I appreciate the emphasis on the cultural history of the greeting. It’s beautiful that it’s not just about the physical gesture but the deeper meaning behind it.
This made me think about how many times I’ve shaken hands just out of politeness, not really engaging with the person. I’m definitely going to try to make my connections more intentional
Kinda jealous of how this gesture incorporates tradition with such deep meaning. No wonder these communities have cultures that are far more connected than mine.
I can't see people putting in this kind of effort to think differently when in a professional setting. Handshakes are so deeply ingrained in our society.
Yes, I cried! I am still in tears / heartbroken over all the connections I have missed by not having this intention in the past. Humbled and almost afraid of what it could do in the future - committed to practicing this intention everywhere ❤
This was a great talk. I’ve never met Dr. Pineda before, but we are both alumni of Brigham Young University-Hawaii. I remember the first time I engaged in this greeting during the concert choir retreat in my first month at BYUH. Placing foreheads and noses together to literally share the breath of life with one another was an amazing experience in ways I never expected. Great job Chris!
Chris, You brought tears to my eyes…absolutely beautiful talk! Thank you so much! What a difference you are making for Leaders. So important! 👏 I see you!
This is definitely a powerful way to transform how you interact with people. I'm going to try and implement this in my daily life. Feel like the outcomes are going to be more than I could ever imagine.
This is amazing. In times where it feels like we are the most divided, it is important to move past that transactional nature of the handshake and truly understand people. Thanks for the message!
This is really cool maybe for like.... strengthening communities or personal relationships but I just have no faith in people who are in leadership positions. They always have their own agenda and I doubt their perspective or motives will be changed by a gesture, no matter how meaningful
There is a lot of truth to what you are saying, leadership is full of transaction and ego. But this is why I believe this gesture, more importantly the meaning behind it, can re-ignite deeper connection and transformation from leaders. I have seen it happen with many leaders, it is possible! Thank you for your comment!
I appreciate the emphasis on the cultural history of the greeting. It’s beautiful that it’s not just about the physical gesture but the deeper meaning behind it.
It’s a beautiful way to lead authentic connections ❤️ and trust to be vulnerable
It was an important acknowledgement that not everyone is comfortable with physical touch and that we can do our own metaphorical version.
Really admire how he shared his own realization of being a fraud during that handshake moment.
This made me think about how many times I’ve shaken hands just out of politeness, not really engaging with the person. I’m definitely going to try to make my connections more intentional
Kinda jealous of how this gesture incorporates tradition with such deep meaning. No wonder these communities have cultures that are far more connected than mine.
This makes me want to embrace more of an intentional approach. Feels like our interactions have become so transactional.
Transformation through connection... It's about showing up with more heart, which is something we all need to be more intentional about.
Inspired to try this with my team! It's amazing how a small shift can lead to big changes in how we connect and lead.
I can't see people putting in this kind of effort to think differently when in a professional setting. Handshakes are so deeply ingrained in our society.
I think it's beautiful to honour his cultural heritage through Ung'gno and keep it's significance in modern times.
When he owns up to the lie of shaking their hand and saying "It's good to see you". Had to respect it.
Creating more meaningful connections, such a wholesome message.
Such a moving talk. I honestly wish this could transform peoples attitude. He's so real and delivered it with emotion. 👏
Man he's so right, how many times do we shake someones hand and lie!!
Yes, I cried! I am still in tears / heartbroken over all the connections I have missed by not having this intention in the past. Humbled and almost afraid of what it could do in the future - committed to practicing this intention everywhere ❤
I love how he found a way to respectfully honour his culture while giving a gift to those outside of it.
It's true, we often overlook genuine connections in our day-to-day interactions.
It's a sweet thought, the idea to transform our interactions from transactional to transformational. Would love to see it everywhere.
Even just imagining sharing this gesture gave me an intense feeling of connection to the person I chose 💜
I'm left here trying to remember the last time I felt truly connected with someone....
This was a great talk. I’ve never met Dr. Pineda before, but we are both alumni of Brigham Young University-Hawaii. I remember the first time I engaged in this greeting during the concert choir retreat in my first month at BYUH. Placing foreheads and noses together to literally share the breath of life with one another was an amazing experience in ways I never expected. Great job Chris!
“Transformation was never a comfortable pursuit to begin with.” You did well highlighting your culture and ideas. Good job Chris.
You can tell he means every word. His passion and emotion, can't help but feel the upmost respect for him.
Chris, You brought tears to my eyes…absolutely beautiful talk! Thank you so much! What a difference you are making for Leaders. So important! 👏 I see you!
This is definitely a powerful way to transform how you interact with people. I'm going to try and implement this in my daily life. Feel like the outcomes are going to be more than I could ever imagine.
Powerful and motivating to be real and present by sharing the breathe of life in a greeting.
This is amazing. In times where it feels like we are the most divided, it is important to move past that transactional nature of the handshake and truly understand people. Thanks for the message!
It’s all about transformation! Thanks Chris.
The strength in admitting he's a fraud when he shook their hand. Everyone does that.
Awesome job, son! You are very good at what you do! Keep going strong!
Great Job! 🎉🎉🎉proud of you.
Very nice talk
Love this talk.
This made me think of how shallow the vast majority of interactions are. Pretty sad when you think about it
So good.
Didn't think a gesture (even if done metaphorically) could move me so.
I wonder if there's a way to anchor the thought of Ung'gno to the act of handshaking, that way I can do it all the time.
Can a greeting really change the nature of relationships? Is it the same as how we decide whether or not we like a painting in like .3 seconds?
Not a dry eye at home either.
Do both people feel more connected if only one of them is mentally practicing Ung'gno?
This is really cool maybe for like.... strengthening communities or personal relationships but I just have no faith in people who are in leadership positions. They always have their own agenda and I doubt their perspective or motives will be changed by a gesture, no matter how meaningful
There is a lot of truth to what you are saying, leadership is full of transaction and ego. But this is why I believe this gesture, more importantly the meaning behind it, can re-ignite deeper connection and transformation from leaders.
I have seen it happen with many leaders, it is possible!
Thank you for your comment!
Sorry to be skeptical, but I don't think changing a greeting is enough to fix deep issues in leadership and community!!!