the best speakers were the mother and daughter since boomer parents(who settled early in their lives) tend to involuntarily pass off their own unrealized dreams and ambition on their kids
Settling down with another person is, more often than not, looked at a negative light, specially if one side of the relationship has UNREALISTIC and SELFISH expectations set for the other. BE ATTRACTED TO MINDSET and PURPOSE. Also, a gentle reminder: The TRUE GOOD GIRLS don’t need the Chads and Tyrones. The REAL GOOD GUYS don’t want Leftovers.
@@AudioVylyeah. Real good guys don’t treat women as left overs either. The key is honestly treating everyone as they present themselves. If you want a high-functioning partner, become one yourself first, lol.
If they asked me "when are you going to settle in life?" Young me: "In the time, I'm responsibly living my life and hoping to be with the man I love, heaven or hell, sickness and in health, that man who is responsible like someone I know that no matter what happened he'll be there" that young, innocent, always feeling in love, childish me... But changes happen to people... adulting happened Now me: "I'll settle when I have what I need, buy my wants, and enjoy life. Right now I can only buy what I need, and a little taste of what I want. Also, consider the partner's decision, If he wants me, I'll be with him. If he doesn't want me, okay. Because if it was for me, "I want you to stay" but I don't want to stay to someone who doesn't want me. Life is too short to be complicated and sad to wait for something that will never come. I believe God has a plan for me, don't rush it."
Settling down with your partner needs a lot of time to decide. Some men don’t settle because they still have current issues that needs to be solved like finances, work, attitude etc.
SKL Currently, I'm 32, maayos kinikita as ofw, walang partner, walang ipon. For me, ang hirap mag settle pa lalo sa sitwasyon na wala kang ipon, sumasakto lang sa pag tulong sa parents at sa gastusin pang sarili. Sa panahon kase ngayon, ang hirap dumagdag sa lipunan ng kayod kalabaw para sa pamilya. Ang hirap isipin na kung may partner ka at mag papamilya kayo tapos ikaw bilang lalaki wala kang panabla sa araw araw na gastusin ng mundo. 😅
2:30 Is it better to settle in a relationship than to be alone ? Ang positive sagot nila dito nakakatuwa. ❤ 2:42 3:03 2:55 Compare dito na ang Negative nila. 3:36 3:41 3:50 4:03 It will always be better to settle than to be alone. Kung positive ka mag isip. For me, tapos nako sa pagiging alone, naging masaya nako don, nasa next level nako ng buhay ko. Haha Na mas magiging masaya ako. Wala naman correct answer nasa pananaw yan ng tao, kung nakatingin sila sa positive or negative side ng buhay nila.
settle? never... settle with one's self, YES.. settle with your hopes and dreams and longings... but settle with people, or career, or locations.. AINT no such thing. do what you want and dont bother anyone else.
the best speakers were the mother and daughter since boomer parents(who settled early in their lives) tend to involuntarily pass off their own unrealized dreams and ambition on their kids
Thank you, REC•CREATE, for including a mother-and-daughter relationship. Aura and Tita Carolina warmed a soft spot in our hearts. Love!
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adea and jan from unfiltered! ibalik na yan 😅
Grabe nakakaiyak ang mag-ina 🥲😭 Kaya ninyo po yan Nanay!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Adeaa and Jannnn waaa nakakakmiss kayoooooo huhu
This is such a good topic. All the answers are valid and relatable.
Settling down with another person is, more often than not, looked at a negative light, specially if one side of the relationship has UNREALISTIC and SELFISH expectations set for the other.
BE ATTRACTED TO MINDSET and PURPOSE.
Also, a gentle reminder:
The TRUE GOOD GIRLS don’t need the Chads and Tyrones.
The REAL GOOD GUYS don’t want Leftovers.
Real
"REAL GOOD GUYS" dont refer to women as Leftovers
@@AudioVylyeah. Real good guys don’t treat women as left overs either. The key is honestly treating everyone as they present themselves. If you want a high-functioning partner, become one yourself first, lol.
aryn's answer to the 2nd question is spot on. usually people would indeed settle where they know their comfortable,
If they asked me "when are you going to settle in life?"
Young me: "In the time, I'm responsibly living my life and hoping to be with the man I love, heaven or hell, sickness and in health, that man who is responsible like someone I know that no matter what happened he'll be there"
that young, innocent, always feeling in love, childish me...
But changes happen to people... adulting happened
Now me: "I'll settle when I have what I need, buy my wants, and enjoy life. Right now I can only buy what I need, and a little taste of what I want. Also, consider the partner's decision, If he wants me, I'll be with him. If he doesn't want me, okay. Because if it was for me, "I want you to stay" but I don't want to stay to someone who doesn't want me. Life is too short to be complicated and sad to wait for something that will never come. I believe God has a plan for me, don't rush it."
Goo auraa bebe and kay tita!! Support ka naminnn HAHAHA
Lab you 😢
Settling down with your partner needs a lot of time to decide.
Some men don’t settle because they still have current issues that needs to be solved like finances, work, attitude etc.
Everyone settles. It's just a matter of time.
8:20
Nalungkot naman ako kay Mother. Pero pwede pa! Kayang-kaya sa bahay magtahi ng damit mag burga. Dipa huli ang lahat Tita. 👍
Namiss ko si Adea and Jan!!!
water and prayers😂 i love you Aura so happy i bump to this video, it's been a while huhu
SKL
Currently, I'm 32, maayos kinikita as ofw, walang partner, walang ipon. For me, ang hirap mag settle pa lalo sa sitwasyon na wala kang ipon, sumasakto lang sa pag tulong sa parents at sa gastusin pang sarili.
Sa panahon kase ngayon, ang hirap dumagdag sa lipunan ng kayod kalabaw para sa pamilya.
Ang hirap isipin na kung may partner ka at mag papamilya kayo tapos ikaw bilang lalaki wala kang panabla sa araw araw na gastusin ng mundo.
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Dibàaaaaaa exactly my point
Kainis, smooth transition sa Garnier 😂
I'll never give up, I will die before I settle for less
I love this interview! 🤎
Jan & Adea shipper here
girlieeeee HAHAHAHA HINDI PO TALO 🥲
@@Ongiel 😭😭😭 cute nyo kasi pati sa vlogs mo, watson vids :)))
Ms. Aryn ✨
Nasa phase ako ng buhay ko na i wanted to achieve something na kasama ko yung family ko and yung partner ko kaso wala naman pala akong partner...
You should come into life not settling for less. Basta for yourself, do the most. Nice words ❤
I LOVE YOU ANGEL
I'm using Garnier Micellar cleansing water while watching this. 🤣🤣🤣
She's doing the most - Versex
Thanks for this
Nah not for me. Living in the Ph itself is already life in hard mode
Hindi ko kasi kaya lokohin ang sarili ko eh. Paano kung nag settle ako tapos biglang may darating pala na mas bagay sa akin? 🤷🏽
Gamit ka lang ng garnier cleansing water
Simple lang naman yan. Hanggat attractive ka pa di ka pa magsesettle hahah
In this economy and modern thinking? Pass, just live in peace.
2:30 Is it better to settle in a relationship than to be alone ?
Ang positive sagot nila dito nakakatuwa. ❤
2:42
3:03
2:55
Compare dito na ang Negative nila.
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3:41
3:50
4:03
It will always be better to settle than to be alone. Kung positive ka mag isip. For me, tapos nako sa pagiging alone, naging masaya nako don, nasa next level nako ng buhay ko. Haha Na mas magiging masaya ako.
Wala naman correct answer nasa pananaw yan ng tao, kung nakatingin sila sa positive or negative side ng buhay nila.
Maybe this time huhuhuhuhuh😢
bakit sobrang liit ni idea here? LOL akala ko attack on titan
they tried so hard to not call out es/ki/nol aka the toner na mahapdi sa skin
Sorry but I would never settle down. 😂
No need to be sorry for that.
settle? never... settle with one's self, YES.. settle with your hopes and dreams and longings... but settle with people, or career, or locations.. AINT no such thing. do what you want and dont bother anyone else.