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What kind of a poor excuse for a father calls his OWN kids dusty?! Bob is really a POS and I'm so glad you came to your senses and got him out of your life as your partner. I would love to know how many kids he has now! I'm guessing like 12 or 15? That man needs a vasectomy, he is way too irresponsible to have kids. Don't talk shit about your own kids and the woman who gave birth and takes care of them. So ridiculous. You're on such a higher level than be is baby girl 🙌🏻
Madison L
Girl he is one fucken damn loser! How does humans exist?!!! So angry by this!
Wow how he gone call them dusty when he didn't take care of his side of the responsibilities?! Wtf
Exactly
GIRRRLLLL...I don't know how child support works but I would have calmly called him a few days later and told him I took him off child support and waited for the call when he saw his check and that it was still coming out.
Jessica Johnson kmsl😂😂
And laugh in his face
Lol
Or let him miss a few payments & let them snatch his license
Jessie Joh that’s a good one 😂
You're an amazing mama Basie 💖. This story pissed me off but it just proves what an incredible woman you are, you struggled but you still made sure your babies were taken care of. They're you're number one always, and I'm glad you found Terrence ! So happy that you are where you are now because you deserve to be happy !
Thank you so much!
If you are not married, the man should be on child support. It's both parents job to provide financially. People always act like child support is a negative thing, but it's a great way to make sure that you get the funds from the other parent in a timely fashion. Only men that don't want to provide usually complain.
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Nope, not true. A child needs affection and attention and love. It's amazing how for decades, even centuries children were raised correctly. Yet, only during the last few decades did it suddenly become paramount that a man "pay" for the support of a child. The child support system is useless. Any woman who thinks it is useful is a fool. Your child will be your child forever, yet someone in a robe tells you that the man must pay for 21 years. What happens after that? Do you believe in child support even for a child who is 25? These are the questions no woman dares to answer because you know your answer will contradict your beliefs.
@@RLJ550 What are you even talking about?
@@RLJ550 if youre taking care of your responsibilities it wouldnt even be an issue but men like you love to shirk all the responsibilities to the mother and cry foul when your made to face up to them.
@@musiqleigh8510 Maybe you should try reading the comments to which I'm replying. If you didn't even read anything, then commenting to me is pointless.
Who calls their own children dusty and just by your videos I can tell you are a damn good mother he was definitely in the wrong for that and why lie saying you paid the daycare and you didn't smh wow Bob
I looove your story times! I always feel like we're in the same room and I keep going "girrrrrl!!" 😂😂
Thank you
K Michelle wrote can't raise a man listening to stories about bob 😭
+AleyahLovee 😅😅
ur the best storyteller
Thank you
Girl, you ain't never lied. I know it's over and in the distant past but we do love these Bob stories. Yeah, they have a daddy...Terrance. Btw, you cracked me up when you call him Ninja😂
See, what I don't understand is why Bob would even bother to lie about paying that daycare fee like you weren't going to get any type of notification and you weren't ever going to find out. Did he REALLY think that he was THAT slick?
I guess he thought he was slick
He is a mess girl!!! My baby father just doesn't call care nothing my daughter is 10 and he only seen her 3 times in her life and only one of those times were on purpose... now I'm with a good man so I can't complain and my daughter is loved
I promise you my sons father and bob are related.
+Nena Griffith lol
Basie you are a great example that after the rain the sun will shine. It takes a strong women to get through a BoB. lol
Basie we are so much alot. I was married to my older children father and he's a dead beat dad. And i have him on child support but when you mentioned about that you dont tell "Bob" about important things that involve your children. I do the same thing. I dont tell my children's father's anything. Because no matter what he still dont come around. And he dont always pay his child support. So everything falls on me to take care of my children. Continue to be the best mom you are Basie!
Good for you mom for standing up to your kids irresponsible dad. He then had the nerve to insult your parenting when he's not doing anything to help you. As long as your children are clean healthy well fed and in a safe environment then you have your priorities in order. If he was responsible you wouldn't have had to put him on child support in the first place.
+Shemecia Haskell Thanks for watching
Shemecia Haskell wow this guy wasn't a good person at ALL!
OMG!!!!! This is my sisters life right here she kept tring to tell her baby daddy to do right by their daughter he wouldn't i told dude when she stop bothering you be afraid be very afraid he laughed his friends as well. Next thing he knew he was being served with court papers, and they were no loner laughing with him, but at him he wasn't laughing at all shit just got real til this day he begs her to take him off even after alllllllllllll the stuff this man has put her through what a nerve it's all about how can you make my life easier not how can, i make the women who's raising my childs life easier to selfish for words. love your videos Bas.
Girl I am glad you got away from that toxic relationship! Just found your channel and have been binge watching your story times lol.
This had my blood boiling, but I had to realize this is the past. How fucking dare he say HIS kids look dusty. You were a single parent, working, doing the best you can. If his bum ass felt that way, those are his damn kids. Get his broke dirty ass up and help. I swear some of these niggas make me sick. Let me calm down lol I been through some shit with my own so these stories get to me
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Bassie, everything you've been through has made you into the strong, beautiful woman you are today. God bless you and thank you for your videos. And I surely hope Bob straightens out his ways.
I would have called the Day Care on Friday Myself to makeup sure he paid it myself.
he's calling other kids his new kids and dogging his own kids....then dogging u out. that dude is pathetic
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I can't believe he said your kids look dusty like they aren't his kids too. He should've been embarrassed. I don't know how guys like that live with themselves.
Basie! Basie! Basie! SMH! Bob is a character. How is he calling his children "dusty", and he spoke about them as if he's not the father? I'm telling you Please write a book 📚. (I love your story time. I had put my Candy Crush Saga on pause for you 😂)
carameldiva7 lol. the truth. "Bob is a mess". A hot mess.
lol thanks for watching
Lmaoooo I love how you scratched your scalp and shifted the wig!!! I swear you are my friend in my head. Hope you have a great week!
wowww his mentality is outrageous . I'm so glad your with someone who live & respects you. keep in being the best mom you are hun!
Ur such a responsible woman and a great mom!☺
Thank you
Your a good one, because his mother would piss me off to like how did u raise the person. I couldn't speak your her
She is a really good grand parent, no matter how nuts her son was.
Wow! What a life experience. This happens way too often. I'm sorry that you had to go through that. But God gave you the fortitude and that you had other folks to support you. Unfortunately, Bob has missed on the blessing of being father by not participating in that privilege. You are beautiful, I am glad that current relationship is fruitful. Continue your journey. Hug and love on your girls. Be blessed.
That's why I get receipt pictures for proof. I don't take word of mouth. I need PROOF!!
Okay so I have to comment again because I finally got to the end of the video. you are a wonderful mother! You should be proud of the person you have become 💕
Thanks
I'll fight bob for you.... real spill 😂
Kiyana Mcclellan girl, me too! And I've never even been in a fight lol
Bob the type of dude that make you want to hurt him...lol!
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Welcome, I love your story times☺
If a person owes child support it will never go away, even when a child is over 21. It is like owing the IRS, it will follow them. My ex and I had not been together since my son was 4, the state would garnish child support every so often, not very reliable, and I would never rely on it. Once he was 18 I stopped getting child supports at all, however he did owe me back child support. Well long story short years later I received a check for $10,000 for back child support, mind you my son is grown and not even living at home anymore. Never hear from this guy, for all I know he was dead, complain they took his and his current wife’s tax return. He was not happy. Then got another like $6,000 a year later. So one day you may get a wind fall, child support debt can never be dismissed. I was never expecting anything, and I had moved on to the point that me and my current husband sent my son to collage and paid for it out, since we now over a 6 figure income. All those years of working hard, struggle and getting our degrees paid off, and I got my back child support after letting it go.
You are such a strong woman! An inspiration for these ladies that are in similar situations. I look forward to your post!!!
You remind me so much of my mom and what she went through with my father. Smh what men won't do for there own flesh and blood.
Girl I’m at work binge watching your story times..I’m so happy for where you are today!!! God is amazing!! You got exactly who you deserve right now! You’re pushing me to speak my stories because I’ve got a few! I love your channel!
I'm so glad you found someone who acts right and treats you like you're supposed to be treated ❤
+Alexis Macon Thanks for watching luv
He talking about you have his kids looking dusty but was he doing anything to help you provide for them.
Basie Love, look at it this way...Bob gave you 3 beautiful black queens and the best storytimes ever!!!!
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Bob sounds worse than my sons father & I didn't think that was possible at all. Like he truly doesn't care about his kids. I'm curious as to what your daughters see in him. Hopefully he's a little better now?
jmommie23 little girls just tend to always think the best of their dad
You should have known it was coming lol. I just love your story time. It doesn't have to be about Bob. I think it's your honesty and the way you tell your stories.
“Your son is a different type of breed” 😂
Whewwwww you have been through it!! Thank God you found someone that restored your faith in good men!! Bob is a jerk!! Lol!!
I love that you use tech9ne as an intro lol ! He’s my fav . Can’t wait for more story times even if they aren’t about bob
Girl I feel u on this I been thru this shit it hurt but god got you u doing well keep going god will continue to bless u and your girls.
I love your story time, you are so down to earth.
love the stories because they remiind me of my pass , and i know we both made it through, take care.
Glad you enjoy them
I love watching and listening to people similar to me. Bas, I can totally relate to a degree. I'm glad we both moved on to bigger and better things. Praise the Lord!
I would've took him to court to raise the child support lmao
+Angel I should have
Thank god for this upload, I cant sleep and I was so bored lol
Thanks for watching
I feel like Bob was a blessing in disguise! he's something else but he gave you your daughters and now you have all these stories to help you raise your daughters now
you're a strong phenomenal woman and mother! Crazy how good women and men have to put up with the crazies. Love you ! ❤❤
Just started watching you and i am addicted lol!
Thanks
Bob is what my mom wld call, "Sick in the head". No rythem or reason on how he acts. Cause'n chaos just for giggles. A real phychopath.
OMG! I just wanna tell you that I can relate to EVERY story you have told about BOB!!! He is the exact reincarnation of my children's father. I went through the same hell....Glad we made it out lol
Well you done right Basie!! You came up and held your own and now you got Terrence who loves you more than anything. 5 amazing babies!! I feel like your my best friend lol. Been through so many of the same things!! Love you Basie!!
I think I have found a role model. I don't know how I came across your videos but I just want you to know that you are wonderful and blessed. I thank you for sharing these stories because it is really empowering. I'm at a stage in my life where I'm finding it so difficult to do parent with my ex husbands. He has some of the traits of "bob" and I am sick of it and of him. In fact I find it easier to omit him from our lives because I thrive better and my kids are still flourishing. Any who your video just helps me to want better and to strive for better. Thank you
You are an Amazing mother! So proud that you held it down! Thank God you have Terrance now!
I'm trying to figure out how someone can be with a man that do not take care of his kids... Wow!!!!
Thanks for this story! Going thru almost a similar situation and I hate it!! But you can't change the situation so I rather change how I act. Peace and love.
You remind me alot of my mom, she was a single mom with two kids (me and my brother) and she raised us like that for a very long time. She was also working and going to school for nursing at the same time. This video just makes me remember those times, you sound like a very good mom and keep up the good work basie :)
+Keda Kajurree Thank you
Love your storytimes😍❤
Sounds exactly like my son's father, I can relate. The same excuse,,so glad I'm over him and past him.
keep ya head up mah. you doin the damn thang
Girl u need a show on Netflix omg! Basie’s Bedtime Stories lol. Amazing storyteller 🤞🏽❤️
Love story time! I found myself watching for over a hour today! Could you do makeup tutorials and tell us what camera you use. Congrats on the wedding.
and it doesn't matter long as your kids clothes are clean and hair neat it doesn't matter what they wear name brands aren't important to children
Thanks for watching luv
JusBasNBeauty no problem it's a must your channel is very real and interesting an funny I find myself relating from different things I've seen on your channel
I can totally relate but the only this my bum ass baby daddy stays in & out of jail/prison smh
eman7188 Was he in and out of jail before they got together and during the relationship or did he just start?
eman7188 Right, lesson learned 💯
Shae Chantell that was the dumbest shit ever typed he was a bum when you met him will you please get yo hyena with a hair hat ass on somewhere
Now I'm curious... How many kids does Bob the clown even have?
Shaela Nicole I believe he has two other from the other stories that are not bossy
Shaela Nicole she said he has 8 kids total on live chat
8
8 kids?! Bob ain't never gonna have a paycheck 🤣
love you and your videos soo much!!
Thanks luv
love ur story time... the camera gave me a headache though. kept watching because I love your story times, God Bless your Family.
Up watching, like I don't have to work in a little bit. Hey sis, hey!
lol Hey
Girl, what you reap you will sow. My ex husband treated me bad and my children loved him. I never said anything bad about him to them. They are now 28 and 31 and they found out everything by themselves. He paid child support, but that was all I never asked him for anything else.
Omg I love your stories👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 I feel like as if we're on the phone or something talking lol
Thank you
He should have been glad you weren't a spiteful chick. because those were threats you could have called the police on him about. Thank the Lord for T fraz and I love ya family.
Thanks for watching luv
whats wrong with him ..bob really pissed me off in this story talking about your own kids just to hurt me ..how sorry can you get
Bob is a compulsive liar smh . Great storytime.
I just love how responsible of a parent you were at such a young age
New subscriber...Basi you are my sister/cousin in my head! The "Bobster" had me heated during story time. I watched your wedding videos Pt.1&2 before this one but after the "Side Chick at your job" video and immediately thought please say she didn't marry him?? Thank you Jesus you found someone worthy of you and your children. I guess I was heated because somethings you touched on hit close to home for me. I love your videos!!
BASIE YOU ARE REALLY PRETTY. LOL
AND THESE BABY DADDY'S TRASH!!!
you go girl!! love your videos, you should have your own talk show 😃😃😃😃
+ChrystalLily Van Breet I don't know about a talk show..lol
Bob is fried for real! He called his own kids dusty. I would have laughed at him lol
I went through at least 90% of the same shit she done been through. ...these dudez crazy nowadays
Damn Bob wasn't shit!!! I'm glad your finally happy and with someone who loves you and the kids.
Thanks for watching
I was ready to settle in and get pissed at Bob, but the camera moving in and out pissed me off more. Bob caught a break on this one. Because I couldn’t pay attention. 😂😂😂😂
You tell the best stories about your ex which we all had at one point
SMH BOB NEVER SEEMS TO AMAZE ME CRAZY AS HELL
He remind me so much of my kids dad, damn shame how they act. Smh
Love your story times 👌😩☝️️
Thank you
Idk if you've figured this out already but I have a T5i and I **hate** the in and out focus too. Just put the lense on manual focus instead of auto-focus. The only thing about manual focus is that you have to make sure it's crisp before you start shooting cause the camera won't adjust by itself..
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keep him on it... and girl he have no room to talk when his lazy *%#@ don't do anything for your kids. Like he his dumb. you're an AMAZING mother! He is a child. Men put on fronts when they first meet you but.. half of them have issues.
Hi...I'm new to your channel...and i been thru what you have been thru...I've taken care of my kids by my self....and yeah their father feels like a damn fool..😂
Those are some cute glasses ..where did you get them from or what brand are they?????😍😍
firmoo.com I have a review on them on my channel
Bob + receipts = lies that you don't want to hear 🙉 I just stumbled upon your channel and I'm now a new subbie bc you keep everything logical 😀
If you don't like the focus changing use the manual focus and it will stay focused on one part of the frame x
Thanks so much for the tip
Loool did she really called him a ninja 😭😭😭😂
Damn.. I'm dealing wi a Bob. An it's hell. Your videos popped up on my recommend... I'm thankful. Cause I'm going THRU it
Sisssssss you real turnt in this video hahaha more turnt than usual 😂
yasssss right?...she got hyped
You do realize that "Bob" ALWAYS wanted you to fail so that you would always be teathered to him. He never had your best interest from day one. When you finally came to understanding of this, (each of us comes to our own self awareness in our own time) , that this situation was not healthy for you allowing you to leave. Leaving this unhealthy union of 5yrs did wonders I can only imagine for your mental and physical health. Ending this nightmare was absolutely the best thing you could have done for yourself most importantly your daughters. Children at very young age see and sense your emotions and start modeling our behaviors. In their mind this was normal behavior. The longer you stayed it would soon to be engrained and they too might have ended up with a "Bob".
When you finally left and stayed gone you shook his world. I can imagine him saying or thinking "How dare you leave me and have a life! What about me." Like you owe him, because in his mind you did.
He constantly kept you pregnant. You allowed it for eventually you had hoped he would see the value in you. In actuality he needed you to be his safe haven to have someone outside of his mother provide all creature comfort making his life comfortable with little to no resistance., so that he could be "grown" yet a mama's boy. He knew that your self esteem at the time would allow no consequences for his bad behaviors and he relied on that. "Bob" was able to control you but not your father and this why the relationship was and possibly the way it is today. You had in turn become his new "mom" for now you were cleaning up his mess and making excuses for his bad behaviors.
I have listen to your "Bob" stories and there is a current theme he dose not love nor respect himself therefore he couldn't give you or any of his "baby mamas or children" what he did not possess for himself. It sounds as though his mom and or family infantalize by doing for him things he should've done for himself to help him develop character. "Bob" must be and only son or possibly youngest. There is something unique about his birth order or surrounding it. Whatever the circumstances are it allowed him to be groomed into this despicable person you have shared disturbing stories about.
The great thing about your "Bob" stories there are some of your subscribers that will be able to relate. For they too have a "Bob" who is far worse than your "Bob" or they may not have realized that they had a "Bob" until now.
Bob was never held accountable so he grew up not knowing how to be responsible nor respectful. Unfortunately there are alot if people out there like, "Bob" both men and women. It easy as parents to fall into this trap of spoiling or pacifying our children and in the process ruining them for everyone else that comes into their lives. The sad truth of all of this; people like "Bob" will never understand they are the problem.
I am a new subscriber. You are a beautiful young woman with a lovely family and I enjoy your channel. You are the same age as my oldest son 33 yet I have a 29 & 26 year old daughters that you remind me of with traits of their similar spunky behavior; ones a banker the other is a nurse. I also have two other sons 28 and 23 bringing my total to five. I too was a single mom never had a ," "Bob" but let's call them "Henry ", "Troy" and a "David", lol!
You got this, I am looking forward to following you watching your channel grow and expand into other areas.