin boys who just turned 14. Listening to you guys brought up so many memories and emotions. You guys are in such a great place mentally and emotionally. Best of luck with the entire process. ❤❤
❤ May you two be blessed. 🙏🏼
So very true, I had to take my daughter to see a cardiologist in Pordenone. I was shocked no cover and no shame, but I’ve noticed how normal it was to all the dr.’s and nurses. It made me feel more comfortable afterwards. Also, you are right about healthcare costs in Italy vs USA. Prayers, sending hugs and love to you both 🙏🏽
I have stage 4 endometriosis. I had 10 pregnancies, 4 babies, and 3 of those 4 were delivered through c-sections. People don't realize how difficult it is for those who have endometriosis. I wish you both the best.
AAAAAW!! Best of LUCK!! Sending Prayers, & Lots of Hugz...🥰🥰👶
Will be thinking about you on this path. Hoping for all good things. Thank you for sharing this so openly. Gives others in the same situation hope!
I've been through the fertility journey (I didn't have endometriosis, but recurrent miscarriage) and I admire you both for your strength and positive attitude so much! Infertility can be some of the darkest days. I hope you have good support behind you (therapy is important, for all of the ups and downs) and I wish you a beautiful rainbow!
Side note: I'm an American but live in Germany. It was awkward at first when I was walking around butt naked with no cover at the gynecologist, but by the end of our journey I didn't bother with dresses anymore. You just get used to it 😅
I really wish you both the best. I have kept you in my prayers for quite awhile now. You are a beautiful couple and I want this to be successful. You will be amazing parents. Love to you both, this has to be an exhausting process. 🥰✌🏼🇺🇸
Sending lots of prayers and positive energy 💕take good care of yourselves 🙏
Hang in there ❤ miracles happen you deserve to be happy and to have a family any way it looks like
I'm so sorry you're going through this and I hope everything goes well for you! Remember you're strong and having each other to support and love each other is so important! Sending you blessings ❤
Sending so much love, light, prayers, & baby dust your way! I had endo & PCOS...I ended up losing a tube & ovary when it twisted then had to have a complete hysterectomy...
I’ve watched a lot of IVF videos, my 25yr old daughter has severe female issues. Thank you for being so raw and candid with your situation and feelings. There are no videos as raw and real as yours!! I wish you the very VERY best. I hope that your TH-cam videos get big and you get compensation for them and that help pay for your medical expenses!! and end the end you are at peace and most importantly HEALTHY!! And free of pain!!
(O’ya! My husband and his family are Macedonian’ and I just love your husband’s accent and expressions’ reminds me of my similar family experiences) 😂❤😊 BEST WISHES JESSI!
I’m sorry that you have been going through so much pain. I’m glad that you are being treated in Italy. I wish you all the best and hope for speedy recovery.
Jessi & Alessio you are both just incredible people to go through this and in addition to share it to help others. It’s a testament to the strength of your relationship. Auguri😘
Praying so hard for y’all! 💕
I have had this for years and I’m so sorry u have to go thru this too! Prayers ur way and much love!
Ciao ragazzi, vi auguro di cuore di realizzare il vostro sogno di diventare genitori 💜 vi mando un'infinità di pensieri positivi!!! Un abbraccio forte forte
It makes my heart glad to see you smiling so enthusiastically. You have such a beautiful radiant smile, here. Love you guys.❤❤❤
What a drag. I did IUI with my firstborn, (worked the very first time) , and (IVF that worked straight) away with triplets . Anything is possible!! Don’t give up !Keep on keepin On ! Lisa from 🇺🇸
I wish the best for the both (hopefully 3 soon) of you! I’m sending pixie dust ❤
I wish you all the best and for sharing your story for others who are struggling. My sister had to do IVF and woooooo, it was expensive (here in Canada) but she had a beautiful baby boy.
I have endo too and have dealt with it for all my life, so I really sympathise with you! I have been blessed with 3 wonderful kids, so hang in there and stay positive! 💞💜💕
I'm going through IVF procedure now and I know how difficult, frustrating and expensive it şs. Wish you the best and stay hopeful and strong ❤
Going through the same procedure with the same diagnosis. Good luck guys, keep being positive and as happy as possible. No stress, no worries - just take it as an adventure, indeed. Hugs!
Praying for y’all to have the beautiful family you dream and deserve!!! 🙏❤️ Thanks for sharing had to be so hard but we are all putting you in our prayers and miracles do happen❤ God Bless you!!!
Best of luck to you. Your attitude is amazing and will get you through this, whatever the outcome is. I know a few people who have dealt with endometriosis and am amazed at your ability to work through all the pain and uncomfortableness with a smile on your face.
I did 4 cycles of IVF in Milan. Humanitas and San Raffaele 15 years ago. They were completely free including the medications. I am not sure if its still this way or maybe it dependen on the region. We had success although it was difficult to hang onto my job and attend all the appointment! Good luck guys!
I had endometriosis as well, when in my late 20's & early 30's. I had multiple surgeries as well. I was married at the time, but my husband & I had decided against children (a blessing in the long run since we divorced), so I ended up having a hysterectomy (also a good decision, because I have a severe autoimmune condition, which I believe caused the endometriosis in the first place). But i am praying for you two & to become parents, which I believe you'd be amazing at!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️
Hey guys. Ive got four children. However i now have endometriosis, adenomyosis and am awaiting a hysterectomy to make life a little easier and hopefully get rid of some pain. I also have multiple sclerosis, lumbar spinal stenosis and spondylosis with an underactive thyroid thrown in just to be nice and im only 37 😂
Your baby dream will come true. It may be harder to achive that goal...but youll get there hopefully. Fingers crossed to both of you. Life is hard at times when facing battles but if you face them with determination strength and courage then nothing is impossible x
Praying for you two 🙏❤️ Love watching your videos and I wish you all the best through your IVF journey.
It’s not easy to share something so sensitive and challenging. Thank for sharing your journey. I pray that you will have a baby one day soon. I went through challenges myself with conceiving but now I have two beautiful boys
First time commenter! The similarities between our stories made me want to reach out. ❤I’m Italian from Rome and my husband is from Pennsylvania. I have stage four endometriosis and actually only have one ovary left from a surgery where they had to remove a 7cm cyst. We just did our first round of IVF and we’re pregnant with our first baby boy! Long story short I am so excited for you guys! You can feel your love for one another and your positivity radiates from the screen. I’m confident you will have a successful journey and sending all the love and luck! ❤️🦁
@@vintagemoss9578thank you! 😊
Congratulations beautiful!! ❤
@@SweetPea92thanks so much ❤
Praying for y’all. God is in control and all we can do is ask that his will be done. God Bless you
Alessio’s exactly right. One step of the time!
Sending you guys tons of love and good vibes!! 💕☀️
Ivf is a crazy journey but can bring many blessings. We have two ivf miracle boys. 2 and 4. Unfortunately, we had to stop there , but we are blessed with our journey. Many players and rhought for you both.
TY for your honesty & vulnerability. You're helping others by sharing your journey. Sending you positive vibes.
I am praying for the best results ever!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yes my niece is going through that right now it is very expensive here in the states I hope all your prayers will be answered God bless
I have endometriosis as well and have also done 2 surgeries. It sucks and i feel for you. I will say, the thing that has helped immensely is changing my diet. Cutting out processed sugar, most carbs, gluten, diary and red meat. My pain has gone away almost completely except when my period comes around.
It’s one of my biggest fears when we decide to try and conceive - not being able to do it naturally.
I pray that you will be able to become pregnant and feel as good as you possibly can. I’m thankful for your beautiful smile and personality - for always looking to the bright side and your always sharing your vulnerability with the world.
God bless 🩷
Thoughts and Prayers with you. So much strength-and what a beautiful partnership with you two💕
I hope and pray that you 2 would be able to share all you are with a little one. Bless you both… bless your future family
You guys are so wonderful. Thank you for sharing this in solidarity with those experiencing infertility and being so vulnerable. ❤️ I had no idea you were having so much pain. Im so sorry!
Wow you two have quite the journey ahead emotionally and physically. I'm wishing you both the best and that everything works out the way it s meant to. Thank you for sharing your personal journey and enlightening us about the processes. ❤🇨🇦
grateful you are showing this cause many of us have no idea what this all looks like.
Hoping for a positive outcome
You too are just amazing. The pure love and the way you support each other is just gold. Love you guys ❤
Sending prayers to you both. And I pray you succeed in having your beautiful healthy baby. You're a beautiful couple and will be wonderful parents! Hang in there, it will happen for you. 🙏❤️👍🏼🤌😊
praying for you and thank you so much for sharing such a sensitive and private part of your lives.
I am so impressed with your healthy attitude about the process and hope that your surgery and procedures go very well. You both seem like such lovely people and I want good things for you always. I hope that your Christmas is joyful and the new year brings good news!
Will pray for the best outcome for you both. God bless!
You too are the BEST...You will be Blessed!
Praying for you guys through this! Blessings sent!
I wish you all the best on your IVF journey. My two wonderful daughters, now 16 and 18, were conceived via IVF. I know that it is an emotional process and wish you all the best! when I went through this process in Charlotte, North Carolina, and was driving an hour there each day, and even planning that small trip in the cycle was a process, so I can imagine your geographical challenges. Sending you all the positive vibes and prayers- many blessings to you!
Endometriosis is so debilitating! I had severe adenomyosis as well and finally decided to have a hysterectomy and adopt or foster in the future because I was in pain all the time and couldn't leave the bed for two weeks in the month. It was just unbearable to the point of me thinking about suicide more and more. It's crazy that I've been in less pain right after surgery than before and healing is going well so far. I only live a 30 minutes drive away from the Italian border and next time I'll be there I leave all the luck I might have had when it comes to pregnancy in Italy for you guys. I wish you all the best ❤
You're in my prayers guys. Endometriosis is not good. Pain and and and. I had Endometriosis and never had a regular cycle till I had my baby. Also it was a heavy cycle with lots of polyps. Strangely, a cure is having a baby, buut having a baby is what's difficult. After my baby I had to have a partial hysterectomy. Good luck and praying for you. 😇🙏🕊👼
I pray all goes well for you both ❤
Im so happy for yall and getting to this point. I pray God blesses yall with a wonderful growing HEALTHY family! I couldnt help but shed some tears when yall were in the taxi listening to that italian radio station. Move to italy already!!!!!
It’s exciting that you are starting to take this journey towards parenthood! Wishing you the very best of luck! 🤞🏽
It’s wonderful that you want to share the process for this very personal journey with us. I am really curious as to the procedural process and costs differences between Italy & the USA.
Hopefully all will work out logistically and medically! ❤
Im so tooting for you both! 🤞🏻 Im so sorry for your struggles, i cannot even begin to imagine what youre feeling. Thanks for sharing, its important that your story is told!
I had endometriosis and had to have my ovaries, tubes and adhesions removed. I wish you all the best.
My husband and i got our daughter in our first round of ICSI! I only had 4 eggs, at the end only one developed and was implanted.and that was the golden egg!!!! It is about quality, not quantity. Keep your heads high and don't lose hope.❤