Now im going in IIT/NIT Didi everything you said is like a same situation for me... I also only wanted mbbs took drop year too but yar ab jab nahi ho rha upr se scam and all i also switched up my career entirely now i will get into either IIT/NIT or RIE and do BSC BED then do msc abroad and get into academics entirely. In my case i was good in biology and physics but chemistry was so poor that i couldn't even remember a single chemical equation formula. For all the pcb students put there let me tell you there are plenty of opportunities other than mbbs bams bds. Once you all prep for neet you will know how to study how to tackle questions and mind it other exams are way easier later on and practically gives you a better life style. BS MS from iiser/niser ya MBA/BBA through ipmat krlo UI Ux krlo UCEED ke through designing krlo ACDEMICS is very amazing field too kyuki aapke hmaare jaise students hmesha padhne aayenge other than these there are so many fields. At the end life isn't just abt neet. Emotionally nahi practically socho
@@aditi25singh yaar tumhari baat to sahi hai maine bhi iss saal first attempt diya tha and mere bhut bure marks aaye hai and maine bhi abhi Tak Drop nhi liya and aage lene ka bhi nahi soch raha hu...but one side mere mind me hamesha neet neet chalte rahta hai jitna kuch maine socha neet kar ke college me pahuch jaunga baha Life maje hi maje and many more thing mind me chalte rahta hai... neet to chod diya lekin chod ke bhi to khush nhi apne aap ko satisfied nhi kar pa raha hu... iska kya karu 😢😢😢😢??
@@user-gt2cn9pp4y hey buddy i completely understand your point Kyuki mind mei aisa daal dete neet neet krke society ki baar baar vahi lgta success is definition hai Jabki medical students ya jo actual doctors hai voh khud khush nahi h voh bhi hmari trah rat race mei gaye the bss voh hmse aage uss race mei jaa paaye but doesn't mean ki aur fields nahi h success hon ek liye. Aaj se das sal baad log ye ni dekhenge ki tmhara neet hua ya ni voh puchenge kitna kmaa rhe ya kya kr rhe and most important of all tumko dekhna h ki kis chiz se tmhe satisfaction mil skta hai Go for that! Aakr zrur btana what did u chose kyuki society ki baat hmesha blindly follow ni krna chahiye. Maine ek sal drop year mei waste he bss ni kiya blki depression aur constant taano se mind mei ek apni khud ki failure image bna li jabki aisa case h bhi ni. Every successful person isnt a doctor so formulate what success means to uh and work towards it Good luck🍀
Dude, I failed a year and got a 630. Now, I can't even get into the worst medical college in my state. I left the day I saw my results with that horrible rank. It made me realize that there's no scope in India after MBBS. What if I don't score well in NEET PG even if I take a private medical seat now? It's just too much stress. When will I enjoy my life? I've applied for psychology honors outside India and in India too. I was always interested in learning about mental behavior, so I chose this field. Remember, "Your interests and mental health are more important than NEET." Don't get stuck; move on. I don't think the court will do anything that will drastically change the result, and NEET won't happen again, as far as I know.
I also agree , their won't be any re- NEET . Maybe they will do some thing or other but surely they are not going to conduct neet 2024 again. All this hype will be gone in few days and honesty people are shocked with the results but most of them don't even care .
Whatever .. India is made by people like us and made by us. There are two people 1) who run away for better future 2) who stay here and struggle and bring change in the system..
If I am unable to secure admission to a local institution of higher learning, I will naturally seek educational opportunities elsewhere. I am not inclined to defer my academic pursuits for an additional year, and I have no intention of settling down abroad. I will return after I complete my studies.
I can absolutely relate with your situation sister. I thought I'll get a govt college,if not atleast some pvt colleges in Kerela or Karnataka but after seeing the rank and the scam behind it, I've lost my faith in the Education system here but that doesn't mean I don't love my country,ofc I do but there's too much corruption here, I'm out of options. I took my admission in Kazan state medical University,Russia just yesterday. I just need to get out of this NEET thing, it's so heart-breaking & depressing, there's more to this life than an exam. Don't listen to anyone but your heart,people will be people,they will always have to say something. I wanted to be engineer but took this path coz my father wanted me to become a Dr. I wish all the very best for your bright upcoming future ✨
Neet 2024 was my third attempt and I am not getting mbbs seat again I don't want to take another drop for neet I want to explore other field I just want to get rid from this depression anxiety and loneliness
I am a doctor , i passed my mbbs .....anyone who wants to do the course .....before they start preparing for neet .....should try to visit any govt college .....meet any working intern or HS (mind you not any college students ....only talk to people who have recently passed their final year and are working .....because ultimately it is a professional field you'll be studying to work )observe their day at work .....talk to them about their life and studies then decide for yourself whether you really want to do it or not . Dont keep the "Dr."tag. Or the money As the only motivating factor . Money minded people never reach the top be it in any profession .....people who love their work and always try improvising themselves do great in life .And there is no one way to success.
Absolutely, thanks for countering the toxic hype and giving a realistic perspective to the aspirants. Being on this side as well, I totally agree to what you say!
Every single word you said i agree with it completely, i completed my MBBS this year but now again i am in the same rat race for NEET-PG, and i have seniors who have done PG but they are again in race for NEET-SS, so the point is we should be ambitious but we should also know our limitations and when to switch if things don't work, and with maturity you'll realise duniya ke opinions doesn't matter at all, Just do what you really want to do at the moment and start living life daily, don't wait for the perfect moment, because i see in hospitals everyday how unpredictable and short life really is !!!
Why you say it's a rat race.....those who are enjoying of their work as a professional doctor they will never say it's stressful. But at some point of moment it's stressful You are right with the LIVE THE MOMENT theory.....
First of all you should be proud of your profession as I myself regretted for not achieving I have never seen any mbbs passout either from govt or private medical colleges in a jobless or terrible poor condition ateast well settled in financially and respectfully ❤
Finally good to hear such an eye opening video, i myself is a doctor and i can tell that medical field is so so much overrated. All the parents of the aspirants must see this video and analyse and put some logical thought into the various fields out there ..rather than being rigid over the phrase” mera beta doctor banega hamara garibi door karega” … there are many field where you have better chances of excelling then medical field , you just need to apply your brain and go through the different opportunities you have and make the best out of yourself..
When you're telling about your situation and hardship during your Neet years, I thought you're telling about my current life, I also took 2 drops and still marks are horrible, and I never thought of any other option than MBBS but now on my father's recommendation I'm getting into private BAMS college. I also made myself isolated from everyone even from my parents, and maybe because of this I didn't do well in NEET. I thought it was just me but after listening to you, you won't believe how much relief I'm feeling right now. Thank you
Can you recommend some good private BAMS colleges coz when i was looking for it many ppl adviced that doing bams from private college is not worth it as the patients are not enough and also the conditions are very poor so I'm very confused now between bams and bds
@@user-sd1ii6og5nif you are girls then don't focus on b pharma bcoz its not that much good for girls (as I am also a girl and father did b pharma so i know the reality) bcoz paisa jyada medical open karne me h aur bo ladkiyo ke liye accha nhi h
Agree with you, but we know in India there is rat race kind of thing and 2nd is the coaching Institute glamourising this proffesion for their own benefit.
I also took 5 drops for mbbs but couldn't get the college.After that I took Bsc nursing course ,and when I saw the doctors life in the hospital,they are standing continuously in the wards ,they have very hard life ,seniors se Jaleel hona sbke samne,there is too much toxicity.then i realised shyd mai ye nahi jhel pata ,mujhe aisi life nahi chahiye.isliye jo hota hai acha ke liye hota hai.
Stop making excuses 🙏. If you clear this exam then you say that iam very happy and all... You are saying this because you can't clear this exam..... And that's the reality..... And everybody know the reality of nursing staff in hospital they work 10-12 hrs non-stop and sab ko maloom h kya izzat h nurses ki hospital me and salary ka mtt hi pucho 😂🙏
But what he is saying is right and people like you make neet as a hauwa jaise yahi zindagi h isme hi paisa aur respect h aap jaise log dusri job ko respect nhi de skte and if you clear that exam then come that day @@akhladsaifi6673
@@akhladsaifi6673Norcet clear karke AIIMS mei nursing ki salary 50k around I think it's good enough. Wahi MBBS khatam hone ke baad salary unki almost nursing walo se 10k ya 20k ka farak hain, agar aapne sirf MBBS ki hai toh. Aur baadmein Neet pg nikalna itna aasaan nhi usme fir drop lag sakta hai. Tumhe kya lag ki doctors ki 10 to 12hrs duty nhi hoti unki bhi hoti hai yeh duty hours tabhi Kam hoteh hai jab aap ek renowned doctor ban jateh ho aise hi kisi medical field mein kaam krne walo ka duty hours Kam nhi hota. Aur kisi peh itna harsh mat ho woh chahe apna dil manane ke liye kyun keh diya ho uski life mein kya hua woh tumne nhi saha hai.
This was so needed !!! I'm done with neet, switching to smthg diff. I mean ek he life hai usko jeete hai yaar bina dr bane bhi zindagi achi hoti hai. Thankyou so much 💓
Thank you for making this video for all the depressed hardworking students out there, they all need to watch this and they all deserves mental peace and good opportunities in return of their hardwork ❤️
Imagine taking 4 drops just to fulfill parents dream...and finally got 643 marks but still confused....bcz prnts ne ghr ki zameen bech k pdhaya...can't see their situation ryt now😭😭😭😭
Bro just take the admission in Mbbs you won't regret for your parents and also for world. When you will think of you it will pay you good. Those patients and hustle might be though but it will give you chill. Otherwise Puri life comparison jhelna and pay ke liye suffer karna.
I am also a beginner level graphic designer. I started my self-taught journey in canva in 2021. I want to be a freelancer , some of my friends talk shit about this field ki AI le legi ...but I know human intelligence is far superior than AI. As u said it was also new to me But I fall in love with canva ui and the ease of doing designs. But this designing career can give a lavish lifestyle than most doctors in India. Opinions may differ but hyper-respecting a field is not good .
Mera 3rd attempt tha but ab man bilkul nhi h neet karne ka kash jo ab samjh a raha h pehle samjh a jata ... but ab maine mana kar diya h mujhe neet nhi karna bss 1 ssal or or mera graduation complete phir koi achchi si post ya job ka exam de dungi bss neet nhi 30 saal tak padhete hi rahege toh jiyenge kab par parent's bol rhe h reneet ke chance h padhte raho jo karne ka ab man hi nhi h kya padho phir wahi anxiety or depression jhelo or feel karo ki aap akele ho jab tak apna khudka salary nhi milne lagti tab tak beakar feel karo khud ko 😢 ku kehne ko toh bohot kuch h kisse kahe koi h hi nhi sunne wala...😢😢
Bhai ye sab bio se bhi ho sakta hai.waise mujhe puchna tha ki maths as extra subject lene se uska marks add hota hai 12th board ka result prepare karte time
It was my 1st drop nd i scored 350..i prepared at home online but now i am not taking drop ..i am going for BAMS i am just fed up ! I feel really bad for droppers who have given there 4,5 years people are toxic ..dont think about them..relatives nd all they are fuxking toxic ..believe in your parents they are always with you even when i failed they still support me nd believe me that i have the potential nd i feel really greatful for what i have ..life has many opportunities ahead explore..log sabko judge krte h chahe jo acha kra ho use b aur jo bura jra ho use bi to bs kro tum faltu mt suno ksi ki ..
MUCH NEEDED VIDEO TODAY! THANK YOU DII! I HOPE SOON I'LL ALSO GET OVER THIS OBSESSION AND FAILURE WALA FEELING!! BUT GURL IT REALLY NEEDE COURAGE TO ACCEPT THIS OPENLY WHICH I DON'T! LOVE YOU ✨️🥺
I didn't do as well on NEET either, and was considering BAMS. Your video really lifted my spirits, you're such an inspiration! Feeling much better after watching it. Thank you so much to God I found your channel 🥹🫶💕
Yes buddy you can complete bams and then if you can maybe go to villages there are many doctors who complete bams because they couldn't get into mbbs and then go to villages. Village people been gullible believe these doctors and go to him and pay high fees these doctors only treat cold or cough other than that they immediately recommend to go to town or city hence no pressure like a doctor in city
Maine bahut relate kia is video se .Maine 8th class me decide kar lia tha ki doctor banna hai ..bio leni hai..but same situation..2019 me 12th complete hui..joined akash...bio achi thi physics aur chemistry nhi ...mai descriptive paper me achi thi...par objectives me bahut buri halat thi....2 saal drop lia...fir samjh aaya ki neet chhor dena chahie..mere sath bhi same feeling thi ki mbbs nhi to aur koi medical field nhi..bardasht nhi tha...kuch b aur...uske baaad maine ek dm randomly journalism and mass communication choose kia...shuru shuru me bilkul samjh nhi aayaa..ki ye kya wahiyat jagh hai...fir 1 sal ke baad smjh aaya mai likh sakti hu...aaj college ke 3 saal baad mai content writing ki achi internship kar rhi hu....I know content writing doctor jaisi job nhi hai...doctor ke profession jitna respectable aur kuch nhi ..but still agr nahi hota hai neet to its okay..jindgi ek exam pe nhi rukni chahiye....❤️❤️❤️
Sister, please mujhe bhi bata dijiye ki content writing ki field mei kaise enter karte hain and internships kaise milti hain iss field mein. I'm doing graduation in political science.
Di you are totally relatable with me . I am a 12th grader student and also a NEET aspirant. I'm very very very passionate for this exam . I have written AIIMS DELHI , NEET , DR. SRIJAN ANAND on sticky notes on my notebook even in my room and in front of my study table, even ik i am from GEN category. Sometimes I thought ki agar mere se nahi ho paya ya phir kahi destiny ne mere kiye kuch aur toh nhi soch rkha toh ky hoga 😢. I mea whenever i will open my notebooks or see the walls in future , the flashback will hit me😓 . Pr phir lgta h phle attempt toh kr apna best de ... baki destiny m jo likha h whi hoga n 😌🙂. Btw thank u di for making such a beautiful video I will save it in my watch later . Hope so i will become someone better so that i will make my parents proud and will able fulfil their desires :)
This is very strong motivation for all of us aspirants joh 4 , 5 yr drop liye hai already .. obviously duniya me kitne sare course hai joh log padh sakte hai and acha kar sakta hai....But yeh baat hai ki agar koi sahi me Dr he banna chahta hai then 100% deke bhi nehi ho raha tab alag bat hai lekin 100% na deke baad me profession k bade me kuch bhi bona jaise ki bohot padhai ..day night duty yeh sab bahana deke apne apko guilt free nehi karna chahiye bcs har field me he mehnat hai ..aur Dr hawa ki chiz to hai nehi..har koi aise -ve sochega to duniya me ache Dr ban he nehi payenge ...nehi ho paye to koi aur course me le lo ..usme acha karna parega..but Dr. banke kya halat hoti hai yeh woh ..yeh sab thik bat nehi hai bcs kisi na kisiko to responsibility lena he parega na..baad chahne ki bat hai that's it...
There were thousands of interviews of students who clear neet I was like koi toh esa video ho neet ke failure ke baad kya koi interview kyu nhi koi kyu nhi share nhi karta apni stories thankyou for this
I am a 1st dropper student in neet on this year...dii I just totally relate your words ✨!but I just quit this thing and go through another option in medical field..now I am a student of Bsc. In OTT in 1st year and I am just too much happy 😍🥰💖
Exactly that is my point Kya ho gaya hai ajkal logo ko Sab agar Dr Engineer banne k layak hote to pura India Dr engineer se var jata. Vai tu kisi or chiz ka layak hai , jisko tu neet se bhi accha kar sakta hai. Neet jee isn't only option in life Guys please wake up to the reality
Oh my god! How can you relate with my thoughts so much🥺💗....this is what we say the honest video!🤌😇 It's very rare to see people making videos of their failures, this is what i was waiting for✨👍 To be honest i'm just tired of taking drops for NEET exam since 3 years 😖💔... it's very heartbreaking for all of us this year due to Scam! 👉Please do make videos related to your tech course and College from which you graduated + your journey.😇 *what do you suggest for us if we also want to opt for it??
I gave my 1st attempt in 2023 got 345 in 2024 i work hard self study got 544 but 180k rank 😢 now i am blank I don't know what i will happen in future 😢
It's good to see people realizing they are not meant for the prestigious course of medicine, however doing something so different means you were not passionate about medicine. We can do semi govt MBBS in 20-25 lakh with a decent 620+ score.
Neet nhi hua lekin kare to kare kya, motivation se jyada options chahiye, will se jyada way chahiye. I'll be extremely blunt. In the end all of us want a stable income, can't stay stuck at a job earning less
Thank You so much DIDI !! Finally you're someone who's speaking the ground reality ! Aap sachi baat bata rahe ho... Others so called teachers are just sugar-coating things and selling courses.. NEET 2024 was my 3rd attempt and still couldnot clear it... and aapki tarah hi maine bhi apni path puri tarah badal liya hai ! I had decided to go in the ARTS field and I took up Sociology Hons as my Grad. Subject and yesterday itself I got admission into a college under The University Of Calcutta .. and I have also decided to prepare for the UPSC Civil Service/ State PCS Exams, Other Govt. Exams during the college years...
Hi didi , can you please make a video ( like a guide ) how you changed your path to tech field , was maths needed, how you build your knowledge from scratch, how you coped with everything, because as a 17 ,18 yrs old we don't have exposure and guidance to change path ( especially were everyone has a clearing path of coaching for jee and neet)
i was soo much into neet because of the environment. parents and the people around has hyped this neet exam so much. when i tried neet for the first attempt , i realised i am not for this , i analysed myself and got to know maths is my strong subject . so switched from pcb to pcm and i m very happy right now. Still some of my family members and friends taunt me for choosing general line but i have stopped caring about these!
I don't know how to thank you because this video came on the home page at the very time I needed the most motivation and guidance. I gave two attempts for NEET and this was my third attempt but unfortunately this time also I did not get a government college. My parents called me a failure, my relatives called me useless and because of this I went into the depression and I felt like i m failure I isolated myself but needed some guidance. , I was not able to understand what was going on and suddenly these videos came. I felt so relatable what would you say to the people as you thought, I also felt like this now, you are so much. like me dammm and the best part is I also felt like doing art and after this I wi made my hidden talent my profession. thank you so much❤
You asked you don't understand how people take extreme actions like this at start of your video and answer to that is surrounding they tell us that It would be disgusting to look at us if we didn't clear this exam or any exam for that matter. Specially parents their words hurt the most, my own father said that I am fooling him because I didn't get desired results, that i won't be able to look myself in the eyes if I fail exam, now how do you expect a teenager to think otherwise how can a teenager think opposite of what their own parents are saying. But I really agree with whatever you said I just was trying to put out a pov of what happens behind the scenes before you see news of such students
Same here.. I have been suffering from several physical issues gone fr surgery fr four consecutive times 2019(10th), 2021 2022, 2024. Meanwhile attending classes and attending every exam.. It was mentally torturing regardless I gave my best . But what happened at the end? Even after scoring 600 while studying from opt room with injections inside me . I won't be getting any seat and cherry on the top I'm from general caste.. My parents are old father is 60+yo and my mother is 55 yo. Idk what will happen now.. My father literally said the same thing that whether or not I am cheating behind them and running away from studies. He doesn't care much about neet scam or other things He thinks I'm at fault. Everyone so too My friends most of them are already doing jobs . One of my classmate got air hostess job in tata airlines. Other in state police.. And here I'm sick ,tired ,full of disgusting injections inside me (still I love this smell of hospitals, I've gone mentally senile I suppose), bored of relatives chitter-patter
@@pikachue602 I so sorry to hear that. I think those cheaters in exam are gonna appear for Reneet and then results would be published again, I will pray for your recovery and for you to get a seat. I wish best for you🫂
Hey Saini My story is almost identical to uours as well gave neet 2 times 2021 where the marks were terrible and 2022 was the time i was at at the hospitsl with my parents who were battling with covid ( the last wave) .However i started. Pursuing bsc with a very broken heart carrying the load of not fulfilling mine as well as the societal pressure and fell into servere depression which resulted in several anxiety and panoc attacks and no amount of doctors could find a permanent solution and slowly the medicines started to show huge side affects which led to excess loss pf my harand gaining weight .I was losing hair like people dealing with aloepecia and i even stopped going to college during my second semester . Even my family members were very worried 😫 i was looking aneroxic and horrific .However slowly i started having faith and worked on my spritual side .Finally on 1 st of january I got buzz cut to mark new beginning .And after analysing a lot i now know that I AM HIGHLY INTERESTED IN FESIGNS AND STUFF .But I dont know what. To do now .I would love to have some conversation with you and clear some of my confusions regarding this career
O my god what a coincidence...I got the same percentage as you in my 10th as well as 12th and right now I m preparing for neet.. Let's see what happens next year...
Bhai this field is too toxic...it took me 5 drops to get into a gmc i know thats too much but today just an hour ago i cried to my mom ki mujhse nhi horha everyone's so toxic here
3rd drop,3rd attempt thi,nahi huya...mera 2nd drop tak man thi khudki dream thi,reality accept karli thi...par mera parents nahi man rahe the ek last attempt dene ke liye kaha...kiuki I was very passionate...2021 12th board complete....friends ki graduation vi complete hojayega...or itni involve hogayi hobbies band,or kuch sikh hi nahi paye computer,spoken English,13kg weight gain vi hogaya...kya kare ab...main or nahi attempt dungi kiuki reality ko accept karna padega...I know Parents ki harroj tana firse pressurize karraha hain Neet dene ke liye wohlog.samajh neko taiyar nahi hain or vi kuch hain...main vi aisi thi 12th ke baad main attempt diya kiuki main 12th main padhte padhte dream dekha tha...par main accept karli parents nahi man raha hain total baat karna vi band...Aiims nursing ki exam di...wahapar vi rank jydaa hain ..ab samajh nahi araha hain 21 aged,12th pass only...mereko to computer vi nahi ati😭😭😭😭
Nyc video dii❤️👍... people are just showing up on TH-cam ki neet ho gya to life me bas maje h ...there are only few people who talks about what if u didn't cleared it ... I am also a dropper nd only a neet aspirant can understand that how much we sacrifice on our mental health, social life , hobbies everything in preparation phase ...loved ur video dii
Thankyou so much!❤ I needed to hear this ,that obsession that fear of not having a job satisfaction if I will not end up being a doc... haunts me!! But hopefully I'll also find my way🤞
It's actually all about your passion if u are passionate about something then u should 💯% go for that thing because at the end u must enjoy what u are doing irrespective of your drops or age because at the age of 60-70 u shouldn't feel like not working if u are passionate about any field than u are definitely going to work till your last breath🤷
I started preparing for neet in my 11 when covid started worked hard enrolled into coaching with 2 lakh fees attend the recorded classes got stuck into a endless loop of classes and no enjoyment and selfstudy . Seeing my mother over burdened for the fees i got into depression . I have seen myself in such a vulnerable situation , I sitt cry remembering my condition note 93%in 10 th and 86% in 12th . Took a drop coping up with my depression and sleeping and preparing due to medicines got 356 marks. Started gain asked my mother to give me a last chance which I knew I deserve got 598 in 2024 got gov dental college nagpur one of the best college and learnt that nothing in life is more important than life, being happy in whatever I do is now my first priority. आई seeing you proud and happy is my biggest achievement. Thankyou for standing by my side when everyone told that i can't do anything.
My parents don't know how freaking hard neet exam is🙄🙄🙄. For some reason they strongly think I can crack it within a year. But I know for sure I'll be wasting 3-4 years for something my PARENTS and RELATIVES want me to do. After hearing how tiring and stressful the field is, i changed to taking physiotherapy. But still everyone's like it's such a small course you have so much potential bla bla bla. At last I'll be the one suffering life long🙄. I don't think I can ever convince them them this bpt is not just MASSAGING 😭😭😭. I just wanna live my life peacefully doing what I like😭😭.
Hey i need your advice i wanted to be a doctor but in 10th class i got 41% due to my ngligence. Now i'm in bcom second year i hate this stream and regretting cause i am a science lover and want to be a doctor. Now im thinking about changing my stream to science throgh nios and prepare for neet im 20 right now is it right or worst desicion pls advise me 🙏
@@factgalaxy2503 best decision just go for it even I completed my 12th at the age of 19 due to late schooling and started my preparation at 20 for neet now am 22 by this year I might get college if not then I will go for next year and even I started my preparation from zero So don't think much juz go for it
Same story here.I was 2 year dropper and then I switched.for me it was like mbbs nahi to kuch nahi and jab nahi hua 2 saal badh I can't explain that breakdown.but I manage myself and now after these years,I am happy with the decisions that I make on that time.my prospective was also like you that if I am doing some other things in medical field then mbbs was on top.so I left that medical field.what you are saying it's the harsh truth of neet aspirants and you have that courage to say it on media.best wishes for your future.
haha, thats true actually i am also taking 2nd drop for neet but i am not sure if i really wanna do this . But i am sure it will hinder my mental health for sure:)
What u are going through nobody can understand it.. but i know how stressful it might be for u and ua family.. even if ua family supports u there is society which pulls u down.. i hope u find ua path.. there is still time to know other fields.. u can do this.. keep fighting!!
@@dikshapk2000 Thanks Diksha. Means a lot for me.💕💕💕 I have opted for BCA from a good reputed college and will try to re configure myself. Thanks a lot Dear.
Isiliye Maine sirf ek bar neet ka exam diya bo bhi 12 th ke sath uske baad mujhe samajh aa gaya this exam is not for me... phir mai aab cgl ki tyari shuru karney wala hu
Thank god dii this video came to my youtube suggestion..!! It was my 4th attempt and 3rd drop including 12th and still I am getting 450 something and I am seriously very depressed and frustated about my life and now my parents are scolding me daily and saying something weird and you will not believe how much I am crying from inside but just not expressing infront of them!! I am literally feeling broken in my life and also thinking that I am a big failure of my life. And seriously these type of thoughts are coming in my mind that I can't do anything in my life. Anyways kya hi btau dii bohot pareshan hu filhaal toh aage kuch bhi samajh ni aara ki kya karu life me😭💔
I would truly agree to this even I was super determined to do this but at the end I couldn’t clear it …Now I’m doing Psychology and I’m pretty happy by choosing this field.
Apne kaha ki aap PCB student the so apne kaise shift kiya please make dedicated video ya fir comment main bata do it because ye baat koi nai kar raha and thank you your video actually helps alot ek confidence badh gaya NEET is Not last option a new life started
I have taken NEET batch without telling my parents and after studying for a few days and seeing the condition of doctors, medical professionals and students all over India makes me want to prioritize my health over the seat (i am doing btech biotechnology btw, 2nd year. With neet prep cause i am thoda sakta) Now idk whether i should continue and give it a try or should i complete my degree and go abroad which is again difficult because your portfolio matters
Love i di apne is waqt apne kitna badha support dia hai humee ap khud nhi jaan sakti dii yrr bhut bhut shukriyaa ap ki vedio dekh kr i feel my elder sis ne mujhse kuch samjha diaa lotsss of lovee dii
Dudiee i gave neet twice 2023 and in 24, but both i couldn't able to cross 450 and ab ghr me sb force krre h, left neet but i was so indulged in it that seriously made me depressed but after watching your video i agree w everything you said diii !!😭and now ab bsc nursing krne ka interest h since 10th idk why but i wanted to do nursing as a career option and get a abroad job. but somehow idk how my mind changed after 12th during my neet prep and i was really focusing on mbbs itself! but ab bsc nursing krni h I WON'T LISTEN TO ANYBODY NOW!! Only the issue is now ki me mbbs me itni zyada indulged thi ke aiims nursing ka form bhi fill nai ki thi( just as a back up i could have done it but i didn't)😢its my biggest mistake everrrr
i the place where i am from , i can get mbbs under 500 but i realized in my 1st drop that i didnt wanted to do it , my relatives ,neighbours family were like easily mil jayega karlo , after that they become strict with me i didnt join any offline coaching cause i once joined crash course after 12th during corona time , i was forced to join cause i was good at my studies , so they were expecting me to clear in 3 months, i was forced to lock myself in my room and study but instead i was crying everyday , eveything was messed up i know i dont want to do it , but i am afraid of what people will say ( you need so less marks to get into college you are so lucky, my son was like you he would have achieved it in his 1st drop ) i am really afraid to say no, my father want me to not like technical line but i like it (sometimes i wish my state cutoff was high at least they wouldnt force me to become a doctor)
Hyy varuna maine v 21 22 me diya tha neet. nhi hua yrr but chill hu abhi lyf me..... Aapki baaton se lgrha aap bhagwat geeta padhti ho kyuki itnee acche se waisa he insaan guide krskta hai.... Stay blessed buddy❤🙃👍
Maine bhi neet diya tha .in my 2nd drop i got 428 marks .. And maine 3rd drop liya ..usi time ..neet ke counseling ke basis pe government medical college main mujhe bsc nursing karne ko mila ..or maine esse choose karke ..bsc nursing main switch kiya ..now main abhi 3rd year nursing student hu .. Or hame doctor he padhte h .. clinical duty bhi lagti h .. Or after bsc nursing NORCET exam de sakte h jisko clear karke aimms main .. nursing officer ..ya State level nursing exam deke .. nursing officer ban sakte h or uski pay bhi axe h start 82k se hain .. Main janta hu hamare parents bhi nahi samjhte ..ki hum kya feel kar rhe h unhe lagta b paise lage h ..karo .. Na dost na koi pura depressed feel hota h .. Par mujhe BDS kr BAMS se axa bsc nursing laga .. Kuki esme income acha h or medical college main he padhya jata h .. Vh sb jo mbbs main padhte h .. Jese pediatric Medical surgical nursing Gyane and OBG etc .. All the best yaro ..
@@curious6498 bsc nursing government college se karu??? Bhai jharkhand se hu yaha bestest college kio nhi ha or aiims me girls ha only. To isliye private college soch raha tha best kyuki wo alag state me wo sakta ha
@@AnshuSingh-w6r Bhai complete Ur bsc nursing degree jaha pe INC ki manyata ho .. Than after bsc nursing Degree mil jygi or RN no. Mil jyga .. Than Norcet ya state level Ka gov job Ka PPR crack Karo .. Or young age pain 80K tak earn Karo .. Or tour Karo ..
I did ug, pg from the best colleges of this country from my choice branch. I wanted to pursue research. It's difficult to pursue your dreams in India. Giving pg entrance again to fit in the Indian atmosphere.
You are very true i also gave my 2 years to this exam but scored 548 in my first attempt. Don't know what to do , should give second attempt or change the field
2nd attempt -642 marks but no chance of gmc bcuz general category i prepared online with full dedication whole year but now it was all wasted everyone making fun of me and give their opinion you do this that etc. belongs to very poor family and promissed my parents that i will get one seat in gmc but now totally depressed 😞
Now im going in IIT/NIT Didi everything you said is like a same situation for me... I also only wanted mbbs took drop year too but yar ab jab nahi ho rha upr se scam and all i also switched up my career entirely now i will get into either IIT/NIT or RIE and do BSC BED then do msc abroad and get into academics entirely.
In my case i was good in biology and physics but chemistry was so poor that i couldn't even remember a single chemical equation formula.
For all the pcb students put there let me tell you there are plenty of opportunities other than mbbs bams bds.
Once you all prep for neet you will know how to study how to tackle questions and mind it other exams are way easier later on and practically gives you a better life style. BS MS from iiser/niser ya MBA/BBA through ipmat krlo UI Ux krlo UCEED ke through designing krlo ACDEMICS is very amazing field too kyuki aapke hmaare jaise students hmesha padhne aayenge other than these there are so many fields.
At the end life isn't just abt neet. Emotionally nahi practically socho
Didi pin my comment to help students who wants to check on other fields
I also left neet and I am doing bsc physics and I preparing for IIT jam for doing msg physics ❤
@@aditi25singh yaar tumhari baat to sahi hai maine bhi iss saal first attempt diya tha and mere bhut bure marks aaye hai and maine bhi abhi Tak Drop nhi liya and aage lene ka bhi nahi soch raha hu...but one side mere mind me hamesha neet neet chalte rahta hai jitna kuch maine socha neet kar ke college me pahuch jaunga baha Life maje hi maje and many more thing mind me chalte rahta hai... neet to chod diya lekin chod ke bhi to khush nhi apne aap ko satisfied nhi kar pa raha hu... iska kya karu 😢😢😢😢??
@@user-gt2cn9pp4y hey buddy i completely understand your point
Kyuki mind mei aisa daal dete neet neet krke society ki baar baar vahi lgta success is definition hai
Jabki medical students ya jo actual doctors hai voh khud khush nahi h voh bhi hmari trah rat race mei gaye the bss voh hmse aage uss race mei jaa paaye but doesn't mean ki aur fields nahi h success hon ek liye. Aaj se das sal baad log ye ni dekhenge ki tmhara neet hua ya ni voh puchenge kitna kmaa rhe ya kya kr rhe and most important of all tumko dekhna h ki kis chiz se tmhe satisfaction mil skta hai
Go for that!
Aakr zrur btana what did u chose kyuki society ki baat hmesha blindly follow ni krna chahiye. Maine ek sal drop year mei waste he bss ni kiya blki depression aur constant taano se mind mei ek apni khud ki failure image bna li jabki aisa case h bhi ni. Every successful person isnt a doctor so formulate what success means to uh and work towards it
Good luck🍀
How you get into IIT. Did you gave Jee
Dude, I failed a year and got a 630. Now, I can't even get into the worst medical college in my state. I left the day I saw my results with that horrible rank. It made me realize that there's no scope in India after MBBS. What if I don't score well in NEET PG even if I take a private medical seat now? It's just too much stress. When will I enjoy my life? I've applied for psychology honors outside India and in India too. I was always interested in learning about mental behavior, so I chose this field. Remember, "Your interests and mental health are more important than NEET." Don't get stuck; move on. I don't think the court will do anything that will drastically change the result, and NEET won't happen again, as far as I know.
I also agree , their won't be any re- NEET . Maybe they will do some thing or other but surely they are not going to conduct neet 2024 again. All this hype will be gone in few days and honesty people are shocked with the results but most of them don't even care .
Whatever ..
India is made by people like us and made by us.
There are two people
1) who run away for better future
2) who stay here and struggle and bring change in the system..
The grass is always greener in the other side of the river..
If I am unable to secure admission to a local institution of higher learning, I will naturally seek educational opportunities elsewhere. I am not inclined to defer my academic pursuits for an additional year, and I have no intention of settling down abroad. I will return after I complete my studies.
I can absolutely relate with your situation sister. I thought I'll get a govt college,if not atleast some pvt colleges in Kerela or Karnataka but after seeing the rank and the scam behind it, I've lost my faith in the Education system here but that doesn't mean I don't love my country,ofc I do but there's too much corruption here, I'm out of options. I took my admission in Kazan state medical University,Russia just yesterday. I just need to get out of this NEET thing, it's so heart-breaking & depressing, there's more to this life than an exam. Don't listen to anyone but your heart,people will be people,they will always have to say something. I wanted to be engineer but took this path coz my father wanted me to become a Dr. I wish all the very best for your bright upcoming future ✨
Something every "mbbs k liye pagal", hard-working, dropper but failed neet aspirant needed to hear!
People should come forward and tell their story like this because drop culture is really toxic
Neet 2024 was my third attempt and I am not getting mbbs seat again
I don't want to take another drop for neet I want to explore other field
I just want to get rid from this depression anxiety and loneliness
Koi aur options agar mile toh muzhe bhi bta dena plz 😅(mai bhi drop nhi le ra ab )
same yar
Do Bsc Nursing
@@jyotiyadavlavy7401 mp abhi admission nhi ho rhe nursing ke(kuch aur btae)?
Same
I am a doctor , i passed my mbbs .....anyone who wants to do the course .....before they start preparing for neet .....should try to visit any govt college .....meet any working intern or HS (mind you not any college students ....only talk to people who have recently passed their final year and are working .....because ultimately it is a professional field you'll be studying to work )observe their day at work .....talk to them about their life and studies then decide for yourself whether you really want to do it or not . Dont keep the "Dr."tag. Or the money As the only motivating factor . Money minded people never reach the top be it in any profession .....people who love their work and always try improvising themselves do great in life .And there is no one way to success.
Good advice.
Absolutely, thanks for countering the toxic hype and giving a realistic perspective to the aspirants. Being on this side as well, I totally agree to what you say!
thank you sir!
Every single word you said i agree with it completely, i completed my MBBS this year but now again i am in the same rat race for NEET-PG, and i have seniors who have done PG but they are again in race for NEET-SS, so the point is we should be ambitious but we should also know our limitations and when to switch if things don't work, and with maturity you'll realise duniya ke opinions doesn't matter at all, Just do what you really want to do at the moment and start living life daily, don't wait for the perfect moment, because i see in hospitals everyday how unpredictable and short life really is !!!
Thank you for acknowledging this thing and putting out the big picture 🙌🏻 best of luck for your NEET- PG!!!
Thank u this really helped me ...
Why you say it's a rat race.....those who are enjoying of their work as a professional doctor they will never say it's stressful. But at some point of moment it's stressful
You are right with the LIVE THE MOMENT theory.....
Thank you sir for sharing your experience
First of all you should be proud of your profession as I myself regretted for not achieving I have never seen any mbbs passout either from govt or private medical colleges in a jobless or terrible poor condition ateast well settled in financially and respectfully ❤
Imagine taking 4 drops for NEET, only to realize u don't wanna be in medical field.... 💔
Same feelings here
💯😣
🥲🥲
Stay strong
Same bruh!!😢
Finally good to hear such an eye opening video, i myself is a doctor and i can tell that medical field is so so much overrated. All the parents of the aspirants must see this video and analyse and put some logical thought into the various fields out there ..rather than being rigid over the phrase” mera beta doctor banega hamara garibi door karega” … there are many field where you have better chances of excelling then medical field , you just need to apply your brain and go through the different opportunities you have and make the best out of yourself..
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I agree what you said itni observation n deep thinking ke baad mein bhi issi conclusion pr hu....khuch fark nhi padta , just live life fully ❤
When you're telling about your situation and hardship during your Neet years, I thought you're telling about my current life, I also took 2 drops and still marks are horrible, and I never thought of any other option than MBBS but now on my father's recommendation I'm getting into private BAMS college.
I also made myself isolated from everyone even from my parents, and maybe because of this I didn't do well in NEET. I thought it was just me but after listening to you, you won't believe how much relief I'm feeling right now.
Thank you
sameee situation....but mein confuse hu b pharma and bams ke beech
Can you recommend some good private BAMS colleges coz when i was looking for it many ppl adviced that doing bams from private college is not worth it as the patients are not enough and also the conditions are very poor so I'm very confused now between bams and bds
@@user-sd1ii6og5nif you are girls then don't focus on b pharma bcoz its not that much good for girls (as I am also a girl and father did b pharma so i know the reality) bcoz paisa jyada medical open karne me h aur bo ladkiyo ke liye accha nhi h
@@user-sd1ii6og5n same mate! Soo,What are you deciding ?👀
Same here@@NorthernBlade-
Agree with you, but we know in India there is rat race kind of thing and 2nd is the coaching Institute glamourising this proffesion for their own benefit.
Exactly 💯
I also took 5 drops for mbbs but couldn't get the college.After that I took Bsc nursing course ,and when I saw the doctors life in the hospital,they are standing continuously in the wards ,they have very hard life ,seniors se Jaleel hona sbke samne,there is too much toxicity.then i realised shyd mai ye nahi jhel pata ,mujhe aisi life nahi chahiye.isliye jo hota hai acha ke liye hota hai.
In which year r u in nursing which college
Stop making excuses 🙏. If you clear this exam then you say that iam very happy and all... You are saying this because you can't clear this exam..... And that's the reality..... And everybody know the reality of nursing staff in hospital they work 10-12 hrs non-stop and sab ko maloom h kya izzat h nurses ki hospital me and salary ka mtt hi pucho 😂🙏
But what he is saying is right and people like you make neet as a hauwa jaise yahi zindagi h isme hi paisa aur respect h aap jaise log dusri job ko respect nhi de skte and if you clear that exam then come that day @@akhladsaifi6673
@@akhladsaifi6673I agree with you
@@akhladsaifi6673Norcet clear karke AIIMS mei nursing ki salary 50k around I think it's good enough. Wahi MBBS khatam hone ke baad salary unki almost nursing walo se 10k ya 20k ka farak hain, agar aapne sirf MBBS ki hai toh. Aur baadmein Neet pg nikalna itna aasaan nhi usme fir drop lag sakta hai. Tumhe kya lag ki doctors ki 10 to 12hrs duty nhi hoti unki bhi hoti hai yeh duty hours tabhi Kam hoteh hai jab aap ek renowned doctor ban jateh ho aise hi kisi medical field mein kaam krne walo ka duty hours Kam nhi hota. Aur kisi peh itna harsh mat ho woh chahe apna dil manane ke liye kyun keh diya ho uski life mein kya hua woh tumne nhi saha hai.
You'll never know how many lives you're saving by this, you just saved mine. Thank you very much!
@@vedantkumre ❤️
This was so needed !!!
I'm done with neet, switching to smthg diff.
I mean ek he life hai usko jeete hai yaar bina dr bane bhi zindagi achi hoti hai.
Thankyou so much 💓
What is smthq?
@@onlyme5484 Something
Something different yrr@@onlyme5484
Something
Thank you for making this video for all the depressed hardworking students out there, they all need to watch this and they all deserves mental peace and good opportunities in return of their hardwork ❤️
Di, I'm also a neet aspirant and literally first time I saw genuine talk about neet and about real life. It's appreciable! 😊
Imagine taking 4 drops just to fulfill parents dream...and finally got 643 marks but still confused....bcz prnts ne ghr ki zameen bech k pdhaya...can't see their situation ryt now😭😭😭😭
what you will do now bro tell me pls
😢
@@monochromanceee i don't know 😪
@@MED_JOURNEYaur uske baad next exam
Bro just take the admission in Mbbs you won't regret for your parents and also for world. When you will think of you it will pay you good. Those patients and hustle might be though but it will give you chill. Otherwise Puri life comparison jhelna and pay ke liye suffer karna.
Iam sharing this video to my community post..so that my all subscribers can listen this masterpiece.. thanku so much dii❤️
The hard work done and attachment with goal didn't let them quit 😢 .. this video will surely be helpful to neet aspirant.
Ohhhh god YOU'RE SAYING ALL THINGS LIKE ME ! MY THOUGHTS ARE SAME AS YOU HAD DURING THAT TIME 😭
Thanks for motivating NEET Aspirant. You are doing a great job.
I am also a beginner level graphic designer. I started my self-taught journey in canva in 2021. I want to be a freelancer , some of my friends talk shit about this field ki AI le legi ...but I know human intelligence is far superior than AI. As u said it was also new to me But I fall in love with canva ui and the ease of doing designs. But this designing career can give a lavish lifestyle than most doctors in India.
Opinions may differ but hyper-respecting a field is not good .
Kaise karte h mujhe bhi sikhna h😢😢😢
Mera 3rd attempt tha but ab man bilkul nhi h neet karne ka kash jo ab samjh a raha h pehle samjh a jata ... but ab maine mana kar diya h mujhe neet nhi karna bss 1 ssal or or mera graduation complete phir koi achchi si post ya job ka exam de dungi bss neet nhi 30 saal tak padhete hi rahege toh jiyenge kab par parent's bol rhe h reneet ke chance h padhte raho jo karne ka ab man hi nhi h kya padho phir wahi anxiety or depression jhelo or feel karo ki aap akele ho jab tak apna khudka salary nhi milne lagti tab tak beakar feel karo khud ko 😢 ku kehne ko toh bohot kuch h kisse kahe koi h hi nhi sunne wala...😢😢
Same situation 😞
Yr meri bhi same dikkat ho rhi hai 3rd attempt tha or ab mn ni kr rha Dene ka pr ghar wale force kr rhe hai kya kru ???😢😢😢
@@pujadas7292 sis kuch kar hi nhi skte mai toh jisme single child hu uske baad socho meri kya condition h ..
@@yogitasharma1461Then padho yr achche se ....
I can feel you
MBBS alone is not enough nowadays
U just have one life
Have a career in which u have some time to enjoy and relax
U are spot on with this .Keep moving forward and keep uploading such informative videos.
That's why i took math in extra subject now i can fill other exams forms 😅😅😅😅😅😊😊😊
same
Konse form bro? Thoda help krdo
Army, physiotherapy, nursing, pharmacy, teachers, cgl aur abhi too bank ke liye form bhara rhe h
😂😂@@debkumar7262
Bhai ye sab bio se bhi ho sakta hai.waise mujhe puchna tha ki maths as extra subject lene se uska marks add hota hai 12th board ka result prepare karte time
Love And Appreciation to you Di:)) You are reaally making us all Feel a little stress free in this situation of NEET SCAM . Thankyou so much:)) ❤
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It was my 1st drop nd i scored 350..i prepared at home online but now i am not taking drop ..i am going for BAMS i am just fed up ! I feel really bad for droppers who have given there 4,5 years people are toxic ..dont think about them..relatives nd all they are fuxking toxic ..believe in your parents they are always with you even when i failed they still support me nd believe me that i have the potential nd i feel really greatful for what i have ..life has many opportunities ahead explore..log sabko judge krte h chahe jo acha kra ho use b aur jo bura jra ho use bi to bs kro tum faltu mt suno ksi ki ..
MUCH NEEDED VIDEO TODAY! THANK YOU DII! I HOPE SOON I'LL ALSO GET OVER THIS OBSESSION AND FAILURE WALA FEELING!! BUT GURL IT REALLY NEEDE COURAGE TO ACCEPT THIS OPENLY WHICH I DON'T! LOVE YOU ✨️🥺
I didn't do as well on NEET either, and was considering BAMS. Your video really lifted my spirits, you're such an inspiration! Feeling much better after watching it. Thank you so much to God I found your channel 🥹🫶💕
Yes buddy you can complete bams and then if you can maybe go to villages there are many doctors who complete bams because they couldn't get into mbbs and then go to villages.
Village people been gullible believe these doctors and go to him and pay high fees these doctors only treat cold or cough other than that they immediately recommend to go to town or city hence no pressure like a doctor in city
@@dummystephenhawking7124 thankusmm for telling 💓
Maine bahut relate kia is video se .Maine 8th class me decide kar lia tha ki doctor banna hai ..bio leni hai..but same situation..2019 me 12th complete hui..joined akash...bio achi thi physics aur chemistry nhi ...mai descriptive paper me achi thi...par objectives me bahut buri halat thi....2 saal drop lia...fir samjh aaya ki neet chhor dena chahie..mere sath bhi same feeling thi ki mbbs nhi to aur koi medical field nhi..bardasht nhi tha...kuch b aur...uske baaad maine ek dm randomly journalism and mass communication choose kia...shuru shuru me bilkul samjh nhi aayaa..ki ye kya wahiyat jagh hai...fir 1 sal ke baad smjh aaya mai likh sakti hu...aaj college ke 3 saal baad mai content writing ki achi internship kar rhi hu....I know content writing doctor jaisi job nhi hai...doctor ke profession jitna respectable aur kuch nhi ..but still agr nahi hota hai neet to its okay..jindgi ek exam pe nhi rukni chahiye....❤️❤️❤️
Bilkul❤️
Journalism and mass communication can you please elaborate...mai bhi bilkul tumhari tarah same situation me phasa hu
Sister, please mujhe bhi bata dijiye ki content writing ki field mei kaise enter karte hain and internships kaise milti hain iss field mein. I'm doing graduation in political science.
I am ugly
Dont have any any friend
Poor
Doesnt got any thing in life
Neet clear nhi hua
I am the real losser 😢
😊😊
Yes u r
Jesus Loves you bro
Di you are totally relatable with me . I am a 12th grader student and also a NEET aspirant. I'm very very very passionate for this exam . I have written AIIMS DELHI , NEET , DR. SRIJAN ANAND on sticky notes on my notebook even in my room and in front of my study table, even ik i am from GEN category. Sometimes I thought ki agar mere se nahi ho paya ya phir kahi destiny ne mere kiye kuch aur toh nhi soch rkha toh ky hoga 😢. I mea whenever i will open my notebooks or see the walls in future , the flashback will hit me😓 . Pr phir lgta h phle attempt toh kr apna best de ... baki destiny m jo likha h whi hoga n 😌🙂. Btw thank u di for making such a beautiful video I will save it in my watch later . Hope so i will become someone better so that i will make my parents proud and will able fulfil their desires :)
This is very strong motivation for all of us aspirants joh 4 , 5 yr drop liye hai already .. obviously duniya me kitne sare course hai joh log padh sakte hai and acha kar sakta hai....But yeh baat hai ki agar koi sahi me Dr he banna chahta hai then 100% deke bhi nehi ho raha tab alag bat hai lekin 100% na deke baad me profession k bade me kuch bhi bona jaise ki bohot padhai ..day night duty yeh sab bahana deke apne apko guilt free nehi karna chahiye bcs har field me he mehnat hai ..aur Dr hawa ki chiz to hai nehi..har koi aise -ve sochega to duniya me ache Dr ban he nehi payenge ...nehi ho paye to koi aur course me le lo ..usme acha karna parega..but Dr. banke kya halat hoti hai yeh woh ..yeh sab thik bat nehi hai bcs kisi na kisiko to responsibility lena he parega na..baad chahne ki bat hai that's it...
67 students got 720/720 which was totally shocking 😶
There were thousands of interviews of students who clear neet I was like koi toh esa video ho neet ke failure ke baad kya koi interview kyu nhi koi kyu nhi share nhi karta apni stories thankyou for this
I am a 1st dropper student in neet on this year...dii I just totally relate your words ✨!but I just quit this thing and go through another option in medical field..now I am a student of Bsc. In OTT in 1st year and I am just too much happy 😍🥰💖
Which college can u tell me i to want to take admisdion
Which college can u tell me i to want to take admisdion
Which college?? Even I am gonna join this course...
@@NehaKumari-ze7pj Brainware University
@@aryan_chouksey27 Brainware University
Yess dii aap 100% correct bol rahi ho I agreed with you
Exactly that is my point
Kya ho gaya hai ajkal logo ko
Sab agar Dr Engineer banne k layak hote to pura India Dr engineer se var jata.
Vai tu kisi or chiz ka layak hai , jisko tu neet se bhi accha kar sakta hai.
Neet jee isn't only option in life
Guys please wake up to the reality
Di please bring podcast with your friend who is doing BAMS .
Oh my god! How can you relate with my thoughts so much🥺💗....this is what we say the honest video!🤌😇
It's very rare to see people making videos of their failures, this is what i was waiting for✨👍
To be honest i'm just tired of taking drops for NEET exam since 3 years 😖💔... it's very heartbreaking for all of us this year due to Scam!
👉Please do make videos related to your tech course and College from which you graduated + your journey.😇
*what do you suggest for us if we also want to opt for it??
Last me kyuki ke aage kuch nahi tha guys 😂 ignore it
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Hi didi pls tell us about ux/ui from scratch pls we don't know anything about this 😭🙏
I gave my 1st attempt in 2023 got 345 in 2024 i work hard self study got 544 but 180k rank 😢 now i am blank I don't know what i will happen in future 😢
Don't do. Yeh honeytrap hai badbad ho jaoge. I'm scoring 660 marks in neet and just living hell like situation because of my rank
@@saumya5840 don't worry surely have you allotted a govt mbbs seat but your college not as your expectation 😢😮
Tumhe pata chala ky abb aage kya karna hai ,......main toh abhi bhi blank hu😢
1.5x is just like normal voice
Nope 2.0x is normal for me
Yes😂@@CONFIDENZEDITZ
It's good to see people realizing they are not meant for the prestigious course of medicine, however doing something so different means you were not passionate about medicine. We can do semi govt MBBS in 20-25 lakh with a decent 620+ score.
Can a person get admission in semi government college of other state.?
@@kiittykittno
Neet nhi hua lekin kare to kare kya, motivation se jyada options chahiye, will se jyada way chahiye.
I'll be extremely blunt. In the end all of us want a stable income, can't stay stuck at a job earning less
There's approximately 64 courses open to people who take bio in their 11th grade. 11 of those are in the top 50 highest paid jobs. Find your interest.
@@MohammedSarfraz-sm5qb kon se 64 courses h?
@@Itsnandanii04wohi tho bhai 😂😭🙏
Thank You so much DIDI !! Finally you're someone who's speaking the ground reality ! Aap sachi baat bata rahe ho... Others so called teachers are just sugar-coating things and selling courses.. NEET 2024 was my 3rd attempt and still couldnot clear it... and aapki tarah hi maine bhi apni path puri tarah badal liya hai ! I had decided to go in the ARTS field and I took up Sociology Hons as my Grad. Subject and yesterday itself I got admission into a college under The University Of Calcutta .. and I have also decided to prepare for the UPSC Civil Service/ State PCS Exams, Other Govt. Exams during the college years...
Hi didi , can you please make a video ( like a guide ) how you changed your path to tech field , was maths needed, how you build your knowledge from scratch, how you coped with everything, because as a 17 ,18 yrs old we don't have exposure and guidance to change path ( especially were everyone has a clearing path of coaching for jee and neet)
Sure I will
Thank you replying , and giving us your valuable time 🙏
@@varunaasainiplz make a video how u change field it will help us
i was soo much into neet because of the environment. parents and the people around has hyped this neet exam so much. when i tried neet for the first attempt , i realised i am not for this , i analysed myself and got to know maths is my strong subject . so switched from pcb to pcm and i m very happy right now. Still some of my family members and friends taunt me for choosing general line but i have stopped caring about these!
I am glad you did that, not many people have that courage 🎉 proud of you ❤
How did you switch pcb to pcm
Is it possible after 12th ?
Yes I also want to know this, pls tell about it
How did you switch bro
Wait how did u switch the stream?
I don't know how to thank you because this video came on the home page at the very time I needed the most motivation and guidance. I gave two attempts for NEET and this was my third attempt but unfortunately this time also I did not get a government college. My parents called me a failure, my relatives called me useless and because of this I went into the depression and I felt like i m failure I isolated myself but needed some guidance. , I was not able to understand what was going on and suddenly these videos came. I felt so relatable what would you say to the people as you thought, I also felt like this now, you are so much. like me dammm and the best part is I also felt like doing art and after this I wi made my hidden talent my profession. thank you so much❤
I am glad❤️ and I hope you’ll be fine ❤️ good luck for your future
@@varunaasaini thank you so much! This video is the best video I have ever seen! ❤️
The most needed video for bio students....thank you so muchhh❤
You asked you don't understand how people take extreme actions like this at start of your video and answer to that is surrounding they tell us that It would be disgusting to look at us if we didn't clear this exam or any exam for that matter. Specially parents their words hurt the most, my own father said that I am fooling him because I didn't get desired results, that i won't be able to look myself in the eyes if I fail exam, now how do you expect a teenager to think otherwise how can a teenager think opposite of what their own parents are saying. But I really agree with whatever you said I just was trying to put out a pov of what happens behind the scenes before you see news of such students
I just hope you are fine! and all the best for your future!
@@varunaasaini I am fine thank you. I appreciate your concern🙂
Same here..
I have been suffering from several physical issues
gone fr surgery fr four consecutive times 2019(10th), 2021 2022, 2024.
Meanwhile attending classes and attending every exam..
It was mentally torturing regardless I gave my best .
But what happened at the end?
Even after scoring 600 while studying from opt room with injections inside me .
I won't be getting any seat and cherry on the top I'm from general caste..
My parents are old father is 60+yo and my mother is 55 yo.
Idk what will happen now..
My father literally said the same thing that whether or not I am cheating behind them and running away from studies.
He doesn't care much about neet scam or other things
He thinks I'm at fault.
Everyone so too
My friends most of them are already doing jobs .
One of my classmate got air hostess job in tata airlines. Other in state police..
And here I'm sick ,tired ,full of disgusting injections inside me (still I love this smell of hospitals, I've gone mentally senile I suppose), bored of relatives chitter-patter
@@pikachue602 I so sorry to hear that. I think those cheaters in exam are gonna appear for Reneet and then results would be published again, I will pray for your recovery and for you to get a seat. I wish best for you🫂
@@Lubisinkonpaper Nah...only 1500 students with grace marks are going to appear for neet
6:10 THIS!
Helped actually!
Thankyou so much
448 1st attempt 2024.......but halat dekh kr es bhid se alag chalne ka soch lia h ab....mbbs ek dhoka h jindge m or bhi mokka h ....
Hey Saini My story is almost identical to uours as well gave neet 2 times 2021 where the marks were terrible and 2022 was the time i was at at the hospitsl with my parents who were battling with covid ( the last wave) .However i started. Pursuing bsc with a very broken heart carrying the load of not fulfilling mine as well as the societal pressure and fell into servere depression which resulted in several anxiety and panoc attacks and no amount of doctors could find a permanent solution and slowly the medicines started to show huge side affects which led to excess loss pf my harand gaining weight .I was losing hair like people dealing with aloepecia and i even stopped going to college during my second semester . Even my family members were very worried 😫 i was looking aneroxic and horrific .However slowly i started having faith and worked on my spritual side .Finally on 1 st of january I got buzz cut to mark new beginning .And after analysing a lot i now know that I AM HIGHLY INTERESTED IN FESIGNS AND STUFF .But I dont know what. To do now .I would love to have some conversation with you and clear some of my confusions regarding this career
Hey, I hope you are doing fine now🤌🏻🙏 you can message me on Instagram for your queries regarding design @varunaux
Right now what are you doing
Happy that u r doing better. I pray for ur ease and success.❤
Can you give your id i want to talk. TO you sis 😊
O my god what a coincidence...I got the same percentage as you in my 10th as well as 12th and right now I m preparing for neet.. Let's see what happens next year...
Bhai this field is too toxic...it took me 5 drops to get into a gmc i know thats too much but today just an hour ago i cried to my mom ki mujhse nhi horha everyone's so toxic here
Kya hua bro!?
Is the studies too hard?
what happened ?
Because of seniors?
Why ma'am.
.are you ohk ?
@@Sthuthi_1bcz Environment is very unforgiving, strict and brutal in mbbs
I am in 2nd year mbbs btw
I can totally related with it sirf bio chemistry se kuchh nahi hoga yaha is field me 😢 it was my 3 attempt but cannot
do to much better
3rd drop,3rd attempt thi,nahi huya...mera 2nd drop tak man thi khudki dream thi,reality accept karli thi...par mera parents nahi man rahe the ek last attempt dene ke liye kaha...kiuki I was very passionate...2021 12th board complete....friends ki graduation vi complete hojayega...or itni involve hogayi hobbies band,or kuch sikh hi nahi paye computer,spoken English,13kg weight gain vi hogaya...kya kare ab...main or nahi attempt dungi kiuki reality ko accept karna padega...I know Parents ki harroj tana firse pressurize karraha hain Neet dene ke liye wohlog.samajh neko taiyar nahi hain or vi kuch hain...main vi aisi thi 12th ke baad main attempt diya kiuki main 12th main padhte padhte dream dekha tha...par main accept karli parents nahi man raha hain total baat karna vi band...Aiims nursing ki exam di...wahapar vi rank jydaa hain
..ab samajh nahi araha hain 21 aged,12th pass only...mereko to computer vi nahi ati😭😭😭😭
same condition
aage konsa course kroge aap can you tell ?
@@vivusaini0001 pata nahi agar kuch nahi hoga...last bsc nursing with side hustle
same condition yaar!!😭💔
Thanks sister for making me confident, i left neet 2yrs ago i still feel sad
Same what r u doing now?
Nyc video dii❤️👍... people are just showing up on TH-cam ki neet ho gya to life me bas maje h ...there are only few people who talks about what if u didn't cleared it ... I am also a dropper nd only a neet aspirant can understand that how much we sacrifice on our mental health, social life , hobbies everything in preparation phase ...loved ur video dii
Thankyou so much!❤ I needed to hear this ,that obsession that fear of not having a job satisfaction if I will not end up being a doc... haunts me!! But hopefully I'll also find my way🤞
You will definitely, god bless you❤ all the best for your future endeavors ❤
It's actually all about your passion if u are passionate about something then u should 💯% go for that thing because at the end u must enjoy what u are doing irrespective of your drops or age because at the age of 60-70 u shouldn't feel like not working if u are passionate about any field than u are definitely going to work till your last breath🤷
I started preparing for neet in my 11 when covid started worked hard enrolled into coaching with 2 lakh fees attend the recorded classes got stuck into a endless loop of classes and no enjoyment and selfstudy . Seeing my mother over burdened for the fees i got into depression . I have seen myself in such a vulnerable situation , I sitt cry remembering my condition note 93%in 10 th and 86% in 12th . Took a drop coping up with my depression and sleeping and preparing due to medicines got 356 marks. Started gain asked my mother to give me a last chance which I knew I deserve got 598 in 2024 got gov dental college nagpur one of the best college and learnt that nothing in life is more important than life, being happy in whatever I do is now my first priority. आई seeing you proud and happy is my biggest achievement. Thankyou for standing by my side when everyone told that i can't do anything.
it was needed, thankyou ❤
My parents don't know how freaking hard neet exam is🙄🙄🙄. For some reason they strongly think I can crack it within a year. But I know for sure I'll be wasting 3-4 years for something my PARENTS and RELATIVES want me to do. After hearing how tiring and stressful the field is, i changed to taking physiotherapy. But still everyone's like it's such a small course you have so much potential bla bla bla. At last I'll be the one suffering life long🙄. I don't think I can ever convince them them this bpt is not just MASSAGING 😭😭😭. I just wanna live my life peacefully doing what I like😭😭.
After trying neet many times finally, I am going for the management seat I can't compromise my passion otherwise I will regret it till my death!
Kya hota h bhai managment seat me
@@PragyaSingh-bv5xw studies l
@PragyaSingh-bv5xw private se MBBS
Hey i need your advice i wanted to be a doctor but in 10th class i got 41% due to my ngligence. Now i'm in bcom second year i hate this stream and regretting cause i am a science lover and want to be a doctor.
Now im thinking about changing my stream to science throgh nios and prepare for neet im 20 right now is it right or worst desicion pls advise me 🙏
@@factgalaxy2503 best decision just go for it even I completed my 12th at the age of 19 due to late schooling and started my preparation at 20 for neet now am 22 by this year I might get college if not then I will go for next year and even I started my preparation from zero
So don't think much juz go for it
Same story here.I was 2 year dropper and then I switched.for me it was like mbbs nahi to kuch nahi and jab nahi hua 2 saal badh I can't explain that breakdown.but I manage myself and now after these years,I am happy with the decisions that I make on that time.my prospective was also like you that if I am doing some other things in medical field then mbbs was on top.so I left that medical field.what you are saying it's the harsh truth of neet aspirants and you have that courage to say it on media.best wishes for your future.
Thank God, i watched this video, every single word is so relatable 😌😌
🙏❤️
Physiotherapist cource kaisa hai di bums vs bpt which is bttr@@varunaasaini
Oh my God....bang on!!!!What a video!Good initiative by you.However,we need to keep an eye on the judgements regarding the discrepancy by NTA!
Than you sir.
There is toxicity during exams in MBBS but uske baad life chill bhi rehti hai
This video reminds me of the story "Grapes are sour"😂
haha, thats true actually i am also taking 2nd drop for neet but i am not sure if i really wanna do this . But i am sure it will hinder my mental health for sure:)
❤❤your eyes are just like bihariji ❤u
I also wanna quit my neet prep nd be doin somethin else
Banke bihari lal ki jay
🙏 baanke bihari ji ki toh charno ki dhool bhi nahi hai hum, lekin dhanyawaad aapka ❤️🙏
Hi I am Rishav
#2017 passed 12th.
2018 Drop
2019 Drop
2020 Drop
2021 Drop
2022 Drop
2023 Drop
2024 Drop.... #Hell
Depression, trauma, isolation.
Are you taking a drop again?
Less go one more time
@@reba-rb5fg NoMore Drop Brother.
What u are going through nobody can understand it.. but i know how stressful it might be for u and ua family.. even if ua family supports u there is society which pulls u down.. i hope u find ua path.. there is still time to know other fields.. u can do this.. keep fighting!!
@@dikshapk2000 Thanks Diksha.
Means a lot for me.💕💕💕
I have opted for BCA from a good reputed college and will try to re configure myself.
Thanks a lot Dear.
Isiliye Maine sirf ek bar neet ka exam diya bo bhi 12 th ke sath uske baad mujhe samajh aa gaya this exam is not for me... phir mai aab cgl ki tyari shuru karney wala hu
Which course?
Ssc cgl?
@@KHUSHI-ne9ql bsc zoology ke sath
@@shihaabpatel7043 yess ...CGL..chsl.. MTS
Good decision
Thank god dii this video came to my youtube suggestion..!! It was my 4th attempt and 3rd drop including 12th and still I am getting 450 something and I am seriously very depressed and frustated about my life and now my parents are scolding me daily and saying something weird and you will not believe how much I am crying from inside but just not expressing infront of them!! I am literally feeling broken in my life and also thinking that I am a big failure of my life. And seriously these type of thoughts are coming in my mind that I can't do anything in my life. Anyways kya hi btau dii bohot pareshan hu filhaal toh aage kuch bhi samajh ni aara ki kya karu life me😭💔
Just take care yourself and take the decision as soon as possible
@@varunaasaini Thanks u senior for your valuable suggestion💕💕
I would truly agree to this even I was super determined to do this but at the end I couldn’t clear it …Now I’m doing Psychology and I’m pretty happy by choosing this field.
hello kya aap mujhe bata sakte h aap kaha kar rahe ho psychology, main v interested hu after the neet scenes can you help me ?😢
U are doing a great job ❤️ keep smiling ☺️
Thank you💕
Only thing I needed to watch today morning
🙌🏻❤️
Ha yarr bohot depressed hu 😢
I got 64 but I know me kya kar sakta hu bsc. Bed karke teacher
Bpharma
Dpharma
Ye nahi karna to freelancing karo
The way you have explained everything didi...Your every word is relatable❤️
Thank you so much dii much needed ❤❤
Apne kaha ki aap PCB student the so apne kaise shift kiya please make dedicated video ya fir comment main bata do it because ye baat koi nai kar raha and thank you your video actually helps alot ek confidence badh gaya NEET is Not last option a new life started
Hii diii
Mera 1st attempt 2023 m tha aur mere score 177 tha
Now i am scoring 570 in 2nd attempts kya karu drop lu yaa nhi
Lelo
Mere bhi 161 2023
Now 487
Drop nhi le rhi mai
Lelo tumhara ho jayega
@@pritikumari_1012kya karoge
@@pritikumari_1012aab kyaa karna hai
I have taken NEET batch without telling my parents and after studying for a few days and seeing the condition of doctors, medical professionals and students all over India makes me want to prioritize my health over the seat (i am doing btech biotechnology btw, 2nd year. With neet prep cause i am thoda sakta)
Now idk whether i should continue and give it a try or should i complete my degree and go abroad which is again difficult because your portfolio matters
Love i di apne is waqt apne kitna badha support dia hai humee ap khud nhi jaan sakti dii yrr bhut bhut shukriyaa ap ki vedio dekh kr i feel my elder sis ne mujhse kuch samjha diaa lotsss of lovee dii
Dudiee i gave neet twice 2023 and in 24, but both i couldn't able to cross 450 and ab ghr me sb force krre h, left neet but i was so indulged in it that seriously made me depressed but after watching your video i agree w everything you said diii !!😭and now ab bsc nursing krne ka interest h since 10th idk why but i wanted to do nursing as a career option and get a abroad job. but somehow idk how my mind changed after 12th during my neet prep and i was really focusing on mbbs itself! but ab bsc nursing krni h I WON'T LISTEN TO ANYBODY NOW!! Only the issue is now ki me mbbs me itni zyada indulged thi ke aiims nursing ka form bhi fill nai ki thi( just as a back up i could have done it but i didn't)😢its my biggest mistake everrrr
Same I am also doing bsc paramedical course after take 3 drops in neet 😢 but now I am more stable and happy in my life and also my family 😊
i the place where i am from , i can get mbbs under 500 but i realized in my 1st drop that i didnt wanted to do it , my relatives ,neighbours family were like easily mil jayega karlo , after that they become strict with me i didnt join any offline coaching cause i once joined crash course after 12th during corona time , i was forced to join cause i was good at my studies , so they were expecting me to clear in 3 months, i was forced to lock myself in my room and study but instead i was crying everyday , eveything was messed up i know i dont want to do it , but i am afraid of what people will say ( you need so less marks to get into college you are so lucky, my son was like you he would have achieved it in his 1st drop ) i am really afraid to say no, my father want me to not like technical line but i like it (sometimes i wish my state cutoff was high at least they wouldnt force me to become a doctor)
Which state are you from ?
Hyy varuna maine v 21 22 me diya tha neet. nhi hua yrr but chill hu abhi lyf me.....
Aapki baaton se lgrha aap bhagwat geeta padhti ho kyuki itnee acche se waisa he insaan guide krskta hai....
Stay blessed buddy❤🙃👍
🙌🏻🙏❤️
Abhi aap kis chiz ki tyari kartey ho
This is exactly what I want my parents to understand
Thank you didi for motivating me 🥹🙌❤️
Took only one drop and realised that mbbs aint for me. So now going for either BDS or BAMS. Thanks for your motivation 🖤
Maine bhi neet diya tha .in my 2nd drop i got 428 marks ..
And maine 3rd drop liya ..usi time ..neet ke counseling ke basis pe government medical college main mujhe bsc nursing karne ko mila ..or maine esse choose karke ..bsc nursing main switch kiya ..now main abhi 3rd year nursing student hu ..
Or hame doctor he padhte h .. clinical duty bhi lagti h ..
Or after bsc nursing
NORCET exam de sakte h jisko clear karke aimms main .. nursing officer ..ya
State level nursing exam deke .. nursing officer ban sakte h or uski pay bhi axe h start 82k se hain ..
Main janta hu hamare parents bhi nahi samjhte ..ki hum kya feel kar rhe h unhe lagta b paise lage h ..karo ..
Na dost na koi pura depressed feel hota h ..
Par mujhe BDS kr BAMS se axa bsc nursing laga ..
Kuki esme income acha h or medical college main he padhya jata h ..
Vh sb jo mbbs main padhte h ..
Jese pediatric
Medical surgical nursing
Gyane and OBG etc ..
All the best yaro ..
Bhai aap bsc nursing kis exam ke through kar rahe ho
Bhai bsc nursing ki salary 20-25k hi hai
@@AnshuSingh-w6r government Kar na dost ..Norcet year main 2 Baar HOTA h
@@curious6498 bsc nursing government college se karu??? Bhai jharkhand se hu yaha bestest college kio nhi ha or aiims me girls ha only.
To isliye private college soch raha tha best kyuki wo alag state me wo sakta ha
@@AnshuSingh-w6r Bhai complete Ur bsc nursing degree jaha pe INC ki manyata ho ..
Than after bsc nursing
Degree mil jygi or RN no. Mil jyga ..
Than Norcet ya state level Ka gov job Ka PPR crack Karo ..
Or young age pain 80K tak earn Karo ..
Or tour Karo ..
I did ug, pg from the best colleges of this country from my choice branch.
I wanted to pursue research.
It's difficult to pursue your dreams in India.
Giving pg entrance again to fit in the Indian atmosphere.
You are very true i also gave my 2 years to this exam but scored 548 in my first attempt. Don't know what to do , should give second attempt or change the field
2nd attempt -642 marks but no chance of gmc bcuz general category i prepared online with full dedication whole year but now it was all wasted everyone making fun of me and give their opinion you do this that etc. belongs to very poor family and promissed my parents that i will get one seat in
gmc but now totally depressed 😞
thank you so much didi.... you just said what i thought in my mind