15 Server Tips & Tricks | How to Make the Most Money!

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  • Hello all of my fellow servers! If your looking for some tips on being a better server and making more money look no further! Here are my favorite tried and true server/bartender tips.
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  • @viclovatsis
    @viclovatsis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4280

    ANOTHER TIP FOR FEMALE SERVERS!!!! When serving hetero couples, I make most eye contact and put more of my attention towards towards the girlfriend/wife!

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  4 ปีที่แล้ว +280

      E E yessss! Always lol

    • @doinithard79
      @doinithard79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +336

      That may be true because female waitresses that give me most attention. My lady has an "indirect" attitude but when they address my lady most of the time, then she says, Daddy tip her more.

    • @ToxicButterfly_91
      @ToxicButterfly_91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same!!!! Lol

    • @doinithard79
      @doinithard79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Also when serving gay couples (lesbian specifically) yes they exist... tend more to the feminine one, when asking if anything is needed(the eye contact). Even if the more "masculine " replies. (Same as with hetero couples)

    • @addisonkyler5555
      @addisonkyler5555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES

  • @amber2349
    @amber2349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2624

    Deadass!!! The part when you go home then you remember you was suppose to bring ranch to a table 😂

  • @stacythomas7162
    @stacythomas7162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4171

    To new servers: Stay humble. You are no better than the busser or dish person.

    • @sylassun
      @sylassun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Stacy Thomas yet we make 4x their money

    • @katiekelly8911
      @katiekelly8911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +364

      We're all a team in this industry, no part can work without the others there. It's really important to remember this.

    • @ryanholmes5294
      @ryanholmes5294 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      also to new servers a great tip for beverages is to not say anything related to the word drink or beverage!! Use specific suggestions to avoid them just ordering water!!

    • @Abcdefghijk920
      @Abcdefghijk920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      And respect your host. Piss them off and you will feel it.

    • @briannaf9490
      @briannaf9490 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Rob Sun at the end of the day you and the other employees are not the boss or a part of management. You’re all on the same level whether you like it or not.

  • @hillibilli
    @hillibilli 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1152

    I really like the sticker idea! I have a ton of different colored pens for my customers to choose from when they sign their receipts. I ask what their favorite color is and they always look a little confused but when I show them that I have a pen in that color for them to use they always get a big smile and are in a much better mood regardless of how my service was or how their day went.

    • @miriaaa
      @miriaaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I used to do this until one time I couldn't get a tip left for me because it wasn't in "blue or black ink" since the signed receipt is technically a "legal document." So just be careful.

    • @zoeriley13
      @zoeriley13 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maria def gunna use this

    • @AlexisTwoLastNames
      @AlexisTwoLastNames 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maria just ask your manager first lol. every place i have worked at doesn’t care

    • @taylorangulo4648
      @taylorangulo4648 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats a great idea.

    • @rachelramos9810
      @rachelramos9810 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Loooove this!

  • @kms5793
    @kms5793 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1383

    i'm about to start serving and i have social anxiety but i've been hosting for a year and a half and its helping me be more open with people. i'm actually excited about it!

    • @Acebb9911
      @Acebb9911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      How's serving going? I start this week!

    • @bettleboo
      @bettleboo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I start Monday! And also doing bar work for the first time. I’m so nervous

    • @rafaelaitsc
      @rafaelaitsc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I just started and i get super nervous to go to the tables 🙈

    • @BeckyTheButterfly
      @BeckyTheButterfly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I also have social anxiety and start my first trial shift this afternoon in a restaurant 😂 I’m so nervous but work needs to be done so I’m also a bit excited

    • @amiyahlovings3686
      @amiyahlovings3686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That'sSoBeki let us know how you do. I really want to be a server or a hostess to become more open with people.

  • @cskillzkchitt
    @cskillzkchitt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1284

    Be careful with up-selling. You always need to be transparent about an up-charge. I’ve learned from experience people get upset when the check comes and they didn’t know they were paying for something extra.

    • @SS-oe4cz
      @SS-oe4cz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Pro tip!!!!

    • @meltzity
      @meltzity 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      well where i work the customers know what things usually are cus the prices are on the menu just saying but i know at all places it isn’t the same

    • @lewisletthedogsout9020
      @lewisletthedogsout9020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I had a lady yell at me bc it was an upcharge for a refill on her daughter's chocolate milk. Ma'am, that is on the menu, plus it's like that everywhere!! I dont understand, if you're unsure, ask abt refills or refer to the menu 🙄

    • @melanienelson830
      @melanienelson830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Thats why i hate upselling cause then i say but oh its extra and people get those nasty salesperson vibes which i think negatively effects my tips. Dessert and drinks are the best way to upsell and easiest imo

    • @lewisletthedogsout9020
      @lewisletthedogsout9020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Since it says it on the menu, I typically dont ask. I've been told to do that to help with your sales since the guest should already know if.

  • @danielleweiss2993
    @danielleweiss2993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1150

    don't be rude to the hosts! i'm a host and some of the servers are so rude to us

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      Any smart server would be your best friend

    • @bodypositiveimage
      @bodypositiveimage 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yaaassss hunty I know the feeling

    • @Relaxing_fun
      @Relaxing_fun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I hate when I snap at host because I was a hospo for almost two years but when they triple seat me or seat out of section and don’t ask or let a server know to get that table I can’t stand it

    • @tacticaljuggernaut4866
      @tacticaljuggernaut4866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Im a host too, servers dont realize if they treat us badly, they dont make as much money, cause we will avoid seating them, and where i work hosts are the bussers too so we will avoid bussing and seating rude servers tables 😂

    • @danielleweiss2993
      @danielleweiss2993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      TacticalJuggernaut i 100% seat the servers i like more, i don't do it on purpose tho, but where i work they're suppose to pre-bus and just grab the plates , literally all the servers i like help bus their tables

  • @PlanetYokoshima
    @PlanetYokoshima 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1604

    Tip no. one: 1:24
    Tip no. two: 2:44
    Tip no. three: 3:05
    Tip no. four: 3:37
    Tip no. five: 4:30
    Tip no. six: 5:14
    Tip no. seven: 5:34
    Tip no. eight: 6:06
    Tip no. nine: 6:37
    Tip no. ten: 7:19
    Tip no. eleven: 7:43
    Tip no. twelve: 8:16
    Tip no. thirteen: 8:42
    Tip no. fourteen: 9:00
    Tip no. fifteen: 9:27

  • @persceptionb7666
    @persceptionb7666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +768

    As a fellow waitress, your tips are definitely A1. I most certainly stand by looking your best when serving. It will definitely take your tips a long way. I made a 100.00 dollar tip off a 50 dollar tab.

    • @lewisletthedogsout9020
      @lewisletthedogsout9020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I dont wear makeup period, but I'll throw on some bc my tips go so much higher when I do. I got a 20$ off of a 9$ and I almost cried I was so happy ngl.

    • @servingandswerving4106
      @servingandswerving4106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If anybody wants to know how to make the most money as a server/bartender then watch my video on how ANYONE can make 80-100,000$ a year as a server/bartender. I just started my channel, but it’s the truth and I’ll be adding more videos soon. It’s a great lifestyle

    • @harrietamarfio1349
      @harrietamarfio1349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is very true, I've made a $500 tip on a $34 check just because a table thought I looked good

    • @dewanmdurnto3592
      @dewanmdurnto3592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@harrietamarfio1349 no way! Really!?

    • @harrietamarfio1349
      @harrietamarfio1349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dewanmdurnto3592 yes really

  • @AVPGleek
    @AVPGleek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +421

    The befriending the kitchen tip is huge where I work

    • @jeremylien605
      @jeremylien605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Emily F haha oh yeah. The constant battle between kitchen & servers

    • @lewisletthedogsout9020
      @lewisletthedogsout9020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Theyll be better with when you're down food or need a remake. Theres a server that always gets into it w the cooks, so she usually waits and her tips will sometimes suffer, whereas I do the, "sir, may I speak," and they are so much more prompt and helpful to me.

    • @scottbrown6505
      @scottbrown6505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My BOH guys are very testy.. As long as they get respect and give it im very understanding and humble.

    • @sandirichard5461
      @sandirichard5461 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Especially dish, drop and go really comes in handy! Bring them a drink, it'll go a long way.

  • @djjohn6555
    @djjohn6555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Befriending the hostesses, back of house and bussers will save your ass... trust me :)

    • @dylanparr6880
      @dylanparr6880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Side tip: the dishwasher is the default source for drugs and other illicit party favors.

  • @evemitchell3442
    @evemitchell3442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    Tip #2- SMILE W YOUR EYES!!! Y’all know we in a panoramic 😂

    • @rachelr375
      @rachelr375 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol!

    • @alexdavis7577
      @alexdavis7577 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      everyday i am working, i’m so grateful for how much i smile with my eyes because people can see how much i smile even with the mask TT

    • @snailbutt3r23
      @snailbutt3r23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alexdavis7577 let me get your insta

    • @jellyrei9881
      @jellyrei9881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PANORMAIUSCJXJS

  • @mackenzieharry27
    @mackenzieharry27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +775

    I'm a pretty new waitress and I felt like I just wasn't doing a great job. I was doing OK, most of my tips were about 20% and the food mostly came out right. But I tried all these tips yesterday and boy oh boy it made a difference. I worked a double shift on Tuesday and I made more money than I had on my double shift Saturday. I'm baffled at how great this helped. All of my tips were 20% or more, one tip was $40 on a $50 tap!!! I cannot thank you enough

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I’m so happy for you! Make that money girl!

    • @lewisletthedogsout9020
      @lewisletthedogsout9020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hows your serving doing now? Hope you're still hustling 💕

    • @mackenzieharry27
      @mackenzieharry27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@lewisletthedogsout9020 I'm actually not working this month 😳 because I just graduated High School and I had a lot going on. But last month, I had some of the top sales at my restaurant. And I was looking at reviews on my restaurant's website, one review said "great service by Mackenzie!" which totally made my day. Thank you for asking!!! ❤️

    • @mackenzieharry27
      @mackenzieharry27 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Zarria Cook I typed out a huge reply with a lot of great info but I accidentally just deleted it. I spent so much time writing that wow. I followed basically all the tips in this video and this one th-cam.com/video/M6eZ_bMhwp0/w-d-xo.html If you want I can make a video with additional tips that I have but mostly just follow all those tips

    • @myrawaters900
      @myrawaters900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mackenzie Leigh Make a follow up video Mackenzie! I’m a new waitress and would love the extra help! Thanks💖

  • @carolinehornaday2336
    @carolinehornaday2336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    OH MY GOSH!! Ill get home and im like...CRAP TABLE 213 ASKED FOR KETCHUP 😂 i love this

  • @elizabethwilson1337
    @elizabethwilson1337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I can definitely see why you get tipped so we'll, you're amazing and very sweet and conscious of the customers needs. I've been a server for almost 20 years and I agree with all your tips, I also get tipped well😉

    • @chellybabyme
      @chellybabyme 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same as you. Shes on it

  • @elizabethjones2084
    @elizabethjones2084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My best tip for female servers: buy makeup setting spray and use it abundantly. Knowing my makeup won’t smear gives me confidence all day.

  • @vicktoria9218
    @vicktoria9218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    I’m a sever for the first time ever trying to pay my way thru nursing school and these tips are awesome!!!!! Thank you so much girl!!!!!!

    • @empresszaire2305
      @empresszaire2305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You got this sis!

    • @kylewhitney2890
      @kylewhitney2890 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What was training like? I go in for an interview Wednesday

    • @omtorerasamuel4981
      @omtorerasamuel4981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m looking for a server job in jersey, I live in east orange please help me

    • @bels9773
      @bels9773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      me tooo!!!!!! I’m about to start serving to help pay for nursing school. GOOD LUCK!

    • @tianna1817
      @tianna1817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m serving through nursing school too! Good luck on your journey 🥰

  • @lindsayk8206
    @lindsayk8206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    The smile thing is soooooo true. I get told on a daily basis how beautiful my smile is or how happy it made people.

    • @jeremylien605
      @jeremylien605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lindsay Scribner ohhhh okay miss daily basis :)) ;) 🙊😌☺️🥰😍😊😁😄😃😀😆

    • @servingandswerving4106
      @servingandswerving4106 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If anybody wants to know how to make the most money as a server/bartender then watch my video on how ANYONE can make 80-100,000$ a year as a server/bartender. I just started my channel, but it’s the truth and I’ll be adding more videos soon. It’s a great lifestyle

  • @kitkathours2059
    @kitkathours2059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    The host tip has me dead ☠ as a hostess I can confirm that if a server is overall a kind person and I can tell that they really will die internally if I seat them with a particular group, then I'll seat the group somewhere else. It pays to be nice to others 🤣

  • @butlerka2606
    @butlerka2606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    Watching this on my way to my server job. great tips and it's giving me motivation to go in today LOL Thanks!

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Go make that money girl!

    • @bhandaribhandari2767
      @bhandaribhandari2767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aubree butler mam you r very beautiful tk cre beauti love aap bahut sundar ho

    • @janedoe-tz3zh
      @janedoe-tz3zh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you had a good day!!

    • @lailakirkham
      @lailakirkham 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is me right now

  • @emilyrodocker5296
    @emilyrodocker5296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Lol the customer service voice so came out 😂😂😂

  • @SuperSweetgurl123
    @SuperSweetgurl123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Started my first serving job 3mo ago at a fine dining resteraunt and your tips helped a ton. Because of them I just got promoted!!! Moving over to the bar side of the resteraunt (it gets real busy,college town) and cannot thank you enough!!! Rewatching it now 😊😊

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sarah Callahan Im so happy for you!

  • @madisonsanders2052
    @madisonsanders2052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I have such a hard time multitasking to be honest. I just started my first job as a waitress. I honestly give waitresses so much respect for doing this, cause my second day I was mentally shutting down cause I didn’t want to mess up

    • @preternatural3231
      @preternatural3231 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hey im in the same boat as u,, did it get better? do u have any advice?

  • @livliv6891
    @livliv6891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    How can I get over my anxiety when working, sometimes I fumble my words or I’m just awkward and I try not to be but it just happens, I’m trying to be more confident and these tips are soo helpful. I started back in September but bc of covid I’ve been in and out.

    • @Ariel-hi8lx
      @Ariel-hi8lx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG same can u follow and dm me on insta ?? It's @blazearie

    • @nelly9484
      @nelly9484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!!

    • @amayacastro9823
      @amayacastro9823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg been in this industry for about 2yrs and still struggling :( my anxiety just couldn't

    • @roseyvelinejerome2917
      @roseyvelinejerome2917 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same😢I’m always stumbling over words when I’m anxious

  • @candyhoops3332
    @candyhoops3332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Great tips! Especially on the friending cooks and hostesses. You definitely don't wanna piss off the people making your food and seating your tables. I think I'm one of the only servers that does tip out the hostesses on a busy weekend morning. If you're super busy with tables that also means they are super busy as well, and they will be more likely to help you bus your tables and get drinks for them if they know you actually appreciate it. The only thing I feel like you missed a point on is on the dessert offering. We serve a shit load of pie and cake at my work and one thing I've noticed is try and ask your tables about dessert before they are finished eating. They are more likely to save room for dessert when you put the idea in their head sooner. Otherwise if you wait until they are finished eating chances are they are already full and probably don't want dessert at that point. Usually when they are a little over half way through their meal I will say "don't forget to save room for pie today" and always remind them they can take it home with to enjoy later.

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Great tip! If the portions at my job weren’t already huge for apps and entrees and even sides we’d prob sell more desert. But we already bring out huge plates and people go “ohh I’ll definitely need a to go box”😂 the struggle.

  • @madisonlangston1136
    @madisonlangston1136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    The host and back of house rule definitely, I was a host for 2 years and people thought they were above me so could talk however they felt to me. Then I'd cut what they were making in half and make sure I walked out making more in hourly then they were tips. Back of house too, they can really make your job like hell if you get on their bad side.

  • @amithorpe
    @amithorpe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I've been serving/bartending for over 30 years. your video is so informative, I love it! I work at a place that employs A LOT of brand new servers. I think it's a rule or something. just kiddin. but seriously, Most of the new hires have no experience which makes me extra appreciative of your video as most have not grasped these concepts yet and watching your video will only reinforce what we more experienced servers have been trying to get them to understand. my boss, the sweetest, hardest working lady I know, asked all the wait staff to watch this, pick a fave, then discuss the tips and tricks with her. job very well done, yanni. thank you!

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg that’s so cool! I feel honored😩❤️

  • @leighwhit3
    @leighwhit3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    I have no idea why I watched this but suddenly I want to be a server

    • @estherjava40
      @estherjava40 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      ganymedelegy don’t do it. Once you start you can’t stop 😂

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I was just gunna say this will probably forever be my side hustle. Even when I have a different full time job. Some quick weekend cash?! Sign me up!

    • @hattielouise585
      @hattielouise585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Haha no you don't

    • @lollipoplove7073
      @lollipoplove7073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No you freaking dont. Trust me

    • @jherfav4326
      @jherfav4326 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Esther Java on god 😂😂

  • @cheri_b0mb
    @cheri_b0mb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    hey girl! so i’ve been looking for server videos all morning, and this is the first video i feel like had actually helped me! i was surprised to see it only has 400 views, because of how good it is! i know it’ll get to that 400k views soon. keep up the great work girl! :)

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I felt the same exact way! I’m so glad I could help. Thanks for the support❤️

    • @akiiremai
      @akiiremai 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cheri Receveur now it’s at 43K🥰❤️

    • @aieshagrays2333
      @aieshagrays2333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow you are so sweet!! And to think this was only FOUR MONTHS ago!! Come through prophicy & confirmation
      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @MichaelJerkson
      @MichaelJerkson 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. First video I've seen that was actually helpful and not just common sense. I'm a dude and its hard for me to smile unless something is funny or amusing but I try to smile. I try to laugh at stupid things but then the table doesn't laugh with me sometimes. So frustrating.

    • @servingandswerving4106
      @servingandswerving4106 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If anybody wants to know how to make the most money as a server/bartender then watch my video on how ANYONE can make 80-100,000$ a year as a server/bartender. I just started my channel, but it’s the truth and I’ll be adding more videos soon. It’s a great lifestyle

  • @nicholasjames695
    @nicholasjames695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Variation on #6- let's say your job doesn't offer appetizers (like the restaurant I work at) let your guests know about your soup options (or salads) before they think about their entree. If you can add on a bowl or cup of soup or salad before they order it's just as effective plus if they order something that is a "dip check" or a pre-made entree you dont have to worry about anything coming out late.

    • @jakexcalibur1583
      @jakexcalibur1583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you can also suggest an entree as an appetizer. by that i mean, an entree that is not labor-intensive or an entree that can be split/shared by the table. if no appetizers are offered by the establishment, an entree-sized salad might be a good substitute. if appetizer-sized salads are on the menu, then take into consideration your price points, then you'll have a better idea of whether or not that particular suggestion would be worth while.

  • @Thepolkadot100
    @Thepolkadot100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Love the sticker idea! I find that when I have a family, and I make the kids feel extra special it always make the parents tip more!!😊 I will definitely be picking up some stickers before my shift!!

  • @scottbrown6505
    @scottbrown6505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Ive been serving for 4 months. I was fired at my first 2 serving jobs for sinple shit. Extra bloody mary on a closing receipt for a wealthy couple cost me my job the first time. An angry outburst due tonlack of team wirk cost me thr 2nd job. The 3rd job i learned from my mistakes.. Im now the head server and trainer at my final job. I got there with hard work and serious studying. I love being a server now. Thankyou for the tips.. Literally lol

    • @jeremylien605
      @jeremylien605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Scott Brown nice job!!

  • @anzatentis7663
    @anzatentis7663 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have social anxiety and I’m a server. It gets better! I promise it does you’ll mess up or feel very anxious but it helps after a while. I seen a difference when I’m in public now. It’s a great way to push yourself past social anxiety

  • @caith8957
    @caith8957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I laid down in bed last night and sat straight up the moment I remembered I forgot to bring a table Bbq sauce

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂 it happens to the best of us

  • @PlanetYokoshima
    @PlanetYokoshima 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Your hair is majestic. Very well-done.
    Thanks for all of the tips, I had to lie in my resume to get a job. Let's see how a '2-years experienced' waiter will do in his first day in trial : D

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂😂 fake it till you make it

    • @andreahaley4770
      @andreahaley4770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and now? How is your new job going?

    • @ilyXdd
      @ilyXdd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Jak how is your job going now? I start bartending school next week (it’s for 1 week)

    • @NiaMSnow
      @NiaMSnow 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did that but I said I cross trained in restaurants. I dont know a gahhhhdamnnn thang lmao

  • @russiancow3791
    @russiancow3791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve never been more comfortable watching a video. You are so relatable and I get an amazing vibe from you. I hope you have a wonderful day!!!

  • @oliviapass4092
    @oliviapass4092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I’m starting a waitressing job and I’m really nervous about it like what if I forget what to say or get shy, what should I do if I forget or if I get shy. Also it’s my first ever job so super nervous

    • @alyssamoreno5223
      @alyssamoreno5223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Girl I’m in the same position as you I pray we both turn out good lmao

    • @oliviapass4092
      @oliviapass4092 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alyssa Moreno hope yours has gone well or hope it it will go well ❤️

    • @des348
      @des348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m the same way! I sometimes have a hard time responding to unexpected things people say but a good tip is just to relax and don’t overthink anything lol literally just be yourself

  • @haylikristine2269
    @haylikristine2269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Girl, I have been serving for 20 years and you brought things to my attention that I had neglected...Thank you!

  • @samlittle2475
    @samlittle2475 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been a server for over a year now, and recently landed a new job at a pub. Watched your video to help prepare me for my first shift this week, and girl you have some real good advice!! Thank you!!

  • @hannahhonn5190
    @hannahhonn5190 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wow I’m so glad I watched this. Starting my first serving job soon and feeling pretty lost. This video have me so many great ideas and boosted my confidence! Thanks girl!

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Take your time, smile and you got this! Also honestly telling your tables you’re new helps them cut them some slack

  • @nicol3ta335
    @nicol3ta335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    My top 3 are: to be friendly with everyone from your team; to give your honest opinion about any dish from the menu; to be one step ahead your customer. if you don't like your job you can't me a lot of tips. Conclusion: don't do this job if you don't enjoy it! To be a Waiter is very hard and not for everybody!

  • @kia6074
    @kia6074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Sis you helped me alot, I’m starting tomorrow a serving job & I don’t know what to expect. You gave me some good tips👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you 😊

  • @aleksandramorka758
    @aleksandramorka758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the tips and your vibe! Gurl, thank youuu. I'm starting on Wednesday and feeling much more confident

  • @queencutie9833
    @queencutie9833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am a newbie when it comes to serving in the restaurant I'm so happy I watch this. My first day starts on Tuesday. Wish me luck

  • @patriciagaribaldo6491
    @patriciagaribaldo6491 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this love this love this 💓
    I just started serving at a new restaurant and still finding my groove. So this is amazing !!!

  • @Julesinapeartree
    @Julesinapeartree 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for these tips! I talked to my manager earlier asking what I was doing wrong and he didn’t reassure me too much but this video helped. I’ll try to implement this tomorrow and see how it goes!

  • @aegontargaryen219
    @aegontargaryen219 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Starting my first serving job tomorrow & I’m so excited, thanks for the tips!

  • @DavidMXXIV
    @DavidMXXIV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    These are HIGH QUALITY tips and tricks for servers. Thank you!

  • @feefkeef
    @feefkeef 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i have major social anxiety, i can’t even call to make a reservation for myself, or any appointments. idk why i have such a problem with interaction. but i start my first real serving job today at Bonefish grill, i’m sooo nervous but also happy that i’m stepping out of my confront zone!

    • @toastEDmrshmello09
      @toastEDmrshmello09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How is it going???

    • @feefkeef
      @feefkeef 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@toastEDmrshmello09 it’s still the same for me

    • @nataliacruz9022
      @nataliacruz9022 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@feefkeef what do you mean?

    • @feefkeef
      @feefkeef 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nataliacruz9022 what are you asking me

    • @desihalwai3897
      @desihalwai3897 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@feefkeef hey. i have social anxiety too. i just started yesterday and i’m struggling a lot lol. does it get better?

  • @justineducharme8795
    @justineducharme8795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These are amazing tips!!! You're great. Its funny because I watched this years ago when I first started serving and now I'm going back to my job after mat leave and I want to be even better than before! I'm so excited I missed serving and all my regulars ❤

  • @Ryanlynn222
    @Ryanlynn222 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much. And I love your confidence it’s everything ✨💖💖

  • @toribailey6638
    @toribailey6638 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m just getting back into serving after being away for a few years and this was a great reminder! I have my day 1 tonight and I’m looking forward to it. Also. Your personality is A+++ no wonder your tables love you and tip you well!!!

  • @Tk5eva
    @Tk5eva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a new bottle girl, I found this video so helpful! I’ve never been a server and you have no idea how much I just learned from your video. 😭💕

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so glad I could help!!!! Get that money girl!

  • @vanessacosme2233
    @vanessacosme2233 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl you NEED to make more videos like this!!!! So helpful I love itt!!!

  • @presgallagher17
    @presgallagher17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just about to start my inaugural server shift today and this video is coming in clutch. Thank you Beautiful Yani

  • @renatagutierrez33
    @renatagutierrez33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so much info but this helped so much girl! I’m trying some of these today and hopefully they work!! Really loved the sticker idea since where I work lots of kids go! Thanks so much ♥️

  • @MiTsUhIkOHaShIoKa
    @MiTsUhIkOHaShIoKa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awesome tips, girl! I loved your attitude!

  • @violetautumn4068
    @violetautumn4068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being a server I was looking for more advice to do a better job and found this video. I love it! Great advice 💕 plus you’re so pretty!

  • @mariagoergen4064
    @mariagoergen4064 ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally love you!! This helped so much

  • @gabriellegarcia1957
    @gabriellegarcia1957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been a busser/host for two years and am finally becoming a server and I loved this video! Thanks so much for the tips, will definitely be picking up some stickers today :p

  • @MF_888
    @MF_888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The sticker for kids idea is sooo cute! Thank you so much, you rock 🌟👌🏽

  • @Melissaonline22
    @Melissaonline22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This was really helpful! I just got my first serving job at a bar/grille type place and I really appreciated the tips and tricks💙

  • @rebekahtrader3913
    @rebekahtrader3913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally moving from food running to serving tonight (tonight’s trivia night, our busiest night) and girl I’m SO NERVOUS. Since I’ve already been working there for a few months they didn’t really train me and this video is SO HELPFUL. Thank you so much I’m less nervous and actually excited for tonight 💕💕

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How’d it go??? If it wasnt the best don’t worry, you’ll get more comfortable over time!

  • @alyssasmithson1923
    @alyssasmithson1923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!! Thank you so much, this helped so much! I'm going into my first serving job tomorrow and this was a boost of confidence!

    • @anikqiu8260
      @anikqiu8260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck girl 😘

  • @chickenlittle6756
    @chickenlittle6756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I've been serving for ten years and most of this I agree with depending on where you work I agree with all of it but if you're serving in some places lower price places diners like a quick breakfast place or a BBQ joint places where folks walk in knowing exactly what they want they can't stand being up selled it's irritating to then and you're seeing the same people everyday so in that senario instead of a long introduction and upselling suggesting so much just get to know them make a friend hey how's your day going what are you having today something like that get people to talk to you and get people to laugh if you can get a table to laugh you make them have fun they top you better in smaller cheaper places they will come back more so that's my only advice different I enjoyed your tips and they're all on point just a little different depending on where your serving

  • @LucianaPeck
    @LucianaPeck 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    just finished my serving shift tonight, exhausted haha and this was in my recommendations! great great tips girl!❤️

  • @coreycomeaux6347
    @coreycomeaux6347 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes these tips and tricks are very good. Thxs for sharing your thought and experiences with us to help us become a better server and to make more tips. That’s what it’s all about...people helping people and to make sure your table is full and happy.

  • @Asiacaligirl89
    @Asiacaligirl89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You Too Much! This was a phenominal video. I was entertained and enjoyed watching you. I also feel more confident about my new job.

  • @uhjayy
    @uhjayy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I worked my first trial shift last weekend and i start the job this saturday, i'm really nervous about it but this video really helped me out so thank you. :D

  • @tabithafeltner717
    @tabithafeltner717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This definitely helped me. Thank you for making this video!

  • @nenidlc3954
    @nenidlc3954 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl this were all so good, I have an interview and have zero experience but all of these were logical if that makes senses. Thank you!!!

  • @lifeofjas5943
    @lifeofjas5943 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You really gave me a new view. I just applied to server jobs & one got back to me. I have never served before but I’m excited now because of your tips

  • @hamptonramos8159
    @hamptonramos8159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m 14 and the only job hiring was a Mexican restaurant so I applied and they have three of us waitressing and it’s honestly stressful. We share tips which can be good or bad. It’s so hard to remember everything and I’m coming to TH-cam to help. 😌

  • @hale-bopp4692
    @hale-bopp4692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow those tipps helped SO MUCH!! Thank you

  • @victoriahill4568
    @victoriahill4568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn’t add one single thing to this as I agree with each point! Someone below mentioned the upcharge and that’s an excellent Point, always disclose the upcharge and offer options.

  • @shadysadie55
    @shadysadie55 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this video.
    Thanks girl!
    💕🖤

  • @silversaturnsx7687
    @silversaturnsx7687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you’re literally so funny i adore you oh my god
    i’ve been serving for like three years now and i feel all of this so hard

    • @nigelraindrop8764
      @nigelraindrop8764 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so much helpful you should do more

  • @reallifescenarios77
    @reallifescenarios77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I do love to multitask....my manager insists on bringing bread then drinks but a lot of the people are attempting to be on a diet and don’t want bread so I started asking upon greeting if they’d like bread then my crappy coworker will go take bread there as if I’m not doing my job then my table will send her right back to the kitchen with that bread....do you have coworkers like this? We’d love to know the downside of waiters and waitress lives .

    • @haleybuckholt9918
      @haleybuckholt9918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I can't stand co-workers like that. Ugh

    • @al3glez
      @al3glez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I had a co worker that if she saw a table that she knew tipped well, she would butt in and try to get my food out before me so she could take it to my table and get them to tip her instead

    • @EoKlaus
      @EoKlaus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Don't you ever let anybody else serve your table. God

    • @miaramos1189
      @miaramos1189 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessssss

    • @jaketryban8772
      @jaketryban8772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I had a co worker water one out my tables. And I already stopped at the table and told them I would be right with them lol. She thought she was making herself look good but the table was like why is this chick here lol

  • @Peachy_apron
    @Peachy_apron 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much. I have worked at smaller establishments before but currently i have been trained as a server at a larger establishment. So far everything has been good but I have been looking for ways to upscale my service to my customers.

  • @Bbyon28s
    @Bbyon28s 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your confidence this helped me and gave me so many ideas thank you💜💜💜

  • @gordanac.4682
    @gordanac.4682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Girl I just subscribed to you! But I'm so nervous I start working for the first time as a server on this Friday.. I'm scared hahahah I just hope everything goes well!!

    • @doinithard79
      @doinithard79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How is it going

    • @gordanac.4682
      @gordanac.4682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@collenmokgata2713 It was amazing haha sorry for the late reply I've been working ever since then but will stop because school starts in a week

    • @gordanac.4682
      @gordanac.4682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@doinithard79 it's great tbh

    • @doinithard79
      @doinithard79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gordanac.4682 I'm glad to hear!!!! Great luck

  • @ninarose2464
    @ninarose2464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just started my first serving job like a month ago and this was so helpful!! Thanks girl 🥰

  • @xxxpeachxxx9823
    @xxxpeachxxx9823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m trying to get back into the hospitality industry, and this video has helped me a lot! Thank you❤️🙏🏽

  • @007isha4
    @007isha4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have worked in hospitality for 10 years and I am making the transition to bartending and serving. These tips are extremely helpful 👏 thank you 😊 I just need to work on my makeup game next!

  • @erinp3258
    @erinp3258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is awesome! Your personality is so outgoing and fun, please make more videos

  • @galaxycrown6371
    @galaxycrown6371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just applied for my first ever job to be a server and I'm excited! I hope your tips help so I can save for college

  • @anisabenavidez4771
    @anisabenavidez4771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i’m starting serving today and this helped me with my anxiety so much. thank you!

  • @All-about-Jesus
    @All-about-Jesus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u so much your tips are awesome and I love your energy!! I really needed this video ❤️

  • @MizShelle
    @MizShelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    this is literally the most honest and humble way of describing FOH LIfe :)

  • @codymoran9634
    @codymoran9634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much!! You have such a beautiful personality!😫
    I start my first waitress job today and this has helped me become more confident in myself! You're amazing!❤🌻❤🌻❤🌻

  • @samaralavoie1377
    @samaralavoie1377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this video! I literally just started waitressing the other day and work again tomorrow and I felt like I did such a terrible job. This really helps.

  • @sparklingunicornss
    @sparklingunicornss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    might be starting a serving job soon and this video was so beyond helpful!!! you also have such a great personality.

  • @thelashedbarbie
    @thelashedbarbie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wowww this video really was the ish 😭 your advice is real legit

  • @Amalia2Dubstep
    @Amalia2Dubstep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm definitely going to do these tonight. Unfortunately I work at iHop the overnight shift so it's not crazy busy already and people are horrible tippers in my area. But I know it's also me being new and my first week ever serving. Hopefully these work and I make a bit more!

  • @lejaeger2233
    @lejaeger2233 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy this exists. Thank you so much

  • @_melaniesantos
    @_melaniesantos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this so much especially the part about stickers for the kids!!!

  • @LNFelts
    @LNFelts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im coming back from a break of 5 years to serving. Ya did well for older people coming back and new. Ty! I would totally set a tray up for someone like you. GG.

    • @YanickDoesLife
      @YanickDoesLife  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck! I did the same thing. I took a break to go into management and had to keep reminding myself so I figured I’d help others out!

  • @dspangler777
    @dspangler777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    6:51 except for when you ask and they don’t speak up then wave you down a minute later as if you didn’t offer right before.

  • @maggiechurch1389
    @maggiechurch1389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The whole befriending the host thing is so freaking true! I’ve been a hostess for over a year now and I’m just moving into also severing at a different restaurant and I know from my own experience that if I like a server they sure as hell have a better chance at getting the table they want than the server that yells at me for making a small mistake

  • @mikaylal3117
    @mikaylal3117 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely going to make notes on this video !
    Thank you so much !