What OP should have said to their mother is, "Look, Pixie is f*cking up and and you are letting her drag you down with her. I'm not going to have her drag me down as well."
Your mother is the reason why your sister is the way she is. They don't care about you. They only care about what they want for themselves. Cut your ties with them and be happy, you deserve it.
"Nope. I'm not changing his diapers for him anymore. He's a fully capable grown up now. It's time for him to act like it. It's not my job to raise him. That was YOUR job"
Pixie believed that she didn`t have the means to achieve anything in life. She would have if she had returned to school after her first marriage, or even the second marriage, broke down. OP had worked for years with the objective of home ownership. She had a goal in mind and took the necessary steps to reach it. She saved money and lived frugally. However, Pixie played the victim. Returned to mommy while still expecting the best of everything. OP deserved to buy her own home and refuse to have her sister stay with her. She would never be able to shift Pixie. While it wasn`t stated, there is an old phrase that applies: You don`t have to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
Omg, sister didnt even get a GED.. She refuses to even work: shes sitting around waiting for the next husband to come along to save her.. You honestly need to go NC with with your mother.. Im not one bit surprized mom tried to force you to take in sister and support her.. Also, Sarah told you about the living situation hoping youd let them move in with you.. I cant blame her, she was looking out for her own mother..
Pixie is the golden child and the mother wants the OP to be as miserable. It would be foolish to keep those people in her life. OP should not have bought a house in that state. She should have moved far away from her mother and sister. OP is in an abusive relationship and needs therapy.
Pixie critiquing the food Martha prepares, while also having friends over and making Martha clean up after her is like another level of shameful arrogance. HOLD UP OP's sister is 36!?
No wonder she's twice divorced, she's a giant baby. Too bad her parents failed to raise her, but it's not ops job to keep changing her OLDER and capable sisters diapers for her.
Ops sisters life isn’t their problem. It’s not fair of the mother to hold Op back because the sisters life isn’t going well. If they can’t handle that too bad.
Tell me there's a golden child without telling me there's a golden child, and it's not me don't give a key and get cameras them dragging you down will happen. Time to go low contact congratulations
YOU DEFINITELY UNDERSTAND ! MOTHER &. SISTER HAS ALWAYS HATED YOU ! ALWAYS TOGETHER PLOTTING WAYS TO CREATE !! FAKE FINANCIAL EMERGENCIES ! LAUGHING AT FACT ! KNOWING THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO PAY 💰. THEM 2. PRETEND TO LOVE 💕 YOU. KNOWING IN YOUR HEART ❤️ OF HEARTS 💕. THEY BOTH WILL NEVER EVER LOVE 💗 YOU ! BUT WILL PRETEND IF YOU ARE PAYING THEM TO PRETEND ! LAUGHING DAILY
I wouldn’t even give it a second thought. We cannot control what our siblings do and if our parents want to be enablers that’s their own personal problem. Your bag your choice. We all get the same 24 hrs a day
Mom and sister are cruel. The didn't acknowledge the birthday or invite to Thanksgiving. I wouldn't let her move in either. Their issues are not your issues. Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
OP has everything, including a sense of responsibility, a work ethic, a life plan and common sense. Pixie needs to get off her butt and manage her own life.
You see, as an American I can understand why some of us can’t believe these stories but I have travelled and studied other cultures to understand some of these weird stories.
Well, well, well ! From the title and comments alone the blood boiling machine went to max. Just a point below maximum heart rate, in the range for strengthening stress relief. Consensus that mom is in the business of hurting someone else. Plain, simple, conclusive, and perhaps with no remorse. Without subjecting myself and wasting precious time and energy, my practice, staying alert without registering barbaric cruelty, can continue to keep my emotional balance and repair the daily damage of modern life. Absolutely certain I am not the only one. A pleasure to acknowledge each and every comment
So Pixie is at rock bottom and is still demanding start treatment and protection? That’s narcissism to the nth degree. Good for mom for finally waking up to the behavior and taking a stand. Once everyone is finally sick of her, maybe Pixie will realize the error of her ways. Maybe. Some ppl never change even when they’re at their lowest possible point.
I get it, trust me. But, here's the kicker. You've kicked ass in working and saving hard, with your mom busy with your sister, you had a plan and you got that house because you were driven. Your mom can't say that about your sister, no one can. She's chosen a different path, just tell them. We've all found the path we took, i took one and sister you took another path. Either go back to school and get a better job, or play the victim and way in your misery your choice
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What OP should have said to their mother is, "Look, Pixie is f*cking up and and you are letting her drag you down with her. I'm not going to have her drag me down as well."
I completely agree with you on this
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The mother is an enabler and spineless human being.
Your mother is the reason why your sister is the way she is. They don't care about you. They only care about what they want for themselves. Cut your ties with them and be happy, you deserve it.
OP should say: "I'm not going to light myself on fire to keep you and my sister warm."
MOTHER WAS MAD. THAT THEY DIDNT GET TO. TRICK YOUR MONEY 💴. FROM YOU ! NOTHING TO DO WITH SISTER BEING SAD
My mom said the same thing about my brother...I just said " no, I'm not raising my brother"
You were ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!
"Nope. I'm not changing his diapers for him anymore. He's a fully capable grown up now. It's time for him to act like it. It's not my job to raise him. That was YOUR job"
Damn right
'Eventually it came sooner than I expected' 😂😂
Pixie believed that she didn`t have the means to achieve anything in life. She would have if she had returned to school after her first marriage, or even the second marriage, broke down. OP had worked for years with the objective of home ownership. She had a goal in mind and took the necessary steps to reach it. She saved money and lived frugally. However, Pixie played the victim. Returned to mommy while still expecting the best of everything. OP deserved to buy her own home and refuse to have her sister stay with her. She would never be able to shift Pixie. While it wasn`t stated, there is an old phrase that applies: You don`t have to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
Let them in and they'll drag you down with them. NC definitely necessary!
Do it for dan
I was looking for your comment
Your mother behaviour was pi$$ing me off. And your sister doesn't deserve any help. You made the best choice ❤
Omg, sister didnt even get a GED.. She refuses to even work: shes sitting around waiting for the next husband to come along to save her.. You honestly need to go NC with with your mother.. Im not one bit surprized mom tried to force you to take in sister and support her.. Also, Sarah told you about the living situation hoping youd let them move in with you.. I cant blame her, she was looking out for her own mother..
"Nope. It's not my job to raise your grown baby. That was YOUR job"
Pixie is the golden child and the mother wants the OP to be as miserable. It would be foolish to keep those people in her life. OP should not have bought a house in that state. She should have moved far away from her mother and sister. OP is in an abusive relationship and needs therapy.
Your sister is a child inside a person who depends on othera all the time she deserves what happend to her. You did great wish you a happy life
Pixie critiquing the food Martha prepares, while also having friends over and making Martha clean up after her is like another level of shameful arrogance. HOLD UP OP's sister is 36!?
No wonder she's twice divorced, she's a giant baby. Too bad her parents failed to raise her, but it's not ops job to keep changing her OLDER and capable sisters diapers for her.
Ops sisters life isn’t their problem. It’s not fair of the mother to hold Op back because the sisters life isn’t going well. If they can’t handle that too bad.
I don’t know this person but I feel extremely proud of her!
Tell me there's a golden child without telling me there's a golden child, and it's not me don't give a key and get cameras them dragging you down will happen. Time to go low contact congratulations
YOU DEFINITELY UNDERSTAND ! MOTHER &. SISTER HAS ALWAYS HATED YOU ! ALWAYS TOGETHER PLOTTING WAYS TO CREATE !! FAKE FINANCIAL EMERGENCIES ! LAUGHING AT FACT ! KNOWING THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO PAY 💰. THEM 2. PRETEND TO LOVE 💕 YOU. KNOWING IN YOUR HEART ❤️ OF HEARTS 💕. THEY BOTH WILL NEVER EVER LOVE 💗 YOU ! BUT WILL PRETEND IF YOU ARE PAYING THEM TO PRETEND ! LAUGHING DAILY
First mistake was telling the mom.
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I wouldn’t even give it a second thought. We cannot control what our siblings do and if our parents want to be enablers that’s their own personal problem. Your bag your choice. We all get the same 24 hrs a day
Mom and sister are cruel. The didn't acknowledge the birthday or invite to Thanksgiving. I wouldn't let her move in either. Their issues are not your issues. Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
OP has everything, including a sense of responsibility, a work ethic, a life plan and common sense. Pixie needs to get off her butt and manage her own life.
Tell her you are not her mom
You see, as an American I can understand why some of us can’t believe these stories but I have travelled and studied other cultures to understand some of these weird stories.
Well, well, well ! From the title and comments alone the blood boiling machine went to max. Just a point below maximum heart rate, in the range for strengthening stress relief. Consensus that mom is in the business of hurting someone else. Plain, simple, conclusive, and perhaps with no remorse. Without subjecting myself and wasting precious time and energy, my practice, staying alert without registering barbaric cruelty, can continue to keep my emotional balance and repair the daily damage of modern life. Absolutely certain I am not the only one. A pleasure to acknowledge each and every comment
DAD ABOUT BIRTHDAY 🎂 ? REALLY ? WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME EITHER THEM. CELEBRATE YOUR BIRTHDAY 🎂 ?? PROBABLY NEVER EVER ! RIGHT ? RIGHT ? RIGHT ?
So Pixie is at rock bottom and is still demanding start treatment and protection? That’s narcissism to the nth degree. Good for mom for finally waking up to the behavior and taking a stand. Once everyone is finally sick of her, maybe Pixie will realize the error of her ways. Maybe. Some ppl never change even when they’re at their lowest possible point.
Get your house and live your life. I wouldn't be telling my sister or mother anything about my life.
Good for you. I know it was hard. 👏🏽
Sister is a spoiled lazy brat. If that sister moved in she'd never leave. Good on OP for standing firm.
No wonder pixie is twice divorced. She doesn't even clean up after herself. I know better behaved children!
Wow your mom is toxic. Buy ur house and DONT tell them where you live. Invest in videos for your property too.
Keep Your Business to Yourself!
I get it, trust me. But, here's the kicker. You've kicked ass in working and saving hard, with your mom busy with your sister, you had a plan and you got that house because you were driven. Your mom can't say that about your sister, no one can. She's chosen a different path, just tell them. We've all found the path we took, i took one and sister you took another path. Either go back to school and get a better job, or play the victim and way in your misery your choice
The enlistment of “family”
This sounds very much like they are in the Philippines.
Your sister isn’t your dad’s child is my guess I imagine that’s why he left . That’s why she treats you different .
How did they find OP's place from just the one post?
Pixie lol
No don't let her move in.
Toxic family
Keep Your Business to Yourself!