I'm also dedicating to my wonderful wife, Peggy Lynn whom lost her battle with cancer back in June of 2020, she was my life, my queen..... everything I lived for..... I miss you badly my love.
My wife of over 36years passed away over 19 months ago. I thought the day she passed was the worst day of my life,I was so wrong the days, weeks, months got worse. Now after a year and a half I still find myself waiting for her to call or walk through the door. I see her beautiful face in my dreams and in pictures but around the 1 year mark I charged her phone to look at some more pictures and found videos and heard her voice for the first time in a long time and it broke me big time. She suffered a massive stroke in her sleep and when she awoke she tried to stand and fell. I call 911 and while I waited for them she said the last words she ever spoke on this earth, she said Terry I love you,I love you so much then she went unconscious. She passed 3 day later in ICU. I will never get over you my Debbie
:( I have so many words but yet no words to relieve the pain of losing your "breath", because I can feel the pain.....Harvey, I believe in God and she is whole happy and waiting and when that dreams comes when you see her at her healthy and the most radiant and beautiful she has ever been and smiles at you know she is now only waiting - Blessings.
So sorry to hear this pain you are going through. There is nothing anyone can say. Asking you "how are you doing?" doesn't help because how are you supposed to answer? My best friend's son passed at 23 and there is nothing I can say to ease that pain. I can only be his friend and be there when he needs me. I hope you have people in your life that can do the same for you.
You're absolutely right, although it took me two years to be ok with the idea of dating again. I simply wasn't ready, until now not because I was depressed but simply I wanted to give myself the space to focus on myself growth. I never wish my Ex anything bad, but simply to find his happiness in whatever way it is for him, and I my own happiness.
You're absolutely right!! My ex and I were together for 6 years and those were the best but worst 6 years of my life and she truly is my soulmate... We were made for each other and our break up was so unbelievably bittersweet cuz I wanted to be with her til death do us part and at the same time I just wanted her to disappear because I couldn't take the pain anymore!!! Unfortunately she just could not leave her past in the past and let herself be happy like everyone deserves to be and the worst part is that heroin was more important to her than me and our relationship!!! 😞 I will never, ever understand how someone can tell you that ur the love of their life and have never been treated so good and everything along those lines, but at the same time, they just can't stop all communication with all the assholes from the past that treated them like pure dog shit!!! One of the biggest things that made me love her soo much, waa that from the day we met, she always made me feel so comfortable with myself!! That was ori less to me and meant the world to me cuz every one of my exes had tore me down and drained me o every drop of self confidence I had in me, so for a total stranger to come into my life and make me feel good about myself so fast, was amazing and I never wanted to lose that and don't know if I will ever find it again...it seems like every song always seems perfect, but this song is 1000% perfect for how I feel!!! It's been 2.5 years since we broke up, but it still feels like yesterday, it still hurts so bad and I feel like most of me died... When I told her she had my ❤️, I seriously meant if she needed a heart transplant, without question she could have mine.....
It's amazing to me that they're able to sing to each other, when they went through a real-life break up after 10 years together. And these lyrics are so true. And so raw. They're practically singing out their own heartbreak. Beautiful yet so sad.
This is the first time I’ve ever seen these artists. I was watching thinking wow they are really amazing and singing with feelings. It’s almost like they’re really feeling these feelings toward each other. Then I read the comment section and read they were a real couple, and I was like oh wow, this is brilliant. You usually don’t see artists do real breakup songs together probably because the pain is too real and raw. This is the beauty of genuine heartbreak molded into a masterpiece.
@Tim Tyler yeah me too 😆😂🤣😜 Then I'll have to sober up, she gives me a reason to drink...drowns the whiskey. Before she left she said "I wish that bottle was a woman...least I'd have a Fighting chance."!
I am so sorry for your loss. My husband passed away in 2017 and I feel the same way. So, very painful to not have them in our lives. Prayers to you and your family.
She will always be with you, but you must look for her in the daily life of this journey you are on. Find a way to take joy in doing the things she enjoyed. I lost my mom when I was 16. I find joy in cooking delicious food for my family, and seeing her artistic talent in my kids- one owns a beautiful tattoo studio in Sacramento. ♥️
I can relate I have been in a relationship for 10 months and then she broke up with me but she never said why it sucks it was basically a one sided relationship and it was me putting in all the effort just to get my heart broken 💔
@@thelordkonnerpokemonmaster6344 Hey man, I feel your pain. That's how my last marriage was. I gave her 100% of my time and devotion, just to end with her cheating on me. All the while she was constantly accusing me of cheating. But hey, you deserve better. You can do better. You will find a girl that appreciates you for who you are and will give you all the love in return. Hang in there brother.
That's what hurts to most because he decided to make a decision about our future based off of what he was going through. Now he is in prison, my bonus daughters(his girls) are living with his mom, and I am being put as a foster of the girls in case something happens to her...Makes me so angry because he made a decision of what would be better for him when in the end I am still being pulled back in for my bonus girls when it shouldn't have ever gotten to this. Yeah he would be doing his time, and I would be raising kids while him mom was being a grandma but instead she is being a mom again and I am here preparing for the what ifs... Makes me cry with so many emotions, I wish I could just shake him right now
To everyone who lost a loved one you know the deep pain. People say it will get better in time but it never does. Your left with a deep wound that never seems to heal.
@@icc2010 Justin & Colbie announced their breakup and then few months later the band disbanded. I can only imagine how tough this would be to performed over and over with your ex on live stage or tv appearances. 😔
This is not just about break ups. To me it's about me n my husband discussing our love during his final days before going home to heaven🤗 I always reassured him I'd be ok and he could go home n let go after 7 years of a long battle🥰
I don't know if this had been said... There are so many wonderful comments! I think of my children.... I have adolescents and young adults... They are totally stretching their independent wings. There is a point when a parent realizes that their child now has people more important than family. It makes sense to me ... I'm never getting over them! I'll always be Momma! Grace and peace in Jesus.
This is probably THE most beautiful and tender love song I have ever heard. The idea that you can love someone so much that you can let them go and know that you will never get over them, but still be ok because it's the BEST thing to do... just makes me break down in tears. Just beautiful.
@@robincaudill6497 Robin, sometimes life is raw and can feel unfair, but hold to the hope you have. Try to forget and forgive the jerk that left. Those two kids are depending on you. YOU are everything to them. It is incredible what love can do to make up for the differences in your life. Don't give up!!! I am pulling for you!!! Mitch ❤
Love is beyond a beautiful feeling and experience. However sometimes in life things happen that prevent people from being together. And sometimes just knowing that they are ok helps. Sometimes life happens and you need to learn different ways. Or learn that you need something that cant be offered. Love and life its self are beautiful in so many different ways. To have loved is better to have never loved. Some people never find someone they love deeply in so many ways.
I don't know how they can sing this to each other without breaking down....I see the pain in his face when he looks at her and she's looking at him trying to convince him to be strong and that he will find someone who will love him the way he needs to be loved. Ahhh....the words are so emotional.
To you: if you ever come across this... Remember the last time I saw you after I left your apartment? We gave each other one last hug and one kiss goodbye on the cheek. As I walked down to my car, I turned around, looked up at your window and saw your shadow behind the blinds, watching me leave. You immediately turned away, pretending you didn't care about us anymore, but I knew you were hurting as much as I was that night. You were watching me leave as I turned around to look at you one last time. I won't ever forget that same night, you told me, "I love you, but sometimes love is not enough to keep two people together." Even if I'm not with you, I always feel you everywhere I go. To every corner of the world I've traveled, I wish you'd be standing alongside me. And just like this song, I'm never getting over you. Even if I were to marry someone else, I'll always be thinking of you. And I know you will too.
I lost my dad 2 years ago. I'm 42, and this song found me. I had never heard it before and it just popped up and helped me heal. I still have so many regrets
Damn, I have no doubt Colbie is hurting, but you not only see BUT FEEL Justin's RAW PAIN. I feel like I am watching something I know I should NOT BE WATCHING, like when you sneak a peek into someone's diary that they accidentally left out unguarded. I'm sad that Gone West disbanded before they really even got started and their career started really gaining traction, but I am happy they existed. This song and "What Could've Been" will always remain my favorites from you guys. I can't wait to see what the four of you do next individually.
The pain and the emotion is palpable isn’t it..... so incredibly sad.... I do not know how they did it. I do not think I could.... Justin seemed to be hurting more than Colbie. It was etched all over his face.... I think this song now takes the mantle from, Abbas, “The Winner Takes It All”, as being the most heartbreaking breakup song of all time..... 😭😭😭
me as well I so agree! I can see he is holding back tears and keeps swallowing as she is singing this to him. I am breaking and crying just watching this struggle.
You are so wrong; they are faking through these emotions. These stars are people who never care what other people feel; people are disposable to them. They throw everyone and everything away, and only sing what other people wrote
His voice when he first starts singing touched my soul. My wife left 2 years ago. It still feels like it was today. God bless those with broken hearts.
There is someone from my teenage years I think of when I hear this, I still miss him dearly and I’m nearly 30. Both moved on and have families but he still holds a place in my heart ❤️
I have that spacial person from my teenage years so deep in my heart and this song makes me miss him so much🥺 but yeah its life we both have our own family's now
It's been 3 years. I still think of her from time to time. She still shows up in my dreams. The pain isn't as sharp, but the regret is still haunting. Love is wonderful and its painful
Oh, Justin's pain is so palpable as he sings! He just radiates longing and regret 😢 It's obvious that he is barely holding on to his composure as he looks at Colbie. Especially at the end of the song when he looks directly at her and sings, "I'm never getting over you"
@@MIKECNW They were in a very long relationship and engaged to be married, but they broke up not too long before they recorded this song. I read that she was the one who broke up with him
You know what I've realized? There will come a time that you'll gonna love people, all their hopes and everything about them. You miss them eventually, as you part ways, or didn't receive any messages from them for days. But you let them, because they have a life to live. Always remember you are just a part of their days and maybe just a numbered days but be grateful for having a privilege to be touch by their lives. And the best way to do filling your longings is to pray for them. That's the best thing we can do to those people we love.
Oh, so true. 4 years now and I still hurt from my last and first love, even though I'm remarried. I'll never forget that love but I know I can only hold it as a memory.
Some of the best vocals I have heard in a long time. As a palliative care nurse this song has so much meaning. Hears to all the ones who have gone home before us. Jesus take care of them, take care of us.
Only those who have ever loved and lost truly do understand these songs 🎵 💔. You might move on, regardless, some people will leave an indelible mark in your heart
Absolutely 100% correct , we might move forward , but we occasionally look back at what was once there , a time,a place , a song can bring back memories of a love that was fresh , new & strong , in the end we ask , have we really moved on …🖤…🤍….🖤
I don't know the drama story that broke this band up, but damn bro.. I can legit see the pain in your eyes. Thank you for turning the hurt and pain into something beautiful.
After decade together even her ❤️ wasn't in it for all right reasons. The band was really good too. She's also under rated singer. The music industry really doesn't give her music or her The respect she deserves.
With some of the other songs the band sung, and some previous songs they had before teaming up with Jason & Nelly, sounds like they might of had issues for a long time.
I doubt this song has anything to do with the pandemic, but moreso their relationship. They were together for 10 years and called off their engagement months ago, and just recently announced they were breaking up. This is literally a song about themselves.
Я хочу, чтобы конец был легче, чем начало Ты был обнадеживающим сердцем, которое я разбил вдребезги Я хочу попрощаться и исчезнуть Не хочу смотреть, если ты плачешь Не пытайся заставить меня остаться "Потому что я не собираюсь передумать Внимательно посмотри на боль в моем лице, прежде чем ты уйдешь Запомни всю боль в моих глазах, а не то, что я говорю Я дам тебе то, что ты хотел Хотя мое сердце никогда не остановится Скажу вам, что я в порядке, хотя я не Ты будешь знать до конца своей жизни Это правда, я никогда не справлюсь с тобой Я никогда не одолею тебя Мы будем двигаться дальше, и вы найдете кого-то нового Со всем, что я никогда не смогу быть для тебя Трудно слышать, но время - лучший друг разбитого сердца и тебя ждет утро Мы не знаем, что могло быть Что могло быть Источник teksty-pesenok.ru Внимательно посмотри на боль в моем лице, прежде чем ты уйдешь Запомни всю боль в моих глазах, а не то, что я говорю Я дам тебе то, что ты хотел Хотя мое сердце никогда не остановится Скажу вам, что я в порядке, хотя я не Ты будешь знать до конца своей жизни Это правда, я никогда не справлюсь с тобой Я никогда не одолею тебя Я не могу помешать тебе уйти и ты не можешь помешать мне любить тебя Так что внимательно посмотрите на боль ", прежде чем уйти Запомни все это больно, а не то, что я говорю Я дам тебе то, что ты хотел Хотя мое сердце никогда не остановится Скажу вам, что я в порядке, хотя я не Ты будешь знать до конца своей жизни Это правда, я никогда не справлюсь с тобой Я никогда не одолею тебя Я никогда не одолею тебя Я никогда не одолею тебя
Justin's throat swallowing at a 1 min. 42 sec. gets me every time. The raw emotion from these two makes you feel like you shouldn't be watching this unfold. This is heartbreakingly amazing music.
I've always had the feeling that Colbie was the one more intent on ending the relationship. He's since recorded new songs and many of them are probably about their relationship.
I hate that they aren't together anymore. It just breaks my heart and this song just kills me in it's honesty and the harmonies are everything. I love, love this band.
If you followed them on IG this past year, it seemed obvious something was going on. The beautiful artistry is real...I'm not sure I want to keep watching what seems so personal.
I want the end to be easier than the start You were a hopeful heart that I shattered apart I wanna say goodbye and disappear, mm-mm Don't wanna watch if you break down into tears Don't try to make me stay 'Cause I ain't gonna change my mind Take a good look at the pain in my face 'fore you walk away Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say I'm gonna give you what you wanted Though my heart will never stop Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you We'll move on and you'll find somebody new With everything I could never be for you, mm-mm It's hard to hear, but time is a broken heart's best friend, uh-uh And there's a morning waitin' for you We don't know what could've been What could've been Take a good look at the pain in my face 'fore you walk away Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say I'm gonna give you what you wanted Though my heart will never stop Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you I can't stop you from leavin' And you can't stop me from lovin' you So take a good look at the pain 'fore you walk away Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say I'm gonna give you what you wanted Though my heart will never stop Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you
I can’t believe these two are no longer together when they make such amazing music together! I’m never get over Justin and colbie breaking up! Such an amazing, deep and intimate song they have written
@@projectsixx2184 They say they're best friends but the fact they decided to leave the group makes me think they probably won't be associating with each other anymore. I maybe wrong but it sounds like it.
I don’t know about that. It’s been 10 years since i left my 1st love. I’m married have 2 kids great career healthy family love my wife more then words can explain but I will never stop missing her
I accidentally stumbled on this when I was looking for a different song and WOW, just WOW! This hits deep and true! I believe that anyone who has ever loved someone very deeply will understand this song and feel it.
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How are you doing today Matt Anderson? It's really nice having you on here...I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many Levels. Trust, Communication, Loving, God fearing, Honoring, Understanding, Patience and Respecting Your Partner. So crucial to provide balance.
I dedicate this to the woman I hurt, she was supposed to be my wife and I was always the one at fault. We have a 3 year old daughter that thinks the world of me. I’m at my lowest and seeing her smile is so bittersweet. Fellas treat your ladies with all the love you can possibly give, even if there is a chance that you’d get hurt... it doesn’t matter just love that person like no other. Think before you speak, and just listen to your partner. Show her/him you are here because that’s all they ever wanted. Winnah I love you. I’m sorry 😞
God heals relationships, marriages, families and our hearts. Jesus has every good moral to follow in His word. He is the life and the way. With him anything can be restored. Bless you.
Seeing the pain in Justin & Colbie's eyes while singing this song is just heartbreaking. Kudos to Gone West for creating this video despite what is happening internally. Thank you for your music.
They will always love eachother .. like I love my ex of 21 years .. maybe not "in" love but when you do love someone regardless if you or they are bad for you or them .. you will let go and let them be happy ..thats TRUE love
It's true you never get over that one person you truly love. Even as many years have passed the pain is still there. You learn to live with. When I finally saw him years later I realized I no longer loved the person in front of me. I was stuck in the past of the guy I loved back then. All I remember from that time is the deep pain I suffered. He is no longer the guy I fell in love with. I understand why our break up had to be.
I had the same experience. I met my ex-bf after years and remembered all those past memories when I loved so quickly and bravely and purely. He was someone I did truly love but now when I see him it reminds that it was best we parted and my present boyfriend is a thousand times better.
We all got that one person we will never heal from. And this song just hit me hard. I’ve listened to it 5 times in a row and fighting back the tears hard. But as soon as I’m alone, they’ll flow like a river.
I so agree we all have that one that we lived so much and thought we would end up with but sometimes god gives u someone else I reached out to him and now we are friends he respects my marriage it’s hard not to wonder what it would have been like I dated mine from 6 grade until he left for the army he came back and I had my first son with a jerk and I think it scared him but we are bestfriends to this day!!!
I agree! and on his parts, you can tell he really feels exactly what he's singing! I give him props for being able to performing this song while his heart is literally breaking.
1:38 that look breaks my heart. Well written, heartful song. I hope one day we can both listen to this song, accept what happened, and can go on with our separate lives. It's true we can't unlove someone. I still miss you, everyday.
Felt this... "I can't stop you from leaving, and you can't stop me from loving you..." Tao never got to see the hurt on my face because he ended everything on the phone. However, he had his reasons and only wanted to protect me. He will always have a place in my heart. 💜🦋 I wish him all the best even if I'm not the one by his side.
Omg.. after 11 years of loving they broke up and I cried looking at Justin's face. A beautiful Hawaiian country.. he never saw this coming ,Colbie called it. God I'm crying 😢 here and how the hell can they even look at each other without crying???😪
"We'll move on and you'll find somebody new with everything I could never be for you"......Interesting choice of words. Ten years is a long time to invest in a relationship, but that verse....it hits different. Sometimes relationships don't work because of unmet expectations. Sometimes they don't work because of unrealistic expectations. When you love someone so much, you put their happiness above your own. I don't know their story. I just know my heart hurts for these two incredibly gifted people. Relationships can be over before divorce papers are signed, and sometimes the only way to survive is to let go. 🧡😭
@@beccawhitman3931 I'm sorry you're going through this. Draw strength from people who love you best, give yourself time to grieve the loss of what you hoped was your future, and know that you are not alone. I don't know what your future holds, but 2020 has been an unfun year. Better days are coming. Hold your head up, smile, and be your best self. Someone somewhere is praying for YOU to be their fairy tale. 🧡
Lyrics I want the end to be easier than the start You were a hopeful heart that I shattered apart I wanna say goodbye and disappear, mm-mm Don't wanna watch if you break down into tears Don't try to make me stay 'Cause I ain't gonna change my mind Take a good look at the pain in my face 'fore you walk away Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say I'm gonna give you what you wanted Though my heart will never stop Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you We'll move on and you'll find somebody new With everything I could never be for you, mm-mm It's hard to hear, but time is a broken heart's best friend, uh-uh And there's a morning waitin' for you We don't know what could've been What could've been Take a good look at the pain in my face 'fore you walk away Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say I'm gonna give you what you wanted Though my heart will never stop Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you I can't stop you from leavin' And you can't stop me from lovin' you So take a good look at the pain 'fore you walk away Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say I'm gonna give you what you wanted Though my heart will never stop Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you I'm never gettin' over you
So very sorry for your loss. My wife has stage 4 cancer and this song crushes me every time I hear it. “Cant’ stop you from leaving” line just reminds me of the terrible reality of the situation. I wish you the best sir; condolences.
Just heard this song for the first time today and I have listened to it over and over again. I see the pain in his eyes more so than hers, but when I read up about their break up I consistently read she broke up with him, so makes sense. The hardest part to watch is at the very end when he stops singing at 3:38 to the end.
How can artists who can sing this good together just end like that? If mistakes where made fix them. Life is too short. You four have an amazing gift to share with thousands of people.
Right ????? I mean, look at Fleetwood Mac !! If they had disbanded all those decades ago, look at aaaaaaall the music we wouldn’t have today ! I know it’s not easy .. not easy when you’re not only tied professionally but also personally and then you experience the breakup of the personal relationship. But it CAN be done .. with a little maturity, creativity, tenacity, perseverance, and forgiveness ..
This is more than just a song, it's a conversation with each stating their emotional position. Justin pleads by repeating the chorus 3 times, the third time changing it by saying "Memorise all this hurt..." drawing attention to all of his being now in pain, not just his eyes. Colbie wants to move on which is obvious from a lyrical stand point. However, she only utters the 2nd chorus and only half of the 3rd, missing out the critical "hurt" that Justin feels, indicating the readiness to move on without him. "I'm never getting over you" is another way of saying the cliché, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you". This song is an interpretation of that and is emphasised when she omits the last 2 repetitions; not only is she ignoring his words, she's broken eye contact, physically there but emotionally gone.
Yes. I don't see her noticably affected at all. I can feel his pain just watching him. I'm right there with him. I keep reminding myself I need time to heal. The pain does not go away overnight. 😔💔💔
So sad that they disbanded, I was so happy when I discovered their music. True, emotional, and fantastic writing. Great harmonies, their voices blended very well together. All those qualities in one band are not that easy to find. It's hard to watch this video because I see that pain in their eyes just like in those lyrics.
ohmygosh....First song I've heard from these people I did not know about and I found this by accident... but ohmygosh...so pretty, but so emotional....wow...just wow.
Watching this video just breaks my heart. You can see the pain and hurt in Justin's uncomfortable gestures. Even when he swallows you can see that it is hard and he is holding it back. Whatever made them end it must have been a hard choice! The emotions are rare and they will never get over each other!!! Love Gone West!!!!
this is what was written about this recording: Fittingly titled, “I’m Never Getting Over You,” the breakup ballad features a sad realism that’s hard to ignore, as two of the band’s members recently called off their engagement. Wounded lyrics describe the pain of ending something special and the impossible prospect of moving forward, and its video makes the situation clear. Filmed in stark black and white, it puts a pair of former lovers face to face one more time. sooooooooo heart wrenching. You feel every emotion!
Thank you for that explanation. I was reading the comments wondering what everyone was talking about. I was like, it's a song, they are performers, performing....
This got to be the saddest breakup song. I can feel the pain in every word sung. Colbie's line "I want the end to be easier than the start" is the opening of heartshock of every guy. When she is sure that she's not changing her mind and hit on those moving on and finding somebody new lines, I tell you those words are the most painful thing to hear in every relationship about to be torn apart.
I got divorced 6 years ago and I’m still broken inside. I miss my son more than I can explain and as much as I hate how much my wife treated me I still love her to a certain degree and of course miss her. I keep thinking I will wake up one day and be ok but it’s a constant struggle. To whoever reads this and are married, make good choices and fight like hell for your family. Divorce is worse than death.
I cried ... so much and so many times with this song ...playing it over and over again..because this explains how I feel and I know this is how he feels too. . How is love so magical but tragic??
The magical gathering of collective musical talents - Gone West - lived a WAY TOO SHORT LIFE! Together this band was immensely talented and would have produced MUCH more excellent music in the years to come. We all are fortunate to have enjoyed the brief but magical existence of Gone West. Thank you all for blessing us with your collective talents!
Just found this group, and this duet, this song hits hard. One of the best love songs from a duet I have ever heard. God shines through this young man. A Hawaiian verson of JB.
This song completely resonated with my soul. “Time is a broken hearts best friend.” I love and miss him tremendously and how things once were. Heartbreak go away already!!!😥😔💔 🙏🏽Fix it God🙏🏽
I'm also dedicating to my wonderful wife, Peggy Lynn whom lost her battle with cancer back in June of 2020, she was my life, my queen..... everything I lived for..... I miss you badly my love.
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Sorry for your loss,wow now that is true love for someone. 💖
Sorry for your loss... Be strong! Be happy!
Sending you love and light 💜
Sorry brother, stay strong
My wife of over 36years passed away over 19 months ago. I thought the day she passed was the worst day of my life,I was so wrong the days, weeks, months got worse. Now after a year and a half I still find myself waiting for her to call or walk through the door. I see her beautiful face in my dreams and in pictures but around the 1 year mark I charged her phone to look at some more pictures and found videos and heard her voice for the first time in a long time and it broke me big time. She suffered a massive stroke in her sleep and when she awoke she tried to stand and fell. I call 911 and while I waited for them she said the last words she ever spoke on this earth, she said Terry I love you,I love you so much then she went unconscious. She passed 3 day later in ICU. I will never get over you my Debbie
:( I have so many words but yet no words to relieve the pain of losing your "breath", because I can feel the pain.....Harvey, I believe in God and she is whole happy and waiting and when that dreams comes when you see her at her healthy and the most radiant and beautiful she has ever been and smiles at you know she is now only waiting - Blessings.
Висловлюю вам свої співчуття. Сподівіаюсь, що одного разу в кращому світі ви зустрінетесь знову і залишитесь один з одним назавжди.
It's been 5 years 😢 for me..I still miss him
❤❤❤
So sorry to hear this pain you are going through. There is nothing anyone can say. Asking you "how are you doing?" doesn't help because how are you supposed to answer? My best friend's son passed at 23 and there is nothing I can say to ease that pain. I can only be his friend and be there when he needs me. I hope you have people in your life that can do the same for you.
When you’re happy you enjoy the music; when you’re heartbroken you understand the lyrics.
WOW, that was profoundly said
😭😭😭😭😭😭
I am feeling it all too well.💔😔😭
Very well said 👏 👍 👌
Could not have said it better
People come and people go. But there will always be that ONE person who means so much that you never truly get over them.
This one x
I'm living that too much right now...
It;s been 41 years, I still think of her every day.
“I can’t stop you from leaving, and you can’t stop me from loving you...” only people who had their hearts broken real bad will understand this.
Yes amen! So very true
You're absolutely right, although it took me two years to be ok with the idea of dating again. I simply wasn't ready, until now not because I was depressed but simply I wanted to give myself the space to focus on myself growth. I never wish my Ex anything bad, but simply to find his happiness in whatever way it is for him, and I my own happiness.
For real 😔
Dam truth there....
You're absolutely right!! My ex and I were together for 6 years and those were the best but worst 6 years of my life and she truly is my soulmate... We were made for each other and our break up was so unbelievably bittersweet cuz I wanted to be with her til death do us part and at the same time I just wanted her to disappear because I couldn't take the pain anymore!!! Unfortunately she just could not leave her past in the past and let herself be happy like everyone deserves to be and the worst part is that heroin was more important to her than me and our relationship!!! 😞 I will never, ever understand how someone can tell you that ur the love of their life and have never been treated so good and everything along those lines, but at the same time, they just can't stop all communication with all the assholes from the past that treated them like pure dog shit!!! One of the biggest things that made me love her soo much, waa that from the day we met, she always made me feel so comfortable with myself!! That was ori less to me and meant the world to me cuz every one of my exes had tore me down and drained me o every drop of self confidence I had in me, so for a total stranger to come into my life and make me feel good about myself so fast, was amazing and I never wanted to lose that and don't know if I will ever find it again...it seems like every song always seems perfect, but this song is 1000% perfect for how I feel!!! It's been 2.5 years since we broke up, but it still feels like yesterday, it still hurts so bad and I feel like most of me died... When I told her she had my ❤️, I seriously meant if she needed a heart transplant, without question she could have mine.....
It's amazing to me that they're able to sing to each other, when they went through a real-life break up after 10 years together. And these lyrics are so true. And so raw. They're practically singing out their own heartbreak. Beautiful yet so sad.
Yeah and the fact that the guy sings with soo much emotion while looking at her.so sad.
Mature adults that’s why
This is the first time I’ve ever seen these artists. I was watching thinking wow they are really amazing and singing with feelings. It’s almost like they’re really feeling these feelings toward each other. Then I read the comment section and read they were a real couple, and I was like oh wow, this is brilliant. You usually don’t see artists do real breakup songs together probably because the pain is too real and raw. This is the beauty of genuine heartbreak molded into a masterpiece.
Wow I didn't know that ☹️☹️
Wow
For those who need to hear it, feel what you need to feel and then let it go. It will be okay. Maybe not today or tomorrow but eventually.
Chanta Moua of all the comments yours made my eyes tears up and that lump in my throat😪😪😪
Thank you... Sincerely, thank you...
@Tim Tyler yeah me too 😆😂🤣😜
Then I'll have to sober up, she gives me a reason to drink...drowns the whiskey.
Before she left she said "I wish that bottle was a woman...least I'd have a Fighting chance."!
😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖
I just wish I could let it go and move on from this sadness now. I know they say time heals all wounds but just I wish my wounds would heal faster. 😔
This man FELT the words of this song. You can see the pain in his eyes just performing it
I know. I see it too. They made beautiful music together ☮️✌️
Im dedicating this to my wife ..the love of my life ..who passed away less than a year ago ..MIchele Im never getting over you...
Sry for your loss bro. She will watch over you now, from another place, like my grandma do. Maybe they will drink something together :)
🙏😔 So very sorry....💞{{{Hugs}}}💞
I am so sorry for your loss. My husband passed away in 2017 and I feel the same way. So, very painful to not have them in our lives. Prayers to you and your family.
She will always be with you, but you must look for her in the daily life of this journey you are on. Find a way to take joy in doing the things she enjoyed. I lost my mom when I was 16. I find joy in cooking delicious food for my family, and seeing her artistic talent in my kids- one owns a beautiful tattoo studio in Sacramento. ♥️
So sorry to hear that brother. Stay strong and live life to the fullest. It's just a way of life and life if Just.
Anyone who has had their heart broken by someone they truly love knows how emotionally hard this song hits. I'm a grown man in tears right now.
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I can relate I have been in a relationship for 10 months and then she broke up with me but she never said why it sucks it was basically a one sided relationship and it was me putting in all the effort just to get my heart broken 💔
@@thelordkonnerpokemonmaster6344 Hey man, I feel your pain. That's how my last marriage was. I gave her 100% of my time and devotion, just to end with her cheating on me. All the while she was constantly accusing me of cheating. But hey, you deserve better. You can do better. You will find a girl that appreciates you for who you are and will give you all the love in return. Hang in there brother.
Tears help cleanse. I feel your pain. Bless you.
Agree
The first person you think of listening to this song, is the one you'll never get over.
That's what hurts to most because he decided to make a decision about our future based off of what he was going through. Now he is in prison, my bonus daughters(his girls) are living with his mom, and I am being put as a foster of the girls in case something happens to her...Makes me so angry because he made a decision of what would be better for him when in the end I am still being pulled back in for my bonus girls when it shouldn't have ever gotten to this. Yeah he would be doing his time, and I would be raising kids while him mom was being a grandma but instead she is being a mom again and I am here preparing for the what ifs... Makes me cry with so many emotions, I wish I could just shake him right now
Sherry Renee 💔 it's been 15 years, I stumbled upon this song and immediately thought of her. Funny, Sherry looks like her and I look like him. Lol.
Perfectly said and true
To everyone who lost a loved one you know the deep pain. People say it will get better in time but it never does. Your left with a deep wound that never seems to heal.
😢
yes it never does🥲
😭 it never does
I feel this soo much!
True I lost my dad to suicide when I was 14 I'm about to be 34 and damn it hits me a lot every year
I’m convinced if this group would’ve stayed together they would’ve eventually started racking up awards.
dbrano74 I’m hoping they will be awarded some awards for this album. It’s sssooo deserving!
Country album of the year!
Yaaaas! I hope they are still qualified. Canyons album is such a masterpiece!
They broke up?
@@icc2010 Justin & Colbie announced their breakup and then few months later the band disbanded. I can only imagine how tough this would be to performed over and over with your ex on live stage or tv appearances. 😔
This is not just about break ups. To me it's about me n my husband discussing our love during his final days before going home to heaven🤗 I always reassured him I'd be ok and he could go home n let go after 7 years of a long battle🥰
🎼⚘Love Reaches Across Time, Bridges 2Heaven 2Eternity♾⚘🎼
Sorry for your loss.
My prayers are with you my friend! ❤️
I'm so sorry ma'am........
Heartbreaking:(
Damn. This song is SO good. His voice is INCREDIBLE.
Her voice is also INCREDIBLE!!!!!!
YOU are incredible :)
They are something special...
Hihi Heather would you Colbie Caillat 💔 with her male singer . Just curious looking forward hear back & by the way your name sound like movie 🌟😉
I don't know if this had been said... There are so many wonderful comments!
I think of my children.... I have adolescents and young adults... They are totally stretching their independent wings. There is a point when a parent realizes that their child now has people more important than family.
It makes sense to me ... I'm never getting over them! I'll always be Momma!
Grace and peace in Jesus.
This is probably THE most beautiful and tender love song I have ever heard. The idea that you can love someone so much that you can let them go and know that you will never get over them, but still be ok because it's the BEST thing to do... just makes me break down in tears. Just beautiful.
Soooo true!
Going through this now, after 6 and a half years and two kids, but hes choosen someone new.
@@robincaudill6497 Robin, sometimes life is raw and can feel unfair, but hold to the hope you have. Try to forget and forgive the jerk that left. Those two kids are depending on you. YOU are everything to them. It is incredible what love can do to make up for the differences in your life. Don't give up!!! I am pulling for you!!! Mitch ❤
Love is beyond a beautiful feeling and experience. However sometimes in life things happen that prevent people from being together. And sometimes just knowing that they are ok helps. Sometimes life happens and you need to learn different ways. Or learn that you need something that cant be offered. Love and life its self are beautiful in so many different ways. To have loved is better to have never loved. Some people never find someone they love deeply in so many ways.
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I don't know how they can sing this to each other without breaking down....I see the pain in his face when he looks at her and she's looking at him trying to convince him to be strong and that he will find someone who will love him the way he needs to be loved. Ahhh....the words are so emotional.
I agree. It hurts me to watch his face.
Agreed he looks like he could break at any moment…
I just really watched his face... He can barely get through it without tearing up and she keeps looking away💔
That is so weird you would say that I thought the same thing you can see it in his eyes it's crazy
You described it to a tee.
To you: if you ever come across this...
Remember the last time I saw you after I left your apartment? We gave each other one last hug and one kiss goodbye on the cheek. As I walked down to my car, I turned around, looked up at your window and saw your shadow behind the blinds, watching me leave. You immediately turned away, pretending you didn't care about us anymore, but I knew you were hurting as much as I was that night. You were watching me leave as I turned around to look at you one last time. I won't ever forget that same night, you told me, "I love you, but sometimes love is not enough to keep two people together."
Even if I'm not with you, I always feel you everywhere I go. To every corner of the world I've traveled, I wish you'd be standing alongside me. And just like this song, I'm never getting over you. Even if I were to marry someone else, I'll always be thinking of you. And I know you will too.
Wow, reality check, beautiful words, maybe one day....
Well, if the song wasn’t enough to make me want to cry, your comment did. 😫 Love is freakin hard.
Your words just made my heart cry 😢
😓😓😓😓
Amazing words. Fair play to you for laying it out like that x
I lost my dad 2 years ago. I'm 42, and this song found me. I had never heard it before and it just popped up and helped me heal. I still have so many regrets
Damn, I have no doubt Colbie is hurting, but you not only see BUT FEEL Justin's RAW PAIN. I feel like I am watching something I know I should NOT BE WATCHING, like when you sneak a peek into someone's diary that they accidentally left out unguarded. I'm sad that Gone West disbanded before they really even got started and their career started really gaining traction, but I am happy they existed. This song and "What Could've Been" will always remain my favorites from you guys. I can't wait to see what the four of you do next individually.
That's the point, we are happy they existed.
The pain and the emotion is palpable isn’t it..... so incredibly sad....
I do not know how they did it. I do not think I could....
Justin seemed to be hurting more than Colbie. It was etched all over his face....
I think this song now takes the mantle from, Abbas, “The Winner Takes It All”, as being the most heartbreaking breakup song of all time..... 😭😭😭
Karen Napper oh wow .... I forgot about THAT song !!!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
me as well I so agree! I can see he is holding back tears and keeps swallowing as she is singing this to him. I am breaking and crying just watching this struggle.
@@AngelaDeBartolo I wonder if it was more her decision to end it?
The pain in their eyes was so clear. They are hurt, I couldn't imagine singing this song during my heartbreak
Was they a couple?
@@alishamarquez8735 Well if you mean married couple, they weren't though they were engaged for 5 years.
@@alishamarquez8735 *Were
You are so wrong; they are faking through these emotions. These stars are people who never care what other people feel; people are disposable to them. They throw everyone and everything away, and only sing what other people wrote
His voice when he first starts singing touched my soul. My wife left 2 years ago. It still feels like it was today. God bless those with broken hearts.
Sometimes a "bad" thing can lead to something even better than before. Up to us what we want to do with that pain.
God bless you my friend
Your post was a year ago. I hope your doing well and have found a reason to smile again.
I'm so sorry.
It’s been 12 years for me and it still feels like today . I feel you brother 🙏🏾
He has the most beautiful voice... wow....
There is someone from my teenage years I think of when I hear this, I still miss him dearly and I’m nearly 30. Both moved on and have families but he still holds a place in my heart ❤️
I have that spacial person from my teenage years so deep in my heart and this song makes me miss him so much🥺 but yeah its life we both have our own family's now
Same here ❤️
I lost the (love of my life) 30 yrs ago. I was immature. I’ve never loved anyone like her.
I'm the same, I'm 60 and still holds a place in my heart...
Omg same here!! I'm 30 we both have our own lives now...but I will never love anyone like I loved him💚 wish I could go back just for one day😔
For all the sadness in their private life a brilliant performance shines through.
Yu Wi Rp Rp9
hello good morning Darren how are you doing today??
It's been 3 years. I still think of her from time to time. She still shows up in my dreams. The pain isn't as sharp, but the regret is still haunting. Love is wonderful and its painful
Same
Preach bro I feel her around sometimes and have flashes of memories all the time
❤🥰
Yes, loving can hurt... as Ed Sheeran sings in his song... but i prefer love s.o. despite it may hurt someday, than never get that feeling.
Go chase her down and win her back mate!!
Oh, Justin's pain is so palpable as he sings! He just radiates longing and regret 😢 It's obvious that he is barely holding on to his composure as he looks at Colbie. Especially at the end of the song when he looks directly at her and sings, "I'm never getting over you"
Regretting what?
@@MIKECNW They were in a very long relationship and engaged to be married, but they broke up not too long before they recorded this song. I read that she was the one who broke up with him
@@kellysong2256 Uh I'm aware of that but regret what?
@@MIKECNW I think he just regrets that the relationship didn't work out because he still loves her...not that he did anything wrong
@@kellysong2256 I see what you mean now.
When she said “we’ll move on and you’ll find somebody new” I could see the pain in my guy .
I wonder if she'll have good luck with finding someone new herself?
@Dustin Dyer And what the hell are you saying?
Right that's were it hits hard
They were in a relationship but sadly ended it in 2020
Either he's a great actor or his pain is still incredibly real. It hurts to watch but I can't look away
That’s real pain. There’s no faking or acting that hurt in his eyes.
thats Colbie Caillat fiancé, they ended their 10 years relationship. His pain is very real.
Oeo and his heft were eyewitnesses by woe
That's putting real feelings into the song 🐱
boaaa
You know what I've realized?
There will come a time that you'll gonna love people, all their hopes and everything about them.
You miss them eventually, as you part ways, or didn't receive any messages from them for days. But you let them, because they have a life to live. Always remember you are just a part of their days and maybe just a numbered days but be grateful for having a privilege to be touch by their lives.
And the best way to do filling your longings is to pray for them. That's the best thing we can do to those people we love.
Oh, so true. 4 years now and I still hurt from my last and first love, even though I'm remarried. I'll never forget that love but I know I can only hold it as a memory.
Man.. Hard to swallow though, for me its was 13 years. But your right, pray for them and our God will take care of the rest. Hurts deeply though
ulises jimenez you loved someone for 13yrs?
@@jessicawilson4655 13 year relationship and married.
This means so much ( what you wrote)
Some of the best vocals I have heard in a long time. As a palliative care nurse this song has so much meaning. Hears to all the ones who have gone home before us. Jesus take care of them, take care of us.
Only those who have ever loved and lost truly do understand these songs 🎵 💔. You might move on, regardless, some people will leave an indelible mark in your heart
💞
Truer words were never spoken
You never get over you just find ways to get through...the pain is always there.
Absolutely 100% correct , we might move forward , but we occasionally look back at what was once there , a time,a place , a song can bring back memories of a love that was fresh , new & strong , in the end we ask , have we really moved on …🖤…🤍….🖤
Its a scientific/biological conditioning...look up "trauma bonding" and "limerance"
Crazy to know they broke up this year and then they released this, it’s real and you can tell they are singing this to each other from the heart.
I don't know the drama story that broke this band up, but damn bro.. I can legit see the pain in your eyes. Thank you for turning the hurt and pain into something beautiful.
It appears he was the one truly in love
That was the story right there. Colbie was breaking up with him.
After decade together even her ❤️ wasn't in it for all right reasons. The band was really good too. She's also under rated singer. The music industry really doesn't give her music or her The respect she deserves.
@@veniecewilliams564 Don't know what you mean as she is not someone obscure and probably had her hit songs.
With some of the other songs the band sung, and some previous songs they had before teaming up with Jason & Nelly, sounds like they might of had issues for a long time.
i wanted to cry the whole song...it's another level to watch them sing it.
Instant goosebumps when Justin started to sing. This song hits right through the heart
With this Pandemic i have realize that new songs coming out have more depth. Lyrics have meaning, tune are soulful.
I doubt this song has anything to do with the pandemic, but moreso their relationship. They were together for 10 years and called off their engagement months ago, and just recently announced they were breaking up. This is literally a song about themselves.
Yup i guess so
Each word has a reason and so deep
Mind-blowing comment .
Is it the songs! Or is it us... having more time and clarity to think and reflect and find beauty in things we used to overlook
Я хочу, чтобы конец был легче, чем начало
Ты был обнадеживающим сердцем, которое я разбил вдребезги
Я хочу попрощаться и исчезнуть
Не хочу смотреть, если ты плачешь
Не пытайся заставить меня остаться
"Потому что я не собираюсь передумать
Внимательно посмотри на боль в моем лице, прежде чем ты уйдешь
Запомни всю боль в моих глазах, а не то, что я говорю
Я дам тебе то, что ты хотел
Хотя мое сердце никогда не остановится
Скажу вам, что я в порядке, хотя я не
Ты будешь знать до конца своей жизни
Это правда, я никогда не справлюсь с тобой
Я никогда не одолею тебя
Мы будем двигаться дальше, и вы найдете кого-то нового
Со всем, что я никогда не смогу быть для тебя
Трудно слышать, но время - лучший друг разбитого сердца
и тебя ждет утро
Мы не знаем, что могло быть
Что могло быть
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Внимательно посмотри на боль в моем лице, прежде чем ты уйдешь
Запомни всю боль в моих глазах, а не то, что я говорю
Я дам тебе то, что ты хотел
Хотя мое сердце никогда не остановится
Скажу вам, что я в порядке, хотя я не
Ты будешь знать до конца своей жизни
Это правда, я никогда не справлюсь с тобой
Я никогда не одолею тебя
Я не могу помешать тебе уйти
и ты не можешь помешать мне любить тебя
Так что внимательно посмотрите на боль ", прежде чем уйти
Запомни все это больно, а не то, что я говорю
Я дам тебе то, что ты хотел
Хотя мое сердце никогда не остановится
Скажу вам, что я в порядке, хотя я не
Ты будешь знать до конца своей жизни
Это правда, я никогда не справлюсь с тобой
Я никогда не одолею тебя
Я никогда не одолею тебя
Я никогда не одолею тебя
Justin's throat swallowing at a 1 min. 42 sec. gets me every time. The raw emotion from these two makes you feel like you shouldn't be watching this unfold. This is heartbreakingly amazing music.
Hello 👋 Peggy how are you doing today?
Yesssss
Reading your comment at the exact moment that happened. You can feel that pain, it shows so strong
I saw that too. I think that's when I knew it was about them.
I've always had the feeling that Colbie was the one more intent on ending the relationship.
He's since recorded new songs and many of them are probably about their relationship.
I hate that they aren't together anymore. It just breaks my heart and this song just kills me in it's honesty and the harmonies are everything. I love, love this band.
What happened?
Me to. Im with you on this. So sad.
@@usaroblox9336 Both Colbie & Justin no longer have a relationship and both split from the group.
Colbie mentioned it on her Inst.
@@MIKECNW Thanks for the information. That is sad. I enjoyed Gone West
If you followed them on IG this past year, it seemed obvious something was going on. The beautiful artistry is real...I'm not sure I want to keep watching what seems so personal.
The way he looks at her .. I just can’t 😭
It breaks my heart that they broke up
Me too! I’m literally crying my eyes out!! His voice is so beautiful!!
I know, right? 😭
Raw emotional feel and looks. His heart is broken as he sings his shattered heart out.
@@juanC012 I keep rewatching .. I can't not acknowledge his brokeness
His face breaks my heart. You can tell he's been through pain
I mean they both just ended a 10 year relationship. Obviously...
@@chrishaugh1655 Funny he posted somethin on his Instagram for the 1st time in so long and she's commented on it.
I want to dedicate this song in memory of my husband Eddie. I lost him 5/18 /2016 to heart failure. I'm never getting over you Eddie. ❤
Hello Donna, how are you doing?
GOD Bless You 🙏
I want the end to be easier than the start
You were a hopeful heart that I shattered apart
I wanna say goodbye and disappear, mm-mm
Don't wanna watch if you break down into tears
Don't try to make me stay
'Cause I ain't gonna change my mind
Take a good look at the pain in my face 'fore you walk away
Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say
I'm gonna give you what you wanted
Though my heart will never stop
Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not
You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
We'll move on and you'll find somebody new
With everything I could never be for you, mm-mm
It's hard to hear, but time is a broken heart's best friend, uh-uh
And there's a morning waitin' for you
We don't know what could've been
What could've been
Take a good look at the pain in my face 'fore you walk away
Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say
I'm gonna give you what you wanted
Though my heart will never stop
Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not
You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
I can't stop you from leavin'
And you can't stop me from lovin' you
So take a good look at the pain 'fore you walk away
Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say
I'm gonna give you what you wanted
Though my heart will never stop
Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not
You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
I can’t believe these two are no longer together when they make such amazing music together! I’m never get over Justin and colbie breaking up! Such an amazing, deep and intimate song they have written
Justin’s voice is amazing and I hope this isn’t the last we hear from him.
No it wont be. They are still best friends and they are going to keep singing im sure. He has tons of videos still on his facebook.
Ki
@@projectsixx2184 They say they're best friends but the fact they decided to leave the group makes me think they probably won't be associating with each other anymore. I maybe wrong but it sounds like it.
I'm sure he still have a lot to perform Melissa
you can hear the emotions in his voice the moment he comes in... its real heartbreak
His face when she said we will move one and you will find someone new...bro is hurting bad.
They were together in a relationship and split up. :/
Most painful break up lines
Imagine breaking up and then making a beautiful song out of it... _together._
Rumours, fleetwood mac
Abba several of their songs,
You would be surprised how common it is
They're better people than I am
This was actually on Colbie’s old album from 2014. This version is amazing though.
"Time is a broken hearts best friend"...Just wow!! Don't we all know that.
I don’t know about that. It’s been 10 years since i left my 1st love. I’m married have 2 kids great career healthy family love my wife more then words can explain but I will never stop missing her
@@nickp86 I do so agree with you. Its been 40 years for me, and am too married for 37, but have nor forgotten our love so many years ago
Time is a double-edged sword for me then; I moved on so many years ago but still miss her like crazy sometimes.
Time never filled the hole that was left in my heart!
Not if enough time still hasn't gone by after all these years.
Truly amazing! the song touches your soul! The emotion in this song is just so thick, it sticks with you. I hope this band will make their way back.
I accidentally stumbled on this when I was looking for a different song and WOW, just WOW! This hits deep and true! I believe that anyone who has ever loved someone very deeply will understand this song and feel it.
same here...
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I UNDERSTAND AND I KNOW I WILL NEVER GET OVER MYMOYO😪😪😪
The way he looks when she says "all the things i couldnt be for you"😪😪😪
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This man's voice is everything. I'm a fan.
His names Justin Kawika Young. From Hawaii.
Great to meet you here
@@bronsonkaaihue6132this kane opio, this kanaka maoli hits this one hard and out. Me akua lesu ia pau loa e hele hiki.
“Take a good look at the pain before you walk away....” Wow.
How are you doing today Matt Anderson? It's really nice having you on here...I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many Levels. Trust, Communication, Loving, God fearing, Honoring, Understanding, Patience and Respecting Your Partner. So crucial to provide balance.
I TRULY LOVE THIS ❤💛🤟🌠⭐
Hard to do when it happens over text! 😞😞
Ya..that line really hits home
The most "felt" line ever 💔
I know his pain, and being told “we’ll move on and you’ll find someone new” I dont want someone new 😢
Justin's voice is so raw with pain and emotions on the sola part and the way he looks at Colbie. --breaks my heart.
I said the same thing! He brought tears to my eyes and it broke my heart seeing his face
The pain in his eyes...wow
They broke up in real life :/
Yeah and like he's just staring at her while singing his heart out.
Don't know how they got through the song, the pain in his face is all too real
I dedicate this to the woman I hurt, she was supposed to be my wife and I was always the one at fault. We have a 3 year old daughter that thinks the world of me. I’m at my lowest and seeing her smile is so bittersweet. Fellas treat your ladies with all the love you can possibly give, even if there is a chance that you’d get hurt... it doesn’t matter just love that person like no other. Think before you speak, and just listen to your partner. Show her/him you are here because that’s all they ever wanted. Winnah I love you. I’m sorry 😞
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Aww for a man to say those words it’s heart felt.
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hope it gets better for you ❤️
God heals relationships, marriages, families and our hearts. Jesus has every good moral to follow in His word. He is the life and the way. With him anything can be restored. Bless you.
I lost my husband to cancer on July 31rst this year I miss him so very deeply this one's for u doug
Seeing the pain in Justin & Colbie's eyes while singing this song is just heartbreaking. Kudos to Gone West for creating this video despite what is happening internally. Thank you for your music.
"time is a broken heart's best friend"
Maybe, but time is Love's enemy.
Damn... isn’t this the truth. Time = complacency = pain
That line is such bullshit. Time doesn't do any such thing.
It’s all choice.
time heals all wounds ... they say...
@@GeekRex Yeah it was a stupid statement.
Makes me think she has issues.
I feel like this song was harder for him than her by the looks on his face. This is heartbreaking you can see they still love each other.
Maybe he did.
They were together for 10 years Holy why things happen crazy long time for wasted years
@@michellevv5352 I wish they woulda fixed things.
Definitely she broke his heart
They will always love eachother .. like I love my ex of 21 years .. maybe not "in" love but when you do love someone regardless if you or they are bad for you or them .. you will let go and let them be happy ..thats TRUE love
I dedicate this song to William Melvin Watson, he passed away September 14 at 1037pm. We loved each other with all the love we had.
' Til you find someone new, your broken heart needs this music to heal
It's true you never get over that one person you truly love. Even as many years have passed the pain is still there. You learn to live with. When I finally saw him years later I realized I no longer loved the person in front of me. I was stuck in the past of the guy I loved back then. All I remember from that time is the deep pain I suffered. He is no longer the guy I fell in love with. I understand why our break up had to be.
Yes I think u r correct!!
Yup i've been there to
i completely understand and can relate deeply to this. Thanks for sharing.
I had the same experience. I met my ex-bf after years and remembered all those past memories when I loved so quickly and bravely and purely. He was someone I did truly love but now when I see him it reminds that it was best we parted and my present boyfriend is a thousand times better.
We all got that one person we will never heal from. And this song just hit me hard. I’ve listened to it 5 times in a row and fighting back the tears hard. But as soon as I’m alone, they’ll flow like a river.
I so agree we all have that one that we lived so much and thought we would end up with but sometimes god gives u someone else I reached out to him and now we are friends he respects my marriage it’s hard not to wonder what it would have been like I dated mine from 6 grade until he left for the army he came back and I had my first son with a jerk and I think it scared him but we are bestfriends to this day!!!
I feel that pain daily but remember you never know what the day brings you.💯♻️🆙 Stay positive and motivated
I agree. Everyone can relate.
The world can’t agree on much but we can all agree heart break SUCKS!
@@Outlawridingnrednecks How are you doing Today ? It’s really nice having you here, hope you are enjoying your day and the weather is fair to you
Keep doing what y'all doing! When it comes from the heart love can't be lost.
It doesn't get much better than these vocals. Sounds like two angels singing.
Doesn’t it tho 😍
Amen this is beyond beautiful
Knowing that Justin and Colbie split after 10 years, his looks while Colbie is singing the second verse are so heartbreaking.
I agree! and on his parts, you can tell he really feels exactly what he's singing! I give him props for being able to performing this song while his heart is literally breaking.
Yes I thought the same thing!
bom
He's about to roll his eyes, lol. It's not funny but it is at the same time. I can tell he's hurting
That look at 1:30 is what gets me. He's definitely fighting tears and still lost in her beauty
1:38 that look breaks my heart. Well written, heartful song. I hope one day we can both listen to this song, accept what happened, and can go on with our separate lives. It's true we can't unlove someone. I still miss you, everyday.
They were engaged for 10 years. I think he’s a good actor. Not the marrying kind!
I'm just so carried away with the song...coming from a personal experience. Whatever happened between them, I believe there was love.
@Autumn Rain i can relate to you 😔
@@rockybrown4164 My understanding they were only engaged 5 years but knew each other for 10.
That was a look from deep within his heart, I noticed it too.
Felt this... "I can't stop you from leaving, and you can't stop me from loving you..." Tao never got to see the hurt on my face because he ended everything on the phone. However, he had his reasons and only wanted to protect me. He will always have a place in my heart. 💜🦋 I wish him all the best even if I'm not the one by his side.
Omg.. after 11 years of loving they broke up and I cried looking at Justin's face. A beautiful Hawaiian country.. he never saw this coming ,Colbie called it. God I'm crying 😢 here and how the hell can they even look at each other without crying???😪
"We'll move on and you'll find somebody new with everything I could never be for you"......Interesting choice of words. Ten years is a long time to invest in a relationship, but that verse....it hits different. Sometimes relationships don't work because of unmet expectations. Sometimes they don't work because of unrealistic expectations. When you love someone so much, you put their happiness above your own. I don't know their story. I just know my heart hurts for these two incredibly gifted people. Relationships can be over before divorce papers are signed, and sometimes the only way to survive is to let go. 🧡😭
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😪😪😪going through this right now!! It's awful
@@beccawhitman3931 I'm sorry you're going through this. Draw strength from people who love you best, give yourself time to grieve the loss of what you hoped was your future, and know that you are not alone. I don't know what your future holds, but 2020 has been an unfun year. Better days are coming. Hold your head up, smile, and be your best self. Someone somewhere is praying for YOU to be their fairy tale. 🧡
@@laurenralph1246 thanks soo much!!! It's a very very hard year! I really appreciate your kindness...means so much to me! Thank you again
Lyrics
I want the end to be easier than the start
You were a hopeful heart that I shattered apart
I wanna say goodbye and disappear, mm-mm
Don't wanna watch if you break down into tears
Don't try to make me stay
'Cause I ain't gonna change my mind
Take a good look at the pain in my face 'fore you walk away
Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say
I'm gonna give you what you wanted
Though my heart will never stop
Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not
You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
We'll move on and you'll find somebody new
With everything I could never be for you, mm-mm
It's hard to hear, but time is a broken heart's best friend, uh-uh
And there's a morning waitin' for you
We don't know what could've been
What could've been
Take a good look at the pain in my face 'fore you walk away
Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say
I'm gonna give you what you wanted
Though my heart will never stop
Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not
You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
I can't stop you from leavin'
And you can't stop me from lovin' you
So take a good look at the pain 'fore you walk away
Memorize all the hurt in my eyes, not what I say
I'm gonna give you what you wanted
Though my heart will never stop
Tell you that I'm fine even though I'm not
You're gonna know for the rest of your life this is true
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
I'm never gettin' over you
Thank you
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So very sorry for your loss. My wife has stage 4 cancer and this song crushes me every time I hear it. “Cant’ stop you from leaving” line just reminds me of the terrible reality of the situation. I wish you the best sir; condolences.
"We'll move on and you'll find somebody new"
Damn, this really hit me hard 🥺
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I haven’t yet after 3 years! 😢😢
achingly painful
The pain is to much 😔
Just heard this song for the first time today and I have listened to it over and over again. I see the pain in his eyes more so than hers, but when I read up about their break up I consistently read she broke up with him, so makes sense. The hardest part to watch is at the very end when he stops singing at 3:38 to the end.
Little do u know…
Am I missing something or how one earth didn’t this song top the charts 🤷🏾
They sound so good together. Even though they aren’t together as a couple, they make amazing music together. I couldn’t imagine how hard that must be.
How can artists who can sing this good together just end like that? If mistakes where made fix them. Life is too short. You four have an amazing gift to share with thousands of people.
They are individually very talented, obviously, but together they are something extraordinary in my opinion!
True
Amen!
Right ????? I mean, look at Fleetwood Mac !! If they had disbanded all those decades ago, look at aaaaaaall the music we wouldn’t have today ! I know it’s not easy .. not easy when you’re not only tied professionally but also personally and then you experience the breakup of the personal relationship. But it CAN be done .. with a little maturity, creativity, tenacity, perseverance, and forgiveness ..
This is more than just a song, it's a conversation with each stating their emotional position. Justin pleads by repeating the chorus 3 times, the third time changing it by saying "Memorise all this hurt..." drawing attention to all of his being now in pain, not just his eyes.
Colbie wants to move on which is obvious from a lyrical stand point. However, she only utters the 2nd chorus and only half of the 3rd, missing out the critical "hurt" that Justin feels, indicating the readiness to move on without him.
"I'm never getting over you" is another way of saying the cliché, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you". This song is an interpretation of that and is emphasised when she omits the last 2 repetitions; not only is she ignoring his words, she's broken eye contact, physically there but emotionally gone.
Yes. I don't see her noticably affected at all. I can feel his pain just watching him. I'm right there with him. I keep reminding myself I need time to heal. The pain does not go away overnight. 😔💔💔
Beautifully said!
The pain in his eyes when he sings hurts so much. Ow sniff.
So sad that they disbanded, I was so happy when I discovered their music. True, emotional, and fantastic writing. Great harmonies, their voices blended very well together. All those qualities in one band are not that easy to find. It's hard to watch this video because I see that pain in their eyes just like in those lyrics.
hello Anna how are you doing today??
ohmygosh....First song I've heard from these people I did not know about and I found this by accident... but ohmygosh...so pretty, but so emotional....wow...just wow.
Yeah me too Amazing!!!
Me Too where they been !
@@junebug7606 they are great as I too just discovered them, looks like this song was a farewell as they split up.
Same here and love them now
Wow , found by accident too.. ..CHILLS JUS CHILLS
. BEAUTIFUL 💜💔💜
Watching this video just breaks my heart. You can see the pain and hurt in Justin's uncomfortable gestures. Even when he swallows you can see that it is hard and he is holding it back. Whatever made them end it must have been a hard choice! The emotions are rare and they will never get over each other!!! Love Gone West!!!!
I felt this from a guys point of view. 10 years and I lived this. I know his tears are real
Have they really just broken up and then sat there and sang this in front of each other? I'm not crying, you are 😭😭😭😭
Sad and beautiful... Thank you Gone west for the wonderful songs you shared with us. You will be always my favorite band...
this is what was written about this recording: Fittingly titled, “I’m Never Getting Over You,” the breakup ballad features a sad realism that’s hard to ignore, as two of the band’s members recently called off their engagement. Wounded lyrics describe the pain of ending something special and the impossible prospect of moving forward, and its video makes the situation clear. Filmed in stark black and white, it puts a pair of former lovers face to face one more time.
sooooooooo heart wrenching. You feel every emotion!
omg my whole heart just broke reading this... and just looking at justin sing this broke me even more :(
Your reply is fukken spectacular! I have nothing else to say now! Love love love the song!
As someone who just recently experienced divorce after a 21 year marriage and 2 children, this is hard for me to watch .. 🥺
Thank you for that explanation. I was reading the comments wondering what everyone was talking about. I was like, it's a song, they are performers, performing....
I come back over & over & over AGAIN 😭💔😭😢November 2024 ❤❤
This got to be the saddest breakup song. I can feel the pain in every word sung. Colbie's line "I want the end to be easier than the start" is the opening of heartshock of every guy. When she is sure that she's not changing her mind and hit on those moving on and finding somebody new lines, I tell you those words are the most painful thing to hear in every relationship about to be torn apart.
Justin is extremely underrated.
Check his earlier songs he’s done. One Last Cry, My eyes adore you, soothe you are really good
Get some good earphones, close your eyes, and listen to the chorus. The voices and sounds of the music and effects give me chills. Wow, this song.
I got divorced 6 years ago and I’m still broken inside. I miss my son more than I can explain and as much as I hate how much my wife treated me I still love her to a certain degree and of course miss her. I keep thinking I will wake up one day and be ok but it’s a constant struggle. To whoever reads this and are married, make good choices and fight like hell for your family. Divorce is worse than death.
Amen
😭😭😭This comment!! 💔
just lifted you all up in prayer brother love is always the answer
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Trust the process ❤
I cried ... so much and so many times with this song ...playing it over and over again..because this explains how I feel and I know this is how he feels too. . How is love so magical but tragic??
hello how are you doing today?
@James Mark we are engaged 💍 and to be married
The magical gathering of collective musical talents - Gone West - lived a WAY TOO SHORT LIFE! Together this band was immensely talented and would have produced MUCH more excellent music in the years to come. We all are fortunate to have enjoyed the brief but magical existence of Gone West. Thank you all for blessing us with your collective talents!
How does this not have a billion views? I don’t get it. Has society really lost touch with defining extraordinary music?
1,516,047 views LOL that's 1 million not billion
Love this group, love this song!!
And not enough subscribers too. This generation is something else. I miss my generation when love was still real and magical. 😢
Thats true. I can't believe the kind of music they listen to these days.. it doesn't last and no feelings.
Shut up. There's more than enough views.
Just found this group, and this duet, this song hits hard. One of the best love songs from a duet I have ever heard. God shines through this young man. A Hawaiian verson of JB.
this song is a real heartbreaker for when your feeling at your lowest
It sure is
This song completely resonated with my soul. “Time is a broken hearts best friend.” I love and miss him tremendously and how things once were. Heartbreak go away already!!!😥😔💔
🙏🏽Fix it God🙏🏽
Don't hold your breath, Im waiting 30 years for it to stop. I moved on had a family, it's still there.
@@Angie768 is