With my baby daddy I had to stop the relationship when I saw that whatever was getting in between our relationship was not going to be rectified, so I ended it whilst I could still love him (if that makes sense), when I lost my mom he came to my place in the middle of the night to comfort me and offered to sleep here the whole night and same thing when he needs help of any kind I still do assist but I will never be romantically involved with him, it's not even a joke. So I know these things happen because people once dearly loved each other.
same here, i separated with my partner, we don't have kids together, we separated because we live in different towns and he does things there but i love him, it's better for me to love him from a distance because i can't be hurt always, we agreed but we are so close since we separated, we talk, i lost my son last year dec he came, he comforts me always, i dont initiate the talking like before he does, i have never been at peace like now, so i do understand this set up
Yes sis sometimes it's best to part ways before disrespect & resentment creeps in, especially when children are involved. All the best with your coparenting.
People will NEVER understand that you can love someone so much but be apart and the separation is the only option to keep the respect going. I have a beautiful relationship with my ex-husband and the love between us is more than any fleshly desires that people think of when talking about a relationship. We are great parents to our kids and the dunny thing is that he still calls me love against my will but I have come to accept it. That is how he always called me so it's out of habit not to say he has romantic feelings towards me. I hope NOT because for me the ship has sailed off the dock and it ain't coming back again. So I totally get Thato and Thabiso my schoolmate, she was love personified.
May this love that was in Thabiso and Dj Fresh be in their children .May the father find strength to raise these kids.When is tough,always remember that Thabiso cried to God in prayer.May you find comfort and wisdom in the word of God.A peaceful sleep to Thabiso.
Ausi Motlatsi I love your message you may please be next to Fresh and kids as family support him however he is going through may God bless these two family
Fresh said thabiso did everything with love....i asked myself then why did they divorce.... Also what if she died because she was not coping with the divorce😭💔so sad.....which ppl can see marriage as covenant....it isnt easy to be married u are bound to be with the person u are committed to and bear with one another.i wish the best for married couples.
Was married for 10 years, have our reasons for divorcing. People will always ask why we are not getting back together. I understand fully, I'm still keeping the surname also. Some people's marriages are not for everyone to understand. We still love one another
Thank's aunty for revealing Thabiso state of her mind in hospital. My observation of Her detioration, was because she had a calling. She had a gift. Which a lot of people never observed, but assumed its a stress of divorce, which it was not. Fresh understood Thabz' so was the late,dispite their separation. I'm glad both families have no enormosity against each other. Fresh🤔 we want that✍️ 📚. A lot of people will be surprised.
@@pfuluAll callings are given by God. But because of ignorance, people start to talk about ancestors and all of that. Maybe she was supposed to start a ministry or something or use her gift as God led her. Let me delve deeper into what I mean by a gift comes from God; one time I visited ZCC looking for a job and they kept calling me saying I need to be a prophet but I left the place because I wasn't looking for a job. I wasn't even born again then. Later I got born again I got saved and it was revealed to me that I have a prophetic gift but I knew because of ZCC. So the best thing is to get born again and God will reveal. Jesus is the only way, truth and life!
@murielmoyahabo6078 I'm sure they do, but Fresh did say he doesn't believe in religion and doesn't want his children raised in it.This was back in his YFM days. To be fair, I think his wife wasn't walking faithfully in her beliefs back then. Things always change when you have children. What you held loosely will either fall away or become precious to you.
Me too now that I near all this maybe she just wanted to be closer to God on her own which I feel if indeed she loved him she should hv brought the whole family closer to God including her husband 😢
What does marriage insulate couples from? Some are childless, loveless, sexless, infidel etc. This damage control, diplomacy is overdone. The kids were failed by Thato. All they can do is overcompensate....
Eish I'm so heartbroken iworked for her from 2018 -2019 at their house in North riding Rip Aunt Thabiso gone bt not forgotten 😭😭😭😭😭
With my baby daddy I had to stop the relationship when I saw that whatever was getting in between our relationship was not going to be rectified, so I ended it whilst I could still love him (if that makes sense), when I lost my mom he came to my place in the middle of the night to comfort me and offered to sleep here the whole night and same thing when he needs help of any kind I still do assist but I will never be romantically involved with him, it's not even a joke. So I know these things happen because people once dearly loved each other.
same here, i separated with my partner, we don't have kids together, we separated because we live in different towns and he does things there but i love him, it's better for me to love him from a distance because i can't be hurt always, we agreed but we are so close since we separated, we talk, i lost my son last year dec he came, he comforts me always, i dont initiate the talking like before he does, i have never been at peace like now, so i do understand this set up
Yes sis sometimes it's best to part ways before disrespect & resentment creeps in, especially when children are involved. All the best with your coparenting.
People will NEVER understand that you can love someone so much but be apart and the separation is the only option to keep the respect going. I have a beautiful relationship with my ex-husband and the love between us is more than any fleshly desires that people think of when talking about a relationship. We are great parents to our kids and the dunny thing is that he still calls me love against my will but I have come to accept it. That is how he always called me so it's out of habit not to say he has romantic feelings towards me. I hope NOT because for me the ship has sailed off the dock and it ain't coming back again. So I totally get Thato and Thabiso my schoolmate, she was love personified.
May this love that was in Thabiso and Dj Fresh be in their children .May the father find strength to raise these kids.When is tough,always remember that Thabiso cried to God in prayer.May you find comfort and wisdom in the word of God.A peaceful sleep to Thabiso.
If only we can all understand that marriage is not a contract but a COVENANT .... Established by THE MOST HIGH!!!!
They loved each other selflessly and enough to let each other go.A classical case of if you love something you let it go.
Well said
Njee mtase
Ausi Motlatsi I love your message you may please be next to Fresh and kids as family support him however he is going through may God bless these two family
Dr Anne (our Mentor)said comforting words with grace ,May the family find comfort in the Lord.
Fresh said thabiso did everything with love....i asked myself then why did they divorce....
Also what if she died because she was not coping with the divorce😭💔so sad.....which ppl can see marriage as covenant....it isnt easy to be married u are bound to be with the person u are committed to and bear with one another.i wish the best for married couples.
Imagine divorce after 20 solid years🤢
He didn’t want to grow up
@@sybillamula well said.
If staying in a dead marriage for 20 years didn't kill her, leaving won't
Beautiful words Rakgadi ❤️ ❤❤May Her Soul Rest in peace 🙏
Literally till death do us apart❤
Was married for 10 years, have our reasons for divorcing. People will always ask why we are not getting back together. I understand fully, I'm still keeping the surname also. Some people's marriages are not for everyone to understand. We still love one another
Thank's aunty for revealing Thabiso state of her mind in hospital. My observation of Her detioration, was because she had a calling. She had a gift. Which a lot of people never observed, but assumed its a stress of divorce, which it was not. Fresh understood Thabz' so was the late,dispite their separation. I'm glad both families have no enormosity against each other.
Fresh🤔 we want that✍️ 📚. A lot of people will be surprised.
She's the right person to tell us about Thabiso, she raised and loved Thabiso
*Animosity ❤
When you said gift /calling are you referring to Ancestors ???
@@pfuluI think She's referring to Ministry as She was serving in her Church ♥️
@@pfuluAll callings are given by God. But because of ignorance, people start to talk about ancestors and all of that. Maybe she was supposed to start a ministry or something or use her gift as God led her. Let me delve deeper into what I mean by a gift comes from God; one time I visited ZCC looking for a job and they kept calling me saying I need to be a prophet but I left the place because I wasn't looking for a job. I wasn't even born again then. Later I got born again I got saved and it was revealed to me that I have a prophetic gift but I knew because of ZCC. So the best thing is to get born again and God will reveal. Jesus is the only way, truth and life!
Beautiful speech aunty
They loved each other good.
Thabiso loved God and DJ Fresh is a dj,azidibani tu ke.
So Dj's dont love God?
@@Gina71954 Thabiso loved Fresh but Fresh ebefeba and only wanted citizenship
@@Sterfillah 😪😭😭😭😭😭
@murielmoyahabo6078 I'm sure they do, but Fresh did say he doesn't believe in religion and doesn't want his children raised in it.This was back in his YFM days.
To be fair, I think his wife wasn't walking faithfully in her beliefs back then. Things always change when you have children. What you held loosely will either fall away or become precious to you.
Voice ya Aunty is same as her Sister ❤
Well learnt family ya thabiso. U can hear their tense. Mxm🤞
Oh Koko Anne I feel your pain
Beautiful and colourful ❤️
❤️🥲 rest well sweet soul.
Soooo painful rip Thabithabi❤
Such beautiful words
Where are the online inlaws now?
Well said❤❤❤
Thabiso RIP
Rebotlhoko 😢❤
Spoke well Rakgadi.
They were inlove,just the divorce came
He treated her as if she was his sister
Love took a different form❤
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At the end Keneilwe trophy
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Dr Anne❤
Maybe the bed was defiled..
Why did they divorce seriously im surprised ❤❤
Me too now that I near all this maybe she just wanted to be closer to God on her own which I feel if indeed she loved him she should hv brought the whole family closer to God including her husband 😢
@@PromiseDuma-okaMthombenithe cheating and humiliation was too much,she decided to devote her soul to only one trustworthy man, God almighty
Thabiso wayebekezele nje
@@PromiseDuma-okaMthombenihe's the one that served her divorce papers neh!!!
Fresh married her for citizenship
A good Aunty
You sound like Lethabo lejoy
What does marriage insulate couples from? Some are childless, loveless, sexless, infidel etc. This damage control, diplomacy is overdone. The kids were failed by Thato. All they can do is overcompensate....
Marriage insulates from nothing you are correct
Dj fresh's girlfriend has big shoes to fill.
Distasteful comment,
😃 😁 😂 yebo yeesss shixta!
I dont think you understand love darling .if she did he wouldnt have left her babes! She is happy and loved just as she is
No need to fill anyone's shoes. You come in and play yo role in a relationship.its not competition
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