I really love these preparation messages on marriage, it's priceless. This is what we need to hear as young girls and ladies, so we don't waste our years "Dating", instead of preparing for marriage.
I'm not Jewish but do I ever wish I would've known the advice Rabbi Friedman is giving to these ladies. This would've save me so much of wasted time and heartache in my dating years. I love how he tries to instill confidence & strength in these ladies. Ladies this man is giving you the best advice ever. Listen and do what he says you'll never regret it. I'm married for 15 years now. He knows what he is telling you.
24:25 A student says to the Rabbi: "social media is a big thing nowadays" ...she's getting ideas and fantasies about marriage from looking at it...aah, ...soc media is NOT a big thing among those of us who understand what it's about, have wasted too much time on it...It is so obviously superficial overload and damaging to a person's focus in daily life, plus the time-waste factor. I gave up tv-watching for similar reasons years ago. I'm not Hasidic either.
Great advice! Had I listened to what bothered me at the beginning instead of listening to my family, I wouldn’t had gone through a second painful divorce 😢
Quite brilliant really . One caveat , who is he ? He is a fellow Jew and brother . and as the Rebe MHM pointed out to me in an letter ., The basis of dating is at its core all about "Ahavat Yisroel" and an experience and actualization of it. Therefore if he or she is not for you ? All the more one has the opportunity of behaving in accord with the sensitivity and reality of Ahavat Yisroel.
I'm not Jewish but this is great advice but I have a couple questions. Who is the Shastra ? (don't know if I spelt that correctly) How and why is this person designated as a Shastra ? Do you get to choose your Shastra ?
@@RRam-en6mq Probably, if that's what he said in the video. Like I said I wasn't sure of the spelling. Can you answer my questions ? It would really help me understand.
@@alexandrakennedy8078 that person acts as an agent between a man and a woman who are looking for a spouse. It’s Jewish tradition to secure the next generation of Jewish families. I’m not Jewish but i have followed Rabbi Friedman lectures on marriage and so I understand it.
*what i should have learned on my first date* ... that she.. was a he... but.. i fell in love... i can't back out now... it was.. meant to be... God's will that i did this thing...
Even I marry my husband but I cannot destroy him, was only protect him to stay with his family was die from them. But he wants to continue live once again or real come back from real dead under ground to alive to see his own family. Is it impossible, for me it impossible but I do believe ONLY OUR HEAVENLY FATHER'S can raise real dead( Lazarus) to live once again. Don't mind if he eat with his wife because still protecting them close to me until they stand to protect their own children and grandchildren too. Doesn't matter myself, maybe just born ugliest than my precious sisters. Hmmmmm!
STARTS ABOUT 22:46, DATING AT 12 YEARS OLD, OK IF PARENTS APPROVE. ENDORCES THE IDEA AND SAYS IT IS A GOOD IDEA. IN FACT DATING YOUNGER OR GETTING MARRIED YOUNGER CAN BE A GOOD IDEA. !! YIKES!!
If everyone watched Rabbi Friedman's speeches...the world would be a much better place.
I really love these preparation messages on marriage, it's priceless. This is what we need to hear as young girls and ladies, so we don't waste our years "Dating", instead of preparing for marriage.
I share these messages with my friends and we are all learning and correcting a wrong mind set.
I'm not Jewish but do I ever wish I would've known the advice Rabbi Friedman is giving to these ladies. This would've save me so much of wasted time and heartache in my dating years. I love how he tries to instill confidence & strength in these ladies. Ladies this man is giving you the best advice ever. Listen and do what he says you'll never regret it. I'm married for 15 years now. He knows what he is telling you.
You are so right! Nothing to do with beeing or not jewish! His teachings are so helpful! 🙏
i love this man...so delicate, inteligent, spiritual, wise
I’m loving u like my father. Thank u.
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Thank you, Rabbi Manis!
He's a very smart man :-)
He's a very WISE man.
24:25 A student says to the Rabbi: "social media is a big thing nowadays" ...she's getting ideas and fantasies about marriage from looking at it...aah, ...soc media is NOT a big thing among those of us who understand what it's about, have wasted too much time on it...It is so obviously superficial overload and damaging to a person's focus in daily life, plus the time-waste factor. I gave up tv-watching for similar reasons years ago. I'm not Hasidic either.
Great advice! Had I listened to what bothered me at the beginning instead of listening to my family, I wouldn’t had gone through a second painful divorce 😢
We have same problem 😂
I need know nothing else but Pure Love.
Thank you!
Quite brilliant really . One caveat , who is he ? He is a fellow Jew and brother . and as the Rebe MHM pointed out to me in an letter ., The basis of dating is at its core all about "Ahavat Yisroel" and an experience and actualization of it. Therefore if he or she is not for you ? All the more one has the opportunity of behaving in accord with the sensitivity and reality of Ahavat Yisroel.
Who is he? ...so read his books, he's written plenty
With the greatest respect, so much of what is said is glib. So sad, because Rabbi Friedmann is such an empathetic person.
Hello my beloved family.
These frum girls seem very confused. Why are they talking about Facebook and Instagram?
I'm not Jewish but this is great advice but I have a couple questions. Who is the Shastra ? (don't know if I spelt that correctly) How and why is this person designated as a Shastra ? Do you get to choose your Shastra ?
Do you mean shadchan?
@@RRam-en6mq Probably, if that's what he said in the video. Like I said I wasn't sure of the spelling. Can you answer my questions ? It would really help me understand.
@@alexandrakennedy8078 that person acts as an agent between a man and a woman who are looking for a spouse. It’s Jewish tradition to secure the next generation of Jewish families. I’m not Jewish but i have followed Rabbi Friedman lectures on marriage and so I understand it.
@@CameliaTex Thank you for answering.
1:04 Lying or not talking about mental illness is false but I really like the letter to your mother situation
My ignorance of Yiddish seems to limit my understanding of this conversation. I guess I have to learn Yiddish.
I am sure people here will be happy to answer, if you ask :) It's not just yiddish. It's hebrew, aramaic, "yeshivish", etc lol
*what i should have learned on my first date* ... that she.. was a he... but.. i fell in love... i can't back out now... it was.. meant to be... God's will that i did this thing...
Was it Gds will, truly? Your lust aren’t the same.
Where did this happen, Thailand perhaps?
Ditt namn låter svenskt👍🏻
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It never happened...
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I was seeing someone else's life...
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I was just seeing how social influence can affect other people's lives...
Even I marry my husband but I cannot destroy him, was only protect him to stay with his family was die from them. But he wants to continue live once again or real come back from real dead under ground to alive to see his own family. Is it impossible, for me it impossible but I do believe ONLY OUR HEAVENLY FATHER'S can raise real dead( Lazarus) to live once again. Don't mind if he eat with his wife because still protecting them close to me until they stand to protect their own children and grandchildren too. Doesn't matter myself, maybe just born ugliest than my precious sisters. Hmmmmm!
are men afraid to support?
STARTS ABOUT 22:46, DATING AT 12 YEARS OLD, OK IF PARENTS APPROVE. ENDORCES THE IDEA AND SAYS IT IS A GOOD IDEA. IN FACT DATING YOUNGER OR GETTING MARRIED YOUNGER CAN BE A GOOD IDEA. !! YIKES!!
No, he said 12th Grade, not 12 years old! That's 16-17 in the USA
Shmuel P - If everyone stopped listening to religious garbage and fairy stories, the World would definitely be a better place...
in the way of being with a girl? and if let family is that weird more ? bad I think I was going to say
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MET ALLEEN GELOOF RED JE HET NIET, JE MOET OOK JE VERSTAND GEBRUIKEN.