Viv here! 1) so happy to see Miles rockin my shirt!! 2) yes i am a lesbian, miles assumed right 3) i’d be honoured to make more lesbian shirts and/or puppets for any TryGuys or crew! 🧡🤍🩷
Great idea! I felt Rainie pain. It’s a shitty feeling when you don’t get invited but you have to be “ok” with it. And then Zack talks about the party in front of her? Yes, she needs her revenge lol
@@brittneyraecreative8720One time he asked rainee "and why weren't you there?" and she goes "..well i wasn't invited" and miles said "and you're making her say that" He's so dam rude
@@wompwomp90 yeah I understand his memory isn't the best but come on man. This is pretty basic. Either invite her or stfu about it, no need to embarrass her and make her feel bad on a podcast with a huge audience.
Miles " all my friends in college were lesbians" Keith " are they now?" Miles "what lesbians?" Me: well actually i was thinking are you still friends with them 😂
16:14 feel free to fact check me on this, but when you get the wind knocked out of you, your diaphragm spasms, which prevents you from being able to breathe in, which is why you can’t catch your breath right away
damn. was anyone else thrown off by how incredibly rude zach was in this episode?? like what do you mean you threw a party where only some people from work were invited, and then not only talk about it in front of them, but sit there giggling about who did and didn’t make the cut. sorry you had to sit through that rainie!
Buying someone a gift (especially as big and personal as a house) and then gaslighting them when she wasn't happy is insane. She absolutely should be a part of such an important decision like that. It's so manipulative. 🚩🚩
If I were her, I would've been LIVID that my fiancee had changed the plan we previously agreed on without talking to me *and* made a purchase as big as a house, again without talking to me. That's a huge red flag, and I would seriously reconsider marrying him.
Especially because it sounded like they hadn't necessarily talked in detail about what they both wanted because it was going to be when they start a family. I have soooo many specific thoughts about like window placement, laundry room set up, etc and to just think he knows her wants perfectly is crazy
My bisexual self always wanting Zachs outfits and also having a suitcase if puppets I was obsessed with. 🤣 Literally feeling attacked and didn't even realise it's all connected.
17:45 To be fair, toddler under approx 27 months don't understand negation. They'll often interpret negative sentences positively. So instead of don't do that-let's do this works better 😊
Is it just me or is there a running theme of Zach talking about parties that Rainie wasn’t invited to. I hope Zach isn’t actually a mean or bad guy, but nowadays who knows what actually happens off screen…
I think the "success" stats around moving in together is more likely because ppl who choose not to move in together before marriage have more "traditional" values around marriage and divorce (i.e., theyre more likely to believe living together before marriage and getting divorced are sins and therefore less likely to do it even if they should).
the niece came down when the son & OP were finished with their food. not during the process of making pancakes. thats why shes not the AH. if she was actively making pancakes & said no that would be weird
miles is your cool older brother who lets you smoke weed for the first time and zach is your guy best friend who you gossip with while walking the mile with in pe
I work in real estate - never ever ever buy a joint house without the other person's input unless you've been given explicit permission!! For most people it's the biggest purchase you'll ever make - definitely a 2 yes situation
It sounds like the in law is expecting the pregnant lady to anticipate the needs of all the other people and honestly thats a lot to ask of anybody. When I am on vacation I expect people to advocate for what they need and I will help but it sounds she was already done cooking and then the niece came down. She cant possibly know her nieces sleep schedule or read minds.
Recently my husband rented a house without much input from me. We've been wanting to move to the area for years. But it's hard to find something we liked within our price range. When this place came up he pounced on it without really looking at it. I wasn't too thrilled, but the place is PERFECT. I lucked out this time. Private koi pond and a 10 minute walk from the beach. I get to hear the waves instead of the tweakers on the corner
miles having a strong lesbian fanbase has made sense to me since a trypod a few years ago when his spotify wrapped top artists were the members of boygenius
Wait wait wait.... what are the chances the soup party was connected to the caller on perfect person who was also going to a soup party?! 👀👀👀👀👀 Was there toast?!?!
Lesbians for miles is so true, like I love Zach but miles is the like one guy all lesbians just like!! Been a lesbian for miles since day one and my partner (also a lesbian) agrees! Even just like the comment about moving in w Sarah after 2 months, that's lesbianism right there! (watched on the streamer this mening but had to come comment this)
Just came over here from 2nd try bc i NEEDED to offer my own lesbian input and yeah it's miles all the way 🤭 zach is great but there's only one person i'd create a patreon account for and it's not him lol
If she made the pancakes and already cleaned up… they were finishing their food. They were up SUPER early, why would she cook for everyone? If everyone had been awake, yes, she would have been the asshole. But that early and making a treat for you and your son? Nope. No way.
I feel like the solution to the pancakes was so obvious, why didn’t she make more batter than necessary and then put the rest in the fridge until everyone else woke up? Explain to the little girl that she can have pancakes in a little bit, but to get a snack for right now because she’s feeling sick
For the AITA regarding the drunk and mean sister; the sister is TA and needs to work on her anger issues. Her husband MIGHT be TA - we need to determine if he cares about her 'body count' or that he's been lied to for years, which would actually be somewhat valid. But my main point - Rainie, THANK YOU for saying that sometimes people need to step in. I have a mean/aggressive alcoholic in my family who needs treatment and says the wildest things when they are drinking. For too long we basically ignored it, glossed over it, swept it under the rug. To 'keep the peace'. This... never works. Unfortunately, they attack their sibling even more / that triggers even more vitriol. Honestly my advice in that situation is that it might have to come from someone neutral, and that the best thing that family can do is to stop 'enabling'. Enabling basically just prolongs and worsens the issue. If anyone is going through this - step back. Protect yourself. Support them by providing resources to therapy and treatment, and doing your own therapy and self care. Do not let them move in. Show them to community resources. Do not let them drag you down with them. Protect yourself. ❤
Not a lesbian can’t speak to that but I bet it’s true. But as for Zach, I love soup as well. Over the pandemmy I did a DNA test and found out I’m like eensiest bit Vietnamese and Ashkenazi so I used that as an excuse to teach myself to make beef Pho and Matzoh Ball soup.
Poor Zachy is over here trying to get things out of this mind from driving him crazy and all that comes out is the intrusive thoughts and I get it sooo much hahahha sorry buddy love ya zachyyy
Fake firing is normal, and a good tactic for de-escalating a heated situation. Actually, at one time, getting fake fired was a job. Large stores (like department stores) would bring this person to the floor whenever a customer was angry and wanted someone to face consequences for a perceived wrong against them. The manager would pin the blame on this guy and make a big (fake) show of firing him. The customer would be satisfied and everyone would continue on. However, if the customer realizes they overreacted and changes their mind, the manager shouldn't fire the worker. They should say something like "You better thank this nice customer for letting you keep your job" to the worker. Make it sound like the customer is in control. Add some praise. If you still fake fire the person... that is wrong. You shouldn't make someone think they got a worker fired unless that's what they wanted or you actually fired the worker. It's mean and it could escalate the situation again. There's also issues with fake firing like what happens if the customer returns and sees the worker is still there. So it's better to avoid it if you can, but it's a great de-escalation tool when you can't.
Viv here! 1) so happy to see Miles rockin my shirt!! 2) yes i am a lesbian, miles assumed right 3) i’d be honoured to make more lesbian shirts and/or puppets for any TryGuys or crew! 🧡🤍🩷
i’m obsessed with the shirt omg
Viv you’re an icon
Sincerely, another lesbian
Dude I’m fucking obsessed with that shirt I NEEED IT. -your local Indianapolis lesbian
That shirt is iconic! 🌈 fellow lesbian, love the shirt!
I’m not even a lesbian and I want this shirt lol
Shoutout to my lesbian homies out there
Miles. Zach's soup party sounds suspiciousously like a PP conundy. Care to comment?
Thanks miles
Lesbians for miles fr
thanks king
Plog where Rainie crashes one of the parties that they talk about in front of her but don’t invite her to
PLEASE!!!! that would be amazing
Great idea! I felt Rainie pain. It’s a shitty feeling when you don’t get invited but you have to be “ok” with it. And then Zack talks about the party in front of her? Yes, she needs her revenge lol
@@brittneyraecreative8720One time he asked rainee "and why weren't you there?" and she goes "..well i wasn't invited" and miles said "and you're making her say that"
He's so dam rude
Thank you! I feel bad for Rainie.
@@wompwomp90 yeah I understand his memory isn't the best but come on man. This is pretty basic. Either invite her or stfu about it, no need to embarrass her and make her feel bad on a podcast with a huge audience.
The soup party sounds eerily similar to one of Miles’ calls on Perfect Person 🤔😂
Literally thinking the same thing the whole time
brother we are connecting the fucking dots
That’s exactly what I was thinking
if you guys want any more lore on the mysterious soup party watch laurdiys vlog about it she makes a whole vid about it bc she was there :)
I was just going to comment this!
To be clear, lesbians DO love miles more than zach I fear
they even ask him for advise! the latest episode can confirm 🤣
I'm leaning towards Zach but they're both great.
Saw this before watching the video 😂
it’s bc he is son in law to lesbians
Confirmed Miles preference from this lesbian
CONGRATULATIONS TO MILES AND SARAH FOR BABY #2!!!
Wait whaaaaaat!? This is how I am finding out, congrats Miles & Sarah!!
@ perfect person podcast!!
May i reccomend watching try pod on an airplane cause then when your headphones disconnect everyone can hear about how the lesbians love miles
Solid advice. 👍
Good job spreading the gospel, sister.
I will personally send ya’ll a “Chronically ill gorls for zach” shirt and a “Girls with daddy issues for Keith” shirt to make it even.
Holy s you’re right
PLEASE!
Miles did a whole Perfect Person episode about toast and soup parties… soupception?
as a lesbian- miles is an honorary lesbian
Miles " all my friends in college were lesbians"
Keith " are they now?"
Miles "what lesbians?"
Me: well actually i was thinking are you still friends with them 😂
I love Keith asking the truly meaningful key points to the q, “Which of these two straight, married, white men….” 😂
miles’ entire brand is advice and it’s fantastic
#BisForRainie stand up!
i’m bisexual and miles is my princess
breaking news: a bisexual completely unsurprisingly makes it about themselves
same
Bi Miles Nation rise up! 🙌
🩷 💜 💙
16:14 feel free to fact check me on this, but when you get the wind knocked out of you, your diaphragm spasms, which prevents you from being able to breathe in, which is why you can’t catch your breath right away
damn. was anyone else thrown off by how incredibly rude zach was in this episode?? like what do you mean you threw a party where only some people from work were invited, and then not only talk about it in front of them, but sit there giggling about who did and didn’t make the cut. sorry you had to sit through that rainie!
🎉🎉🎉 my 3 yr old loves Keith & calls him "Habersberger" instead of Keith 😂😂😂😂 it took me 2 yrs to say Habersberger
i can’t stop staring at the MASSIVE bowl of soup zach is consuming
Buying someone a gift (especially as big and personal as a house) and then gaslighting them when she wasn't happy is insane. She absolutely should be a part of such an important decision like that. It's so manipulative. 🚩🚩
If I were her, I would've been LIVID that my fiancee had changed the plan we previously agreed on without talking to me *and* made a purchase as big as a house, again without talking to me. That's a huge red flag, and I would seriously reconsider marrying him.
Especially because it sounded like they hadn't necessarily talked in detail about what they both wanted because it was going to be when they start a family. I have soooo many specific thoughts about like window placement, laundry room set up, etc and to just think he knows her wants perfectly is crazy
@@hiVanderLinden I don't think he cares what she wants. He gets to keep the family home and she looks ungrateful if she complains
My bisexual self always wanting Zachs outfits and also having a suitcase if puppets I was obsessed with. 🤣 Literally feeling attacked and didn't even realise it's all connected.
17:45 To be fair, toddler under approx 27 months don't understand negation. They'll often interpret negative sentences positively. So instead of don't do that-let's do this works better 😊
Yessss. Gotta say what you want them to do. Without saying what you want them not to do. They just hear that
Honestly, I feel like a lot of humans don’t really grow out of that 🤣
I'm so glad you added this but I don't think keith reads these comments :/
@@hiVanderLinden didn't figure he would, but maybe would help out a viewer😊
7:59 my partner walked in on "silence the lesbians" and I was just 😀🫠
Is it just me or is there a running theme of Zach talking about parties that Rainie wasn’t invited to.
I hope Zach isn’t actually a mean or bad guy, but nowadays who knows what actually happens off screen…
YUPPPP
I made a couple comments on this and it seems they were deleted
Rude ass Zach not inviting Rainie. How dare you!
Pancake mother isn't the ass, the HUSBAND who was also awake is
We did that same soup party/contest at my work! We called it the Soup-er Bowl! :D
I think the "success" stats around moving in together is more likely because ppl who choose not to move in together before marriage have more "traditional" values around marriage and divorce (i.e., theyre more likely to believe living together before marriage and getting divorced are sins and therefore less likely to do it even if they should).
You are correct.
the niece came down when the son & OP were finished with their food. not during the process of making pancakes. thats why shes not the AH. if she was actively making pancakes & said no that would be weird
miles is your cool older brother who lets you smoke weed for the first time and zach is your guy best friend who you gossip with while walking the mile with in pe
i can’t believe they hadn’t heard the olive oil girl’s story yet😂
Miles *is* a lesbian and Zach is lesbian *friendly*
I actually think that’s flipped
neither of them are lesbians
I’m so incredibly jealous of Zach’s soup party
I guess I will have to throw one?
the story sounds like that one time Zach locked himself and Bowie out 😂 the plot twist never ends 😅
I DESPERATELY need Miles’ shirt
Story one: her husband should have made more pancakes
This lesbian is for Miles but I do dress more similarly to Zach, I fear.
Miles does have a MASSIVE lesbian/sapphic/queer afab audience! I’m always amazed by how high a percentage we are as callers on Perfect Person 🤣
As a bisexual I like Zach and Miles equally.
It's so on brand of you to not be able to choose between two options.... ❤
@@megandl1415 LMAO true
LESBIANS FOR MILES
I work in real estate - never ever ever buy a joint house without the other person's input unless you've been given explicit permission!! For most people it's the biggest purchase you'll ever make - definitely a 2 yes situation
Also don't cut the cute zach moments with miles I love the physical energy connections hahha
It sounds like the in law is expecting the pregnant lady to anticipate the needs of all the other people and honestly thats a lot to ask of anybody. When I am on vacation I expect people to advocate for what they need and I will help but it sounds she was already done cooking and then the niece came down. She cant possibly know her nieces sleep schedule or read minds.
Recently my husband rented a house without much input from me. We've been wanting to move to the area for years. But it's hard to find something we liked within our price range. When this place came up he pounced on it without really looking at it. I wasn't too thrilled, but the place is PERFECT. I lucked out this time. Private koi pond and a 10 minute walk from the beach. I get to hear the waves instead of the tweakers on the corner
new trypod dropped, new reason to live this week
miles having a strong lesbian fanbase has made sense to me since a trypod a few years ago when his spotify wrapped top artists were the members of boygenius
the vibes today are immaculate. even better than usual
as a lesbian, i do adore miles but dont worry, we love you too zach
i love the trypod. i wait for the trypod. i get excited when new episode drops. BUT STOP INTERRUPTING RAINIE SO MUCH!! especially you, zach!
@@bug.me.with.a.caterpiewtf are you doing calling rainie dumb, are you joking? so mean
lol based on all your hate comments solely centered around her, i think youre secretly inlove with her 🥰😘
Wait wait wait.... what are the chances the soup party was connected to the caller on perfect person who was also going to a soup party?! 👀👀👀👀👀 Was there toast?!?!
Thank you gang for always brightening up our day!
Zach said intrusive thought incoming hahahahhah
Fired on purpose sounds intriguing
ALWAYS love when desiree reps the cuse
Lesbians for miles is so true, like I love Zach but miles is the like one guy all lesbians just like!! Been a lesbian for miles since day one and my partner (also a lesbian) agrees!
Even just like the comment about moving in w Sarah after 2 months, that's lesbianism right there!
(watched on the streamer this mening but had to come comment this)
23:29 miles NO! I had bad burning sickness like that. I would be like nope too sick!
Just came over here from 2nd try bc i NEEDED to offer my own lesbian input and yeah it's miles all the way 🤭 zach is great but there's only one person i'd create a patreon account for and it's not him lol
Just MAKE A FEW EXTRA PANCAKES. In a house full of a bunch of people, just make a pile. People will eat pancakes even cold.
Not everyone likes pancakes. I don't.
OP said their husband doesn’t even like them… why would you assume everyone likes something?
MILES NATION TIL I FUCKIN DIE (and then still miles nation in the afterlife)
Why's Zach so rude to Rainie?
Rainie is right for name-dropping 'The Defining Decade' because that's also where most of my life advice comes from.
soup party!!! sounds like the best thing in the world
A fellow lesbian for Miles 🌈 Can that shirt be a shirt of the month??
If she made the pancakes and already cleaned up… they were finishing their food. They were up SUPER early, why would she cook for everyone? If everyone had been awake, yes, she would have been the asshole. But that early and making a treat for you and your son? Nope. No way.
As a lesbian, I''m team miles lol and i'd love that shirt! Sorry Zach
lesbian here: love zach but team miles all the way
me in san francisco never leaving things in my car for the last 25 years lol
as a lesbian, i have to say i prefer miles' comedy but the try guys shows that zach writes are the best ones
Justice for Rainie, she never gets invited to dinner 😢
oh please do a slumber party plog like do sleepover games & such (shoutout Jenna & Juliens podcast)
My friend group just had a soup party and it was pretty awesome!
Did miles work at a coffee shop??? 😂
zach i’m so sorry but i think the lesbians are really for miles
" I did think when you found out you wouldn't love it" umm okay Zach yet you're telling the story on purpose
He's such an azzwhole
I feel like the solution to the pancakes was so obvious, why didn’t she make more batter than necessary and then put the rest in the fridge until everyone else woke up? Explain to the little girl that she can have pancakes in a little bit, but to get a snack for right now because she’s feeling sick
Was the Perfect Person call about someone going to a soup themed party about Zach’s party? How many people are out here throwing soup parties?
Watching this on the eve of my soup party
Bi girl here! Team miles unfortunately. Sorry corndiddy!
Eyeeeee might cancel zach if he doesnt start inviting rainie
Make the unfuck movie with Kelsey as the main character
taking notes 📝
For the AITA regarding the drunk and mean sister; the sister is TA and needs to work on her anger issues. Her husband MIGHT be TA - we need to determine if he cares about her 'body count' or that he's been lied to for years, which would actually be somewhat valid.
But my main point - Rainie, THANK YOU for saying that sometimes people need to step in. I have a mean/aggressive alcoholic in my family who needs treatment and says the wildest things when they are drinking. For too long we basically ignored it, glossed over it, swept it under the rug. To 'keep the peace'. This... never works.
Unfortunately, they attack their sibling even more / that triggers even more vitriol.
Honestly my advice in that situation is that it might have to come from someone neutral, and that the best thing that family can do is to stop 'enabling'. Enabling basically just prolongs and worsens the issue.
If anyone is going through this - step back. Protect yourself. Support them by providing resources to therapy and treatment, and doing your own therapy and self care.
Do not let them move in. Show them to community resources. Do not let them drag you down with them. Protect yourself. ❤
I honestly want to hear about the soup party
miles may have won the lesbian vote but I’m a proud Zach bisexual
Miles is right, Jim was a sociopath
gooooooood morning release Tri’s!
8:03 my fiancee and I (lesbians) eating dinner and watching this part lmfao lesbians love the pod
GAYS FOR KEITH!
As a Jew, I love Zach. As a bi woman, I would die for Miles
what bodies do count
Keith needs to narrate books
Not a lesbian can’t speak to that but I bet it’s true.
But as for Zach, I love soup as well. Over the pandemmy I did a DNA test and found out I’m like eensiest bit Vietnamese and Ashkenazi so I used that as an excuse to teach myself to make beef Pho and Matzoh Ball soup.
Poor Zachy is over here trying to get things out of this mind from driving him crazy and all that comes out is the intrusive thoughts and I get it sooo much hahahha sorry buddy love ya zachyyy
He's a full grown adult male....he SHOULD know how to listen to others
Miles is more for the lesbians
oop i got a hundred bodies and the guys being so perplexed by that number was so funny to me
As a lesbian my vote is for Miles… perfect person pod just has such a lesbian fan base! Also love Zac who was my favourite Try Guy… until Miles 👀
why isnt this episode on spotify?
Its on Spotify now.
lesbian here: i fear zach reminds me too much of myself and therefore i like miles more. sorry zach
Fake firing is normal, and a good tactic for de-escalating a heated situation. Actually, at one time, getting fake fired was a job. Large stores (like department stores) would bring this person to the floor whenever a customer was angry and wanted someone to face consequences for a perceived wrong against them. The manager would pin the blame on this guy and make a big (fake) show of firing him. The customer would be satisfied and everyone would continue on.
However, if the customer realizes they overreacted and changes their mind, the manager shouldn't fire the worker. They should say something like "You better thank this nice customer for letting you keep your job" to the worker. Make it sound like the customer is in control. Add some praise. If you still fake fire the person... that is wrong. You shouldn't make someone think they got a worker fired unless that's what they wanted or you actually fired the worker. It's mean and it could escalate the situation again. There's also issues with fake firing like what happens if the customer returns and sees the worker is still there. So it's better to avoid it if you can, but it's a great de-escalation tool when you can't.
Im bi, so technically not a lesbian, but TEAM MILES.