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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ส.ค. 2024

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  • @cinnamonflan1412
    @cinnamonflan1412 ปีที่แล้ว +4782

    He’s an example of not just talking to women you find attractive and want to date. Talk to all women and get practice at complimenting and teasing people without expecting anything back.

    • @qwertyuiopforkspoon
      @qwertyuiopforkspoon ปีที่แล้ว +191

      Flirt with the world!

    • @honkhonk5181
      @honkhonk5181 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Can anyone see my above comment or am I shadow banned again?

    • @Asav_Edits
      @Asav_Edits ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@honkhonk5181yes bro i dont see ur comment man unfortunate 😢

    • @r.gentleman
      @r.gentleman ปีที่แล้ว +46

      thats what all players did in their child/ teenage hood 🤦🏾‍♂️ only if i knew. its all bout vision yk but its never too late.

    • @ZOCCOK
      @ZOCCOK ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@honkhonk5181 I have been shadow banned on Anomaly's channel and I feel you bro 🥲

  • @Juss169
    @Juss169 ปีที่แล้ว +3129

    "To be attractive have standards that are beyond beauty". wish that was taught to all in school

    • @raiderxskull
      @raiderxskull ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So real

    • @jr2lx
      @jr2lx ปีที่แล้ว +21

      "Just something ugly people say"

    • @dahay6
      @dahay6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No, it shouldnt be thought because then it would be normal. And people don't want the same thing they want something new. Then we had to learn something else to stand out!

    • @bigjohnhansome5779
      @bigjohnhansome5779 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      B.S. Everyone pretends looks don't matter ... until they do.

    • @tigerdank5666
      @tigerdank5666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it is, it's just really against our nature.

  • @Ziggler-ky9kv
    @Ziggler-ky9kv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2566

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

    • @vurra
      @vurra 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Interesting, I'll look it up

    • @cheesesteakphilly
      @cheesesteakphilly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is it on Amazon?
      The only ones I found on Amazon are “Casanova Secrets” and “Conversation Casanova”.
      And several others that are titled “The Playbook”

    • @Sup3rsistD3ad
      @Sup3rsistD3ad 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Is there any rewiew of this book?

    • @user-zc3wh4tz5t
      @user-zc3wh4tz5t 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      The description alone reeks of BS

    • @mrx4814
      @mrx4814 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-zc3wh4tz5t if you have better recommendations do share?

  • @vaibhavkarne7259
    @vaibhavkarne7259 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +914

    Takeaway
    1. Approach without hesitation
    Have some ice breaker line ready
    2. If someone makes fun assume good intent, don't lose smile, playfuly tease them back
    3. Compliment in a way that is not creepy without expecting anything
    Practice complimenting
    4. Be honest in situation where lot of guys would lie
    5. Don't be desperate for romantic connection
    6. Have standards beyond be beauty
    For that have other things in life that you care about and have options by developing charisma

    • @rileydibling9883
      @rileydibling9883 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Also using famous people as an example isn't completely transparent. As they are likely to have people already interested in speaking to them.....an average joe following these steps is way more likely to get shot down, before an interaction even really starts.

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      There really should be a disclaimer saying that you can do all of this and still get no results.

    • @Anudorini-Talah
      @Anudorini-Talah 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      facts@@rileydibling9883

    • @stargirl1613
      @stargirl1613 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      All false. Be handsome or rich or both at the same time. Beautiful women or women out of your league won't settle for average men. That's the cold heart truth. If you're an average guy and you managed to get yourself a beautiful woman then consider yourself lucky

    • @yeimarsoto3196
      @yeimarsoto3196 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      3 and 1 are off especially 1. Do not have lines ready. Has to be off the cuff. Otherwise is disingenuous and women will notice.

  • @brianhu5612
    @brianhu5612 ปีที่แล้ว +9726

    Pro tip: You don't actually have to replace "I'm Jack" with your name. More women will fall for you if they think you're Jack Harlow

    • @siniquezu
      @siniquezu ปีที่แล้ว +181

      I am Jack's sense of self worth

    • @honkhonk5181
      @honkhonk5181 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      What about not looking like him?

    • @swarnadeepjosh6591
      @swarnadeepjosh6591 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@siniquezu bro , i am Jack's love for witty fight club references

    • @latetodagame1892
      @latetodagame1892 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Who's Jack?

    • @swarnadeepjosh6591
      @swarnadeepjosh6591 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@latetodagame1892 mc of fight club (actually is name is sabastian , but fans call him jack)

  • @Freedom_is_essential1
    @Freedom_is_essential1 ปีที่แล้ว +517

    I believe an attractive quality is not being afraid to walk away if your being treated of lesser value. If someone is genuinely not respectful to you (man/ woman), make it clear that you wont tolerate it. That’s having standards.

    • @Mr_Kenneth
      @Mr_Kenneth ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Did that a few years ago. Girl was interested in my house- told her to get lost.

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It definitely helps in making you feeling better about yourself, but it does nothing to make her feel attracted. It's not like if she's disinterested, you casually walking away is going to intrigue her or make her think "omg, he's walking away?" and suddenly be interested in you. But yes, it's definitely better than sticking around awkwardly.

    • @Freedom_is_essential1
      @Freedom_is_essential1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@fuzzypanda1684 - At the end of the day, not every girl is gonna like you. And walking away from a girl who is showing little interest in you at a bar, demonstrates that you hold yourself in high value. Why focus on someone that’s not interested when their could be many others that are. Easier said than done btw

  • @WilliamJonesChess
    @WilliamJonesChess ปีที่แล้ว +781

    Key moments
    fake defensiveness
    02:30 Smile. This shows you are unphased.
    Honest Compliment
    04:18 You know how to make a man smile. you just warmed my soul up.

    • @BananaRaid
      @BananaRaid ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Where are all the other ones

    • @OneFingerMan
      @OneFingerMan ปีที่แล้ว +27

      bro probably got smiled at and got a warming compliment while writing his comment and just left💀

    • @Becksnnc
      @Becksnnc ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BananaRaid HAHA he gave up

    • @DesolationNathan
      @DesolationNathan ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What if your teeth is jacked and hate your smile ?

    • @MrGhoulie
      @MrGhoulie ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Looks aren’t everything, let’s be real Jack Harlow is an average looking guy but his confidence helps, being 6’3 helps too

  • @Rodri626
    @Rodri626 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Love yourself first. Loving yourself gives you self confidence. And self confidence is the most attractive.

    • @R3ktCunnyz69
      @R3ktCunnyz69 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Once you love and respect yourself, anyone else's love or respect becomes redundant & useless. Let no one in.

    • @JesussavesRepenttruly
      @JesussavesRepenttruly หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      See your need for Jesus since He died for our sins and rose again, ask Him to change your life for His glory, pray for a godly wife and He will bless you if it’s in His will❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️💯💯💯💯

  • @SidneyJupiter
    @SidneyJupiter ปีที่แล้ว +1947

    Pro tip no 1. Introduce yourself as being Jack Harlow

    • @anteshell
      @anteshell ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Pro tip no 2. Look like Jack Harlow

    • @SidneyJupiter
      @SidneyJupiter ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@anteshell pro tip no 3. Be Jack Harlow

    • @reversev9778
      @reversev9778 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Pro tip no 4. Don’t be not Jack Harlow

    • @shiv_ring
      @shiv_ring ปีที่แล้ว +6

      nah, be yourself and don't try being somebody else, it's inauthentic

    • @anteshell
      @anteshell ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@shiv_ring A special bonus tip just for you: Good sense of humour is attractive. Arguing against obvious jokes is not.

  • @tonguewarrior5020
    @tonguewarrior5020 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    "Doing right things and expecting nothing in return"
    That's such an ATTRACTIVE trait

  • @Jakuboooooooooo
    @Jakuboooooooooo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Jack Harlow reminds me of my best friend w how charismatic and confident (yet humble) he is.

  • @diddlybop
    @diddlybop ปีที่แล้ว +460

    The first one approach without hesitation is honestly very dependent on the context and how attractive you are. Not just physically but the care you've put into your appearance such as appearing clean, well dressed and respectful. By well dressed I dont mean dressing expensively, simply dressing thoughtfully. Those things will make a huge difference in how your approach is received whethwry you hesitate or not. Honestly if someone appears shy and uncertain it is not likely to make me like them less, as long as they get more comfortable once we talk.

    • @MoriacMumma7
      @MoriacMumma7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Very true. Its also showing interest in what the person is saying, beyond that first Hello. And remembering their name (something I had trouble doing). Linking something with that person's name helps ie. Jack with the curly hair, Sue with the big smile, Joe who likes red... it doesn't have to relate to their look, it can be anything, though remembering Sandeep with deep ocean near the sand didn't work, cause I tried to call him OceanBeach😳🥴(thankfully he saw the funny side too!😅)

    • @diddlybop
      @diddlybop ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@MoriacMumma7 lol!! I struggle to remember names too, and without reminders like yours I would never remember any names 🤣

    • @Freedom_is_essential1
      @Freedom_is_essential1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The question is, how long are you willing to give them to become comfortable with you?

    • @diddlybop
      @diddlybop ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Freedom_is_essential1 depends on all the above mentioned things - and the context.

    • @arthurmcdaniel3943
      @arthurmcdaniel3943 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hesitation is the first killer of attraction. So despite of what you look like, go with a playful energy and just meet ppl

  • @queasyweasel
    @queasyweasel ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Totally stealing that "You just brought a smile to my face" line 😁 Shows that you're having a good time, while also subtly complimenting the person you're talking to, giving them some ownership of making you have a good time 😄

  • @ajatmitra9495
    @ajatmitra9495 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Giving compliments is soo true. My friend who is very good with women gives compliment even to guys.

  • @subtleartofdisappointment5867
    @subtleartofdisappointment5867 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I just wanted to say how much I love this channel. I don’t really struggle with socializing, but I still enjoy and get use out of these videos. I’m an introvert but I grew up in a very social environment. I love that these videos actually give good life advice and not just face-value charisma skills. I learned a few things and I didn’t even have to practice them, I just noticed that I started doing these things. Also, it’s nice to know about the things that I already do and say that make me charismatic. I often get compliments on how easy it is to talk to me, and these videos have just made it easier for me to understand how the way I behave comes across to other people. I’ve learned a lot about myself and the way I socialize, and it gave me confidence to know that I have a lot of natural charisma. The most valuable lessons have been those on dealing with combative people, or deal with insults. This channel is seriously gold.

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean, kinda. Everything in this video is very basic, 101 stuff that anyone who's taken even a cursory glance into the world of self-improvement or attracting women would already know. He's not saying anything that hasn't already been said many, many times before. Honestly, he's kinda the WatchMojo of self improvement channels.

    • @subtleartofdisappointment5867
      @subtleartofdisappointment5867 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fuzzypanda1684 you’d be surprised how much people don’t know 😭

  • @user-hx5hu4wx4k
    @user-hx5hu4wx4k ปีที่แล้ว +41

    2:14 you have to actually understand that you're a human being and not every interaction with other people is meant for you to be attracted. in that interaction it is perfectly fine to be unattractive and tell those two women off. time and place for everything. sometimes i say gm. sometimes i walk past you without a word. that's life.

  • @coinsinthecushion5800
    @coinsinthecushion5800 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Finding a balance of confidence and approachability is paramount

  • @ThePhenom7
    @ThePhenom7 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    "If she likes and respects you, she'll make it easy for you" ⚡

    • @thegodofyoutube266
      @thegodofyoutube266 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lmao you never heard of a congruence test before have ya bud

    • @gyrgrls
      @gyrgrls ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Especially if you're congruent in a triangle...

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 ปีที่แล้ว

      women are weird as fock.... normally im always an option

    • @davidmckesey7119
      @davidmckesey7119 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Coach Corey Wayne. Don't take other peoples stuff man.

    • @FvckEmWeUp
      @FvckEmWeUp ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wordd

  • @TheMorkSkogen
    @TheMorkSkogen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Step 1: Be Jack Harlow

  • @ahamoment773
    @ahamoment773 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Confidence: Show confidence by approaching people without hesitation. Have an opening line prepared in case your mind goes blank.
    Example: Instead of circling around someone you want to talk to, walk up and introduce yourself with a friendly line such as "Hi, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm Jack."
    Positive attitude: If someone teases you, assume they are being playful and respond positively. Don't get defensive.
    Example: If someone playfully pokes fun at you, laugh it off and maybe even playfully tease them back.
    Push and Pull: Use a mix of compliments and teases to keep the conversation interesting and fun.
    Example: Compliment someone on something you genuinely like, then follow it up with a playful tease.
    Honesty: Be honest in your interactions. It's more attractive to be genuine than to try to be someone you're not.
    Example: If someone asks you what your type is, be honest about your preferences. Don't feel pressured to say what you think they want to hear.
    Standards: Have standards for who you date. Don't settle for someone just because they're attractive. Be attracted to someone's whole package, including their personality and interests.
    Example: Focus on finding someone who complements you and shares your values, instead of dating someone solely based on their looks.
    Options: Having a fulfilling life with friends, hobbies, and passions will make you more attractive. It shows that you are not dependent on a relationship for happiness.
    Example: Pursue your interests and develop your charisma. This will not only make you a more well-rounded person but will also make you more attractive to potential partners.

  • @natescilex
    @natescilex 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    My notes:
    1) Approach without hestitation
    1) You get first impression
    2) Shows confidence
    3) Have opening lines
    "Hi, I'm [blank]"
    "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm [name]."
    1) Explains why your introducing yourself
    2) Implies you know a lot of people from the venue
    2) If someone is teasing you, assume they're being playful and take it positively
    1) Fake defensiveness, with a big smile
    2) Tease them back
    3) Use the push/pull method
    1) Spontaneous teasing and compliments
    2) Give a compliment that you would give regardless of if you were attracted to the person or not.
    1) "You know how to make a man smile."
    2) "You just warmed my soul up."
    3) Compliment pertaining to someone's physical nature regardless if they are attractive or not.
    4) Honesty in situations that most people would lie
    1) Answer even if it's not what the other person may like. It's attractive in itself
    You will stand out when you don't seem like you're trying hard to impress them
    5) Don't be desperate for a romantic connection
    1) Never instantly be all in. If you show interest in dating someone just because they're attractive, it makes you less attractive
    6) Have standards beyond beauty
    1) Have other things in your life that you care about more than romance

  • @jay7166
    @jay7166 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Finding this channel helped me realize why people like me so much. At the end of the day all it comes down to being a genuine person and treating folks how you would like to be treated. Also it’s important to know your audience.

    • @Dahblackrussian
      @Dahblackrussian ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nice guys end up last.

    • @salfyoutube6592
      @salfyoutube6592 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Dahblackrussian there are dozens of reasons of why that comment is total BS. most common ones are below.
      Ask any woman how many nice guys have come and gone, ask why theyve come and gone... theyll probably tell you being nice to get recognized is not being nice, thats being transactional. no one likes someone who is being fake because they have something to gain. be nice for the sake of being nice. if youre anticpating something in return for your your kindness, that just sends major creeper vibe. word travels quick. acting like an incel dont help. And when you dont get what you were after, you post that comment. be genuine. if you have a sh*t attitude youll attract sh*t. dont be a simp. dont be a neckbeard. have confidence. exude confidence. if at first you dont succeed try and try again. work on yourself , youll get there. eat righ sleep right achieve and make new goals. people WILL notice. do not expect someone to invest their time if its clear you dont invest in yourself. there are 7.5 billion people in this world, get out there, learn at least one thing from every experience. build your confidence , amass your knowledge and experiences. we already know the definition of insanity, if nothing is working, maybe its time for a change.
      that all may come off as derogatory etc, its actually quite the opposite. what you put out in the world is what youll get back. the mirror effect. best of luck

    • @CandorHispanus
      @CandorHispanus ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@salfyoutube6592 lmao triggered nice essay. "Just be confident bro"? Bet you're one of those r/relationships weirdos who is single and yet giving out platitudes as relationship advise that doesn't work most of the time

    • @salfyoutube6592
      @salfyoutube6592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CandorHispanusjust about everything that was written was already specified on this channel. nerd.

    • @nicholaswojtyna6788
      @nicholaswojtyna6788 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@salfyoutube6592 maybe, just maybe, you have to work on YOURSELF if you feel the need to post that kind of comment. Also nice guys =/= good guys, there's a reason that term is so specific.

  • @jacksonjack7838
    @jacksonjack7838 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I would appreciate if you were to do how to have Charisma with someone youve known 10 years. You could help some old relationships get over some bumps.

    • @MoriacMumma7
      @MoriacMumma7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Are u looking for flirting tips? Or improving your character/reputation?😅

    • @richardbottom9843
      @richardbottom9843 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      bro move on from that girl

    • @goldengrill769
      @goldengrill769 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes! Great topic, this channel is literally ONLY about first impressions and it gets boring. I stay subbed anyway because theres always some good new nugget of info.

    • @nestosauce
      @nestosauce ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wrong channel for that buddy. Main thing you can do is to go away for some time then come back better and more fit. Look at other channel for that but honestly it would be easier with an entirely new girl.

    • @thestrainplays510
      @thestrainplays510 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro she ain't the one trust 😭

  • @eimmanuell18
    @eimmanuell18 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You just made Jack Harlow my favourite Artist right now😅😅

  • @hriv8093
    @hriv8093 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Hello,
    Just wanted to say that I absolutely love your channel. The content is incredibly helpful in improving the attitude while communicating at different social events.
    Would you consider making another video on 'how to master small talk'? It's an area I'd love to improve, and your guidance would be beneficial.
    Have an amazing weekend

    • @murraymcgregor7829
      @murraymcgregor7829 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes I would love a video on small talk, I find I can only get a conversation going if I ask someone what they have been passionate about lately. Some people love it and others get depressed if they have no passion.

  • @stepbro1992
    @stepbro1992 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This video is surprisingly good. Well done

  • @BRBallin1
    @BRBallin1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    All this rizzonomics only works if you as a man have put in the work and can back yourself up through it. Be good at what you do best to the point where people are impressed by it. That way people know if they diss you, you’re unphased by it cuz your work speaks for itself

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And even then it can fail to work. You can walk up with a great physique, solid opener, and lots of confidence, but if the universe hates you, you're still not going to get anywhere.

    • @JimmyBoosterCrate
      @JimmyBoosterCrate 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Unbothered, unfazed, undaunted. Chess speaks for itself" -Hans Niemann

  • @Slow_gixxerr
    @Slow_gixxerr ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I’ve been wanting a breakdown on Jack Harlow for a while, thank you! His charisma is off the charts

    • @copp3rflam3
      @copp3rflam3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      his name is 'Jack Harlow', his name has rizz

  • @AndyYeetus
    @AndyYeetus 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    As a guy who gets no bicthes this is useful

  • @KRAKOA889
    @KRAKOA889 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    30 Shocking psychological facts about attracting people
    1 People are more attracted to individuals who exhibit confidence and high self-esteem.
    2 Physical attractiveness plays a significant role in initial attraction, but personality traits and behavior ultimately determine long-term attraction.
    3 Similarity in interests and values increases the likelihood of attraction and compatibility.
    4 Familiarity breeds attraction, as people tend to feel more comfortable and drawn to individuals they have interacted with before.
    5 People are more attracted to those who demonstrate a sense of humor and the ability to make them laugh.
    6 Body language and nonverbal cues can have a significant impact on attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who exhibit open and approachable body language.
    7 The mere-exposure effect suggests that individuals become more attracted to those they are repeatedly exposed to.
    8 The availability heuristic suggests that individuals are more attracted to those who are perceived as being scarce or hard to obtain.
    9 A person's scent can play a role in attraction, as certain pheromones may be perceived as attractive to others.
    10 Individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their level of physical and emotional intimacy.
    11 The reciprocity principle suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who show interest and attraction towards them.
    12 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit kindness and empathy towards others.
    13 The halo effect suggests that individuals are more likely to be attracted to those who possess desirable qualities, even if they may lack in other areas.
    14 People tend to be attracted to those who are perceived as being successful and accomplished in their careers or personal lives.
    15 The similarity-attraction hypothesis suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who are similar to themselves in terms of demographics, personality, and values.
    16 Physical touch, such as holding hands or a gentle touch on the arm, can increase attraction and foster feelings of closeness and intimacy.
    17 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit confidence and assertiveness in social situations.
    18 The balance theory suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their attitudes and beliefs, while avoiding those who hold conflicting views.
    19 Physical proximity can increase attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who are in close proximity to them.
    20 People tend to be attracted to those who are attentive and responsive to their needs and emotions.
    21 Stare people in the eyes while talking with them, always cut to the point, and try to be the one who ends the conversation wherever possible.
    22 Physical touch, such as holding hands or a gentle touch on the arm, can increase attraction and foster feelings of closeness and intimacy.
    23 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit confidence and assertiveness in social situations.
    24 The balance theory suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their attitudes and beliefs, while avoiding those who hold conflicting views.
    25 Physical proximity can increase attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who are in close proximity to them.
    26 Never discuss your problems. If you must talk about yourself; use self deprecating humor or say modestly positive things.
    27 The mere-thought effect suggests that individuals may become more attracted to someone simply by thinking about them or being reminded of them.
    28 People tend to be attracted to those who are perceived as being trustworthy and reliable.
    29 The similarity-attraction effect suggests that individuals are more likely to be attracted to those who are similar to them in terms of physical appearance, personality, and interests.
    30 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit a sense of passion and enthusiasm towards their hobbies and interests.eople tend to be attracted to those who ar

    • @sreyashgupta219
      @sreyashgupta219 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Genius...!!

    • @sreyashgupta219
      @sreyashgupta219 ปีที่แล้ว

      8:40 gnnj

    • @KRAKOA889
      @KRAKOA889 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sreyashgupta219 The important thing is to help.

    • @BreadVanVleet
      @BreadVanVleet ปีที่แล้ว

      Tldr

    • @buttdick
      @buttdick ปีที่แล้ว

      #21-26 are repeats of #15-20 my guy

  • @davidbruce5682
    @davidbruce5682 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best tip is that women enjoy the feelings of a conversation more that the facts of it which differs a lot from men to men conversations. Being fun, interested, interesting, confident and humourous is the goal rather than trying to appear nice, kind, strong, intelligent, competent, affluent etc... If you are all of these things they will show themselves anyway in time.

  • @PinkMawile
    @PinkMawile ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I have to say, the push pull more than anything is huge. I know a lot of people think being nice means they'll get ignored. But it's not being nice that makes people lose interest, it's being boring. And a lot of people who get hung up about being considerate end up tying all the things that could be interesting behind their back.

  • @Johnny-fw9xj
    @Johnny-fw9xj วันที่ผ่านมา

    In my experience women find a couple of things interesting, and this is a very general take.
    1. Women love to laugh, and if you can make a woman laugh with you, you know she is comfortable around you.
    2. Women need security, and by security I mean general sense of being safe. If a woman feels safe around you (emotionally, socially, physically etc.)
    3. Women value genuinity. Just be yourself, and even better if you're legitimately comfortable in your own skin because that shows immediately.

  • @emanuelcek
    @emanuelcek 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    thank you, this video reminded me it is maybe time to clean my trumpet after a while

  • @user-cw8hi5zs6f
    @user-cw8hi5zs6f 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Jack is such a awesome guy and a real legend💯

  • @PatrikKoscak28
    @PatrikKoscak28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am a rizz god after this video, after reading sun tzu the art of war and watching this video I became a girl magnet! Truly wonderful advice out here thank you so much

    • @JolinHard
      @JolinHard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Post videos

  • @yesh1751
    @yesh1751 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Your videos really stand out man!

  • @Roan.bot.
    @Roan.bot. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1. Approach without hesitation
    2. Assume people who give you a hard time/ tease you have good intentions
    3.Use push/pull method
    4. Be honest
    5. Be desperate for romance // Dont obsess over beauty
    6. Have standards beyond beauty

  • @beboysub
    @beboysub 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    yes I am

  • @Deiwulf
    @Deiwulf ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Don't have depression. Don't meet wrong people and don't be in wrong places, so you actually want to speak to anyone instead of despising them. Easy.

    • @Ruben-co6pz
      @Ruben-co6pz ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Haha, "don't have depression", so that's what I was missing. Thank you!

    • @orrhousecreative
      @orrhousecreative ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You're placing your life into an outer locus of control my brother, it's when we let those things we can't control slip on by, focusing on what we can do-when we focus on what We. Can. Do.
      The whole world can seem against you, it really can-it's when you keep standing back up and doing what you can, regardless of how many times you're brought back to your knees, that's when we realize we are more than just the obstacles we face, we are the one overcoming those obstacles, a d learning while we do so.
      Keep it up brother, we all fall down. Getting back up is hard, so damn hard, and it can feel like nobody understands. If nobody else is there to witness or validate your strength, or your progress-let yourself be witness enough, validate your own progress to yourself.
      Much love, I wish you the best on your journey friend.

    • @TMCoachJonathan
      @TMCoachJonathan ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Listen to Andrew tate interviews. You need a kick in the pants from a loving father figure

    • @vividchilling2492
      @vividchilling2492 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ruben-co6pz lmfao

    • @ryancrawford8042
      @ryancrawford8042 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TMCoachJonathanhe makes my brain hurt

  • @slimluka2947
    @slimluka2947 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    jus be unique intresting n humourous with the words u say n everyone will love u

  • @alexwoodhead6471
    @alexwoodhead6471 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Never clicked an ad, sponsor or anything close... Genuinely considering charisma university 😂

  • @user-em6ie2be7x
    @user-em6ie2be7x ปีที่แล้ว +71

    These Habits can help but a Woman will find what she likes about you regardless. I've seen Woman who like The Strong, Slient Type, to The Muscular Jock, heck I was a Loner in school and even I got a Love Letter. My best advice Try your best.

    • @sudhakar7889
      @sudhakar7889 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You seemed to contradicted yourself in the last sentence.

    • @user-em6ie2be7x
      @user-em6ie2be7x ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​​@@sudhakar7889 Not sure how I can't write all the types women are into I can just tell you what I was back in school, the girl liked Loners. Try your best is a general term anyone can use.

    • @MoriacMumma7
      @MoriacMumma7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@user-em6ie2be7x yeah, I didn't see a contradiction either. Best to be/present your best version of you. Nobody likes to be lied to & a lot of women want something other/more than looks imo (though that helps). (Looks/money aren't top on my list. Top 10, but lower top 10😉😅)

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you a loner but Rich?

    • @Lone_Coyote
      @Lone_Coyote ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe, just maybe, that love letter was a joke from a dude or something. I hope not.

  • @Im_Z_4747
    @Im_Z_4747 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He's a 6 foot 3 famous rapper . That's important .

  • @Lord_Brandon
    @Lord_Brandon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Hi, I don’t know you, but I sure as hell would like to.” - Been my go to for a long time but I’m in a relationship now so I’m not using it anymore 🤝

  • @Earth-29
    @Earth-29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jack's a Master ❤️‍🔥

  • @Evanz111
    @Evanz111 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    POV: You ended up here searching for the “Rizz for Rizz” song and this was the top result

  • @mariacristinamagtibay9918
    @mariacristinamagtibay9918 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And remember people the best tip of all "Just be yourself" if you try to be something you're not well, idk waht to do about that , thats your mess to clean

  • @mademoisellecupcake4047
    @mademoisellecupcake4047 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    7:30 the next sentences were soooo truuuue 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @DhruvParmar-gm4ke
    @DhruvParmar-gm4ke 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ultimate tip : *BE F***ING RICH*

  • @magneticmenclub
    @magneticmenclub ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love #2 and "Fake defensiveness" always my go to strategy

  • @Lawgivaah
    @Lawgivaah ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What's with the 1 second cuts?
    Can't concentrate or absorb what I'm seeing if it's flashing in front of me like I'm Chuck and I'm downloading The Intersect into my brain

  • @Kurbante
    @Kurbante 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are good tips, also remember to not care. What I mean by that is leave the ego, fear , what ifs , and most importantly never fake an opinion just to appear similar .

  • @renzorlandin1
    @renzorlandin1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jack Harlow’s game reminds me a lot of Bob Leckie from that WWII show “The Pacific” 😂😂😂 W

  • @lukajurica3232
    @lukajurica3232 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    03:38 bro skippin legs

  • @dre9088
    @dre9088 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just be yourself

  • @Dw89527
    @Dw89527 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Why is bro glazing jack harlow

  • @Kamwanaryan
    @Kamwanaryan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    bro is actually glazing on jack fr

  • @shabbycupid111
    @shabbycupid111 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Bro this title got me weak🤣😭😭

  • @Domzdream
    @Domzdream ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Of course it's easier said than done. Especially when someone presses that anger button intensely. Always try to respond with humour, cockiness, playfulness. When you lash out with anger, you've lost the 'battle'. Try again next time. It's practice afterall.

    • @murraymcgregor7829
      @murraymcgregor7829 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes lashing out at people will just harm your future prospects within the particular scene as you will see them again and they might even be in a position to decide whether you get hired or not.

  • @jascrandom9855
    @jascrandom9855 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You guys should do videos for women too.

    • @petkofuchalski9809
      @petkofuchalski9809 ปีที่แล้ว

      the principle i literally the same, but this advise may not work, depending on what type of men you want to attract.

    • @mr.drinkhiswater
      @mr.drinkhiswater ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not to be too damsel in distress, but if you like someone, ask for some help or an opinion on something. Men are always trynna help women. Even if you’re smarter than the person, lower the ego and approach. I’ve done this exact thing with women and have found years of success.

  • @TazTatz-sl3cd
    @TazTatz-sl3cd หลายเดือนก่อน

    So what i got from this was focus on yourself and be confident

  • @andyyoo8018
    @andyyoo8018 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    love your videos, keep up the good work

  • @djtdawg87
    @djtdawg87 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

    • @djtdawg87
      @djtdawg87 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ericgaston5763 I know. He's a pretty cool dude.

    • @delronmackay1473
      @delronmackay1473 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yess i love him

  • @-cobainism-
    @-cobainism- 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i like how they don’t use this video as a way to say “men are dominant blah blah blah women are only things to help men blah blah blah” nice work here guys

  • @leoray1234
    @leoray1234 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Lesson: be nice, be playful, never be desperate.

  • @HeisenbergFam
    @HeisenbergFam ปีที่แล้ว +211

    How to instantly become attractive & make people obsessed with you: be a millionaire

    • @censoreduser
      @censoreduser ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Girls to Zuck: hello there
      Also i swear i saw you before

    • @judylandry302
      @judylandry302 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do you mean Billionaire?

    • @jacksonjack7838
      @jacksonjack7838 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Start Cooking

    • @potapotapotapotapotapota
      @potapotapotapotapotapota ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@censoreduser no you didn't you haven't seen his comments anywhere on TH-cam what are you on about how dare you lie I MEAN HOW DARE YOU you shouldn't even be on youtube what are you like 59? I think you should take a break from the internet you are having a bad day but if you take a break then you will cool your head off and I mean your head needs cooling you're like 86 degrees in hotter than a PC I think you need to go to Antarctica and go swim with the penguins I mean the penguins probably wouldn't want to be around you because you're such a liar they don't trust you I mean they look at you and they give you those eyes, those eyes that squint in ways you've never seen before I think those you need to take a good hard like at those eyes and wonder what you're doing in Antarctica like for real it's cold there and why are you in this situation you are in having to live in an igloo and sometimes being laid on by a penguin I think you need to take a good hard look at yourself like the penguins do you know what I'm saying no you don't becauseIthinkthatIknowbutyoudon'tandthat is why I think about you all the time

    • @censoreduser
      @censoreduser ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@potapotapotapotapotapota lol 6 year old going on a rant, also yes I am actually that hot as I live in one of the hottest deserts on earth

  • @isaacwinters6954
    @isaacwinters6954 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Question for whoever is managing these uploads.
    Are you using a thumbnail that catches more clicks initially and replacing it after an hour or so for something more algorithm friendly?
    Using that initial boost to help carry it through with a less eye catching thumbnail.

    • @francis_n
      @francis_n ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they are probably doing A/B testing. Whichever one generates the most click through within a period of time is the "winner" and stays as the official thumbnail going forward. Even months or years down the line, the "winning" thumbnail may be good enough to attract random viewers.

  • @ivanmartinez4244
    @ivanmartinez4244 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take it from all the greats kobe Mayweather and Harlow here put what you love first and the right woman will come when the time is right love the part where have standards beyond beauty🙏🔥

  • @MMAtiasUFC2
    @MMAtiasUFC2 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Grasias, loquete. Muy bueno.

  • @GarethReecewood
    @GarethReecewood ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Problem with this channel is it only uses wealthy celebrities as examples. Those people can literally say anything and women/men will fawn over them.

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 ปีที่แล้ว

      YEP

    • @machupikachu1085
      @machupikachu1085 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you honestly think most people would watch the channel more if he used nobodies for examples?

    • @GarethReecewood
      @GarethReecewood ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@machupikachu1085 No, but it would be more realistic.

    • @lynic-0091
      @lynic-0091 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@machupikachu1085 Uhm, that would make the channel a thousand times better.

    • @machupikachu1085
      @machupikachu1085 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lynic-0091 uhm, no it wouldn't, actually. They use success stories because they are just that - success stories. These individuals got famous BECAUSE they have these traits, not in spite of them. Rarely do others want to shower lavish attention and praise on myopic, socially awkward people with no charm.
      Their success is verifiable. Additionally, there is more video footage of these people that shows said charisma time and again.
      If COC used regular people, most the naysayers (like you) would comment that 'no one knows who these people are', 'this site is fake', or 'if they are so charming, why aren't they famous or more successful??'
      Lastly, if you truly believe that using people know one's ever heard of is a far better idea, why do YOU start that channel here on TH-cam? It's a slam-dunk, multi-million dollar idea, right? Right??
      We both know why you won't.
      Cheers!

  • @musicalvibes1932
    @musicalvibes1932 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    fellas presence of the mind is the only key! just dont overanalyze what you are going to say, what she’ll think of you, just start meditating and be present fully in the moment and you shall see magic

  • @angelbeii_
    @angelbeii_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jack Harlow is smooth af

  • @InvinciDon
    @InvinciDon หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like how this looks like it’s hard but happens to be the easiest thing in the book: just be chill asf and you’ll pretty much be fine.

  • @mibo7348
    @mibo7348 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    BIG UPS FOR JACK!

  • @yourLocalTroll33
    @yourLocalTroll33 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nothing can beat a simple “hello”

  • @russellrizzo6673
    @russellrizzo6673 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    never clicked a video so fast when I saw the Jackman

  • @arnoldleeflang968
    @arnoldleeflang968 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be yourself the right wil come

  • @ReeChad.
    @ReeChad. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wish school had a subject called dating

  • @kevalparmar5066
    @kevalparmar5066 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The one thing holds me back to approach a woman is my face. 🙂 Pimples, No great physic, Under confident. Etc etc! I wish i have a clear skin.

  • @vigneshdhanasekaran2853
    @vigneshdhanasekaran2853 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh man. Ur a geniusss

  • @GraceYocum
    @GraceYocum ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been wondering when you’d do one on Jack Harlow haha

  • @legan_R
    @legan_R 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Harlow’s so good he had a video with a million views dedicated to his craft 😭

  • @adityaadi2116
    @adityaadi2116 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The most important thing of all:
    BE ATTRACTIVE...

  • @user-SydneySweeney
    @user-SydneySweeney 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    6'2, blue eyes and good looking

  • @bsizzling
    @bsizzling 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thanks my man!

  • @dharshansenthilkumar9492
    @dharshansenthilkumar9492 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Why is this generation pedestalizing women so much. Why do I need to make other women obsessed with me? Are they like something God or what? We must stay focused brothers.

    • @ThePhenom7
      @ThePhenom7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Fr, the amount of smps nowadays is 1nsane
      And it's highly due to social media most especially tik tok 💀

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Because since birth, this generation has been told that women are wonderful and perfect and "the future is female". Everything needs to be geared to how a woman feels, how something benefits women, how something negatively effects women, etc.
      Women are the sole focus in the world today.

    • @asnoopy
      @asnoopy ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea the word obsesse sounds like too much and toxic, but they probably want more clicks 💰

    • @mariokotlar303
      @mariokotlar303 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why do you think this generation does it more than any previous one?

    • @kazandibi.
      @kazandibi. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mariokotlar303 Because most of us raised by our mothers not mascular fathers

  • @danishsiddiq941
    @danishsiddiq941 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep summarizing goo

  • @mjt7231
    @mjt7231 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi my name is…..followed up with a quick and what’s your? Or some derivative is the best pickup line of all time. Be super confident and relaxed. Then the next step is super critical. You need to match their response and energy. If you match their energy in the first few seconds. You’re golden and she’s now interested. This goes for people in general.

  • @EdibleHaram
    @EdibleHaram หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've noticed in myself when i watch Rizz videos and practice with girls i get more comfortable talking to them

  • @zyaicob
    @zyaicob 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So basically, the advice is to play Have You Met Ted

  • @shortstuff780
    @shortstuff780 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    never heard of this man, but he seems chill. awkward a bit, but chill

  • @yugbafna8137
    @yugbafna8137 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Masterpiece! 🔥

  • @YuckiDude
    @YuckiDude 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Underated Video

  • @onemillionpercent
    @onemillionpercent 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    jack harlow is sooooo

  • @alayman4390
    @alayman4390 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "1:40" whats my man ranbir kapoor doin😭😭

  • @LimLux
    @LimLux 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What is it called when you are a mega introvert and have 0 energy to talk to people, especially women who you find attractive and know 101% they will just ignore or make fun of you?

  • @yoooo1358
    @yoooo1358 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I came to this video after a lot of people telling me "I think you got the rizz!"
    But I am convinced that all of what they say is an utter joke 😂 idk but I do not even know how to actively woo a woman into liking me romantically hahahaha

  • @thebelt24
    @thebelt24 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “Nobody is shaken’”
    That’s quite possibly the worst way to handle someone poking fun at you. Taking it seriously, despite it being with positivity. She’s JOKING, she knows it’s not real. He just comes off as defensive because he needs people to know it was a joke.
    A better response would be to flip the frame on her “Robert Downey Jr. is standing right behind you” or drop your ego and play into it “I thought you had to shake when you shook hands” another goodie is simply exaggerating the situation “I’ve never shaked hands with a woman before”
    Needing to address something someone says about you, says more about you than what was said.

    • @gymboy2119
      @gymboy2119 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man shut up… 😂 💀

    • @Latinblood59
      @Latinblood59 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He was joking back with her. You can tell by his tone of voice and how he looked at the camera while saying it and walks off with a smile/ smirk

    • @jackmayor3574
      @jackmayor3574 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He didn't take it seriously though? He was joking back, he knew he was on camera.

  • @noahallen9552
    @noahallen9552 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dope video.