There is this saying “You can close your eyes to the things you don't want to see, but you can't close your heart to the things you don't want to feel.”
Yep. I tried not falling in love with someone. Broke my heart when they moved away with their partner, which i knew was going to happen all along. the heart wants what the heart wants, and them leaving is the worst pain I've ever felt.
Yet they pull it, back so far that when they let go the bullet pierces through your entire heart, cracking it piece by piece. Sorry if that was graphic, just how it feels.
Our fast world has killed every detail. Our current world does not allow us to feel emotion. It does not allow us to be patient until we can nourish the heart with feelings, whether good or bad. So everything that happens we have accumulations that are difficult for us to understand or remove and emotional gaps that cannot be filled.
@@rossi19931I’d have to disagree, I think it’s a decent way to show that loving someone isn’t easy, and it doesn’t make sense, it can be complicated, and tangly, and ugly
The worst feeling I’ve ever felt is loving someone who doesn’t love me back, but loves my BFF and she loves him back. And seeing them laugh, kills me inside.
But try watching your best friend move half way across the country to be with another man that treats her like shit and abuses her physically and sexually and than you find out 5 years later that your best friend is the girl of your dreams someone where there hasnt been enough hours in a day to finish talking continuously for 5 years that knows all your deepest darkest secrets and someone you have never lied to because youve always felt like you never had to cause you knew it was ok to not be perfect to them and than after all that try not ruining that friendship cause them being in your life is better than not all the while watching her have children with this loser that would rather play video games than feed his wife and kid and she wont even tell you where she is so that you can save her and now im here trying to make a life with someone else whos beautiful and absolutely amazing but shes not her shes not my best friend and i try and try but i cant put my whole heart into it and it fking kills me inside i wish i could look at her and see that shes happy cause atleast than i could say its not me but atleast she is happy and im happy that shes happy I cant say that
I said "i love you" to her for the very first and last time on our break up. Not getting an i love you back wasn't the most painful part of the conversation.. it was she said "i like you, but i don't like you enough to fight for you." my heart just shattered into pieces
i do truly understand u,it gets harder when they say,i just like,i dont love you,i loved someone long time ago and i cant love anyone else,but ur cute,and they say poem about liking someone is better than loving them so they can just easy themselves,so they can make u feel better
"sometimes, the people we like don't like us back. it's painful but there's nothing we do about it. i know what it's like when someone doesn't feel the same about you, somebody you can't stop thinking about. it hurts. but you can't make people like you. love isn't about grand gestures or the moon and the stars. it's just damn luck." this hits different.💔
He’s happy with her... and I can’t stop thinking about him I love him but he doesn’t love me and the fucked up part is that he knows I love him and he shoves his happiness with her in my face
Better days will come :) some pepole come in our lives just to teach us a lesson not for staying, the right person for you is out somewhere looking for you and it will come as the perfect moment in the perfect place :)
Yep its always hurts when he/she dont love us back.We become restless soul waiting for the end of our lifetime.Im gng to wait for her this lifetime,seeing her happy makes me happy.
Same situation to me .. I don't know what to do.... ! Am suffering a lot to Stop loving him... Anxiety stress irregular periods depression I don't know what to do.
I have always been there for her and she has always been here for me but when i told her that i love her she didn't give a shit she just ignored me and i hate myself for still loving her
Whoever is reading this right now… we will probably never meet but I wish you all the best in your life! Some things could be very problematic due to the current situation, but keep fighting for your goals and dreams! You can do anything you want! Have a nice day!❤️
"If you're in love with someone, you wont be interested in someone else. If you're then you aren't in love" Some of us need to hear this I was in the first part of this quote and still am. Nothing we went through in that time or said was damning to our relationship. The true test would be when we decide to live together, and face, real,true, and raw hardships together. She said this one night to her friends "We are gona prove you all wrong, fuck you," and then hit one of them😁. This was the exact moment I knew I was gona give this woman my whole world. Forever in my heart R.D.L😘
i loved him. and i know he loved me back. in our case, the love we had for each other just wasn't enough. i miss him. i miss how we were. 7 years i chased and held on. but i can't do it anymore. so after watching this video, im moving on.
Honestly people saying the worst feeling is loving someone who doesn't love u back is not the worst its close but the worst is when u know u lost ur self and not understanding how and why. I been there. And especially when u have no one. But I'm here to say it rlly does get better.. Never believed it til now..so anyone struggling rn you are loved and stay strong you guys are half way there. Trust.
Our current world does not allow us to feel emotion. It does not allow us to be patient until we can nourish the heart with feelings, whether good or bad. So everything that happens we have accumulations that are difficult for us to understand or remove and emotional gaps that cannot be filled.
I spend my time thinking of them and then hate myself because I know they aren’t thinking of me like that but this little piece of me thinks they are and it’s that little piece of hope that kills me yet keeps me going at the same time.
falling in love with ur brothers friend you’ve known ur whole life, watching him get his first girlfriend and treating her like you always wished he’d treat u is heartbreaking.
There is a reason why there are so many romance novels around. Love is considered so special because love doesn't happen to everyone... or at least it isn't always returned. But we still want to believe. We spend our lives hoping that it will happen like that. But lasting love is two people who have compromised enough to become something both can live with without thinking that they compromised everything to make it work and received little in return.
A few years ago I made a friend, it was at a time when I really needed a friend. She was kind, caring and ALL i ever wanted was to be friends, however my heart had different ideas. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore and I had to say goodbye to her because I knew she did not feel the same, I explained why I had to leave, I was at least brave enough for that.
I'm not afraid to love or be in a relationship. Im afraid that I will be the only one who wants the relationship and they will be leading me on, playing some nasty joke out of it.
If you don't like someone, tell him/her that you don't like him/her because that other person will be in hope that maybe someday things will get better that person will see his/her effort and start loving him/her
I haven’t found the right person for 4 years and when I found him I feel in love with him and now he is gone out of my life like it was nothing I want him back but I am let him go now he was such an amazing idiot who I loved and cared And yes I have a crushes but “Love” is a strong word I just like them but he was different and I love him but now it’s my time to let him go
I know you usually use Spotify but if you ever read this Ben, I really like you and feel a connection with you. I should have talked to you more but I'm terrified of rejection plus I feel guilty because I have a boyfriend and you have a wife but I have always wanted you. I see you! I see all the hard work you do at work and all the stress you face on a daily bases. (Family, your grieving wife, work, anxiety, depression, Louis...) Keep going! You can do this! I wish you every happiness and I'm proud of you! You're so fucking cute and have such a beautiful soul. I see how much youve been working on yourself and how much better at handling stress you have been. I've always wanted to give you a hug, especially on the days that looked the toughest on you. I understand if you hate me though, just had to get it out somewhere even if I made up this delusion in my screwed up head 💗
This comment section made me feel Loved, safe and happy. We're all living in different cities, speak different languages but we all got something in common. We were Loved and hurt and the feeling of everyone understanding what it means is what creates safe places like this one.
Hey its ok ,Love is not an exam neither is it a journey ,u don’t have to score an A or reach a specified destination ,it’s just collection of memories and moments ,the good ,the bad all of them ,that’s love . And it’s beautiful...
I love this guy for 4 years who I'm great friends with and I've watched him be with 3 girls instead of me. I've always been patient and never pushed myself for him to like me. Even when I told him my feelings. For some reason I still see hope in us being a thing, because I truly care about him.
I’m in the same situation I waited 6 years, I’m not waiting anymore. I know it’s painful but at some point you have to be real with yourself. I’ve decided to let go after he told me he met someone. I have to move on and focus on me. I wish one day you have the strength to do the same.
@@thxfkr its very painful to do this. we con't explain the pain which going through. last 3 year myself i was in more low stage in my life i am looking for a path in my life bt now everything went right in my way or all things fov in my way. bt now everything is pointless state bzc i have feeling in on girl bt she told me that she likes me bt no feelings in me...... i am hopelessly hoping to her i do no what to do ?
Im afraid of being loved and not loved at the same time, the pain of the rejection from not being loved back, and the fact that if someone loves me its inevitable that I will end up hurting them when they don't deserve it. I don't know what to do
They say if you love someone or have feelings for them, you should go and tell them with all your heart. But no one ever tells us how to cope with the heavy feelings when they don’t love us back the same way and start ignoring us as if we never existed…….
I liked him.. I couldn't stop liking him but he never liked me back that hurted the most.. But what's killing me right now is that I still like him & I cannot stop.. 😢
Falling in love it’s like giving someone a knife and letting them cut you open and stab you in the heart. And then when they get mad, they just do it over and over and over again. And it hurts but there’s nothing we can really do about it. Besides separate your feelings from your body and not let anybody in and even then it still hurts. So basically love, it’s like falling in a black hole and you’ll forever fall in love, but it will always hurt the farther you go down.
I have been hurt alot,abused,lied to,cheated on...just cuz i didnt look pretty may be i dont have a personality...for 3 years each and everyday i have been remembering that thing..that hurts me and i cant get this thing outta my head that im not good enough...i have been hurt and i have cried and hated myself to the extent that i no more feel these videos...well finally i can watch these videos with a straight face rather than crying myself into a mess...
If falling in love is what gives us a reason to feel so free in life, why does it always create chaos within you and the one you wanted to be with....?
The word "love" Doesn't always have to be a Relationship word you know for me it was "family And friends" But the word and meaning of "Love" was supposed to feel like the most beautiful thing in the world but the only thing that it taught me was "Love Is deadly if you get to close to it, It could Hurt you so bad that the only thing to ease the pain is a Bullet straight to the heart" .......
man I got this girl sitting in front of me. beautiful, smart, kind... we become really good friends, and I wait until the end of the year to ask her out. Now shes facing away from me. Silent. Undisturbed. Awkward to say the least. Man why did I ruin it. We could've just stayed friends. I would all be ok
Do what you used to do break out of that routine do something spontaneous kid nap her off your couch and spend time with that girl i would do anything to be able to be with my best friend dont just watch it fall apart you gotta fight for that shit you still got a chance your currently living someone elses dream dont fk it up
I feel the same, I loved this girl and I still do, I told her and she told me she wanted to be friends and nothing more, the awkwardness lasted for about 3 weeks, we are back to normal, but deep inside I love her, I wish I didn't, but I do, I wish she loved me back
My girlfriend broke up 1 month ago to return with her ex. This feeling of not being good enough is so hard. I still love her so much and my mind is still thinking of her, the suffering is so hard...
Same happened to me but not her ex, other boys I’m sure, everything feels like happened yesterday. It’s so painful when you give them the best of you to make them happy no matter what, but we get nothing in return...
If your girlfriend broke up with you to return to her ex, it doesn't mean that you wasn't good enough or that she didn't love you. Some people can't stay in our lives forever. Don't blame yourself for other's actions! It's not your fault!
"Honestly, it is futile for you to keep loving me like that because I don't love you and won't love you back like you want me to" That is the word I get just yesterday. 13yrs gone the drain. That's almost half of my life. How can I ever loved someone else after this? 😔
This hits me real hard cuz, the person that i loved told me that she loves me too, but at the end of the day, she just doesn't love me the way i do for her, she just likes the idea of me always being there for her
After being in love a couples times and having it end disastrously, I’ve just become numb to any affection anyone ever shows me and it has made me the heartbreaker now
Please try to heal from that, I know it's easy to say.. But I hope you are able to open your heart again. I'm with a guy who is too afraid to say he loves me, and it hurts like hell. I wish he could come out of his past.
@@Sans21new I know exactly what the guy your with is feeling. The past really does affect your future and it’s sad because it’s not the partners fault at all. I know why he’s feeling, it gives me crazy anxiety just thinking about telling a girl I love her. Letting it heal and not correlating the current with past negative experiences is a time healing process. I have stayed single for a bit and I have being very happy. I really want a relationship but thinking about being intimately close with a girl gives me bad anxiety. It’s sad that you’re in that situation and I know it really hurts the other person when you’re unintentionally hurting them. It’s sad but I think he needs time to heal, don’t pressure him and just be supportive and post it I’ve but try and give him time. Give space and let time resolve things, detach your emotions from him a bit, I know it hurts but trust me it’s a good thing.
@@TheCondescendingRedditor thank you, I did just that and it had been a relief for both of us.. gave him space and tried to do my own thing, sometimes it’s easier to let things fall in place on its own.
Not afraid to fall in love, Afraid I won't be loved back
Exactly
it's been night mare everytime when think of it.
I feel you, and that's nothing we can do about it, let's just keep the flame of hope lit and the good days will come, peace 🔥🙏🔥
That's the think uh know nobody cares about our own feelings even 'bestie'
Been through that.....feels like u get hit in the guts
There is this saying “You can close your eyes to the things you don't want to see, but you can't close your heart to the things you don't want to feel.”
Wow this hit hard 😔
Facts
That would be nice if you could though
Yep. I tried not falling in love with someone. Broke my heart when they moved away with their partner, which i knew was going to happen all along. the heart wants what the heart wants, and them leaving is the worst pain I've ever felt.
@@chrismccaffrey8256 I am sorry to hear this , I hope that you are feeling better now 🙏
Falling in love is like giving someone a loaded gun pointed at your heart and trusting them not to pull the trigger.
@@arushik1612 that’s true
Wow that hit me deep😭
Yet they pull it, back so far that when they let go the bullet pierces through your entire heart, cracking it piece by piece. Sorry if that was graphic, just how it feels.
@@arushik1612 yes and giving them a second chance is like giving them another bullet cause they missed with the first one
woah woah that hit deeper than i expected.
" Some times the people we like don't like us back "
This hurts my feelings everytime
Yo pfp
@@Misske. 😐
Same
And you can give and you can give and you can give and got nothing in return 😢😢😢😢
It’s crazy how the person that got hurt is the one apologizing in these clips. It really is a sad and disheartening world we live in.
Our fast world has killed every detail. Our current world does not allow us to feel emotion. It does not allow us to be patient until we can nourish the heart with feelings, whether good or bad. So everything that happens we have accumulations that are difficult for us to understand or remove and emotional gaps that cannot be filled.
"No one is afraid is saying I love you, they're afraid of the answer" - Kurt Cobain
Hmm...
I also afraid is she don't love me i didn't said now she getting married i crying but don't say anything to her 😔😔
Some people just want to be sad because maybe that's the only feeling left to feel
Wow, never thought of it like that
Or you need sadness to convert into anger to aim higher.
This is deep
So so deep yet so so tru
maybe others are too painful to feel
HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER TAUGHT US THE BEST LESSONS OF LIFE! ALL THE HIMYM FANS WILL AGREE!
yup agreed
Just be legendary and awesome
Just be LEGEN wait for it DARY!!
Robyn was the true player.
@@rossi19931I’d have to disagree, I think it’s a decent way to show that loving someone isn’t easy, and it doesn’t make sense, it can be complicated, and tangly, and ugly
The worst feeling I’ve ever felt is loving someone who doesn’t love me back, but loves my BFF and she loves him back. And seeing them laugh, kills me inside.
Stay strong bro
Thats gut wrenching
But try watching your best friend move half way across the country to be with another man that treats her like shit and abuses her physically and sexually and than you find out 5 years later that your best friend is the girl of your dreams someone where there hasnt been enough hours in a day to finish talking continuously for 5 years that knows all your deepest darkest secrets and someone you have never lied to because youve always felt like you never had to cause you knew it was ok to not be perfect to them and than after all that try not ruining that friendship cause them being in your life is better than not all the while watching her have children with this loser that would rather play video games than feed his wife and kid and she wont even tell you where she is so that you can save her and now im here trying to make a life with someone else whos beautiful and absolutely amazing but shes not her shes not my best friend and i try and try but i cant put my whole heart into it and it fking kills me inside i wish i could look at her and see that shes happy cause atleast than i could say its not me but atleast she is happy and im happy that shes happy
I cant say that
@@mrelemantal4743 Shit that’s rough.
@@tvds8350 and heres me talking to her right now and nothing i can do to change anything
I said "i love you" to her for the very first and last time on our break up. Not getting an i love you back wasn't the most painful part of the conversation.. it was she said "i like you, but i don't like you enough to fight for you." my heart just shattered into pieces
i do truly understand u,it gets harder when they say,i just like,i dont love you,i loved someone long time ago and i cant love anyone else,but ur cute,and they say poem about liking someone is better than loving them so they can just easy themselves,so they can make u feel better
We've grown up to this point of life where sleep isn’t even sleep anymore it’s an escape from reality !!
Wow, I feel bad for you. This hit me straight in the feelings section.
Doesn’t help when the dreams are just as bad
I agree so much
"sometimes, the people we like don't like us back. it's painful but there's nothing we do about it. i know what it's like when someone doesn't feel the same about you, somebody you can't stop thinking about. it hurts. but you can't make people like you.
love isn't about grand gestures or the moon and the stars. it's just damn luck."
this hits different.💔
Agree with you.
He’s happy with her... and I can’t stop thinking about him
I love him but he doesn’t love me and the fucked up part is that he knows I love him and he shoves his happiness with her in my face
Better days will come :) some pepole come in our lives just to teach us a lesson not for staying, the right person for you is out somewhere looking for you and it will come as the perfect moment in the perfect place :)
Yep its always hurts when he/she dont love us back.We become restless soul waiting for the end of our lifetime.Im gng to wait for her this lifetime,seeing her happy makes me happy.
Same here.
I don't know what to do abt but just cry and hope maybe I could have something like that
Same situation to me .. I don't know what to do.... ! Am suffering a lot to Stop loving him... Anxiety stress irregular periods depression I don't know what to do.
@@pavanipatel2180 trying to stop love her ,same sleepness,depression a lot
If you can love someone without knowing if they would love you the same, you are one of the strongest people out there 💯
There's a girl I like or love I don't know but whenever she smiles it makes me happy. But it can't go any further from that but I am doing it anyway.
@@pankajkait3913 same. I love this girl but she's in a relationship that got into a few months ago and they seem very happy and it breaks my heart
You know the saddest past,when you get all the flashbacks of the time u spent with them and u can’t do anything just stay right there n cry
And she wonders why I hate myself it’s because I’m still in love with her and I hate myself soo much for it
i know it’s sucks same here but we continue to be ourselevs
@@hannagetz381 true✌️
I have always been there for her and she has always been here for me but when i told her that i love her she didn't give a shit she just ignored me and i hate myself for still loving her
When you fall in love all alone... when you fight for your love all alone. Unrequited love sucks for sure.
It is the worst pain i have ever feelt to love someone that dont loce you back. I need to stop thinking about her but i cant :'(
I can feel it bro
I can relate
U will go through it
And one day it will just be a memory.
You will get there the memories the pain are through rose tinted glasses good luck brother
@@resolutionmartialarts5106 thanks :) ya just have to push through the hard days.
@@derreander your already getting there budd
Whoever is reading this right now… we will probably never meet but I wish you all the best in your life! Some things could be very problematic due to the current situation, but keep fighting for your goals and dreams! You can do anything you want! Have a nice day!❤️
💞💖💞💖💖❤❤
Thanks that is very insightful 🙂
Thanks 😊
Thankyou brother I'm facing the situation and this makes me feel it
I want my destiny
"If you're in love with someone, you wont be interested in someone else.
If you're then you aren't in love"
Some of us need to hear this
I was in the first part of this quote and still am. Nothing we went through in that time or said was damning to our relationship. The true test would be when we decide to live together, and face, real,true, and raw hardships together. She said this one night to her friends "We are gona prove you all wrong, fuck you," and then hit one of them😁. This was the exact moment I knew I was gona give this woman my whole world. Forever in my heart R.D.L😘
We’re not afraid of asking them out. We’re afraid of being rejected.
Caroline's character development is the best thing on tvd
It really is I loved her she was my favourite
One of the toughest things I ever heard was “I can tell you love me by the way you look at me.” And it was over.
i loved him. and i know he loved me back. in our case, the love we had for each other just wasn't enough.
i miss him. i miss how we were.
7 years i chased and held on. but i can't do it anymore. so after watching this video, im moving on.
most people aren't afraid of saying the phrase 'i love you' to someone, they're afraid they might not be loved back💔
“i hate you because i still love you” hits hard💔
When it comes to the word LOVE..its like everyone is broken.
and you probably know why, don't you ?
@@project.self_mastery ... broken or wounded ... which better to call it (?)
How I met your mother hits different❤️
Never get too attached on someone knowing who they waiting on, talking to, or missing. 💯
i've forgotten your tails many centuries but there's still one thing that i won't never forget is your laughter it will live in my heart forever
Honestly people saying the worst feeling is loving someone who doesn't love u back is not the worst its close but the worst is when u know u lost ur self and not understanding how and why. I been there. And especially when u have no one. But I'm here to say it rlly does get better.. Never believed it til now..so anyone struggling rn you are loved and stay strong you guys are half way there. Trust.
Sometimes movies aren't just movies because we can all relate with the emotions behind the stories
Our current world does not allow us to feel emotion. It does not allow us to be patient until we can nourish the heart with feelings, whether good or bad. So everything that happens we have accumulations that are difficult for us to understand or remove and emotional gaps that cannot be filled.
1:10 - I think we can all agree that Robin is most heartbreoken caracter of all times.
The worst feeling is to be rejected by someone you love and was been used by them.
Worst thing the universe can do is let you meet the right person at the wrong time
Do not let anyone come in between you and your love,you can actually win their love and make it too deep that the ocean are jealous
I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation
+2348119132200
Contact him on WhatsApp.. M
It is okay guys no matter who comes into your life and leaves God is always there with you ask for his help
I spend my time thinking of them and then hate myself because I know they aren’t thinking of me like that but this little piece of me thinks they are and it’s that little piece of hope that kills me yet keeps me going at the same time.
You can never go wrong with “You are the memory” by Message To Bears
is that a song
Yes
@@cengizsm the music on the background of this video?
@@cengizsm😢😢👍🏻🇨🇱very good 😮
My heart has just shut itself from everything but pain and there's nothing I can do about it
when the HANNAH - CLAY scene came :::: GOOSEBUMPS !!
falling in love with ur brothers friend you’ve known ur whole life, watching him get his first girlfriend and treating her like you always wished he’d treat u is heartbreaking.
Save your hearts for someone who actually cares ❤
It’s not that easy
It's not worth saving when it's already broken into pieces
The originals really taught me what love really is, it’s sacrifice, it’s time
Love make things complicated after a while . It's feel right at first until expectation creeps in and you get yourself broken .
"I'm still in love to you and I hate myself for it"
Jeez It's exactly same what i say inside when i see my friend who is taken...
you can't fix a broke heart...you can only make it float...
Be in love instead of falling in love. Falling in love will break you, just like when something falls it just breaks.
Thank you so much for these words, you have no idea how much it meant to me
There is a reason why there are so many romance novels around. Love is considered so special because love doesn't happen to everyone... or at least it isn't always returned. But we still want to believe. We spend our lives hoping that it will happen like that. But lasting love is two people who have compromised enough to become something both can live with without thinking that they compromised everything to make it work and received little in return.
I remember being told you don’t love me you just love the idea of me and that hits deep!
HIMYM made me cry over and over again. I've never cried so much at any show that I've watched.
A few years ago I made a friend, it was at a time when I really needed a friend. She was kind, caring and ALL i ever wanted was to be friends, however my heart had different ideas. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore and I had to say goodbye to her because I knew she did not feel the same, I explained why I had to leave, I was at least brave enough for that.
I'm not afraid to love or be in a relationship. Im afraid that I will be the only one who wants the relationship and they will be leading me on, playing some nasty joke out of it.
If you don't like someone, tell him/her that you don't like him/her because that other person will be in hope that maybe someday things will get better that person will see his/her effort and start loving him/her
I haven’t found the right person for 4 years and when I found him I feel in love with him and now he is gone out of my life like it was nothing I want him back but I am let him go now he was such an amazing idiot who I loved and cared And yes I have a crushes but “Love” is a strong word I just like them but he was different and I love him but now it’s my time to let him go
I know you usually use Spotify but if you ever read this Ben, I really like you and feel a connection with you. I should have talked to you more but I'm terrified of rejection plus I feel guilty because I have a boyfriend and you have a wife but I have always wanted you. I see you! I see all the hard work you do at work and all the stress you face on a daily bases. (Family, your grieving wife, work, anxiety, depression, Louis...) Keep going! You can do this! I wish you every happiness and I'm proud of you! You're so fucking cute and have such a beautiful soul. I see how much youve been working on yourself and how much better at handling stress you have been. I've always wanted to give you a hug, especially on the days that looked the toughest on you. I understand if you hate me though, just had to get it out somewhere even if I made up this delusion in my screwed up head 💗
I have watched Three videos from this channel and I have felt love differently.
This comment section made me feel Loved, safe and happy. We're all living in different cities, speak different languages but we all got something in common. We were Loved and hurt and the feeling of everyone understanding what it means is what creates safe places like this one.
Hey its ok ,Love is not an exam neither is it a journey ,u don’t have to score an A or reach a specified destination ,it’s just collection of memories and moments ,the good ,the bad all of them ,that’s love . And it’s beautiful...
So lucky there are person like u
Loving someone is like piercing your own heart with a dragger
The girl I was supposed to marry walked out on us and I lost my mom weeks later. Everytime I visit her grave I visit mine as well.
oh my
I love this guy for 4 years who I'm great friends with and I've watched him be with 3 girls instead of me. I've always been patient and never pushed myself for him to like me. Even when I told him my feelings. For some reason I still see hope in us being a thing, because I truly care about him.
I’m in the same situation I waited 6 years, I’m not waiting anymore. I know it’s painful but at some point you have to be real with yourself. I’ve decided to let go after he told me he met someone. I have to move on and focus on me. I wish one day you have the strength to do the same.
@@thxfkr its very painful to do this. we con't explain the pain which going through. last 3 year myself i was in more low stage in my life i am looking for a path in my life bt now everything went right in my way or all things fov in my way. bt now everything is pointless state bzc i have feeling in on girl bt she told me that she likes me bt no feelings in me...... i am hopelessly hoping to her i do no what to do ?
He will never love you. Love is from the start or never will be
Did you get over it? and did you regret telling him that you are in love?
This video made my cry. Hit a little deep to home right now.
Im afraid of being loved and not loved at the same time, the pain of the rejection from not being loved back, and the fact that if someone loves me its inevitable that I will end up hurting them when they don't deserve it. I don't know what to do
"I am still in love with you and I hate myself for it" that part!
They say if you love someone or have feelings for them, you should go and tell them with all your heart. But no one ever tells us how to cope with the heavy feelings when they don’t love us back the same way and start ignoring us as if we never existed…….
In the beginning I fell in love but in the end I wasn’t loved by anyone.
I liked him.. I couldn't stop liking him but he never liked me back that hurted the most.. But what's killing me right now is that I still like him & I cannot stop.. 😢
He said I could be his girlfriend, he made me fall in love and then left.
Falling in love it’s like giving someone a knife and letting them cut you open and stab you in the heart. And then when they get mad, they just do it over and over and over again. And it hurts but there’s nothing we can really do about it. Besides separate your feelings from your body and not let anybody in and even then it still hurts. So basically love, it’s like falling in a black hole and you’ll forever fall in love, but it will always hurt the farther you go down.
You know it really rare to see people loving each other for a long time
Short duration ok
But for long years it tough
Being in love doesn't hurt at all, letting them go does...
It hurts and especially when u find out they don't love you anymore and blindsided
I fear i will never be wanted desired and be taken seriously
Still love him, and hate myself for it.
I have been hurt alot,abused,lied to,cheated on...just cuz i didnt look pretty may be i dont have a personality...for 3 years each and everyday i have been remembering that thing..that hurts me and i cant get this thing outta my head that im not good enough...i have been hurt and i have cried and hated myself to the extent that i no more feel these videos...well finally i can watch these videos with a straight face rather than crying myself into a mess...
Living with the memories is all that is left with me
If falling in love is what gives us a reason to feel so free in life, why does it always create chaos within you and the one you wanted to be with....?
"Just dumb luck" finally some truth in this wacky experience 😤
I felt this to many times... And I rlly felt Barney and eli. I always felt bad for eli he was always my favorite.
Broken vase can be repair,
But the scar still be there.
Sometimes the people you like don't like us back
It's painful but nothing we can do about it
Sick game this life..an even sicker creator.
How does the maker of this video went through putting these scenes together!!?? Hats off !!
It hurts... what we are left with is only hope that this will be ok and this void will vanish
Out of all these clips, Robin saying 'No' to Ted, Barney is the most intense and hurtful
I think the how I met your mother scenes are the most painful of all of them
0:26 0:30 yeah,same. She hates me. I fucked up. Now, I'm just DONE. I feel like I don't want to be here anymore...
They say time is healing, but nothing work there. We need to way out
Should’ve followed Monica’s words of wisdom. Telling someone you love them & not having them say it back… hurts like nothing else
Not afraid of falling in love or even not being loved back. I’m afraid of falling in love and they lie to me that they love me back.
The word "love" Doesn't always have to be a Relationship word you know for me it was "family And friends"
But the word and meaning of "Love" was supposed to feel like the most beautiful thing in the world but the only thing that it taught me was "Love Is deadly if you get to close to it, It could Hurt you so bad that the only thing to ease the pain is a Bullet straight to the heart" .......
man I got this girl sitting in front of me. beautiful, smart, kind... we become really good friends, and I wait until the end of the year to ask her out. Now shes facing away from me. Silent. Undisturbed. Awkward to say the least. Man why did I ruin it. We could've just stayed friends. I would all be ok
Do what you used to do break out of that routine do something spontaneous kid nap her off your couch and spend time with that girl i would do anything to be able to be with my best friend dont just watch it fall apart you gotta fight for that shit you still got a chance your currently living someone elses dream dont fk it up
I feel the same, I loved this girl and I still do, I told her and she told me she wanted to be friends and nothing more, the awkwardness lasted for about 3 weeks, we are back to normal, but deep inside I love her, I wish I didn't, but I do, I wish she loved me back
@@stillwaters1271 she will come around.
Courtney cox has literally no idea how stunning she was throughout friends. And in the scene in this video..... Wow. She's painfully attractive.
My girlfriend broke up 1 month ago to return with her ex.
This feeling of not being good enough is so hard. I still love her so much and my mind is still thinking of her, the suffering is so hard...
Same happened to me but not her ex, other boys I’m sure, everything feels like happened yesterday. It’s so painful when you give them the best of you to make them happy no matter what, but we get nothing in return...
If your girlfriend broke up with you to return to her ex, it doesn't mean that you wasn't good enough or that she didn't love you. Some people can't stay in our lives forever. Don't blame yourself for other's actions! It's not your fault!
Time will heal brother
"Honestly, it is futile for you to keep loving me like that because I don't love you and won't love you back like you want me to"
That is the word I get just yesterday. 13yrs gone the drain. That's almost half of my life. How can I ever loved someone else after this? 😔
It was same with me but for like 4 years
cameron saying to chase " I Don't know" was really painful.. feel sorry for him! house md the best show always...
This hits me real hard cuz, the person that i loved told me that she loves me too, but at the end of the day, she just doesn't love me the way i do for her, she just likes the idea of me always being there for her
How I meet your mother broke me- But that is such a good show
After being in love a couples times and having it end disastrously, I’ve just become numb to any affection anyone ever shows me and it has made me the heartbreaker now
Please try to heal from that, I know it's easy to say.. But I hope you are able to open your heart again. I'm with a guy who is too afraid to say he loves me, and it hurts like hell. I wish he could come out of his past.
@@Sans21new I know exactly what the guy your with is feeling. The past really does affect your future and it’s sad because it’s not the partners fault at all. I know why he’s feeling, it gives me crazy anxiety just thinking about telling a girl I love her. Letting it heal and not correlating the current with past negative experiences is a time healing process. I have stayed single for a bit and I have being very happy. I really want a relationship but thinking about being intimately close with a girl gives me bad anxiety. It’s sad that you’re in that situation and I know it really hurts the other person when you’re unintentionally hurting them. It’s sad but I think he needs time to heal, don’t pressure him and just be supportive and post it I’ve but try and give him time. Give space and let time resolve things, detach your emotions from him a bit, I know it hurts but trust me it’s a good thing.
@@TheCondescendingRedditor thank you, I did just that and it had been a relief for both of us.. gave him space and tried to do my own thing, sometimes it’s easier to let things fall in place on its own.