Storytime: Are Men Suposed To Shave Between Their Legs?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
  • I was body shamed during two different sexual interactions for having non-landscaped pubic hair. I never got the memo that in 2018 men are supposed to shave down below. Who would have known? Thoughts?

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  • @victoriughh
    @victoriughh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    “It was a old hoe sitting under a tree.” I’M DEAD 😂💀

    • @myusernamewastaken_
      @myusernamewastaken_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Victoria S. I fell flat owtttt

    • @t.walker8641
      @t.walker8641 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LMAO, every time

    • @eforempathy
      @eforempathy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love that old lady 👵🏽🤣🤣🤣

    • @mzangel0615
      @mzangel0615 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Victoria S. That shit took me out 😂😂😂

    • @sirbey9608
      @sirbey9608 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Victoria S. Gotta fibd that song on google searvg jajajaja

  • @kayt3844
    @kayt3844 6 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    You have to shave it to make it look presentable, now you have AWARENESS 😂!!!!

  • @iamwalkingbyfaith
    @iamwalkingbyfaith 6 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    I just want him clean, as in hygienic. I don't care how hairy he is, just as long as he's clean and smells good.

    • @elliedee8829
      @elliedee8829 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      iamwalkingbyfaith Exactly #grownwomanshit

    • @TheCarnivoreSoprano
      @TheCarnivoreSoprano 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      real talk

    • @astridh.536
      @astridh.536 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      EXACTLY, I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!!!

    • @PiscesPrincess87
      @PiscesPrincess87 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Girl noooo... my hubby is too hairy... I need him to clean it up... I wanna suck dick not hair balls... I sound like a freaking cat afterwards hacking... my hubby literally has hair growth right on his dick it’s a large patch right on the shaft. Please don’t shave it off but trim that shit give it a line up.

    • @legallydrunk1528
      @legallydrunk1528 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ebonydiva87 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤯

  • @thehyenamakeupslayer3819
    @thehyenamakeupslayer3819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    ooo catching all this tea bitch! quiet as it AINT kept nomo..I shave my hubby. I be down dear like an auto mechanic changing the oil. #jiffypube

    • @ARobinSong84
      @ARobinSong84 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dead hahahah

    • @Enemyatg334
      @Enemyatg334 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The HYENA Flawless klawz biiiiitch!!! 💀💀💀

    • @creolequeen9983
      @creolequeen9983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YAAAASSSS GURRRRLLL!!!

    • @dreammgirll
      @dreammgirll 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      not jiffypube 💀💀💀

    • @thehyenamakeupslayer3819
      @thehyenamakeupslayer3819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      +zekey chloe yes gawd y'all..I can't be getting lost in the forests or hit by the trees! he's got that 5c hair lol and he's 6'7. its imperative that I help him so he can look like dis🍆 and not like dis🍍

  • @ChristinaMarieTV
    @ChristinaMarieTV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    So we not gone discuss the lighting ... I thought I was watching good times. Dineva just let your currrrrrrrlllllll growwww

    • @EmprezzzTa3518
      @EmprezzzTa3518 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Christina Marie I was about to say the same thing 😂😂

    • @myusernamewastaken_
      @myusernamewastaken_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @naec7517
      @naec7517 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

    • @MizzChocola8
      @MizzChocola8 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christina Marie i am crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ErikDillard
      @ErikDillard 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christina Marie Hahahaha! I said the same thing! Sussss, where is yo’ Lights??!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @valen01157
    @valen01157 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Noooo Dineva! You done put all yo mama bitness in the streets! 😱💀💀

    • @mariebrooks7341
      @mariebrooks7341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have seen women out in bathing suits and hair on either side of the crotch. Oh well. Don't she know that hair is sticking out, long hair too. smh

    • @TheSunshineplace10
      @TheSunshineplace10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @celeste8271
    @celeste8271 6 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Just do a lil trim. I don't like it bald....but I don't want to feel like you can make a piece of ponytail

    • @TheCarnivoreSoprano
      @TheCarnivoreSoprano 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      celeste8271 I agree. a trim is cool. quiet as it's kept, all this baldness in the pleasure region is part of why diseases are rampant.....

    • @cocobunnynikki1
      @cocobunnynikki1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No ma'am 😂😂 ponytail!

    • @latashianicole2002
      @latashianicole2002 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      celeste8271 how much is a piece of ponytail exactly? 😂😂😂

    • @tresaj
      @tresaj 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not a piece of ponytail🤣🤣🤣🙃

    • @ATLGlamazon
      @ATLGlamazon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How I’m over here in this comment a year later cackling when I’m ‘sposed to be sleep escapes me!!! 😂😂😂😂💀 Piece of ponytail...

  • @TiffanyDanielle
    @TiffanyDanielle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Yesssss!!! Trim or clean dat shit up!!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @arlington4508
    @arlington4508 6 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Welcome to what ladies have to go through! You better get you a wax lady and get a consistent appointment 😂😂😂

    • @mariebrooks7341
      @mariebrooks7341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep if you start doing that you have to keep it up. Waxing is done at the salon. Trim yourself and keep it clean, that should be enough.

    • @amandaglover5300
      @amandaglover5300 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anna keeps me right

    • @brandyburrell392
      @brandyburrell392 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Waxing is really the way to go and it last way longer then shaving.

    • @src3360
      @src3360 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      (In my NeNe voice)
      BLOOP!
      BLOOP!
      BLOOP!!!!!!!

  • @DurantSearcy
    @DurantSearcy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    If you like having hair down there then you should keep it. Some will like it....some won’t.

    • @Yesu44
      @Yesu44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nobody likes a hairless cat 😂😂😂😂.

  • @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert
    @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert 6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Nair can burn your underarms, so you for damn sure don't wanna use it down yonda! 😂

  • @1peachcobbler116
    @1peachcobbler116 6 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    WASN'T READY 😂

    • @rostanley
      @rostanley 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Peach Cobbler OMG yes! A whole mess! That is disgusting I couldn’t imagine seeing a man I’m about to give some head with a whole bunch of hair that’s like having hair in your food! It’s 2018 how could he not know?

    • @humbleone4800
      @humbleone4800 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wasnt either! Funky pulling our legs lol

  • @sharneleiland6032
    @sharneleiland6032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Where the ring light sis?

  • @greenapple8883
    @greenapple8883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    STOP! Put the Nair down! What you doing? Nair doesn't belong anywhere near that region at all!

    • @mwiggins0014
      @mwiggins0014 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      GreenApple 88 I love my Nair. You gotta be careful to not put it too close to the coochie and not keep it on too long. I never had a problem.

    • @dadreamy10
      @dadreamy10 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Noneofyobizness I learned my lesson the first time I used to on my bikini area...shit dripped to my 🙀

    • @taciturncancer
      @taciturncancer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GreenApple 88 😂🤣😂

    • @drag-ha
      @drag-ha 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      dadreamy10 bitch I’m dead 😂😂😂

    • @mwiggins0014
      @mwiggins0014 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      dadreamy10 Wow. You ever tied waxing?

  • @greenapple8883
    @greenapple8883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    I appreciate a trim...

    • @chrissyhall443
      @chrissyhall443 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      GreenApple 88 all into a gentleman who "manscapes"

    • @mzseasoneddiva7608
      @mzseasoneddiva7608 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      GreenApple 88 👍🏿 I do as well it shows hygiene awareness 👌🏿😂

    • @friedfishfridays1675
      @friedfishfridays1675 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nobody likes flossing with pubes. Everyone, do the courtesy of trimming. You don't have to be bald but come on

    • @peppermint9531
      @peppermint9531 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ Fried fish fridays... l agree 💯

    • @marilove11
      @marilove11 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

  • @JoyJoysWorld
    @JoyJoysWorld 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    It's all about personal preference

  • @micole83
    @micole83 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I can't breath in in tears

  • @shespeakz9377
    @shespeakz9377 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    N essa forgot to turn on the light

  • @tigerxmilk
    @tigerxmilk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Well, this is the sort of pressure women feel because, yes, it's an aesthetic thing run amok and absolutely not a sanitary thing. It's actually more sanitary, especially for women, to leave some hair because it protects the areas, that's what the hair is for. But unfortunately the stigma against women's body hair has moved to certain parts of the gay community and I can't for the life of me understand that.
    Do people understand that the trend to shave leg/other hair was started because razor manufacturers had to come up with a way to sell more razors? It's a marketing technique that for some reason people think has some viable reasoning behind it, it doesn't.
    I also just think men who want everything shaved need to grow up and learn to deal with adult bodies or perhaps they're not mature enough to be having sex. If a guy's response is "ew" to HAIR, that's more of a turn off because I'm an adult and I don't need to feel like the guy I'm fucking might as well have skid marks in his underwear for how immature and absurd he'd be acting.
    But really, you shouldn't have any trouble finding people to fuck who don't give a shit and those are the people worth your time. No one has the right to sit there and dictate what you do with your body, ESPECIALLY people unwilling to do any of that themselves.
    And if they're going to sit there and try to make you feel like shit about yourself AFTER they fuck you... are they fucking kidding me? It wasn't a problem when they were balls deep, what's the fucking problem now? Is their ego only boosted when they make someone feel like shit? No fucking way.

  • @vlbrown5789
    @vlbrown5789 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Pull it thru the slit, tho!!😂😂😂

  • @jacquelinef7174
    @jacquelinef7174 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    " Goody box" 😂😂😂

  • @TheMenAllPause99
    @TheMenAllPause99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I'm dead fa real this time...🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @timmekab.6957
      @timmekab.6957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      TheMenAllPause99 move over because I'm laid out next to you!!!!

  • @taciturncancer
    @taciturncancer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I need my man to groom/trim... these comments tho 😂🤣😂

  • @HartfordHobo
    @HartfordHobo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am HOLLERINGGGGGG!!! I needed this hearty laugh chile. For what I get done in the bedroom? I just need that shaved feeling.

  • @CCColon-lv6xh
    @CCColon-lv6xh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    In regards to shaving the butt, men and women should both do it. No matter the sexual preference. Pubic hair does get contaminated with what we release and prevents thorough cleaning.

    • @inoclasism
      @inoclasism 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Slim Goody pubic hair stops alot of skin to skin infections.

    • @indigox7094
      @indigox7094 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You reduce your risk of life threatening MRSA significantly if you're not constantly getting rid of your pubic hair. Unlike a penis, the vagina is already self cleansing and if one showers daily, the smell of defecation and urination is reduced to nothing. Then there are hygienic wipes that can be used if the genitals get sweaty and produce an odor.

    • @mariebrooks7341
      @mariebrooks7341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. Keep your body clean and trim by choice then there won't be any odor.

    • @shawn6618
      @shawn6618 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Slim Goody Amen

  • @Pooquie1
    @Pooquie1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a really rough day and you just gave me the comic relief I needed to be able to go to work tomorrow. Thanks for giving laughable moment to a situation that most people tend to never honestly think about. The truth concerning this situation is that most guys probably wouldn't be too concerned about such a thing.

  • @qyxxone
    @qyxxone 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember when I was in my early 20s, I trimmed my pubic area and my SO at the time, told me not to do that anymore. He did not like it. It amuses me now to see the trend now to shave.

  • @Trixstra28
    @Trixstra28 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Goodie Box" SCREAMING!!!!!!
    I shave because i sweat easily. Nothing is worst than a musty moth ball smelling box. No ma'am!!

  • @madisonkai
    @madisonkai 6 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Funky, I think it's a hygiene thing. Hair traps moisture and odor. I don't expect a man to shave his butt hole, but his anaconda area needs to be trimed or shaved. No one wants hair in their teeth either when they go downtown, it ain't floss. I also suspect some men gay or straight want their partners stuff to be shaved so they can see the essence of it....maybe it's more a turn on to see it bald. It comes down to personal preference I guess.

    • @shidonna
      @shidonna 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      madisonkai did you say anaconda area? I’m just died 🤣😂😅

    • @GoingSeventeenSeventyOne
      @GoingSeventeenSeventyOne 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      madisonkai the Back needs shaving too cause tissue etc gets stuck on the hairs.. Nasty lookin

    • @pyscez93
      @pyscez93 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s why u cleaning it well in the shower and use clean wipes

  • @sharneleiland6032
    @sharneleiland6032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Nobody wanna see Christmas tinsel down there 😂😂😂😂

    • @taciturncancer
      @taciturncancer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sharnel Eiland ok lol

    • @kthename08
      @kthename08 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sharnel Eiland *passed out*

    • @t.walker8641
      @t.walker8641 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sharnel Eiland LMAO

    • @thegoodgurl6246
      @thegoodgurl6246 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @mariebrooks7341
      @mariebrooks7341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's hilarious. hehe smh no bows and ribbons. Some folks already pierce but a pony tail too.

  • @jasminem3902
    @jasminem3902 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Smh I honestly feel like people are getting ridiculous with this shaving thing! I am a straight woman and while I wouldn't mind a man who trims it up some , I don't expect nor prefer that a man shave that area. I remember the first time I ran across that ....I was completely turned off! It did not appeal to me at all. And honestly it struck me as something a gay man might do and I wasn't here for it. As a 31 year old woman it does not entice me to run across a man who is pruned like a prepubescent boy! No thanks .

    • @swiftset
      @swiftset 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      "it struck me as something a gay man might do" ... what, have sex with you? lol, j/k.

    • @mariebrooks7341
      @mariebrooks7341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All manscaped. lol Some like it I guess. smh

    • @true1evanique
      @true1evanique 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank You!!!...I scrolled down quite a bit to see that someone see it the way I do.

  • @latishamerced8355
    @latishamerced8355 6 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    girl it's just because hair holds odor..

    • @TheKeandra77
      @TheKeandra77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      and hide herpes

    • @charmingcutie5277
      @charmingcutie5277 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @laquintathornton8897
      @laquintathornton8897 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hair doesn't matter. Whatever is inside of your pores, has to come out through the biggest organ which is the skin! Become vegan! you will always smell like fresh fruit and flowers.

    • @A.Simone
      @A.Simone 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tee Lm what kinda odor does pubic hair hold is you showering daily! Ppl just say shit just to say it

  • @Melanin365
    @Melanin365 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The ancestors didn't do all that. 😂😂

    • @tamikadavison
      @tamikadavison 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TrappednaSkinnyBody facts! 😂

  • @BringMeSummer
    @BringMeSummer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    😂 lol people crack me up. Ya’ll need to stop lying to yourselves. Shaving is not a hygiene thing...it’s an aesthetic thing. We do it for the look & the feel that’s it. Hair is a barrier & protector. When you shave you open up the follicles and irritate the skin. And, it can expose the areas to bacteria causing irritation & infection. If you are bathing daily.....which you should, there really shouldn’t be any odor.
    Now, am I saying don’t shave??? No! Shave, trim, wax...the back & the front if you want to just be careful.

    • @mariebrooks7341
      @mariebrooks7341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Trimming and bathing should be sufficient unless they want to wax and shave. That's a lot of upkeep if they want to do it. It's a choice I guess.

    • @A.Simone
      @A.Simone 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brianna C. Pone right you showering on a daily that argument doesn't make sense

    • @TheSunshineplace10
      @TheSunshineplace10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HAIR holds funk...go two weeks without washing your hair...less than that if you're a sweater...and tell me hair doesn't hold funk #Period

    • @nicasweet8045
      @nicasweet8045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheSunshineplace10 you’re making her point for her. You’re talking about 2 weeks. Using your analogy, how would your hair/scalp smell if you washed it everyday?

    • @1984nique
      @1984nique 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brianna is correct. I remember years ago, my gyno asked me why I was "balding" my va-jj. After my response, she then told me why I should stop doing so, and only trim as needed.

  • @yofavoritesissy2736
    @yofavoritesissy2736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seasoned, mature, RETIREMENT CHECK. Period.

  • @reginaoladehin1554
    @reginaoladehin1554 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like my husband to look like a grown ass man. As long as he's clean, we're good.

  • @dunce3722
    @dunce3722 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Not pull it out through the slit. Luv it. I like my men grown.

  • @phinazeetrevor
    @phinazeetrevor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Don't use Nair back there. You use Veet back there. No burns

  • @cherylmullins3986
    @cherylmullins3986 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have just FLAT LINED in all these comments!!!!! Lol

  • @jocelynharris2717
    @jocelynharris2717 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah child.. you late!! Swimsuit fashion doesn't dictate what you shave! Child PLEASE! You're not that old.. and if you stay ready, you won't take 45 minutes to get ready. Love you gurl....

  • @apmg924
    @apmg924 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wayment.... I wasn’t ready!😭😂

  • @corywynne2865
    @corywynne2865 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    1 second in and im dead

  • @myusernamewastaken_
    @myusernamewastaken_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I fell OWT at “Sent this BOY a picture of my goodie box” I...💀💀💀💀

  • @txtornado3880
    @txtornado3880 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I like him like a newborn!! Teabagging is much easier with no hair!!

    • @kianahughes7373
      @kianahughes7373 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      TX Tornado you said a mouthful. 😂😂😂

    • @DianaMillan
      @DianaMillan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bahahahah!

  • @TheDayTripDiva
    @TheDayTripDiva 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    4:55 I'M SO DEAD!! !! 😂😂😂

    • @TheDayTripDiva
      @TheDayTripDiva 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "IT WAS A LOT OF IT BITCH!" 😂😂😂

  • @dobeus8957
    @dobeus8957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Shaving can cause sever itching and ingrown hairs...I like my men to look like men not an adult baby!

  • @ezekiel829
    @ezekiel829 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's really a personal preference. I am a very hairy black guy and I'm not about to shave every day. I will trim every now and then. I do not like bumps. And my hair does not hold odor because I stay clean and use the correct products. But I also have a very manageable and great hair texture. No naps.

  • @Butterflykisseslastnight
    @Butterflykisseslastnight 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This had my rolling!!! First of all why you looking like little bill 🤣. Then the whole discussion starting off was hella funny! Laugh well needed.

  • @karenwinston2833
    @karenwinston2833 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I say YES 🙌👏!! Excellent hygiene is KEY🔑for great intimacy and hair "traps" funk, bacteria, etc. So, keep it trimmed, washed, and powdered (cornstarch). Wash all the "boo-boo crumblies" away! 👍😉😂

    • @lovelylady6793
      @lovelylady6793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Karen Winston lmbo

    • @queenie_the_virgo
      @queenie_the_virgo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Karen Winston You're in time out for that "boo-boo crumblies"comment😂😂😂

    • @swiftset
      @swiftset 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you don't need powder unless you live in a swamp. just shower twice a day and before sex.

    • @lovelylady6793
      @lovelylady6793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      swiftset you don't need powder at ALL its been proven that powder between the legs cause cancer.

    • @ThoroughbredDiva
      @ThoroughbredDiva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She said boo-boo crumblies 💀💀💀💀

  • @LateefahABrown
    @LateefahABrown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The less hair down there, the better. If he’s completely shaved, it is ON!

  • @sacias8644
    @sacias8644 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Going through puberty lol 😂- That baby shit turns me off. I like a Caesar hair cut trimmed right before the coil.

  • @romanmonroetv
    @romanmonroetv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like my man straight like the presidency of 2001-2003. BUSH Administration🤣🤣.

  • @crossing.the.cosmos84
    @crossing.the.cosmos84 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    " These bitches body shamed the hell out of me now I'm 'barrased" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 dead as hell

  • @raidenhara4624
    @raidenhara4624 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your honesty. I'm curious to know more about the difficulties of dating and grooming when it comes to men.

  • @teritalekisha5334
    @teritalekisha5334 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just about hollert in my break room when he said "Excuse me for looking my age down there".

  • @mutedearthvirgo
    @mutedearthvirgo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my rule is...if you want me to put my mouth on it, it better be hairless or at LEAST trimmed! lmao

  • @HireAhkesha
    @HireAhkesha 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is how I feel as a woman. It’s way too much work

  • @mrstarheel
    @mrstarheel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband manscapes to keep things looking nice and neat and that's fine. I personally am a Brazillian girl. I feel like hairs hold odors and women have too much going on to have jungles going on down below...but that's just my humble opinion. If you're having company down there, you need to make it nice and neat. You don't invite folks over to a junky house.

  • @georgiabrother
    @georgiabrother 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely doesn't have to be bald. A Trim Around or Trim Down makes it look nice and presentable and will lessen potential hot spots area odor. Nice and right.

  • @prettyloco3788
    @prettyloco3788 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did you have to bring that mess up lol now you made me think about my moms bush down there every time we went swimming. 😭

  • @ArcaneThingOfBeauty
    @ArcaneThingOfBeauty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always thought the pressure to shave was mainly on women. I think if a man prefers to do so that’s okay, I didn’t think it was CONSIDERED NECESSARY FOR MEN. 🤔

  • @oolenae85oo
    @oolenae85oo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    so... I am a WHOLE year late seeing this.. but I am at work, with the good upstanding white folks and I am WEAK laughing bout the old lady under the tree. lawd I'm gonna have to go outside to finish watching this, u asking for carrier pigeons from us and thangs 🤣🤣🤣🤣 u made my day

  • @garyc
    @garyc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "My goodie box" haha :D

    • @Yesu44
      @Yesu44 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaaaassss henny chile.... *PRETTY PINK & RAW* 😂😂😂😂

  • @Sugarnotch77
    @Sugarnotch77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All the way on the DAMN FLOOR😂 Welcome to the plight of a woman, the constant removal of hair; from every part of our bodies!
    LMAO.......Momma & Step-Momma down to the beach & the pool with that Au Naturale😂

  • @TheMoseswoman
    @TheMoseswoman 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember not knowing about shaving and was body shamed for not shaving under my arms. I was a freshmen in college. Hair gets musky smelling and causes an additional odor to your normal smell. The two together don't make for the best smell if you know what I mean. Consider it grooming, and yes it is expected, especially if you don't want the peoples talking bot cha. Buy a cheap shaver just for that reason. I wouldn't use the Nair.Welcome to the 21st century, Boo.

  • @jonnydunedog
    @jonnydunedog 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nair for Men exists....also, if u can’t find it use Veet. Both products don’t burn. Some like hairy some don’t, but I do wax on and wax off every other month.

  • @navivwilkins3266
    @navivwilkins3266 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s actually been scientifically found that having pubic hair helps to prevent STDs. I would say keep it neatly trimmed

  • @roshadm
    @roshadm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It depends on how hairy we talking. 😂😂 I prefer some hair, not too much.

  • @lucillepoole42
    @lucillepoole42 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Q, LIGHTING! Don't use the people TS Madison used, however, install better lighting. Let you light shine!

  • @cottoncandy1511
    @cottoncandy1511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was in a long term relationship with a guy who never shaved but once I shaved him he kept it up and said that he sweat way less

  • @16amyjade
    @16amyjade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg Q. You have made my whole week better with this video.

  • @caole88
    @caole88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with you completely!! The 80’s and 90’s were so different!! I personally like a guy with hair, it is pretty sexy!! Women don’t have it much easier, the common denominator is men!! I think in the end you have to do what makes you feel comfortable.

  • @luvprincenelson
    @luvprincenelson 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The hair thing from the 70's, we were black power, wearing dashiki's and loving ourselves in our natural state. Women not shaving did NOT stop men from getting that azz! We didn't have the pressure to conform, heck, the men made no mention of it and still thought we were sexy. I was young but I remember when coming of age, I did NOT have a rite of passage to shave my legs so guess what, as a hairy person, I had more hair than some men on my legs and it never even crossed my mind until I started modeling and then there was a 'requirement' to do so. Socially acceptable things changed over time and always remember, this started with assimilating to do and be like white people and over time, there developed an expectation as generations followed. Younger ppl than me think it's gross. My generation may 'shave' it now because again, social pressure but we grew up with mom's/aunties and even ourselves, not thinking twice about shaving. #blackpower #blackisalwaysbeautiful

  • @ThoroughbredDiva
    @ThoroughbredDiva 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nessa keeping a hairy kitty box. No gawd hunny.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @aramislovesyou6953
    @aramislovesyou6953 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You ain’t gotta do it every day ! 😂 I been with my man going on 7 years now & I shave every couple of weeks and he never complains ! I appreciate a good biweekly “trim” ✂️from him , he doesn’t have to be bald 😂

  • @AB-gz5tu
    @AB-gz5tu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankfully, the men I'm with enjoy my body hair. I'm not shaving nor trimming shit...i just bathe regularly.

  • @jacquin.799
    @jacquin.799 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband does because he’s extremely hairy and he says the hair used to catch on his draws and hurt. But DO NOT use nair! You can’t use that in your nether regions!

  • @jovonfranklin6813
    @jovonfranklin6813 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are speaking right from my soul right now. Everything I've been saying for forever. 👍🏾

  • @BNWhite-nm5uq
    @BNWhite-nm5uq 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a medical professional, I advise to keep some hair in the genital area if you're a woman. It's there to protect. As we all know hair holds odor so many shave for that reason. In regards to men, to me hair there is a sign of masculinity (my personal opinion). Now as a sexually active woman, I don't want no 1973 Soul Train afro between the legs of the man/woman I'm intimate with. If it's there, you need to make sure it doesn't have odor.

  • @Dominiquevideos1
    @Dominiquevideos1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a Top. I’m not a fan of hair although it’s a trend for some, many men love hair. I just love a naked smooth ass.(aesthetic/feels)I don’t suggest nair maybe use magic razorless shave I don’t think it has as much lye. I know many older women and men say we shouldn’t be shaving. My mom was telling my female cousin that, sooo... not completely bald just groomed. Porn of late 90’s came in and everything was bald so maybe it’s what we saw what was cute?

  • @ajadlin1130
    @ajadlin1130 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yep Dineva, shaving the pubic area is essential 2 reasons 1) hair creates moisture and moisture creates bacteria. 2) I'm just not into hair on me or my mine. Ultimately I agree with u if your man don't mind and your not into it...Do u giiiiirl do u.

  • @biggbaddgirlc9438
    @biggbaddgirlc9438 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband has to keep trimmed. I hate coming up with a long hair stuck in my throat gagging 😜 😂

  • @jebriseinfo
    @jebriseinfo 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Back in the day men thought hair on legs was sexy af, but now it's not.

  • @elliedee8829
    @elliedee8829 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hahahahaha!! If he's clean and smells good, I'm not bothered!

  • @eforempathy
    @eforempathy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    People should do what makes them happy, but a trim is never a bad thing.

  • @BabyBeyonce09
    @BabyBeyonce09 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Chiiillleeee!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
    #TrimTheBush #BaldPaynus

  • @terrancemoore6203
    @terrancemoore6203 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I personally do it for hygiene purposes. Nothing sexual i just dont want all those long hair down there and i trim not a bald shave...

  • @famu100
    @famu100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I actually prefer my man shaving his armpit hairs. I hate having a face full of hair when I’m cuddling 😭😰😰😰

  • @ceirrathompson4787
    @ceirrathompson4787 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I personally don't like overly hairy men but then again I'm in my 20's and the men my age (who I've del with) aren't super hairy like that

  • @joycegoodwin6764
    @joycegoodwin6764 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'M SO GLAD I DON'T HAVE TO DO THAT ANYMORE IT'S BEEN 16 YEARS SINCE I HAD A MAN IT HURTS TO DO THAT I'M SO GLAD I DON'T. LOVE YOU ❤

  • @lady2767
    @lady2767 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There's a cream product by Avon that removes hair it doesn't burn you leave it on 5 minutes you take a washcloth with warm water and you just take it off then you take the shower and finish it and you'll be fine I find it to be cleaning up more safe and it just works wonderful so that'll be something to think about instead of what you are using now

  • @boohoowho1132
    @boohoowho1132 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's crazy🙈🙉🙊😂😂😂I was told by my older sisters to trim it to win it!!! Then them skanks had me lost in translation about loosing it all when that shiny silver one popped out. Lucky for me the bare it style came through. But, I realized as we get older both men and women our scent change, so its easier for me if I get my man neat and sweet😇

  • @traceygarth8923
    @traceygarth8923 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not completely bald for men. I do prefer a trim. I don't suck sick so I just want a trim for hygiene purposes. I am female and I shave my legs and arms and armpits everyday. If I shave the kitty then I do it everyday because that hair growing back is hell. Mostly I just do a good trim for hygiene purposes.

  • @Ghede_Nibo
    @Ghede_Nibo 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Personally I prefer to wax and be smooth down there. I mostly do it for hygienic reasons. Hair traps all types of smells and we learned that in Human biology.

  • @Hesaclassyone
    @Hesaclassyone 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s a sanitary thing! It keeps smell down. And just creates a better experience . Especially for oral and stuff . I don’t like a lot of hair and stuff

  • @cw9774
    @cw9774 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its so odd to me that so much people call pubic hair nasty/disgusting. Like I get its not your preference so you shave/wax/nair/etc. But yall be sounding hellla forceful with these "nasty"/"disgusting" comments. Its normal to have hair. I'm not even one of those the natural body this and that type of person. Just don't see the inherent issue with pubs.
    But i agree dineva, outside of hygiene, it's not really a deal breaker, but i could understand the aesteic of snaping it up.

  • @Alekala25
    @Alekala25 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice, neat and clean is required. I love that my man manscapes. It’s not always shaved down, but trimmed, shaped up is usually what he goes for.
    Some guys area look like taco meat or worse.

  • @i_know_it_all
    @i_know_it_all ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it’s personal. My tussycat looks beautiful fully shaved where as other men who are hairy are equally featuring the same.

  • @lipstikredllc.2097
    @lipstikredllc.2097 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nessa girl...this had me rollin u so silly.

  • @fruitypebbles393
    @fruitypebbles393 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I only shave my armpits consistently but the private is when I feel like it n I dnt have a bush. Just a lil hair dnt hurt but plz plz no bushes n trees Dineva