For those wondering why there is noise in the background...it's because I was homeless and living with different family members. I was very depressed during this time. Natural hair remedies kept my spirits lifted. I left a toxic relationship and lost EVERYTHING. I stopped recording videos because life got tough. I nearly went blind, too. But God had a plan for me. I'm no longer homeless and I run a 6 figure business. I will create more hair care videos soon. Thank you for the support. Check out my story here: th-cam.com/video/oc6k-BnXoPk/w-d-xo.html
@@gulfofbea maybe she already used a relaxer i dont want 2 waste my time doing this stuff and for it not work maybe it can soften ur hair or loosen curls or make it shiny but there IS NO WAY IN HELL it will straighten it thats not natural lmao
...The purpose of this video is to show an alternative to using harsh, cancer causing chemicals to relax hair textures, NOT to: -disrespect each other as African Queens -Name call like we are gradeschoolers -Make fun of the contribution to saving black hair from falling out, as this video is or other negative things. If this technique doesnt work for you, that's okay, dont use it. However, as a woman who makes handcrafted products I can suggest to give nature derived treatments a try. Why not? I mean whats more harmful... putting chemicals that literally can BURN your skin and hair OUT OF YOUR HEAD, or slapping an avocado in it (?) Peace and Light, Queens 👑🌹
Queen Yaa-Denkyembo Nicole I have to agree. Why can't we as black women give each other props instead of tearing one another to shreds? smh. Well said sistah. Well said
Well said! it's a sad shame that we as African-American women bash one another throwing shade and being straight damn evil, when we already have to endure being the world's most hated race. I'm gonna continue praying/lifting us up until the day I die, because it seems to be generational curse among our race. I hate that we don't stick together. Didn't mean to use profanity, but it's beyond sad and irritating as heck.
Pre-poo treatment: 1 overripe avocado 2-3 Tbls of your favorite oil e.g coconut, avocado, olive oil etc. Mix together to form a soft paste, can use blender. Apply to hair in sections. Leave in for 45 minutes to 2 hours. Rinse off and shampoo hair with sulfate free shampoo. Suggestion: Dr. Brown's castile soap shampoo Second treatment: 1 egg yolk 1 tspn lemon juice 1 cup soy bean/vegetable oil -Separate egg white from egg yolk in a bowl. Use the egg yolk part. - Add lemon juice to yolk, mix. Then using a whisk, gradually add 1Tbls veg oil into the egg yolk mix. Whisk till you get a mayonnaise consistency. - Section the hair and apply mayo/emulsión, coating from root to tip, and massaging hair with fingertips. -Leave treatment in hair for 1 hour. Wash out with warm water and shampoo hair. Rinse. -Blow dry hair with medium heat. Hair should feel soft and manageable!
I know I’m late sorry for what you went through and I’m glad you overcame the traumatic challenges. Am i using one tablespoon of oil or 1 cup. I’m trying it soon.
Well Ladies it what a stat straight perm would do Omie more healthier causes avocado is got it packed with a light of vitamins and you got your lemon citrate and then you have your oil bean or you also could put avocado oil in there if you want to do a spearman put little coconut oil in there and stuff like a vitamin E like I do with mine cause I made my make my own hair, grease and stuff in my own shampoo and I use that cascade shampoo and blended with what I make mine so it comes out real good so I’m so happy that this that miss Selena thank you so much cause I love this in my hair and it looks so good once it blow dry and curled real beautiful and have that nice gamy shine to it. It looks so healthy. Thank you so much sister girl, God bless keep up the good world girl I’ve been doing hair since I was 11 years old and making Products maybe 20 years now it just didn’t have nobody to really push me to put it on the market. I do sell at the flea market up the hair, grease and stuff of that body butters but I had a stroke so I can’t do a whole lot like I used to but you doing real good you guys gonna continue to bless you, God bless thanks so much to take the time to educate us about her hair like that I just didn’t know I just didn’t want to use chemicals to relax my hair. I just want something this morning natural I know they said white potatoes back in the day when the old school has beautician went to school they use something was called caning and they had to use. I guess the food grade lie to put with a potato to give it defect a perm, the hair and stuff so I had knew about that, but I didn’t wanna put all that in my house. What you came avocado was much better burn your scalp and lie so thank God for just a little thank God I thank God for you girl how you got put it together thank you all my family girls are doing their hair and they got like wavy hair and some got real hard like kind of hair but it make their look beautiful so it’s for any infinite group Hair❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I know that this video is 10 years old, but I JUST ran across it today while sitting here taking faux locs out of my hair. I’ve been natural for more than 20 years, and I’m always looking for natural methods to care for, and maintain my, and my twin daughters’ hair. I just wanted to let you know that I am very inspired by your testimony, and your life journey, and despite me being very late to the game, I am now a new subscriber. I can’t wait to see what other wonderful things you’ve accomplished since this video, and even though I don’t know you, I just want you to know that I’m proud of you sis. 😊 Thanks for the video!
Ok..I have to thank you sista... Lemme tell you why... I have struggled almost and sometimes to tears and frustration with my child's hair but I REFUSE to use chemicals. I stumbled onto this and you SAVED ME...I wish I could show you before and after.. I did it exactly like you said...it not only worked but LASTED 4 WEEKS AND EVEN AFTER THAT her hair never reverted back to where it was...
Is your daughter's hair type 4? Just wanted to know. I believe it can work but for a type 3 person it will probably be much quicker. Also, how long did you leave the pre-poo in her hair?
Awesome you did the homemade perm & it straightened your child's hair 4 wks & you didn't need to flat iron Or put edge control to slick down? I was wondering how often can you apply this homemade perm from kitchen like every other month? I might try this tod ay Or tomorrow Wednesday August 28,flat iron & gel it for slick ponytail!! I just used the Motions Short Looks Texturizer 1-2 months ago.
I am back to let you know I have been applying this cocktail to my very dry curly hair. It turns out straight and so silky after I style it, and it doesn't break anymore. I actually prepare it in my small blender so the avocado mixture is really creamy (I use double the ingredients as I have long hair). My cousin is caucasian, she has naturally straight hair and she has been using it as well. Her long hair turned out soooo shiny and silky, her husband cannot stop touching it! This is great for all kinds of hair. I was tired of applying chemicals to my hair to relax it, not to mention spending money on expensive hair products that do nothing at the end, except for emptying my wallet. Thanks a million, girl, YOU ARE THE BEST!
I tried this yesterday on my 4b/4c textured hair. I left each product on about two hours as I went about my daily business here at home. I made a couple of adjustments in the avocado recipe but kept it all natural. I also used a blender instead of a fork. The finished product was very light, smooth and creamy and easily washed out of my hair. I followed up with a leave in conditioner and let my hair air dry. It definitely stretched my curls, got rid of the frizz and gave my hair a nice sheen. My hair is also very soft and silky feeling. I'm going to do this treatment about twice a month and see how it goes over the changing seasons. Thanks again for your video.
This is my first time watching you video. Forget about all the negatives comments and keep on doing what you are doing, those who appreciated it out number those who don't. I will certainly try it as I am a lover of natural products. Lots of blessings to you my sister.
Taunya, thank you for sharing your experience. I'm 4c and have sensitive skin, protein sensitive, I will try and adjust accordingly. I hope for the Best!
Just did this on my 4b hair! Turned out great!! I did use my hand mixer to mix the egg yolk, lemon, and oil. :) Turned out perfect! Going to do this every 2 weeks!!!!
Have done this treatment twice now and can confirm it works wonders for my hair. I personally HATE using chemicals in my hair so this is perfect, it does take time so I usually dedicate the morning and afternoon to do it. It leaves my hair feeling soft and a fuller looking afro. Thanks so much for posting❤️!!
It’s very sad as black women that we can’t complement one another. Without feeling like we have to tear one another down! You did an awesome job on your neighbors hair.
The people mad are the ghetto ignorant women who are jealous of her incredible beauty and superior intellect and verbal communication skills. They probably were offended by one of the big words she used like avacado, yolk and neighbor all they know is watermelon, eggs and my nigga.
Me too I’m like after my last perm I was like I hateeeeeee the anticipation of a slight chemical burn😭😭 and you can add sooo much to this recipe too which is a fun project
I was so interested in your product that you were making I did not even notice the sound, someone said there was a man in the background chopping up something. I don't see him. I am just happy to see you have given us an option of using a all natural not store bought product ,and I will be using this. Thanks for sharing your knowledge that we may have a relaxer without the strong chemical . Thank you again
Much respect. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. My native america Grandmother taught us how to take care of our hair using maize water, egg. banana, castor oil. I was bald as a baby until I was 2 had nothing but fuzz ... she got her loving growing hands on me and my hair grew like it was possessed, had hair like Chaka Khan by the time I was 5. I am an advocate for natural products for natural beauty. You go girl! Help de-program the programmed. Chemicals are not necessary at all
I just wanted to pass by to say thank you very much. I'm actually trying to go natural, so I begin searching on how to get perm out of my hair & I came across your video. Since I love avocado and eggs, I said hey, why not try it out . Prior to using your remedy my hair was visibly extremely dry. Now that I've used your remedy, my hair is shiny, silky & manageable again. Its like I got a perm .yeeeees, My hair is right back the way it was.. kisses & ♥♥♥.....I saw the video today, & I tried it today, Thank You Very Much. ♥♥♥♥♥ I will no longer perm my hair ever again. Trust me ladies it really works.... God bless
Hello dear, does it truly work? Like a perm hair, that can last for at least 4weeks, pls let me know if it looks like a relaxed hair? I want to stop using relaxers in my hair and also look good at d snake time
For all the haters out there, I've tried mayo on my hair and it didn't do a damn thing. Her recipe takes a little bit of time but actually worked wonders on my hair. Wasn't too fond of the avocado pre-poo because it made my hair feel more coarse but after doing all the steps, I'm 100% satisfied. Keep doing you girl!
Omg....I love this...just did the avocado poo and the conditioner on my 4c hair....it's shinny silky and soft and yes it did straighten out....I use almond oil with the avocado left it on for one hour and I used olive oil for the conditioner....to each his own stop criticizing
finally, Somebody know what they are talking about. I have watched hundreds of hair videos that talked about goofy stuff. You, my dear, are a delight to follow.
Thank You so nice of you to share! I have raised 5 respectable daughters! I cant believe the lack of respect...people have nothing better to do than be mean and stupid at the same time!!! It's the way of the world isnt it and some people get sucked into it! Do what you do and DELETE ALL USELESSNESS! Remember some people cant live practical lives because instead of really listening they pay attention to Mayhem and MEANINGLESS DISTRACTIONS!!! Shalena what a lovely productive woman you are I'm sure your Momma is proud!
Amen. People are just hiding behind a screen being nasty in their attitude. If they do not agree they can keep moving, and even if they will exercise their right to disagree, there is a right and wrong way about it. So much for self respect, because self respecting people don't disrespect others.
I can tell that if she continues with this regime her hair will drastically change for the better. I'm tired of buying expensive natural products. When I take my braids down, I'm certainly doing this! Wow, thank you.
Just a note... When mixing the conditioner, instead of using the fork you can use an electric mixer (used for cake). I tried it because I can't mix for that long due to wrist surgery and it works very well! No elbow grease needed.
Thanks! This really do work, I tried it a couple of years ago and I kinda fell off. As it is a little bit of work and messy. I remembered how awesome my hair felt and you're right that healthy shine. So once I take my crochet out..I'm get my eggs and oil from the dollar tree.. avocado already in my freezer just thaw and pick up my lemon. I'm not going to blow dry I'm stretch my hair 5 big braids and re-do my spring twist! Thanks again for sharing I never want another relaxer or texturizer in my hair...there are so many other options. I truly love my 4c hair...it's thick and healthy with management...there's nothing I can't do with this hair....TH-cam is a game changer....D.I.Y. videos makes you more knowledgeable.
I have woolyish hair like my dad, but also very wavy like my mom. I did this pre-poo, baking soda wash, and a homemade conditioner ( egg yolk, baby oil, and plain yogurt). I brushed my hair immediately after towel drying while hair was damp, and I can already tell a difference. I love being able to try these different remedies without the worry of harsh chemicals. I don't think I will ever use store bought shampoos or conditioners again. :)
It’s sad this woman produced this content for y’all while she was homeless and the best thing you can come up with is that’s it’s mayo & argue semantics over perm and relaxer.
Moneybags Anderson Thank you. People are missing the fact that you can use any kind of oil you like. When has store bought mayo ever had tee tree oil in it? Hiw much ever tried the pre poo? I won't let this discourage me from creating more content now that things are settled in my life. TY for your kind words.
Moneybags Anderson or they're too focused on the fact that someone is chopping something in the background. People are so petty and will look for anything to it's about. SMH. TBH I didn't even notice it until people started commenting because I'm more focused on her not looking for shit wrong
I'm SO tired of using relaxer in my hair and so glad I found this video. I will definitely be trying this next week and look forward to the positive results! I saw some negative comments on this video. Forget them! You are doing a great thing by showing women how to naturally manage their hair without all those harsh chemicals. Kudos to you!
Do u not KNOW wharA NATURAL perm looks like when you get it done. Its nit flat STRAGTEN hair Its full CURLS. Now I was born with natural curly hair, but people go to the hairdressers to pay for perms , permz NOW yes that leaves yah WITH curly HAIR. U mys well girlll say facts , u made your own Sandy conditioner 🤔💆♀️whatever fair play . but you did that for the PERM in hsir. I saw not even one curl hair strand,. you straighten her hair and washed it brushed ig thats it
Sherry young Not no u A LIER, YES'S A LIER. WHY/ u cant MAKE CURLS WHICH is PERM,. BY WAY Out of STRAGTEN your hair as I seen HER DO. I THINK SHE WAS CONFUSED
shalenadiva i tryed making the conditioner with olive oil, and it didnt work i forgot to add the lemon, then after id did, how do u exactly do the conditioner, is it like a mayonaiss
shalenadiva When the camera swithed from you mixing the tiny amount of egg and oil to a bigger fluffier amount, was the remainder of the oil the only thing you added?
Shalenadiva, your ore poo and sandy is awesome. I followed your tutorial step by step on my daughters hair and the results were incredible. I am hooked! her natural hair turned out so nice and healthy, I can't imagine using anything else. Thank you so much!
I'm not sure how reliable the relaxing part of the hair is but the egg and vegetable oil and lemon juice is definitely a good way to condition your hair and moisturize. I thought this was very informative I'm sure over time it's got to be very good for your hair. I would love to see this done on someone's hair that is completely natural without the straight ends. I think that would give more accuracy on how well it does relaxing the curl pattern and if it actually works completely with natural hair, particularly on a coarse texture.... thanks for sharing
how many of you have a nice head of hair? let me see your hand. A lot of you are rude making rude comments. a lot of us needs this treatment. black hair is completely different from other races. many if us black women go bald and experience scalp disease. if we were cooking up these and other recipes like this out hair would be fabulous. yes her hair needs trimming but if you look at the woman's hair from the video. her hair is now whiney and it does look a lot healthier than before. with regular treatment her hair WILL improve more. research the ingredients they are all good for the hair. be optimistic people. it does work
+Elisheba Naomi how is the joke on me...I laughed because you said goat...and it reminded me of when my sister called some one OK goat mouth b...so as my kids say idk....lol.. I really liked this video and the outcome of this sister's hair..guuurl bye
Thank you ! First time watching one of your videos, excellent!!!! I love how you implement using ingredients out of your kitchen. I’ve gone back and forth purchasing products and seeing no results or very little. My daughters now are make there on products and doing an excellent job as well. In this day so much is going on, doesn’t make since making others richer and you poorer. I’m all for supporting our on so don’t get me wrong, talking about others. It’s something about going in your kitchen and being creative, I think that’s something that has been lost in community. Please continue to inspire us. Much love! Peace!
Shelenadiva, wanted to say how courageous and beautiful you are for leaving that toxic relationship. Sometimes in life in order to gain your sanity you may have to lose everything. I know it’s been a struggle but I’m rooting for you...,May Jehovah strengthen you through your wonderful journey
Amazing! I love this video. What I really love is that me and Miss Alice are older women and I am glad to know there is an alternative way besides chemicals to make my hair look decent. Thank you for your post.
The avocado pre-poo works so well with my hair I have regained manageability of my hair. No relaxer or anything but with the help of the pre-poo and 100% pure right from the can coconut milk I am now in love with my hair again. I was even able to get a short cut now almost 2weeks old still looking like I got a relaxer. My hair is soft, shiny, no breakage/less shedding and definitely way more manageable. I have really thick coarse hair if it worked for me it has to work for others with hair like mines 😊
This treatment made a big difference.This is very simular to making homemade mayonnaise when you mixed the oil, egg yolk, lemon juice is the way you actually make mayo. What a coincidence.
Love this. Used this once and it didn’t take out all my curl (I have hella tight ringlets) but it did relax a bit! Once or twice more should do it for me. This is awesome.
Thank you Ms. Diva, for putting an end to my hair "product junky" days! I like so many other multi-cultural women, have spent thousands of dollars on products that have been incredibly marketed.....only to be disappointed. The downside is having dozens of bottles of all the pop culture products spilling out of my cabinets. There is an upside though....the local shelters love to see me coming in with them! May God bless you as you humbly and cheerfully continue searching for His simple, inexpensive solutions to hair care challenges.
Thank you so much girl i was so scared that perms may cause cancer. But i didn't care i permed my hair every two months. but i will definitely try this method of relaxing my hair next time. Thank you so much for sharing.God bless you dear.
U did an OUTSTAAANNNDING job!! Your presentation was flawless - straight to the point with the goods, just like I like it!! U have wonderful, encouraging energy which makes your videos top choice with me!! Thanks for your clarity and professionalism and quality proof of product. I will continue to watch your channel in the future!! God bless and keep up the good work! We NEED UUUU!!
God bless you and your family. Many thanks in sharing alternate ways of smoothing the hair. Keep doing what you're doing, using wisdom God has given you. Just continue to rise my sister.
For the Spanish females that has somewhat dry hair and living in Florida, which I’m born and raised in New York was born with straight black hair, but Florida weather drys and stripes you natural oil. I tried organ hair straightener for white girls, and honey it worked so perfectly for my hair. But now this video shows no chemical I’m going to try it. Thank you for sharing. I will keep you posted and updated
I know it's been years since this was posted/shared, but is it possible to see it demonstrated on a 4c type hair? It would be really helpful. Thanks for letting us share in your wealth of knowledge, Shalena🙏🏽
I should think that for a type 4 natural person one would have to leave the avocado pre-poo on longer maybe 6 to 8 hours or overnight. Also depending on the size of ones hair strands, the straightening effect could be immediate or take time as in need multiple applications. Anyway the ingredients are all very good for the hair. Also instead of using plain vegetable oil you could possibly use a penetrating oil like olive oil or coconut oil or even an herb-infused oil. If you try this, I'd like to know your results.
Thank you for this video. It is one of the more comprehensive ones I found and will try. During this time of stay at home, i need to have my hair done and was looking for a good way to relax my hair naturally to maintain it. It looks easy enough since I have shoulder problems. May you continue to prosper. Bless you.
WOW!! This is awesome, thank you so much for sharing your hair care recipes. It is so much healthier and less aggravation and most important no burn or breakage!
I so love that I've found you! There's so many people that judge but have no idea how painfull it is. I have bald spots and eczema. Thank you so much!!!
I love this!! I use the prepoo recipe just as a hair mask on my 3c curls once a month and it’s never looked better. The conditioner I use once a week and I barely use as much regular shampoo and conditioner as I used to because my hair always looks so healthy and shiny! I don’t know if it works as a perm relaxer because I’ve never had a perm but it works so well in keeping my hair healthy! Lots of love from Australia! I hope you keep making videos of your recipes!
I'm trying this out now. Had the avocado pre-poo on now for over and hour. Sandy is ready too. I hope my hair agrees with this wonderful all natural hair treatment. Will let y'all know the outcome. Thanks Milady for sharing your hair relaxer recipe with us all.
The avocado pre-poo and Shandy delivered👍🏽💪🏽😊! My hair looks so silky and alive. Thanks loads Milady. Will attempt your suggestion on fuller hair. Thanks again.
I so appreciate you! I love your contribution to the Sister community! Love the way your mind works! You Are Our, "Sister-girl-Lifesaver!" That's no flattery! Sincere compliment! 👍👍🏿👍🏾👍🏽
Tyvm a week later and I'm able to pull it up in a ponytail with a little gel and setting lotion! No freez and no fuss. My hair is usually hard to comb and Nappy but easy today OMG 😘. Side note hadn't combed it since last week when I did it and braided two cornrows after drying! 😍😍😍😍 Many blessings and peace to you my sister!
Handmade mayonnaise. My mother use to make mayo and we'd not only eat it but use it also for our hair. The egg white can be used as a facial mask to minimize your pores and treat acne. The lemon juice can be used to " bleach" your skin or minimize " age" spots. 😊
Wow first time watching fan of your work already now I can tell my clients and put in my elbow work thanks for blessing us may you continue to receive blessings
I came across this video trying to see if milk of magnesia would condition my hair. I'm so glad God brought you out of that relationship and put you back on your feet. I have been there too. Keep putting God first and He will bless you!! He is always with you wherever you go. He gave you wonderful gifts and talents. You have touched my heart.
that's really inspiring that you were able to do that while you were homeless because I think the best ideas come up when you're at your lowest you look up and God shows you your best so keep going I'm very proud of what you did and thank God for you and God bless you with whatever you do and may God always be with you thank you so much. I don't see anything sad about this only thing that's sad is people who don't have faith and don't believe in things that Inspire them when they're at their lowest to put people down about getting inspired when they're going down so we should be encouraging to one another not putting each other down.
also if you use the egg white , olive oil and tiny amount of vinegar , mix well, apply to your face with a soft brush , avoid the eyes it makes your skin so soft and helps remove fine lines on the skin , i leave mine on for about an hour, it tinkles and as it drys you feel the face mask pull on the skin . always test an area before use. i use this about twice a week, always throw the mixture you have not used away
I'm just like you. I make almost all my hair products. I also have a culinary background. Your sandy conditioner, is a true mayonnaise. It was the first thing I learned in school lol. But what nobody can deny is its effectiveness on hair.
My hair is unrelaxed for about 8 years now. It's a combination 4B/4C texture. I think the oils in this treatment will give me the deeper conditioning that I need. I'm going to do it twice a month and see how it goes. I can't beat that it's all natural. Thanks for your video.
Just to let you know, I tried your tip and my hair was so soft for days; I forgot to bookmark you so it took me a while to find this video; so thank you; and glad to hear you came out from the season of winter to summer. So happy to hear that
I just want to thank you personally for that amazing natural hair relaxer. I have natural 3C hair and it did wonders for me. I wish I could show you a picture. 😊
Shalena , you are a God sent to me. I have tried so many products since I turned natural but they never worked for me. I only use the conditioner and my hair is looking wow! God richly bless you. Pls I want to follow you to have great and gorgeous hair.
Thank you for showing us a demonstration on the avocado I tried it 3 days ago honestly I have to say. I loved it, make my hair feel good and relaxed and extremely self.
It is a mayo condition. It is one of the first conditioners we learned to use in cosmetology school. It is an excellent conditioner for your hair. Good for you for making it for yourself most people go buy mayo conditioner in fact I have a jar I brought. Good luck with your hair products and thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge during a rough time in your life.
I use Coconut milk that’s sits in the fridge to make a cream to deep conditioner and relax my curls I also use volcanic ash and over time I believe you see your true curl pattern most people don’t see their pattern because their hair is always dry
You know what’s crazy…literally everything we need for our natural hair to flourish is literally in the environment around us. Every ingredient she put in her hair is the same ingredients you can eat…which might I add is healthy for you! This just blows me mind truly🩷They try to make us think Afro-kinky hair is sooo unmanageable and ugly but it’s how we treat it that makes all the difference. I had to search through a boatload of product pushing videos just to find the au naturale on. God bless you ❤️
This will always be the most nourishing to our hair.I do this on my kid .I learned from my environment our moms used this and had richer hair.I testify as a user.Thank you for highlighting
Very creative, unfortunately we live in a society with some ppl who don't like to see other's smiling and very confident in what they doing. Job well done .Thank you for sharing...
Soooooooooo, I don't know how I found your videos but as I watched one before this one. I clicked your page, open and I'm subscribing, reposting and sharing your videos. Oh and by the way, deleting about 93% of people I follow on growing natural hair stronger, healthier and longer. You are awesome and thanks for all these videos. I will be watching more of you...
NA BY no sarcasm. The other black women I subscribe too, they do more weave videos and make up advice. I hate make up and I hate fake hair. So I had to delete them amd find all natural women. I want natural hair care advice. What made my comment sarcastic?
Krissy Rojas oh I thought you meant something else. I hate weaves and makeup too honestly. I love natural hair and food better. I thought you wrote you were getting rid of all the natural stuff.
NA BY Ohhhh no, I'm keeping everything natural and building a wall away from chemicals. Its hard now even with food because the seed we buy, from the stores are now patent. But its a better quality to grow from home, then buying from any store.
Thank you sooooooo very much. Also thanks to Ms Alice. Y'all have made a believer out of me. I will be utilizing this procedure from this day until. WOW ! !!
Thank you ,this avocado work's great . My grandmother used the very ripe avocados in her hair. My mom told me she had gorgeous head of hair . I use mayo in mine a sleep with a plastic cap and bag on my head . It works ! You did a great job on your neighbors hair ,her hair was nice and smoothe. Definitely shiny ,I'm sure her scalp was feeling the love as well, lol. Thanks again :)
#shalenadiva, I just did this today. You were right.....I will never relax my hair again with chemicals. The results were very satisfying. Thanks for sharing! MUAH
Yes! I tried it. I put a mashed avocado, 4 tbsp grapeseed oil and 1 egg yolk in my dry, crispy brittle hair. I covered it with a plastic cap and left it on for 45 minutes. I didn't want to do the condition cause I was watching tv with hubby. I shampooed with Suave keratin shampoo & then the Suave keratin conditioner (1st time for all three). My hair air dried while watching tv then I two-strand flat twisted my hair before bed, 2 on sides & 3 in back, bantu knotted them and put a satin cap on. My hair is still soft, manageable and amazingly cute with my twist out. I know it's mainly because of the avocado, grapeseed oil & egg yolk. It relaxed my tight curl pattern. My hair was elongated without blow drying or flat ironing. I am so happy with my hair now, the fustration is gone 😊 Thanks Shalenadiva! ❤
This is AWESOME!!!! Sometimes your hair just needs some extra TLC. I'm glad you took my video as a guide and did what was best for YOU and YOUR hair. I'm so glad you love your hair. BOOM
For those wondering why there is noise in the background...it's because I was homeless and living with different family members.
I was very depressed during this time. Natural hair remedies kept my spirits lifted. I left a toxic relationship and lost EVERYTHING. I stopped recording videos because life got tough. I nearly went blind, too. But God had a plan for me. I'm no longer homeless and I run a 6 figure business. I will create more hair care videos soon. Thank you for the support. Check out my story here: th-cam.com/video/oc6k-BnXoPk/w-d-xo.html
Aww...God Bless you Sweetie and I hope your happiness continues to grow and your business. I know exactly what you mean by TOXIC!!!
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shalenadiva pls can I get a relaxer for my natural hair am in Saudi arabian
shalenadiva good bless you
shalenadiva praise God, I was once there as well, but God!! I'm not makin a 6 figure income, but I'm alive!
WOW! You were homeless and took the time out to share your knowledge, now thats what you call true heart, thank you!
gulfofbea God bless you
YES THAT WAS BEAUTIFUL.
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@@Abdul859 But she blow dried her hair in the video..
@@Abdul859 You did see her blowing her hair out in the video, right?
@@gulfofbea maybe she already used a relaxer i dont want 2 waste my time doing this stuff and for it not work maybe it can soften ur hair or loosen curls or make it shiny but there IS NO WAY IN HELL it will straighten it thats not natural lmao
...The purpose of this video is to show an alternative to using harsh, cancer causing chemicals to relax hair textures, NOT to:
-disrespect each other as African Queens
-Name call like we are gradeschoolers
-Make fun of the contribution to saving black hair from falling out, as this video is
or other negative things.
If this technique doesnt work for you, that's okay, dont use it. However, as a woman who makes handcrafted products I can suggest to give nature derived treatments a try. Why not?
I mean whats more harmful... putting chemicals that literally can BURN your skin and hair OUT OF YOUR HEAD, or slapping an avocado in it (?)
Peace and Light, Queens 👑🌹
Queen Yaa-Denkyembo Nicole I have to agree. Why can't we as black women give each other props instead of tearing one another to shreds? smh. Well said sistah. Well said
Queen Yaa-Denkyembo Nicole hi
Queen Yaa-Denkyembo Nicole
Bod
More people need to stand up and call out this behavior when we see it. You did it in a caring and respectful way. Thank you.
Well said! it's a sad shame that we as African-American women bash one another throwing shade and being straight damn evil, when we already have to endure being the world's most hated race. I'm gonna continue praying/lifting us up until the day I die, because it seems to be generational curse among our race. I hate that we don't stick together. Didn't mean to use profanity, but it's beyond sad and irritating as heck.
Pre-poo treatment:
1 overripe avocado
2-3 Tbls of your favorite oil e.g coconut, avocado, olive oil etc.
Mix together to form a soft paste, can use blender. Apply to hair in sections. Leave in for 45 minutes to 2 hours. Rinse off and shampoo hair with sulfate free shampoo. Suggestion: Dr. Brown's castile soap shampoo
Second treatment:
1 egg yolk
1 tspn lemon juice
1 cup soy bean/vegetable oil
-Separate egg white from egg yolk in a bowl. Use the egg yolk part.
- Add lemon juice to yolk, mix. Then using a whisk, gradually add 1Tbls veg oil into the egg yolk mix. Whisk till you get a mayonnaise consistency.
- Section the hair and apply mayo/emulsión, coating from root to tip, and massaging hair with fingertips.
-Leave treatment in hair for 1 hour. Wash out with warm water and shampoo hair. Rinse.
-Blow dry hair with medium heat. Hair should feel soft and manageable!
Ahhhhh, thank you kindly, ma'am!🙋🏾♀️
Thank you for posting this.
I'm so confused this is different from what she says in the video🤔
I know I’m late sorry for what you went through and I’m glad you overcame the traumatic challenges. Am i using one tablespoon of oil or 1 cup. I’m trying it soon.
Well Ladies it what a stat straight perm would do Omie more healthier causes avocado is got it packed with a light of vitamins and you got your lemon citrate and then you have your oil bean or you also could put avocado oil in there if you want to do a spearman put little coconut oil in there and stuff like a vitamin E like I do with mine cause I made my make my own hair, grease and stuff in my own shampoo and I use that cascade shampoo and blended with what I make mine so it comes out real good so I’m so happy that this that miss Selena thank you so much cause I love this in my hair and it looks so good once it blow dry and curled real beautiful and have that nice gamy shine to it. It looks so healthy. Thank you so much sister girl, God bless keep up the good world girl I’ve been doing hair since I was 11 years old and making Products maybe 20 years now it just didn’t have nobody to really push me to put it on the market. I do sell at the flea market up the hair, grease and stuff of that body butters but I had a stroke so I can’t do a whole lot like I used to but you doing real good you guys gonna continue to bless you, God bless thanks so much to take the time to educate us about her hair like that I just didn’t know I just didn’t want to use chemicals to relax my hair. I just want something this morning natural I know they said white potatoes back in the day when the old school has beautician went to school they use something was called caning and they had to use. I guess the food grade lie to put with a potato to give it defect a perm, the hair and stuff so I had knew about that, but I didn’t wanna put all that in my house. What you came avocado was much better burn your scalp and lie so thank God for just a little thank God I thank God for you girl how you got put it together thank you all my family girls are doing their hair and they got like wavy hair and some got real hard like kind of hair but it make their look beautiful so it’s for any infinite group Hair❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I know that this video is 10 years old, but I JUST ran across it today while sitting here taking faux locs out of my hair. I’ve been natural for more than 20 years, and I’m always looking for natural methods to care for, and maintain my, and my twin daughters’ hair. I just wanted to let you know that I am very inspired by your testimony, and your life journey, and despite me being very late to the game, I am now a new subscriber. I can’t wait to see what other wonderful things you’ve accomplished since this video, and even though I don’t know you, I just want you to know that I’m proud of you sis. 😊
Thanks for the video!
A person who comes up with a better way to straighten hair that is permanent and doesn't involve extternal chemicals will become very wealthy.
Yes because this didn't work at all in my hair
Desperately need a hair straightening shampoo
Ok..I have to thank you sista... Lemme tell you why... I have struggled almost and sometimes to tears and frustration with my child's hair but I REFUSE to use chemicals. I stumbled onto this and you SAVED ME...I wish I could show you before and after.. I did it exactly like you said...it not only worked but LASTED 4 WEEKS AND EVEN AFTER THAT her hair never reverted back to where it was...
Yassss!!!! Congrats. TY for letting me know. ❤️❤️❤️
did it relax the curl pattern?
Is your daughter's hair type 4? Just wanted to know. I believe it can work but for a type 3 person it will probably be much quicker. Also, how long did you leave the pre-poo in her hair?
@@shalenadiva
Awesome you did the homemade perm & it straightened your child's hair 4 wks & you didn't need to flat iron Or put edge control to slick down? I was wondering how often can you apply this homemade perm from kitchen like every other month? I might try this tod ay Or tomorrow Wednesday August 28,flat iron & gel it for slick ponytail!! I just used the Motions Short Looks Texturizer 1-2 months ago.
I am back to let you know I have been applying this cocktail to my very dry curly hair. It turns out straight and so silky after I style it, and it doesn't break anymore. I actually prepare it in my small blender so the avocado mixture is really creamy (I use double the ingredients as I have long hair). My cousin is caucasian, she has naturally straight hair and she has been using it as well. Her long hair turned out soooo shiny and silky, her husband cannot stop touching it! This is great for all kinds of hair. I was tired of applying chemicals to my hair to relax it, not to mention spending money on expensive hair products that do nothing at the end, except for emptying my wallet. Thanks a million, girl, YOU ARE THE BEST!
Awesome!!!! TY for letting me know. Congrats on finding what works for you!!! BOOM
Is the Hair Formula temporary
@Bella that is Awesome! Thank you for your feedback.
Hello, do you have 4c hair? Or type 4 hair in general?
How often do you apply this and do you think one can switch from relaxers to this natural method without loosing length?
Very good speaker and teacher. Background noise does not bother me at all
Geez Ahmad you have beautiful hair😍
@@shilohappolus823 ô9
Honestly, I just figured that she lived in the city. I live in Atlanta and it sounds like this every night.
The spirit in the midst of her grace did but I digress 😂😭🙏🏾
I tried this yesterday on my 4b/4c textured hair. I left each product on about two hours as I went about my daily business here at home. I made a couple of adjustments in the avocado recipe but kept it all natural. I also used a blender instead of a fork. The finished product was very light, smooth and creamy and easily washed out of my hair. I followed up with a leave in conditioner and let my hair air dry. It definitely stretched my curls, got rid of the frizz and gave my hair a nice sheen. My hair is also very soft and silky feeling. I'm going to do this treatment about twice a month and see how it goes over the changing seasons. Thanks again for your video.
Are you protien sensitive?
This is my first time watching you video. Forget about all the negatives comments and keep on doing what you are doing, those who appreciated it out number those who don't. I will certainly try it as I am a lover of natural products. Lots of blessings to you my sister.
Can you share the recipe the video won’t okay
Carol Dawkins play
Taunya, thank you for sharing your experience. I'm 4c and have sensitive skin, protein sensitive, I will try and adjust accordingly. I hope for the Best!
Just did this on my 4b hair! Turned out great!! I did use my hand mixer to mix the egg yolk, lemon, and oil. :) Turned out perfect! Going to do this every 2 weeks!!!!
Jaime Stacy how did It work out for u?
Rinsing the conditioner.. did you use cool water?
If you don't do it every bow and then does it revert back
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Have done this treatment twice now and can confirm it works wonders for my hair. I personally HATE using chemicals in my hair so this is perfect, it does take time so I usually dedicate the morning and afternoon to do it. It leaves my hair feeling soft and a fuller looking afro. Thanks so much for posting❤️!!
Thank you i thought its chemical coz even mei hate chemical
Am not sure this would move my 4c hair lol
Your focus is a sign of your Grace, you didn’t let anyone’s actions distract you. How commendable! Blessing
Bingo!
It’s very sad as black women that we can’t complement one another. Without feeling like we have to tear one another down! You did an awesome job on your neighbors hair.
Very good
why do you say it like "we black women"
Moo
thank you!
The people mad are the ghetto ignorant women who are jealous of her incredible beauty and superior intellect and verbal communication skills. They probably were offended by one of the big words she used like avacado, yolk and neighbor all they know is watermelon, eggs and my nigga.
I dont know my spirit kept telling me to look up perm made at home all day..I finally searched and it got me here. Godbless thankyou
Awesome!!! Let me know how it turns out, ok?
Me too I’m like after my last perm I was like I hateeeeeee the anticipation of a slight chemical burn😭😭 and you can add sooo much to this recipe too which is a fun project
I was so interested in your product that you were making I did not even notice the sound, someone said there was a man in the background chopping up something. I don't see him. I am just happy to see you have given us an option of using a all natural not store bought product ,and I will be using this. Thanks for sharing your knowledge that we may have a relaxer without the strong chemical . Thank you again
Much respect. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. My native america Grandmother taught us how to take care of our hair using maize water, egg. banana, castor oil. I was bald as a baby until I was 2 had nothing but fuzz ... she got her loving growing hands on me and my hair grew like it was possessed, had hair like Chaka Khan by the time I was 5. I am an advocate for natural products for natural beauty. You go girl! Help de-program the programmed. Chemicals are not necessary at all
Are the ingredients you mentioned from a recipe you're able to share? :o
@@HiNinqi send me an email. lulubluemoon@gmail.com
May i also have the recipe/s please im desperately trying to save my daughters hair too?
@@Sakazhua Are you still willing to share this recipe with me? I am struggling with my hair!
I just wanted to pass by to say thank you very much. I'm actually trying to go natural, so I begin searching on how to get perm out of my hair & I came across your video. Since I love avocado and eggs, I said hey, why not try it out . Prior to using your remedy my hair was visibly extremely dry. Now that I've used your remedy, my hair is shiny, silky & manageable again. Its like I got a perm .yeeeees, My hair is right back the way it was.. kisses & ♥♥♥.....I saw the video today, & I tried it today, Thank You Very Much. ♥♥♥♥♥ I will no longer perm my hair ever again. Trust me ladies it really works.... God bless
What oil did you used
Hello dear, does it truly work? Like a perm hair, that can last for at least 4weeks, pls let me know if it looks like a relaxed hair? I want to stop using relaxers in my hair and also look good at d snake time
For all the haters out there, I've tried mayo on my hair and it didn't do a damn thing. Her recipe takes a little bit of time but actually worked wonders on my hair. Wasn't too fond of the avocado pre-poo because it made my hair feel more coarse but after doing all the steps, I'm 100% satisfied. Keep doing you girl!
Contessa Schultz thank you for trying it and being open minded!!!
Omg....I love this...just did the avocado poo and the conditioner on my 4c hair....it's shinny silky and soft and yes it did straighten out....I use almond oil with the avocado left it on for one hour and I used olive oil for the conditioner....to each his own stop criticizing
Contessa Schultz what is the recipe for the relaxer? I can’t find the video.
@@AsmrNarrator Its in this video, rewatch this video and she shows the recipe for each step.
@@donnadixon-newton5586 how long fo you leave conditioner in hair
6:17 she looks like my mom I got emotional I haven’t seen my mom in 3 years 🥺♥️
Ingredients of the relxer
@Ni Ha sorry to hear that and thank you 🤍🤍🤍
@@esraali2 Hey how are you I was so sad when I read your text. Have you spoken to your mum?
@@lollshyltz1009 we talk regularly
finally, Somebody know what they are talking about. I have watched hundreds of hair videos that talked about goofy stuff. You, my dear, are a delight to follow.
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wow nice
good thank you I will try that.
Thank You so nice of you to share! I have raised 5 respectable daughters! I cant believe the lack of respect...people have nothing better to do than be mean and stupid at the same time!!! It's the way of the world isnt it and some people get sucked into it! Do what you do and DELETE ALL USELESSNESS! Remember some people cant live practical lives because instead of really listening they pay attention to Mayhem and MEANINGLESS DISTRACTIONS!!! Shalena what a lovely productive woman you are I'm sure your Momma is proud!
I agree this is very helpful😀
Amen. People are just hiding behind a screen being nasty in their attitude. If they do not agree they can keep moving, and even if they will exercise their right to disagree, there is a right and wrong way about it. So much for self respect, because self respecting people don't disrespect others.
I can tell that if she continues with this regime her hair will drastically change for the better. I'm tired of buying expensive natural products. When I take my braids down, I'm certainly doing this! Wow, thank you.
I've done this in both my daughter's hair my hair and my son's hair and it does work thank you very much
Awesome!!!! Ty for letting me know.
Just a note... When mixing the conditioner, instead of using the fork you can use an electric mixer (used for cake). I tried it because I can't mix for that long due to wrist surgery and it works very well! No elbow grease needed.
Thank you so much!!😭
You are a "Natural Woman" and is truly blessed. Thank you for sharing.
Cynthia Alexander
Hello, have you ever done virgin hair that's medium texture?
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Thanks! This really do work, I tried it a couple of years ago and I kinda fell off. As it is a little bit of work and messy. I remembered how awesome my hair felt and you're right that healthy shine. So once I take my crochet out..I'm get my eggs and oil from the dollar tree.. avocado already in my freezer just thaw and pick up my lemon. I'm not going to blow dry I'm stretch my hair 5 big braids and re-do my spring twist! Thanks again for sharing I never want another relaxer or texturizer in my hair...there are so many other options. I truly love my 4c hair...it's thick and healthy with management...there's nothing I can't do with this hair....TH-cam is a game changer....D.I.Y. videos makes you more knowledgeable.
I have woolyish hair like my dad, but also very wavy like my mom. I did this pre-poo, baking soda wash, and a homemade conditioner ( egg yolk, baby oil, and plain yogurt). I brushed my hair immediately after towel drying while hair was damp, and I can already tell a difference. I love being able to try these different remedies without the worry of harsh chemicals. I don't think I will ever use store bought shampoos or conditioners again. :)
She gets straight to the point,thank you
It’s sad this woman produced this content for y’all while she was homeless and the best thing you can come up with is that’s it’s mayo & argue semantics over perm and relaxer.
Moneybags Anderson Thank you. People are missing the fact that you can use any kind of oil you like. When has store bought mayo ever had tee tree oil in it? Hiw much ever tried the pre poo? I won't let this discourage me from creating more content now that things are settled in my life. TY for your kind words.
shalenadiva they need to be more positive ! Heck use it in your potato salad then lol
We are our worst enemies
Moneybags Anderson or they're too focused on the fact that someone is chopping something in the background. People are so petty and will look for anything to it's about. SMH. TBH I didn't even notice it until people started commenting because I'm more focused on her not looking for shit wrong
Moneybags Anderson, you are so kind :)
I'm SO tired of using relaxer in my hair and so glad I found this video. I will definitely be trying this next week and look forward to the positive results! I saw some negative comments on this video. Forget them! You are doing a great thing by showing women how to naturally manage their hair without all those harsh chemicals. Kudos to you!
All I can say It work....I try it myself....Love it Thanks Ms. Diva
Sherry Young.
How often do you do this natural relaxer
Do u not KNOW wharA NATURAL perm looks like when you get it done.
Its nit flat STRAGTEN hair
Its full CURLS.
Now I was born with natural curly hair, but people go to the hairdressers to pay for perms , permz NOW yes that leaves yah WITH curly HAIR.
U mys well girlll say facts ,
u made your own Sandy conditioner 🤔💆♀️whatever fair play .
but you did that for the PERM in hsir.
I saw not even one curl hair strand,.
you straighten her hair and washed it brushed ig thats it
Sherry young
Not no u A LIER, YES'S A LIER.
WHY/ u cant MAKE CURLS WHICH is PERM,. BY WAY
Out of STRAGTEN your hair as I seen HER DO.
I THINK SHE WAS CONFUSED
Sherry Young can you share the recipe? It won’t play for me
That is the best deep conditioner I have seen
Thanks!!!
shalenadiva i tryed making the conditioner with olive oil, and it didnt work i forgot to add the lemon, then after id did, how do u exactly do the conditioner, is it like a mayonaiss
shalenadiva oh and do we have to use the home made conditioner, (sandy)
shalenadiva When the camera swithed from you mixing the tiny amount of egg and oil to a bigger fluffier amount, was the remainder of the oil the only thing you added?
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Black hair is sooo amazing... I thank God that I have it 😊🙏🏾
Shalenadiva, your ore poo and sandy is awesome. I followed your tutorial step by step on my daughters hair and the results were incredible. I am hooked! her natural hair turned out so nice and healthy, I can't imagine using anything else. Thank you so much!
I'm not sure how reliable the relaxing part of the hair is but the egg and vegetable oil and lemon juice is definitely a good way to condition your hair and moisturize. I thought this was very informative I'm sure over time it's got to be very good for your hair. I would love to see this done on someone's hair that is completely natural without the straight ends. I think that would give more accuracy on how well it does relaxing the curl pattern and if it actually works completely with natural hair, particularly on a coarse texture.... thanks for sharing
how many of you have a nice head of hair? let me see your hand. A lot of you are rude making rude comments. a lot of us needs this treatment. black hair is completely different from other races. many if us black women go bald and experience scalp disease. if we were cooking up these and other recipes like this out hair would be fabulous. yes her hair needs trimming but if you look at the woman's hair from the video. her hair is now whiney and it does look a lot healthier than before. with regular treatment her hair WILL improve more. research the ingredients they are all good for the hair. be optimistic people. it does work
what's nice hair 2-U gold hair hair that falls I love my hair it defies gravity is beautiful it bounces lots of volume and soft as a puppy
+Elisheba Naomi *goat
+Elisheba Naomi lol
I had laugh
+Amy Loves Jokes on you.
+Elisheba Naomi how is the joke on me...I laughed because you said goat...and it reminded me of when my sister called some one OK goat mouth b...so as my kids say idk....lol.. I really liked this video and the outcome of this sister's hair..guuurl bye
Thank you ! First time watching one of your videos, excellent!!!! I love how you implement using ingredients out of your kitchen. I’ve gone back and forth purchasing products and seeing no results or very little. My daughters now are make there on products and doing an excellent job as well. In this day so much is going on, doesn’t make since making others richer and you poorer. I’m all for supporting our on so don’t get me wrong, talking about others. It’s something about going in your kitchen and being creative, I think that’s something that has been lost in community. Please continue to inspire us. Much love! Peace!
Shelenadiva, wanted to say how courageous and beautiful you are for leaving that toxic relationship. Sometimes in life in order to gain your sanity you may have to lose everything. I know it’s been a struggle but I’m rooting for you...,May Jehovah strengthen you through your wonderful journey
Amen. TY for your kind words. :)
thank you sooo much...i destroyed my hair trying to dye it blond on my own...and this serously saved my hair...
That's amazing. My best friend is black and I can't wait to tell her about this. Thank you!
Amazing! I love this video. What I really love is that me and Miss Alice are older women and I am glad to know there is an alternative way besides chemicals to make my hair look decent. Thank you for your post.
The avocado pre-poo works so well with my hair I have regained manageability of my hair. No relaxer or anything but with the help of the pre-poo and 100% pure right from the can coconut milk I am now in love with my hair again. I was even able to get a short cut now almost 2weeks old still looking like I got a relaxer. My hair is soft, shiny, no breakage/less shedding and definitely way more manageable. I have really thick coarse hair if it worked for me it has to work for others with hair like mines 😊
This treatment made a big difference.This is very simular to making homemade mayonnaise when you mixed the oil, egg yolk, lemon juice is the way you actually make mayo. What a coincidence.
Love this. Used this once and it didn’t take out all my curl (I have hella tight ringlets) but it did relax a bit! Once or twice more should do it for me. This is awesome.
How long did it last
anetra Scott it lasted a couple months
Thank you...ln gone try it today...🤗
Its good to see intelligent people like you doing intelligent things to educate us! thanks very much for the video!
Thank you Ms. Diva, for putting an end to my hair "product junky" days!
I like so many other multi-cultural women, have spent thousands of dollars on products that have been incredibly marketed.....only to be disappointed. The downside is having dozens of bottles of all the pop culture products spilling out of my cabinets.
There is an upside though....the local shelters love to see me coming in with them!
May God bless you as you humbly and cheerfully continue searching for His simple, inexpensive solutions to hair care challenges.
You did a good job. I didn't notice the background noise. There was absolutely no noise. The hair and the remedies are what l was concentrating on.
Please try it and let me know how it turns out, ok?
@@shalenadiva Awesome. I tried the remedies today and the outcome is amazing. Thanks to you.
Thank you so much girl i was so scared that perms may cause cancer. But i didn't care i permed my hair every two months. but i will definitely try this method of relaxing my hair next time. Thank you so much for sharing.God bless you dear.
It's good to be honest and real people but not insensitive and ignorant. Great knowledge gain for me thank you miss.
U did an OUTSTAAANNNDING job!! Your presentation was flawless - straight to the point with the goods, just like I like it!! U have wonderful, encouraging energy which makes your videos top choice with me!! Thanks for your clarity and professionalism and quality proof of product. I will continue to watch your channel in the future!! God bless and keep up the good work! We NEED UUUU!!
God bless you and your family. Many thanks in sharing alternate ways of smoothing the hair. Keep doing what you're doing, using wisdom God has given you. Just continue to rise my sister.
ALL MY LIFE I HAD TO PERM!!! 😂😂😂😂 THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS INFORMATION!! I'M 4C AND I WAS ON THE VERGE OF PERMING MY HAIR AGAIN!!! THHHHHANK YOU!!
Did it work for you?
did it work for you cause i need this
@@aaliyah6988 yes it works for me gurll🥰
@christy lolol
I feel you. My 4C natural hair was about to be re-perned. Not anymore, thanks to this!
For the Spanish females that has somewhat dry hair and living in Florida, which I’m born and raised in New York was born with straight black hair, but Florida weather drys and stripes you natural oil. I tried organ hair straightener for white girls, and honey it worked so perfectly for my hair. But now this video shows no chemical I’m going to try it. Thank you for sharing. I will keep you posted and updated
I know it's been years since this was posted/shared, but is it possible to see it demonstrated on a 4c type hair?
It would be really helpful.
Thanks for letting us share in your wealth of knowledge, Shalena🙏🏽
I should think that for a type 4 natural person one would have to leave the avocado pre-poo on longer maybe 6 to 8 hours or overnight. Also depending on the size of ones hair strands, the straightening effect could be immediate or take time as in need multiple applications. Anyway the ingredients are all very good for the hair. Also instead of using plain vegetable oil you could possibly use a penetrating oil like olive oil or coconut oil or even an herb-infused oil. If you try this, I'd like to know your results.
Thank you for this video. It is one of the more comprehensive ones I found and will try. During this time of stay at home, i need to have my hair done and was looking for a good way to relax my hair naturally to maintain it. It looks easy enough since I have shoulder problems. May you continue to prosper. Bless you.
you are just so pretty and your spirit is full of life.
I loved this video.
WOW!! This is awesome, thank you so much for sharing your hair care recipes. It is so much healthier and less aggravation and most important no burn or breakage!
I so love that I've found you! There's so many people that judge but have no idea how painfull it is. I have bald spots and eczema. Thank you so much!!!
It works on my frizzy hair I'm Mexican with really frizzy hair this is a natural good way of relaxing my hair and without nasty chemicals.
I love this!! I use the prepoo recipe just as a hair mask on my 3c curls once a month and it’s never looked better. The conditioner I use once a week and I barely use as much regular shampoo and conditioner as I used to because my hair always looks so healthy and shiny! I don’t know if it works as a perm relaxer because I’ve never had a perm but it works so well in keeping my hair healthy! Lots of love from Australia! I hope you keep making videos of your recipes!
I'm trying this out now. Had the avocado pre-poo on now for over and hour. Sandy is ready too. I hope my hair agrees with this wonderful all natural hair treatment. Will let y'all know the outcome. Thanks Milady for sharing your hair relaxer recipe with us all.
Great. Let me know, ok?
The avocado pre-poo and Shandy delivered👍🏽💪🏽😊! My hair looks so silky and alive. Thanks loads Milady. Will attempt your suggestion on fuller hair. Thanks again.
Thank you for this video. Her hair looks so much healthier.
Lena Banks-It looks so much more oilier.
I so appreciate you! I love your contribution to the Sister community! Love the way your mind works!
You Are Our, "Sister-girl-Lifesaver!"
That's no flattery!
Sincere compliment! 👍👍🏿👍🏾👍🏽
Tyvm a week later and I'm able to pull it up in a ponytail with a little gel and setting lotion! No freez and no fuss. My hair is usually hard to comb and Nappy but easy today OMG 😘. Side note hadn't combed it since last week when I did it and braided two cornrows after drying! 😍😍😍😍 Many blessings and peace to you my sister!
Tatanesha Pickens awesome!!! Thank you for letting me know how it turned out for you.
Handmade mayonnaise. My mother use to make mayo and we'd not only eat it but use it also for our hair. The egg white can be used as a facial mask to minimize your pores and treat acne. The lemon juice can be used to " bleach" your skin or minimize " age" spots. 😊
You go make your own video!
I dont eat eggs but I have use for them now....blessings
You are exactly right!
Cindy, OMG! That procedure was so naturally AMAZING! I'm baffled! I'm gonna try it on my hair and my princess hair.
Wow first time watching fan of your work already now I can tell my clients and put in my elbow work thanks for blessing us may you continue to receive blessings
Thank you sooo much! You really encouraged me Shuntae. Thank God for stylists like you who care for the health of your clients' hair.
I came across this video trying to see if milk of magnesia would condition my hair. I'm so glad God brought you out of that relationship and put you back on your feet. I have been there too. Keep putting God first and He will bless you!! He is always with you wherever you go. He gave you wonderful gifts and talents. You have touched my heart.
that's really inspiring that you were able to do that while you were homeless because I think the best ideas come up when you're at your lowest you look up and God shows you your best so keep going I'm very proud of what you did and thank God for you and God bless you with whatever you do and may God always be with you thank you so much. I don't see anything sad about this only thing that's sad is people who don't have faith and don't believe in things that Inspire them when they're at their lowest to put people down about getting inspired when they're going down so we should be encouraging to one another not putting each other down.
also if you use the egg white , olive oil and tiny amount of vinegar , mix well, apply to your face with a soft brush , avoid the eyes it makes your skin so soft and helps remove fine lines on the skin , i leave mine on for about an hour, it tinkles and as it drys you feel the face mask pull on the skin . always test an area before use. i use this about twice a week, always throw the mixture you have not used away
You have such a sweet presence.
Thank you!!!
@@shalenadiva Hi good afternoon my hair is natural I love what I see can I get a perm instead of strate can I get a perm
I'm just like you. I make almost all my hair products. I also have a culinary background. Your sandy conditioner, is a true mayonnaise. It was the first thing I learned in school lol. But what nobody can deny is its effectiveness on hair.
Hey there!!! I also think people miss the fact that you can put ANY oil in it to suit their hair's needs.
My hair is unrelaxed for about 8 years now. It's a combination 4B/4C texture. I think the oils in this treatment will give me the deeper conditioning that I need. I'm going to do it twice a month and see how it goes. I can't beat that it's all natural. Thanks for your video.
🎉😊How sweet of her to be your volunteer! Excellent results doll 💆🏽♀️🤩!!! 🎉👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 👏🏽
Just to let you know, I tried your tip and my hair was so soft for days; I forgot to bookmark you so it took me a while to find this video; so thank you; and glad to hear you came out from the season of winter to summer. So happy to hear that
TY!!! I'm so glad this worked for you. BOOM
A natural relaxer for your stomach is cinnamon. It has stopped me and my family from vomiting many times.
GIANTSECRETS did you mean *Laxative?*
I just want to thank you personally for that amazing natural hair relaxer. I have natural 3C hair and it did wonders for me. I wish I could show you a picture. 😊
Shalena , you are a God sent to me. I have tried so many products since I turned natural but they never worked for me. I only use the conditioner and my hair is looking wow! God richly bless you. Pls I want to follow you to have great and gorgeous hair.
you're client is enjoying this treatment and she is very grateful i can see it you are a blessing to others
Thank you for showing us a demonstration on the avocado I tried it 3 days ago honestly I have to say. I loved it, make my hair feel good and relaxed and extremely self.
Thank for the tutorial I am doing it now. God bless you on your journey. Helping people is a great blessing.
Let me know how it turns out ok?
It is a mayo condition. It is one of the first conditioners we learned to use in cosmetology school. It is an excellent conditioner for your hair. Good for you for making it for yourself most people go buy mayo conditioner in fact I have a jar I brought. Good luck with your hair products and thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge during a rough time in your life.
yw!!! TY for your kind words!!! ❤❤❤
I'm going to try this the next time I need a relaxer, if it works guess no more relaxers for me.
Jerrica Parker
Did it work for you ?
I use Coconut milk that’s sits in the fridge to make a cream to deep conditioner and relax my curls I also use volcanic ash and over time I believe you see your true curl pattern most people don’t see their pattern because their hair is always dry
You know what’s crazy…literally everything we need for our natural hair to flourish is literally in the environment around us. Every ingredient she put in her hair is the same ingredients you can eat…which might I add is healthy for you! This just blows me mind truly🩷They try to make us think Afro-kinky hair is sooo unmanageable and ugly but it’s how we treat it that makes all the difference. I had to search through a boatload of product pushing videos just to find the au naturale on. God bless you ❤️
So the avocado prepoo a sulfate free shampoo @ hair mayo. I think I can do that
ive use this and it worked keep. doing. what you doing
Pls I want to ask hw many times can I apply dis I'm my hair in a month??
Is once advisable or twice months
Sandy = Mayo. Better than industrial mayo coz it doesn't have sugar. Excellent not only for hair but as food as well!!!!
Thanks!!!
This will always be the most nourishing to our hair.I do this on my kid .I learned from my environment our moms used this and had richer hair.I testify as a user.Thank you for highlighting
Very creative, unfortunately we live in a society with some ppl who don't like to see other's smiling and very confident in what they doing. Job well done .Thank you for sharing...
TY ❤❤❤
Wow amazing , you have a wonderful nature & a beautiful smile ,I'm glad your doing better greetings from Ireland 🇨🇮
Soooooooooo, I don't know how I found your videos but as I watched one before this one. I clicked your page, open and I'm subscribing, reposting and sharing your videos. Oh and by the way, deleting about 93% of people I follow on growing natural hair stronger, healthier and longer. You are awesome and thanks for all these videos. I will be watching more of you...
Please tell me that's sarcasm.
NA BY no sarcasm. The other black women I subscribe too, they do more weave videos and make up advice. I hate make up and I hate fake hair. So I had to delete them amd find all natural women. I want natural hair care advice. What made my comment sarcastic?
Krissy Rojas oh I thought you meant something else. I hate weaves and makeup too honestly. I love natural hair and food better. I thought you wrote you were getting rid of all the natural stuff.
NA BY Ohhhh no, I'm keeping everything natural and building a wall away from chemicals. Its hard now even with food because the seed we buy, from the stores are now patent. But its a better quality to grow from home, then buying from any store.
Krissy Rojas true!
Omg the dude in the back cutting up whatever he is cutting lol
prettyyellagurl2000 Everyone loves Grandpop...that's his name...lol
+prettyyellagurl2000 OMG!! The chopping noise is sooooooo distracting! Lol! But, cut-it-up hun!!
+prettyyellagurl2000 lol IKR
+prettyyellagurl2000 I thought it was too funny. Dude takes his cooking seriously.
+haniyyahn lol
Thank you sooooooo very much. Also thanks to Ms Alice. Y'all have made a believer out of me. I will be utilizing this procedure from this day until. WOW ! !!
Thank you ,this avocado work's great . My grandmother used the very ripe avocados in her hair. My mom told me she had gorgeous head of hair . I use mayo in mine a sleep with a plastic cap and bag on my head . It works ! You did a great job on your neighbors hair ,her hair was nice and smoothe. Definitely shiny ,I'm sure her scalp was feeling the love as well, lol. Thanks again :)
Currently making sandy with the pre-poo in my hair. Thank u sooo much shalena, like u just saved my hair's life. 😘
#shalenadiva, I just did this today. You were right.....I will never relax my hair again with chemicals. The results were very satisfying. Thanks for sharing! MUAH
Awesome Gwendolyn!!!
Can natural hair use it, and later come back to natural hair again ?
Yes! I tried it. I put a mashed avocado, 4 tbsp grapeseed oil and 1 egg yolk in my dry, crispy brittle hair. I covered it with a plastic cap and left it on for 45 minutes. I didn't want to do the condition cause I was watching tv with hubby. I shampooed with Suave keratin shampoo & then the Suave keratin conditioner (1st time for all three). My hair air dried while watching tv then I two-strand flat twisted my hair before bed, 2 on sides & 3 in back, bantu knotted them and put a satin cap on. My hair is still soft, manageable and amazingly cute with my twist out. I know it's mainly because of the avocado, grapeseed oil & egg yolk. It relaxed my tight curl pattern. My hair was elongated without blow drying or flat ironing. I am so happy with my hair now, the fustration is gone 😊 Thanks Shalenadiva! ❤
This is AWESOME!!!! Sometimes your hair just needs some extra TLC. I'm glad you took my video as a guide and did what was best for YOU and YOUR hair. I'm so glad you love your hair. BOOM
I'm in Jamaica and avocado is just coming in season. I am surely going to be stocking up on it. I'm blessed by this info