You’re absolutely right. I live in the UK and have seen firsthand how many marriages fall apart because, from day one, some families tell the groom he should be grateful to them for bringing him here. They don’t realize they’re hurting his pride, even though they needed him for their daughter. Similarly, some women believe that by bringing a man to a foreign country, they’ve bought him as a servant who must simply obey. Thankfully, I came here on my own as a doctor, earned my citizenship, and married here. I noticed similar tendencies in my in-laws, but they couldn’t say a word because I built my life independently.
MashaAllah great presnelti gintil Iftikhar iffi God bless you 🌹 Allah pak Aap ko Apney hifzo Amaan me Rakhy or Syhat Tandrusti wali zindagi ata kary Umer daraz kry Ameen Summa Ameen 🌹 🇵🇰 🌹 👍
Meray husband 42 years ,a Dad of 2 girls want to marry every Tik Toker Sasti Meraci Oret but he not do any job, he lives on UC.😂😅. Here in UK he dreams of USA models.😂Wowww naaaa!
Tharak pori karain ap apne husband ki, sirf paet ki bhook nahi hoti behan, agar mard satisfy hoga to apka ghulam ban kr rahega behan, mere husband to mere paon dabatay hain, ap mard ko izzat dain uski bhook piyas ka khyal rakhain, Khali paet ki bhook piyas nahi hoti, piyar mohabbat ki bhook bhi hoti hai, I'm sure you are neglecting this, even most of the women don't know and get awareness of how to please, treat n keep their men ! Sirf do waqt ki roti to janwer ko bhi dete hain, insan ashraful makhloqat hai, uski har kism ki bhook piyas ka khyal rakhain, phir mujhe batain, ok meri behan
@UK_1487 sirf paet ki bhook nahi hoti behan, agar mard satisfy hoga to apka ghulam ban kr rahega behan, mere husband to mere paon dabatay hain, ap mard ko izzat dain uski bhook piyas ka khyal rakhain, Khali paet ki bhook piyas nahi hoti, piyar mohabbat ki bhook bhi hoti hai, I'm sure you are neglecting this, even most of the women don't know and get awareness of how to please, treat n keep their men ! Sirf do waqt ki roti to janwer ko bhi dete hain, insan ashraful makhloqat hai, uski har kism ki bhook piyas ka khyal rakhain, phir mujhe batain, ok meri behan
سلام عليكم ورحمة وبركاته Sir ap ki aik aik bat sahe hy. Aor sir ya bhe dakha gaya hy k pakistan sy shadi kr k ly jaty hain aor wahan ja kr isay saray khandan ko sambhalna pr jata hy keyou k kam krny wali ka concept hota nahe hy aor baqi sab apny apny kam pr chalay jaty hain aor pory ghar ki kam isay he krna hota hy is leya it’s my opinion k wahan pr rahny walon ko wahan k logon main he rishty krny caheyan aor pakistan main rahny walon ko yahan pr he. Keyou k wahan k bachay zaida aik dosray ko samajh paty hain pakistan sy aai hoai larki ya larka boht mushqil hy. جزاك الله خير Ap ny boht achy point ko discuss keya Allah pak ap ko sahat k sath lambi zindagi aata farmaye.
@افی بھائی دیار غیر میں اکثر یہی کہانیاں سننے کو ملتی ہیں اللہ رب العزت ہم پر اپنی خاص رحمت عطا فرمائے انتہائی دکھ ھوا اور یہ سن کر مختصر یہی کہوں گا الحمدوللہ رب العالمین
Du Insaanun mein Sullah karwana bht Afzal Kaam hai aap nay tu aik Ghar Bacha leya ...Aap Shandaar Insaan Hain Sir Esi Liye hum aap say Bht Muhabat kartay Hain ...ALLAH PAK aapku eska Ajar Day Ameen.......❤❤❤
ALHAMDULILLAH maine Singapore mai aik Malay family mai shaadi ke, unka culture he ghar damad ka hai, ya phir paise hoto apne ghar rahen. Mai khud job karne ka jazba rakhta hon, ALHAMDULILLAH 3 saal mai ab 4thei jagha Job kar raha hon, behter se behter aur wife aur apne family ko bhe Pakistan support karta hon. Aur ALLAH se aage bhe ache ke ummed rakhta hon. ALLAH Pak Iftikhar bhai aapke ke viideo ke akhir mai ke gaye duaon ko qubool farmai, Aameen
Overseas larkian apni guri doston ko kehti k pakistan main everybody is our cusion yeni wo kisi se bhi shadi kersakty aur apni eizzat khud khatam kerwatey hain ❤❤
There is a particular time in every day ,assigned by Allaah(quboleyut ke ghuree),and at that time ,whatever we say ,it really happens,good or bad ,no matter what,so that's why it is said that ,one should say only good things for him/herself and also for others ,otherwise the result can be bad.Prayers from Raawalpindee, Northern Province of Punjaab, lslaamic Republic of Paakistaan, South Asia.😊.
This habit of giving taunt to spouse that we gives u visa and European nationality is v common in my area bcz almost more than half population live in Europe and almost all spouse taunts their partner and ruin their family
بھائی میرے بھی بچوں کے رشتوں کے لیے دعا فرمائیں
ITS VERY COMMON STORY WORLDWIDE, DUE TO PAKISTANI FAMILY MISMATCHED FORCED MARRIAGES.
دوسرے کیساتھ نیکی کرکے یا دوسرے کو صدقہ دیکر بعد میں اسے اذیت پہنچانا اس چیز کو قرآن میں اللہ سبحان تعالیٰ نے منع فرمایا ھے۔
Allah is the best planner
So true and keep in mind every one who comes abroad has to pay the price to settled down .so much sacrifice too.
Walikumsalam
Sir apki batein bht achi hoti hai bht kuch sikhny ko milta hai. dua hai ALLAH PAK apko salamt rakhy khush abad rakhy Ameen
Elahi Aameen
شکریہ مولانا۔ اللہ آپ کو خوش رکھے
ماشاءاللہ اللہ پاک آپ کو خوش رکھے آمین ❤
I can complete relate to this. What an excellent understanding of the matter.
Welcome Back to Pakistan ❤...
Aap ny Overseas Problems mei sy Yeh Bht achay Points Discuss kiye hein,, ❤
You’re absolutely right. I live in the UK and have seen firsthand how many marriages fall apart because, from day one, some families tell the groom he should be grateful to them for bringing him here. They don’t realize they’re hurting his pride, even though they needed him for their daughter. Similarly, some women believe that by bringing a man to a foreign country, they’ve bought him as a servant who must simply obey. Thankfully, I came here on my own as a doctor, earned my citizenship, and married here. I noticed similar tendencies in my in-laws, but they couldn’t say a word because I built my life independently.
MashaAllah great presnelti gintil Iftikhar iffi God bless you 🌹 Allah pak
Aap ko Apney hifzo Amaan me Rakhy or Syhat Tandrusti wali zindagi ata kary Umer daraz kry Ameen Summa Ameen 🌹 🇵🇰 🌹 👍
Masha'Allah great Sir❤
Meray husband 42 years ,a Dad of 2 girls want to marry every Tik Toker Sasti Meraci Oret but he not do any job, he lives on UC.😂😅. Here in UK he dreams of USA models.😂Wowww naaaa!
It's a shame we Pakistani don't train our sons to be good husband or dads. Here in Pakistan also men are same they want women to earn nd do everything
My ex and his fmly also wanted me to earn and do home tasks at the same time
Tharak pori karain ap apne husband ki, sirf paet ki bhook nahi hoti behan, agar mard satisfy hoga to apka ghulam ban kr rahega behan, mere husband to mere paon dabatay hain, ap mard ko izzat dain uski bhook piyas ka khyal rakhain, Khali paet ki bhook piyas nahi hoti, piyar mohabbat ki bhook bhi hoti hai, I'm sure you are neglecting this, even most of the women don't know and get awareness of how to please, treat n keep their men ! Sirf do waqt ki roti to janwer ko bhi dete hain, insan ashraful makhloqat hai, uski har kism ki bhook piyas ka khyal rakhain, phir mujhe batain, ok meri behan
Please tell sister how to please,treat n keep the husband
@UK_1487 sirf paet ki bhook nahi hoti behan, agar mard satisfy hoga to apka ghulam ban kr rahega behan, mere husband to mere paon dabatay hain, ap mard ko izzat dain uski bhook piyas ka khyal rakhain, Khali paet ki bhook piyas nahi hoti, piyar mohabbat ki bhook bhi hoti hai, I'm sure you are neglecting this, even most of the women don't know and get awareness of how to please, treat n keep their men ! Sirf do waqt ki roti to janwer ko bhi dete hain, insan ashraful makhloqat hai, uski har kism ki bhook piyas ka khyal rakhain, phir mujhe batain, ok meri behan
سلام عليكم ورحمة وبركاته
Sir ap ki aik aik bat sahe hy. Aor sir ya bhe dakha gaya hy k pakistan sy shadi kr k ly jaty hain aor wahan ja kr isay saray khandan ko sambhalna pr jata hy keyou k kam krny wali ka concept hota nahe hy aor baqi sab apny apny kam pr chalay jaty hain aor pory ghar ki kam isay he krna hota hy is leya it’s my opinion k wahan pr rahny walon ko wahan k logon main he rishty krny caheyan aor pakistan main rahny walon ko yahan pr he. Keyou k wahan k bachay zaida aik dosray ko samajh paty hain pakistan sy aai hoai larki ya larka boht mushqil hy.
جزاك الله خير
Ap ny boht achy point ko discuss keya Allah pak ap ko sahat k sath lambi zindagi aata farmaye.
@افی بھائی
دیار غیر میں اکثر یہی کہانیاں سننے کو ملتی ہیں اللہ رب العزت ہم پر اپنی خاص رحمت عطا فرمائے انتہائی دکھ ھوا اور یہ سن کر مختصر یہی کہوں گا الحمدوللہ رب العالمین
💯 true
Jo log bulaty hn wo ye jumla bhttt bolty hn🇵🇰🇨🇦
Log ye ni smjty k Allah ne rizq likha tu aa gy
Ma Sha Allah Wall said
Iftekhar Sahab very nice.... You concluded the very cause behind the problem of that Canadian lady, which she unknowingly ruined with her attitude.
life mean struggle .door k dhol sohany lagty ha.Ahsan kar k jitana aur ahsan faramoshi karna ,donon kam ghalat han .your topic was very informative.
Masha Allah Nice Story Salute Sir 😊❤️
Nice topic jazakallah khair)
MashaAllah.you are doing a great job. Healing someone's soul and solving their problems is great kind of sadqa.
Bhai ap bhi Baba ji ho gaye hain ap ne jo kuch kaha aur washwara dia wo best tha MashAllah 😍
Mashallah sir app ne hamare eyes kol dye he jazak Allah
😮Iftikhar bahi please aap rishaty karwana shuru kar dayn
Good informative video. Good lesson giving story and advice. Wishing you a good luck.
Apki battein sabaq amooz hoti hein Allah bless you sir
MashAllah great advice for women and their familys. 😊 Hat's of to you.
Masha, Allah sir apne bht Achay topic par video thi but !
اللہ تعالیٰ آ پ کو ہمیشہ خوش رکھے آمین ثم آمین
Du Insaanun mein Sullah karwana bht Afzal Kaam hai aap nay tu aik Ghar Bacha leya ...Aap Shandaar Insaan Hain Sir Esi Liye hum aap say Bht Muhabat kartay Hain ...ALLAH PAK aapku eska Ajar Day Ameen.......❤❤❤
Very good message...!!!
Allah aap awor sab family ko bohut saari, khushian dain... Ameen
Great advice and teaching
Thank you for your appreciation.
Mashallah sir aap ki video deakh kr Dil ko sakon milta Hy
ماشاءاللہ اللہ کریم آپ کی کوشش قبول کرے آمین
ALLAH apko Jazaye khair dy ameen
Elahi Aameen , JazakALLAH khaira
Thanks for indicating date and year.
Ma shaa ALLAH ALLAH pak hamisha app koo Khush rekhi seht or iman wali zindgi aata firmay i ❤ you iftkhar Bhai
always intresting and entertainment....good work sir
Allah rabbul izzat aapko khush rakhe aameen ❤️🤲🇮🇳
وعلیکم السلام ثم آمین اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزائے خیر دے
MASHALLAH BEAUTIFUL Sir ❤❤
bohat achi naseeHAT
Mashallah aap aankhen khol dete Hain Jo Hawa 3 domestic hai unke liye yah bahut bada a gai hai
Kia kamaal vlog hai, Hats off Sir
MashAllah
Allah apko khush rakay
Well said , same situation hy ,
Welll
Good advise.
Mashallah aap bahut acchi video banate hamen motivation milati hai❤
ماشاء اللہ
Well-done, sir great real stories u told people. JazakAllah. Thanks for visiting our village Chitti Sheikhan sialkot
Hafiz barkhudar r.a report.
Good searching It's very true
❤❤❤ love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Maashah Allah sir GudWork.
ماشاءالله تبارك الرحمن
Ankal g dua kry mery Bhai 2no ki shadi ho jay plz
شاندار نصیحت
MashAllah Iffi bhai
Very socialize and welfare v. Log.
MashaAllah Allah apko jazaye kher atta farmaye aammen.
Salam from Canada 100% true
God bless you sir
Ye sirf overseas hi ni yeah b kehty hin k hm tume kechry sy utha k lay hin ....yehan tm Sony Ka niwala Ka rehi ho....aaj app NY Mazi Yaad kra dia
Jazakallah sir. Rgds.
Sir great....Allah hame samaj boj ata kare...ameen
Kam tu sub ko krna parta hy chaheye jha pa b ho insan chaheye Ameer ho ya gareeb . Real life bhoat different hoti hy .
Great sir❤it 200%true ❤❤
God bless you
ALHAMDULILLAH maine Singapore mai aik Malay family mai shaadi ke, unka culture he ghar damad ka hai, ya phir paise hoto apne ghar rahen. Mai khud job karne ka jazba rakhta hon, ALHAMDULILLAH 3 saal mai ab 4thei jagha Job kar raha hon, behter se behter aur wife aur apne family ko bhe Pakistan support karta hon. Aur ALLAH se aage bhe ache ke ummed rakhta hon.
ALLAH Pak Iftikhar bhai aapke ke viideo ke akhir mai ke gaye duaon ko qubool farmai, Aameen
Thank you sir.. ❤🙏
Overseas larkian apni guri doston ko kehti k pakistan main everybody is our cusion yeni wo kisi se bhi shadi kersakty aur apni eizzat khud khatam kerwatey hain
❤❤
Wonderful
Please make more videos like this
There is a particular time in every day ,assigned by Allaah(quboleyut ke ghuree),and at that time ,whatever we say ,it really happens,good or bad ,no matter what,so that's why it is said that ,one should say only good things for him/herself and also for others ,otherwise the result can be bad.Prayers from Raawalpindee, Northern Province of Punjaab, lslaamic Republic of Paakistaan, South Asia.😊.
Sir g Kiya aapki vedio ka kuch hisa m apni tictok insta TH-cam per use kr skta Hun aapki permission chahye
Assalamualaikum, jnab jzaak Allah Khair, bohat shukrya ❤️
Masha Allah nice talk
Ye kam tu bht acha kiya ap ny
واہ واہ پا ایفی۔ کیا بات ہے
Sahi Kaha App ny Usmani Sahib
Kash Mere bhi shadi ho jaey bahir kisi pakistani larrki k sath me us ka bohat khayal rakhunga or izat dunga
Hahaha InshaAllah but on the way to looking for best one
Very true.
Salam Iftikhar sb. Good to see you
آمین❤
Very nice suggestions
JazakAllah
سلامتی ہو آپ پر
Beautiful video😊🎉😊
Good job
Good advice sir g
Thek samjhaya ap ne
This habit of giving taunt to spouse that we gives u visa and European nationality is v common in my area bcz almost more than half population live in Europe and almost all spouse taunts their partner and ruin their family
Really great
Great job, Usmani sb 👏 👍
Excellent vlog ❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤ nice story sir
Very interesting and good luck and good wishes ❤
Thankful...