@CharlieBoyleAttraction maybe she was / is embarrassed about her present home situation back in the Ukraine (or Poland) - wherever her actual home is right now. Is this a realistic possibility that I put forward? It is a possibility.
@@christinereich6050 I didn't mean that what I suggested was probable. I suggested that it was a possibility. Many other things are possible, too. Perhaps she has a boyfriend. Perhaps something else. Have you continued communicating with her?
She's saying that you're not fun and nice when you're not giving her money. Just give her the money and you'll get more opportunities to give her more money.
Sorry to disagree. But it's #3. I've seen it so many times over the last 40 years. You can see it a mile away. Fun guy=emotional punching bag. Nice guy=doormat.
@@CharlieBoyleAttraction I think because you've asked the question on here that your gut instinct is telling you that this is dodgy. Never ignore your gut. All women are hypergamous.
I don’t think it was a scam it just might be who she is trying to date people she presumes has money in her way of life that she probably thinks will benefit her life and getting to where she wants to be it’s always hard to tell if people are actually genuine if you keep catching them out on there lies
not sure why you don't see a scam here there's no 123 possible explanations she was doing a number on you and your overthinking everything but what was actually happening gotta get your filters up here don't make yourself an easy target
Thanks.. it still doesn't make any sense though... and I'm not sure how I'm making myself an easy target. I blocked her as soon as she asked me to pay for the flight. Plus, the flight to London cost LESS than the flight she was already taking to Poland from Tenerife. If she was trying to do a number on me, would be more likely to ask me to send money or pay for a hotel, which she didn't! Thanks for commenting 🙂
Where was the bus stop?
Tenerife (in the European Union!) So no immigration benefit, if thats what you are asking? Thanks
@CharlieBoyleAttraction maybe she was / is embarrassed about her present home situation back in the Ukraine (or Poland) - wherever her actual home is right now. Is this a realistic possibility that I put forward? It is a possibility.
For sure. But that still doesn't explain why she lied to ask me to buy a ticket, and if I came to visit, I didn't ask to stay in her house! Thanks
@@ForkCandle123 This is the kind of thing women tell each other. We make excuses for obvious behavior.
@@christinereich6050 I didn't mean that what I suggested was probable. I suggested that it was a possibility. Many other things are possible, too. Perhaps she has a boyfriend. Perhaps something else. Have you continued communicating with her?
If she’s trying to milk a free trip out of you and shame you for not going along with it, she’s not the kind of woman that is worth pursuing.
She's saying that you're not fun and nice when you're not giving her money. Just give her the money and you'll get more opportunities to give her more money.
Sure. But I didn't give her any money, she only asked if I could book a £30 flight. Thanks
Sorry to disagree. But it's #3. I've seen it so many times over the last 40 years. You can see it a mile away. Fun guy=emotional punching bag. Nice guy=doormat.
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Those sirens you hear on a warship when the enemy is spotted went off in my head at 01:18
@@eddyrourke5514 those sirens that we ignore! Let's face it, we never really know. But her being from another country is a complication in itself.
All about the money pal, always. If you act like a mug they will take full advantage and treat you like a mug.
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All sounds like hard work to me fella.
the one thing you are missing is you going to Poland doesn't get her to UK... she was working a number on you from the get go.
That doesn't make sense though. She could have just taken a flight herself. She didn't need my help to get there!
@@CharlieBoyleAttraction I think because you've asked the question on here that your gut instinct is telling you that this is dodgy. Never ignore your gut. All women are hypergamous.
@CharlieBoyleAttraction just your money. Oldest game in the book.. promise of kitty and blokes start spilling cash
@@CharlieBoyleAttraction Doesn't matter if she doesn't need your help. It's all about maximizing her own resources.
Don't give anyone money. Seems to me she wanted a free ticket to London. Am I missing something?
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Honey trap!
But she didn't even know who I was when we met! And she didn't need a flight to the UK
I don’t think it was a scam it just might be who she is trying to date people she presumes has money in her way of life that she probably thinks will benefit her life and getting to where she wants to be it’s always hard to tell if people are actually genuine if you keep catching them out on there lies
not sure why you don't see a scam here there's no 123 possible explanations she was doing a number on you and your overthinking everything but what was actually happening gotta get your filters up here don't make yourself an easy target
Thanks.. it still doesn't make any sense though... and I'm not sure how I'm making myself an easy target. I blocked her as soon as she asked me to pay for the flight. Plus, the flight to London cost LESS than the flight she was already taking to Poland from Tenerife. If she was trying to do a number on me, would be more likely to ask me to send money or pay for a hotel, which she didn't! Thanks for commenting 🙂
I thought you were a really funny guy sounds more like a dig at you to make you feel guilt/shamefor calling her out on her BS.
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Very simple. I can afford to visit you. If you can't afford to visit me,I'm visiting you job done
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