THE THEMBEKILE TALK WITH: Kiernan Jarryd Forbes
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 พ.ค. 2021
- More than a month since the passing of Anele Tembe her fiance, AKA, has spoken exclusively with BarLeader about allegations that he abused her during the relationship. He's also spoken about what happened on the day she died at a Cape Town hotel. This is the full interview.
Everyone is wiser when it's not their story.
True
So damn TRUE🤞
This 💯
Very true
and the dead cant speak for themselves also
And after his death, we are gathered here. Life is fragile! RIP
a grieving father that believes his daughter was not suicidal is a very dangerous man
I think AKA didn't think Anele was really gonna kill herself 😥💔
Yeah true, it's like you don't expect stress to do that. We all kind of think suicide has to come from something extreme and we're learning that any sort of struggle can add up to one's suicide.
True, especially if she was used to making suicidal threats, he must have thought that okay it's one of those days and relaxed instead of being alarmed💔
It's sad coz he will always think that if he had done things differently, maybe he couldn't have stopped her. I can't imagine the pain, yet in reality he couldn't have known how deep her sorrows were that day and how low had she sunk into those ideas that pushed her towards seeing ending her life as the best option 😭💔
It's crazy how we normalise toxicity and gaslighting. So we don't take it seriously when a person says they're gonna commit suicide. I think it takes a looooot fora person to say such. So the fact that yall are saying he didn't think she'd actually do it is crazy in every way possible!
@@kholekaaaa6150 the majority of people who say it, don't actually do it. That's the problem. It's kind of like how your mom would threaten to divorce your dad, but doesn't actually do it even if your dad doesn't change the situation. It's not normalising toxicity. At some point you just don't know what to do and you just give up. I've dealt with very similar situations with friends that wanted to take their lives away.
I'm happy we have suicide lines(even though they're not perfect), because if we're being honest, 99.99% of us would not have known how to alter the situation.
@@CJr_M Exactly my point just because people don't actually do it does not mean there aren't people who don't do it.
Like your example states dad is the problem and she wants to divorce dad but she doesn't actually do it because she's okay with what dad is doing, she's normalized his behavior!
Also …celebrities don’t owe us sobriety, especially when so many of us are closet addicts. Be your own (and your kid’s) role model. Celebrities are people like you and me, with struggles, traumas, highs and lows too.
Thank you Theresa. Well said.
Yes
Exactly what I said while watching this
Fair.
🙌🏼
If you are watching this. Please remember that life without Jesus is difficult. He died for all this mess. Why live through it. Give your heart to Jesus.
Amen, my brother. Jesus Christ is alive!
Amen
Saw an interview from last month of his. Said he was spending a lot of time with God over the last year or 2. Hoping he saw this in time 🙏
So why are most of the people in the world experiencing the worst suffering, the most religious ones?
@@noziphotshabalala5018 Being born again doesn’t mean the devil won’t try you. Just like unbelievers, what you don’t know will kill you. If you don’t know God wants you healed, you won’t cast that sickness out of your body. If you don’t know that God wants you to be rich, you will believe you must be poor. Accepting Christ into your heart gives you the right to be above the devil and his agents and have authority over all things. But if your mind is not renewed to the word of God everything that happens to unbelievers will also happen to you.
I can't believe his gone💔
You can't blame someone for someone else's actions.
His life was stolen from him,he was stolen from his daughter, from his family, because of this drama.
May he find peace 🕊️ #RIPKIERNAN
So sad indeed 😢
He was a abuser and a druggie
it still feels like a horrible
n wake up from, anx ,gż. I
t's sad thFm,
Two familes have suffered terrible losses in the last 2 years.
To make matters worse, the circumstances of each death are heartbreaking to say the least.
From what AKA, and the information available on various social media outlets, my conclusion is that Anele sadly took away her own life.
In addition, I believe that had she not been successful in taking her own life on that day in CT, she would have kept on attempting..
In terms of AKA passing, it still feels like a nightmare, which I'll soon wake up from 💔💔.
Very sad. However he was abusive - at least mentally. PEOPLE ! - careful how u treat other Souls. The silent universal law of Karma follows & ultimately catches up with you.
May HE RIP.
I'm very shattered by this Man's death 💔💔 Long live SupaMega ✊🏾 your music shall live forever.
It's really sad that Anele is not here to tell her side of the story
Ndiyakxelela mfazi yhuuu 🤷
If she were here there wouldn't be a story to tell ,if you think about it
@yoooh ha.a
It's always the case in any relationship where you find that we only get to hear only the one side of the story.
@@lakhiwebell8861 lol valid point
@@lakhiwebell8861 | 😭
Imagine if you were in AKA'S shoes, telling your truth and people saying you are lying, but they were not there. Hai it's really unfair for us to vilify him when we don't even know anything.
Honestly hey!!!! All people are doing is accusing, assuming, and speculating... Let this guy grieve hle
Is thembi sisbhuti🤔
This is painful I blv AKA
😂😂😂😂
Exactly.
That girl was a curse in AKA’s life! Came into his life and absolutely destroyed it. Rest easy 💔
💯 his downfall came from him being with her. Yoh it's heartbreaking 💔
That's why you don't just open doors to anyone
He choose her.
People in this country love to glamourise abusers and abuse. No wonder why are country is riddled with violence. She was a young vulnerable lady who fell victim to an abuser.
@@noziphotshabalala5018 💯
Strange there is no surveillance footage from the hotel or surrounding area, I mean this is supposed to be a 5 star hotel in the heart of CPT
Right???? Those security guards who were apparently called never came?? Someone’s life was in danger?
Exactly. Something ain't adding up
This is a high profile incident. This is someone's daughter, someone's life we're talking about here. The footage might not be release for the public to view it. Private bruh, private!!!
Imagine!
@@bejavuent.9997 i agree legit why is there no footagage in a 5 star hotel?
The fact that AKA is not being updated about the case, shows that the police are viewing him as a suspect.🥴
But that is standard procedure- until proven innocent, the spouse (and close family and friends, but in this case him being the last person to see her alive) is always and always has been treated as a suspect in cases of this nature
@@msm5887 makes sense...but he said they had ruled him out as a suspect after the 3 interviews they had with him so as far as he knows he is not a suspect in the case...that’s how I even came to commenting this because he had said they didn’t say he was a suspect...
Yes Kwandi, as far as he is concerned, they are not going to go to him and say “you are a suspect” but the actual investigation is always centred around the family and friends, particularly the spouse. Until the investigators have concrete evidence that he is innocent. I also read where he said he was not a suspect, but investigation does not work that way, in such cases, particularly around the spouse. Honestly, I do not believe he killed her. But there are holes in just what he shared in this interview, of which if I were an investigative officer- let me tool 😣. But shame, I don’t believe he physically pushed her. I could be wrong. But that is why he is not getting any update, that is why they interviewed Zinhle, he is not not a suspect, in the sense that they can arrest him, but in the eyes of the investigation- by virtue of being a spouse and the last person to see her alive, with no witnesses of what happened in the moments building up to her death, in the eyes of investigation he is a “suspect “ until proven innocent.
@@msm5887 mmmm😔makes sense.... I also don’t think he physically pushed her...I wish he could just forget about everything(like what people will say, his reputation and career) and just tell on everything that really happened that day to save himself from this mess and allegations.
Well duh
Thembekile asking all the right questions without any fear of being kicked out the House, good job Tata 👏
So professional and on point 👌🏾
That's what I was thinking, very well job done
U mean good job mama
He'll be spoiling it for himself to the public if he kicked him out.
He sound too judgmental, that's not professional.. He sounds more like a prosecuter, than a reporter.
I think the fact that aka didn't shut down the interview, shows the patience in his character.
How I'm here and thinking how is he no more💔 How vile the people are who took his life .....Kiernan🕊, You will forever be remembered 💙
Found myself watching this all over again 😭😭😭
Rest easy KING 😪
Me too and am just crying😭😭😭
Me too
Thembekile should also have interviewed Kelly Khumalo back then. His skills are legendary 👌
Thembekile is such a good interviewer...!!!!! His questioning nje..
Guys we are acting as if we haven't been in toxic relationships before.. We usually don't see the dangers and red flags even when warned by loved ones or friends. It's blindsiding.
So true, to be honest when people are angry they are capable of doing anything.
What what are you trying to say its okay
Not everyone has been in a toxic relationsbip sis
Honestly ,gently soul rest in peace
Stop using the world toxic relationships.. nothing is toxic but actual toxic.. you are overusing the word and thinking you are an american... stop talking like you an american and using american buzz words and trigger words... go live in america and dont come here with those trigger words... next thing you know you gone use toxic masculinity also...
Maaan not being judgemental but I’d definitely remember what me and my girlfriend were fighting about if i had to break a door 🚪
True it would have been more sensible to say id rather not talk about what we where fighting about rather than say i dont recall
And also insist that you weren’t on drugs👀 qaluyiva
I think its cause he had a lot of those, but just wasn't on cam, so he probably wldnt remember cz they too many
It’s possible. I would have a meaningful conversation with my partner while I was super drunk and not be able to remember a single thing about the conversation. However, my partner would record it.
No you wont, ive had fights with my current gf and at the end of the argument we both dont know why we’re fighting. Fights evolve in to things that never started them
I believe AKA shem, maybe he was too careless about the death threats because he was used to hear them every time they have arguments and that morning was like any other days to him, he never thought Anele would actually jump off that building. I also would have stayed in the room after seeing the body down because of the shock wethu yhuuu... Hayi nkosi yam 😭
It’s so sad
Me coming fr such relationships, i honestly can put my feet in Akas shoes.
Yhuuuu hay Sana. Aysembi le
I believe you are spot on.
I'm so heartbroken for him 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭
Honestly I believe he didn't actually kill her but I believe substance abuse has alot to do with it. His story doesn't add up because they trying to conceal the fact that people in the industry are struggling with substance abuse of which results to their downfall. They need to admit so they can get help.
I also believe he is innocent, in that he did not kill her. But the part about “I don’t know if she jumped while I was on the phone or in the bathroom. I didn’t look at her 🤨🤨🤨” but I do believe he did NOT kill her. And I pray that I am right 🙏🏽🤞🏽
@@msm5887 what do you mean "but the part about" ?
@@msm5887 I believe it because a lot of men who find themselves fighting a lot with their women end up forming a habit of leaving the room when things escalate
Perfectly put
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if you've ever been in a toxic relationship, you know it is not easy to admit that your relationship is toxic. two imperfect people can love each other to death but still have an unhealthy relationship. you don't just wake up and make peace with the fact that the person you wanted to spend forever with is not good for you, it takes alot of time, acceptance and healing. honestly at this moment, we all expect too much from this poor guy.
So apparently arguing all the time, breaking down doors, trashing rooms, suicide threats and talks of taking each other to court (just to name a few) does NOT constitute a toxic relationship to some of ya'll? Shuu may I never have such "passion" in my life.
Girl your sarcasm 😃
Yoh same.
😱 Ewe sissie❤️
There r worse toxic relationships and we still loving them. No 1 is saying anything about it, so the same as them they decided to stay in love regardless
Yes, this!!! This what I've been saying. Then people have the nerve to say AKA didn't think she'd actually go through with it hauuu!
Being a public figure is such a difficult thing.
Bro tell me about it. This is really the price you pay for fame.
Right!!!!?
You just have to explain your every move
@@Kate_Ntombela the audacity our country has to sniff his private life is really a shame. And we are all as guilty with our own lives, but fame invites camera's into your bed room.
Conspiracy theories aside this man is hurt 🥺💔💔😢
Umuhle
He is visibly very hurt💔💔💔
💔💔💔
So Anele's family is not hurt???? Wena uthanda uAka nje qha mxm uyadina
@@sifundondinisa1140 aibo manje akusamele sithi uAKA uhurt without mentioning the other parties too? and it actually makes absolute sense to comment on his hurt since besibuka yena...Nansi ingulube inginonela bo.
I personally think he didn’t kill her
But the society has already put him behind bars It’s so unfair
I believe that too
It's not the truth that gives you freedom, it's the law👣
Pearl
I’m jus saying pple hv found him guilty already
I’m sure he feels like he is behind bars
Not free whn he is out here
@@bellamdluli9022 you're right👍
I personally don't believe a loving, passionate relationship would be this violent & toxic. But differences aside, AKA needs serious healing, there's no way. This is too much😭
One thing is certain their relationship was very unhealthy
Evidently
Seemingly
All signs were there 🤨 but they chose to ignore them. It wasn't going to last long
@Tia Sparkle that’s why they examined his fingers/hands after the fall... trust me they’ll investigate everything but knowing the corrupted nature of South Africa, the one with the most money will win this case
I think he’s in denial about the fact that his relationship with Anele was toxic
Definitely. It was extremely toxic
This comment is it!
It was toxic he can protect the image of the late but can't runaway from the truth
How was it toxic
True
He may have abused her but her death is her responsibility
It's like bullying. When a teen or young adult takes their life due to it, emotionally they can't anymore and there has to be consequences for the person causing the emotional distress. It's not just on the person who committed suicide, the death is intertwined
Honestly you will never really know exactly what happened
You're the most ignorant person I've come across in the last few months. How is his abusive behavior not the result of her death? Also, can you not hear how this man is lying?
@@ronaldorevonmartin2367 you're not sure if he is lying, firstly.
Secondly a person who kills themselves has made the choice to do so no matter what has happened, it was her choice to do it . Please explain how that's ignorant
@@bronwynza3582 no the choice is theirs to take the final decision
His days were numbered ever since. RIP
RIP to the female he throw out on the street..
So much sadness in this video. I hope this man finds healing. Toxic relationship or not, there is a lot of heartbreak here. I can't imagine what he must be going through. I'm in no place to judge him or the relationship. God be with you Kiernan
What about the family tht has lost a child... Aka can easily get help and pick up the pick the pieces and move on... But a family still lost a child
But u never said God be with Anele's family who r still in the dark of what really transpired
I wish he had listened to the talk he had with his mom after the Durban suicide attempt. To care for her to get her psychiatric help and close monitoring.She was not ok xemmm
@@sindisilezwane5301 yea I agree. He should have listened but we're here now...it's sad all around
@@sifundondinisa1140 I'm not ignoring the fact that a family lost a child. I'm looking at a man who's visibly hurt and acknowledges that he could have done more. Should God not be with him in this time of darkness? Should he be hanged according to you?
For as long as Anele can't tell her side of the story, this is HIS truth and not THEE truth.
Yes. It's literally "His Truth"
@Jesse Paton okay, legally... but not logically.
Yup. And all I can add is...remember Oscar Pistorius 👀👀
@Jesse Paton ok love
Truth is not multi faceted, theres only The truth.Period.Both parties can give version of what they say happened but what actually happened is called The truth. Unfortunately we cannot get the truth in most situations
I really wish he never met Anele ...so sad we had to loose him like that man a LEGEND.
And worse now her tragic death will always be linked to a HIT! Her family had a responsibility to take her mental health issues serious. She was on Prescriptions and has been admitted before! I’m sure the Coroner got her medical records from her stay at the clinic.
Kiernan's approach to answering the interviewer is on point .Very careful with his wording and yet always apologetic at every turn. Kudos to whoever advised Kiernan on this approach.
#This is sad. Never seen Kiernan in this shape 😔
I also noticed that.
As well as just being honest about his loved experience. If you have nothing to hide your words will flow.
I noticed that, too. He was very careful with His Answers.
Great PR job
They both abused each other emotionally ,mentally and otherwise. Aka's actions surrounding the relationship caused her a mental breakdown but for her to threaten suicide each time they argue was also abusive to Aka. She thought if she threatened suicide shed be heard or treated better ....but their relationship was toxic
Sooo true!!!!
Agreed no one knows what they would’ve done in this situation I may have done the same who knows ?but becoz he is Aka he is expected to be super human
He definitely worsened everything for her... if someone wants space from u by locking themselves in a room, why break down a door instead of giving them space to cool down... yet when she wanted to jump down the building, he wanted to give her space ? 🤔 something is not adding up
@@gracemat9474 i think in life people are supposed to learn from mistakes. When someone is suicidal it's not adviseable to leave them alone when they are angry so i bliv that's why AKA broke the door to ensure she was not harming herself...but again people saw that as violent action and acused him of scaring the hell out of his wife...so it's obvious that in a situation where they would engage again into any heated verbal conflict, i think it's not far fetched why this time around he decided to give her some space thinking it would've helped her to calm down of which i bliv he won't have listened to public opinions the first time. Some of u guys should learn not to over analyse things in this life coz i'm sure at some point u too must have made some decisions out of confusion. Sometimes those decisions comes spontenously as a reflex action. AKA is human just like u
@@gracemat9474 you don't listen properly he said he done that before when he gave her space she also tried to kill herself that's why he broke down the door,but because he doesn't want to talk bad about his ex spouse he just answered saying yea his relationship is passionate 👁️read between the lines grace and after all he has done for her she still went back to her old shitty ways threatening to kill herself so obviously if I put myself in aka,s shoes for even a second,,, I would also remove myself from that room and say ok have it your way I'm done trying 👁️fuck why must I always try and save your life if you not even trying to change one bit so obviously she chose the bed she wants to lay in and clearly she got what she wanted.....
The question that should be asked is “was she suicidal before she met Keenan?”.
Yes
she was.. her father 'confirmed'
Exactly
@@pfunzomulaudzi4754 why must you lie , if anything her Father denied it and called it a lie , what the helll r you talking about
@@pfunzomulaudzi4754 lies🙄🙄 her father said she wasn’t suicidal at all
I was at Ayepyep the evening it happened and they looked so happy, she was jumping on him and kissing him and he kept on looking at her and smiling, never expected that it would’ve gotten to this.... she looked absolutely beautiful that night, angelic 🥺
They were both high on coke you should know that even Tarzan cam get swag on
@@iBackupTV how do you know they were, I'm just curious... His whole story upsets me
Looks are very deceiving when it comes to couples. I know it
thats what nyaope does to ppl
Most women have tried to jumo out a car when they faught with their men women provoke and do threaten men they would kill themselves and he stuck with her madness
The answers to who killed AKA are all in this interview. A life for a life💔💔💔He met the wrong girl, he should have listened to his mother even though he loved her. RIP SUPAMEGA❤
very true😢😢😢
What did his mom say?
@@tarquinmckay5104 listen to the whole interview
Mother's always know what's best for us but well asizwa😢❤
@tarquinmckay5104 she was vocal about thier relationship that means she never approved it she wasn't happy about it
This lowkey feels like a family meeting #fellow south africans
There’s nothing low key about this - this is a full-on Family Meeting 🤣🤣
Silapha we cancelled mo groovo for this meeting
@@onelavava2016 😂😂😂
Am kenyan but I agree😂
@@junemuchiri609 ofcourse you agree, black South Africans are bantu just like Kenyans; we are family.
At this point, only God, AKA and Anele knows what really happened on that day. We can believe or not believe him either way we can never be 100% sure😭
Hai we know!!! Only you don’t know!!
@@thabangmamorare8647 tell us
@@thabangmamorare8647 I can honestly say that uthetha ububanxa
@@thabangmamorare8647 Were you in that room Thabang?
Is this another Senzo Meyiwa dillema where one family has lost a life and another one lives and life goes on mxm
After watching this interview, i think I know who ordered the hit 🎯
It sucks that he has to do this during his time of grieving. We have to imagine it's very traumatic.
Toxic or not, drugs or not, mental illness or not, I hope there's Justice for Anele and if not can we let this man grieve for his fiance.
Truth
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I second this to the T.
@@lindaprecious7556 well said
What justice? She was suicidal and committed it.
What he must hv seen dt day?
Without passing any judgment, I hope everyone finds peace. This is all heart breaking.
Could not have said it any better. I second your every word 🙏⭐️
Well said 🙏
They must yes I feel his pain
This is all murderer stop justifying bullshix
@@babyinet jy keep your bek
The word “passionate” is being misused here
Bruu!
Absolutely! Toxic is the right word but he was in denial of it and did not want to use it. Their relationship was toxic at best.
I always come back to this interview every time I miss AKA, my favourite artist broke my heart 😢😢😢. This is just sad 😔😔😔
Watching this after Kiernan's funeral hits different 💔
i am telling u
True
And connecting the DOTS!
Yah
I'm really sorry for the loss of your wife man... Couples fight, but without Jesus in the union that union is not built in a solid foundation
Amen
Even with Jesus, when it's bad, it's BAD
@@siphokazigalada2320 true... I remember a story of a Ghanaian pastor in America that shot his wife to death... it’s about finding the right person...
True story.
Thembekile you are very goood at what you do
Gents please just don’t leave your girl alone whenever she is having a mental breakdown... no matter how many times before🙏🏾🥺🥺
I second this. 🙏
Better to go seperate ways with that person
It gets tiring though, but I hope they hear you.
STOP DATING BROKEN WOMEN would be a good message
But if it’s mental health issue man it’s very difficult ...you won’t always be with that person so I only think psychiatric intervention would be a solution.
Why did I had to see this today 😭😭😭 rest in peace Mega..your heart was pure.
So sad so heartbreaking 💔 😢 May his soul rest in peace super Mega love from 🇰🇪
Thembekile's calmness, professionalism and clear line of questioning is beyond excellent 🔥🔥
This session couldn't have been easy, thank you💙
I thought it was kind of cold..
@@thobi6639 true, he was conducting the interview like an detective
If the tone was different, relaxed or compassionate, it might have changed the atmosphere of the session
I think the sharp-straight to the point line of questioning helped AKA not to breakdown or trigger his emotions coz if Thembekile was like consoling him or checking on his feelings things might have turned out differently and it was going to be a painful or intense session
AKA answered him so well that made him ask 2/3 irrelevant questions
I did not like his interviewing style. Why did he wear a suit... good questions but a very cold human being!!!
Thembekile is on point👌🏾
He is killing it
Thank Thank
💯 extremely direct.
No beating around the bush 👌
His interviewing skills are on point
The issue is not complicated AKA is stating the facts and people don’t like it because it leaves them emotionally unsatisfied, people love to have a villain to hate and they don’t want an explanation that leaves them without one.
Truth!
💯
Tottally agreeing
Straight bro
Facts can be proven. His telling his version of events, not facts.
😢 I’m only watching this after your passing, I am certain you did not kill her . May your assassins be found and dealt with. You were such a loving soul
As a parent, a wife soon turning 50, looking back 2 the fisrt few years of marriage my husband and i went through the very same situations. Out of frustration i had numerously thought of leaving, going and never to return. In turn my husband wanted to drive through a wall or doen the bridge on the highway. Lòking back now, it was 2 very strong characters, stubborn and pig headed. But through time and devotion and mainly bcos we both were way older, we settled in. Now we have better understanding, both older, calmer and more mature. Thank Gid that its now behind us and that through this phase God was still our center. I believe many married couples will agree that when two very passionate ppl meet esp when they r younger, less experienced and still experiencing life and its scares( both with self and an other), it can get to this. Thank God that eveey time we went through this, and i thought of suicide . 1 thing stopoed me was my mom and kids, but now i wouldn't dare bcos of the very person whose extremesi have learnt to understand, and he in turn no longer tolerates my own extremes bcos they r no longer there. We r so sorry AKA, to you , both families. May u all find peace and solace in Jesus. We continue praying 4 u and ur families.
When someone constantly threatens to kill themselves whenever there's an argument, it gets to a point where you tell them to just go ahead with it🤷🏽♀️ not because you mean it
True
True
True,
True
True and poor girl was not well
😭😭 the whole bathroom story reminds me of the Oscar Pistorius case.
Kanjani?
Hayi these situations are not the same though.
@@phopcorn5114 Reeva was in the bathroom when Oscar shot her
@@vanceroday still don't see the correlation, thanks tho
I never said they're the same or they correlate though💁, azanke, I just said when he started talking about the bathroom, i remembered Oscar's statement. That's all. 💁💁
AKA is over-compensating and this is tripping me up; he's trying to emphasise the fact that he loved her and that he'd never hurt her because of it
if he truly loved Anele, he would have protected her from the rapper lifestyle & top floor hotel rooms.
@@gwenmaluleke5590 I disagree with your statement
This reminds me of the RKelly interview with Gayle King. There was really no need to do this interview, at such length. Because any inconsistencies in this interview when compared to his official interview with the police will trap him. His PR team and Legal team could have handled this better I believe
He probably really did love her but took her for granted when she was alive. Regret is a strong emotion.
@@gwenmaluleke5590 this is a stupid comment how can you remove or protect someone from her own lifestyle. Please stop.
I just don't understand why any person would leave someone alone after they have said that they would jump off a balcony instead of trying to stop them. Especially if they have tried to jump out of a moving car before.
He further explained why he left the room
@@kubhekasiphesihle2202 No one leaves the love of their life alone in a situation like that and after he found out that she jumped, the first thing he did was go to his friends room instead of running to her, calling an ambulance or the police. That means that he was worried about himself at that moment 😕 not her. How sad
Culpable homicide... that's what they call this crime
Incase you haven't heard properly or maybe you should go back and watch it
He did say It' was notin New to him cuz Nelli did say to him dat she was gonna do dat, on the call or wherever he was but she didn't do it , how could he have known that at dat moment she was dead serious about it???
One day you will.
Sad generation with happy pictures 🙁🙁
Who take a picture sad??
@@gugulethu4155 lol what 🤦🏾♀️
Yeka isingisi
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Their relationship was probably very toxic. We don't know them, but can only assume. But just imagine a narcissist (AKA) and a young lady who threatens suicide everytime she is emotional (upset or angry). People assume he is guilty just because he didn't rush downstairs to her after she jumped. Would you personally be able to watch over a "suicidal" person 24/7. The scary thing is that you honestly don't know when they mean it when they say they will kill themselves. If they will actually go through with it or if it's just a threat. I wouldn't be able to go check on my partner after he jumps because i'd be too traumatized to even move. People react differently to trauma. So we honestly cannot judge their relationship because we didn't know what happened behind closed doors besides the few videos we saw which can be interpreted in any way.
Well, as he said in this interview, his mother asked him if he is able to handle the situation and his response was that he wont abandon someone in need. He abandoned her emotionally and physically.
Yeah, I have been robbed 3 times. First time I fought back, second time I ran and the third time it happened I just froze. I suffered from post traumatic syndrome the third time it happened but didn't suffer from it from the other two incidents. So we do react to trauma differently and other things too. That's why I always say that we shouldn't expect us in other people. How you would react to a situation is not how I will react to it.
Very sensible 👌
You summed my thoughts so perfectly! People want to say things like: “but why didn’t he do that..a normal reaction is this” ...but very often our minds react differently in “abnormal situations “. WE DONT ACT THE SAME. And seemingly Anele was suffering with mental health- yes her relationship didn’t help but if she didn’t jump that day- she might have tried it some other time. She honestly needed the right psychological assistance. I’m not taking away from the fact that AKA was probably abusive etc. But really, this Situation is very nuanced.
I must say I concur with you, people react differently to trauma. I'm sure he wouldn't have been able to handle seeing his wife to be kill herself in front of him. I guess we as the public because we were not there we just want to put blame on AKA and we just want to see him pay for Aneles death because they were together and we don't actually know what transpired on that day even though he is pouring his heart out. This interview gave me a while new perspective because I was one of those people who believe that he is guilty of her death, but the way he speaks so fondly of her and the hurt and pain in his eyes I really believe that he did not kill her. He looks devastated, I cannot imagine how AKA life is like on a daily basis these kinds of allegations must be taking a toll on him, not forgetting that he is still grieving and he is not dealing with his loss properly. What this ordeal is doing to him emotionally I can only imagine I honestly feel for the guy a person can only take so much.
The hate on this guy is unbelievable, y'all wanted him to explain what happened on that night now he's talking n still y'all saying he's lying wtf ? ... only God can judge put the respect on this man's Name ...
Came back to this interview. Can’t believe Mega is gone. Rest G you did your part 😔❤️🇿🇦
Kiernan has been advised well to protect Anele at all angles. If no lawyers advised him of this and his doing it out of his goodwill, kudus sir, well done👏🏻.
Very well done and kudos to AKA...
You clearly listened subjectively 😂
He’s so professional
Yep. He did try to protect her.
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Honestly speaking I can understand how maybe AKA might’ve thought she wasn’t serious about killing herself. Because sometimes people use that to manipulate a situation sort of. So I see how he didn’t take that serious 👀
I've done it before #facts
But its not the first time she's acted and said that. Remember the video?
Just like the lady who lied about being abducted trying to get her bf attention.
@MAZISI NDUMISO MBATHA she had to take medication and she clearly had real issues but I'm not blaming AkA but I refuse to believe he believed she was faking it.
But he said she tried to jump out of a moving car 🤷🏾♀️ so one will think one will take this threats seriously.
AkA gut feeling about the Police and Mr. Tembe was spot on! Never ignore your intuition.
"if i was a father..... well i am a father"
yuuh abo AKA forget bangotata
He should stop taking those drugs
People are busy saying he's lying but they ain't telling us the "truth".
Bruh I mean we here for this truth
I don't even know why they bothered watching this because they've already decided that he kilked her
People want to hear what THEY want to hear even when the truth tries to present itself. 😭
@@pearlmothoagae5086 kinda hard to believe you’d “remove” yourself when the love of your life threatens to jump, seems odd.
But why did he remove himself when she said she will jump, why didn't he try to stop her, because he knew she has tried it before
Be well Kiernan. No one is perfect. Most are stuck in toxic relationships and they can't even deal with it. Mourn your wife and heal
That's the truth!
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Wonderfully spoken and it's the truth
I dont think He killed her , He probably thought She wouldnt do it . And Told Her "JUMP THEN " ,out of spite and She really Did It!
Makes so much sense.
And also probably they were high on drugs which further fuelled everything.
I think so too. He does look very guilty because of that and I really hope one day he will forgive himself.
Maybe, but he said she tried to jump out of moving car before. So, if someone did that I would believe that there was a chance they would try to kill themselves or jump off a balcony.
true hey
Kiernan was a good soul who have all and love too much . He made a huge sacrifice not knowing that the relationship will cost him a lot … parents were not fair to expect Kiernan to change their daughter while they could not cope bona
Obviously he committed himself to the toxic relationship ….
I hope all of us have some lessons to learn to this story ..
Man, this is just unbearably painful to endure, love and light to both families 🤍💐
could not finish it made me cry.
Eish this is a mess, no one wins with this situation. It's such a tragedy. . . I believe they loved each other but there was just soo many issues. Only God and the two of them know what happened that morning. May her soul rest in eternal peace 🙏🏽
Q: Where were you ?
AKA: Me and Anele we always had the best time, she was full of life, laughter. We went to lunch with friends. She got dressed she was beautiful. 😏
How he flipps questions to tell how much they were in love is a red flag for me
@@neelonlebgwa7838 a Major red flag.
My conclusion after watching this interview; we really are a sad generation with happy pictures...
If AKA understood mental health, how come he behaved in a manner that aggravated the situations
This!
Exactly!
Maybe it is because he is not God
Just because someone has mental issues it doesn't mean that you should avoid certain conversations, tiptoe around an issue or not relay how you feel. Mental health or not, people need to allow themself to be functional members of society, couples and family fight from time to time, she just needed to manage her way of reacting, so did AKA.
are you blaming him for her behavior?
One thing I will say on the events of that night is AKA was damned if he did and he was damned if he didn’t, he was really between a rock and a hard place!
It would be sad if he got killed cause no one believed his story only to find out he had no other truth other than this one RIP MR Forbes
Absolutely. So sad her father denied her struggles.
There's something that doesn't sit right with the way he is talking!but only God knows the reality behind this incident...#justice for Anele
Broooooo!!!!!
I agree 💯
And vele they were married hey 🤦♀️.. I think they used to be physically abusive with each other but I don’t believe he pushed her or killed her. I just think the relationship was extremely toxic. He was used to her attempting to hurt herself he didn’t think she would go through with it.
Exactly
I agree
This statement yokuthi" he didn't think she'd go through with it is sick" just shows how serious we aren't about our loved ones and life
Then why did he call security?
I agree, he probably told her to go ahead and jump..... And she probably felt as if he didn't care about her/ love her enough to convince her not to do something like that.
I understand. I lived through this type of relationship. You love someone who has a mental illness and when things go wrong you will be blamed because you have made an active choice to live with this person that you so dearly love . Your life is entwined and you fell inlove with the person. Pls pray for this family. They all need our prayers
Eish. Would you be with someone like that again?
and I wonder if ever it was AKA who fell of the balcony, where we going to give Anele the same energy as we are giving to AKA
AE MAHN let's cut him some slack
The dude is hurting guyz
Why is everyone so concerned about Aka yet so little is being said about a family who lost a child tht was under 25 years of age mxm..... If Aka had relationships in the past tht did not end in dramatic endings then we could perhaps give him a benefit of a doubt but ke the truth will come out.... Strength to the Tembe family
At least there are people who understand how these things can happen
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AKA ‘s passing brought me here😢May their souls rest in peace ❤
Why do I feel like this guy is not a murderer , they thought he killed his girl but I don't think that's what actually happen I think this is a suicide 🤔, rest in peace aka 😔 now he's gone they've done it
Please also interview Anele's family because the poor girl had problems from home. That's my personal point of view.
Exactly it's sad how people are putting all the blame on aka... There might have had a toxic relationship but MO girl had problems
Thank you
His dad refuses to believe day his daughter was depressed
Yes! Since she was already diagnosed with depression before she met Aka. Aka confirmed that her father knew about Anele's depression status, why did he hid that when giving out a tribute at her funeral?
Yes we need to know how she was growing up
Guys I can see from Namibia 🇳🇦, from here that eish... Yoh, ha a man AKA!
We don’t know the full story but AKA is doing what Anele’s (May her soul continue to Rest In Peace) family is doing, they are protecting their child and he is protecting himself! They must come together as a family.
Everyone is hurting, this pain is deep - she is gone and her family and friends even AKA is HURT, I’m so sorry they are going through all of this.
Well said.
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It's said what happened to Aka, him being denied to speak at the funeral must have been the hardest.
All I am hearing here is Kiernan defending himself. Not answering the questions. Period.
Exactly! PR BS
True
You guys knows other peoples issues too much. You already made your judgments and I guess if this can go deep and seek for answers from you maybe you can't even answer. Do not be a decider. Look at AKA as a man who lost a partner too. What if a lady also had issues from home?
@@victormvule5205 I see a “what if” blerh oh south African men and hypotheticals. No one is reading that
My honest opinion nje is that Mega needs to stay away from the media eye. No interviews, no shows and no social media until this blows over. People forget easily. By summer, the internet will be on someone else's case and this will all be in the past. Everyone is still hurting and this is not the time to be opening the floor to allow people to poke and shove in your business. That's just me. I'd disappear for a while. You can tell nje that he's NOT okay😕
True 💯
True, but his situation is different it will always follow him.
💯 Pearl 😉
@@phililemari4407 hello Mngani ❤️
@@kabomakgeng9394 | ofcourse! 😢 But everyone needs to heal first. All of this is what's going to cause the permanent damage.
Thembekile. Wow. You were on point. May your career blossom from here onwards 🌸❤️
YHOOO sana loBhuti and his questions 🔥🔥🔥🔥
His career is on fire already but I get you
We so quick to point fingures. tjoooooooo
It's not his fault and never will be. This young lady was suicidal & if she wanted to take her life she would of went through with it regardless. Once you have your mind made up abt something (even something detrimental)no one cannot talk you out of it, you will eventually do it! Hopefully he got her help for depression, rather it helped or not..still he tried to help. What he could of done diff was get a hotel room on a lower level. R.I.P AKA & his lovely wife! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Listening to this interview, AKA Should've acted differently, yes it seems like he didn't physically kill her but indirectly he did kill her.
All her video evidence tells you she was scared of him, breaking down a door to get to her.. can just imagine what kinda attitude he had.. but God had other ways of getting justice for what he did to her.
What curse
'You may have been part of pushing her over the edge' when he used this pun, I felt it.
Probably, in the end it was a decision she made.
Keenan & Anele were triggering to each other. Keenan's biggest mistake was not taking "I'm gonna kill myself" statements seriously. May Anele rest in perfect peace wherever she may be, as for Keenan I hope u find peace and also looking for healing
As he has mentioned many times that Anele has said that many times before and he just took it as one of those times where they are fighting and she says it
It seems she'd said it many times before ...
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Ah man, this is such a tragic story. I hope that everyone affected recovers from the trauma of it all. ✨
This is so sad, especially because she was on SSRI Prescription Medication( linked to suicidal ideation) and was admitted to a Mental Wellness Clinic (for attempted suicide attempt)and all of it is being ignored.
I think it is very clear that AKA did not play a part in the actual physical death of Anele but he played a part in the circumstances leading up to it. He should have been her protector, he should have kept her in sight because he knows the issues they have had in the past with suicidal threats. Also, the Tembe family may have not known the full extent of the toxic relationship and because they managed to unlock her phone they are only realizing now and are getting suspicious and hurt. Peace to both families.
As much you can support a depressed person it's actually hard cause you never know what there thinking
I agree with you but it's difficult to be an expert on how to protect someone when you yourself needs help.
No the hell....his career could be destroyed, sometimes you just have to walk away
Unfortunately we are not perfect human beings and we can't read people's mind to know and control what they are thinking 24/7/365 only our Creator is able to do that
True but He can’t be blamed,I would have also left to calm the situation down but in this she went and done the worse
I believe AKA. keep strong. This too shall pass
Me too
Why do we aways expect perfection from celebrities kodwa it's okay for those of us who are not celebrities to be imperfect? Cast a stone if you're perfect. #InAKAweTrust
We don't expect perfection from anyone, including celebs. But we do expect accountability where it is required and from all members of the society. Accountability and honesty. This gaslighting and setting a narrative about Anele, and not accounting for his hand in her destruction is shit.
@@Jamludi No one is perfect. Do you honestly think AKA intended to kill HER. DO NOT PAINT ALL MEN WITH THE SAME BRUSH LADY
Anele and AKA were both broken people who loved each other. But love paired with a good heart can’t help mentally broken people. Rest Easy to Anele and AKA🙏🏾🕊️ I hope both found peace with God