Wow! Poor lady 😢 i just want to give her a hug. Ive experienced something of the same and not to be believed and the case collapse is just not fair. I admire your strength bless you.
I’ve had your life sadly even down to my children and lost my mum I’ve cried watching your story so thank you for helping me grieve and stay 15 years clean x
Me either. As one lives and learns, you learn to spot people, not by what they say but how they say it, their micro expressions and their eyes. Very little is actually communicated in words. You learn very quickly. Sorry but no.
Exactly that , I had to turn the video off. I don’t know who this woman is but I’ve had enough of listening to her . The absolute lack of empathy, yet telling people to come forward? Calling it shameful? You know what if you have been SA’d please don’t feel any shame .
She has dissociated from it to be able to tell the story pretty sure she had spent time being empathic and got her no where only speaking from experience
I think it's maybe her "Bipolar" I'm EUPD myself (ppl never know how to take me at times) i go through different moods throughout the day, it really changes me as a person. I guess what im saying is! Ppl deal with things differently.
I just want give this lady a big hug she’s an amazing lady and such an inspiration if she was my mum I’d be so proud !!! it’s crazy how you could pass her in the street and not know how crazy her life has been she a survivor a warrior and deserves to be happy I’m proud of you Gemma this world is such an evil place and people need be aware of how dark it is
All I want to do is hug this poor woman. She should be so proud of herself speaking out like this, she’s an inspiration to everyone, and her son. Her honesty is amazing. Sending her so much love ❤❤
Beautiful and raw episode - the strength she has shown and that many women show in the face of such trauma is incredible. However.. commenting on the credibility of a sexual assault case and what the victim did or didn’t do, hits a nerve with me. Surely she knows the questioning, guilt and the shame that can sometimes cause woman to stay silent for decades. Much respect to her and the podcast ❤️
you want to be so proud of yourself i relate too alot of whats happened in my own life & ive had abuse all my life lived a crazy life id love to do a podcast or write a book about my own life go girl you done amazing speaking your truth xx
i went to school with gem in all my classes such a lovely girl. it goes to show you never know what goes on behind closed doors Brave for telling her story ❤ what a woman shes become. if you read this gemma is joe mac by the way x
Big respect for this lady, she’s obviously been through a lot! however talking about someone else’s SA story and saying what she would and wouldn’t do and not believing the girl is very sad for someone who also didn’t have her story believed. I don’t think she should have commented on it in such a big platform
You’re absolutely correct I shouldn’t have commented on this case without knowing the details. I was only briefly told that she was accusing a man in the public eye without going to the police first. She slandered his name over social media before going to the police. There are a lot of girls that do lie unfortunately then sadly the genuine cases get thrown out of court. I fully apologise for my insensitive comment however, she should have built a case with the police before exposing her perpetrator.
And the truth is men in power very often abuse their power towards young boys and girls. Including sa and other horrible things. There's many cases of proof throughout history.
Strong woman. I can only speak for myself and my circle, but there are still strong and dangerous men out there that only look to protect others that may need it ❤
It's heartbreaking how desensitised she's become to so many hideous events. She's been through so much and is an inspiration sharing her story. First time watching your podcast, had me hooked.
The didn’t get off with rape because other women lie. That’s a frustrating thing to hear 😡. Less than 3 % of women who are SA’d get a conviction, don’t tell me that most of the 97% lie 😡. Sadly the structure of “justice” is stacked against them.
Not at all. 63% of rape is not reported. 12% of child abuse is reported. 2-10% is false.. So most are not reported, or some are probably reported years later.. Women have fought hard to be believed. The female in the video is right, claims of false rape. Knocks real rape back years.. Heart breaking, truly heartbreaking..
Shes trying so hard to be tough.but you can see she's not so happy.i just wanna pick her up n make sure i hug her n dont let go until she truly feels safe n happy again.
Wow… someone that’s famous doesn’t need to SA… how ignorant and judgemental. Maybe the struggle makes him tick. To judge another like that is terrible. I see the actions of somebody crying but no tears.
Big respect for you lovely lady! I agree with the whole thing about the police and girls being SA , whole reason I decided to drop my own case because they made me feel like I was lying including my family , I had no support from anywhere so he got away with it, I was 12 when it happened they were 17 and I’m now 28 and I just don’t ever speak about it now. This is the first time I’m speaking now. I hate it when people lie about being SA because they don’t actually understand what is that have actually been through it have to go through 😔 lots of love to you beautiful! Xx
Wow, just wow Gemma Your strength is unmeasurable. You are an absolute warior. I can identify with a lot of your story and after listening to you ive realised theres a few more skeletons i need to put to bed (which is a good thing lol) so i thank you. Keep being you. Youre an absolute soldier ♥️
I’m so sorry that happened to you, women in my family were groomed by a sibling/cousin and assaulted, he went after me I escaped but he got away with it in Crien Court because it was historic, my sister and his sister are mentally and physically unwell because of it … Jemma is right speak out, please teach our young girls to speak out my sister was 12 😢😢😢😢
Why was she apologising to her mum for being tear away teen after everything she was subjected to as a child because of her parents. Why didn’t people have sympathy for her after everything she went through
I’m only 20 mins in and I just wanna hold this lady and be a mum to her and love her and protect her 😢❤️ I’m gonna try and listen to the rest but it’s very hard
She is absolutely brave and intelligent. Hope she is doing ok now. I hope the scum who raped her. Suffers a slow painful death and rots in hell. Justice system is absolutely screwed up. X
It’s interesting that these people stick together, flatter each other in certain ways. I’m probably going to get slammed for these comments but she has plenty, plenty to say so we are entitled to look at things differently just like she wants us to look at things a different way.
Really struggled with this ladies journey, my heart goes out to her, the contious attacks against woman and it always been the women's fault is so hard to deal with, still in this time. I wish this lady nothing but the best for her future. And so sorry she had to deal with this shit.
Umm, shes had a bad life.. but she brought a lot on her self through poor choices. Like fucking the prison warden for god sake, taking kids to go look at e blood of the stabbed person down at the park. Men need to avoid women like this, don’t even go there for a one night stand.
Time stamp 26:00 This is so uninformed and ignorant of SA. First of all, what a weird question to ask. Also this woman saying she would blame herself for not speaking out about SA. This is a really sensitive issue and I don’t think you should produce podcasts with this level of depth if this is how you portray it. I think this is really distasteful and I hope you put some more thought into your research and understanding of these topics in the future
Completely agree. The victim blaming is unreal and so irresponsible. Don’t know how the lady could be so judgmental given what her experience has been!
As I mentioned earlier, it was insensitive of me to comment on someone else's SA case without knowing enough about it. Having gone through it myself, I feel strongly about it and struggle to understand how someone could have the courage to announce it on social media but not have the courage to go to the police and press charges first. If she had gone to the police to file charges then she has every right to publicly announce her perpetrator however, not before hand.
@@melbudd768 thank you very much for time stamping this for us and educating us about SA. Well make sure next time we interview someone on SA we remember this comment from Melbudd. Stay Central
She has an attitude she's one of those that like to be the loudest in the room, but if she were smart she'd realise it's not always wise to talk, talk, talk! I'm genuinely Sorry for what she's been through, that is absolutely disgusting and I'm sorry for her. But she's putting alot of blame onto others, what can you do? Stop putting yourself in voulnerable situation lovely! I speak from experience I have been off heroin for 5 years but I substituted it for pre gabalin. I honestly agree with her id love to help change stigma but she's trying to make heroin sound like cool or something....I can say when you're in withdrawal for the opiate alot of people will do anything to not be sick..it's not nice but i always felt different from them i got.bullied alot and if i was in a room of brown users they all used to "graft" me....only people who speak my language will understand. If you start "nodding" they'll go through your pockets and then take the trainers off ya feet. So.yes brown users over drunks
Emotional Unstable Personality is most definitely her Disorder not bi-polar - If it did happen I am of course very sad for anyone who has experienced a life like she has - but it’s evident she absolutely loves it - as she said herself she always new she would go to strangeways one day - it’s in her DNA - My gut tells me there is another half to each story she has told - however I am sure your life was tough regardless of the truth ♥️ all the best
Call me naive, crazy, stupid, or even a middle-aged boomer. But I am also a single mom with a pure heart and the fighting spirit of a lion. And today this lioness wants to share her experience with everyone. About a young woman. A young woman who presents herself here. Simply because I question her. Is this the only story she should tell, or is there more? yes, much more even. and that is why I feel called to share that other story as well. only then will everyone know the real truth. After seeing and hearing this podcast multiple times, I have had several conversations with my myself. Do I even want to call her out? But, having to pick up the pieces of a broken heart myself for way too many times, it became pretty clear to me that there are not only “fuckboys and bad guys out there”. This girl who calls herself “Gemma" has stolen the heart of my cousin. For almost 2 years I have witnessed all the love, joys, and sorrows every day from the sidelines. Each smile his son had when he received a gift from you. We have opened so many birthday presents or Christmas packages. Why also break an innocent little boy’s heart? The thought of dropping my cousin off at the airport, waving him goodbye on the way to his great love in England while you where also living a completely other life is mind-blowing. Yes, Gemma, we met too. We talked so often via FaceTime. The chats about your dreams, future, and happiness here on the other side of the sea. To now having to hear that this is all one big fat lie is simply shocking. I'm seriously dumbfounded and open-mouthed astonished. “How can anyone maintain this double life for more than 24 months? Apparently there are also women who are manipulative, narcissistic, and capable of completely destroying the lives of a man and a young boy. Leaving them completely shattered. Heartbroken and full of sadness and doubt. Was it all just fun for you? Was it just a distraction for you? A fun pastime to forget your pain and questionable past? Are you even really who you pretend to be? Is your name even Gemma? Who knows? We'll never know. That’s for sure. I thought long and hard about speaking up. But if there is something that I hold in high regard, it’s honesty. As a big, loving family, we will always promote values such as respect, trustworthiness, and loyalty. We will never stop to fight for everything and everyone we love. Too bad you will never be a part of our family ever again. I guess your lessons of life are always presented to you at your present level of understanding. For now, I’m not saying goodbye to you, "Gemma." I'm saying goodbye to Jane Doe, because we will never know. I think you are underestimating the importance of honesty.
@@LeviLowe-p6eif shes your mum you should be here supporting her not calling her a liar.You arent a very good son are you? Some day you will understand the whats,whys and wherefores. Just try to understand what makes her who she is or isnt.
Prefer when you get guests like this on Callum. Keep them coming. She tells her story very well. Something about it all doesn't quite add for me. But either way very interesting to listen to. Thanks. Ps I'd still love an in-depth one about your uncle. Sounds like a fascinating character. I can interview u on your show about him if you want 👍
Have every sympathy for this woman, but this is also a lesson in how victim mentality ruins lives. She has made herself so disempowered, I see this so much as a common thread among people whose lives are shit. So much of it is mindset, “learned helplessness” and lack of self belief
Top content Cullen it's a bit different, in moss side much more gun than Cardiff I've been up there scary but some villain says Cardiff is just as bad at night without the guns now, that's another story I could say!! Top guest appearance.here.
This lady is off!! Complete lack of empathy for SA victims and shaming people for not reporting immediately. Very ignorant. Anyone watching this who has been through something similar, other people opinions on your journey is irrelevant. Take as much time as you need and be kind to yourself.
Not everyones gonna agree with me for this but 🤷🏽♀️ for someone who wants to break stigmas and hates judgement towards addicts she comes across as VERY judgemental to me.
You cant speak & you do belive no kne will belive you , i was a teen in and out of jail and i was brutality raped & nearly murdred by gang members that payed me to smuggle drugs in to a mans jail.i really don't know how i didnt die as i was beat to an inch of my life 😢i was also scared of grassing at the time i just got on with it , i am so angry now, I also suffred abrain hemmridges later on in life & I always wonder if the blows to my head contributed to it. I can relate to misread if her story , I am so happy she is a strong powerful woman ❤
God bless you you have been through so much I don't no how you have coped I really don't 😢😢😢😢😢😢 bipolarmumjourney I've put this because I want to remember to get on her chanel I understand a lot of what you have been through as I've been through a lot of similar but you are so strong 💪 I have emotional unstable personality disorder I've had 5 kids ife fought through my life aswell I've just found this I don't no how u have got this far I just want to say the gang raxx iam so sorry that they got away with that I've also had bouts of psychosis were I thought my partner had injected me with herion I also thought he got read my thoughts through telepathy but u belive it at the time I've been on a rolacoaster of pure shit with mental health but you are a inspiration love you hunny you have masses of support your fighting for us mums with mental health addiction nope no one has a clue of what we go through I could tell a thousand stories but iam on your side on mental health depression and anxiety keep it going you have my vote 🎉God bless you
@@lynnejones7206 thanks for your comment Lynne, I think as humans we all have preferences, I’ve been guilty of judging someone by the way the look and even sound, but facts are facts, and courage is courage, she’s come on here and spoken about a lot of dark and shameful things, so i one believe her and two applaud her! Anyway I hope you can come around with this opinion. Stay Central x
I think very early on this is quite a tramatic story to listen to. Particularly her step dad and his sister part. IF that's your main observation from this podcast.. Well...
Life can be so hard at times but living with a serious mental illness like bipolar and psychosis is like living in a different realm ,I know this from personal experience 😢
she is not bi polar. she has been seriously targeted. change your title. If she thinks she's bi polar she's wrong. it has been orchestrated. God bless this woman ....I love her so much.
I was listening and had respect for you until you said what you did about the other lady's case. Who are you to say what's right and wrong? Also as a victim/survivor of this to make the comment that people in power don't need to s.a people.....that's absolutely wrong. Actually people use there positions of power to do this often. Police officers have been convicted of this. Stick to speaking for yourself you cannot say what's true and not for others. After being through shit myself I'd never ever say someone was lying as you just never know. This stuff is about control. Not about not being able to get up Consenting sex. That doesn't give them the sick kick they want. So your so wrong. People that get plenty sex still rape
@thecentralclub no I'm not forgetting what she went through, I am just gobsmacked that after being through this she would say things like this about someone else's case..before it happened to me yes I was self righteous but after no. I'd never comment now saying someone wasn't or how they dealt with it is wrong. Anybody is capable and theres no right way to cope. Also for her to say no I don't think people of power need to do it that scared me. That's the kind of people that do it most, the perpetrator is usually in a position of power. It actually made me worry for her that this was her view as I feel that makes her vulnerable to people that are powerful. Women need to understand and know this is usually where it starts. The women she's commenting on, will be devastated hearing this If it happened. She will feel judged about how she went about it and that stops people from coming forward. You just can't comment or judge how a victim/survivor deals with something, especially if you've been through it you would think you'd be more understanding
People in power are of a certain type of personality, i think its wreckless to make such massive generalised ignorant statements that people in power dont need to S,A had Gemma heard if epstein,saville,diddy theclist goes on,Gemma S,A is about power ,control and humiliation not just having sex!
This lady has been through a lot. It’s her 2nd podcast and here she speaks about the entirety of her life. I sometimes forget my boys mum was as held down and poured with acid. I forget when a guy on my road took a shot gun to the face. U see a lot when u grow up in certain areas of the UK. So much so u forget about these things! U can’t even remember every M! And the host should listen when she’s talking her truth and not be on his phone.
Crying produces tears, and make eyes red and puffy! As she said, she is winging it, thinking people will see straight through this. ..so her book needs categorising as fictional drama!
I live in a town what is over 95% homogeneous white British of about 5000 people. It a old mining town far north of the shi t holes in the Midlands and Yorkshire. We have our own dodge pots, people on drugs and so on but there is no grape or attacks of a similar type, stabbings or getting your phone snatched to organised begging. I can't stress it enough to vulnerable people, there is still places in England to go to where you can live peacefully, yes very far and few between but there is.
@@peterrogers4282 and that’s fair enough Pete, I can only speak from my experience, and I agree with Gemma, maybe that’s just me being an ex heroin addict, but for someone like Gemma who didn’t use, but was around it I understand why she enjoyed it and would prefer to be with them, there’s nothing worse than drunken rowdy people when your sober, especially when your young x
You have know idea mate. I feel sorry for you that you have to comment on a women’s story where she’s putting everything on the line. It’s men like you that are the problem in this country brother
"I wouldnt put it on social media" she says while doin a podcast on her own alleged SA story.. I've seen her excuses in the comments aswell.. 'I was insensitive' . No hun, that was absolutely disgusting. Really turned the whole chat that lil outburst. Not even interested in the end now.
woah wait a minute mate; she went to the Police the next day, you've clearly missed the whole question, we asked would you have gone to social media to tell about SA and not the police? She entitled to write a book and go live everyday about it if she wants because she went to the correct channels in the first place. but ill ask you, if you was SA? would you not go to the police, but only Social media? because that's bizarre if so? Were not having a go in the slightest but were just trying to make you understand because we understood what she meant by it.
@@thecentralclubwell said mate, I totally understood what she meant. The first question people would have asked her after posting that on FB would have been.. OMG… have you reported it to the police? Then, if she said no, I guarantee that a majority of people would judge her straight away and accuse her of looking for attention. As wrong as that may be, that’s what people are like. Why do these people commenting on Gemma being a hypocrite not understand her point! Her comment about people in power not needing to rape was a thoughtless comment and I’m sure if she looked back at it she would understand that it wasn’t the right thing to say. I am also sure that she didn’t mean to be insensitive to other victims of SA. We are all human and can all make mistakes when talking about things, it’s just highlighted when It’s being watched by thousands of people
This is all very weird, jumping from violence,different men, getting pregnant so many dodge moves, accepting strange men’s advances, now we can add prison officers, this women has an uncanny ability to find weirdos everywhere. This interview is not very flattering or doing her any favours.
As soon as I saw the intro I had a funny feeling about her , then watching video u can see so many lies u don’t cry and have not 1 tear fall down ur face , I’m a victim of rape happened 21 years ago and I can’t even tell my story to my therapist and when I try the tears start falling , yess some can tell there story well & with great strength but anyone that tries to cry this way and no one tear drop just doesn’t add up , & never have I seen true victim try to start crying ,
This brave women is not judging anybody and she’s definitely not claiming the accusations are false, after what she’s been through do you really think she would doubt anybody’s story as a women who has been through the same thing? She’s advocating for women all around the world to come out ASAP to the police, not 5 years later and not on a social media platform where not one victim is going to get the justice they deserve so we actually have a chance of convicting these WASTEMAN!!!
As a man myself, i believe if you’re going to accuse a man of something they have done, then you must report it earlier, so it goes to court and that man in question gets to fight his case in court because if not…. as in the Bassman case, the police aren’t interested and there’s no way to clear his name and his name is slandered forever and there’s no way to clear his name and his life is ruined.
My ex passed away at 53 my kids dad from herion he stole from me he beat me he stole from my kids his kids but I forgave him I got out of that situation a long time ago I still went to his funeral but let me tell you he tortured me
Attwoods deleted my comments on his version of this girls interview,cause I'm the only person intelligent enough to notice the fake crying and acting .thevsociapath revelation makes sense. I'm not slagging Shaun off b.t.w,
Wow not keen on the way she starts going in on someone else over putting their story out 5 years after on social media scoffing over it being on social media yet this is social media … that’s pretty gross to listen to the way she is speaking of this person with little to no information
Number 1 she went to the Police the very next day of being abused so she has all the right to talk about it on social media. It’s like you refused to listen to the story. Plus the whole reason we asked her the question was because she knew very little of the person but everything about SA, the perfect person to give her take on it without any bias. I hope you understand this, or maybe you’re biased to the story?
@@thecentralclub I did listen to the whole story. I think she should speak out, I never said she shouldn’t so I think you’ve misread my comment maybe. She did literally scoff at the idea of this woman leaving it 5 years and speaking on social media and it seemed the social media part that just blew her mind. I’m a viewer of yours so not sure why you’re getting defensive when I am watching your videos. I thought whilst listening the way she scoffed at that victim without having really much detail at all, was quite shocking for someone who’s saying believe victims … it was just hypothetical of her. That’s all. Just my opinion and I’d bet a lot of other people noticed 🤷
God love you for the start you had in life and everything that came along after for you. You have tolerated too much and when we experience these things in childhood, we do tolerate it later on too as if it is normal to us. I tolerated abuse and had bad things happen in my teens as well. I think you grow up thinking that there is something wrong with you for not liking things and it being normalised, rather than believing that what happened to you was actually bad and wrong. Therefore you are not strong enough at pushing these people away firmly. I agree with you regarding girls who do lie about sexual abuse being so very wrong and damaging to girls who are telling the truth and not being believed. I was a little shocked when you made a comment about some people being boring for not doing party drugs and the comments about heroin though. I saw my cousins go through a similar childhood to you, with their dad being involved in a gang and murdered, then they grew up as heroin addicts and incredibly violent criminals and it made me totally not want to touch drugs and really strict with my kids. I have paid the price and faced judgement for being the way I am. My family called me cruel and I lost my teenagers because of my stance on going to the police when other people outside my family tried to sell them things. I see my actions as love and protection and I would do the same again. It did lead to me having a breakdown along the way. I married a cult member, which really is another type of gang membership as you are looking for that protection from the world around you. Cults usually involve control and hierarchies just like gangs. Usually children and women are at the bottom of the hierarchy and if you stand up against it, there is a backlash and you are seen as rebellious. My husband was ex-communicated and trying to get back in, also using their rules to control our household and me. He was very depressed as they cut him off from his family until he could prove himself repentant and let him back in. I left at the point of going to the refuge for the second time. My husband was undiagnosed, but possibly manic depressive/bi-polar as his behaviour was very high and low and took it out on me. He did the same to me, in that he locked me in the house and threatened to set fire to it. When I escaped, he took his life. However, he was teetotal and did not touch alcohol or drugs. He was a natural body-builder and came second in Mr Natural Great Britain, so I didn't stand a chance in getting away, until I tricked him to let me and my baby go to the shop and I went straight to Women's Aid, but they had no room, so I went to a B&B opposite a police station in hiding until I got to a solicitor on the Monday morning. I took the brunt of the blame at first, until his family knew what he'd been doing at home. Then we made amends and I became quite close with his mum and some of his siblings. I would never judge an addict as I see it as an illness and some people are more prone to addiction than others too. I do feel frustrated when I speak to people that I have tried to help on the streets and they are still stuck after 10 years, as I want to pull them up out of it and make them take action themselves, but I can't, but no one should judge. Maybe people who make those cruel comments towards addicts have been through something as a result of drugs in their life and are angry and frustrated about it, I don't know. I wish you well for the future. I find great strength in my Christian faith as I am now Born Again and received Holy Spirit in the Church of England at first. When the world around you is going crazy, Jesus is with you in the storm at all times x
1 of the things that happend to me was I had a enlarged heart and was took to from the cells to hospital I was shackled it took me ages to see a doctor in the cells he sent me to hospital I was going to sleep and woke up soaked from the butterfly needles in my arms next thing what happend is I pressed the call nurse button and it was dark and all I saw was a man in a white coat so I assumed it was a doctor he s a me I've never said this to anyone but your story needs people to speak out I feel like I've let me kids down in last 4 years my dad died I lost the plot for about 2 years iam on a ton of meds now I don't leave my home so I've actually put on what a doctor did to me it's somthing I've never said I felt ashamed by it I cant actually say the words out loud 😢
@@Brian_fooking_FerryBrian I've just watched Shaun's attwoods done one with her and it was like she was pretending to cry ,and the trailer looked like acting..
What are you watching geezer? Not the same podcast as the rest of us obviously! You think she would put this story out here for clout????? What are you on man?? are you mad??? Fool!!
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Wow! Poor lady 😢 i just want to give her a hug. Ive experienced something of the same and not to be believed and the case collapse is just not fair. I admire your strength bless you.
I’ve had your life sadly even down to my children and lost my mum I’ve cried watching your story so thank you for helping me grieve and stay 15 years clean x
This whole thing doesnt sit right with me :/ the body language/attitude/ lack of empathy or knowledge on SA victims.
Me either. As one lives and learns, you learn to spot people, not by what they say but how they say it, their micro expressions and their eyes.
Very little is actually communicated in words.
You learn very quickly.
Sorry but no.
Me too
Exactly that , I had to turn the video off. I don’t know who this woman is but I’ve had enough of listening to her . The absolute lack of empathy, yet telling people to come forward? Calling it shameful? You know what if you have been SA’d please don’t feel any shame .
She has dissociated from it to be able to tell the story pretty sure she had spent time being empathic and got her no where only speaking from experience
I think it's maybe her "Bipolar" I'm EUPD myself (ppl never know how to take me at times) i go through different moods throughout the day, it really changes me as a person. I guess what im saying is!
Ppl deal with things differently.
I just want give this lady a big hug she’s an amazing lady and such an inspiration if she was my mum I’d be so proud !!! it’s crazy how you could pass her in the street and not know how crazy her life has been she a survivor a warrior and deserves to be happy I’m proud of you Gemma this world is such an evil place and people need be aware of how dark it is
All I want to do is hug this poor woman. She should be so proud of herself speaking out like this, she’s an inspiration to everyone, and her son. Her honesty is amazing. Sending her so much love ❤❤
Beautiful and raw episode - the strength she has shown and that many women show in the face of such trauma is incredible. However.. commenting on the credibility of a sexual assault case and what the victim did or didn’t do, hits a nerve with me. Surely she knows the questioning, guilt and the shame that can sometimes cause woman to stay silent for decades. Much respect to her and the podcast ❤️
@@chloetudor9911 the Chuck who runs this channel is a child molester..
@@chloetudor9911 and she is lying the entire time, ya hood winked jobbie
@@chloetudor9911 lol
@@Brian_fooking_Ferry Brian grow up.
This bird is solid my hat goes off to her . She’s proper stuff
Thankyou for bringing the stories of these REAL people to us mate.
@@craigphillips9383 it’s a pleasure Craig, thank you for taking out your time to support us and each guest. Stay Central
you want to be so proud of yourself i relate too alot of whats happened in my own life & ive had abuse all my life lived a crazy life id love to do a podcast or write a book about my own life go girl you done amazing speaking your truth xx
i went to school with gem in all my classes such a lovely girl. it goes to show you never know what goes on behind closed doors Brave for telling her story ❤ what a woman shes become. if you read this gemma is joe mac by the way x
Big respect for this lady, she’s obviously been through a lot! however talking about someone else’s SA story and saying what she would and wouldn’t do and not believing the girl is very sad for someone who also didn’t have her story believed. I don’t think she should have commented on it in such a big platform
You’re absolutely correct I shouldn’t have commented on this case without knowing the details. I was only briefly told that she was accusing a man in the public eye without going to the police first. She slandered his name over social media before going to the police. There are a lot of girls that do lie unfortunately then sadly the genuine cases get thrown out of court. I fully apologise for my insensitive comment however, she should have built a case with the police before exposing her perpetrator.
@@AmyKnox-o1i 100% great comment, thanks for supporting Gemma & The Central Club.
And the truth is men in power very often abuse their power towards young boys and girls. Including sa and other horrible things. There's many cases of proof throughout history.
I don't @thecentralclub think she' is talking bs
You are gullible af
If you passed this lady in the street you'd never have thought she'd been through so much heartache.
Brave strong woman with a powerful mindset.
Exactly what I was thinking, she speaks nicely and doesn’t have pink hair or anything. She could pass as middle class
Strong woman. I can only speak for myself and my circle, but there are still strong and dangerous men out there that only look to protect others that may need it ❤
What an amazing women so strong and she should be so proud of herself for coming out the other side 💯
Great podcast.. I love how you delivery it as a host and just let people talk.
What a beautiful, strong, smart woman and the real deal. i hope life is being kind to her now.
Just found this podcast through tiktok! So sad and eye opening. Glad i found your podcast, cant wait to binge all your vids.
thats what its all about! Stay Central
It's heartbreaking how desensitised she's become to so many hideous events. She's been through so much and is an inspiration sharing her story. First time watching your podcast, had me hooked.
The didn’t get off with rape because other women lie. That’s a frustrating thing to hear 😡. Less than 3 % of women who are SA’d get a conviction, don’t tell me that most of the 97% lie 😡. Sadly the structure of “justice” is stacked against them.
Not at all. 63% of rape is not reported.
12% of child abuse is reported.
2-10% is false..
So most are not reported, or some are probably reported years later..
Women have fought hard to be believed. The female in the video is right, claims of false rape. Knocks real rape back years..
Heart breaking, truly heartbreaking..
Agree
Shes trying so hard to be tough.but you can see she's not so happy.i just wanna pick her up n make sure i hug her n dont let go until she truly feels safe n happy again.
Absolute inspiration wow I love you so much for your bravery i have been through it and feel it rip through my heart for you ❤️
Wow… someone that’s famous doesn’t need to SA… how ignorant and judgemental. Maybe the struggle makes him tick. To judge another like that is terrible. I see the actions of somebody crying but no tears.
You do know there are fake tears and not every one cry with tears, and most woke people that cry is fake.
Yeah S A,is about control and humiliation
Exactly my thoughts! How ignorant of her to say that. Rape is 💯 to do with control…
Steff’s been so very brave , I’m mortified for her that those little shits never got locked up .. she’s so strong
Big respect for you lovely lady! I agree with the whole thing about the police and girls being SA , whole reason I decided to drop my own case because they made me feel like I was lying including my family , I had no support from anywhere so he got away with it, I was 12 when it happened they were 17 and I’m now 28 and I just don’t ever speak about it now. This is the first time I’m speaking now. I hate it when people lie about being SA because they don’t actually understand what is that have actually been through it have to go through 😔 lots of love to you beautiful! Xx
Very hard life & re-living it through this podcast must have been tough,Well Done Bipolar Mum. Thank's for great podcast Central Club.
@@derryshorts3811 thanks for the kind comment! Stay Central
Wow, just wow Gemma
Your strength is unmeasurable. You are an absolute warior. I can identify with a lot of your story and after listening to you ive realised theres a few more skeletons i need to put to bed (which is a good thing lol) so i thank you. Keep being you. Youre an absolute soldier ♥️
I’m so sorry that happened to you, women in my family were groomed by a sibling/cousin and assaulted, he went after me I escaped but he got away with it in Crien Court because it was historic, my sister and his sister are mentally and physically unwell because of it … Jemma is right speak out, please teach our young girls to speak out my sister was 12 😢😢😢😢
Absaloutly have massive respect for this lady she is so brave for speaking out ❤ i can resinate with her so much 😢
Why was she apologising to her mum for being tear away teen after everything she was subjected to as a child because of her parents. Why didn’t people have sympathy for her after everything she went through
Omg 😳 what a brave lass 👏👏 so inspirational big big respect
I’m only 20 mins in and I just wanna hold this lady and be a mum to her and love her and protect her 😢❤️ I’m gonna try and listen to the rest but it’s very hard
She is absolutely brave and intelligent. Hope she is doing ok now. I hope the scum who raped her. Suffers a slow painful death and rots in hell. Justice system is absolutely screwed up. X
It’s interesting that these people stick together, flatter each other in certain ways. I’m probably going to get slammed for these comments but she has plenty, plenty to say so we are entitled to look at things differently just like she wants us to look at things a different way.
Well said,god help her if she thinks she was being calm on this show poor girl is wound like a coil
Awww I cried at this I feel you and certainly don't judge you for going back absolutely no one knows what it's like until your in that situation xx
Really struggled with this ladies journey, my heart goes out to her, the contious attacks against woman and it always been the women's fault is so hard to deal with, still in this time. I wish this lady nothing but the best for her future. And so sorry she had to deal with this shit.
Its insane that the system cares more about migrant black and brown men insted of white native european women and kids. Its mad
The men of this country need to do so much better and more for women and children like this.
Umm, shes had a bad life.. but she brought a lot on her self through poor choices. Like fucking the prison warden for god sake, taking kids to go look at e blood of the stabbed person down at the park. Men need to avoid women like this, don’t even go there for a one night stand.
I want to hug this lady and massive respect x
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This is so uninformed and ignorant of SA. First of all, what a weird question to ask. Also this woman saying she would blame herself for not speaking out about SA. This is a really sensitive issue and I don’t think you should produce podcasts with this level of depth if this is how you portray it. I think this is really distasteful and I hope you put some more thought into your research and understanding of these topics in the future
Completely agree. The victim blaming is unreal and so irresponsible. Don’t know how the lady could be so judgmental given what her experience has been!
As I mentioned earlier, it was insensitive of me to comment on someone else's SA case without knowing enough about it. Having gone through it myself, I feel strongly about it and struggle to understand how someone could have the courage to announce it on social media but not have the courage to go to the police and press charges first. If she had gone to the police to file charges then she has every right to publicly announce her perpetrator however, not before hand.
@@melbudd768 thank you very much for time stamping this for us and educating us about SA. Well make sure next time we interview someone on SA we remember this comment from Melbudd. Stay Central
Exactly my thoughts
100% agree ,pure victim blaming,not everybody can speak out about their S,A experience for a lot of different reasons
This woman is amazing 😢so strong!! X
I listened to the pod and thought I'd have to come and read comments to see if everyone else thinks she a crank too...
She has an attitude she's one of those that like to be the loudest in the room, but if she were smart she'd realise it's not always wise to talk, talk, talk!
I'm genuinely Sorry for what she's been through, that is absolutely disgusting and I'm sorry for her. But she's putting alot of blame onto others, what can you do? Stop putting yourself in voulnerable situation lovely!
I speak from experience I have been off heroin for 5 years but I substituted it for pre gabalin. I honestly agree with her id love to help change stigma but she's trying to make heroin sound like cool or something....I can say when you're in withdrawal for the opiate alot of people will do anything to not be sick..it's not nice but i always felt different from them i got.bullied alot and if i was in a room of brown users they all used to "graft" me....only people who speak my language will understand. If you start "nodding" they'll go through your pockets and then take the trainers off ya feet. So.yes brown users over drunks
Here ✋️
@@synthmesc hey
And the point she makes about the girl taking to social media to tell her story .... whilst telling her story on social media 😳
Shes talking about not reporting it to the police and reporting it to social media, that is NOT the right thing to do.
@@lillyt8615 she is lying...
What a brave strong women speaking out when so many others go unoticed, ppl need to speak out and not live in silence
Emotional Unstable Personality is most definitely her Disorder not bi-polar -
If it did happen I am of course very sad for anyone who has experienced a life like she has - but it’s evident she absolutely loves it - as she said herself she always new she would go to strangeways one day - it’s in her DNA -
My gut tells me there is another half to each story she has told - however I am sure your life was tough regardless of the truth ♥️ all the best
Call me naive, crazy, stupid, or even a middle-aged boomer. But I am also a single mom with a pure heart and the fighting spirit of a lion.
And today this lioness wants to share her experience with everyone. About a young woman. A young woman who presents herself here. Simply because I question her. Is this the only story she should tell, or is there more?
yes, much more even. and that is why I feel called to share that other story as well. only then will everyone know the real truth.
After seeing and hearing this podcast multiple times, I have had several conversations with my myself. Do I even want to call her out? But, having to pick up the pieces of a broken heart myself for way too many times, it became pretty clear to me that there are not only “fuckboys and bad guys out there”.
This girl who calls herself “Gemma" has stolen the heart of my cousin. For almost 2 years I have witnessed all the love, joys, and sorrows every day from the sidelines. Each smile his son had when he received a gift from you. We have opened so many birthday presents or Christmas packages. Why also break an innocent little boy’s heart? The thought of dropping my cousin off at the airport, waving him goodbye on the way to his great love in England while you where also living a completely other life is mind-blowing.
Yes, Gemma, we met too. We talked so often via FaceTime. The chats about your dreams, future, and happiness here on the other side of the sea. To now having to hear that this is all one big fat lie is simply shocking. I'm seriously dumbfounded and open-mouthed astonished.
“How can anyone maintain this double life for more than 24 months?
Apparently there are also women who are manipulative, narcissistic, and capable of completely destroying the lives of a man and a young boy. Leaving them completely shattered. Heartbroken and full of sadness and doubt. Was it all just fun for you? Was it just a distraction for you? A fun pastime to forget your pain and questionable past? Are you even really who you pretend to be? Is your name even Gemma? Who knows? We'll never know. That’s for sure.
I thought long and hard about speaking up. But if there is something that I hold in high regard, it’s honesty. As a big, loving family, we will always promote values such as respect, trustworthiness, and loyalty. We will never stop to fight for everything and everyone we love. Too bad you will never be a part of our family ever again.
I guess your lessons of life are always presented to you at your present level of understanding.
For now, I’m not saying goodbye to you, "Gemma." I'm saying goodbye to Jane Doe, because we will never know.
I think you are underestimating the importance of honesty.
@@waardemakersare you saying she had a relationship with your cousin while being in her long term relationship?
@@nicolaball3313 yessss
@@waardemakers omg 🫢
Strong woman D.V. is a scary time, and she still has a smile on her face ❤
Thank you for sharing your story Gemma ❤
@@thecentralclub she is talking utter bs
@@Brian_fooking_Ferryyou know this how? Have some respect.
@@Frazzle1927 no
@@LeviLowe-p6e some folk are just very gullible
@@LeviLowe-p6eif shes your mum you should be here supporting her not calling her a liar.You arent a very good son are you? Some day you will understand the whats,whys and wherefores. Just try to understand what makes her who she is or isnt.
Best podcast I’ve watched
What an amazing, grounded person!
I remember all this Gemma and you have come through this with your sanity
Her parents failed her massively..regardless of theyre past they should of protected her ..
Prefer when you get guests like this on Callum. Keep them coming. She tells her story very well. Something about it all doesn't quite add for me. But either way very interesting to listen to. Thanks.
Ps I'd still love an in-depth one about your uncle. Sounds like a fascinating character. I can interview u on your show about him if you want 👍
Just want to say hi going on Shaun Attwood channel to hear ur story iv been through a lot as well can’t wait to hear ur story 💪💪💋
Have every sympathy for this woman, but this is also a lesson in how victim mentality ruins lives. She has made herself so disempowered, I see this so much as a common thread among people whose lives are shit. So much of it is mindset, “learned helplessness” and lack of self belief
@@CrocPit love this 🙌
Top content Cullen it's a bit different, in moss side much more gun than Cardiff I've been up there scary but some villain says Cardiff is just as bad at night without the guns now, that's another story I could say!! Top guest appearance.here.
Omg and this has happened to so many girls and women now in this country it's just so wrong
And yet the feminist still say refugees welcome here
@@Jackie157_ shes talking utter bs
.. look her up.lmao
This lady is off!! Complete lack of empathy for SA victims and shaming people for not reporting immediately. Very ignorant. Anyone watching this who has been through something similar, other people opinions on your journey is irrelevant. Take as much time as you need and be kind to yourself.
Lmao shes an actress
Not everyones gonna agree with me for this but 🤷🏽♀️ for someone who wants to break stigmas and hates judgement towards addicts she comes across as VERY judgemental to me.
@@Jo_s26 she is an idiot and so are you
You cant speak & you do belive no kne will belive you , i was a teen in and out of jail and i was brutality raped & nearly murdred by gang members that payed me to smuggle drugs in to a mans jail.i really don't know how i didnt die as i was beat to an inch of my life 😢i was also scared of grassing at the time i just got on with it , i am so angry now, I also suffred abrain hemmridges later on in life & I always wonder if the blows to my head contributed to it. I can relate to misread if her story , I am so happy she is a strong powerful woman ❤
God bless you you have been through so much I don't no how you have coped I really don't 😢😢😢😢😢😢 bipolarmumjourney I've put this because I want to remember to get on her chanel I understand a lot of what you have been through as I've been through a lot of similar but you are so strong 💪 I have emotional unstable personality disorder I've had 5 kids ife fought through my life aswell I've just found this I don't no how u have got this far I just want to say the gang raxx iam so sorry that they got away with that I've also had bouts of psychosis were I thought my partner had injected me with herion I also thought he got read my thoughts through telepathy but u belive it at the time I've been on a rolacoaster of pure shit with mental health but you are a inspiration love you hunny you have masses of support your fighting for us mums with mental health addiction nope no one has a clue of what we go through I could tell a thousand stories but iam on your side on mental health depression and anxiety keep it going you have my vote 🎉God bless you
I wish you so much love, happiness and health ❤❤❤
Hmmmmm can’t really take to this woman , maybe it’s the way she delivers her story .!!
@@lynnejones7206 thanks for your comment Lynne, I think as humans we all have preferences, I’ve been guilty of judging someone by the way the look and even sound, but facts are facts, and courage is courage, she’s come on here and spoken about a lot of dark and shameful things, so i one believe her and two applaud her! Anyway I hope you can come around with this opinion. Stay Central x
@@thecentralclub point taken .
With certain mental health conditions, we can display a somewhat eccentric/expressive persona.
I think very early on this is quite a tramatic story to listen to. Particularly her step dad and his sister part. IF that's your main observation from this podcast..
Well...
Life can be so hard at times but living with a serious mental illness like bipolar and psychosis is like living in a different realm ,I know this from personal experience 😢
I’m proud of you girl ❤
she is not bi polar. she has been seriously targeted. change your title. If she thinks she's bi polar she's wrong. it has been orchestrated. God bless this woman ....I love her so much.
I was listening and had respect for you until you said what you did about the other lady's case. Who are you to say what's right and wrong? Also as a victim/survivor of this to make the comment that people in power don't need to s.a people.....that's absolutely wrong. Actually people use there positions of power to do this often. Police officers have been convicted of this. Stick to speaking for yourself you cannot say what's true and not for others. After being through shit myself I'd never ever say someone was lying as you just never know. This stuff is about control. Not about not being able to get up Consenting sex. That doesn't give them the sick kick they want. So your so wrong. People that get plenty sex still rape
We asked her the question she never brought this up, you can’t forget about everything she went through because of her opinion on one thing surely
@thecentralclub no I'm not forgetting what she went through, I am just gobsmacked that after being through this she would say things like this about someone else's case..before it happened to me yes I was self righteous but after no. I'd never comment now saying someone wasn't or how they dealt with it is wrong. Anybody is capable and theres no right way to cope. Also for her to say no I don't think people of power need to do it that scared me. That's the kind of people that do it most, the perpetrator is usually in a position of power. It actually made me worry for her that this was her view as I feel that makes her vulnerable to people that are powerful. Women need to understand and know this is usually where it starts. The women she's commenting on, will be devastated hearing this If it happened. She will feel judged about how she went about it and that stops people from coming forward. You just can't comment or judge how a victim/survivor deals with something, especially if you've been through it you would think you'd be more understanding
People in power are of a certain type of personality, i think its wreckless to make such massive generalised ignorant statements that people in power dont need to S,A had Gemma heard if epstein,saville,diddy theclist goes on,Gemma S,A is about power ,control and humiliation not just having sex!
This lady has been through a lot. It’s her 2nd podcast and here she speaks about the entirety of her life. I sometimes forget my boys mum was as held down and poured with acid. I forget when a guy on my road took a shot gun to the face.
U see a lot when u grow up in certain areas of the UK. So much so u forget about these things! U can’t even remember every M!
And the host should listen when she’s talking her truth and not be on his phone.
Well...i pray you find peace and closure in YOUR truth
@@cuttyboom1 lmao
@@cuttyboom1 amen 🙏
I pray for her kids
@@Peekaboo5819 retard
Crying produces tears, and make eyes red and puffy! As she said, she is winging it, thinking people will see straight through this. ..so her book needs categorising as fictional drama!
She got multi diversified !! 🎉
Well done Kerr starmer and all the woke lefties !! 🤬
Just subscribed good pod
I live in a town what is over 95% homogeneous white British of about 5000 people. It a old mining town far north of the shi t holes in the Midlands and Yorkshire. We have our own dodge pots, people on drugs and so on but there is no grape or attacks of a similar type, stabbings or getting your phone snatched to organised begging. I can't stress it enough to vulnerable people, there is still places in England to go to where you can live peacefully, yes very far and few between but there is.
How amazing is Gemma ❤ so strong 💪🏼 wish you all the best, is the a link got your book? ❤
She's talking sheet ya bum
What’s the news article about the prison officer? Has anyone found it ?
srry deffo would rather be around people in the pub than drug addicts yes its an illness but they get the best help more than alcies
@@peterrogers4282 and that’s fair enough Pete, I can only speak from my experience, and I agree with Gemma, maybe that’s just me being an ex heroin addict, but for someone like Gemma who didn’t use, but was around it I understand why she enjoyed it and would prefer to be with them, there’s nothing worse than drunken rowdy people when your sober, especially when your young x
@@thecentralclub honestly some pissheads gon be more aggressive on average than many drug users im my experience, but everything's subjective
@@thecentralclub l respect all people etc theres addicts and there smack edds totally different they take the eyes out your head sadly
Not a tear 😢 soon puts herself back on track.Most women become like a tigress when you mess with kids.
You have know idea mate. I feel sorry for you that you have to comment on a women’s story where she’s putting everything on the line. It’s men like you that are the problem in this country brother
Not a tear,wht does that tell you
"I wouldnt put it on social media" she says while doin a podcast on her own alleged SA story.. I've seen her excuses in the comments aswell.. 'I was insensitive' . No hun, that was absolutely disgusting. Really turned the whole chat that lil outburst. Not even interested in the end now.
‘Not even interested’…….but still commented. 😂👏🏼
woah wait a minute mate; she went to the Police the next day, you've clearly missed the whole question, we asked would you have gone to social media to tell about SA and not the police?
She entitled to write a book and go live everyday about it if she wants because she went to the correct channels in the first place.
but ill ask you, if you was SA? would you not go to the police, but only Social media? because that's bizarre if so?
Were not having a go in the slightest but were just trying to make you understand because we understood what she meant by it.
@thecentralclyou you guys are promoting a lying boot. Good on you ..
@@thecentralclubwell said mate, I totally understood what she meant.
The first question people would have asked her after posting that on FB would have been.. OMG… have you reported it to the police?
Then, if she said no, I guarantee that a majority of people would judge her straight away and accuse her of looking for attention. As wrong as that may be, that’s what people are like.
Why do these people commenting on Gemma being a hypocrite not understand her point!
Her comment about people in power not needing to rape was a thoughtless comment and I’m sure if she looked back at it she would understand that it wasn’t the right thing to say.
I am also sure that she didn’t mean to be insensitive to other victims of SA.
We are all human and can all make mistakes when talking about things, it’s just highlighted when It’s being watched by thousands of people
This is all very weird, jumping from violence,different men, getting pregnant so many dodge moves, accepting strange men’s advances, now we can add prison officers, this women has an uncanny ability to find weirdos everywhere. This interview is not very flattering or doing her any favours.
Why because her life has been hell?
This woman is a sociopath through and through, she ticks every single box. This is the nicest comment i can leave sorry.
Why you say that?
As soon as I saw the intro I had a funny feeling about her , then watching video u can see so many lies u don’t cry and have not 1 tear fall down ur face , I’m a victim of rape happened 21 years ago and I can’t even tell my story to my therapist and when I try the tears start falling , yess some can tell there story well & with great strength but anyone that tries to cry this way and no one tear drop just doesn’t add up , & never have I seen true victim try to start crying ,
If you know folk like this, you learn to tell who are real and who aren't. Who is telling lies and who aren't.
well done for speaking out i cant imagine how hard its been for her but that comment about that girl was very harsh imo
Lol shes lying
I think her lack of empathy for SA survivors is shocking
Well done and telling your story, hope it helps many people 🙏
Please don’t judge how someone deals with being SA and abused we all do it differently doesn’t mean it’s false
This brave women is not judging anybody and she’s definitely not claiming the accusations are false, after what she’s been through do you really think she would doubt anybody’s story as a women who has been through the same thing? She’s advocating for women all around the world to come out ASAP to the police, not 5 years later and not on a social media platform where not one victim is going to get the justice they deserve so we actually have a chance of convicting these WASTEMAN!!!
As a man myself, i believe if you’re going to accuse a man of something they have done, then you must report it earlier, so it goes to court and that man in question gets to fight his case in court because if not…. as in the Bassman case, the police aren’t interested and there’s no way to clear his name and his name is slandered forever and there’s no way to clear his name and his life is ruined.
@@jaksmith155 Lol why did you delete most of ur comments???? Lmao and she is fake crying the whole time.. fake lies
My ex passed away at 53 my kids dad from herion he stole from me he beat me he stole from my kids his kids but I forgave him I got out of that situation a long time ago I still went to his funeral but let me tell you he tortured me
cullens comments at the end 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 💯 💯💯
load of cobblers
Guy Ritchie could make a nice movie out of her story 😂
Lovely girl. Beautiful also.❤
Awwwwww Gemma i wish you all the very best for the future ❤️ 🙏 you deserve it love keep going strong ❤
Attwoods deleted my comments on his version of this girls interview,cause I'm the only person intelligent enough to notice the fake crying and acting
.thevsociapath revelation makes sense.
I'm not slagging Shaun off b.t.w,
God am glad I broke the cycle
Fucking hell this is heavy...only 20 mins in.
Wow not keen on the way she starts going in on someone else over putting their story out 5 years after on social media scoffing over it being on social media yet this is social media … that’s pretty gross to listen to the way she is speaking of this person with little to no information
Number 1 she went to the Police the very next day of being abused so she has all the right to talk about it on social media.
It’s like you refused to listen to the story.
Plus the whole reason we asked her the question was because she knew very little of the person but everything about SA, the perfect person to give her take on it without any bias.
I hope you understand this, or maybe you’re biased to the story?
The story was on crime watch…. Listen to the whole podcast or listen properly
@@thecentralclub I did listen to the whole story. I think she should speak out, I never said she shouldn’t so I think you’ve misread my comment maybe. She did literally scoff at the idea of this woman leaving it 5 years and speaking on social media and it seemed the social media part that just blew her mind. I’m a viewer of yours so not sure why you’re getting defensive when I am watching your videos. I thought whilst listening
the way she scoffed at that victim without having really much detail at all, was quite shocking for someone who’s saying believe victims … it was just hypothetical of her. That’s all. Just my opinion and I’d bet a lot of other people noticed 🤷
God love you for the start you had in life and everything that came along after for you. You have tolerated too much and when we experience these things in childhood, we do tolerate it later on too as if it is normal to us. I tolerated abuse and had bad things happen in my teens as well. I think you grow up thinking that there is something wrong with you for not liking things and it being normalised, rather than believing that what happened to you was actually bad and wrong. Therefore you are not strong enough at pushing these people away firmly. I agree with you regarding girls who do lie about sexual abuse being so very wrong and damaging to girls who are telling the truth and not being believed.
I was a little shocked when you made a comment about some people being boring for not doing party drugs and the comments about heroin though. I saw my cousins go through a similar childhood to you, with their dad being involved in a gang and murdered, then they grew up as heroin addicts and incredibly violent criminals and it made me totally not want to touch drugs and really strict with my kids. I have paid the price and faced judgement for being the way I am. My family called me cruel and I lost my teenagers because of my stance on going to the police when other people outside my family tried to sell them things. I see my actions as love and protection and I would do the same again. It did lead to me having a breakdown along the way.
I married a cult member, which really is another type of gang membership as you are looking for that protection from the world around you. Cults usually involve control and hierarchies just like gangs. Usually children and women are at the bottom of the hierarchy and if you stand up against it, there is a backlash and you are seen as rebellious. My husband was ex-communicated and trying to get back in, also using their rules to control our household and me. He was very depressed as they cut him off from his family until he could prove himself repentant and let him back in. I left at the point of going to the refuge for the second time. My husband was undiagnosed, but possibly manic depressive/bi-polar as his behaviour was very high and low and took it out on me. He did the same to me, in that he locked me in the house and threatened to set fire to it. When I escaped, he took his life. However, he was teetotal and did not touch alcohol or drugs. He was a natural body-builder and came second in Mr Natural Great Britain, so I didn't stand a chance in getting away, until I tricked him to let me and my baby go to the shop and I went straight to Women's Aid, but they had no room, so I went to a B&B opposite a police station in hiding until I got to a solicitor on the Monday morning. I took the brunt of the blame at first, until his family knew what he'd been doing at home. Then we made amends and I became quite close with his mum and some of his siblings.
I would never judge an addict as I see it as an illness and some people are more prone to addiction than others too. I do feel frustrated when I speak to people that I have tried to help on the streets and they are still stuck after 10 years, as I want to pull them up out of it and make them take action themselves, but I can't, but no one should judge. Maybe people who make those cruel comments towards addicts have been through something as a result of drugs in their life and are angry and frustrated about it, I don't know.
I wish you well for the future. I find great strength in my Christian faith as I am now Born Again and received Holy Spirit in the Church of England at first. When the world around you is going crazy, Jesus is with you in the storm at all times x
She looks like a actor to me😂
You are so strong and brave xx
1 of the things that happend to me was I had a enlarged heart and was took to from the cells to hospital I was shackled it took me ages to see a doctor in the cells he sent me to hospital I was going to sleep and woke up soaked from the butterfly needles in my arms next thing what happend is I pressed the call nurse button and it was dark and all I saw was a man in a white coat so I assumed it was a doctor he s a me I've never said this to anyone but your story needs people to speak out I feel like I've let me kids down in last 4 years my dad died I lost the plot for about 2 years iam on a ton of meds now I don't leave my home so I've actually put on what a doctor did to me it's somthing I've never said I felt ashamed by it I cant actually say the words out loud 😢
20 mins in and i’m in tears for her
@@Andy_catty_Maund 😳🙏
Lol why she is lying
@@Brian_fooking_FerryBrian I've just watched Shaun's attwoods done one with her and it was like she was pretending to cry ,and the trailer looked like acting..
@@josephmills-mw2hs aye hes a bs artist.... Pure succubus
@@josephmills-mw2hs yup
Totally found the Press article. Completely get the hair comment 😂
What is the officers name?
I would love to tell you. Look it up on the internet HMP Peterborough mother and baby unit
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Then she talks about clout and she is on a podcast for clout… hypocrite
@@nelsoncouto3292she is defo not on for clout mate come on now
What are you watching geezer? Not the same podcast as the rest of us obviously! You think she would put this story out here for clout????? What are you on man?? are you mad??? Fool!!
How can this podcast be for clout? Are you mad? It’s degrading for her, she’s trying to empower women, if anything it’s detrimental to her…. Mug!!
Empower women. Smh