Same here and I'm 29. Life's been to harsh for me (environmentally and financially) to allow me to date. People think it's a red flag at my age but how can I be ready for romance when I don't have my own life together? When the purpose is to add to the other's life, not add weight to it
@safaa9654 With due respect one logical but a simple question:> WHY all this 'preparations' ? Aren't YOU blessed and naturally good looking enough, need to hide behind that paint job that you are struggling to temporarily enhance your looks and 'impress' your date ? Dates must be dumb not to notice.
Girl, I was 27 when I started dating! It's not weird at all! I focused on myself first and decided to date when I'm ready to do so haha I felt more ready to date when I was a bit older because I kinda knew what I wanted and didn't want in a partner. I agree with you to go in your dates with low expectations. One thing that someone told me was go in the mindest of meeting a new potential friend. That helped me alot to not be so anxious of meeting a new person. Anyways, have fun with dating and be safe!!
I’m 17 and never had a bf and my friends won’t stop bringing up. They keep saying I should be embarrassed abt it and that no guys gonna want me when I’m older and inexperienced plus my mum keeps asking me when I’m gonna bring home a “nice young man” so, as silly as it sounds, I stared to feel like I’m obligated to have one soon and it’s rlly been weighing on me. This comment honestly makes me feel so much better, it’s nice to know I still have time
@udonkey431 just date when you are ready,its your life,freinds do that but rather then getting bad person in just need and for people telling will attract bad people ,so when you feel like you want to ,you are ready go for it, wait is worth I'm same as you gurl,whenever someone tell me why you dont have bf ? I just say I'm not looking for one and I'm single by choice,i don't find man like what i want.😂
@@Magical_myla u say “date when ur ready” but how do I find a man🥲 I get scared talking to the opposite sex which is part of why I wasn’t looking for a bf in the first place but when I do want one, how am I supposed to get him😭😭
@udonkey431I was lucky to find my partner through friends. They really vouched for him and told me that we would be very compatible. They were right! Haha We’ve been together for 2 years now 😊 I was scared to date a stranger, so having friends to introduce other single friends to me was so helpful. I’ve never been so grateful to have great friends
I'm in my 30s and married now, but i didn't get into a relationship until after college when i was almost 24. I wish i had some examples like you to realize I wasn't alone! My reasoning for not dating were a bit different (shy, low self-esteem, no one ever asked me) but still would've been great to have examples of folks in similar situations. Thanks for sharing so that other people can connect with your life experience 😊
i loved how much i could feel you self-reflecting in this video! so many bits were really relatable about being introverted, wanting to expand your circle, and feeling proud of yourself for successfully making a move towards doing so :) rooting for you!
so proud of you for taking the leap and trying going on your very first date! i'm 24 and never dated anyone, which used to bother me a lot but now i'm just vibing really. i'm also quite introverted and very much like being at home, so kudos to you for going outside your comfort zone for a bit! too bad mr. aloe was acting odd and things went as they did but thankfully you have the experience and you are safe ^^
Same!!! Like not saying that he’s bad but camping as a second date is a no for me 👀 like that’s such a secluded area and you don’t know what he might do with you.
I'm 25 as well and have only ever been on one date about a year and a half ago with a girl I met on Bumble. We had a nice conversation, but never talked to her again. Like you I'm glad I stepped outside my comfort zone to meet someone new.
when he was asking to reschedule a lot I was already hating him, then you said he behaved politely and you were excited for a second date and I was like nice this is great!! 🎉BUT THEN read the description and.... nvm😭 a rollercoaster indeed but at least you enjoyed a bit of this even a bit💌 love your vibes and wish you best luck next time !!🍀🤍🤍
When you said he wanted to take you camping on the second date, I immediately got weird vibes. I just read the description and wow. 😳😳 Yeah, definitely a red flag.
Loved this! I actually met my now husband on Bumble 🤭 obviously this probably won't be the case for you right now LOL but as an introvert, never thought I would meet any decent people on dating apps cuz I also hated going out and don't like people much haha. But in the end I'm happy I gave it a shot cuz we now have 2 beautiful kiddos. I'm glad you gave it a go! Hoping future experinces will be positive for you ❤
When I started grad school, I'm 25 now so when I was 23, I pushed myself to go on my first date so I could say I did it. I knew from the 2nd date that it was a no but in an effort to not make such "quick judgements" about people I dated him for 6 months. He wasn't a bad guy or anything but I was in a constant state of saying "hmmm" after everything he said lol. I don't really have a desire to start dating right now but I did knock that off my bucketlist. When you said he wanted to go camping for a 2nd date I thought that was a little weird since you don't know him but I know some people do things like that so maybe its just me. Sorry to hear he got so weird afterwards! I don't think its your fault, you gave it a chance and he was acting off before you even turned him down.
Sometimes the right person shows up unexpectedly! I also went on my first actual date in my 20s. I thought we were just hanging out as normal friends, but then when he dropped me off, he asked 'is it ok to ask you out on a 2nd date?' And i was just like, this was a date?? 😅 fast foward 5 and a half years later, we're still together and super happy! 🥰
My first ever date was this week, Monday at 22 y/o😭 it didn’t end that well. He never got a second date but it was a decent experience to have. It’s reassuring to know that there are beautiful women outside with no rush into dating❤
Hi!! Sorry it didn't go as wanted, I'm the same age and I don't know I just installed a dating app because I wanted to find someone, but watching this makes me feel I shall wait, are you still going on dates?
Waow I really enjoyed this video, u seem so cool ! Pls keep posting ! Its nice hearing u reflect 😄 U seem smart I wanna hear more of ur thoughts lol !!!
Hii girl, i typically don’t really comment on videos, but I just discovered your channel today and I am obsessed to say the least. I loooove how you were spilling the tea to the camera and I felt like we were real besties for a moment LOL. I was a little disappointed when I found out what a 🚩he was, but im glad the date itself was a positive and new experience for you!! Sorry if I’m overly absorbed (😂), but I look forward to your next video!! ❤️
i just binged watched all your japan videos and i just wanna say i love them so much, they’re so calming and chill :) also maybe don’t go camping for a second date…i’d say that’s at least a 4th date just in case😭 man you barely know in a secluded area in the woods…might not end well hahah 😭💓
I just read the description and I have to say that in certain parts of Asia, especially in Japan and Korea, as far as I know, people with a romantic interest or when they are already dating write a LOT and when I say a lot, I mean A LOT. I know this because I saw international couples where the non-Japanese/Korean person didn't understand that at first and found it ultra overwhelming and the Japanese/Korean person felt that person had no interest in them. Basically they have that habit or culture in dating and especially at the beginning when you are a couple because it is their way of showing that no matter how busy they are (because many couples can't meet more than once a month there), they write each other continuously and caring for each other asking even what they ate and things like that. I think that could have been a cultural shock where you didn't understand him and he didn't understand you😅 (although the fact that he kept insisting after telling him that you were not very compatible, I don't know if it's something cultural or about him as a person... no idea.).
If you get turned down, it's bound to sting, especially if you thought it was all smooth sailing. Some people hide it better than others, that's for sure. I mean, you put yourself out there, right? You made plans, went out, and then bam! It's like they're low-key saying you're not good enough.
@mas00000 It's normal to think rejection is personal, but it doesn't have to be. Not everyone is compatible, and that's okay. For example, I'm introverted, I enjoy a calm lifestyle, and don’t like partying or traveling. Some might find me boring, while others think I'm kind and funny. It all depends on preferences and lifestyle. I tend to feel nervous around people who are constantly on the move, who can’t sit still, relax, or take a moment to simply enjoy life. At the same time, those people might feel uneasy around me because I don’t always feel the need to stay busy and prefer to enjoy quiet, peaceful moments. I think the key is to find people who resonate with your way of being and appreciate you for who you are and don't take anything too serious or personally 😌🤍. I know it's easier said than done (it happens to me too, and I'm still sensitive to rejection), but it's not healthy to rely on external validation 😅
I’m 25 and also went on my first date a year or two ago from somebody I met on Hinge! Similar to you, I just wanted to go for the experience and it went well although we never met again. It’s nice to see others with similar experiences :) also your outfit was very cute and you’re very pretty !
Hiii Jenny, thank you for your video. I like your vibe, your honest sharing and well thought speech😅 It is very soft. It makes me feel like I'm suddenly be more gentle, like life is a lot easier and lighter, like I should enjoy life more, be more chill, be happy and smile😊
I loved this vlog so much 🥹 looking forward to watching all your content! I’m 24 and I’ve never dated, so I can’t relate to my friends. it was so nice to hear someone’s thought that I can relate to~!
TH-cam recommended me this video on my feed & I didn’t expect myself to finish the entire video! We’re of same age & I feel you when you said low expectations when going on a date. I was happy for you after hearing how much of a gentleman he was, but disappointed that he’s a 🚩after reading the description box. Asking someone out for camping on a 2nd date seems kind of peculiar bc you barely know him & who knows what will happen in a secluded area…best to protect yourself first bc he’s technically still a stranger. With his incessant texting after the 1st date, he might be infatuated with you & is upset bc he thought there might be an opportunity with you. I’m proud of you for stepping out of your comfort zone & better things will come your way! You’re beautiful & glowing btw 🥰🫶🏻
Hiii! I'm glad your first date went well, especially considering the language barrier😊 I must say, when you said that your second date is to be camping...I was surprised. Now that I've read the movie description, I'm glad you were assertive.
Just stumbled on your video. Very enjoyable. You are a very beautiful young woman with a nice personality and I found it hard to believe a guy never asked you out before. I wouldn’t go on a camping trip for a second date. I would get to know the guy a little better.
What does it mean that when you told him you weren't a match, your phone blew up? It's like he started texting a lot in a bad way? (English isn't my first language, and I haven't heard this expression before, thank you 🤍) Love the video by the way. It's like being listening to a friend. GOssips are always welcome! hahah
Im 26 year old dude and we are pretty much in the same boat lol super introverted and I keep to my family and a couple friends, I'm moving to japan next year and I can see myself getting into a situtuion like this, good luck to all of us intorverts haha
I’m now 28, never been on a date before. Was excited about going on one with a girl from work. She flaked on me twice, the second time she never rescheduled. At least your guy rescheduled.
Omg I’m 25 and didn’t go on a first date til I was 23 lol so I can relate but also I’m living in Tokyo & going to a language school too! I feel like we could be friends lol
im so glad i found my ppl here who share the same sentiments as i do lol im turning 23 on january and never had a boyfriend nor even dated someone so i get the pressure of dating at this age 😭💀
Its totally normal for us muslims to not date until we reach the age to think about it seriously and then date with the intention of marriage, so its really about how you, your culture and your people see it! So relax and just do things whenever you feel like doing
camping on second date is wild. For an introvert, I think its best to have a clear escape plan for ppl who you arent familiar with. On second thought, intro or extrovert, you always want that. Read your after thoughts....I don't think you have to blame yourself in any way. You went on a date, most will not be a success, so getting vibes and giving him a chance anyway, is not an issue. He is just controlling and delusional. Also your age is irrelevant when doing things. Societal standard are what they are, its always good to have weird things about you. It gives ppl more opportunities to show you their character. Good luck out there.
Please no camping date. Wait until after 3 dates before even considering date. You need to know more about him. And you’re fresh to dating akways be cautious.
I think guys usually pay… he did pay for dinner and I paid for boba but he apologized for letting me pay but I felt more comfortable paying since he got dinner lol
i’ve never had a boyfriend either even though before Jesus i used to boy crazy He protected me from so much and i am so grateful for it 😊❤ i’d rather wait for things to happen naturally in His Perfect Timing with the man i’m going to marry 😊❤
Hi, i just randomly got this video on the recomended. Dont know if you care to respond but can you expand on the idea of not going on a second date. Like why bother at that point if you alredy made up your mind that this is going no where, is it like a training dummy kinda thing? and if how would you feel going on a date with some one that you are interested on but the other part alredy make the decision of this being the only and last date. Feels a bit disrespectfull but maybe im reading to much in to this and you didnt actually ment the no 2nd date thing, so yea i bit curious. Take care.
i'have 1 question (its not hate i lov u outfit and i love the style) but, why always asian girl use pants + dress??? i always see in drama girls using pants + dress
@@fauzianalwoga I don't think it's wrong (or ugly) I just wanted to know if it's something in Asian fashion or if it's a bit of protection against harassment (since the clothes are very short) it's not hate!!! because I love Asian girls' style, including their clothes
we do not have to live with anxiety or depression or anything bad like that because of what Jesus did on the cross for us 😊❤️❤️ we just have to believe it and receive He is the Greatest Father and the Bestest Friend who always knows and wants what is best for us He gave us all freewill so we can choose to have a relationship with Him or not, i hope everyone gets to know Him 😊❤️ He gives us Peace that surpasses all understanding He is our Peace 😊❤️❤️ philippians 4:6-7 “6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Your first day? I can make up all these years for you if you want 😊. I was in Japan 3 days ago, I got here every year, I love it. Lucky the one who took you on the date
better be single than whish you were. take it from me....divorced for 26 years never remarried. Hey my son never dated until he was 20....he's now 29 married 3-years now......whoda known.
I totally feel you when you say you never had the opportunity! People keep asking me why i never had a boyfriend and... It just never happened
Same. I wfh plus did uni online so I barely go out
Same here and I'm 29. Life's been to harsh for me (environmentally and financially) to allow me to date. People think it's a red flag at my age but how can I be ready for romance when I don't have my own life together? When the purpose is to add to the other's life, not add weight to it
Same me too
@safaa9654 With due respect one logical but a simple question:>
WHY all this 'preparations' ?
Aren't YOU blessed and naturally good looking enough, need to hide behind that paint job that you are struggling to temporarily enhance your looks and 'impress' your date ?
Dates must be dumb not to notice.
You got a grown man excited, kicking my feet
😂😂😂
Girl, I was 27 when I started dating! It's not weird at all! I focused on myself first and decided to date when I'm ready to do so haha I felt more ready to date when I was a bit older because I kinda knew what I wanted and didn't want in a partner. I agree with you to go in your dates with low expectations. One thing that someone told me was go in the mindest of meeting a new potential friend. That helped me alot to not be so anxious of meeting a new person. Anyways, have fun with dating and be safe!!
I’m 17 and never had a bf and my friends won’t stop bringing up. They keep saying I should be embarrassed abt it and that no guys gonna want me when I’m older and inexperienced plus my mum keeps asking me when I’m gonna bring home a “nice young man” so, as silly as it sounds, I stared to feel like I’m obligated to have one soon and it’s rlly been weighing on me. This comment honestly makes me feel so much better, it’s nice to know I still have time
@udonkey431 just date when you are ready,its your life,freinds do that but rather then getting bad person in just need and for people telling will attract bad people ,so when you feel like you want to ,you are ready go for it, wait is worth I'm same as you gurl,whenever someone tell me why you dont have bf ? I just say I'm not looking for one and I'm single by choice,i don't find man like what i want.😂
@@Magical_myla u say “date when ur ready” but how do I find a man🥲 I get scared talking to the opposite sex which is part of why I wasn’t looking for a bf in the first place but when I do want one, how am I supposed to get him😭😭
@udonkey431I was lucky to find my partner through friends. They really vouched for him and told me that we would be very compatible. They were right! Haha We’ve been together for 2 years now 😊
I was scared to date a stranger, so having friends to introduce other single friends to me was so helpful. I’ve never been so grateful to have great friends
Exactly
I'm 20 and have never been on a date. This video was so exciting and refreshing. Thank you for sharing your experience lol. ❤️
I'm in my 30s and married now, but i didn't get into a relationship until after college when i was almost 24. I wish i had some examples like you to realize I wasn't alone! My reasoning for not dating were a bit different (shy, low self-esteem, no one ever asked me) but still would've been great to have examples of folks in similar situations. Thanks for sharing so that other people can connect with your life experience 😊
i loved how much i could feel you self-reflecting in this video! so many bits were really relatable about being introverted, wanting to expand your circle, and feeling proud of yourself for successfully making a move towards doing so :) rooting for you!
Tyy!!🫶🏻
so proud of you for taking the leap and trying going on your very first date! i'm 24 and never dated anyone, which used to bother me a lot but now i'm just vibing really. i'm also quite introverted and very much like being at home, so kudos to you for going outside your comfort zone for a bit! too bad mr. aloe was acting odd and things went as they did but thankfully you have the experience and you are safe ^^
Tyy🥹
Camping on a second date is sus, i wouldnt go for safety but thats my opinion. Never been on a date and im 26 so this is relief
Same!!! Like not saying that he’s bad but camping as a second date is a no for me 👀 like that’s such a secluded area and you don’t know what he might do with you.
I think so too. its just too short of time to decide their true self i guess
I'm 25 as well and have only ever been on one date about a year and a half ago with a girl I met on Bumble. We had a nice conversation, but never talked to her again. Like you I'm glad I stepped outside my comfort zone to meet someone new.
when he was asking to reschedule a lot I was already hating him, then you said he behaved politely and you were excited for a second date and I was like nice this is great!! 🎉BUT THEN read the description and.... nvm😭 a rollercoaster indeed but at least you enjoyed a bit of this even a bit💌 love your vibes and wish you best luck next time !!🍀🤍🤍
LOLLLL 🤣🤣 it was def a rollercoaster for me too
When you said he wanted to take you camping on the second date, I immediately got weird vibes. I just read the description and wow. 😳😳 Yeah, definitely a red flag.
Right like why camping i barely no you. Criminal offense side eye
Baby sister is growing up 🥹 first date checked off!!! So proud of you for trying new things~ love this for you😊
Loved this! I actually met my now husband on Bumble 🤭 obviously this probably won't be the case for you right now LOL but as an introvert, never thought I would meet any decent people on dating apps cuz I also hated going out and don't like people much haha. But in the end I'm happy I gave it a shot cuz we now have 2 beautiful kiddos. I'm glad you gave it a go! Hoping future experinces will be positive for you ❤
Awww so happy for you guys !! Yes proud I gave it a go can check off my 2024 list 🤣
Can I ask, how long did it take from Bumble to getting married??
How long did that process take tho
@@bbb_888 about a year! We’ve been together 4 years now
@@tsuyuasui7297 a year. We’ve been together for 4 now
It’s so great to hear how well your first date went. Anything can happen when you try new experiences like this, but it’s really part of growing!
you're so pretty! and it's so relatable to be more excited to go on a date than the actual person 😂
This is so cute. Keep us updated about your experiences and love hearing your reflections.
Loved this video. If you decide to go on 2nd date please don’t go camping be safe find a public location instead get to know him better .
When I started grad school, I'm 25 now so when I was 23, I pushed myself to go on my first date so I could say I did it. I knew from the 2nd date that it was a no but in an effort to not make such "quick judgements" about people I dated him for 6 months. He wasn't a bad guy or anything but I was in a constant state of saying "hmmm" after everything he said lol. I don't really have a desire to start dating right now but I did knock that off my bucketlist.
When you said he wanted to go camping for a 2nd date I thought that was a little weird since you don't know him but I know some people do things like that so maybe its just me. Sorry to hear he got so weird afterwards! I don't think its your fault, you gave it a chance and he was acting off before you even turned him down.
Ty I feel validated lol🤣🤣
Omg I looooved this video ❤ We need a series!!!!
Who goes on a camping for the second date??? 👀👀👀 Nope. That's a huge NO. Stay safe! Don't be too naive.
Sometimes the right person shows up unexpectedly! I also went on my first actual date in my 20s. I thought we were just hanging out as normal friends, but then when he dropped me off, he asked 'is it ok to ask you out on a 2nd date?' And i was just like, this was a date?? 😅 fast foward 5 and a half years later, we're still together and super happy! 🥰
My first ever date was this week, Monday at 22 y/o😭 it didn’t end that well. He never got a second date but it was a decent experience to have.
It’s reassuring to know that there are beautiful women outside with no rush into dating❤
Hi!! Sorry it didn't go as wanted, I'm the same age and I don't know I just installed a dating app because I wanted to find someone, but watching this makes me feel I shall wait, are you still going on dates?
i lovedd this video, so cozzy !!! thanks for sharing you experience!! i am a fellow introverted person too so i can totally relate
Thank you! Introvert club ✌🏻
Proud of you for pushing g yourself out of your comfort zone😊
Waow I really enjoyed this video, u seem so cool ! Pls keep posting ! Its nice hearing u reflect 😄 U seem smart I wanna hear more of ur thoughts lol !!!
I’m invested in your love life now, thanks 🥺❤
Loll it ended before it started loll
Hii girl, i typically don’t really comment on videos, but I just discovered your channel today and I am obsessed to say the least. I loooove how you were spilling the tea to the camera and I felt like we were real besties for a moment LOL. I was a little disappointed when I found out what a 🚩he was, but im glad the date itself was a positive and new experience for you!! Sorry if I’m overly absorbed (😂), but I look forward to your next video!! ❤️
Aww ty so much 🥹
i just binged watched all your japan videos and i just wanna say i love them so much, they’re so calming and chill :)
also maybe don’t go camping for a second date…i’d say that’s at least a 4th date just in case😭 man you barely know in a secluded area in the woods…might not end well hahah
😭💓
Aww Ty!! Yea 2nd date camping took me by surprise to my friends also said no 🤣
I just read the description and I have to say that in certain parts of Asia, especially in Japan and Korea, as far as I know, people with a romantic interest or when they are already dating write a LOT and when I say a lot, I mean A LOT. I know this because I saw international couples where the non-Japanese/Korean person didn't understand that at first and found it ultra overwhelming and the Japanese/Korean person felt that person had no interest in them.
Basically they have that habit or culture in dating and especially at the beginning when you are a couple because it is their way of showing that no matter how busy they are (because many couples can't meet more than once a month there), they write each other continuously and caring for each other asking even what they ate and things like that.
I think that could have been a cultural shock where you didn't understand him and he didn't understand you😅 (although the fact that he kept insisting after telling him that you were not very compatible, I don't know if it's something cultural or about him as a person... no idea.).
If you get turned down, it's bound to sting, especially if you thought it was all smooth sailing. Some people hide it better than others, that's for sure. I mean, you put yourself out there, right? You made plans, went out, and then bam! It's like they're low-key saying you're not good enough.
@mas00000 It's normal to think rejection is personal, but it doesn't have to be. Not everyone is compatible, and that's okay. For example, I'm introverted, I enjoy a calm lifestyle, and don’t like partying or traveling. Some might find me boring, while others think I'm kind and funny. It all depends on preferences and lifestyle. I tend to feel nervous around people who are constantly on the move, who can’t sit still, relax, or take a moment to simply enjoy life. At the same time, those people might feel uneasy around me because I don’t always feel the need to stay busy and prefer to enjoy quiet, peaceful moments.
I think the key is to find people who resonate with your way of being and appreciate you for who you are and don't take anything too serious or personally 😌🤍. I know it's easier said than done (it happens to me too, and I'm still sensitive to rejection), but it's not healthy to rely on external validation 😅
I was 26 when I went on my first date too! I’m glad to know I’m not alone. 😊
my first date was at 25 too!!
Twins 🤪
I’m 25 and also went on my first date a year or two ago from somebody I met on Hinge! Similar to you, I just wanted to go for the experience and it went well although we never met again. It’s nice to see others with similar experiences :) also your outfit was very cute and you’re very pretty !
Hiii Jenny, thank you for your video. I like your vibe, your honest sharing and well thought speech😅
It is very soft. It makes me feel like I'm suddenly be more gentle, like life is a lot easier and lighter, like I should enjoy life more, be more chill, be happy and smile😊
Aww tyy🥺
I loved this vlog so much 🥹 looking forward to watching all your content! I’m 24 and I’ve never dated, so I can’t relate to my friends. it was so nice to hear someone’s thought that I can relate to~!
Aww I appreciate it tyy 🥹
TH-cam recommended me this video on my feed & I didn’t expect myself to finish the entire video! We’re of same age & I feel you when you said low expectations when going on a date. I was happy for you after hearing how much of a gentleman he was, but disappointed that he’s a 🚩after reading the description box. Asking someone out for camping on a 2nd date seems kind of peculiar bc you barely know him & who knows what will happen in a secluded area…best to protect yourself first bc he’s technically still a stranger. With his incessant texting after the 1st date, he might be infatuated with you & is upset bc he thought there might be an opportunity with you. I’m proud of you for stepping out of your comfort zone & better things will come your way! You’re beautiful & glowing btw 🥰🫶🏻
Your too kind tyy 🥺
15:05 This is the best way to approach dates in my experience i.e. don't give a fuck about the outcome or what they think and just be yourself
This gives me some encouragment! Thank you Jenny! 💓
Great job 👏🏻
Omg. This is such a cute video. It’s like I’m talking to my friend about her first date. Congratulations on your new experience!!! 🎉
Thank you!!! Hope your friend had a good experience 🤣
Hiii! I'm glad your first date went well, especially considering the language barrier😊 I must say, when you said that your second date is to be camping...I was surprised. Now that I've read the movie description, I'm glad you were assertive.
Glad for you! Regardless of how it went, the date was an experience in itself!
No doubt it was a good experience for you to go on your first date 😊....you can judge during the date if there is going be a second date or not
Just stumbled on your video. Very enjoyable. You are a very beautiful young woman with a nice personality and I found it hard to believe a guy never asked you out before. I wouldn’t go on a camping trip for a second date. I would get to know the guy a little better.
A first date AND discovering Baskin Robbins. What a great time for you!
27 when I went to college. Cuties girl sat next to me and we made a connection to be fulfilled at a later date 😂❤
I really enjoyed this video!
What does it mean that when you told him you weren't a match, your phone blew up? It's like he started texting a lot in a bad way? (English isn't my first language, and I haven't heard this expression before, thank you 🤍) Love the video by the way. It's like being listening to a friend. GOssips are always welcome! hahah
Yes! That basically means in a negative way😆
Im 26 year old dude and we are pretty much in the same boat lol super introverted and I keep to my family and a couple friends, I'm moving to japan next year and I can see myself getting into a situtuion like this, good luck to all of us intorverts haha
Darts on first date is actually normal. But that's only if you meet up at a bar because they do tend to have dart boards there
I’m now 28, never been on a date before. Was excited about going on one with a girl from work. She flaked on me twice, the second time she never rescheduled. At least your guy rescheduled.
Oh dear😢. Sorry ❤
She just found a bigger, better d e a l. I'm sorry.
just finished my last final exam and took a bath and I got your channel recommended !! this is so cute !! subbing asap
Yess I made it loll ty so much ✨🫶🏻
Omg I’m 25 and didn’t go on a first date til I was 23 lol so I can relate but also I’m living in Tokyo & going to a language school too! I feel like we could be friends lol
I didn't go on a date until after 25😂😂. And no boy I'm not going on a camping trip with someone i barely know. Side eye
5:53 sooo real, im 20 and I haven't been on a real "adult" date yet 😭
I loved this video so much
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Cute outfit! Watching you inspires me to make videos too❤
im so glad i found my ppl here who share the same sentiments as i do lol im turning 23 on january and never had a boyfriend nor even dated someone so i get the pressure of dating at this age 😭💀
you’re pretty 😊❤
Girl you are the spitting image of Jung So-min
Bro im 26 never had a gf! I'm also an introvert so that doesnt help lol. But good for you on stepping out your comfort zone!
You are so pretty
This is so real
i liked the vlog. I can relate i'm 23 and never went on a data .
you rlly resemble jung so min, very pretty
Its totally normal for us muslims to not date until we reach the age to think about it seriously and then date with the intention of marriage, so its really about how you, your culture and your people see it! So relax and just do things whenever you feel like doing
Yesss best flavor is strawberry cheesecake
so lovely 💗✨
😂😂😂 i am thinking about the night 🌃💦💦🤣🗿
camping on second date is wild. For an introvert, I think its best to have a clear escape plan for ppl who you arent familiar with. On second thought, intro or extrovert, you always want that. Read your after thoughts....I don't think you have to blame yourself in any way. You went on a date, most will not be a success, so getting vibes and giving him a chance anyway, is not an issue. He is just controlling and delusional.
Also your age is irrelevant when doing things. Societal standard are what they are, its always good to have weird things about you. It gives ppl more opportunities to show you their character.
Good luck out there.
oof 24 and also in japan, never dated before because i didn't really want to. i read the description and now i'm even more scared to try dating LOL
Let us know how you go 🎉🎉gambateh
9:13 Guessing there are some French students in your class or school.
If you continue seeing this guy, chances are your japanese level will improve.
I’m 24 and never been on a date. Maybe I’ll go on my first date next year 🤣
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Please no camping date. Wait until after 3 dates before even considering date. You need to know more about him. And you’re fresh to dating akways be cautious.
Camping means shopping you in pieces, they name their Forrest romantic names like suicide-Forrest
you remind me of my sister
maybe cuz i'm watching at 2x speed
Hii, can I ask who usually pays for the first date in Japan and what was your experience ?😊
I think guys usually pay… he did pay for dinner and I paid for boba but he apologized for letting me pay but I felt more comfortable paying since he got dinner lol
@@jenini_chenahhh okay thx!
@@jenini_chenahhh okay thx!
i’ve never had a boyfriend either even though before Jesus i used to boy crazy He protected me from so much and i am so grateful for it 😊❤ i’d rather wait for things to happen naturally in His Perfect Timing with the man i’m going to marry 😊❤
fit and make up is so ke ai girl
Im almost 25 and have never had a boyfriend
Please don’t get your advice from tiktok lol but glade you enjoyed the date. ❤
Hi, i just randomly got this video on the recomended. Dont know if you care to respond but can you expand on the idea of not going on a second date. Like why bother at that point if you alredy made up your mind that this is going no where, is it like a training dummy kinda thing? and if how would you feel going on a date with some one that you are interested on but the other part alredy make the decision of this being the only and last date. Feels a bit disrespectfull but maybe im reading to much in to this and you didnt actually ment the no 2nd date thing, so yea i bit curious. Take care.
You look so good damn
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Hmmm camping as a second date 🤔
Rtt 🤣😅
You look like rose from blackpink and love next door female lead
😂😂😂 omg ty that’s the biggest compliment ever lol made me laugh so hard
13:18 ugh ugh red flag. second date for a japanese person. he has ulterior motives. he wouldn't have suggested this to a japanese girl.
I thought he would text Tuesday to postpone.
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I would Take You On A Real Date But Im In California !
Holy shi I attend this school T_T
i'have 1 question (its not hate i lov u outfit and i love the style) but, why always asian girl use pants + dress??? i always see in drama girls using pants + dress
Nothing wrong with that. It's better than wearing skimpy stuff😢
@@fauzianalwoga I don't think it's wrong (or ugly) I just wanted to know if it's something in Asian fashion or if it's a bit of protection against harassment (since the clothes are very short) it's not hate!!! because I love Asian girls' style, including their clothes
But you are so pretty girl
we do not have to live with anxiety or depression or anything bad like that because of what Jesus did on the cross for us 😊❤️❤️ we just have to believe it and receive He is the Greatest Father and the Bestest Friend who always knows and wants what is best for us He gave us all freewill so we can choose to have a relationship with Him or not, i hope everyone gets to know Him 😊❤️
He gives us Peace that surpasses all understanding He is our Peace 😊❤️❤️
philippians 4:6-7
“6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Your first day? I can make up all these years for you if you want 😊. I was in Japan 3 days ago, I got here every year, I love it. Lucky the one who took you on the date
同じです
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The outfit for the date is horrendous, but you are so beautiful
better be single than whish you were. take it from me....divorced for 26 years never remarried. Hey my son never dated until he was 20....he's now 29 married 3-years now......whoda known.
I am 28 and havent dated any women till now 😂