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  • @ocdandanxiety
    @ocdandanxiety  2 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    I love all of you for supporting me! 💜

    • @Alritealritealrite
      @Alritealritealrite 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      This video will help even more people. I remember when all of this happened, it triggered a lot of people with that type of OCD. It shows how misunderstood OCD is.

    • @pipsterhb3693
      @pipsterhb3693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So thankful for you and your heart for helping people🙏🤗💝

    • @fairygurl9269
      @fairygurl9269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *Here's to Healing Thru Interconnectedness 💞

    • @TheGoldfinger71
      @TheGoldfinger71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Dude, you saved my life!

    • @JaceMonje
      @JaceMonje 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It was your videos that helped me identify my false memory/driving OCD and got me to seek treatment. I am very grateful to you and the work you continue to do. Thank you, Nathan!

  • @p8735
    @p8735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    people’s ignorant reactions to OCD themes is exactly WHY people don’t get help. i know for myself i was terrified of talking about the SO-OCD and ROCD themes because i was afraid of being perceived as a dumb homophobe. i can only imagine how POCD sufferers feel about their thoughts and experiences. OCD attacks what you LOVE, CHERISH, and VALUE. it is not the same thing as being a bigot or sociopath.
    your videos have made such an impact. people need to know that they’re not alone.

    • @charlenepang
      @charlenepang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Exactly! It was a struggle for me to open up about my SO-OCD theme because of the exact same reason you have.

    • @p8735
      @p8735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@charlenepang you are not alone in the slightest ❤️ people of all sexual orientations can develop this theme and it indicates 0 about your character. keep leaning into uncertainty!!

    • @slugbro2883
      @slugbro2883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You and i are in the SAME exact boat with themes and experiences. I hate explaining it to people because they think i’m just in denial

    • @p8735
      @p8735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@slugbro2883 understandable, friend! you don’t have to reveal your themes to everyone, they have to earn that trust and vulnerability from you. but also, in ERP you learn that people don’t need to understand for you to be okay. it sounds awful and terrifying, but if someone thinks you’re gay or whatever sexual orientation you fear, that is something we have to sit with and know we will be okay regardless. it takes a ton of time but just know OCD wants constant certainty and by starving it from it, we get better ❤️

  • @annabellemoore4214
    @annabellemoore4214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    I’ve had POCD and I’m not a creep. You have helped so many people, don’t stop making videos.

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Exactly because if you were this wouldn't bother you. You're doing amazing!

    • @annabellemoore4214
      @annabellemoore4214 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Smiley35SThank you so much! 😊

    • @SammynAlgeria
      @SammynAlgeria ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did you recover from it?

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annabellemoore4214 you're very welcome

    • @annabellemoore4214
      @annabellemoore4214 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SammynAlgeria Yes, I did. I am so much better now.

  • @sarahfoster5648
    @sarahfoster5648 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    My 16 year old son was suicidal because of having POCD. Your videos helped him feel less alone. He now has a therapist. Please never close your page- you are literally saving lives.

    • @Birdman0169
      @Birdman0169 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm 13 and feel the same as your son have any advice

  • @mayat1917
    @mayat1917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    The OCD community loves you Nathan! Thank you for all you do.

  • @sethty
    @sethty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    dude, i’m 16, i found you a few days ago, you have changed my life, i’ve been suffering and hating myself for so long now and i had no clue what was wrong with me, now i do, you changed my life forever, thank you so much, i’m looking to get help or a diagnosis soon, i haven’t told anybody about my problems yet though.

    • @alchemist1111
      @alchemist1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      No matter what type of thoughts are invading your mind, if it is OCD they are not a part of you. If someone is riding in a car and a thought pops in to take control of the steering wheel and you are hit with anxiety over that thought it’s because you are truly disturbed by that, “why did I think that? Does it mean I want to do that?” The answer is no but OCD will continue its attack on you by making you question that. Someone who would do that won’t have anxiety over that thought, they might ruminate in it. It’s like an enemy with access to your mind who can find the best weapons to attack you with. This can be overcome, you’re not crazy and there is a normal life ahead of you without all this noise in your life. God bless.

    • @sethty
      @sethty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alchemist1111 wow thank you

    • @garrygrewal4321
      @garrygrewal4321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      These episodes started for me after watching "are we living in a simulation" or "are we living in the matrix" yt videos.. also,, i used to watch videos about if god exists or not and i was pretty much convinced that it didn't exist so it made me believe in the matrix theory more
      But suddenly a thought came in my mind when I was eating that "what if it's all just a dream?" What if I'm all alone in this imagination of myself and all these PPL are just my own fake imaginations...
      It sucks but when I chill out with my Bois i just forget about it but it keeps coming.
      I'm 15 and idk why the f*ck is it happening to me but i for sure have lost many feelings and I've changed alot that i don't really care about this

    • @alishadkhan62
      @alishadkhan62 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@garrygrewal4321 Well Brother! You're not alone, let them come,
      They are just thought think positive, bro if this all your imagination then you're the king. do whatever you love doing, you can be Superman, Batman
      Anything. love live laugh. Don't focus on powerless, meaningless thoughts,
      Just accept whatever they are saying and move on.

    • @garrygrewal4321
      @garrygrewal4321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alishadkhan62 broo that's what I was thinking (if it's my imagination i can be whatever I want and it'll make me the god of this world,lol) and yes I've started caring less bout them

  • @anthonyturner8240
    @anthonyturner8240 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Fancy attacking this man, he is helping to save lives and minds. Thank you for helping us.

  • @alexisleanne94
    @alexisleanne94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    During a time in my life where my anxiety was out of control, every day while I worked I’d have your videos playing in my ear, and it always helped calm me down. If I was about to have a panic attack, I’d go right to your channel. My days would have been so much more difficult without you. Thank you for what you do, Nathan, and I’m so sorry this happened to you.

    • @FernandoVazquez-ro1nw
      @FernandoVazquez-ro1nw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Even though what you were doing with his videos was a compulsion, I know what you mean. Nathan is amazing. He has helped a lot of people.

    • @alexisleanne94
      @alexisleanne94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@FernandoVazquez-ro1nw for sure, it absolutely was! At the time I was navigating a scary space mentally, and it was one of the things that gave me relief while also teaching me more about what I was dealing with. With time I was able to incorporate his teachings into my everyday life and things got a lot better for me. Very thankful for him and his videos!

    • @GreekHouseEffect
      @GreekHouseEffect 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I share a similar experience, too. His work is truly invaluable

    • @gymnasticsgirlie0647
      @gymnasticsgirlie0647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@FernandoVazquez-ro1nw Technically you're right, but I don't think it's humanly possible for someone with OCD to just go seamlessly through ERP without taking breaks for some reassurance here and there. Especially while trying to live a nomal, everyday life and not having time or energy to constantly sit with unbearable anxiety.

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If it wasn't for him along with the Dare app I wouldn't be getting my life back on track.

  • @ammartassawar
    @ammartassawar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Having thoughts about harming others or doing something doesn't mean you really want that for them. The fact that you feel tormented by those thoughts is proof that thats not who you are. An average person will never understand that. Tell all this to a person with OCD and they would know right there and then who you are and how those arent you. To all those out there suffering from intrusive thoughts i want to tell you stay strong you are not your thoughts

  • @kikol.5002
    @kikol.5002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    We need to RADICALLY educate people about OCD at this point. Nate I wish you the best, man. ❤️

  • @oh5793
    @oh5793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    i feel like the definitions of anxiety and intrusive thoughts have been watered down on the internet and got stripped of their real meaning intrusive thoughts can be extremely dark and distrurbing that's why ocd is considered as a debilitating illness its themes can be REALLY unsettlling and the fact that we not only have to live an internal battle but we also have to be surrounded by people that show no empathy whatsoever towards us is very sad ...

  • @rosiequeen90
    @rosiequeen90 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    We're living through such a difficult time with social media. It can easily destroy someone's life and all it takes is for uneducated people to warp the truth to their advantage and out of context. I'm sorry you and the OCD community had to be victimised this way and I sincerely hope this person learned their lesson.

    • @DMAN590
      @DMAN590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They learned nothing. They never revisited the topic. Just used NP as a punchline in a segment and moved on.

    • @embroideredragdoll
      @embroideredragdoll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These people complain about false accusations all the time you’d think they’d be better than that.

  • @sh.ge.del.8710
    @sh.ge.del.8710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OCD is hell a real burning hell, it's like a bully lives rent free in your head, you feel like you're a monster for having intrusive thoughts, you don't feel like you can trust yourself and that ending it all is the only solution and the amount of times I've reached this conclusion... And people who are brave enough to talk about the taboo and telling us that you don't have to feel this fear, that you're not your thoughts and how to get through it and how to cure it are fucking gems and if anyone try to hurt them in any way i swear to god Imma be the monster that I think i am.

  • @jicajacobsonkimbreaux
    @jicajacobsonkimbreaux 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I am so sorry that this happened to you. That was terrible and you 100% didn't deserve any of it.
    That said, I am SO incredibly PROUD OF YOU for every single thing you've mentioned in this video. That is so hard and you are amazing.
    Even though you are still working through this, you have enough heart/care for both yourself and others to bravely open up and put this out there in order to heal, encourage others, and call out this boorish behavior. There is never an excuse for inciting violence like this and that person should absolutely be banned.
    You are strong and awesome and while it's a highly regrettable circumstance, it's still freaking fantastic to see a therapist actually doing the hard work in front of us and not just spouting recommendations when they're not currently in the pit. Congratulations at proving that you are the real deal and you're not afraid to do the hardest thing.
    You've earned every bit of all my respect for your honesty, transparency, vulnerability, determination, hard work, and outright grit. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @ocdandanxiety
      @ocdandanxiety  ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thank you so much for your support! It really means a lot!

  • @skylogray9362
    @skylogray9362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Thank you for continuing to fight the misinformation of OCD even when your life was threatened. This is such a powerful story. Thank you. You've saved so many people's lives with your videos and I'm so glad you're continuing to make them.

  • @dreemz9825
    @dreemz9825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I am so angry that this happened to you. You’ve helped so many of us with our OCD and helped us through the toughest time of our lives. We’re here for you and love you!!!❤

  • @dirt1376
    @dirt1376 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    POCD is BRUTAL ! and I’m not afraid to admit that I’ve struggled with it as a past theme for a LONG time It was one of my first serious spikes . I thought I didn’t deserve to live anymore and I was so afraid of who I thought I’d become . Literally thank you so much for doing what you do , education on the subject of how OCD can manifest itself no matter how taboo is critical to bringing the first step of recovery to so many people .

  • @Daishinobi
    @Daishinobi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    It hurts that the kinder person you are, the more you expect people to treat you kindly, but when someone very slightly and even indirectly disrespects you, it is gonna be a shock!!
    Be proud Nathan for what you do. I am sure you’re SAVING LIVES.
    God blesses you my brother 🙏🏻💙💙

  • @Bigdogstusks
    @Bigdogstusks ปีที่แล้ว +11

    There’s a massive difference between having a thought that’s not wanted, obsessing over it and having massive fear than there is to a thought thats wanted and you get aroused by.

    • @bigbrainbull4861
      @bigbrainbull4861 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That isn't helpful. What if I'm scared that I might be aroused by a thought I don't want to be aroused by? Stuff like POCD wouldn't be an issue if that aspect wasn't already a concern.

    • @Bigdogstusks
      @Bigdogstusks ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@bigbrainbull4861 your brain is playing on your fears. Let the thoughts come and go. If you’re not acting on your thoughts then it’s just a thought that you are obsessing over. If you are acting on them then you are what you most fear. Live and die by your actions not your thoughts.

    • @bigbrainbull4861
      @bigbrainbull4861 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Bigdogstusks I appreciate it and perhaps that would be helpful to others, but when I hear that, it just causes me to go down a new rabbit hole questioning whether or not any action I do, or have ever done, could be interpretted as "acting" on those thoughts.

    • @beasteast9421
      @beasteast9421 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Even if you respond positively to the thought in any degree, if it causes you crippling distress, it is still an intrusive thought.

  • @henryzhao4622
    @henryzhao4622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    You’ve saved a lot of lives and reduced a lot of suffering. Thank you Nathan.

  • @KC-dx4qt
    @KC-dx4qt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    While this wasn’t my theme of OCD, I wanted to share with you how thankful I am for your channel and how much you help people. Last year I was in the scariest place I have ever been mentally, and your videos quite literally were the only thing that made me feel safe, like I wasn’t losing my mind, that I could trust myself. Now, with ERP and in my case medication, I can see how deep in I was. But when I had nowhere else to turn, your videos were there. Thank you. I am so sorry this happened. Thank you for not deleting your channel.

  • @cerealis_5432
    @cerealis_5432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Thank you for all that you do. Im so sorry you’ve been bearing this weight for so long. You’ve done a wonderful job of combating the stigmas and misconceptions associated with ocd, and it’s unfortunate that others used their platform to attack you and try to silence you due to their own ignorance. Your channel has done wonders for my mental health and anxiety/ocd recovery, and I’m so incredibly grateful that you didn’t delete your channel in spite of this. You’ve set a great example for the rest of us, and your bravery won’t go unnoticed. Much love ❤️

  • @tweedle404
    @tweedle404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It fills me with a profound amount of sadness that you had to experience such dark words come from someone so publicly. It breaks my heart that this individual made you feel so monstrous for no other reason than this person being afraid of something they don’t understand. It’s no excuse to spread pain and hurt, and I am so so sorry. I just wanted to say that there are so many people who’s lives you have saved by being truthful and honest about the OCD community. Having the condition is so isolating and discombobulating, but you have crafted a safe space where not only are we heard but we are fought for. Thanks for always fighting Nathan 🌱 we stand by you, always.

  • @ThisOffendsMeTV
    @ThisOffendsMeTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You know how much you’ve helped us all, Nate. You’re a great guy. You’ve done a great service and we are forever indebted to you. Your videos alone, for the public, people like myself you have helped severely thank you. You help us so much; I hope someone can help you as you have helped us.

  • @EduardoOrtizFrau
    @EduardoOrtizFrau 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    For every person that thanks you for helping them (here or anywhere else), there's 50 more that feel that way and just haven't expressed it yet. This is my first time thanking you, but seeing your videos changed my life 2 years ago. You helping SO many people out there, more than you know

  • @zoefreeman9478
    @zoefreeman9478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m sorry this happened, some people are so quick to react to something without taking the time to understand it, super ignorant and harmful :(

  • @dannymac1310
    @dannymac1310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Nathan, when I had a massive wave of anxiety 2 years ago, watching your videos quite literally kept me sane. I can't thank you enough for that. Thank you for having the courage to put yourself in a vulnerable situation in order to help people who are suffering with anxiety and OCD. I pray for peace for you and your family. Love ya dude.

  • @julioserrano8730
    @julioserrano8730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Never Stop, you are a light in this OCD community. With you all the way!!!!

  • @andeetate7356
    @andeetate7356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This was so amazing. Way to face your fear, rise above the trauma of being bullied, and live your values. I count myself incredibly blessed to have found you online and to have you as my therapist. Your videos truly help people who are struggling. You have such a great ability to explain, teach, and offer tools. My favorite part is that you are practicing forgiveness and extending grace during a very difficult experience. Powerful message of seeing the humanity and encouraging understanding and empathy. Keep on keepin’ on!

  • @Dee17
    @Dee17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    That’s horrible and definitely proves there needs to be wayyy more education on the topic of ocd. Glad you are feeling better!

  • @mmriccardi
    @mmriccardi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I remember this. I’m so sorry you went through all that. As a therapist and a person with lived experience, I truly value your content. There is so much misinformation on this topic and it’s heartbreaking (and maddening -including what happened to you). Keep doing what you’re doing. You are valued and appreciated!

  • @JakeBickerton
    @JakeBickerton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Really sorry to hear this, Nathan. It must have been a real shock when you came across the tweet and saw your well articulated advice about OCD manipulated in such a horrible, bullying way. It was also really uplifting and encouraging to see how many people went on to explain how misguided and ill-informed the guy's tweet was. I hope you're feeling a lot better about it all now.

  • @Sebasdranf
    @Sebasdranf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I barely can express all the support and understanding that Nathan has provided to me. His videos about OCD/Anxiety has been a shining light at the end of the tunnel since the last summer. Thanks to Nathan I decided to reach out for professional help and for now I'm a much more educated and resilient person that I never thought. His example inspired me to serve as an source of courage for the people around me.

  • @jakeharris1242
    @jakeharris1242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Nathan, I discovered your channel and videos when I was at one of the darkest points in my life, struggling through intense Scrupulosity that I didn’t even know had anything to do with OCD. It was absolutely tearing me apart. I genuinely think that your videos saved my life - they encouraged me to seek help elsewhere, and to keep fighting, knowing that what I was struggling with was the monster that is OCD and that I’m not alone in my fight at all. Your work shone clarity and light into my dark dark circumstances, and for that I am so incredibly grateful. Hearing this story that someone was trying to use a misunderstanding to spread hatred towards you was truly saddening, but I’m so glad to hear that you got well-deserved support and worked through the mental hardships of it all. Though I know you explained that you overcame the need to be re-assured by others, I wanted to just write this comment of support and share that your work has truly helped me as well as so many others… thank you so, so, incredibly much. Let’s educate others on OCD and anxiety and make this world a better place!!

  • @bhavikdarolia
    @bhavikdarolia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your videos saved my relationship, your work should not be criticized it is literally just so amazing how much you taught us about OCD and anxiety.

  • @BigPhil2024
    @BigPhil2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Nate, we’ve never met - but know you’re an inspiration and have helped thousands around the world with your content. Very sorry to hear of this attack - know you’re loved!

  • @Tangentbordsblues
    @Tangentbordsblues 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was a half-hearted fan of his, but this disappointed me tremendously. You can of course blame it all on ignorance, but he needs to make up for the damage he caused. To see the silverlining, this is a lesson for us all, how ocd/anxiety loops work, and how you can experience the triggers etc. and be reminded how the people you help feel.

  • @ZBeets720
    @ZBeets720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dear Nate,
    You are a special person. You have helped my 16 year old son feel less alone and even manage to laugh about his OCD on his darkest days. Please keep making videos!

  • @chanellemartin5463
    @chanellemartin5463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WHAT!!! just goes to show literally anyone can be hated online 😭😭 sending you love and support

  • @SOGSouljah
    @SOGSouljah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dude some of your videos quite literally saved my life during times I had intense OCD, anxiety, and self harming thoughts... Having someone else that understood my anxiety kept me alive... THANK YOU

  • @j.c.denton2060
    @j.c.denton2060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are extremely brave for going through this experience and advocating for people who are tortured with this every day of our lives. You deserve a medal. The worst part is you weren't advocating on behalf of ACTUAL offenders, only those with OCD who are tortured with meaningless thoughts. God bless and thank you.

  • @aspenx-qc3rm
    @aspenx-qc3rm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “i want to lead by example” you truly are. thank you for posting this!
    i also saw when he reposted your clip and it hurt me to see someone say that people with that type of ocd deserve to die. “p” should be stigmatized, but ocd should not be. despite not being into politics i never really liked him in the first place but that remark was the nail in the coffin for me. i moved on and forgot about this incident but back then i underestimated the affect that him reposting your clip would have. the things you went through are things that happen to me in periods of high anxiety too, and i feel truly sorry that you had to experience that. thank you for persevering and staying around to keep making videos. this may not have been a good situation, but it made me happy to hear how you were able to recover!

  • @georgejohnson5904
    @georgejohnson5904 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This incident was really triggering for me, I can't imagine what is was like being at the centre of it. You're an awesome human who is helping so many people, and I'm so glad you were able to pull through.

  • @Mr.Hydradude
    @Mr.Hydradude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You saved my life. You have done more for me than any other therapist/book/etc. I am forever grateful for you and the knowledge you share here! Don't stop!! Also, I'm actually kind of relieved to hear that even you needed a low dose medication. I did too, so I'm glad to see I'm not a failure. The combo of your videos and medication has made me feel 100%. Much love ❤️

  • @gracie1901
    @gracie1901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I watched this happen in real time. The individual is a mean, mean person and not only does he know it, he’s proud of it. His followers are the same. Wishing violence and extreme reactions rather than listen to people who know what they’re talking about. It sent me into one of my worst spirals and I am STILL recovering.
    He is a MEAN, unintelligent man who gets away with so many of his antics. I’m sorry this happened to you and our beautiful community who is so vulnerable. We need protection not harm.

  • @slapemjackem
    @slapemjackem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’m so, so sorry this happened to you. Your videos saved me from some of the darkest moments of my life and led to me finally getting a diagnosis and the help I’d needed for almost 20 years. And I know I’m just one in a sea of others you’ve so positively impacted. I just want to express my appreciation and gratitude for all that you do. Thank you. And thank you for sharing your story. I wish you the best as you continue to heal!

  • @cleverhandle420
    @cleverhandle420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for being an OCD and anxiety advocate. ❤

  • @lisasims1652
    @lisasims1652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's because ocd no matter what type you have is soooo misunderstood and noone knows what's It's really like to have ocd and struggle with your ocd on a daily basis so I am glad you are talking about this and continue to inspire and encourage those of us with ocd to find the strength to fight back against our brains and get better....for me with contamination ocd I struggle with NOT owning my ocd thoughts as my own instead of since I know it's not and it's my ocd to just let it stay in my brain and not pay attention to it...I get impatient and just want my anxiety to quickly lessen so I can continue to move on....thanks for this video,I love listening to your ocd videos for encouragement and hope.

  • @MikeWazowski680
    @MikeWazowski680 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I didn’t know, I’m so sorry you went through that, Nathan. What you described is exactly how I felt when I got my last ocd episode, but I still can’t imagine going trough it in the public eye. Your videos along with Ali Greymond, saved my life, you were a Godsend for me. I can’t believe someone who clearly doesn’t understand OCD and who has that big a platform, would do such a thing, it’s so irresponsible. I am so glad to hear you are doing good and you feel better, please keep doing what you do, you are literally saving lives! May God Bless you and protect you and your family always. Thank you so much for all you do!❤️❤️❤️

  • @derekbehrens9744
    @derekbehrens9744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nate, I remember when this attack happened. I was LIVID to see what people were saying about you and about the OCD community. I'm so glad you're doing better now, thank you for all you do and for being an inspiration.

  • @embroideredragdoll
    @embroideredragdoll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m sorry this happened to you, I don’t think I could’ve handled something like this as well as you despite your struggles.
    I’ve never had a diagnosis but I’m thankful for your videos for helping me with my intrusive thoughts they’ve honestly been the best thing for me and I constantly recommend them to anyone who’s struggling with ocd or intrusive thoughts. I don’t where I would’ve been without you.

  • @GreekHouseEffect
    @GreekHouseEffect 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are an amazing human being, Nate and I'm furious and saddened this happened to you. Unfortunately I'm not surprised that this "creator" (not gonna say his name) is responsible since he is notorious for purposely ignoring science in order to promote his ideology and earn virtue signalling points, but it's beyond frustrating that it affected you and in such cruel ways. I'm so glad you are mostly over these hard times and continue life as wll as possible. Your videos were a valuable companion in the darkest period of my life and I'm super grateful for your magnificent work. I just hope that a**h*le didn't cause too much suffering with his irresponsible at best and straight up malicious at worst posts. Keep on rocking, Nate, you are awesome and precious!

  • @DMAN590
    @DMAN590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I saw all that happen and went to war for you Nathan. I am also a casual viewer of crowder so it really upset me at how willfully ignorant they were being. Really also made me question their critical thinking skills.

    • @h7pubg
      @h7pubg ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I used to watch crowder every day but that was my breaking point, have not watched an episode since, it was hard because I was struggling with many forms of ocd at the time, and I used the show as a daily routine to do while i exercised.
      how is it that hard to understand that the point of this ocd theme is that it literally targets people based on something they morally detest, just as it did when I was unaware of ocd, had an intrusive thought of harm while holding a knife, and ruminated and was fearful of that thought long after. I could not trust crowder for anything in good faith after that.

  • @jeremyshumanpsyd2050
    @jeremyshumanpsyd2050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Maybe the most important video you've made to date, and there are some great ones to contend with. Its so painful to think that even the outpouring of support was a trigger and the reassurance meant that you had something real to worry about instead of feeling the love of the community you built. I hope that along with all the growth you describe, this community starts to feel like a place to rest in peaceful ease of connection, and the positive response you get here starts to feel like appreciation again rather than reassurance. If I were to describe your channel in 3 words it would be compassionate, brave, and polished.

  • @Soldier_4_Christ
    @Soldier_4_Christ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bro your videos have helped me so much. I have a family who needs me to be strong and overcome this more and more in my OCD loves to attack them the most and the exact topic you’re talking about is something I have struggled with in avoiding my kids, but your words encourage me to push through to let me know I’m not a monster. Do not give up. I love what you’re doing. My ocd just came out of nowhere like eight months ago. I’ve always had it a little bit, but never the intrusive thoughts so I thought I was going crazy when this happened but found comfort in Your videos. Thank you brother God bless you and your family.

  • @simplyfit9256
    @simplyfit9256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please never delete your channel! We need you! Not only are you a great, kind person who deserves the best in the world, many of us won't survive without you.

  • @jbailey1898
    @jbailey1898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you!!! I hope you are feeling well and have healing and peace. My daughter has POCD (I think). She's been away from home on a religious mission and is coming home on Tuesday, exhausted and feeling broken from her OCD and dealing with the intrusive thoughts and mental compulsions. I'm praying and studying to try and educate myself on how to help her. You are very valuable to me and my daughter. Thank you.

  • @gelpens750
    @gelpens750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm part of an OCD Discord with tons of people and we've been talking about you all morning. What happened to you infuriated us, but we're also so inspired and amazed by your perseverance. Every day we dismantle the stigma and misinformation of OCD a little more and that's so difficult when you're a big creator. We want you to know we're incredibly grateful for you and support you. ❤️

  • @owenlarson07366
    @owenlarson07366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You helped me through a very difficult period of health anxiety. Thank you.

    • @ocdandanxiety
      @ocdandanxiety  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your support! It really means a lot!

  • @lilianagramajo3847
    @lilianagramajo3847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You’ve gotten me through the toughest of times. I’m sending a big hug. Thank you for everything you do!!❤

  • @JB-sh7qy
    @JB-sh7qy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The reason so many are drawn to your channel is bc you talk about so many areas that others lack knowledge, and training in. We have a lack of specialized therapists in many parts of this country, and ppl just have a need to get help in any way they can (ex. TH-cam). Even those of us that don’t have OCD enjoy learning from you. Thank you for not deleting your channel and for making all of us feel normal, regardless of what we may struggle with.

  • @Th4EvilH4nd
    @Th4EvilH4nd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nate, so sorry to hear that happened. I can’t imagine the pain that must have caused. The men on that show were so painfully incorrect and judgmental of a disease they know nothing about and of a person literally doing the Lord’s work in making it his sole focus to help those suffering.
    It makes me so angry, even more so because I used to watch that show. I can’t believe how bad of a take that was, and how despite the damage caused he hasn’t mended anything with you or those with OCD.

  • @mahinshahrier7022
    @mahinshahrier7022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nate, after my dad passed away from covid, I came close to taking my life many times. My OCD symptoms became 100/10 every moment of the day. If I hadn’t found your channel and similar resources, I might have never gotten help (ERP with a therapist or started Zoloft) or even understood that OCD wasn’t a death sentence. I don’t think I’d be alive right now. Its hard for me to say anything more, but I just want to say from the bottom of my heart, you are absolutely amazing.

  • @saltydog22179
    @saltydog22179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you so much for this beautiful video, Nate. You are such an inspiration to the OCD community, and this video proves what an amazing human being you are for being vulnerable, brave, and open about your struggles. I cannot tell you how grateful I am!!

  • @letsgofishingene
    @letsgofishingene 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People are heartless. I can't imagine the life they live. Good job. Stay well.

  • @himynameiscarla1870
    @himynameiscarla1870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nathan,
    As soon as you said they could get away with their violent words because they were hypothetical, I instantly knew who it was. I am saddened, but I'm not surprised with their behavior. Terrible. People like that keep the stigma of mental illness going. I am so sorry this happened to you.
    I found you when I first suspected I was suffering with OCD. You've educated and helped so many people. I am so proud of you for enduring and rising above. I wish you nothing but the best. Thank you for helping all of us. You are a gem! ❤

  • @travisgarrett9398
    @travisgarrett9398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You going through this experience just further amplifies your credibility as a therapist with all of us.

  • @christopherramos1540
    @christopherramos1540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I commend you for speaking the truth about all subtypes and putting yourself out there (knowing you could be hurt in the process) in order to maybe help one person get through the day.

  • @chantaltanner4590
    @chantaltanner4590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Nathan for your example - for being a beacon of kindness, love, knowledge and understanding - for teaching the entire world about OCD and helping millions… heal -truly heal in every way

  • @ajdeming4416
    @ajdeming4416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am so sorry that happened to you... Like lots of other media platforms, people have the choice to use social media with either good or bad intentions. However, I truly respect you more for being more transparent in what you are going through as a professional and as a social media spokesperson! Thank you! Thank you!

  • @angelagoodell4721
    @angelagoodell4721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think this is my first ever comment on a youtube video. This video has brought me to tears. First off, can I just say how much your videos have inspired me to continue pushing forward? Struggling with ANY type of OCD is a dark place to be and your videos have brought so much hope back to my life. I don't want this comment to be taken as reassurance or validation but maybe just a message of hope like you have given the rest of us: Thank you for sharing this experience and being extremely brave and vulnerable. Thank you for taking time to heal and in the meantime, practicing what you preach. What a beautiful example of not only hope but execution in a very hard time in your life. And thank you for continuing to make these videos. A lot of people, (including myself) truly benefit from them. Imagine being the person that reminds others who feel completely isolated, that they truly aren't alone. Sending so much love to you and your family.

  • @lisettebrooks9385
    @lisettebrooks9385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Nathan, you offer so so much help to so many people - this just highlights how desperately more awareness is needed around this subtype of OCD, which in my experience is one of the MOST COMMON and least discussed. You change lives, keep going and we can keep going with you ❤️

  • @LindsayLohan1
    @LindsayLohan1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your career is built off of helping others, and that guy's whole career is built off spreading hate. This isn't even about his political views, he's just a very spiteful individual and uses politics as a shield. Keep doing what you do, your work has changed a lot of lives for the better. :)

  • @MB-wz3xk
    @MB-wz3xk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So unfortunate. Our family has benefited immensely from your channel. So sorry you experienced this. ♥️

  • @hawaiidispenser
    @hawaiidispenser 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for speaking honestly about this subject and for not deleting your channel, which has helped so many people.

  • @sophia4582
    @sophia4582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm so sorry to hear this. But the amazing work you do out weighs this horrible incident. Thank you for sharing and keep up the great work.

  • @hiphiprenae
    @hiphiprenae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I want you to know that your videos have provided such a pivotal role in my recovery with OCD. You are one of the best out there and I commend you for making this video. Thank you

  • @hollyswanzy8292
    @hollyswanzy8292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m so sorry you went through that! Your videos are so so helpful!

  • @MrVala77
    @MrVala77 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That's why OCD is so terrible. It makes you question the very things that are important to you. POCD, Violence OCD, intrustive thoughts about harming your loved ones, people you have always cared about and not able to talk about it because of the shame the sufferer feels. Only people who have gone through it or are clinically trained to recognize it can throw people a lifeline.

  • @ozboz2941
    @ozboz2941 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Person with medicated OCD here. I felt this on a personal level and brings me back to when my ocd was at its worst. My heart would also beat out of control, my head would pulse making it constantly hurt, and got physically sick from it. I wish I found your channel 2 years ago when it was at its worst. Your courage to share the knowledge is inspirational and its beautiful to know that people who struggle with it aren't alone. Much respect to you.

  • @ryblinkhopkinson874
    @ryblinkhopkinson874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love you Nate! It was so brave to make this video. You've been the biggest source of support for my OCD since I first saw you in 2020 and you're one the greatest people in the world. You've saved so many others with your honesty and knowledge. The OCD community will always have your back! 😃 ❤️

  • @ThroughTheSmile
    @ThroughTheSmile 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You’ve helped me so much in my life and I am forever grateful for that, why someone would attack you is beyond me. Keep doing what you’re doing it’s helping so many people dealing with anxiety and ocd.

  • @FernandoVazquez-ro1nw
    @FernandoVazquez-ro1nw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    From all the people, those who actually provide help (especially at no cost such as your videos) are the least deserving people of something like this. I am so sorry. You have helped thousands of people survive. You are a hero. And even though you don't want to name the person who did all of this, they should be put in their place and be held accountable.

  • @TheCalmnessinMindProcess
    @TheCalmnessinMindProcess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You know you did the right thing Nathan, these things happen man.

  • @user-bb5jm9fs3w
    @user-bb5jm9fs3w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    so sorry you had to go through this. glad you’re doing better now!

  • @fromdopetohope
    @fromdopetohope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You’re an inspiration! Because of you, today i am OCD free and helping others to get free too ❤ keep shining

  • @premierjoseph9871
    @premierjoseph9871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am From Africa Tanzania And Mental Health is Not A Priority Here. I just finished University This Year and I was diagnosed with harm and Pure OCD. I don't have The Money for expensive Psychology therapy but I think your An angel For starting this TH-cam Channel To help someone Like Me In This Remote Rural Area in Africa. You Just Don't Know How Your Videos Have Changed My Life From Being scared To Live until Having Hope to live Again.
    THE BEST ADVICE I HAVE GOT IN THIS CHANNEL IS STOP DOING COMPULSION. It has helped Me A lot🤍🙏🏻 I was afraid of knives For fear I might harm someone With It But since Stop doing compulsion has kept me in The Right spot.
    Please please don't ever delete this youtube channel its for people like us Not The Negative sayers Who don't Know How OCD is Hell in most Of People Lives.
    Hope I may Oneday Meet You and Thank You For Your kind Generous Heart.
    I love You so Much❤️🙏🏻

  • @meadowm1742
    @meadowm1742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so sorry that you were subjected to such a nasty attack. You are a wonderful guy and your videos are so helpful.Warm thoughts.

  • @haydndavis6753
    @haydndavis6753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a doctoral student at BYU. Your videos have helped me so much professionally and personally. I haven't found any better videos on these topics. Thank you.

  • @rajuk-uf1sl
    @rajuk-uf1sl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Keep doing the good work. You dont know how many lives have you saved and changed. Mine is one of them.
    Let people misunderstand you. That doesnt mean anything.
    The people who matter doesnt mind , the people who mind dosnt matter.

    • @Digfeh
      @Digfeh ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you know who said thoese things

  • @feli598
    @feli598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You’ve helped me and so many people feel understood and I can’t thank you enough for that! Your content is truly inspiring and life changing ❤️

  • @pabloschaffner9419
    @pabloschaffner9419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'll never understand the haters. You are an amazing human being :)

  • @Laura-fd7ej
    @Laura-fd7ej 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's insane that ppl don’t understand videos like that. I was so thankful to find about any ocd that exists. Your work means so much to the world

  • @07CStorm
    @07CStorm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Love ya Nate, you’re out here changing lives educating the public on OCD. I’m so sorry you experienced this! And I’m so grateful you decided to keep your channel up and make this video. This had me in the question if perhaps the OCD community would benefit from changing the name of POCD for the sake of effectiveness. Not to succumb to miseducation but for the sake of reducing reactivity in the pursuit of education.

    • @user-vo2xb3hv9t
      @user-vo2xb3hv9t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think that's a good idea actually, some themes seem to get way more miseducated hate because people see the name and make faulty conclusions

  • @jacquieheslop6877
    @jacquieheslop6877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is exactly why what you are doing is so important. People need to understand.

  • @175Chaos
    @175Chaos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey there! I don't usually comment anywhere but I just wanted you to know that you're doing everything right and your work is extremely important for people all over the world! Unfortunately, being a public figure and posting content online is always a risk of being attacked for one thing or the other but I'm glad that you overcame it. Good luck and thank you for your content!

  • @AnimalLover-xc4df
    @AnimalLover-xc4df 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nathan Peterson was the one who helped me find a diagnosis in my thirties. I am so grateful for his videos! This video is very touching and inspiring.

  • @heatherchipman8690
    @heatherchipman8690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you so, so much for being so brave to face your fear and vulnerable to share your experience. I think of you and your videos ALL THE TIME and am so grateful for all you do, Nathan!!! You've have helped me tremendously (and continue to do so as I often 'see and hear' you in my head saying Maybe, Maybe Not when I am doing an exposure. I hope something like this never happens to you (or anyone) again! It's not fair but you've walked the walk and shown everyone you can do it. I'm so grateful to you!!! Please keep taking care of yourself. I hope you continue to improve. :)

  • @user-iy1fv1nr5c
    @user-iy1fv1nr5c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nathan, I just want you to know that you have helped me so much in my journey and I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I wish that you continue to experience happiness and contentment in your life. May God bless you and protect you.

  • @KhoroshavinKosmos
    @KhoroshavinKosmos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nathan, thank you for what you are doing. My OCD has started after I have fled from war-town Ukraine to Belgium. If not your videos, I don't know what would I do to myself and how would I live. And thank you for braking the taboo around POCD, if it is a thing, why shouldn't people know about it? The people attacking you are ridiculous.