It's okay to feel lost - Lessons in uncertainty as a 25 year old moving back home

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  • @forever12449
    @forever12449 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I feel like this is quite common theme among young TH-camrs that focus a lot of their videos around well-being/resets/reorganising life/journaling etc. It seems v isolating and life is like a constant reset from... not sure what exactly. I'm glad you've realised the importance of having fun, regardless of your age it's sooo crucial. xx

  • @matea3026
    @matea3026 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I follow u since i was 17 and now I'm almost 25. Time flies fast and it's rly scary, I haven't watched ur vids in a long time but you're one of my comforting channels and you're not alone in those thoughts of feeling lost

    • @cozyhobbies_
      @cozyhobbies_ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow ! I started watching her around age 23 and I’m 30 now so we started around same time !! I agree she’s such a comfort channel

  • @mattwilliams8662
    @mattwilliams8662 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I'm 30, still at home, in between jobs, no friends and I can tell you; despair is an addiction. As much as I try to kick my ass into gear and as much progress as I've made in the past, it is so easy to fall back to square one to where I spend more time sulking in the safety net rather than getting back up on that dreaded tightrope. I am lazy, procrastinate often and feel utterly hopeless, a deadly concoction when mixed with the privilege to indulge in such sentiments in the comfort of my parents' house with relative security. But I can also tell you this, I still pity those who are more "successful" than I. Many of the people I've met with a steady income, home and kids are often more stressed out, arrogant, greedy, intolerant and willfully ignorant people I've ever met. That's when I realized that, even when we think that we are where we'd like to be in life, we are only as happy as our condition and circumstances will allow us to be; imagine an animal caged in a zoo without any worries. It may live longer than in the wild, but it'll never know how to hunt for itself or to find a mate the hard way. Privilege and success are one thing but being a reliable and honest person is something even rarer in this world, more so than precious diamond. I hate where I am in life, yet I can still confidently say that I respect myself as a person; an aspect that employers really don't care for. I believe that people have a destination in this world, those who think they've found it have simply settled for what they find comfortable (and I've never learned anything worth knowing from someone who's comfortable) We are all wanderers in this world and the only way to discover new things as well as discover ourselves as people is to keep wandering, no matter how dangerous it may seem. *This comment contains no paid sponsors*

  • @hollyscott-black5147
    @hollyscott-black5147 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This feels like having my own brain reflected back at me in the most positive way! Such a helpful, encouraging video. Thank you

  • @Earthsage
    @Earthsage หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Thank you for this video Jusuf. Where I am in life doesn’t make me happy, because a HUGE part of me believed I didn’t have time. I never went to college, I graduated HIGHSCHOOL AT 21. mental health problems and even physical health problems. Sorta living in poverty hahaha. But everything has a divine timing. And each lesson is brought to us one chapter at a time. When life feels stagnant, it means that our only goal is to simply BE PATIENT. How beautiful and easy is that?! I’ll learn to love stagnant periods because they are the easiest lessons. For everyone reading this. Please please pleaseee just sit with it. Sit with those feelings. And when you’ve sat long enough, please enjoy the breeze outside and go for a walk. Simplifying things that seem too big. One step at a time. Much love to you all ❤❤🙏🏽

    • @MuniraAbdullahi-sc7po
      @MuniraAbdullahi-sc7po หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you for this,its beautiful,wish you the best my friend

    • @Earthsage
      @Earthsage หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@MuniraAbdullahi-sc7poyou to habibti! Inshallah things get better for all of us ❤

  • @solene.ald00
    @solene.ald00 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Your words resonate a lot so thank you for sharing your current situation, it feels like we are not alone struggling to find our own meaning of life ! As a soon-to-be 25 y/o I finished my degree and it is hard to go back to my parents home while searching for a job, there is so much uncertainty about when it will happen, and if i'm going to find a job I like. Anyways during those complicated times I agree with you that we must take it slow and not rush into life, focusing on having a balanced lifestyle and securing our basic needs. This period has made me start a lot of different sports, running, pilates, but also swimming, so I could recommend that to you if you need to lower the pressure a little bit ! :)

  • @inesjasmin5945
    @inesjasmin5945 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ich lieeebe deine Videos Jusuf!! Immer so inspirierend und man merkt wie du in jedem Lebensabschnitt versuchst das beste rauszuholen :) Keep going, you rock it!

  • @Sovann-Chronicles
    @Sovann-Chronicles หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    It's definitely Ok to feel lost Juss, especially at 25. Be ready for another change in feelings @ 30 and then again @ 40 and last one will be @ 60. After that, you're home free 😉

    • @greatedges
      @greatedges หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not necessarily... the search for meaning and purpose can be in question till we die. And absollutely still part of being over 60!!!

  • @Yian_
    @Yian_ หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    really needed to hear this 💗 it's only getting better from here xx

  • @cutetips46
    @cutetips46 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was feeling a little lost but listening to you made me feel so much better
    Thankyou!❤

  • @macchiato8219
    @macchiato8219 หลายเดือนก่อน

    listening to this while journalling is so therapeutic, yet hits right home. youre not alone in this jusuf, we believe in you!

  • @MuniraAbdullahi-sc7po
    @MuniraAbdullahi-sc7po หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this video and comment section is beautiful and so positive,people sharing struggles and hope,advising each other,trying to appreciate life.would love to meet these people in real life lol,have a nice moments that pours into nice life,know you are not alone,while you are at it pray fo Palestine,rohingya muslims,sudan,congo yemen and for a better world

  • @monkey-dx4zq
    @monkey-dx4zq 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    bro your content is soo fire bro

  • @karolina_flowerfield
    @karolina_flowerfield หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Perfect timing, just finished cooking my dinner and wanted to watch something nice while eating thank youu 🥰

    • @luckysketch
      @luckysketch หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I cooked so I could watch this while eating.

  • @Yang-e3e
    @Yang-e3e 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We have only two jobs on this earth,the first:to learn,the second:to cope. We all find ways to soften the edges,but some edges need more softening than others.

  • @Yang-e3e
    @Yang-e3e 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Everything will be ok,don’t be too sad 🐼

  • @hejniol
    @hejniol หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like you’re the one mirror of my personality

  • @hejniol
    @hejniol หลายเดือนก่อน

    Exactly what I needed right now

  • @secai_i
    @secai_i หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this video, thanks for sharing

  • @letsbloom997
    @letsbloom997 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you feel lost try to listen to quoran you will feel safe ❤

  • @safisafiasafia
    @safisafiasafia หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love love love this video

  • @sportlams
    @sportlams หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Its fascinating that hardly anyone has heard of the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential. I believe it was banned but I recently saw that it has been returned

  • @CrisOnTheInternet
    @CrisOnTheInternet หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel like I'm going to have anxiety attack every other day, I feel stuck and even though I decided to change things up I feel like that's not enough, stagnation is so uncomfortable. How can I feel accomplished and at ease? Distracting myself is not longer soothing.
    Sorry for the rant 😅

  • @Truthtouch-ke4yv
    @Truthtouch-ke4yv หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hm..
    I think that, lack of fundaments is a problem these days. So many People like You are struggling, because "world" show Them that "everything is possible" and "You have to purchase freedom" + explained it all in a mixed way, far more attached to money circuit, than real freedom. World (not "world") is about something else, about something more meaningful, Valuable and respectful towards World mechanisms..
    Anyway.
    You Are a Beautiful Soul.. 🙂❤️☕

    • @Truthtouch-ke4yv
      @Truthtouch-ke4yv หลายเดือนก่อน

      P.S.
      Share Your Heart with someone meaningfull to Your Heart, not with the while "world".. 😉
      (if You know what I mean)
      🌷

  • @csillagtalan
    @csillagtalan หลายเดือนก่อน

    Caroline Winkler 💜

  • @Lailalaila-zz6ex
    @Lailalaila-zz6ex หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤