Very well said even I am seeing this western culture and madness even in all Hindu marriages irrespective of caste. This should stop and especially Bhramin community should take lead in this and should become bench mark for simple and rightful wedding rituals as per the shatra 🙏🙏 Heri Om, Krishnarpanamstu🙏
Super said congratulations Sir, since 15 years I am watching day by day marriage budget is increasing due to unnecessary waste for indecent culture of Dance , pre wedding shoot , grand reception, mehandi, photos videos etc , being South Indians following north culture by denying our South Indian food ad culture is unfortunate , moreover people attending to Mahurtha is very less than Reception, this shows our negligence towards our culture. Sorry to say iam doubting where we are residing and what we are following . So sad sir, don't care u have done a good job, all have a right to speech Tq, for ur concern on our Dharma, culture and values
Conducting marriage in resort is another foolishness. Going from city will take hours ,distance from venue dinnng hall ,rooms are all 2 km away.recently i saw the guest are waiting for rommas the resort had other guests, and for marriage guest came u cannot insist check in time, the wedding guests waited more than an hour to get room
In this video sir's concern and consternation are notable. He has carefully expressed his anguish and explained the reasons too. It's like recalling 'yadyadaacharati shreshthah' (3:21 Bhagavadgeeta); those who are in a position to influence others' behaviour/opinion should act more responsibly! 🙏
Your observations are very true. We as Madhwa, have our traditions and customs. There is no need to demonstrate ugly side of extravaganza on marriage. It only shows aping western culture by undermining our great culture. Jai Madhwa. Jai Hindu. Jai Bharath.
Done a very good job sir 👏 👍 🙏 I appreciate your efforts to open the eyes of the Families who are into such a wrong and inauspicious path ... really it's embarrassing to see stupid pre-wedding pics
Well said. By the way, they forget the Madhwa traditions and try to copy western/north Indian wedding tradition which is not correct. Simple and marriage rituals to be followed without fail. Good food to be served to the participants. This gives satisfaction. Don't forget your roots. ..
indu purohitaranna ಕರೆಸಿ, the parents and groom.bride tell the purohitaru how to do the padhatis. bega mugisi, cut short maadi, namage kashi yatre beda, and multiple conditions
attending marriage or watching marriage videos has become embarrassing these days and it's also clear how elders who are in the marriage function feel with their expression on their face. if bride and groom want such an event, they could do that after marriage and invite those wish to participate in such a function. however, doing it, as part of marriage, in presence of elders in the family, is extremely unfortunate, not to mention the waste of money and pressure it builds on others to follow the same.
Real waste of money instead we can do dhaana to the needy!!The best thing is to deposit that big amount as fixed deposit in the girls name to secure her future!!
I totally understand where you are coming from. But, you forget one thing , just because they are born in a Brahmin / Madhva family , not necessarily they are all "ಸಾತ್ವಿಕ ಜೀವ" " and just because they follow extreme fanciful lifestyle they are not ರಾಜಸರು ಅತವಾ ತಾಮಸರು ಅಲ್ಲ. We cannot brand anyone for that matter. Also, there are lot of other people who follow principles , Dharma , ಅನುಷ್ಠಾನ etc, Don't we look down upon them because they are born not as a Brahmin / Madhva . OK, just forget all, how about within our own 8 ಮಠ 's, the amount of politics that exists is unbelievable. So, what I have seen in our own family. Their only principle is "Just enjoy life ". They all love eating street food. To me , its dog food. So, One man's food is another man's poison. I'm untouchable and outcast as I don't go with the flow. If you ask me , there are extremities in our own traditions. So, I literally stopped worrying about what other do, what they eat , follow , lifestyle . A simple solution - ಕುರು ಬುಂಕ್ಷ್ವಚ ಕರ್ಮಾ ನಿಜಾಂ ನಿಯತಾಂ ಹರಿ ಪದ ವಿನಂ ರತಿಯ ಸತತಂ
Yes, we are not denying two things here. #1 - all are hari prerane only (tena vina trunamapi nachalati) #2 - Jeev-Jeeva Bedha so we cannot expect everyone same or doing same or thinking same as well. This will be only prayer to lord to set our society as natural as possible and as helpful as possible to Sadhakaru.
As per jeeva jeeva bedha rule (madwa's pancha bedha) exceptions will be there but those exceptions should be miniscule and not become rules themselves in misleading society in general. Jai Sri Krishna
Mehandi Sangeet and other non sense were never part of South Indian weddings whether Brahmin or any other Hindu community. Now people are wasting crores on such stupid events even in Brahmin weddings in South India. Temple or Kalyana Mantapa weddings have now taken a back seat and even Brahmins are booking luxurious 5 star hotels where food is prepared in the same hotel kitchen where non-veg food is also prepared. I have never attended any such weddings because these type of marriages do not have any respect for our traditions and rituals.
Very well said even I am seeing this western culture and madness even in all Hindu marriages irrespective of caste. This should stop and especially Bhramin community should take lead in this and should become bench mark for simple and rightful wedding rituals as per the shatra 🙏🙏
Heri Om, Krishnarpanamstu🙏
Was waiting for such video to come up Sir.....thank you for speaking up on our culture..Jai Bharat Matha
ತುಂಬಾ ಚೆನ್ನಾಗಿ ಹೇಳಿದ್ದಿರಿ ಇದು ಮಾದ್ವರಿಗೆ ಮಾತ್ರವಲ್ಲ ಎಲ್ಲರು ತಿಳಿಯಬೇಕಾದ ವಿಷಯ🙏🙏
Not only for madhwa religious it holds good for all Hindu's community.. very well said 🙏👏👏.. total waste of money no meaning in that.
Super said congratulations Sir, since 15 years I am watching day by day marriage budget is increasing due to unnecessary waste for indecent culture of Dance , pre wedding shoot , grand reception, mehandi, photos videos etc , being South Indians following north culture by denying our South Indian food ad culture is unfortunate , moreover people attending to Mahurtha is very less than Reception, this shows our negligence towards our culture. Sorry to say iam doubting where we are residing and what we are following . So sad sir, don't care u have done a good job, all have a right to speech Tq, for ur concern on our Dharma, culture and values
Very well said. Every family should become conscious of this wasteful extravaganza and restrict the marriage to religious and traditional form.
Not only for madhwa religious it holds good for all Hindu's community.. very well said 🙏👏👏.. total waste of money no meaning in that
Conducting marriage in resort is another foolishness. Going from city will take hours ,distance from venue dinnng hall ,rooms are all 2 km away.recently i saw the guest are waiting for rommas the resort had other guests, and for marriage guest came u cannot insist check in time, the wedding guests waited more than an hour to get room
In this video sir's concern and consternation are notable. He has carefully expressed his anguish and explained the reasons too. It's like recalling 'yadyadaacharati shreshthah' (3:21 Bhagavadgeeta); those who are in a position to influence others' behaviour/opinion should act more responsibly! 🙏
ಮಾದ್ವ ಯತಿಗಳು ಇದನ್ನು ನಮ್ಮ ಸಮಾಜಕ್ಕೆ ತಿಳಿಸಬೇಕು, ಇದು ಪರಿಸ್ಥಿತಿಯನ್ನು ಸರಿಪಡಿಸಬಹುದು
Well done Sir. Certainly required for our Community. You have reflected the feeling of many.
Your observations are very true. We as Madhwa, have our traditions and customs. There is no need to demonstrate ugly side of extravaganza on marriage. It only shows aping western culture by undermining our great culture.
Jai Madhwa. Jai Hindu. Jai Bharath.
Namma manasina matu helidri,,tumba bejaragitu maduve attend madoke,,ella heeriyaru seri e matannu pratiyobrigu helbeku,nimage dhanyawad
Abbaaa!! Neevu Obbaradru nammellara manassina maatannu helo dhyrya madidri sir🙏 nimge eshtu Thanks helidru saladu!🙏
Ellara manassige kidi hakiddiri.. nodona, bahushaha sudharaneya kala idarindale shuru aagutto eno! 🙏🙏
Nimmellara harike and prayer Dinda badalavane bega barali. Nammellar prarthane Devaru sweekaar maade maduttane
Dhanyavadagalu . Adbutavada post🎉. Namaskara 🙏🏻
Well said sir, nothing wrong. This is an eye opener for all our people. These days people forget our tradition and roots.
Done a very good job sir 👏 👍 🙏
I appreciate your efforts to open the eyes of the Families who are into such a wrong and inauspicious path ... really it's embarrassing to see stupid pre-wedding pics
Well said. By the way, they forget the Madhwa traditions and try to copy western/north Indian wedding tradition which is not correct. Simple and marriage rituals to be followed without fail. Good food to be served to the participants. This gives satisfaction. Don't forget your roots. ..
Well said, Sir
indu purohitaranna ಕರೆಸಿ, the parents and groom.bride tell the purohitaru how to do the padhatis.
bega mugisi, cut short maadi, namage kashi yatre beda, and multiple conditions
Correct for rituals we are not giving time but for photos more time. You are right
ತುಂಬಾ ಪ್ರಸ್ತುತ ವಿಚಾರ ಮಾಧವ ಅವರೇ 🙏
attending marriage or watching marriage videos has become embarrassing these days and it's also clear how elders who are in the marriage function feel with their expression on their face. if bride and groom want such an event, they could do that after marriage and invite those wish to participate in such a function. however, doing it, as part of marriage, in presence of elders in the family, is extremely unfortunate, not to mention the waste of money and pressure it builds on others to follow the same.
Namaskara tumba channagi helidri. 🙏🙏🙏
ಅಕ್ಷರಶಃ ಸತ್ಯ. ಎಲ್ಲರ ಕಣ್ತೆರೆಸುವ ಮಾತು...
Yes ,very appropriate views
Such a nice topic . Thank you.
ನನ್ನ ಮನದ ಮಾತನ್ನು ಹೇಳಿದ್ದೀರಿ ಸರ್🙏🏻
I agree with you.
Meaning of sanctity of marriage is lost now only spend money ,do sangeet,mehandi,dance and photo shoot
Tumba correct aagi heliddeera namaskaragalu
निजवा द सत्य परिस्थिती निम्मे धन्यवाद गळू
Hechu enu beda prathi obba bhagvadgite yannu gurugalinda kalitare idela niyanthranakke baruthe..😊
You are correct 💯
Real waste of money instead we can do dhaana to the needy!!The best thing is to deposit that big amount as fixed deposit in the girls name to secure her future!!
ಒಂದು ಕುರಿ ಬಿದ್ದರೆ ,,ಎಲ್ಲಾ ಕುರಿಗಳು ಬಿದ್ದವಂತೆ,,ಹಾಗಾಗಿದೆ ಪರಿಸ್ಥಿತಿ
Gnana - ( what is right, what is wrong ) is the problem.
@@sarvadarshitarang2776 No, its very simple , but yet it is the most Complex of all.
ಈ ವ್ಯಕ್ತಿ ಹುಳಿ ದ್ರಾಕ್ಷಿಯ ಶಾಸ್ತ್ರೀಯ ಪ್ರಕರಣವಾಗಿದೆ.
ಮಾಧ್ವ ಕುಟುಂಬಗಳು ತುಂಬ ಹಾಳಾಗುತ್ತಿದೆ 😢
ಅಯ್ಯೋ ಮಾಧ್ವರು ಮಾತ್ರವಲ್ಲ ಎಲ್ಲಾ ಬ್ರಾಹ್ಮಣರ ಮನೆಗಳೂ ಹೀಗೆ ಆಗಿದೆ
Sampradaya da gurugalu namma yuvaka yuvathiyarige namma dharmada bagge thili helbeku dharma prachara mukhya .vayassadavru matra bhakthi madbeku bhgvadgite odbeku anta bhrame yali iruva namma yuvaka yuvathiyarannu e bhrame inda horage tharva prayatna agbeku
Thumba correct 💯
Shri gurubhyo namaha
Aachare neev hethairodo satyavada maatugalu. Ide tappu antha heltha idira aadre sari yavudu antha toliso du bahala mukhya. Namma dharma shastra da prakara madhuve hege madabeku annuva krama egina peelige ge gothile illa.
Naavugalu namma samskara gala bagge tilidukolluvudu bahala mukhya
Houdu we will do one positive vibe creation video as well. Really good feedback
👌🙏
Nivu heliddu nurakke noorarastu satya.Namma jana Artha madikollabeku.
Khare helidri Rayare. Namma samskriti naave kapada beku.
Dubhari Vechcha madabedi. Namma Hindu dharmada reeti maduve Maadi, Anna santarpane aagali.
ನೀವು ಹೇಳಿದ್ದು ಸತ್ಯ😢
I totally understand where you are coming from. But, you forget one thing , just because they are born in a Brahmin / Madhva family , not necessarily they are all "ಸಾತ್ವಿಕ ಜೀವ" " and just because they follow extreme fanciful lifestyle they are not ರಾಜಸರು ಅತವಾ ತಾಮಸರು ಅಲ್ಲ. We cannot brand anyone for that matter.
Also, there are lot of other people who follow principles , Dharma , ಅನುಷ್ಠಾನ etc, Don't we look down upon them because they are born not as a Brahmin / Madhva .
OK, just forget all, how about within our own 8 ಮಠ 's, the amount of politics that exists is unbelievable.
So, what I have seen in our own family. Their only principle is "Just enjoy life ". They all love eating street food. To me , its dog food. So, One man's food is another man's poison. I'm untouchable and outcast as I don't go with the flow.
If you ask me , there are extremities in our own traditions. So, I literally stopped worrying about what other do, what they eat , follow , lifestyle .
A simple solution - ಕುರು ಬುಂಕ್ಷ್ವಚ ಕರ್ಮಾ ನಿಜಾಂ ನಿಯತಾಂ ಹರಿ ಪದ ವಿನಂ ರತಿಯ ಸತತಂ
Yes, we are not denying two things here. #1 - all are hari prerane only (tena vina trunamapi nachalati) #2 - Jeev-Jeeva Bedha so we cannot expect everyone same or doing same or thinking same as well. This will be only prayer to lord to set our society as natural as possible and as helpful as possible to Sadhakaru.
As per jeeva jeeva bedha rule (madwa's pancha bedha) exceptions will be there but those exceptions should be miniscule and not become rules themselves in misleading society in general. Jai Sri Krishna
Krishna helidu brahmana kutumbadali huttuvudarinda avanu brahmana nadguvudila avna achara dinda avnu brahmana kshathtriya vaishya or shudta annisikollutane.neev helida family khandita brahmanarala..hesarige matra madhwa agidare
ಬಹಳ ಸರಿಯಾಗಿ ವಿವರಿಸಿದಿರಿ. This is because of colonized mindset. Parents also forgetting our roots and culture. Sir you said nothing wrong.
Thank you as hurting our own people is not intended
Mehandi Sangeet and other non sense were never part of South Indian weddings whether Brahmin or any other Hindu community. Now people are wasting crores on such stupid events even in Brahmin weddings in South India. Temple or Kalyana Mantapa weddings have now taken a back seat and even Brahmins are booking luxurious 5 star hotels where food is prepared in the same hotel kitchen where non-veg food is also prepared. I have never attended any such weddings because these type of marriages do not have any respect for our traditions and rituals.
ಬಹಳ ಸರಿಯಾಗಿ ವಿವರಿಸಿದಿರಿ. This is because of colonized
Really true but money makes