Katie was terrible, she knows his family history and would call him terrible things and compared him to his father. She isn't just mean she is emotionally manipulative and borderline abusive. He should have never married her but sometimes when you are in it you can't see it.
If the person cheated and you decide to stay with them, it doesn’t give you the green light to constantly be mean and condescending. If she had that much resentment she should have chosen to leave the relationship.
@@Agh576 can’t you apply the same logic to him? if she’s constantly mean to him and he chose to stay, it doesn’t give him the green light to cheat. he could’ve just left the relationship too.
It was good to see Schwartzy finally speak on his own. I’m like Amanda, I can see all sides so just because I love him doesn’t mean I don’t love Katie.
Do people not remember Katie defending Tom verbally and physically against Stassi in season 1? He swore at Stassi which was so rude and so she poured a drink at him and even then, against her bestfriend, Katie defended him. Tom never defended Katie, if he shows a little bit of it people praised him which doesn’t make sense!
Love and honor, forsaking all others,not calling your wife a Karen or pouring a drink on her,kissing multiple other women, and when Sandoval disrespected Katie's Mom and he hid behind a plant, such a sweet human, IMO .I think he needs to acknowledge ,I don't think he's a terrible person, live and learn, Schwartz just admitted he was a loveable douche❤😅😅i stand corrected 😂
Schwartz never stood up for Katie, he always sides with the Katie haters. Schwartz was a bad husband and he will also make a bad father. Stay single Schwartz and be miserable and silly by yourself !
He is no better than Sandoval! He spent years cheating on Katie! Now he has become half of Sandoval’s brain! He just uses bigger words and I’m not impressed! He also manipulates the situation- I can’t explain except it feels ICK to me.
Scott and Schwartz get grace from us because we all grew up together. We'd already been hurt, grew up and got standards by the time we met Tristan. That's the difference.
Scott Disick and Tom Schwartz was the PERFECT COMPARISON!! I know Scott was a mess, but Scott added humor to the Kardashians! It'd be so boring and bleak. He's loveable and so is Schwartz!!
When ya don't take care of business in your own yard, $hiT goes sideways pretty fast. Greg butted heads with Sandoval, Sandoval butts heads with everyone except this poor guy. He took sides with Tom over his wife time after time after time.
No, he didn’t have to tell his friend that his best friend was cheating on her with one of her friends. 🙄 But he also didn’t have to provide his apartment as space for their meet-ups and FaceTimes when Ariana’s bed wasn’t available, and he didn’t have to go on double dates with his best friend and the mistress. 🤷♀️
YOU PEGGED HIM RIGHT ON!! HE IS A STINKER BUT A NICE STINKER!!! HE DOES GET AWAY WITH A LOT!!! I HATE THAT HE HUNG AROUND WITH DIP SHIT BUT NOW THAT I THINK ABOUT IT HE WAS SCREEN FOR THE STINKER!! OMG
People have alot to say but until you've walked in those shoes especially in a friend group. Walked in those shoes & this messenger got shot. Meanwhile they worked it out and I became the enemy. So its not as easy as you thinkto be the one to absolutly destroy someone's life? Next time I would pull away from the group a bit and mind my own business. There was even a S threat. I am not the cheater but could be part of a chain of events that destroys lives? NO THANK YOU. Respect their are so many different personalities, the way one handles things doesn't make it the right way for everyone. Had Arianna been the cheater & Schwartz knew, I have a feeling Schwartz would not have told his best friend Tom either. We constantly ask people to be who they are, live in their truth, then when their truth isn't our truth we judge them harshly for it. No 2 souls on this earth are alike. Seeing all thats happened Tom the cheater did Arianna a favor, look where she is now? Im not saying by any means cheating is O.K. but at this point holding a grudge over Schwartzy and demanding the other friends show total alliance is a bit immature IMO, no rights or wrongs here just opinions of INDIVIDUALS.
Do Tom and Amanda work together outside of this or are best friends? I love Tom and this show but it feels somewhat rehearsed/pro-Tom. Which he deserves to speak his peace! Just an observation.
Katie was still in love with Tom ; however he never put her 1st and continued to give him chances after he cheated and he never made her feel desired she says it in one of thr therapy sessions and had he actually changed and fought for her but he never did so one has to at a point respect one self and Katie was still there and wanted to stay friends and he said he would not hook up within the group...It's one thing if he truly fell In love with whomever and if so and he expressed that to Katie but Kissing Rachael for TOM to again chose Tom over her so let's be real here
Swartzy... are you gonna get sucked into the "new" Rachel lawsuit. A jury trial in LA...hmmm..(can you transfer your asset ownership offshore to like Belize? .. before Rachel takes em)
When you get cheated on its Devastating and you feel not good enough and insecure not desired and when you lose trust n was his fault to really put in the work to repair it and it takes a very long time and it causes arguments and then men are selfish yet want to blame Katie its called gaslighting dude like seriously so i dont blame her for Dippin out dude ..James said it best hes his best Tom on his own and sometimes at some point you have to love someone from a distance and feel or wish he would bc i do like him but TomS tarnished him
I hate how everybody beats him down forbeung a nice guy..ppl always down him for not takin up for katy..i think tge poor guy got overwhelmed w who he had to b mad at cuz katy was always fightin w someone! Im glad to c tom gettin hisconfidence back After the katy best down !!
…. He poured a whole drink on not only his wife’s head but another woman’s head…. At 2 different times and 2 different years lol. He cheated multiple times on his WIFE who has never cheated ever… Tell me more about this nice guy… maybe I’m missing something…
This guy cheated on his partner multiple times, yet Katie gets so much hate for being 'mean' to him? Please.
Katie was terrible, she knows his family history and would call him terrible things and compared him to his father. She isn't just mean she is emotionally manipulative and borderline abusive. He should have never married her but sometimes when you are in it you can't see it.
@@whispersonthestreetwtf
I know he’s total trash.
If the person cheated and you decide to stay with them, it doesn’t give you the green light to constantly be mean and condescending. If she had that much resentment she should have chosen to leave the relationship.
@@Agh576 can’t you apply the same logic to him? if she’s constantly mean to him and he chose to stay, it doesn’t give him the green light to cheat. he could’ve just left the relationship too.
Schwartz is the master of avoiding questions and keeping everyone happy.
It was good to see Schwartzy finally speak on his own. I’m like Amanda, I can see all sides so just because I love him doesn’t mean I don’t love Katie.
Do people not remember Katie defending Tom verbally and physically against Stassi in season 1? He swore at Stassi which was so rude and so she poured a drink at him and even then, against her bestfriend, Katie defended him. Tom never defended Katie, if he shows a little bit of it people praised him which doesn’t make sense!
Tom poured a drink over Stassi first. How people keep forgetting this?
Good Scott Disick comparison. I can’t ever dislike Schwartzy or Scott 😬🫠🥴
nah it actually made zero sense they are not similar at all
True. Early seasons Scott was a hot mess
I agree same thing
Agreed
Love and honor, forsaking all others,not calling your wife a Karen or pouring a drink on her,kissing multiple other women, and when Sandoval disrespected Katie's Mom and he hid behind a plant, such a sweet human, IMO .I think he needs to acknowledge ,I don't think he's a terrible person, live and learn, Schwartz just admitted he was a loveable douche❤😅😅i stand corrected 😂
Schwartz never stood up for Katie, he always sides with the Katie haters. Schwartz was a bad husband and he will also make a bad father. Stay single Schwartz and be miserable and silly by yourself !
Well now he's practically dating a child. Sooo gross
loved hearing about the triplet brothers!! i have almost 3 year old triplets :)
When people show you who they are BELIEVE them.
Stop making excuses for assholes.
He is no better than Sandoval! He spent years cheating on Katie! Now he has become half of Sandoval’s brain! He just uses bigger words and I’m not impressed! He also manipulates the situation- I can’t explain except it feels ICK to me.
I know EXACTLY what you mean!!! I say the same thing! It’s hard to explain but ick!!
Amanda: “I don’t wanna say what I’d do” I’m dying 😂😂😂
They’ve always covered for each other this ain’t nothing new. And the toms will never tell the 100% truth.
Scott and Schwartz get grace from us because we all grew up together. We'd already been hurt, grew up and got standards by the time we met Tristan. That's the difference.
On Rachel's podcast, she said he knew all about her and Sandoval from the start.
Rachel is also a liar. Hard to believe much of what she says given her history
Oh shoot
Obviously
Scott Disick and Tom Schwartz was the PERFECT COMPARISON!! I know Scott was a mess, but Scott added humor to the Kardashians! It'd be so boring and bleak. He's loveable and so is Schwartz!!
they can never make me hate Schwartzy. Met him in June and he is just the coolest and nicest guy
Of course he was nice ! You're a fan, a stranger to him. U don't have a relationship or even know him personally. So like him all you want .
schwartz is nothing like scott disick that comparison was so incredibly random and off based
The Scott Disick reference was spot on.
He's worse than Sandoval. The definition of a slime ball. Schwarz stands for nothing and just agrees with whoever he happens to be talking to.
When ya don't take care of business in your own yard, $hiT goes sideways pretty fast.
Greg butted heads with Sandoval, Sandoval butts heads with everyone except this poor guy. He took sides with Tom over his wife time after time after time.
loving the new Vanderpump season so much 💖
Is Tom Sandoval still included with the restaurant with Schwartz?
I love him! I was waiting to watch this all week!
It’s good but stop cutting Tom off . Let the man speak and finish a thought geez
Good interview but I was SO distracted by her bun hitting the tree every time she moved her head! lol
That or Tom and his fucking iced drink!! Absolutely hate when people drink or eat while podcasting!!
No, he didn’t have to tell his friend that his best friend was cheating on her with one of her friends. 🙄 But he also didn’t have to provide his apartment as space for their meet-ups and FaceTimes when Ariana’s bed wasn’t available, and he didn’t have to go on double dates with his best friend and the mistress. 🤷♀️
They Cheated in your apt. You knew. Until you get that there is no hope
YOU PEGGED HIM RIGHT ON!! HE IS A STINKER BUT A NICE STINKER!!! HE DOES GET AWAY WITH A LOT!!! I HATE THAT HE HUNG AROUND WITH DIP SHIT BUT NOW THAT I THINK ABOUT IT HE WAS SCREEN FOR THE STINKER!! OMG
I'm glad you asked about James. I don't get James extreme reaction. I believe it was for the show.
People have alot to say but until you've walked in those shoes especially in a friend group. Walked in those shoes & this messenger got shot. Meanwhile they worked it out and I became the enemy. So its not as easy as you thinkto be the one to absolutly destroy someone's life? Next time I would pull away from the group a bit and mind my own business. There was even a S threat. I am not the cheater but could be part of a chain of events that destroys lives? NO THANK YOU. Respect their are so many different personalities, the way one handles things doesn't make it the right way for everyone. Had Arianna been the cheater & Schwartz knew, I have a feeling Schwartz would not have told his best friend Tom either. We constantly ask people to be who they are, live in their truth, then when their truth isn't our truth we judge them harshly for it. No 2 souls on this earth are alike. Seeing all thats happened Tom the cheater did Arianna a favor, look where she is now? Im not saying by any means cheating is O.K. but at this point holding a grudge over Schwartzy and demanding the other friends show total alliance is a bit immature IMO, no rights or wrongs here just opinions of INDIVIDUALS.
Well said
Happy Scandiversary
Do Tom and Amanda work together outside of this or are best friends? I love Tom and this show but it feels somewhat rehearsed/pro-Tom.
Which he deserves to speak his peace! Just an observation.
My take has always been that Katie dumped him when he was going through the toughest time in his life with his family and the bar.
Katie was still in love with Tom ; however he never put her 1st and continued to give him chances after he cheated and he never made her feel desired she says it in one of thr therapy sessions and had he actually changed and fought for her but he never did so one has to at a point respect one self and Katie was still there and wanted to stay friends and he said he would not hook up within the group...It's one thing if he truly fell In love with whomever and if so and he expressed that to Katie but Kissing Rachael for TOM to again chose Tom over her so let's be real here
Petition to stop giving this man a microphone
I don’t blame for her Katie’s meanness to Tom or the other Tom it’s her disposition In general
He was happy when Katie told him about divorcing 😆😆
I love Tom he’s adorable and kind ! ❤
Idk why anyone liked Schwartz. He’s spineless af.
Swartzy... are you gonna get sucked into the "new" Rachel lawsuit. A jury trial in LA...hmmm..(can you transfer your asset ownership offshore to like Belize? .. before Rachel takes em)
I used to love Schwartz but after scandoval when I see him he’s just gross 🤮🤮🤮
When you get cheated on its Devastating and you feel not good enough and insecure not desired and when you lose trust n was his fault to really put in the work to repair it and it takes a very long time and it causes arguments and then men are selfish yet want to blame Katie its called gaslighting dude like seriously so i dont blame her for Dippin out dude ..James said it best hes his best Tom on his own and sometimes at some point you have to love someone from a distance and feel or wish he would bc i do like him but TomS tarnished him
Did the host just gloss over Tom’s friend’s death? 😅
Schwartz is the weirdest 😂
Love me some Schwartzy❤❤❤❤
One day he’ll regret what he did to Katie
I love Schwartzy 💖💖💖
I love to not love Schwartz
Im loving Tom from Germany
💗Tom Schwartz
Bored.. this is so boring
I mean Sandavol did propose to him 2× lol jk
Schwarts is so bori ( z z z z z z z ).
I hate how everybody beats him down forbeung a nice guy..ppl always down him for not takin up for katy..i think tge poor guy got overwhelmed w who he had to b mad at cuz katy was always fightin w someone! Im glad to c tom gettin hisconfidence back After the katy best down !!
Can you please rewrite this in English
…. He poured a whole drink on not only his wife’s head but another woman’s head…. At 2 different times and 2 different years lol.
He cheated multiple times on his WIFE who has never cheated ever…
Tell me more about this nice guy… maybe I’m missing something…
i love love love schwartz! 🤍
he’s such a genuine and chill person. Great Episode :-)
Girl he walked all over you this was pointless
I'm glad you asked about James. I don't get James extreme reaction. I believe it was for the show.