Yes I learned the hard way and he was 51 couldn’t wait until Fridays just sad, clubbing, drinking, cheating, lying and drugging half dead ☠️ and still living as if they’re in their teens or young adults absolutely nothing to show..... it’s just sad you can’t change them but you can change your surroundings!!
It's a power move of a weaker person my step mother did this to my biological father as he was dying still trying to have sex with me!! We all need theropy even though he's dead now !!
This why people say men and woman can't be friends. Grown folks gone do what they want. But Damn have some respect for yourself business is business. Sad
If I’m going to have a baby with someone way older than me best believe he’s going to have some money. If I wanted to deal with a broke bum I would date a man my age 💀
@@jer67 i think her point is, even if it does work out that the older dude will have money to take care of the child. And not to be 20k behind in child support
Because being "well-spoken" doesn't change hood mentality and the outcomes that come with it. I've met plenty of women who can switch it up when they need to, but at the core they're not much different than the "hood chick" who isn't "well-spoken". Notice she has a 28 yr old, 16 yr old, and the young child with this guy. So more than likely we're talking about a woman with three kids by three different men. You have to look at the actions and outcomes not the words and how she talks.
The 9 yr old "Decided to act up in school and threaten people". Really? The Defendant is trifling but the Plaintiff isn't fooling me. She has some issues of her own. Being articulate doesn't mean anything....she's just as crazy as he is. God Bless the children.
Yeah, that's what i discerned too. They're both wrong. She's just better at whatever games they're playing. Unfortunately, their child is the only one who is losing 😔
Something is off with this… Paulita didn’t deny that her son was being abused by her other men, and CPS became involved. Now her son is in a hospital for behavioral problems. And she got with the defendant about 12 years ago when her middle child would have been 2 - 4 years old, and was leaving that child with him to watch, knowing he was a drinker and “abusive.” She doesn’t make good decisions when it comes to her children, and I’m not about to sit here and applaud her because she uses proper diction.
Thank you for this, I was going to say the same thing. Why did they gloss over that CPS comment 👀😭🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️? Smdh, how are these women still getting played like this?
She's complaining about him being the EXACT same guy he was when she decided to lay down and make a baby with him. I will never understand why women don't get that the man/men you procreate with is a direct reflection on you as well. So all the negative things you say about the man you chose to father your children speaks volumes about you also.
No. It's about providing balance, because the men tend to get all the blame in these situations and rarely do we talk about the fact the woman CHOSE this man. Even if you scroll through the comments it's mostly criticism of the guy and almost none of the woman. All she did was complain about and blame him when he is exactly what he was when she met him. My first thought as soon as he started talking was "Why would a woman have a baby with this guy? This is who you want to lead your children?" And based on her story and the age gaps between her children it appears she has three children by three different men. So there does seem to be some problems that lie with her as well as her selection process.
@@Icannotlose If I have to explain to you the difference between buying a car and choosing the father of your child then we're not even in the same stratosphere where we can have this conversation. Good luck to you though.
These two adults are a mess!!! This lady has a nine year old in a physic ward!! Drove the boys pass his house to see him drink outside, instead of taking her soon to football practice!!! Thank God for my mother!!! raised two children as a single parents and I’ve never witnessed any turmoil between my parents (Not stayed and it didn’t happen, but we were in a child’s place) !!!
💯🎯 dad needs to get himself together and settle down. Mom is a master manipulator. She's really good too! She has managed to manipulate the judge and more than half of the people in this comment section.
I have question about who y'all say is so articulate..what has she articulated to that child about his father. I read thru BS...if she had time to ride by dad's house...why didn't she just take her son to football??? Especially if when the child asked dad he told him to "ask ya mama" to take you?? Cute can still be a toxic mom. Acting out in school??? What is he hearing in his own??? She said in court, he threatens "like his daddy's style" don't expect different from a child that constantly hears how messed up dad is, and in the next breathe...your just like your daddy.
Just like JM gets things wrong sometimes, evidently, many of the viewers have also this time. The plaintiff is beautiful and well-spoken but there are some obvious issues. Now I agree with the verdict and that the defendant does not seem to be a stand-up person, but this lady is showing so many red flags that Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder could see blindfolded. Inclusive of who she chooses to procreate with and how the behavioral issues of their son is being handled. Where there's smoke there's fire.
Schools not taking any chances with threats , you ever heard of Ethan crumbly and the parkland shooter in Florida. There were red flags that were ignored
@@asiam1528 the point is she just did it without any pushback. Schools are quick to perscribe unnecessary mess and extreme treatment. Which is why I'm surprised that the cos accusations were brushed off. An abused kid is gonna act out in one way or another. Unusual aggression, violence, high risk sexual behavior, early and abnormal sexual behavior. And it doesn't seem as though the mother makes good choices in men, so I can believe that.
Yet, old enough to know better don’t have a child Before marriage!!! He didn’t even give her a RING…. Now, after a child, she talked to his ex’s??? A little late, good vibe lady.
For those of y’all that don’t understand the original comment, good VIBES doesn’t mean GOOD decisions. She’s a single black mother first and foremost and I have the utmost respect for that as my mother was a single parent as well. She also articulates well. She does come across as a good hearted individual. And as bad as I feel for her son, none of us can know what’s best for that little boy. Maybe the behavioral hospital can save his life. We talk about hire us as a black community don’t talk about mental health enough and this woman is doing what she thinks is best for her son and y’all are downing her for it. Whatever tho.
I don’t get vibes from her. I think she is one of those “nice in public, but bar crazy behind closed doors”.. her frustration is legit though.. I don’t know how this man is that old and is still not done partying
You know I was with the same kind of man. After 19 years, I left him. Couldn't take it anymore. Master manipulator! Act so kind in the presence of others. Treated me like dirt. Everybody that really knew what was going on wondered what the hell I was doing with him. He tried getting people to believe I was a person who felt 8 was pretty and used him. As GOD as my witness, I worked 2 full time jobs. Took care of my 4 kids and a step daughter that he bought home for me to raise. I Teatro her as my own. His family treated me as I was an interference and took him from them. He was the inky boy, 4 sisters. His mother was horrible, his aunts female cousins, sisters and any other females in the family. The men were disgusted with him for not being a real man. There were a few females in his family that spoke it like they saw it. Most of his female family members turned a blind eye to his irresponsibility. So help me GID, I paid EVERY BILL in the house. He lied to Everybody telling them he paid all bills and didn't help him. The level of disrespect was horrible. He had a gambling habit. Did all he could to convince all ot was me. I was 1200 miles away from home. I'm from North Carolina. I was living with him I. Texas. You don't get someone that far away from hime then mistreat them. I divorced him. Left hi. In 2019. Divorce final in 2012. He's bitter and does EVERTYHING he can to make my life miserable. He truly had bitch like tendencies. GOD has me and also has him! I don't miss him at all! It's truly hard to keep calm ashes being so evil. I'm tired. He is like a lot of other dirtbags. Even if it is negative attention, he will do whatever to get my attention. Stare me down try to figure out what's going on with my life and who I'm seeing now. I have flourished so much and am so much more happier and stress-free since the day I left him. I regret leaving him as late as I did. I wish it would have been sooner.
I don't understand. I never will. This happens so much. Women being in such a bad place to where you are making poor decisions or not thinking at all. Not respecting or valuing yourself enough to know that you don't have to deal with mess or people like this. It's okay to be alone until you meet the right one whom I believe GOD has for you. He won't be slick, he won't cheat, he won't lie, he won't be broke, he won't hit you, he will be age appropriate and you will be happy. Please just wait ladies!!!!GOD Bless ❤🙏🏾
So the school recommends a hospital for her son and she's goes along with it??? Something about that don't sit right in my soul. Lawd soon as she said Seattle it was all bad
@@baibaizkid 😒😒. Both of them are the child's parents. He is just as much blame as she is. At his old age he still don't want to grow up to help raise his son. If she is that bad he should want custody of his SON.
He's probably made excuses all his life. Never held himself accountable for anything. That's how he rolls and he doesn't see no fault with that because he ain't going to change SMH
As a gay man I’m always amazed with the creatures my black sisters decided to have kids with ain’t no way in hell I would have gotten pregnant by that. He is to old to be that childish and irresponsible 😕
She should let the father deal with their son when it comes to discipline! Not a psych ward. Young man is going to be doped up from now on. With the right guidance he could learn to put that energy into something else.
There’s an epidemic of relationship severances where AT LEAST one person can’t seem to be friendly b/c of past hurts they’re not willing to let go & live
@@MrLenroc82 - ok, maybe he did, but the guy said it happened in 2015. If the statue was 10 years, then it would have still been active for him to countersue since 2025 isn't here yet. Whatever Mathis said, he refuse to even hear the guy's countersuit because he made it seem like it was now too late for the court to hear it. JM shut the guy up on the countersuit and didn't even let him talk about it - that makes sense if the statue of limitations was over in 2 years; it doesn't make sense for him to shut him up on the countersuit if the statue was still active until 2025. Hey, whatever...
Some people never change . It don't make them wrong it just make them wrong 4 you! The older the person is they become stuck in their ways and can't think outside the box..man can't even remember dates but chasing women.sit your old behind down!
what a trifling dude shes a beautiful woman. im glad her children have a mother like her. her one mistake was entertaining this loser but she still came out well
🤣🤣🤣 she’s controlling and messed her kid up. Didn’t you hear her kid was in the hospital because his behavior. Which means she’s messed him up. Daddy’s a bum and mom has control issues,
@Sequana McClary I really feel bad for some of the guests because he doesn't give them a chance. Everything doesn't happen that way JM feels it should.
@@sereneamani1713 Yes, pray to God in name of Jesus. In deed Jesus does hear the prayers of his brothers and sisters. Do have a great rest of the night Queen or King💜🙏🏾🌈🦋
Omg this sounds horrible!!! How she looking for maturity and he’s a child himself. He can’t get a car, place, custody of his son, he dance aka hobby and can’t afford a suit for court. Hunnay just because his age doesn’t make him responsible. She’s a trip too. She must’ve assumed he had Social Security benefits. Hehehe 🤭.
I don't care how beautiful and well-spoken this woman is, as a mother when she said her son has behavioral issues and is in a behavioral hospital recommended by the school, I lost interest in anything she had to say.
I am having an extremely hard time believing he was EVER smooth in any way, not sure what she saw or fell for. I noticed he adds unnecessary S's to words, I wonder if his last name is actually "Cook" 🤔
He probably wrecked the car and was at fault, so he's not going to bring a police report to court, because the report would clearly indicate he was at fault. He figured he's better off bringing no report and acting dumb about it all.
This man actively decided to live his life as soon as his divorce was finalised. He clearly doesn't want to settle (with you), Ma'am. Focus on yourself and all the best with your little boy
@@asiagibson3632 Had you applied your mind, you would have figured that I meant that he was never serious to begin with-meaning she shouldn't have gotten with him in the first place, (but she did and they've got an innocent child from their union-a blessing). In essence, he's clearly not going to change, but she seems like a great mom, so I wish her the best with her baby boy💕
This man has more excuses than enough 🙄. He was an irresponsible man-child when she met him. She should’ve had her some fun then sent him back to the streets.
And look who suffers and suffering, The Child, the children, who is traumatized mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, devotionally and all other ally's in life Shame on you the parents, using the child or children as pawns in your shenanigans and messy mess
I hear Greg Mathis "You not gown say this about this man you not gown say this about this man!" He has some misogyny in him as well her "Baby daddy" ENTIRELY to OLD for her he's an old man I don't know what made her think he was going to settle down if he hasn't after all this time HE'S OLD he's set in his ways he's just an OLD DUSTY! They're all the same they just get older that's it
So you don’t think there are mental hospitals for people under 18? Well maybe now he won’t be making threats at school cuz the mental hospital trip scared him to death lol
She picked him. She’s no better than him. What’s she worried about a man for when she still had a child to raise? She’s probably still going to clubs. Should not be so desperate
She is the kind that will date prison inmates. You picked up a man that had no car, need you to put a residence in your name and also beats the crap out of you when prompted.
dont let her being well spoken fool you that lady is a hot mess just like him. The child is the only one suffering here.
Exactly!!! Both of them are failing their child.
Exactly. She’s making that mans life miserable. She definitely fooled the judge.
Exactly. Bcus why would she deal with a man like him if she weren't a mess too
Most definitely
Exactly she playing innocent
Listen ladies, if you meet a 40,45,50 year old Niggah in the club, he’s definitely never gonna stop the party lifestyle. That IS his life.
Amen
Exactly. And that defines him.
Yes I learned the hard way and he was 51 couldn’t wait until Fridays just sad, clubbing, drinking, cheating, lying and drugging half dead ☠️ and still living as if they’re in their teens or young adults absolutely nothing to show..... it’s just sad you can’t change them but you can change your surroundings!!
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What about her? She’s a Hoochie mama
Just because someone is older doesn't mean they will be mature and self - disciplined.
A young fool affirmatively will be an OLD FOOL if they do not change their ways!
It's a power move of a weaker person my step mother did this to my biological father as he was dying still trying to have sex with me!! We all need theropy even though he's dead now !!
Exactly I always tell people that
This why people say men and woman can't be friends. Grown folks gone do what they want. But Damn have some respect for yourself business is business. Sad
SMH sad, and she knew what she was doing as well
If I’m going to have a baby with someone way older than me best believe he’s going to have some money. If I wanted to deal with a broke bum I would date a man my age 💀
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Do you think that money and a baby is going to keep a man to you?
@@jer67 i think her point is, even if it does work out that the older dude will have money to take care of the child. And not to be 20k behind in child support
@Sunshine what age do you consider old? 55+?
I said this EXACT thing !!
She thought she was gettin a suga daddy and got a cube of salt 🤣🤣🤣😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂
😆😆😆
😂😂😂😂
💯…talking nonsense.
Granddaddy set there the whole time with a straight face while she told her side of the story 😂
That dude look like he don't give a f
Cat Daddy looking good.
Stop hating and show the man some Respect
@@Mimi-cg2cw Cat daddy??!! 😂🤣😂
@@Mimi-cg2cw 😅😂🤣
She said cat daddy like that was any better😩😂😂
this women in here suing this man smiling and joking about when they met while her kid is in a psych ward at 9 years old. crazy
And completely ignored the fact that he’s been abused by men she’s dating. She is a despicable woman
In her defense. Some psychological disorders are hereditary. If he had it, his son can have it independent any actions of the mother.
🤨🤫 I'm with you . Can't understand were her head space is at were she can be smiling at a time like this
Talking about "the school recommended" girl stfu that is no place for adults let alone a child
Age does NOT bring grace. She is so well-spoken. How did she get bamboozled by this guy?!
Must've been desperate or lonely at the time, because I don't get it either!!
Because being "well-spoken" doesn't change hood mentality and the outcomes that come with it. I've met plenty of women who can switch it up when they need to, but at the core they're not much different than the "hood chick" who isn't "well-spoken". Notice she has a 28 yr old, 16 yr old, and the young child with this guy. So more than likely we're talking about a woman with three kids by three different men. You have to look at the actions and outcomes not the words and how she talks.
The touch!!!! I think he’s a womanizer and this is why he took this job😢😢😢
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Because water seeks its own level
I love Doyle!!!! " Let the music move you". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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LOL I hollered!
Bruhhhh I screamed so loud🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@SpontaneousVirgo i did 2.....😂😂😂😂
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The 9 yr old "Decided to act up in school and threaten people". Really?
The Defendant is trifling but the Plaintiff isn't fooling me. She has some issues of her own. Being articulate doesn't mean anything....she's just as crazy as he is. God Bless the children.
Message to women. YOU CAN'T CHANGE A GROWN MAN! So stop trying. He was what he was before you and will be what he is well after you.
Good point!
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Why are so many men this way though?
Lol she’s so controlling
Facts!!!!
This whole cases is a fucking mess! They are both messy, she’s just pretty and well spoken. I feel sorry for these children.
They only have one together..the one in the mental hospital
Yeah, that's what i discerned too. They're both wrong. She's just better at whatever games they're playing.
Unfortunately, their child is the only one who is losing 😔
@@Mimi-cg2cw that’s crazy.. no pun intended
Yes she is very messy she thought she had a old head that she can get over on and he wasn’t s*** 😂😂😂😂
Facts 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 both of them shows no accountability … and the is in this mess of the two ….. God IS Tired of this nonsense 🙏🏿🤦🏿
Something is off with this… Paulita didn’t deny that her son was being abused by her other men, and CPS became involved. Now her son is in a hospital for behavioral problems.
And she got with the defendant about 12 years ago when her middle child would have been 2 - 4 years old, and was leaving that child with him to watch, knowing he was a drinker and “abusive.” She doesn’t make good decisions when it comes to her children, and I’m not about to sit here and applaud her because she uses proper diction.
I was thinking the same
Word on the street is they got together when that baby was a new born 😪😪😪
Thank you for this, I was going to say the same thing. Why did they gloss over that CPS comment 👀😭🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️? Smdh, how are these women still getting played like this?
Thank you!!!! I was thinking the same thing.
exactly. I dont give a damn how good someones diction is or how educated they are...ya character, principles and morals override everything
Dude tryna look all serious and mad!!! Smile fool!!! 😂😂😂😂
Kmsl same thang I said🤣
😂😂😂😂 Hard to smile when you gotta pay!
She's complaining about him being the EXACT same guy he was when she decided to lay down and make a baby with him. I will never understand why women don't get that the man/men you procreate with is a direct reflection on you as well. So all the negative things you say about the man you chose to father your children speaks volumes about you also.
Always blaming the woman 😂
No. It's about providing balance, because the men tend to get all the blame in these situations and rarely do we talk about the fact the woman CHOSE this man. Even if you scroll through the comments it's mostly criticism of the guy and almost none of the woman. All she did was complain about and blame him when he is exactly what he was when she met him. My first thought as soon as he started talking was "Why would a woman have a baby with this guy? This is who you want to lead your children?" And based on her story and the age gaps between her children it appears she has three children by three different men. So there does seem to be some problems that lie with her as well as her selection process.
@@TSR228 I'm a woman and it's true she picked him he was no good when she meet him .
Right!
@@Icannotlose If I have to explain to you the difference between buying a car and choosing the father of your child then we're not even in the same stratosphere where we can have this conversation. Good luck to you though.
Women....be more decisive about who you have children with.
Men man up and stop being dead beats. 😂
Right lol
🤣🤣🤣 she’s the clown. Open your eyes and see thru the BS. They lady is crazy and controlling.
@@jaybo619 They skipped right pass the child abuse.
@@kdmac7425 they’re too busy trying to blame the man.
These two adults are a mess!!! This lady has a nine year old in a physic ward!! Drove the boys pass his house to see him drink outside, instead of taking her soon to football practice!!! Thank God for my mother!!! raised two children as a single parents and I’ve never witnessed any turmoil between my parents (Not stayed and it didn’t happen, but we were in a child’s place) !!!
This!!!! My boys ain't miss a thing because of what daddy wouldn't do. She's definitely a messy type mom.
Right, she definitely ain’t fooling me trying to be all “well spoken” 🤦🏾♀️ super sad. They both are selfish
Always blaming the woman 😂
💯🎯 dad needs to get himself together and settle down.
Mom is a master manipulator. She's really good too! She has managed to manipulate the judge and more than half of the people in this comment section.
How is this man this old and still not done partying. Ridiculous
Lol
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Neither was she. That’s why she’s in this mess. 3 times
😂😂😂right like how is your body still functioning
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I have question about who y'all say is so articulate..what has she articulated to that child about his father. I read thru BS...if she had time to ride by dad's house...why didn't she just take her son to football??? Especially if when the child asked dad he told him to "ask ya mama" to take you?? Cute can still be a toxic mom. Acting out in school??? What is he hearing in his own??? She said in court, he threatens "like his daddy's style" don't expect different from a child that constantly hears how messed up dad is, and in the next breathe...your just like your daddy.
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Yup she’s toxic and controlling. Lol she’s trying to control old man and they aren’t even together anymore.
So eloquently said!!!!!
Thank you
They just mean she didn’t speak Ebonics and come off ghetto. However, you read right through her.
"Lay down with an old dog..." you know the rest of the line.
😂 💯
You get old fleas🤣🥴
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You wake up with fleas
You get gray whiskers 😂😂😂
Love how the older son left his little brother a car ❤.
This is not the norm?
Hell, with these two as parents, the car probably wasn't registered, had 12 overdue tickets, and a $3000.00 unpaid title loan.
@@Icannotlose - how? lol
@@Mimi-cg2cw Not for everybody. Not in my family at least lol.
@@waldolydecker8118 🤣🤣 Might be on to something.
Just like JM gets things wrong sometimes, evidently, many of the viewers have also this time. The plaintiff is beautiful and well-spoken but there are some obvious issues. Now I agree with the verdict and that the defendant does not seem to be a stand-up person, but this lady is showing so many red flags that Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder could see blindfolded. Inclusive of who she chooses to procreate with and how the behavioral issues of their son is being handled. Where there's smoke there's fire.
Yep!! 💯🎯
Bingo
Exactly. Beauty doesn't always come with Brains.
Exactly
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He is too damn old for this mess 😒
As is she.
Dude is the definition of an old fool that’s too kool for his own damn good 🤦🏽♂️
JM really just skipped over the issues of abuse done to this child because she’s worried about what this grown man is going and who he’s dating.
Odd for a 9 year old to be in a behavioral/psych hospital smh hopefully not taking "supplements" there
The school said take home to the behavior hospital BUT YOU ARE THE MOM!!! You make that decision, you didn’t try counseling first or anything else
Schools not taking any chances with threats , you ever heard of Ethan crumbly and the parkland shooter in Florida. There were red flags that were ignored
Yes, to place him in a mental institution instead of anger management & counseling shows her lack of understanding about these places.
@@asiam1528 the point is she just did it without any pushback.
Schools are quick to perscribe unnecessary mess and extreme treatment.
Which is why I'm surprised that the cos accusations were brushed off.
An abused kid is gonna act out in one way or another. Unusual aggression, violence, high risk sexual behavior, early and abnormal sexual behavior.
And it doesn't seem as though the mother makes good choices in men, so I can believe that.
Because this was probably not the first instance of his behavior and she obviously could not control him
That cameraman a true champ for making sure he kept getting that side angle.
Get that cameraman a beer and a round of applause
Ha!!!
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This lady must’ve purchased them glasses after she got pregnant because I don’t see what she could possibly see in him
🤣😂🤣😂🤣rightttttt
Skool didn't take that lightly when they talked about his dance courses turning into physical education!😆
*Skool* I’m gonna assume you’re calling him that for old school? 😂
@@StoneGone exactly!😆 down south lingo
@@StoneGone not all the south...that's tx shit...just like calling your momma your T lady...lol
The way she acting and sounding all boughie I am absolutely flabbergasted that she was dating this defendant.
@@poppmaxx2348 Exactly!
You see where step in The name of Love ended y'all at COURT 🤣
Good vibes from this lady. Articulate, composed and seems to have a good heart. Keep it together girl! You got this momma💛
Yet, old enough to know better don’t have a child Before marriage!!! He didn’t even give her a RING…. Now, after a child, she talked to his ex’s??? A little late, good vibe lady.
Poor choice at men. Bunch of kids and no daddies 🤦🏾♂️
How she fall for a broke dancing sugar daddy. SAD. Wish her well.
For those of y’all that don’t understand the original comment, good VIBES doesn’t mean GOOD decisions. She’s a single black mother first and foremost and I have the utmost respect for that as my mother was a single parent as well. She also articulates well. She does come across as a good hearted individual. And as bad as I feel for her son, none of us can know what’s best for that little boy. Maybe the behavioral hospital can save his life. We talk about hire us as a black community don’t talk about mental health enough and this woman is doing what she thinks is best for her son and y’all are downing her for it. Whatever tho.
I don’t get vibes from her. I think she is one of those “nice in public, but bar crazy behind closed doors”.. her frustration is legit though.. I don’t know how this man is that old and is still not done partying
She's articulate, intelligent and calm. What the hell did she ever see in this loser?
Parts of herself
Well, we know she wasn't in it for the money
@@sereneamani1713 - bingo!
You know I was with the same kind of man. After 19 years, I left him. Couldn't take it anymore. Master manipulator! Act so kind in the presence of others. Treated me like dirt. Everybody that really knew what was going on wondered what the hell I was doing with him. He tried getting people to believe I was a person who felt 8 was pretty and used him. As GOD as my witness, I worked 2 full time jobs. Took care of my 4 kids and a step daughter that he bought home for me to raise. I Teatro her as my own. His family treated me as I was an interference and took him from them. He was the inky boy, 4 sisters. His mother was horrible, his aunts female cousins, sisters and any other females in the family. The men were disgusted with him for not being a real man. There were a few females in his family that spoke it like they saw it. Most of his female family members turned a blind eye to his irresponsibility. So help me GID, I paid EVERY BILL in the house. He lied to Everybody telling them he paid all bills and didn't help him. The level of disrespect was horrible. He had a gambling habit. Did all he could to convince all ot was me. I was 1200 miles away from home. I'm from North Carolina. I was living with him I. Texas. You don't get someone that far away from hime then mistreat them. I divorced him. Left hi. In 2019. Divorce final in 2012. He's bitter and does EVERTYHING he can to make my life miserable. He truly had bitch like tendencies. GOD has me and also has him! I don't miss him at all! It's truly hard to keep calm ashes being so evil. I'm tired. He is like a lot of other dirtbags. Even if it is negative attention, he will do whatever to get my attention. Stare me down try to figure out what's going on with my life and who I'm seeing now. I have flourished so much and am so much more happier and stress-free since the day I left him. I regret leaving him as late as I did. I wish it would have been sooner.
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Psyche ward at 9, very sad.
I don't understand. I never will. This happens so much. Women being in such a bad place to where you are making poor decisions or not thinking at all. Not respecting or valuing yourself enough to know that you don't have to deal with mess or people like this. It's okay to be alone until you meet the right one whom I believe GOD has for you. He won't be slick, he won't cheat, he won't lie, he won't be broke, he won't hit you, he will be age appropriate and you will be happy. Please just wait ladies!!!!GOD Bless ❤🙏🏾
Amen, I don't see to many people commenting on this one
As old as this man is, he live a boyish lifestyle. True example of a boy.
She should have made her other kids her priority instead of a man. She gets what she gets.
she’s gorgeous!
I’m getting Mr Brown vibes from him. He sounds like him. I pray everything works out for the little boy.
Such a beautiful, smart lady 😍😍😍 she don't deserve all the drama though
This chick got 3 baby daddies, she is the common denominator in the drama.
You buggin out.....
@@MrLenroc82 😂😂😂😂
What 🤣🤣 she brought guys around to assault her child wtf 🤬
Right wtf is she watchin
We need to start having a conversation with the girls in our community about suitable men, potential fathers, among other things.
no he fooled her by make her believe he is a sugar daddy@@Brandi_alanaa
Yesss I felt this it took me a while to lean and it took a lot of heartbreaks
So the school recommends a hospital for her son and she's goes along with it??? Something about that don't sit right in my soul. Lawd soon as she said Seattle it was all bad
You don’t know what she’s been through with her son.
Sounds like neither mother or father wants to deal with their son. 😔
Of course the kids messed up. Moms controlling and dads a bum.
Sounds like something a woman would do…prime example of no proper male leadership in her (or the son’s) life.
@@baibaizkid 😒😒. Both of them are the child's parents. He is just as much blame as she is. At his old age he still don't want to grow up to help raise his son. If she is that bad he should want custody of his SON.
He got his “S” down packed !!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Womens and mens.. he instructs womens and mens
She must've really been hurt by the passing of her pops to end up with this type of brother. No car or place in his name & no priorities.
🤦🏾♀️
This guy is just smooth, charisma,and a gigilo..
He's probably made excuses all his life.
Never held himself accountable for anything.
That's how he rolls and he doesn't see no fault with that because he ain't going to change SMH
He THREE damn old for all this. wow
The thought of a 9 year old child being in a psych ward pisses me off!!!
This is pitiful. He is a loser and unfortunately she picked him out! 😒
Wow
She’s desperate and obviously low self esteem issues
🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 She's a Jezebel.....to let her 9-year-old son in a mental hospital instead of dealing with it as a parent she put him off..
"I got a witness. But they not here."🤥🤥🤥
😅😂🤣
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That poor child… for real!
As a gay man I’m always amazed with the creatures my black sisters decided to have kids with ain’t no way in hell I would have gotten pregnant by that. He is to old to be that childish and irresponsible 😕
THAT BABY HAIR 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She should let the father deal with their son when it comes to discipline! Not a psych ward. Young man is going to be doped up from now on. With the right guidance he could learn to put that energy into something else.
@Bree Yah kan
He needs a psych ward. To learn how to deal with a crazy controlling mom like her.
She didn't renew freeloaders lease???🤩🤩🤩👏👏👏
There’s an epidemic of relationship severances where AT LEAST one person can’t seem to be friendly b/c of past hurts they’re not willing to let go & live
The defendant is not cracking a smile!!😂😂😂
You'd think that a guy who's been to jail would know what a statute of limitations is
He said 10 years correct????
He knew...he just didn't know the time period. Judge told him 2 years.
@@waldolydecker8118 sounded like he said 10 years.
@@MrLenroc82 - ok, maybe he did, but the guy said it happened in 2015. If the statue was 10 years, then it would have still been active for him to countersue since 2025 isn't here yet. Whatever Mathis said, he refuse to even hear the guy's countersuit because he made it seem like it was now too late for the court to hear it. JM shut the guy up on the countersuit and didn't even let him talk about it - that makes sense if the statue of limitations was over in 2 years; it doesn't make sense for him to shut him up on the countersuit if the statue was still active until 2025. Hey, whatever...
@@waldolydecker8118 Bro.....all I said was it sounded like he said 10 years
Ain't nothing worse than a OLD bum🙄
She picked him
Some people never change . It don't make them wrong it just make them wrong 4 you! The older the person is they become stuck in their ways and can't think outside the box..man can't even remember dates but chasing women.sit your old behind down!
I feel for his son-this is his example of a man😫😫😫
and his example of a mom
This is the best comment so far. A MAN raise these boys or not to be in his image.
That Young Lady is too Good for that BUMM
She’s gorgeous 😍😍😍
Old bum, hope she is making better choices and pray that little boy is being helped to get over his behavior issues
what a trifling dude
shes a beautiful woman. im glad her children have a mother like her. her one mistake was entertaining this loser but she still came out well
Seems she is good at picking bums to reproduce with
I always wondered why people judge people. She wanted him and had a child by him so she was satisfied for the moment.
Judge is a feminist
Didn’t you hear the defendant say CPS became involved because their son was being abused by the Plaintiff’s other men? What makes her a good mother?
🤣🤣🤣 she’s controlling and messed her kid up. Didn’t you hear her kid was in the hospital because his behavior. Which means she’s messed him up. Daddy’s a bum and mom has control issues,
I know JM would love to host a messy show. Jerry Springer is a tv judge now so JM might as well host a messy show lol cuz he loveesss the mess
I love JM but his attitude really sucks at times. Remain objective and keep your emotions out of it.
Facts
@Sequana McClary I really feel bad for some of the guests because he doesn't give them a chance. Everything doesn't happen that way JM feels it should.
Jesus loves you and hears your prayers 🙏🏾
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@@kscott8479🙏🏾
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Didn't Jesus teach us to pray to his Father?
@@sereneamani1713 Yes, pray to God in name of Jesus. In deed Jesus does hear the prayers of his brothers and sisters. Do have a great rest of the night Queen or King💜🙏🏾🌈🦋
Omg this sounds horrible!!! How she looking for maturity and he’s a child himself. He can’t get a car, place, custody of his son, he dance aka hobby and can’t afford a suit for court. Hunnay just because his age doesn’t make him responsible. She’s a trip too. She must’ve assumed he had Social Security benefits. Hehehe 🤭.
@Aries Clarke I know she know it.
"He continues to date younger women."👈👈👈
He def got a lil tight when they started joking with them dancing lessons 😂😂 and judge was sooo sad he didn’t play along 💀💀💀
I hate that braid wig...
The guy was expressionless when jm started joking about let the music move you
Noooooo ACCOUNTABILITY! What a jerk! How you gon wreck somebody car and want someone else to pay half. It was YOUR FAULT sir...🙄
She chose him…🤷🏿♀️
Thank you
I wouldn't be Skinning & Grinning if my 9 year old is in the PSYCH WARD...
I don't care how beautiful and well-spoken this woman is, as a mother when she said her son has behavioral issues and is in a behavioral hospital recommended by the school, I lost interest in anything she had to say.
I am having an extremely hard time believing he was EVER smooth in any way, not sure what she saw or fell for. I noticed he adds unnecessary S's to words, I wonder if his last name is actually "Cook" 🤔
Damn pops pulled a baddie 💯💯💯... He still trifling AF tho 😂😂😂
Two lames….I feel sorry for the child
Yup!
I thought JM would get this man to show us some steps. Cause I got to see what swept her off her feet.
Where are the police reports?? I don't know why people always say things happened but no reports! Smh🤦♀️
He probably wrecked the car and was at fault, so he's not going to bring a police report to court, because the report would clearly indicate he was at fault. He figured he's better off bringing no report and acting dumb about it all.
This man actively decided to live his life as soon as his divorce was finalised. He clearly doesn't want to settle (with you), Ma'am. Focus on yourself and all the best with your little boy
Settle with her? He ain’t got a pot to piss in and she does. Lol
Is this his woman or him cuz nobody with half a brain would type that comment wow
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She wants him to be a father. Are you a black guy? Just curious.
@@asiagibson3632 Had you applied your mind, you would have figured that I meant that he was never serious to begin with-meaning she shouldn't have gotten with him in the first place, (but she did and they've got an innocent child from their union-a blessing). In essence, he's clearly not going to change, but she seems like a great mom, so I wish her the best with her baby boy💕
His defense: 🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻
That wig chile
I guess there's somebody for everybody, cause i don't see it.
Controlling women looking for a easy target. He’s a bum but she’s crazy.
This man has more excuses than enough 🙄. He was an irresponsible man-child when she met him. She should’ve had her some fun then sent him back to the streets.
And look who suffers and suffering, The Child, the children, who is traumatized mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally, devotionally and all other ally's in life
Shame on you the parents, using the child or children as pawns in your shenanigans and messy mess
At 1:34 the defendant is not in the mood for JM jokes!! lol!!
I hear Greg Mathis "You not gown say this about this man you not gown say this about this man!" He has some misogyny in him as well her "Baby daddy" ENTIRELY to OLD for her he's an old man I don't know what made her think he was going to settle down if he hasn't after all this time HE'S OLD he's set in his ways he's just an OLD DUSTY! They're all the same they just get older that's it
I know a manipulative woman when I see one. Don’t let that proper speech fool ya🙅🏾♂️
For her to be so well put together I can’t believe she got mixed up with him because he was such a good dancer.
It’s not adding up
Lol.. she thinks she's slick.
She captured Mathis..lol
@@Mimi-cg2cw True
How is she well put together?
🤣The face the defendant made when Mathis started joking about his dance lessons 😐
Please go get your son ma’am! Behavioral centers are for criminals not 9 year olds 🖤
Naw leave him there. Her crazy controlling ass messed him up. She needs to take accountability for her mental issues and stop destroying her kids.
So you don’t think there are mental hospitals for people under 18? Well maybe now he won’t be making threats at school cuz the mental hospital trip scared him to death lol
Sad. Their drama is driving their nine year old son insane.
Exactly! Both of his parents are messed up.
Lol OMG I feel bad for the guy. He getting all tongue twisted with his country self lol. He walked himself right into a full confession 😂🤣😅
She picked him. She’s no better than him. What’s she worried about a man for when she still had a child to raise? She’s probably still going to clubs. Should not be so desperate
I beginning to realize that dating is a Nicer word to use than to ask ""how long y'all been BANGING!""
She is the kind that will date prison inmates. You picked up a man that had no car, need you to put a residence in your name and also beats the crap out of you when prompted.
LET THE MUSIC MOVE YA 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He's an OLD FOOL.
She’s just as bad.
She’s lovely & he’s giving me Ike Turner vibes.
This Shemar Moore wig is killing me